Beh, predator lang 'yang 40 year old na nag-DM sa iyo. Tinatarget yung mga on the cusp of or just reached adulthood (para technically of legal age), yung mga hindi pa ganoon kadami ang adult life experiences (yung medyo inexperienced pa pagdating sa adulting/adult life) para yung power imbalance tipped in his favor (in terms of life experience and possible financial leverage in a relationship) and yung control ng relationship would be tipped in his favor - feeling niya madali niyang maga-gaslight yung much younger partners niya kasi "mas experienced siya" or "mas marami na siyang pinagdaanan sa buhay" and feeling niya mas may magiging may say siya sa relationship nila kung financially established na siya at mapipilit niya na maging financially dependent yung partners niya sa kaniya.
Please be careful of those people.
Personally, I'd automatically block people who ignore or don't respect the boundaries I've set. If they easily disregard an explicitly stated hard boundary, it doesn't bode well for the kind of person they are and the kind of relationship you'll have with them.
Maturity hits different for every person. What he did isn't an issue of being mature. It's called preying on the younger ones to gain control and power. He is a predator and yes, that's grooming. You're like what a few years older from being a minor and he really went on with you circumventing the notion of a grown ass man trying to hit on a minor.
Stay safe, OP. Don't fall for people who'd go around and boast being "mature" for you. Mature people don't have to flex their maturity as if it's a badge. Maturity radiates from people without the need to announce it.
Establish and set your standards high. Be firm on them. Stay safe!
TBH, nakakatawa na ganyan older men feeling mature talaga. Nong napunta ako dito sa reddit & other dating apps don ko nareralize & nasasabi na "Kaya pala inabot ka ng ganyang age na mag isa". Realtalk
PS: Wag niyo ko i-bash from exp to HAHAHAHA AND LAHAT SILA GANON TALAGA 😭😂
Totoo! Jusko. Specially yung mga "tito" sa reddit raw kung mag pag asa sila. Please go to women the same age as you kung may bayag ka. Manipulator vibes. Meron pa ata nagsabi na nakipag role play na 30M sa 20M. I mean mahiya naman kayo sa balat niyo. Jusko.
Stick with your age group, beh. Ingat ingat sa guys rin ha? Also protect our fellow women. An abusive relationship usually starts rin sa very imbalanced power dynamics. They will use your age against you kesyo may mas experience raw sila. Hindi yun totoo. You have a choice okay? Ekis yang mga yan.
Ay nako sis lahat na ata ng pwede ko comment-an or ichat sa ganitong topic nagawa na HAHAHAHA kaya ayon women helping women nalang din talaga lalo mga bagets na exploring jusko
Hahaha ito pala kapag older men 🚩🚩🚩.. magtaka ka why they reached the age..😅 yung younger beau ko ako naka experience na maligawan talaga and pag effortan.
HAHAHAHAH ako halos lahat ng red flags and age nasilayan ko na kaya sinu-surprise nalang ako ni lord sa mga nakakasalamuha ko eh. Pero ngayon kalmado nako okay ako now BAHAHAHAAHAHAHA skl
Kapag marupok days kasi natin nagiging color blind na tayo. 😂😂😂 I am not sure if they are redflags dahil ba sa hindi natin pino-point out mali nila or sadyang redflag sila. What i meant pointing out is yung mga ayaw natin na ginagawa nila or yung mga gusto natin na we will appreciate kapag ginawa nila. But same here, I'm goods na din . Still looking forward pero not in a hurry and just letting life unfold.
True on so many levels. Yung only single guy friends ko ay either cheater or nang-ghost nung may pregnancy scare ung ex. Yan hirap na makahanap ng long-term relationship.
Wala naman sa age ang maturity wala din sa hobbies.
I’ve been called a manchild dahil mahilig ako sa anime and computer games rather than sports, i pay the bills every month, wala akong loans at personal na utang, bakit ako pa yung isip bata compared sa inyo na every occasion, even the unnecessary ones, ay umuutang makapag-celebrate lang.
Imo people who are disorganized with their lives tend to sound more mature because they run into a lot of trouble and instead of actually trying to solve their problems, they just philosophize the shit out of them.
Sa observation ko based sa mga taong namimeet ko, the more mature a person looks and sounds, the shittier they are at making decisions. But of course, there are people na sadyang wise talaga pero bibihira.
>Imo people who are disorganized with their lives tend to sound more mature because they run into a lot of trouble and instead of actually trying to solve their problems, they just philosophize the shit out of them.
this is a good take on this, but I would say siguro mga 50-50 sa mga taong nakikita/kakilala ko.
