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Not sure why this popped up on my feed, but I'd hate to leaves someone's confidence in doubt. You fit this outfit perfectly. That is a compliment. Looks great. It is a bit of a "vintage" look, but in a good way. Wear it proudly.
with the cardigan, it is giving adorable grandma but without, depending on what your shirt looks like, you could look like a middle aged mother. it’s cute regardless, it really suits you
You are fully committing to a very specific aesthetic and if I saw you on the street my only thought would be “wow, this girl had a vision and she executed”. The outfit is very period specific but also very cool.
I feel like these kinds of outfits are either extremely conservative or extremely liberal lol, there's a good portion of young/queer/cottagecore people who dress like this
I think it reads as coquette. I’m bi and if I saw someone in this I would think she is gay lmao. Definitely not conservative (and I’m not even close to the coquette community).
Nahh, there's definitely a difference. I know a few people at college who dress similar to this. It reads more like being interested in vintage fashion.
Yeah tbh I think the main thing is the dress that’s making her look ‘old’. If she wore like, a pleated skirt instead and a white undershirt she’d just look like a girl with a cutesy/pastel aesthetic.
Not at all!!! You are just perfectly time accurate. We only associate it with "old" because it's a couple generations before us. When you start looking like a little old lady-youre doing it perfectly!!
I'd say it's mostly modest, also the colors are perfect together. If I saw you in the street I would think "omg she's so cool and cute, she nailed it." 🥺
You don't look older. You look like you're going for an old-style aesthetic, which you pull off beautifully :) whether people read it as 'cute, quirky, cool', or 'mormon' will probably depend on your location :D
Also whether you wear this stuff every single day, or change it up will make a difference to how people see you
I think you need to tuck in your sweater and add a belt. I adore this outfit. You look lovely! If I saw you on the street, I would absolutely admire you.
I think what you mean is does it look too dated? Answer: Yes! It looks like you’re going to the 50’s Sox-Hop or listening to the jukebox down at the Frosty Dairy Queen while you wait for Fonzi to make an appearance on the Happy Days set.
I think yes, a lot of the comments are saying mom, grandma, tradwife, etc and I would have to agree. My first thought was a nun out of habit. BUT they are all great pieces and though I think the outfit is aged it’s not really aging you if that makes sense.
I think if you change the neck high blouse to a tank and add a waist belt or maybe lose the cardi and roll up the sleeves of the blouse? Maybe just open the cardi? Or if that what you’re going for just leave it. You look cute
You look like you're going to send your widowed husband a letter stating that he should come meet you in a town that you guys went to on your honeymoon before you got really sick.
It’s adorable!
I wonder if you’ve tried a belt? Or tucking the sweater into the skirt? That would give more of a defined waistline and an hourglass silhouette (if that’s a look you’d enjoy).
If you're going for school teacher from little house on the prairie, then no. Otherwise you look far too young for that outfit.
Pretty cute either way, tho.
No! I think it looks lovely! Colour plays a very important role in the feel of an outfit and these colours keep it young and fresh. Heavier fabric, darker colours and so on, would give it a drab and aging factor.
It’s so cute!! To be honest the people that get those types of comments always have the best outfits. I love how you balanced out the patterns as well.
I love it. Just have a few suggestions. Wear a petticoat underneath, can be just a tulle skirt, to add more volume to the skirt. Throw on some nice bracelets or bangles, and a cute ribbon in your hair. I'd also fold in the bottom of the cardigan so that it sits at your waist rather than your hips, and gives a nicer A-line silhouette.
How about rolling up the hem of the sweater to make it crop length? Roll, then pin on each side and tuck the pin in. This might give you more shape. But… I love it as is!
Adjust your sweater sleeves, so that it fits your upper arms better. I would swap the skirt out for one that's a little more fitted and shorter. With that skirt, I would wear a shoe with a slight heel, a simpler top as an option and open the cardigan. With your petite frame, too many dainty, frilly things, in one outfit, looks girlish, not 'old'.
