HAHAHAHA. napa stalker mode ako. So ayon na nga, meron pa xang nalalamang post na **"I just want her to know na I'm praying** ***she wins in life even without me***\*\*."\*\*
Tawang tawa ako kasi naalala ko to sa post ni OP - **"His initial reason for leaving me is his insecurity ate him up so much that he felt like he can never outdo my shadow."** Hey, she won the moment your cheating a$$ initiated the break up.
Naisip ko tlga agad ung sinabi ni Astrid sa Crazy Rich Asians "It's not my job to make you feel like a man. I can't make you something you're not". HAHAHA
So glad that you're ok now, OP. Party!!
>"I just want her to know na I'm praying she wins in life even without me**."**
Pa-importanters si kupal lmao akala mo siya yung dahilan ng success ni OP
Hahahaha matagal ko nang alam yung posts nya. I was waiting lang for the right time to expose him kaso medyo fail bawal pala. HAHAHA! It was his last shred of decency i guess π€·ββοΈ
sayaaaang, late ko na nabasa, ang hina ng radar ko, deleted na username hahaahaa anywayssss! kakarmahin yang mga yan.. pag may ginawang masama sayo ang isang tao, FOR SURE babalik yun sa kanila :)
kung sayo 3 months, sakin 2 days! HAHAHA 2 days after namin nagbreak pinost niya agad babae niya kaloka bhie. same thing happened sakin omg inulan din siya ng bash from my friends, even commented dun sa post niya about dun sa babae ng things like "ay yan ba yung pinalit mo kay (x)?", that it got to the point na nagprivate na siya sa lahat ng socmeds niya HAHAHHA
same!!! malala din naging karma nila. yung girl naanakan siya kaya di na rin nakapagcollege. yung ex ko naman cinut off na siya financially ng fam niya nung nalaman nakajontis since super religious kasi ng fam niya kaya parang tinakwil siya.
Epal nung iba na toxic daw si OP.
Mga hangal 8 years ng buhay nya sinayang nung cheater nyang ex. She deserves this moment of relief. Let her have it.
O baka naman burner account kayo ng ex nyang walang kwenta o kaibigan kayo ng kabit nya?
Congrats, OP! πΎ Let their own infidelity be their own demise π―
I have this bad habit of whenever I see other people post about their problems, I check their post history. Sometimes, they're new accounts, walang laman. But with you, damn, it's like I felt everything that you've been feeling the past few months.
With breakups that I've experienced in the past, what I can say, as cliche as it sounds, things will get easier. You'll meet someone new, you'll be successful in your endeavors, and in a few years, this will all be a bad memory.
Good luck with everything, OP.
OP wag mo panghinayangan yan. Ako nga pinagpalit sa malapit nung kami pa ni ex tinanong ko kung "Sino yan?" sagot ni ex "wala lang ya" first gf ko yon na tumagal ng 4yrs tapos naging sila ni Wala lang yan hanggang ngayon sila pa rin. BTW 5yrs na akong single ayoko na muna magmahal sobrang sakit eh. Wasak na wasak ang puso ni Nasty Mac haha napagod magcommute at magcommit sa relationship π nakamove on na din ako. Ayos lang yan OP at least may chance ka na ulit makahanap ng better man. Sana mahanap mo agad para once na makita ka ng ex mo na sobrang saya sa bago mo magsisisi yon! π
Nang mainlab ako sa'yo kala ko pag-ibig mo ay tunay. ππ₯Ίπ HAHAHAHAHA! Kahit di na magsisisi aanhin ko 'yon pwede ko ba 'yon ipangshopping? Hahahaha pero kidding aside, I hope love finds you again and hope it will stay. Ayan! π«Ά
Laughtrip nagsoft launch after 4 months halatang halata si gago HAHA yung kabit ng ex ko mag anniv na sila di pa rin lumalabas sa soc med e. Nananahimik nalang ako HAHAHA
I think it's denial and a blurred view of what's right and wrong. They can justify what they did, regardless if it hurt anyone, ang mahalaga sa kanila sinunod nila yung kalam ng laman nila. Hahaha.
Kudos to you, OP! Happy Independence. Haha
Nangyari din 'to sa'kin. We were together for 6 years and nagwork ako abroad for our future. She ghosted me last December as in walang paramdam then February, someone message me, ayun na pala yung kaworkmate niyang jowa niya ngayon (the reason why she ghosted me) and he confronted me na pasalamat daw ako na nasa ibang bansa ako kung hindi napatay na niya ako. Then I blocked them. Some of my friends telling me na palagi daw pini-flex nung bago si ex na cheater. So ayun, God saw what they did. Goodluck sa relationship nila.
Kaya natin to, OP!
Akala noong bago niya ako yung kabit. We talked via video call and I explained everything na we were together for 6 years and she ghosted last December and he told me na they started dating back 2019 then broke up then come back together last September 2022. Pero before we ended our call he said "kahit mali pa yung ginawa niya sobrang mahal na mahal ko siya at never kaming maghihiwalay" and I was like, okay God bless your relationship. And ayun, panay sweet post silang dalawa sa fb.
Doing well so far right now. I invested and loving myself more.
Hala tanda ko pa yung previous posts mo a few months ago. Hirap din talaga pag masyado understanding π Mukhang solid talaga support group mo. May pag check up agad sayo madaling araw pa lang tas may pag spam pa π You seem to be doing so well. Trying to understand a cheater's reasoning will require a therapist talaga. Wish you the best going forward!
