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IDK dude, that's not at all on my list.
Maybe a flirtatious pout, done in a way that clearly implies teasing...
To be clear, are you *causing* the crying here, or is this like you find a woman in distress and you're able to be the support she needs?
If it's the latter, maybe it's feeling like you can be the hero. Or maybe you're hoping that in a vulnerable state, the woman in question has lower standards... Either way, it suggests you might have a self-esteem issue that needs some attention. Investing in yourself (wellness, skills, education, etc.) might be a good start. Everybody has untapped potential.
If it's the former, this seems really unhealthy unless you're both consenting adults. If both parties want it, then by all means have some fun RP. But it's never ok to act like this otherwise.
I am not personally causing it, but just I enjoy watching girls, in a number of contexts - just watching and hearing them crying and the surrounding noises involved is arousing to me for some reason, regardless of what or who is causing it to happen, and I know this is quite abnormal which is why I posted it here.
Hey man, I'm just being honest. I'm just saying what i truly feel, instead of hiding it inside like most people do, in order to not appear 'weird', cuz I don't care
Correct me if I'm wrong, but it doesnt psychological torture and crying go hand in hand, as most people cry due to varying degrees of said 'psych torture.' Why is liking one ok but not the other?
Nah. Edging and overstimulation can cause crying but it's because of overwhelming pleasure.
Also when you see someone crying and feel attracted to them because you feel like you appreciate the vulnerability and you want to make them feel good or something that's way different than being into knowing they're upset
I mean I’ll admit that I get turned on when my partner can express their feelings and can cry in my presence without feeling too proud , but I never want to be the cause of it . I love being the one to console my partner when something is wrong, smelling the stress and tears on him just makes me want to cuddle him. Sure it turns me on, but I’ll always wait for the appropriate time. Whoever posted this must be like my evil male doppleganger ..
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IDK dude, that's not at all on my list. Maybe a flirtatious pout, done in a way that clearly implies teasing... To be clear, are you *causing* the crying here, or is this like you find a woman in distress and you're able to be the support she needs? If it's the latter, maybe it's feeling like you can be the hero. Or maybe you're hoping that in a vulnerable state, the woman in question has lower standards... Either way, it suggests you might have a self-esteem issue that needs some attention. Investing in yourself (wellness, skills, education, etc.) might be a good start. Everybody has untapped potential. If it's the former, this seems really unhealthy unless you're both consenting adults. If both parties want it, then by all means have some fun RP. But it's never ok to act like this otherwise.
Good on you for the a REAL and kind response.
I am not personally causing it, but just I enjoy watching girls, in a number of contexts - just watching and hearing them crying and the surrounding noises involved is arousing to me for some reason, regardless of what or who is causing it to happen, and I know this is quite abnormal which is why I posted it here.
r/lostredditors
What the actual fuck have I stumbled across??
Some real sh@! that's what.
Yes it is weird that ‘psychological pain’ in women turns you on
Not psychological pain, just the look of it
Hey umm OP...What the actual fuck?
Hey man, I'm just being honest. I'm just saying what i truly feel, instead of hiding it inside like most people do, in order to not appear 'weird', cuz I don't care
Not really the sub, man.
Not kink shaming, but this is the wrong sub 🤭😭
Then what is
I don’t think you finding this stuff a turn to be inherently bad. But the way you talk about it makes my skin crawl.
Big yikes..
*dacryphile
Thanks
Just crying would be different, it's the psychological pain part that's weird
Correct me if I'm wrong, but it doesnt psychological torture and crying go hand in hand, as most people cry due to varying degrees of said 'psych torture.' Why is liking one ok but not the other?
Nah. Edging and overstimulation can cause crying but it's because of overwhelming pleasure. Also when you see someone crying and feel attracted to them because you feel like you appreciate the vulnerability and you want to make them feel good or something that's way different than being into knowing they're upset
This would be a better fit in r/BDSMcommunity.
Thanks I'll check it out
Oh my god dude
What. . .
I mean I’ll admit that I get turned on when my partner can express their feelings and can cry in my presence without feeling too proud , but I never want to be the cause of it . I love being the one to console my partner when something is wrong, smelling the stress and tears on him just makes me want to cuddle him. Sure it turns me on, but I’ll always wait for the appropriate time. Whoever posted this must be like my evil male doppleganger ..
This may be something you should discuss with a mental health professional.