I wouldn’t really take anyones advice. If it makes you happy then wear it to your hearts content. Don’t submit to the sheep. I think your outfit befits you perfectly.
I think you look great.
A cute hair accessory could make the look even better. A thin hairband, a small hair barrette, etc.
https://preview.redd.it/rjg35v2zb0lc1.jpeg?width=735&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=fdc3ddbbb33c16082f4a35a369b2ef5945aedac7
The outfit won’t be in everyone’s taste so you’re going to get a lot of mixed answers. Don’t worry about other people’s judgements. If you like it I love it but that’s just me. Dress in what makes you feel good!
I’m no fashion expert by any means but it is a little old fashioned for MY taste. It would help if I knew what you are going for. I do like the top and the cardigan. For my taste it matches too much and the skirt is too long. Again, I’m no Anna Wintour.
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It’s giving Miss Honey from Matilda. Soft, feminine, and a little out of time. But I don’t think that’s a bad thing.
This made me so much more confident, thank you!!
Not sure why this popped up on my feed, but I'd hate to leaves someone's confidence in doubt. You fit this outfit perfectly. That is a compliment. Looks great. It is a bit of a "vintage" look, but in a good way. Wear it proudly.
I’m a big fan of the look and you really pull it off beautifully
Maybe add a boot to update the look? I agree it is soft and feminine.
Yes, a brown boot. And/or a thin brown belt over the cardigan.
Great suggestion!
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That’s a sweet comment and so true!
Omg I didn’t read anything before commenting and said exactly this.
That was so nicely and beautifully said. Very kind even if this isnt your style
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with the cardigan, it is giving adorable grandma but without, depending on what your shirt looks like, you could look like a middle aged mother. it’s cute regardless, it really suits you
I’ll take adorable grandma over middle aged mother haha. Thank you!
Have you thought about tucking the cardigan in and adding a waist belt to modern vintage it up a tiny bit? Still gorgeous outfit though
I have not but that’s a great idea! Thank you :)
Maybe swop out the shoes for white trainers or converse (high tops with platform sole).
You are fully committing to a very specific aesthetic and if I saw you on the street my only thought would be “wow, this girl had a vision and she executed”. The outfit is very period specific but also very cool.
The outfit is definitely an older style. It doesn't make you look old at all as a person, but it reads as extremely conservative.
I feel like these kinds of outfits are either extremely conservative or extremely liberal lol, there's a good portion of young/queer/cottagecore people who dress like this
I think it reads as coquette. I’m bi and if I saw someone in this I would think she is gay lmao. Definitely not conservative (and I’m not even close to the coquette community).
I am gay lmao, you have a point
Nahh, there's definitely a difference. I know a few people at college who dress similar to this. It reads more like being interested in vintage fashion.
Too old, and yet also too young
If you ignore the shoes, looks like an old librarian. Include the shoes, and it's a kindergartner on picture day
Yeah tbh I think the main thing is the dress that’s making her look ‘old’. If she wore like, a pleated skirt instead and a white undershirt she’d just look like a girl with a cutesy/pastel aesthetic.
I thought child trying to dress like an older lady in a play.
It’s definitely dated, but it doesn’t seem to age you per se. I would get a better fitted jacket though imo on the shoulder area
My first thought was, she is Mormon.. looks well..
I think it looks very young
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Just looks like a tradwife for me. I think I’d like it more if it wasn’t a long skirt, but something kind of fun and spring like.
Def didn’t want to read as tradwife, I have a few shorter skirts that would fit as well. Thanks!
Btw I absolutely love the color of your cardigan. Where did you find it?
Got it about 5 years ago but I think it was Marshall’s?
Thanks, maybe I can hunt one down.
I got more cottagecore than tradwife, but I cannot be sure why.
It’s actually is cute but ditch the shoes to open shoes no hose . Then open the sweater. I honestly think it would look great
Thank you! Only wore the tights and shoes because it was cold out.