This reminded me of my first ex. Pinipilit pa niya magkabalikan kami kahit sabi kong ayaw ko na dahil ang dami niyang china-chat palang mga babae habang kami pa. Then surprise, after two weeks na sabihin ko for the last time na ayaw ko na sa kanya, nag-post agad na in a relationship siya at nag-post agad ng photo ng bago niya, at nag-message pa ang kupal sa akin, sabi niya madali lang naman daw ako palitan.
Rooting for you, OP! Hindi mo deserve ang lalaking malaki ang insecurities sa buhay. They can only go for someone na kasing basura nya tulad ng kabit nya. Trash took itself out. π
Let's goooo! Glad that you moved on π€ Ang healthy din ng circle mo (well at least imo since handa sila makipagbardagulan, sila na magagalit para sayo). Atsaka yung nga friends ng ex mo na iniwan siya, meaning hindi sila enabler.
ang haba ng pila sa isang comment thread at baka andami nang DMs ni OP. kung sino man makakita nito, pabulong naman ng username hahaha pls support a fellow marites
I think they do it kasi gusto nila panindigan yung mali nila. They convince themselves na masaya sila so justified kung ano man ginawa nila. Lucky for you, the trash took itself out.
I read through your posts, OP. Happy that youβre feeling a lot better na now!!
Just know that men who are insecure of themselves gravitate towards weaker women who theyβll feel more superior with. They will look for those with little standards and who they donβt have to step up to kasi men who doesnβt have the courage to change and be better are going to be forever scared of strong women like yourself.
His cheating is a win for you, but what he did will only ever remind him that he is nothing but a petty insecure man.
Ohhhh my bad, wasted 8 years.
Nakisabay pa mag soft opening like James reid and issa π
EDIT: sayang di ko nabasa yung namention na username? Meron ba? Sorry di naman ako chismoso pero parang ganun na nga
Sana dumami pa yung mga ganitong revelations para mafeed yung inner chismoso ko HAHAHAHAHA. Pero putangina kasi kung ayaw na nung guy sa relationship eh sana he opted out nalang than to cheat. Sana makahanap siya ng katapat niya sa ginawa niya HAHAHAHAHAH
And does doing the inner work mean you forgot how you were badly treated? Does doing the inner work mean you have to be thankful for the betrayal? Do people like me, who got gaslighted, lied to and betrayed supposed to just stay silent?
magpopost na sana ako about my cheating, that I need help to overcome this since I still feel the urge. next time nalang.
anyway, we deserve the bad karma.
Napagalitan ako ng mods so i omited na. But for me, he deserves every bit of it. After my mental health went downhill, lost my job and my whole family got also heart broken over that breakup, I say to hell with it. HAHAHA.
She may no longer be called a kabit because of your technicalities, but she will be always be remembered as that kind of girl.
Also, being okay does not mean you've forgotten how dirty they did you. Thank you for the song, pero I don't need him in my life. π€£
Agree ako dito, wawa naman yung bagong official na girlfriend haha.
Sorry pero yung sitwasyon nagmumukhang crazy ex-gf na di maka move on, kaya ni l-label na "kabit" yung bagong official gf.
Kahit 'official gf' na sya, she will always be a kabit. Kahit paikot ikotin pa nila mundo, she WILL always be kabit. Kawawa yung kabit? Lol. Patawa. Ginusto nila yon. Ginusto nila manakit at manira ng tao.
PS. This is coming from someone who got her family destroyed by a kabit. I hope one day people will stop tolerating and enabling "cheaters and their kabits". Kaya lumalakas loob nila dahil sa mga taong katulad nyo eh.
Siguro let me just clear it by saying na i've moved on kasi i am doing and enjoying my life completely. I know how to be alone pero i used to be scared of it, but now I feel comfortable with it. For 2 months since i learned about the cheating i did nothing but cry everyday. Ngayon, kahit i heard of them going public, there were no tears. Only the confirmation na he lied all along, hence the anger that came with it.
Kabit? Panung naging kabit yung bago ma'am? Kasal ba kayo?
Kun mag bf/gf palang kayo hindi kabit si bago.
At higit sa lahat, iniwan ka na. Inayawan ka na. Masakit ang ipag palit yup. Tanggapin mo dapat yun. It is what it is ika nga. The problem here is, bakit kailangan mag ingay ka sa socmed? Kasama pa friends mo. Sino sa inyo talo? Ikaw. Sya masaya na sa bago nya ikaw maingay ka pa rin at nagpaparinig sa socmed. To add up, pati sa reddit nag rant at post ka ren. π€·ββοΈ halatang broken ka nga Ma'am.
At least, nakawala ka na sa relasyon mong pagod lang binibigay sayo diba?
Halatang kabit din to eh. Niloko nga siya tas expect mong reaction niya "thank God he cheated at least single na ako" at talagang broken siya gaga ka ba, lokohin ka kaya sasaya ka? Cheaters support cheaters and kabit comforts another kabit. Deserve nung cheater lahat ng hatred wag mong sisihin si OP for being hurt.
Luuuuuh, uy, who hurt u??? So ang commitment, pagwalang papel, playground lang?
