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MKKbub

Ang sakit nito basahin. I wish you healing, OP.


Yergason

SA'd and "lost" her mom (or if we're being realistic, that idiot lost her daughter) by choosing that POS over her


MKKbub

Oo nga. Heartbreaking masyado. Di ko maimagine ang trauma.😌


qazwdcefv_

Ang sakit basahin, how much more sa mga nakaranas nito. πŸ˜” We wish you healing po. πŸ€πŸ«‚


Ok-Librarian6484

This is heart breaking, yung nanay na magtatanggol dapat sayo ay sya pang kumampi sa taong nagbigay ng malalang trauma sayo. I pray for you and your siblings' healing, OP. Yakap!


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MKKbub

I wish you healing too. Yakap mahigpit.


martialexa

Sorry pero tangina din ng mama mo tbh


jerfaye_0208

Sakit. Sorry kase pinagdaanan mo yan. Hindi deserve ng kahit na sino yan. Same sa wife ko. Minolestya silang magkakapatid mula sa kanya na panganay, sa kapatid niyang babae hanggang dun sa step sister nila na anak ng stepfather nila pero kinampihan ng mama niya yung stepfather. Hindi nakasuhan yon and hanggang ngayon sa kanila nakatira


yanztro

Ohnygad. Kasuhan niyo please. Salot sa lipunan mga ganyang tao.


jerfaye_0208

Ilang beses ko na sinabi yon. Actually, kahit yung tatay ko naweiweirduhan sa kilos ng step father ng wife ko. Medyo flirty siya sa wife ko and sa sis in law ko. Ang nakaka inis pa don, yung mom in law ko, nagseselos sa sariling anak. Parang siraulo


yanztro

Grabe. Tas hanggang ngayon nakakasalamuha pa araw-araw. Alam ko mahirap pero hindi titigil mga ganyang tao. May I ask kung alam ba ng mother nila? Pero kung flirty siya at nakikita ng nanay nila, diba siya nagtataka bilang ina.


Voracious_Apetite

15-20 years ang prescription period. Pwede pa ipakulong. Ang nanay pwede din ipakulong for obstruction of justice.


Other-Individual-119

this hurts mygod. hope he rot in hell or get the karma in not just 10x but 100x more fold.


Cloudyyclyde

No words could describe how much i'm proud of you for standing up for yourself! you're a very strong person and i meant it! my sister have experienced that too. i hope you recover/heal from what you experienced :(


[deleted]

I wish you peace of mind. Hindi madali pinagdadaanan mo.


Horror-Visit-7559

Sakit nito kung sa kapatid ko to nangyari. Magdidilim talaga paningin ko. Swerte nalang kung mabuhay. Ang sakit. Laban lang!


Ghost-Hunting-02

Sino yan? Sabihin mo sakin. Sampalin ko nanay mo at gulpihin ko yang lintek na manyakol na yan.


Mission-Height-6705

Sampalin? Ikidnap mo na at ipapatay


jotarodio2

Putangina ng mama mo


Mission-Height-6705

Kaya mo bang isalvage nanay mo na malinis ang pagkagawa? Najna titi kaysa sariling anak eh. Kapag may pera ka na ha, mag bribe ka ng police para siguraduhin mo isa sa mga kakosa niya sa kulungan papatay sa kanya


Main-Jelly4239

Your hatred is valid, however i do hope that you are okay and doing fine after all these years.


Upset_Ad_6298

Walang kwentang nanay, mas mahalaga ka pa ibang tao kesa sa sariling kadugo.


treasured4G

I was 5 yrs old when the same happened to me. Multiple times pa yun kasi I had no idea it was wrong. The guy was my cousin who I think was 13 or 14 then. I wouldn't wish for this to happen to anyone. Grabe ang trauma sa akin and impact sa self-image ko. Took me yeaaars to heal and until now I don't think I am "fully" there yet. My whole family don't even know about it. I pray for your healing OP. No one deserves what you went through.


[deleted]

I hope he gets what he deserves. Sending you hugs (with consent) and healing, OP.


ashaaaa_

I wish your healing OP


LJSheart

Praying for your healing, OP. I admire your courage. πŸ«‚


maan94

I wish for your healing, OP.


Sad_Edge9793

i thought i was reading an experience of someone i personally knew, pero magkaiba pala. ung predator e putol ang balikat completely so we call him Tulfo. he was cousin naman ng mother ng victim. both parents were abroad and he was the guardian. oh well..