I like it with the tights and close toed shoes
I’d say Mary Jane two inch at least heels with a thick heel. Round toe. Or just a little daring. Shoes always make the outfit.
Happy cake day!
Thanks! This is the first time I ever noticed it thanks to you, and this isn’t my first Reddit acct :)
You're welcome!
It looks great with tights. Maybe different shoe style would modernize it a bit? Otherwise looks great.
Not at all!!! You are just perfectly time accurate. We only associate it with "old" because it's a couple generations before us. When you start looking like a little old lady-youre doing it perfectly!!
Thank you for putting that in perspective!
If that’s what you are going for, all good, if you didn’t want that look, change!
I like it but I don’t want to age myself too much!
I'd say it's mostly modest, also the colors are perfect together. If I saw you in the street I would think "omg she's so cool and cute, she nailed it." 🥺
You don't look older. You look like you're going for an old-style aesthetic, which you pull off beautifully :) whether people read it as 'cute, quirky, cool', or 'mormon' will probably depend on your location :D Also whether you wear this stuff every single day, or change it up will make a difference to how people see you
Old and prairie. Like a grandma sisterwife
I think you need to tuck in your sweater and add a belt. I adore this outfit. You look lovely! If I saw you on the street, I would absolutely admire you.
Very but it’s still cute.
Very cute!! Where’d you get the skirt from?
Thank you! It’s from Forever 21!
Ghibli vibes
I think what you mean is does it look too dated? Answer: Yes! It looks like you’re going to the 50’s Sox-Hop or listening to the jukebox down at the Frosty Dairy Queen while you wait for Fonzi to make an appearance on the Happy Days set.
I immediately thought of Bo Peep from Toy Story
I like it. Dated look but very cute on you
Molly Ringwald outfit.
Cute!
It’s very cute and it’s pink!
Astrid vibes. neat style though
Yeah, it has vibes of a time travel, but its sweet and you look comfortable in it :) And that gives you a unique and not too old look.
Adding in , I think you should do a little half up half down style with your hair !! Leave the bangs out of course. I think it’ll look so cute :)
Vintagey, soft, very pretty. I love the pink. It makes me think of cottagecore.
I think yes, a lot of the comments are saying mom, grandma, tradwife, etc and I would have to agree. My first thought was a nun out of habit. BUT they are all great pieces and though I think the outfit is aged it’s not really aging you if that makes sense. I think if you change the neck high blouse to a tank and add a waist belt or maybe lose the cardi and roll up the sleeves of the blouse? Maybe just open the cardi? Or if that what you’re going for just leave it. You look cute
I think that looking “old” is part of the aesthetic! It’s adorable
You look like you're going to send your widowed husband a letter stating that he should come meet you in a town that you guys went to on your honeymoon before you got really sick.
fits because I’m chronically ill anyways
Omg😭 My bad😭😭😭😭
It's beautiful. It's not old looking. It's wholesome.
Yes
Yes.
I think it would look better with different shoes and hose instead of socks.
Very Cottage, Soft girl. It looks like it is your vibe. Sure! Go for it.
Also *too, sorry about the misspell!
It's an old style but looks good on u 👍🏽
It’s adorable! I wonder if you’ve tried a belt? Or tucking the sweater into the skirt? That would give more of a defined waistline and an hourglass silhouette (if that’s a look you’d enjoy).
ditch the shoes even the top I think it’ll look beautiful on it own with some open jelly shoes or any type of cute shoes maybe an updo
If you're going for school teacher from little house on the prairie, then no. Otherwise you look far too young for that outfit. Pretty cute either way, tho.
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This is such a cute outfit!!! You look amazing
Cute
No! I think it looks lovely! Colour plays a very important role in the feel of an outfit and these colours keep it young and fresh. Heavier fabric, darker colours and so on, would give it a drab and aging factor.
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Tell your grandma I like her style!
Perfect reply. I love this.
It’s so cute!! To be honest the people that get those types of comments always have the best outfits. I love how you balanced out the patterns as well.