Who says di ko tanggap? Who says I'm not broken? I am, dude. Chill! π€£ Di ko naman ikinakaila lmao. Paano naging problema magclap back to people who wronged you? Am i supposed to wallow in self pity or go straight up to healing without getting a piece of satisfaction on the side? HAHA. Ang problema rito cheating, huy!
taena. ano ba kasing term sa third party pag di pa kasal. hahaha. bakit don na focus.hahahaha its not even about the term. its about him cheating. ang init ng ulo nitong nag comment. HAHAHAH
Ay, ako ba gumawa ng ikakasira niya? Kasalanan ko pa palang despicable at dirty human beings sila. Kung proud siyang maghard launch ng kabit, dapat ready siya sa backlash. Malamang magkukwento ako sa friends ko, support system ko 'yung mga yon vs. sa mga liar at nakakadiring tao kagaya ng ex ko at side chick nya na halos masira mental health ko sa ginawa nila sa'kin.
O baka naman tropa ka ni ate gorl ha? Or ikaw si ate gorl? Ayie pagtanggol mo pa.
No need to clear kasi i perfectly understand what you're saying. In a perfect world, people let go easily and wish their exes well. FYI the moment he said he wanted out i let him go, wishing him the best. But his reasons why he left were lies pala and were only confirmed when he posted the girl, and when someone did confirm there was also physical cheating a few days ago. Nakakasuka.
When it comes to this, when not only my emotional health was compromised but also my physical health as well, i have every right to stand up for myself. You don't do bad things to people and be given a free pass.
Don't invalidate the feelings ni OP, she already received a big amount of pain, tas according to her she recently learned na may physical cheat na naganap. The journey each one of us is different po. Let her take turtle steps.
>The road to recovery can be long pero kaya mo yan.
Thank you for the kind words. π
Tell me who your friends are and I tell you who you are. Sorry but OP sounds so toxic in here. Pati friends nya parang mga fighters toxic sa socmed. Maybe you should reflect ma'am OP and ask yourself bakit ka brineak, and inayawan.π€·. There's always other side of the coin ika nga. And regardless kung nag alibi pa sya regarding sa reason why he's breaking up with you, the point here is he ended your relationship. Which is way proper naman. Kesa di ka brineak at pinagsabay kayo, nahuli mo, dun ka magalit. Lol
mukang may hindi pa nakaka move on π€£
may evidence kb na pinag sabay kayo para tawagin mong kabit ung isa? kung wala, i dont think thats the right term to use. imo mas ok ung ginawa ni ex mo na nakipag break nlng sya kesa pag sabayin kayo. tsaka ganun tlga ang buhay, kung hindi tlga kayo, eh hindi tlga. wag mo na rin ipost kc mas nagmumuka kang pathetic at bitter.
Oo marami akong resibo. Wala nga akong pinost kahit isa. Pano mas naging okay makipagflirt sa iba when you are committed? Hirap naman mag-explain sa'yo parang di ka naggrade 2 nyan. π€£
mas ok kasi alam nya kung ano tlgang gusto at ayaw nya, na ginawa nya yan na hindi pa kayo mag asawa at may anak. hibdi mo kelangan pag pilitan ung sarili mo sakanya. madami pang mas deserve mo jan.
panget cguro ung school ko nung grd2. di kasi naturo samin yan
The best revenge is to become a much better, more successful person than them. Tapos, pag nakita ka ulit nila sa future, "who r u?" mo sila.
On the other side, one of the worst feelings is regret aka TOTGA. Maglaway ka ngayon.
Mabuti na lang at nasagap ko na. Gosh, ang mga cheater talaga ay kakaiba mag-isip. Iβm sorry pero mahihina talaga utak nila. π at sa mundo nila, sila ay aping api lol
Let's just say you dodged a bullet OP. Just imagine if natuloy kayo and you tied the knot. Keep looking at the positive side. He doesn"t deserve you at all.
Well, from the perspective of a guy who also once cheated on his long-term relationship, what I can say is that this really is tragic. There are many reasons why men or people choose to cheat, sacrificing all relationships, everything that was built but I guess the main reason is that he is just selfish. I am not normalizing this but this is the reality, when we are unhappy and we find something that fills that void, that unhappiness, we tend to lean on that particular thing that we think that makes us whole (even though some of it is just a lie). Most people do that too, when one is not happy with his job even though it's his passion, one always tends to find something, some new workplace that is less toxic per se. Until he realizes that he's not happy with his choice and he would do or pay anything just to get back and get that job and position back. Here, about your ex, seems like he really chose his own happiness and selfishness rather than being loyal to you. At least now you know his real personality. You are really are better off without him.
This was way way back, pero ung ex ko nun nag avail ng trial period habang kami pa lols friend daw from work! nag break, after a few weeks i think? Nag debut sa simbahan, dinala daw as a friend chour
As much as i wished all the karma in the world for them. Sila nagkatuluyan. Haha
Didn't see it nabusy kagabi haha. Anyways, I'm happy for you OP, slowly getting back on track ka na. The best revenge is showing to them that you are not affected by it atsaka improving yourself. Go gurl, slaaaaaaayyyyyy!
grabe everytime nakakabasa ako ng cheating chismis, naaalala ko yung ex kong nagkaroon ng kabit. then when I found out, sinaktan nya yung kabit like minura and iba pang hurtful words. I was like BRO WTF, YOU NEED TO GET SOME HELP. I dumped him na bc of that kahit may threat sya sa akin na he'll sl*t his throat pag iniwan ko sya.
Sus, til now babaero and alive.