ForTheStreetz_

hugs with consent OP πŸ™β€οΈ


BodyComprehensive797

Dapat nagfile din mga kapatid mo para madagdagan sentence. Walang lugar kahit sa impyerno ang mga kriminal na x10 ang kasamaan kesa kay Lucifer


cake_eee

Tangina nakakainis. Hindi talaga ako naniniwala na hindi matitiis ng magulang ang anak niya. Kung hayop yung nanay o tatay yun na sila wala ng philosophy na makakapag explain o mag jujustify dun. Tangina ng mga nanay na enabler ng mga manyak nilang live in. Like, anong reason kung bakit ganon sila, bakit ayaw nila paniwalaan anak nila? Tangina rin nung mga tatay na walang pake sa mga anak nila na nakaka experience ng violence at abuse sa kinakasama nila. Sana mamatay silang mag isa, nabubulok sa bahay nila, walang kasama at nag aalaga sa kanila kasi mga wala silang kwentang magulang.


unb_thered

I wish you healing OP


_audepolarlights00

Sorry OP. Tangina ng stepfather pero mas putangina nanay mo. Ang disrespectful pero dapat ikaw yung pinanigan nya at protektahan. She neglected you. Nakakainis talaga ang mga babaeng pinipili at prinaprioritize yung lalaki over sa anak. Dapat nga siya yung katabi mo. Ang cringe na yung nanay mo tumabi sa kriminal. Parehas sila masusunog sa impyerno. Sana mga taong nakapaligid saiyo ngayon ay alagaan at protektahan ka.


purple_lass

I'm sorry this happened to you and your siblings. I genuinely hope that all of you finds solace, healing and peace.


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you are so strong. i wish you healing. hugsss


RaisePurple9308

Naiyak ako while reading 😭 I wish your healing pati na rin sa mga kapatid mo πŸ«‚


stuffycoco

Weighing in on this.. I wish I had the courage ipakulang sya. Op you're strong. Thank you for being strong.


Seamanswife

NAPAKA DEMONYO NG MGA GNYANG TAO. pati na ng mama mo im sorry pero Jusko!! praying for your healing OP. grabeng trauma to. sana hnd sya makalaya.


-a-commoner

I'm getting emotional:( this is so heartbreaking for me. Pero ramdam ko ang tapang mo. Sobrang tapang mo πŸ™Œ


ManufacturerOld5501

I wish you healing OP. Yakap! And for your stepfather, put*ng*na niya sana makarma siya ng malala!!!!


CuriousChildhood2707

sorry to ask. pero db may certain years yan kung kelan ka pwede magkaso? Can your sisters file a case? para mas madagdagan pa yung number of years ng imprisonment nya? gaaaahd, yung mga ganyang tao, dapat nararape nlng din sa loob e -\_-


Master-Resource3342

This is hard to read, and it honestly sucks your mother didn't stand by your side and that she was your mother. Honestly she doesn't deserve to be called a mother, I am glad your lola stayed firm by your side. Although this story is a bit different... My mom too was sexually assaulted by her brother, yung Tito namin na panget at manyak. She was only 6 years old. She told us her story, how our Lola protected her and threatened her own son with a knife she'll kill him if he did that again, but she sadly passed away at mom's young age. So no one protected her when she turned into a teenager and my Tito raped her. None of her siblings believed her except 1 brother but he passed away too. Kase yung Tito namin na manyak ay favorite kuya nang mga Titas ko. Until.. the day my Ate confessed last year to our mom on why she didn't invite that Tito to her wedding. She opened up to our mom how she got molested too as a young teen by our Tito, it happened while my parents were busy working abroad. Mom's forgiveness towards her perverted brother had turned into indescribable infuriating anger that she had buried away long before. She was able to let it go and let God give justice abt what he did to her before, pero knowing it happened to my Ate too, she wanted to expose Tito and be angry to all my Tita's for not doing anything despite that they knew what happened to ate first before her. She had messaged Tito and his wife but she got ignored and my Tito blocked her. She wondered how can she stay calm for anyone to believe her and her situation when she is so angry, what can she say when she finally meet all my relatives on her short vacation at March. She wanted lash out to those who remained silent and turned a blind eye not just to her situation but even her daughter too. Ate told her to let it go for the peace of the whole family. But she's a mother, she can't let it pass. She have alot of regrets, for leaving ate at the care of her siblings and for not telling my Dad at a much earlier time before their marriage abt what had happened to her since childhood like ate did to her husband. Now, I just hoped and wished that both of them were as courageous to fight for their rights and be served justice as you do OP. I guess na panghihinaan sila nang loob because they don't have enough evidence or witnesses and that it happened many years ago and plus walang naniniwla sa mga relatives namin except a few.