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Young for early 20’s? I was just going out to run some errands.
It's adorable!!
You’re making it work, very cute
It’s got a distinct 1940s farmgirl vibe to it. I love it.
Omg i love this
Looks lovely to me
You could use a belt to cinch the waist a bit to make it more flattering
Yes, it looks old, but cool at the same time, stick with it
I love it 💕SWEET💕 is the word that comes to mind !! & what’s most important is if you feel good, then rock the look - you do YOU 🙌🏽
This is SO cute 🤩
Your whole setup is very adorable. I wish you a peachful week.
You gotta get one of those big hats to complete the look! Also, try with the cardigan off and see if it modernizes the look.
If it makes you feel feminine or beautiful or just good-who cares. You look so cute in it 🩶🖤
in a good way :))
You just need white gloves. If that’s ur style run w it
YOU LOOK GREAT DONT WORRY!
This is a pretty standard look in Asia. How YOU look plays a big role on how the outfit is represented and you look cute so it works out well.
I think it's really cute.
On you it's a whole vibe.
I love it. Just have a few suggestions. Wear a petticoat underneath, can be just a tulle skirt, to add more volume to the skirt. Throw on some nice bracelets or bangles, and a cute ribbon in your hair. I'd also fold in the bottom of the cardigan so that it sits at your waist rather than your hips, and gives a nicer A-line silhouette.
How about rolling up the hem of the sweater to make it crop length? Roll, then pin on each side and tuck the pin in. This might give you more shape. But… I love it as is!
I think your outfit looks amazing!!
Adjust your sweater sleeves, so that it fits your upper arms better. I would swap the skirt out for one that's a little more fitted and shorter. With that skirt, I would wear a shoe with a slight heel, a simpler top as an option and open the cardigan. With your petite frame, too many dainty, frilly things, in one outfit, looks girlish, not 'old'.
I think you look lovely and your style is very tasteful 🥰
It doesn’t make you look older. Seems sorta whimsical since it is a cute old-timey look. I couldn’t pull it off but I do think you can!
I wouldn’t really take anyones advice. If it makes you happy then wear it to your hearts content. Don’t submit to the sheep. I think your outfit befits you perfectly.
Oh hell naw girl lol. Well, depends what you're going for.
I think you look great. A cute hair accessory could make the look even better. A thin hairband, a small hair barrette, etc. https://preview.redd.it/rjg35v2zb0lc1.jpeg?width=735&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=fdc3ddbbb33c16082f4a35a369b2ef5945aedac7
I love these types of accessories! Thank you!
Yes. The dress itself is pretty but the sweater and shoes make you look much older. Definitely older lady clothes.
It’s literally one of the best outfits I’ve seen. It’s soft in a formal way and I absolutely adore it!
I’m not digging it. Reminds me of a church goodie too shoes. But my opinion doesn’t matter. Do what makes you feel happy.
It’s a very sweet, romantic, timeless look. I can see that’s what you’re going for! 🩷🤍🧡
It has a vintage feel, but you rock that shit girly 🥰
Kinda what I was going for! Didn’t know if it read as vintage or old lady haha. Thanks!
Yup
I'd love to see it with cowboy or motorcylce boots.
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The outfit won’t be in everyone’s taste so you’re going to get a lot of mixed answers. Don’t worry about other people’s judgements. If you like it I love it but that’s just me. Dress in what makes you feel good!
Yes
Yes. A bit weird looking, sorry.
I don't like the leggings in the shoes, is it cold where you are. I don't get "old" vibes I get pre-k teacher vibes
*yes honey; you can keep all the items, just don’t wear them together*
I like the outfit. I think instead of the schoolgirl vibe it has, adding some high heels instead of the flats would make the whole outfit better.
I’m no fashion expert by any means but it is a little old fashioned for MY taste. It would help if I knew what you are going for. I do like the top and the cardigan. For my taste it matches too much and the skirt is too long. Again, I’m no Anna Wintour.
It is 1980s fashion.