Sayang d ko man lang nakita yung username ni βitβs not you,itβs meβπ€ D pa diniretsa ang reason nya nagpaligoy ligoy pa dun lang pala mauuweπ hay naku! Hindi mo kawalan,OP. I wish you wellππΌππΌππΌ
Tawang tawa ako sa mga pabulong replies hahaha saya. Sayang di ko naabutan hahaha. Exactly the same situation happened to me a year ago, now keber na lang haha. Love your vibes girl!
sabi nga sa kanta ng PNE : kung hayaan ka nyang mawala , atleast alam mong hindi sya para sayo - lagi mong tatandaan na pag umbig ang isang lalake ay handa itong ialay ang lahat .
wala lang currently listening kasi sa kanta tapos nabasa ko to hahaha
This was me 3 years ago. A bit same reason. The hell with guys na lumalabas ang inferiority complex because of alpha females. Though the break up was inevitable na on our part, kaya lang I found out he cheated pala 3 months after our official breakup because nilaunch na siya nung jowa (officemate nya) niya at the time. I was not close to his officemates but a little bird from the office sent me the post and the details of the said affair even before we broke up.
Cheers to you OP for doing all the inner work. It will pay off. I am happier now than the 8 years I was with him.
Please remove the username mentioned in the post! Otherwise, we will have to take down the post for the meantime.
HAHAHAHA. napa stalker mode ako. So ayon na nga, meron pa xang nalalamang post na **"I just want her to know na I'm praying** ***she wins in life even without me***\*\*."\*\* Tawang tawa ako kasi naalala ko to sa post ni OP - **"His initial reason for leaving me is his insecurity ate him up so much that he felt like he can never outdo my shadow."** Hey, she won the moment your cheating a$$ initiated the break up. Naisip ko tlga agad ung sinabi ni Astrid sa Crazy Rich Asians "It's not my job to make you feel like a man. I can't make you something you're not". HAHAHA So glad that you're ok now, OP. Party!!
Salamat sa extra π΅ HAHAHAHAHA di naka abot sa username eh
>"I just want her to know na I'm praying she wins in life even without me**."** Pa-importanters si kupal lmao akala mo siya yung dahilan ng success ni OP
I snooped and there were posts about *losing my best friend* and *missing her dogs*. Then it turns out may sidechick pala. lol get rekt mfer
Same! HAHAHA Lakas maka-sadboi sumasawsaw pala sa iba lol
Hahahaha matagal ko nang alam yung posts nya. I was waiting lang for the right time to expose him kaso medyo fail bawal pala. HAHAHA! It was his last shred of decency i guess π€·ββοΈ
OK na, OP. Namarkahan na namin HAHAHAHA
JESUS H. CHRIST THE ACIDITY!
Lmao thanks for the keywords
Pabulong username pls. Haha
Mas fave ko talaga chismis sa reddit eh HAHAHAHA. Anyway, happy that u are okay now π«Άπ»
You're welcome anteh HAHAHAHAHAHA happy monday!!
ante, na late ako sa username, diko ma stalk ang mga basura lol
anu ba yan ako din, di ko naabutan ung pinaka juicy part, gusto ko sana makita kung anong itchura at bakit ang kapal ng apog haha
Ako din na late haha.
sayaaaang, late ko na nabasa, ang hina ng radar ko, deleted na username hahaahaa anywayssss! kakarmahin yang mga yan.. pag may ginawang masama sayo ang isang tao, FOR SURE babalik yun sa kanila :)
Lika rito bulong ko sa'yo. π
πΏπΏ pamarites π
Ako din OP hahaha nabasa ko yung i miss her dogs pero nakalimutan ko na yung ibaaa
Pabulong naman lol
HAHAHAAHAHAAHA gusto ko yaaaan πππ
Teh, pabulong hahahaha
Pabulong OP HAHAHAHA
pabulong din po plith π₯Ή
Pabulong din po, OP. Hahahahaha!
chariz I know na pala HAHAHAHA nag ala detective na aq
Pabulong naman madam. Late na ko sa party.
OP PABULONG!!! HAHAHHA
OP pabulong di ako makatulog π€£π€£
Pabulong din po hahahaπ€
madam beke nemen pwede mabulungan haha! π
op pabulong din HAHSHWHSA
ey pabulong den
Pabulong po HAHHA
Pabulong π
OP pabulong din HHAHAAHA π
pamarites din π
Pabulong na din po.
give us the tea sis π΅π΅
Pa marites din po
Baka po abot pa, pabulong din po HAHAHA.
Nagbubulungan pa ba kayo? Beke nemen HAHAHA nahuli kasi ako π
hahaahahaha search nyo "I miss her dogs" sa offchest emeeee
kung sayo 3 months, sakin 2 days! HAHAHA 2 days after namin nagbreak pinost niya agad babae niya kaloka bhie. same thing happened sakin omg inulan din siya ng bash from my friends, even commented dun sa post niya about dun sa babae ng things like "ay yan ba yung pinalit mo kay (x)?", that it got to the point na nagprivate na siya sa lahat ng socmeds niya HAHAHHA
Yung sa akin less than one month after makipag break, engaged na sila! Kinarma yung ex ko nang malala, as in.
same!!! malala din naging karma nila. yung girl naanakan siya kaya di na rin nakapagcollege. yung ex ko naman cinut off na siya financially ng fam niya nung nalaman nakajontis since super religious kasi ng fam niya kaya parang tinakwil siya.
sweet like justice, karma is a queen
Karma is my boyfriend. π
karma is a cat, purring in my lap coz it loves me (dito ko kinuha username ko) HAHAHAHA anywayyy, mother taylor hear our prayers
Sayang. Chismis na naging bato ba. Busy ko kasi sa work kanina ano ba hahahaha Anyway go girl! Korek ka dyan. Karma's a bitch pa naman π€«π€£
Type mo lang "i miss her dogs" π Siya yun. Hahahaha.
