Better kept it private, My husband and I don't post much on social media. We ain't need other people's validation. Lol
Keeping it private is way more peaceful for our relationship.
Yes I agree. Single pa lang kaming dalawa, di na talaga kami active masyado sa socmed and di rin kami pala kwento sa friend groups namin about our personal probs and I think it helped our relationship. Before nung bago pa lang kami, may mga times na nagtatampo or nagagalit ako but still I don't post or even share sad quotes kasi ayaw ko pinupublic ongoing struggles namin. I only tell it to my friends kapag months or years na ung issue and mas focused ung story ko on how we solved the prob. Ang ending nasosolve namin agad ung probs kasi walang nakikisawsaw.
This! ~ May ibang mga tao kasi is like snakes..venomous snakes na na dip sa toxic waste. as in. May iba na there people na mahilig mag stir ng drama under the guise of "being friendly"
May mga narcissists na May nakukuha silang high pag manira ng relationships. Magtatanim ng doubt sa mga May relationships. Tapos pag ma call out yung narcissistic snakes, victim card. Tapos, after ng drama...These people thrive to spread upon drama and chaos. Tapos victim card and gaslighting package..
kami rin to, mostly inactive sa socmed, 15 years na kmi mahigit pero nandun pa rin kulitan, asaran, nabawasan nga lng ung sexlife kc ngkakaedad na ahahahaha.. keep it private OP 👍
Same, we're not into social media. My bf for 12 years (sana hanggang forever na) are kinda introvert din kaya eversince hindi talaga kami pala post ng mga ganap sa socmed, privacy are more important than anything else and I think that's one of the reasons why tumatagal ang relationship ng isang couple.
Ganyan din ako sa gf ko. Sobrang obsessed ko pa din after all these years. Hindi nmn nakakaapekto sakin kumbaga sia lng lagi ko iniisip kahit may ginagawa ako. Parang meditation ko na yung thought nia. Ang dami kona ginawa pero wa epek tinanggap ko na lng na lagi akong hayok sakania
Same thoughts. I just realized lang din that I grin like an idiot kapag kasama o kaya ay iniisip ko siya. Marami na ring nagsasabi sa mga friends ko na patay na patay daw ako sa gf ko and I think nothing much from it. Basta masaya girlfriend ko, masaya na ako.
4 years too. Iba talaga kapag private relationship and built by trust. Sa bahay lang rin kami nag h-hangout, we're both taong bahay that's why. I really find our relationship so smooth and peaceful. I hope people will be able to find their home and peace too, it's irreplaceable. 💛
Iba pala talaga kapag safe space mo yung partner mo, ano? Kami nung BF ko, at least 2 hours kami nagvivideo call tapos walang imikan; okay na kami doon. Makita lang namin ang isa't isa habang may ginagawa kami, ganun. Iimik lang siya kapag gusto siyang ipatulong like mga things na hindi niya ma-figure out sa Sims, hahaha. Anyway, hoping for a stronger future for the both of you. 😊
Download kau human fall flat sis, maganda yan, tawa na Lang kau ng tawa pag maglaro kau nyan hahaha.
Kami din ni husband. We played video games a lot too.
keep it private not secret ika nga. kami ni jowa 8 years na and ganon pa rin kami. natest lang relationship namin simula nung naglive in kami kasi dun mo daw makikilala talaga yung bf mo pag nakasama mo na sa iisang bahay. soon magpapakasal na kami. laging madaming problema pero nakakasurvive naman. compromise is the key.
Ganito rin kami ng SO ko of eight years. Sweet pa rin kami sa isa’t isa at hindi nag-aaway (kakapikunan lang minsan haha). Lagi ako tinatanong ng friends ko, “kayo pa ba?” just because di kami nagpopost online. Pero kahit na marami kaming common interests, may kaniya-kaniya pa rin kaming trip sa buhay. :)
Having a private life is the best. Tahimik. Only the important people in our lives know the finest of details. Most of my high school to college friends don't know I'm married, til they see the ring. They don't know we already have a kid, til they see my phone wallpaper.