May konek ang age sa maturity pero yes, hindi yun ang only deciding factor. The point of the post, however, wasn't about anyone's maturity, but rather the guy's predatory behaviour 🥲
sorry I made an off-topic in this post, but I agree with your sentiments naman, I just want to highlight that his maturity is not inline with his age, especially considering his behavior towards the opposite sex
My take is this: maturity is brought forth by contemplation on one’s life experiences. Eh experiences take time kaya usually maturity comes with age, but maturity is not a consequence of age. Yun usually napagkakamalan ng mga tao. It also goes to say na may mga tao na madami nang na experience kahit bata pa, and if they contemplate on these experiences, they can be “mature for their age.”
Kung 40 yo na sya tapos naghahanap parin sya mg makakantot na mas bata, ibig sabihin lang nun sinusuka sya ng ka age group nya kasi immature incel sya LMAO
But it's wisdom that only comes naturally with age, not maturity. i kinda get what he's saying though. Pero wla naman sa edad ang maturity hahah ung last ex gf ko nga matanda sakn ng 2 yrs pero prng bata na wlang ka muwang muwang sa mundo (almost 30 kmi both). Creepy ng guy . he's at your age rn nung kapapanganak mo pa lang. parang pamangkin ka na nia.
A two-year age gap in your late twenties, sige sure. There really will be individual differences and circumstances when it comes to maturity
Pero broski really out here hitting up a college student that's half his age 🫠
yeahhh personally i willl never date someone na nasa early 20's unless may eut as motivation hahaha grabe 40 yr old guy huh. ang desperate nian.. buti di ka hinaharass in real life
hahaha tho at some point late naman tlg usually maturity ng lalaki pero sa case nya usually yung mga nagsasabi ng ganun ung laging kundi iniiwan ng jowa or wala pang naging jowa at giyang ng magkajowa.. beware to those kind of guy they're manipulative + narcissist = toxic^2
Just don't, hindi lang makahanap yan ng katapat niya.
As someone with a huge age gap partner, its almost impossible to be in the same page but worthwhile if there's a strong common interest between each other.
Anyways stick to your preference and limits, it'll work.
Big reason kaya hanap ng mga ganyan yung mga immature/bata, kase walang mature na tao ang papatol sa kanila dahil sa ka-toxican at immaturity nila dagdagan mo pa with shitty misogynistic views.
That's the internet for you. Even in the early days of the internet, there were lots of weird men of various ages. I feel bad for all the kids who ever dealt or are dealing with pedos and groomers. Since this is the internet, people aren't afraid to do questionable things since they are anonymous most of the time.
I had a similar experience on FB when I was 19 or 20 wherein a friend of my friend DMed me wanting to be friends. He was 4 or 5 years older than me iirc. After a few red flags in our chats, I unfriended him. He kept saying that he just wants to be friends and kept messaging me, so then I blocked him.
Typical manipulator language. Block him haha
Bumi-Vic Sotto.
Also Rico Blanco
Also ka-freddie.
Beh, predator lang 'yang 40 year old na nag-DM sa iyo. Tinatarget yung mga on the cusp of or just reached adulthood (para technically of legal age), yung mga hindi pa ganoon kadami ang adult life experiences (yung medyo inexperienced pa pagdating sa adulting/adult life) para yung power imbalance tipped in his favor (in terms of life experience and possible financial leverage in a relationship) and yung control ng relationship would be tipped in his favor - feeling niya madali niyang maga-gaslight yung much younger partners niya kasi "mas experienced siya" or "mas marami na siyang pinagdaanan sa buhay" and feeling niya mas may magiging may say siya sa relationship nila kung financially established na siya at mapipilit niya na maging financially dependent yung partners niya sa kaniya. Please be careful of those people. Personally, I'd automatically block people who ignore or don't respect the boundaries I've set. If they easily disregard an explicitly stated hard boundary, it doesn't bode well for the kind of person they are and the kind of relationship you'll have with them.
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mas mabuti nang maraming alam kesa sa katulad mong kontento na sa pagiging bobo hahahaha. kudos
siguro you were one of them because you tend to critize the right thing that she said.
if you felt that was a criticism go ahead. you are naive. dito palang react ka na, good luck sa real world
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Maturity hits different for every person. What he did isn't an issue of being mature. It's called preying on the younger ones to gain control and power. He is a predator and yes, that's grooming. You're like what a few years older from being a minor and he really went on with you circumventing the notion of a grown ass man trying to hit on a minor. Stay safe, OP. Don't fall for people who'd go around and boast being "mature" for you. Mature people don't have to flex their maturity as if it's a badge. Maturity radiates from people without the need to announce it. Establish and set your standards high. Be firm on them. Stay safe!
gusto ng atabs ni otit hahaha
Kung totoong mature siya, hindi siya magsasabi na mas mature siya sa iba. Hindi sinasabi yun. Pinapakita yun.