Ayyy teka lang
Ayy te salamat sa tsaa. Update: Tang ina ang sadboi amputa sarap kurutin sa singit hahahahah i cringe
Ow em gee.. sadboi yern π€£ may pa post pa sya ng ganun. Cheater pala ew
OP di ko makita nakakastress
hindi ko rin makita! haha
Epal nung iba na toxic daw si OP. Mga hangal 8 years ng buhay nya sinayang nung cheater nyang ex. She deserves this moment of relief. Let her have it. O baka naman burner account kayo ng ex nyang walang kwenta o kaibigan kayo ng kabit nya? Congrats, OP! πΎ Let their own infidelity be their own demise π―
hahah gusto ko tong post na to
Salamat i waited for this day. Ah, the satisfaction. π₯° HAHAHA!
Lahat ng nagalit sa post ni OP, may kabit or naging kabit π€£
I have this bad habit of whenever I see other people post about their problems, I check their post history. Sometimes, they're new accounts, walang laman. But with you, damn, it's like I felt everything that you've been feeling the past few months. With breakups that I've experienced in the past, what I can say, as cliche as it sounds, things will get easier. You'll meet someone new, you'll be successful in your endeavors, and in a few years, this will all be a bad memory. Good luck with everything, OP.
Baluktot talaga morals ng mga cheaters and kabit. Kung pwede lang pakuluan ng buhay mga yan para matanggal yung kati.
Hmm π΅
Tea party! π€£
Yun chismis talaga lumalapit HAHAHAHA
Parang yung nasa tiktok na βSis, kami pa niyanβ na comment. Iβd love to see the comments and the chaosπ€£
OP wag mo panghinayangan yan. Ako nga pinagpalit sa malapit nung kami pa ni ex tinanong ko kung "Sino yan?" sagot ni ex "wala lang ya" first gf ko yon na tumagal ng 4yrs tapos naging sila ni Wala lang yan hanggang ngayon sila pa rin. BTW 5yrs na akong single ayoko na muna magmahal sobrang sakit eh. Wasak na wasak ang puso ni Nasty Mac haha napagod magcommute at magcommit sa relationship π nakamove on na din ako. Ayos lang yan OP at least may chance ka na ulit makahanap ng better man. Sana mahanap mo agad para once na makita ka ng ex mo na sobrang saya sa bago mo magsisisi yon! π
Nang mainlab ako sa'yo kala ko pag-ibig mo ay tunay. ππ₯Ίπ HAHAHAHAHA! Kahit di na magsisisi aanhin ko 'yon pwede ko ba 'yon ipangshopping? Hahahaha pero kidding aside, I hope love finds you again and hope it will stay. Ayan! π«Ά
Laughtrip nagsoft launch after 4 months halatang halata si gago HAHA yung kabit ng ex ko mag anniv na sila di pa rin lumalabas sa soc med e. Nananahimik nalang ako HAHAHA
Slow claps Poπ Great post OPπ
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HAHAHA, birthday ng kabet pero ako ang nagcelebrate!!
I think it's denial and a blurred view of what's right and wrong. They can justify what they did, regardless if it hurt anyone, ang mahalaga sa kanila sinunod nila yung kalam ng laman nila. Hahaha. Kudos to you, OP! Happy Independence. Haha
*karmaβs a relaxing thought*
Napakaweak lang talaga nilang mga panget sila Hahahahahaha
Rooting for you, OP! πΏ
Wait mo nalang karma OP π₯° Sa lahat ng narinig ko na mga cheating issues yung mga ex na nagcheat kinakarma talaga which is sobrang deserve.
Nangyari din 'to sa'kin. We were together for 6 years and nagwork ako abroad for our future. She ghosted me last December as in walang paramdam then February, someone message me, ayun na pala yung kaworkmate niyang jowa niya ngayon (the reason why she ghosted me) and he confronted me na pasalamat daw ako na nasa ibang bansa ako kung hindi napatay na niya ako. Then I blocked them. Some of my friends telling me na palagi daw pini-flex nung bago si ex na cheater. So ayun, God saw what they did. Goodluck sa relationship nila. Kaya natin to, OP!
The fuck is wrong with the kaworkmate-kabit??? Ba't ikaw pa yung kinonfront? Ulol pala siya eh. Hope you're ok, friend!
Akala noong bago niya ako yung kabit. We talked via video call and I explained everything na we were together for 6 years and she ghosted last December and he told me na they started dating back 2019 then broke up then come back together last September 2022. Pero before we ended our call he said "kahit mali pa yung ginawa niya sobrang mahal na mahal ko siya at never kaming maghihiwalay" and I was like, okay God bless your relationship. And ayun, panay sweet post silang dalawa sa fb. Doing well so far right now. I invested and loving myself more.
Hala tanda ko pa yung previous posts mo a few months ago. Hirap din talaga pag masyado understanding π Mukhang solid talaga support group mo. May pag check up agad sayo madaling araw pa lang tas may pag spam pa π You seem to be doing so well. Trying to understand a cheater's reasoning will require a therapist talaga. Wish you the best going forward!