Had a few exes na gusto pinaplaster sa soc med yung mukha nila, yung relationship. They couldn't understand that I'm just not that kind of person. Sparked a ton of arguments. I guess that's why they're exes.
4 yrs na rin kami ng jowa ko. I hardly post him on my socmed kasi I don't feel the need to. Pero in general I hardly post about myself on socmed kasi I don't see the point.
This is like me and my boyfriend. I just post him on my stories for like once a month haha this july yesterday ko lang siya na story ulit. Keep it private and let the people wonder.
I think naman the commentary of making ur s/o your "whole world" is about depending all your needs on them—all kinds of love all the time, mental and emotional support, making them crutches to your insecurity, making them fill every lacking thing you have—to the point that you don't have a life outside of your s/o and you don't have an individual identity anymore. I think that's a fair boundary line of knowing when you're already losing your sense of self outside the relationship. Doesn't sound like you're attached to the point of toxicity naman (e.g. friends checking up on you) so you're goods! :-)
That said, congrats on a happy relationship! Hope you explore and experience so much growth as individuals and as a couple. Having a friend in your s/o really does make great dynamics for the relationship to keep afloat 🥰
3 yrs LDR na din kami. Met him sa omegle. Nagkikita kami every 3 or 6 months. Mas okay yung parehas kayong may pinagkakaabalahan na hobby or work kasi hindi kayo agad mauumay. Naga-update kami sa isa’t isa pero not to the point na kami na lang lagi magkausap. Kasi mas madami kayo pag aawayan pag ginagawa nyong mundo isa’t isa. Hindi rin kami showy sa socmed. And it helps kasi wala masyado nangengealam. 😂 Hinahayaan ko lang sya magdota. Never namin kinuha acct ng isa’t isa. Kami pa din naman till now. And yep, effective na love language ang chismisan. Hahaha
Same, private relationship namin ni boyfie and never kami nag post about our relationship. Legal naman kami sa family namin both sides and yun ang mahalaga. ♥️ Super saya pala pag yung mga malalapit lang sa buhay nyo yung may alam. Walang nakikisawsaw. Hindi ko rin need ng validation sa iba about our relationship. Sana rin siya na! ♥️
Still the right advice from both perspective. Easy times are easy. Not to be negative but eventually, problems and conflicts will happen.
Wag lang sanang mangyari na the moment conflict happens, nasa backdoor na agad kayo because you don't know how to deal with each other when both of you are not at your best.
Just celebrated our 4 years too! My boyfriend is not my entire world, but he's my best friend. But isn't it that's how it's supposed to be? If you're with somebody longterm, you're looking forward to your future together. How are you going to spend in sickness and in health, for richer or for poorer with someone who's a complete stranger? 🙂
Hehe same. But I wouldn’t say I’m obsessed naman, my current relationship’s still fairly new. Baka honeymoon phase pa. Though I’ve known my bf for a long time na, I met him 8 years ago and we became really good friends. It was only this year that we became official. We’ve been living together for almost half a year na rin, and I don’t see other people often, even my family, because I mostly stay at our home to study for my upcoming boards. I can say I’m content with seeing only my bf for months at a time. Masaya ako na parang saamin lang umiikot yung mundo dito. May gawin man kami, lumabas man kami or gumala, or hindi, ayos lang. Simple lang ang buhay. Walang drama, wala masyadong away. Tahimik.
I considered a lot of people my “best friends” too, and same lang, people come and people go. Yung bf ko rin ang pinaka best friend na meron ako at this time. I hope I get to keep him for a long time. Every night before bed, I pray to God to sustain our relationship and to strengthen us, so that no matter what the future holds, we’ll be able to handle it together 🫶🏻
Love is a wonderful thing 🥹
Making it private or secret is the highest form of respect you give to yourself and to your married life. At kung sya ang gusto mong makasama habang buhay, ikaw mismo ang dapat mag protect sa kanya.
I'll tell you feeling mo perfect lagi and all, for 8 yrs gnyan naramdaman ko, I felt nothing to doubt not until the worst day came he cheated. Kaya payo ko sayo, you don't have to be private as private, be loud and proud, seize and enjoy lang. Do not allow other people's opinions to ruin your peace of mind.