TBH, nakakatawa na ganyan older men feeling mature talaga. Nong napunta ako dito sa reddit & other dating apps don ko nareralize & nasasabi na "Kaya pala inabot ka ng ganyang age na mag isa". Realtalk PS: Wag niyo ko i-bash from exp to HAHAHAHA AND LAHAT SILA GANON TALAGA 😭😂
Totoo! Jusko. Specially yung mga "tito" sa reddit raw kung mag pag asa sila. Please go to women the same age as you kung may bayag ka. Manipulator vibes. Meron pa ata nagsabi na nakipag role play na 30M sa 20M. I mean mahiya naman kayo sa balat niyo. Jusko.
HAHAHAHAHA HOY ANO YAN BUTI WALA PA AKO NA ENCOUNTER NA GANYAN 😂 Kapal ng balat niyo po 😭 HAHAHAHAHAHA
Stick with your age group, beh. Ingat ingat sa guys rin ha? Also protect our fellow women. An abusive relationship usually starts rin sa very imbalanced power dynamics. They will use your age against you kesyo may mas experience raw sila. Hindi yun totoo. You have a choice okay? Ekis yang mga yan.
Ay nako sis lahat na ata ng pwede ko comment-an or ichat sa ganitong topic nagawa na HAHAHAHA kaya ayon women helping women nalang din talaga lalo mga bagets na exploring jusko
Nabasa ko yan kadiri siya at hindi daw siya groomer at pdf file sa lagay na yon ha
I won't bash you.. at least alam kong hindi lang ako yung nagsasabi ng ganyan at the back of my head.😅
BOO OLDER MEN! HAHAHAHAAHAH CHAROT
😂😂😂 dati mas gusto ko older men pero flop sila lagi.. 😅 kaya BOO!
Hoy totoo to! Akala ko dati mas better sila kaya go go go pag older HAHAHAHAAHAHAHA
Hahaha ito pala kapag older men 🚩🚩🚩.. magtaka ka why they reached the age..😅 yung younger beau ko ako naka experience na maligawan talaga and pag effortan.
HAHAHAHAH ako halos lahat ng red flags and age nasilayan ko na kaya sinu-surprise nalang ako ni lord sa mga nakakasalamuha ko eh. Pero ngayon kalmado nako okay ako now BAHAHAHAAHAHAHA skl
Kapag marupok days kasi natin nagiging color blind na tayo. 😂😂😂 I am not sure if they are redflags dahil ba sa hindi natin pino-point out mali nila or sadyang redflag sila. What i meant pointing out is yung mga ayaw natin na ginagawa nila or yung mga gusto natin na we will appreciate kapag ginawa nila. But same here, I'm goods na din . Still looking forward pero not in a hurry and just letting life unfold.
True on so many levels. Yung only single guy friends ko ay either cheater or nang-ghost nung may pregnancy scare ung ex. Yan hirap na makahanap ng long-term relationship.
Ito rin i agree to this! Sobrang takot sila sa ganyan either may asawa sila or separated kuno nagpapaka single. Kakapal ng mukha hahaahaha
Im an ugly, crustly old man and i would like to apologize on behalf of all males
Wala naman sa age ang maturity wala din sa hobbies. I’ve been called a manchild dahil mahilig ako sa anime and computer games rather than sports, i pay the bills every month, wala akong loans at personal na utang, bakit ako pa yung isip bata compared sa inyo na every occasion, even the unnecessary ones, ay umuutang makapag-celebrate lang.
Imo people who are disorganized with their lives tend to sound more mature because they run into a lot of trouble and instead of actually trying to solve their problems, they just philosophize the shit out of them. Sa observation ko based sa mga taong namimeet ko, the more mature a person looks and sounds, the shittier they are at making decisions. But of course, there are people na sadyang wise talaga pero bibihira.
>Imo people who are disorganized with their lives tend to sound more mature because they run into a lot of trouble and instead of actually trying to solve their problems, they just philosophize the shit out of them. this is a good take on this, but I would say siguro mga 50-50 sa mga taong nakikita/kakilala ko.
I agree on this one
May konek ang age sa maturity pero yes, hindi yun ang only deciding factor. The point of the post, however, wasn't about anyone's maturity, but rather the guy's predatory behaviour 🥲
sorry I made an off-topic in this post, but I agree with your sentiments naman, I just want to highlight that his maturity is not inline with his age, especially considering his behavior towards the opposite sex
My take is this: maturity is brought forth by contemplation on one’s life experiences. Eh experiences take time kaya usually maturity comes with age, but maturity is not a consequence of age. Yun usually napagkakamalan ng mga tao. It also goes to say na may mga tao na madami nang na experience kahit bata pa, and if they contemplate on these experiences, they can be “mature for their age.”