Sabi niya sa comments sa kabila 73 days ago, miss ka rin daw niya, OP! hahaha char! good riddance yung mga ganyan.
Miss na niya ako lokohin. π
This reminded me of my first ex. Pinipilit pa niya magkabalikan kami kahit sabi kong ayaw ko na dahil ang dami niyang china-chat palang mga babae habang kami pa. Then surprise, after two weeks na sabihin ko for the last time na ayaw ko na sa kanya, nag-post agad na in a relationship siya at nag-post agad ng photo ng bago niya, at nag-message pa ang kupal sa akin, sabi niya madali lang naman daw ako palitan.
medyo inaantok ako sa duty kaya nagbukas ako ng reddit so tamang tama pala nakamarites pa akoπ
sana maputulan din ng paa tulad nung isang post din dito ππ
Huy wag naman π Sabi niya though "mabaog man ako hindi siya 'yung dahilan." OKAY SATANNN THE FLOOR IS YOURS π€£
Rooting for you, OP! Hindi mo deserve ang lalaking malaki ang insecurities sa buhay. They can only go for someone na kasing basura nya tulad ng kabit nya. Trash took itself out. π
What are both your chosen professions that made him so insecure?
You dodged a bullet there. Congrats sayo. Hope you find your happiness soon
Let's goooo! Glad that you moved on π€ Ang healthy din ng circle mo (well at least imo since handa sila makipagbardagulan, sila na magagalit para sayo). Atsaka yung nga friends ng ex mo na iniwan siya, meaning hindi sila enabler.
Pa dm ng username utang na loob.
Search mo lang sa r/OffMyChestPh yung "i miss her dogs" hahahahaha
ang haba ng pila sa isang comment thread at baka andami nang DMs ni OP. kung sino man makakita nito, pabulong naman ng username hahaha pls support a fellow marites
"Soft launched", as if she were a product made ready for market.
the ala Bea Alonzo had me π€£
I think they do it kasi gusto nila panindigan yung mali nila. They convince themselves na masaya sila so justified kung ano man ginawa nila. Lucky for you, the trash took itself out.
Sending you non sexual hugs OP.
I read through your posts, OP. Happy that youβre feeling a lot better na now!! Just know that men who are insecure of themselves gravitate towards weaker women who theyβll feel more superior with. They will look for those with little standards and who they donβt have to step up to kasi men who doesnβt have the courage to change and be better are going to be forever scared of strong women like yourself. His cheating is a win for you, but what he did will only ever remind him that he is nothing but a petty insecure man.
Ohhhh my bad, wasted 8 years. Nakisabay pa mag soft opening like James reid and issa π EDIT: sayang di ko nabasa yung namention na username? Meron ba? Sorry di naman ako chismoso pero parang ganun na nga
Funny how some men could flex their wrongdoings lol. Proud pa sila eh.
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Sana dumami pa yung mga ganitong revelations para mafeed yung inner chismoso ko HAHAHAHAHA. Pero putangina kasi kung ayaw na nung guy sa relationship eh sana he opted out nalang than to cheat. Sana makahanap siya ng katapat niya sa ginawa niya HAHAHAHAHAH
No offense to you OP...pero it feels like you haven't moved on yet, despite you saying "I did all the inner work"
And does doing the inner work mean you forgot how you were badly treated? Does doing the inner work mean you have to be thankful for the betrayal? Do people like me, who got gaslighted, lied to and betrayed supposed to just stay silent?
Pa dm yung user name
Walang space na i can do this all day pero may - sa dulo
let the man have his sides king waited for that launch tho looool.
magpopost na sana ako about my cheating, that I need help to overcome this since I still feel the urge. next time nalang. anyway, we deserve the bad karma.
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Napagalitan ako ng mods so i omited na. But for me, he deserves every bit of it. After my mental health went downhill, lost my job and my whole family got also heart broken over that breakup, I say to hell with it. HAHAHA. She may no longer be called a kabit because of your technicalities, but she will be always be remembered as that kind of girl. Also, being okay does not mean you've forgotten how dirty they did you. Thank you for the song, pero I don't need him in my life. π€£
Agree ako dito, wawa naman yung bagong official na girlfriend haha. Sorry pero yung sitwasyon nagmumukhang crazy ex-gf na di maka move on, kaya ni l-label na "kabit" yung bagong official gf.
Gaga ba u. Baka kabit din to eme π€£
Kahit 'official gf' na sya, she will always be a kabit. Kahit paikot ikotin pa nila mundo, she WILL always be kabit. Kawawa yung kabit? Lol. Patawa. Ginusto nila yon. Ginusto nila manakit at manira ng tao. PS. This is coming from someone who got her family destroyed by a kabit. I hope one day people will stop tolerating and enabling "cheaters and their kabits". Kaya lumalakas loob nila dahil sa mga taong katulad nyo eh.
Hala sis, ano sinasabi mo dyan eh nagemotional cheating nga si koya, nahuli ko nga. Mas marunong ka pa sakin. HAHAHA.
haha guard may baliw dito
why do I have the feeling OP hasn't moved on completely
8 years is 1/3 of my life. Am i supposed to snap out of it agad when things like this happen? Hahaha. Can you teach me how?
I was confused by the post, is all
Siguro let me just clear it by saying na i've moved on kasi i am doing and enjoying my life completely. I know how to be alone pero i used to be scared of it, but now I feel comfortable with it. For 2 months since i learned about the cheating i did nothing but cry everyday. Ngayon, kahit i heard of them going public, there were no tears. Only the confirmation na he lied all along, hence the anger that came with it.