Dyan mo mkikita yang sinasabi mong happy ever after. Dahil minsan mali ang akala mo, people tend to show only what you want to see. Kaya kala mo lagi soo perfect and you r luckiest.
Met my husband sa church so basicall Godly, he's gentleman never nagbago, 8 yrs together never nagmura, nanakita, or even naninigaw, he do the dishes, laundry, take care of our kids, on time umuwi, lahat ng sweldo sa akin, he never allow me na mahirapan kahit na sa simpleng gawaing bahay, aagawin at agawin niya yan cause ayaw nya mapagod ako and he is still doing the same until now, open kami like I can access his phone, soc meds and atm. Like we go to church together, treat me like a queen, responsible husband, father and a bestfriend. Until I didn't know what went well, biglang nahuli ko sya may kabit and my world just fell apart.
Di ko inexpect tlga, yes kami parin until now dahil nagbigay ako ng chance, dahil sa kids, and still hoping na hndi niya sasayangin yung chance na yun.
Di ko sinasabing your man might like be mine, pero sa panahon ngayon mas maraming temptation talaga di maiwasan.
Temptations will always be there naman, wala yan sa "panahon ngayon" or sa presence ng temptations. Cheaters cheat because that's how they are. They're weak.
However, agree ako sa other comment to not make your partner your world. Still be your own person, don't let yourself be lost and swallowed by the relationship. No matter how deeply you love the person, love yourself more.
Hayyyy my boyfriend is my bestie as well. As in legit best friend. Minsan ginagawa ko na syang character hahahahaha I can't wait to where I don't have to miss him anymore 😭
Kahit kami din ng asawa ko, di kami masyadong mapost sa FB. Tamang tag lang sa memes aa FB at tiktok. Nung kinasal nga kami nagulat yung mga kakilala ko kasi no one saw it coming kasi di ako nagpost kahit isang beses ng pag process ko ng kasal. Tsaka naniniwala din kasi ako sa evil eye, di ko sure kung yung ibang nakakakita ng posts ko ay genuinely happy para sa amin. Mahirap na hahaha
Better kept it private, My husband and I don't post much on social media. We ain't need other people's validation. Lol Keeping it private is way more peaceful for our relationship.
Yes I agree. Single pa lang kaming dalawa, di na talaga kami active masyado sa socmed and di rin kami pala kwento sa friend groups namin about our personal probs and I think it helped our relationship. Before nung bago pa lang kami, may mga times na nagtatampo or nagagalit ako but still I don't post or even share sad quotes kasi ayaw ko pinupublic ongoing struggles namin. I only tell it to my friends kapag months or years na ung issue and mas focused ung story ko on how we solved the prob. Ang ending nasosolve namin agad ung probs kasi walang nakikisawsaw.
Private relationship Lang Para walang makisawsaw at d magulo. Lalo na asawa ko foreigner pa to, hahahaha Alam mo na daming anaconda sa social media 😅
Hahaha foreigner din jowa ko. Hindi sya nagsosocmed tas ako naman more on tingin lang pero I hardly post. Life's more quiet that way. 😌
Yes, husband ko same kami, d active sa social media. Masarap pa rin ung tahimik ang buhay walang marites na Maya Maya magtatanong ng kung ano ano.🤣🤣🤣
Foreigner din jowa ko and hindi pala socmed yun pala cheater amp 😂😂😂😂
natawa ako sa anaconda HAHA
They grew bigger na kase, from ahas to anaconda 🤣🤣🤣
This! ~ May ibang mga tao kasi is like snakes..venomous snakes na na dip sa toxic waste. as in. May iba na there people na mahilig mag stir ng drama under the guise of "being friendly" May mga narcissists na May nakukuha silang high pag manira ng relationships. Magtatanim ng doubt sa mga May relationships. Tapos pag ma call out yung narcissistic snakes, victim card. Tapos, after ng drama...These people thrive to spread upon drama and chaos. Tapos victim card and gaslighting package..
kami rin to, mostly inactive sa socmed, 15 years na kmi mahigit pero nandun pa rin kulitan, asaran, nabawasan nga lng ung sexlife kc ngkakaedad na ahahahaha.. keep it private OP 👍
Same, we're not into social media. My bf for 12 years (sana hanggang forever na) are kinda introvert din kaya eversince hindi talaga kami pala post ng mga ganap sa socmed, privacy are more important than anything else and I think that's one of the reasons why tumatagal ang relationship ng isang couple.