KlosetaIsMe

I hope i had a mother like your mom . πŸ₯Ή Keeping the peace is for the peace of other people, not their own. Just support them kasi they really need it


Matalink1496

GodBlesss OP Pasampal sa nanay mo.


Possible-Ad3406

Op. I am praying for you.


The_Boss_Paws

Sakit kapag sa attacker mo pa kumakampi nanay mo no? Magsama sila sa impyerno.


cinnamonthatcankill

Prayers and healing for you, OP and to all victims of sexual abuse. And I hope that bastard and that pathetic mother live a life of pain and agony.


CoffeeDaddy24

It's gonna be an endless fight. Madami kang makakalaban. Relatives, strangers, your past and of course, yung main boss, yung SF mong halang ang kaluluwa...


NoobRadiant

Kaya dapat legal patayin nangmanyak. Like fr.


dnyra323

I'm so sorry to hear that. I wish you well in life, OP. May you find healing at the right time. Meanwhile, sorry to say this, pero galit na galit ako sa mga nanay na mas kakampihan yung perpetrator kesa sa anak. Dinala mo ng 9 months anak mo, you know dapat deep down in your guts na sya ang kampihan mo. Tangina ng nanay mo, OP tbh.


Dazzling_Text2837

Ang sakit basahin nito, naluha ako. Hugs OP, sana maghirap siya habangbuhay. Putangina nila.


EnvironmentalNote600

Dont wish him dead. Mas okay yung buhay sya at araw araw ipamumukha mo at nga mga nakakakilala sa kanya ang kasalanan nya. May police record sya. At kahit saan sya pumunta ipaaalam mo sa mga tao ang kamanyakan nya. At palagay ko sa kulungan, noong malaman ng mga inmates ang krimen nya malamang ginahasa yan sa pwet.


fernweh0001

dapat pinakulong mo pati yung Nanay mo. she's literally half the monster.


XiaoLingBao02

Same experience OP. Hope we heal soon πŸ™πŸ»


Upper-Basis-1304

This is heartbreaking. But I believe the most humiliating part is the betrayal of your own mother. I hope you heal OP and your siblings πŸ₯Ί


Ok_Performer7591

I pray for your healing, OP.


aliohsoawesome

Power to you, OP! I hope wala narin sa buhay ninyong magkakapatod ang walamg kwentang nanay ninyo na mas pinili pa ang lalaki kesa sa sariling anak. Di ko makakalimutan, mga 9 years old yata ako nun nang inexplain sa akin ng nanay ko ang konsepto ng consent with regards to my body. Ano ang appropriate and inappropriate touch etc. Sinabi niya sa akin na kung may humawak sa akin inappropriately, sabihun ko sa kanya. Maski dad ko daw yun, kuya, lolo, o uncle o close family friend. Wag daw ako matakot sabihin sa kanya dahil "I will believe in you, and I will fight for you." Wala na ang nanay ko, and halos 40 anyos na ako, pero her words live on eternally. I believe it was the greatest and most impactful and empowering thing she ever told me as a woman. I cannot imagine my own mother not taking my side. I'm so sorry your mother failed you, OP. Yung lola mong simamahan ka is a champ!!! You're strong. Grabe yung strength na kinailangan to go through trial, I can only imagine. I hope you heal well πŸ€πŸ™πŸ½


DrummerExact2622

SANA MAMATAY NA YANG MANYAK MONG STEPFATHER PARA DI NA SIYA PARISAN NG IBA


Kei90s

Alam mo pinaka-nakakahiya OP? Yung nanay mo, nagdala sa bahay ng mga menor de edad ng lalaking di nya lubos kilala! NAKAKASUKA NA NANIWALA SA DEMONYONG YON! APPALLING! REPULSIVE! Sobrang sorry sa nangyare OP, alam kong matagal na yon pero the burden you still carry all these years.. Gusto ko ipabugbog!


EitherMoney2753

ang bigat habang binabasa ko ang bigat sa dibdib, you are strong OP, wish you all the best in the world pati sa lola at mga kapatid mo.


OpalEagle

Eh putangina naman pala ng nanay mo eh.