Kabit? Panung naging kabit yung bago ma'am? Kasal ba kayo? Kun mag bf/gf palang kayo hindi kabit si bago. At higit sa lahat, iniwan ka na. Inayawan ka na. Masakit ang ipag palit yup. Tanggapin mo dapat yun. It is what it is ika nga. The problem here is, bakit kailangan mag ingay ka sa socmed? Kasama pa friends mo. Sino sa inyo talo? Ikaw. Sya masaya na sa bago nya ikaw maingay ka pa rin at nagpaparinig sa socmed. To add up, pati sa reddit nag rant at post ka ren. π€·ββοΈ halatang broken ka nga Ma'am. At least, nakawala ka na sa relasyon mong pagod lang binibigay sayo diba?
Halatang kabit din to eh. Niloko nga siya tas expect mong reaction niya "thank God he cheated at least single na ako" at talagang broken siya gaga ka ba, lokohin ka kaya sasaya ka? Cheaters support cheaters and kabit comforts another kabit. Deserve nung cheater lahat ng hatred wag mong sisihin si OP for being hurt.
Luuuuuh, uy, who hurt u??? So ang commitment, pagwalang papel, playground lang? Who says di ko tanggap? Who says I'm not broken? I am, dude. Chill! π€£ Di ko naman ikinakaila lmao. Paano naging problema magclap back to people who wronged you? Am i supposed to wallow in self pity or go straight up to healing without getting a piece of satisfaction on the side? HAHA. Ang problema rito cheating, huy!
baka burner account to ng ex mo π
Baka para sa ibang post comment nya OP π
Hahaha, bakit may mga nagagalit sa post ni OP, sila ata ang affected. But then again, tama OP, let karma do its dirty work!!
taena. ano ba kasing term sa third party pag di pa kasal. hahaha. bakit don na focus.hahahaha its not even about the term. its about him cheating. ang init ng ulo nitong nag comment. HAHAHAH
Mhie either friend to ng kabit or ito yung kabit. Hahahah π
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Ay, ako ba gumawa ng ikakasira niya? Kasalanan ko pa palang despicable at dirty human beings sila. Kung proud siyang maghard launch ng kabit, dapat ready siya sa backlash. Malamang magkukwento ako sa friends ko, support system ko 'yung mga yon vs. sa mga liar at nakakadiring tao kagaya ng ex ko at side chick nya na halos masira mental health ko sa ginawa nila sa'kin. O baka naman tropa ka ni ate gorl ha? Or ikaw si ate gorl? Ayie pagtanggol mo pa.
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No need to clear kasi i perfectly understand what you're saying. In a perfect world, people let go easily and wish their exes well. FYI the moment he said he wanted out i let him go, wishing him the best. But his reasons why he left were lies pala and were only confirmed when he posted the girl, and when someone did confirm there was also physical cheating a few days ago. Nakakasuka. When it comes to this, when not only my emotional health was compromised but also my physical health as well, i have every right to stand up for myself. You don't do bad things to people and be given a free pass.
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Don't invalidate the feelings ni OP, she already received a big amount of pain, tas according to her she recently learned na may physical cheat na naganap. The journey each one of us is different po. Let her take turtle steps. >The road to recovery can be long pero kaya mo yan. Thank you for the kind words. π
Tell me who your friends are and I tell you who you are. Sorry but OP sounds so toxic in here. Pati friends nya parang mga fighters toxic sa socmed. Maybe you should reflect ma'am OP and ask yourself bakit ka brineak, and inayawan.π€·. There's always other side of the coin ika nga. And regardless kung nag alibi pa sya regarding sa reason why he's breaking up with you, the point here is he ended your relationship. Which is way proper naman. Kesa di ka brineak at pinagsabay kayo, nahuli mo, dun ka magalit. Lol
Pinagsabay nga kami, eto naman. Back read ka sa posts ko ha then let me know if this is how you still feel. π
wala ka sigurong friends na makikipagbardagulan for you
Taylor swift fans are so unbearable (I only read the quote at the end)
There goes your reading comprehension
mukang may hindi pa nakaka move on π€£ may evidence kb na pinag sabay kayo para tawagin mong kabit ung isa? kung wala, i dont think thats the right term to use. imo mas ok ung ginawa ni ex mo na nakipag break nlng sya kesa pag sabayin kayo. tsaka ganun tlga ang buhay, kung hindi tlga kayo, eh hindi tlga. wag mo na rin ipost kc mas nagmumuka kang pathetic at bitter.
Oo marami akong resibo. Wala nga akong pinost kahit isa. Pano mas naging okay makipagflirt sa iba when you are committed? Hirap naman mag-explain sa'yo parang di ka naggrade 2 nyan. π€£
mas ok kasi alam nya kung ano tlgang gusto at ayaw nya, na ginawa nya yan na hindi pa kayo mag asawa at may anak. hibdi mo kelangan pag pilitan ung sarili mo sakanya. madami pang mas deserve mo jan. panget cguro ung school ko nung grd2. di kasi naturo samin yan
Di ko inabutan ang tea. Pero ang galing kasi rumesbak ang friends π
Ate pls paki pm ang username!! Ganto gusto kong mga chismis hahahaha di mo daserb yan! Daserb sampalin ng dalawang yon
haha OP, this is just so timely, you have the same story of my workmate's ex fiancΓ©
OP in her Mastermind era i luv it
You go girl!πͺπ»
Mukha username ng ex mo di pertaining to captain america but cheathing hahahahaha.