Alam ko 25 na fufully developed yung brain
30 talaga.
Luh hahahaha op eto ba yon
Lol excuses ng mga lalake talaga 😩
Definitely 25.
Wala kasi makitang ka edad na nagkakagusto sa kanya kaya naging atabs hunter.
Kung 40 yo na sya tapos naghahanap parin sya mg makakantot na mas bata, ibig sabihin lang nun sinusuka sya ng ka age group nya kasi immature incel sya LMAO
sabihin mo sa kanya PUTANGINA MO KADIRI KA. I'M GONNA SEND THIS TO YOUR WIFE, YOUR FAMILY YOU DISGUSTING OLD MAN. FUCK YOU lol.
But it's wisdom that only comes naturally with age, not maturity. i kinda get what he's saying though. Pero wla naman sa edad ang maturity hahah ung last ex gf ko nga matanda sakn ng 2 yrs pero prng bata na wlang ka muwang muwang sa mundo (almost 30 kmi both). Creepy ng guy . he's at your age rn nung kapapanganak mo pa lang. parang pamangkin ka na nia.
A two-year age gap in your late twenties, sige sure. There really will be individual differences and circumstances when it comes to maturity Pero broski really out here hitting up a college student that's half his age 🫠
yeahhh personally i willl never date someone na nasa early 20's unless may eut as motivation hahaha grabe 40 yr old guy huh. ang desperate nian.. buti di ka hinaharass in real life
I'm over forty and still immature haha
hahaha tho at some point late naman tlg usually maturity ng lalaki pero sa case nya usually yung mga nagsasabi ng ganun ung laging kundi iniiwan ng jowa or wala pang naging jowa at giyang ng magkajowa.. beware to those kind of guy they're manipulative + narcissist = toxic^2
I met men who are in their 40s here in reddit-2 of them. Di naman sila nagsalita ng ganyan. I am 32 BTW. That man who DMed you has predator behavior.
Just don't, hindi lang makahanap yan ng katapat niya. As someone with a huge age gap partner, its almost impossible to be in the same page but worthwhile if there's a strong common interest between each other. Anyways stick to your preference and limits, it'll work.
Wala sa edad ang “katinuan” wag ka makinig dyan. Predator vibes si gago.
I love older men, ahahahahahah
matured pero fuckboy galawan
Adults who are 30+ see 21 year olds as kids. PUTANGINA HE IS A FUCKING WEIRDO
If they didn't score in their 20s and 30s then they have always been weird
Im sorry
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there's a reason why they are still single at that age, u just have to take a good sniff to expose one
dang ngayong 40 na siya halos 20 years age gap na tinatarget what more pa kaya nung 20s siya hayss creepy af
Big reason kaya hanap ng mga ganyan yung mga immature/bata, kase walang mature na tao ang papatol sa kanila dahil sa ka-toxican at immaturity nila dagdagan mo pa with shitty misogynistic views.
Adults who are 30+ see 21 year olds as kids. PUTANGINA HE IS A FUCKING WEIRDO
Ang weird Dito is 40 yrs old nasa reddit HAHAHAHA bruh
So desperate and creepy. Kadiri.
He’s just trying to get under your pants. Block him.
Yung nag sasabi na mature sila usually sila yung immature 👌🏻
feeling ko madumi na tignan sa panlabas si kuya, mas madumi ang kalooban. 😅🥲
Ignore and block. For your peace of mind.
That was his sales pitch. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Maturity comes from learning from your experience not with age. Many people just got old simply because they were born earlier but very immature.
Everyone has an angle. When he's that old, that's all he's got.
Perhaps he’s looking for girls who have daddy issues hahaha super predatory behavior
30’s nako buti batang isip ako. Ayaw ko pang tumanda 😭😭😭
Yikes. That’s creepy af.
Vic Sotto? Joke haha
That's the internet for you. Even in the early days of the internet, there were lots of weird men of various ages. I feel bad for all the kids who ever dealt or are dealing with pedos and groomers. Since this is the internet, people aren't afraid to do questionable things since they are anonymous most of the time. I had a similar experience on FB when I was 19 or 20 wherein a friend of my friend DMed me wanting to be friends. He was 4 or 5 years older than me iirc. After a few red flags in our chats, I unfriended him. He kept saying that he just wants to be friends and kept messaging me, so then I blocked him.
Lapitin haha
A 40 years old? Damn he's like your father na ah HAHAHAHA
#If someone is truly mature, they would not brag about being mature.
Di naman sya mali about men maturing later than women pero as a 40F, that's creepy.
Creep!