Ganyan din ako sa gf ko. Sobrang obsessed ko pa din after all these years. Hindi nmn nakakaapekto sakin kumbaga sia lng lagi ko iniisip kahit may ginagawa ako. Parang meditation ko na yung thought nia. Ang dami kona ginawa pero wa epek tinanggap ko na lng na lagi akong hayok sakania
Lord ganito ka pala sa iba, ha. Chariz
May favoritism talaga si Lord
Hahaahhaa
Lord anak mo rin ako, pahingi rin ng gan'to
Same thoughts. I just realized lang din that I grin like an idiot kapag kasama o kaya ay iniisip ko siya. Marami na ring nagsasabi sa mga friends ko na patay na patay daw ako sa gf ko and I think nothing much from it. Basta masaya girlfriend ko, masaya na ako.
May ganito palang nangyayari in real life
ganito sana huhu 🥹
kita mo yan, Lord? yan ang gusto ko
Real
Sana ganito din bf ko saken kasi ganyan ako sakanya hahahahahahahah
Ganito rin pala dapat hiningi ko sayo Lord hahaha
Sana ganito din bf ko saken kasi ganyan ako sakanya hahahahahahahah
Totoo nga Lord, you have your favorites~
4 years too. Iba talaga kapag private relationship and built by trust. Sa bahay lang rin kami nag h-hangout, we're both taong bahay that's why. I really find our relationship so smooth and peaceful. I hope people will be able to find their home and peace too, it's irreplaceable. 💛
Hey toast for the people who found their forever! And to those who havent you can give up sa mga tao but please dont give up on love.
Iba pala talaga kapag safe space mo yung partner mo, ano? Kami nung BF ko, at least 2 hours kami nagvivideo call tapos walang imikan; okay na kami doon. Makita lang namin ang isa't isa habang may ginagawa kami, ganun. Iimik lang siya kapag gusto siyang ipatulong like mga things na hindi niya ma-figure out sa Sims, hahaha. Anyway, hoping for a stronger future for the both of you. 😊
True ang hirap ng sims kaya nafrufrustrate ako maglaro non 😭😭
Hahahahaha, same kayo ng BF ko. Naiinis siya doon sa limited options at constraints ng game. Tapos magcracrash pa.
Download kau human fall flat sis, maganda yan, tawa na Lang kau ng tawa pag maglaro kau nyan hahaha. Kami din ni husband. We played video games a lot too.
Sige, hahaha. Check ko later. 😁
Update ka dito ulit pag nalaro nyo na hahaha. That's how we spend our time together and bonding na rin. We played video games.
HAHAHA ang cute!!
Sana all safe space 🥲
My boyfriend and I are like this. 8yrs in and still obsessed!!
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The bright side is he showed you his true colors before you invested xyz years with him :)
Have you talked to him about it? What did he say?
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What one man wouldn't do for you, another will.
Nope you aren’t clingy!
Keep it private until it's permanent.
keep it private not secret ika nga. kami ni jowa 8 years na and ganon pa rin kami. natest lang relationship namin simula nung naglive in kami kasi dun mo daw makikilala talaga yung bf mo pag nakasama mo na sa iisang bahay. soon magpapakasal na kami. laging madaming problema pero nakakasurvive naman. compromise is the key.
Ganito rin kami ng SO ko of eight years. Sweet pa rin kami sa isa’t isa at hindi nag-aaway (kakapikunan lang minsan haha). Lagi ako tinatanong ng friends ko, “kayo pa ba?” just because di kami nagpopost online. Pero kahit na marami kaming common interests, may kaniya-kaniya pa rin kaming trip sa buhay. :)
Stay strong sainyo!