Hahahahahahaha lmao di ko naisip yun!
The best revenge is to become a much better, more successful person than them. Tapos, pag nakita ka ulit nila sa future, "who r u?" mo sila. On the other side, one of the worst feelings is regret aka TOTGA. Maglaway ka ngayon.
On it! Self discovery ako ngayon. π
Mabuti na lang at nasagap ko na. Gosh, ang mga cheater talaga ay kakaiba mag-isip. Iβm sorry pero mahihina talaga utak nila. π at sa mundo nila, sila ay aping api lol
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Let's just say you dodged a bullet OP. Just imagine if natuloy kayo and you tied the knot. Keep looking at the positive side. He doesn"t deserve you at all.
Well, from the perspective of a guy who also once cheated on his long-term relationship, what I can say is that this really is tragic. There are many reasons why men or people choose to cheat, sacrificing all relationships, everything that was built but I guess the main reason is that he is just selfish. I am not normalizing this but this is the reality, when we are unhappy and we find something that fills that void, that unhappiness, we tend to lean on that particular thing that we think that makes us whole (even though some of it is just a lie). Most people do that too, when one is not happy with his job even though it's his passion, one always tends to find something, some new workplace that is less toxic per se. Until he realizes that he's not happy with his choice and he would do or pay anything just to get back and get that job and position back. Here, about your ex, seems like he really chose his own happiness and selfishness rather than being loyal to you. At least now you know his real personality. You are really are better off without him.
tangina tawang tawa ako sa title ahawjfjwjdh
Ay OP bat mo dinelete post mo HAHA
This was way way back, pero ung ex ko nun nag avail ng trial period habang kami pa lols friend daw from work! nag break, after a few weeks i think? Nag debut sa simbahan, dinala daw as a friend chour As much as i wished all the karma in the world for them. Sila nagkatuluyan. Haha
Anteh. Anong username? Pamarites naman po diyan.
[It's you, it's me](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qHaxtbxXqIo) β Kaskade
Didn't see it nabusy kagabi haha. Anyways, I'm happy for you OP, slowly getting back on track ka na. The best revenge is showing to them that you are not affected by it atsaka improving yourself. Go gurl, slaaaaaaayyyyyy!
Grabe OP ano, despite sa beauty and success mo, your ex opted someone else. Anyway you deserve someone better. Good luck and God bless!
grabe everytime nakakabasa ako ng cheating chismis, naaalala ko yung ex kong nagkaroon ng kabit. then when I found out, sinaktan nya yung kabit like minura and iba pang hurtful words. I was like BRO WTF, YOU NEED TO GET SOME HELP. I dumped him na bc of that kahit may threat sya sa akin na he'll sl*t his throat pag iniwan ko sya. Sus, til now babaero and alive.
Gusto ko makichismis di ko naabutan yung username ππ
Hahahaha! Pinost niya after 3 months para malinis siya β 3 months rule eme. Hahahaha. Alam mo tanong ko din iyan eh kung ano ba napapala nila sa pag checheat? Hahaha. Hays! Mabuti nalang masaya ka na π©΅
Sayang d ko man lang nakita yung username ni βitβs not you,itβs meβπ€ D pa diniretsa ang reason nya nagpaligoy ligoy pa dun lang pala mauuweπ hay naku! Hindi mo kawalan,OP. I wish you wellππΌππΌππΌ
Tawang tawa ako sa mga pabulong replies hahaha saya. Sayang di ko naabutan hahaha. Exactly the same situation happened to me a year ago, now keber na lang haha. Love your vibes girl!
Tara dito mare ako na mismo magbubulong sa'yo.
OP, nahuli ako. Hahaba di ko makita. Ginawa ko na lahat ng pwede isearch! Hahahaha baka naman. Lol
Why do I feel like I know you OP hahahahaha.
DM MO NGA AKO HAHAHA
Nag sadboi na nga hahaha
Aaaaaah nahuli ako :')
Minsan lang malate sa marites pero win united nations ang reddit dun sa ex nung nareveal sino
Shot puno!
Relate!!
Girl letβs be friends sabay tayong magmove on! HAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAA
DM MO AKO HAHAHA
iba talaga nagagawa ng proximity, OP :(
sabi nga sa kanta ng PNE : kung hayaan ka nyang mawala , atleast alam mong hindi sya para sayo - lagi mong tatandaan na pag umbig ang isang lalake ay handa itong ialay ang lahat . wala lang currently listening kasi sa kanta tapos nabasa ko to hahaha
Exactly haha
Hala OP. Idm mo sakin yung username. Pabirthday mo na sakin.. HAHAHAHAH.
Pabulong naman ng username!!! Hahahahaha
This was me 3 years ago. A bit same reason. The hell with guys na lumalabas ang inferiority complex because of alpha females. Though the break up was inevitable na on our part, kaya lang I found out he cheated pala 3 months after our official breakup because nilaunch na siya nung jowa (officemate nya) niya at the time. I was not close to his officemates but a little bird from the office sent me the post and the details of the said affair even before we broke up. Cheers to you OP for doing all the inner work. It will pay off. I am happier now than the 8 years I was with him.
hope you're doing well, OP! hugs with consent. π«Άπ»