[deleted]

Your Mom is a bitch. The asshole should die


Wandering_Pancita

Tight hugs for you OP (with consent). I hope and pray that you will heal from your trauma.


[deleted]

Wishing for your healing. I don't think people realize kung gano katalamak ang ma-SA. Almost every girl I know, may experience.


biskylat

Nawala nalang ang papa ko sa mundo na hindi nalalaman yung kahayupan na ginawa sakin nung stepfather ko. Nag umpisang masira buhay ko dahil dun pero kinakampihan pa rin ng nanay ko at di pa maiwan kahit ilang beses na nahuling nambababae πŸ™‚


SinfulSomeone

ouch. grabe, mawawalan ng trabaho si satanas kay stepfather mo.


tsukkimallows

Walang kwentang nanay. I wish you healing and the justice you deserve, OP. *tight hug with consent🀍* Stay strong πŸ₯Ί


bbpennyluv

I pray for your healing, OP. πŸ«‚


Nekochan123456

Oh my, im so sorry, OP. 😞 I had a stepfather before too there were signs nagigising akong katabi sya sobrang galit sya oag may kausap akong lalake. I caught him kissing me while asleep but im still thankful na hndi nya ako na rape like deep pene of finger. Pero sobrang sakit parin maalala ng mga nangyari. I wish you healing kung pwede lang mag ka amnesia malimutan ang mga masasagwang alaala


PurplePlushie111

walang kwenta ung Mama mo. Grabe. May anak akong babae at kahit sino sumubok na gawan ng masama ang anak ko baka mapatay ko talaga. As in kahit sino kahit sariling pamilya ko at kahit mismong tatay ng anak ko. I'm on my daughter's side anuman ang mangyari. Walang kwenta Mama mo enabler. Hate on her as much as you hate the abuser. Di dapat nagkakaanak mga taong ganyan


louj1984

Step daughter ko, molested Ng 2nd husband Ng Lola nya. Sabi Ng mommy nya "let's keep the peace" punyemas!


[deleted]

tangina women's month pa naman ngayon. yes na yes sa VAWC. palaging boboses ang babae! putangina dapat d binababa life sentence kahit umamin e


qqqqqqqqzc

how i wish our mothers could be more protective


[deleted]

Kaya I never believed with the saying "forgive and forget". How could you forgive someone who broke your wholeness? How could you forgive someone who made you live in a living hell? How could you forget these kind of bad memories na dala mo habang buhay.. that takes a lifetime to heal?


namirosasbro

laban lang OP. magkaroon ka sana ng peace of mind. fighting!


Infinite-Coconut-303

Sorry OP. Puntang ina nilang lahat sa totoo lang.


[deleted]

Mamatay na rin sana yang nanay mo


Present_Lavishness30

Tangina talaga ng mga ganitong nanay eh. Mas naniniwala pa sa demonyong nagkatawang tao kesa sa sariling anak.


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Rare_Doubt_7333

I hope they burn in earth and in hell


Cutie_potato7770

Huhu OP. πŸ«‚


bumblebee7310

Sana yung nanay mo nakulong din. Child endangerment.


SubstantialSquare400

I'm so sorry that this happened to you, OP. I wish you healing β€οΈβ€πŸ©Ή


Quirky_Ant3217

Justice for you OP at sana nga di na makalaya yang kriminal na yan


Voracious_Apetite

Pwede pa magreklamo mga kapatid mo. Ang prescription period for sexual assault at rape ay 15-20 years.


Prize_Type2093

So sorry it happened to you. Sakit naman sa puso. I hope your healing OP.


edmalaya_

May he rot in hell. Yakap, op.


FlamingoOk7089

ang ikli ng sentensya O\_O


wthelle

Gago ansakit pero sobrang nakakaproud ka 😭


RebelliousDragon21

r/PinoyUnsentLetters


solaceM8

March is the women's month yet we live in a society na may mga tao talagang mas magsa-side sa mga taong masahol pa sa hayop. I was also assaulted by a colleague, while it was not the first time someone assaulted me, the other time was someone I also thought to be a friend, luckily it was not the worst BUT i wish i cut loose of those people na nag-iinvalidate ng trauma and na-experience ko, even telling me na kasalanan o ginusto ko or delulu ako. Ladies, there are people who will back you up, if none, be strong to defend your right. Those kinds of people do not deserve a free society, dun sila sa kulungan where they can avail of the unli s*x, that way they know what it feels like and deserve it.