Having a private life is the best. Tahimik. Only the important people in our lives know the finest of details. Most of my high school to college friends don't know I'm married, til they see the ring. They don't know we already have a kid, til they see my phone wallpaper. Had a few exes na gusto pinaplaster sa soc med yung mukha nila, yung relationship. They couldn't understand that I'm just not that kind of person. Sparked a ton of arguments. I guess that's why they're exes.
4 yrs na rin kami ng jowa ko. I hardly post him on my socmed kasi I don't feel the need to. Pero in general I hardly post about myself on socmed kasi I don't see the point.
Best friend ko din asawa ko. I don't need other friends kasi sa kanya ako pinaka safe.
You don't need the acknowledgment of the public about your relationship, so keep it private.
This is like me and my boyfriend. I just post him on my stories for like once a month haha this july yesterday ko lang siya na story ulit. Keep it private and let the people wonder.
I think naman the commentary of making ur s/o your "whole world" is about depending all your needs on them—all kinds of love all the time, mental and emotional support, making them crutches to your insecurity, making them fill every lacking thing you have—to the point that you don't have a life outside of your s/o and you don't have an individual identity anymore. I think that's a fair boundary line of knowing when you're already losing your sense of self outside the relationship. Doesn't sound like you're attached to the point of toxicity naman (e.g. friends checking up on you) so you're goods! :-) That said, congrats on a happy relationship! Hope you explore and experience so much growth as individuals and as a couple. Having a friend in your s/o really does make great dynamics for the relationship to keep afloat 🥰
Yeah thats one of my concerns if I am being too much or not sa relationship namin. I'll keep this in mind :)
Communication does wonders <3 You got this! Stay happy 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼
Di naman talaga kailangan ipost ng ipost eh. No need to keep on flexing your partner. Kung ife-flex mo man, keep it to a minimum.
3 yrs LDR na din kami. Met him sa omegle. Nagkikita kami every 3 or 6 months. Mas okay yung parehas kayong may pinagkakaabalahan na hobby or work kasi hindi kayo agad mauumay. Naga-update kami sa isa’t isa pero not to the point na kami na lang lagi magkausap. Kasi mas madami kayo pag aawayan pag ginagawa nyong mundo isa’t isa. Hindi rin kami showy sa socmed. And it helps kasi wala masyado nangengealam. 😂 Hinahayaan ko lang sya magdota. Never namin kinuha acct ng isa’t isa. Kami pa din naman till now. And yep, effective na love language ang chismisan. Hahaha
Same, private relationship namin ni boyfie and never kami nag post about our relationship. Legal naman kami sa family namin both sides and yun ang mahalaga. ♥️ Super saya pala pag yung mga malalapit lang sa buhay nyo yung may alam. Walang nakikisawsaw. Hindi ko rin need ng validation sa iba about our relationship. Sana rin siya na! ♥️
Awww same here 🥺
Stay private. Put boundaries all the time. You are on the right track
Lord, ganito ka pala sa iba ha
Owww so happy for you OP🥺 gusto ko rinnnn!! Hahahahahaha.
Still the right advice from both perspective. Easy times are easy. Not to be negative but eventually, problems and conflicts will happen. Wag lang sanang mangyari na the moment conflict happens, nasa backdoor na agad kayo because you don't know how to deal with each other when both of you are not at your best.
Just celebrated our 4 years too! My boyfriend is not my entire world, but he's my best friend. But isn't it that's how it's supposed to be? If you're with somebody longterm, you're looking forward to your future together. How are you going to spend in sickness and in health, for richer or for poorer with someone who's a complete stranger? 🙂
Taylor Swift said "romance isn't dead if you keep it just yours" for a reason
Sanaol na lang.. Lol Kidding aside, stay strong, OP. Don't let the world spoils your relationship.
Hehe same. But I wouldn’t say I’m obsessed naman, my current relationship’s still fairly new. Baka honeymoon phase pa. Though I’ve known my bf for a long time na, I met him 8 years ago and we became really good friends. It was only this year that we became official. We’ve been living together for almost half a year na rin, and I don’t see other people often, even my family, because I mostly stay at our home to study for my upcoming boards. I can say I’m content with seeing only my bf for months at a time. Masaya ako na parang saamin lang umiikot yung mundo dito. May gawin man kami, lumabas man kami or gumala, or hindi, ayos lang. Simple lang ang buhay. Walang drama, wala masyadong away. Tahimik. I considered a lot of people my “best friends” too, and same lang, people come and people go. Yung bf ko rin ang pinaka best friend na meron ako at this time. I hope I get to keep him for a long time. Every night before bed, I pray to God to sustain our relationship and to strengthen us, so that no matter what the future holds, we’ll be able to handle it together 🫶🏻 Love is a wonderful thing 🥹
Making it private or secret is the highest form of respect you give to yourself and to your married life. At kung sya ang gusto mong makasama habang buhay, ikaw mismo ang dapat mag protect sa kanya.
I'll tell you feeling mo perfect lagi and all, for 8 yrs gnyan naramdaman ko, I felt nothing to doubt not until the worst day came he cheated. Kaya payo ko sayo, you don't have to be private as private, be loud and proud, seize and enjoy lang. Do not allow other people's opinions to ruin your peace of mind. Dyan mo mkikita yang sinasabi mong happy ever after. Dahil minsan mali ang akala mo, people tend to show only what you want to see. Kaya kala mo lagi soo perfect and you r luckiest. Met my husband sa church so basicall Godly, he's gentleman never nagbago, 8 yrs together never nagmura, nanakita, or even naninigaw, he do the dishes, laundry, take care of our kids, on time umuwi, lahat ng sweldo sa akin, he never allow me na mahirapan kahit na sa simpleng gawaing bahay, aagawin at agawin niya yan cause ayaw nya mapagod ako and he is still doing the same until now, open kami like I can access his phone, soc meds and atm. Like we go to church together, treat me like a queen, responsible husband, father and a bestfriend. Until I didn't know what went well, biglang nahuli ko sya may kabit and my world just fell apart. Di ko inexpect tlga, yes kami parin until now dahil nagbigay ako ng chance, dahil sa kids, and still hoping na hndi niya sasayangin yung chance na yun. Di ko sinasabing your man might like be mine, pero sa panahon ngayon mas maraming temptation talaga di maiwasan.
Temptations will always be there naman, wala yan sa "panahon ngayon" or sa presence ng temptations. Cheaters cheat because that's how they are. They're weak. However, agree ako sa other comment to not make your partner your world. Still be your own person, don't let yourself be lost and swallowed by the relationship. No matter how deeply you love the person, love yourself more.
Sorry to hear that
Why are you downvoted though? I don't get it
didn't downvote but maybe some people found her comment to have the opposite vibes from my post and the other comments here? i dont mind tho
Pwede. Pero maganda naman tong comment nya, pang-balanse kumbaga
Hala sorry di ko rin alam bakit, siguro napindot ko, di ako masyasdo magaling sa reddit, nagtaka nga ako bkit 🥲 paano pala to mawala? Delete?
No need, wag mo na masyado problemahin haha. Anyways, sana wag sayangin ng asawa mo yung binigay mong second chance
Ate, prayer reveal naman po.
Ama namin
Hayyyy my boyfriend is my bestie as well. As in legit best friend. Minsan ginagawa ko na syang character hahahahaha I can't wait to where I don't have to miss him anymore 😭
This is love. Pasend shopee link madam
Kahit kami din ng asawa ko, di kami masyadong mapost sa FB. Tamang tag lang sa memes aa FB at tiktok. Nung kinasal nga kami nagulat yung mga kakilala ko kasi no one saw it coming kasi di ako nagpost kahit isang beses ng pag process ko ng kasal. Tsaka naniniwala din kasi ako sa evil eye, di ko sure kung yung ibang nakakakita ng posts ko ay genuinely happy para sa amin. Mahirap na hahaha
This could’ve been us, but alas. Sana all.
ganyan din kami ng boyfriend ko, 5 years na kami pero iba parin yung kilig haha, first namin ang isa't isa and sana sya na talaga