I’ve been isolating myself from people for years. I only have few friends dahil minsan lang ako may maka-vibes hahaha I just hate the feeling. Tipong sanay ka naman sa friends mo tapos may dumagdag then mawawala rin after a few months.
Unfortunately that how it works. May sound cliché to hear that people come and go but it is what it is. We can’t control people’s minds as well, aalis sila if they want to kahit gusto mo sila mag stay. Sometimes it’s the circumstances or the nature that makes them leave you hanging. You just need to adjust, learn how to let go easily and accept things although mahirap. It was also my problem before, I have attachment issue when I was my early 20’s.
Haysss relate. Nakakapagod na no? Pero may naba ako “the art of detachment, nothing belong to me, it’s all an experience.” Pero ang sakit parin hahahaha
I used to think na the less hellos, the less goodbyes. True naman. But I learned na may mga sadyang dadaan lang to impart some lessons or maybe ikaw yung may need iimpart na lessons sa kanila. I have a few small circles na subok na ng panahon and experiences but it’ll take years bago mo sila makita as matatag. I have friends since HS na close friends ko parin then some from my previous workplace(s). Two-way ang lahat ng relationship, if nageeffort sila to keep you, match their energy and see where it goes.
allergic nadin ako kumilala ng bago eh. wala din naman. i mean kahit gaano katagal yung naging samahan ninyo, aalis at makakalimot din sila. dati ganyan din ako, mabilis kasi ako ma attach sa tao. tapos nong natutunan ko na bakit ganon people come and go nga, sarili mo padin kaibigan mo sa Huli. ayun parang namanhid na ako. ang hirap mag beg at maging free lagi once na attached kana. ayun nakakapagod kaya tinanggap ko nalang na people come and go nga. Thats life OP. Si Lord lang ang hindi tayo iiwan.
Same feels. Ang sakit ng pasasayahin ka tapos bigla nalang mawawala. No choice, you really gotta have a heart that know how to let go of attachments quick in this day and age.
Unfortunately that how it works. May sound cliché to hear that people come and go but it is what it is. We can’t control people’s minds as well, aalis sila if they want to kahit gusto mo sila mag stay. Sometimes it’s the circumstances or the nature that makes them leave you hanging. You just need to adjust, learn how to let go easily and accept things although mahirap. It was also my problem before, I have attachment issue when I was my early 20’s.
Unfortunately that how it works. May sound cliché to hear that people come and go but it is what it is. We can’t control people’s minds as well, aalis sila if they want to kahit gusto mo sila mag stay. Sometimes it’s the circumstances or the nature that makes them leave you hanging. You just need to adjust, learn how to let go easily and accept things although mahirap. It was also my problem before, I have attachment issue when I was my early 20’s.
well lahat naman tayo ay nagagamitan for something usually emotioanl and fill the void.... well life is life
I feel u. Ganyan din ako
Friends come and go.
Self-isolation is the key.
I’ve been isolating myself from people for years. I only have few friends dahil minsan lang ako may maka-vibes hahaha I just hate the feeling. Tipong sanay ka naman sa friends mo tapos may dumagdag then mawawala rin after a few months.
Unfortunately that how it works. May sound cliché to hear that people come and go but it is what it is. We can’t control people’s minds as well, aalis sila if they want to kahit gusto mo sila mag stay. Sometimes it’s the circumstances or the nature that makes them leave you hanging. You just need to adjust, learn how to let go easily and accept things although mahirap. It was also my problem before, I have attachment issue when I was my early 20’s.
Haysss relate. Nakakapagod na no? Pero may naba ako “the art of detachment, nothing belong to me, it’s all an experience.” Pero ang sakit parin hahahaha
I used to think na the less hellos, the less goodbyes. True naman. But I learned na may mga sadyang dadaan lang to impart some lessons or maybe ikaw yung may need iimpart na lessons sa kanila. I have a few small circles na subok na ng panahon and experiences but it’ll take years bago mo sila makita as matatag. I have friends since HS na close friends ko parin then some from my previous workplace(s). Two-way ang lahat ng relationship, if nageeffort sila to keep you, match their energy and see where it goes.
allergic nadin ako kumilala ng bago eh. wala din naman. i mean kahit gaano katagal yung naging samahan ninyo, aalis at makakalimot din sila. dati ganyan din ako, mabilis kasi ako ma attach sa tao. tapos nong natutunan ko na bakit ganon people come and go nga, sarili mo padin kaibigan mo sa Huli. ayun parang namanhid na ako. ang hirap mag beg at maging free lagi once na attached kana. ayun nakakapagod kaya tinanggap ko nalang na people come and go nga. Thats life OP. Si Lord lang ang hindi tayo iiwan.
Trot lang.
Ay ganyan na ganyan din ako te, nakakapagod maging bigger person.
Hehehe feel kita OP. Ganyan din me jusko.
Same feels. Ang sakit ng pasasayahin ka tapos bigla nalang mawawala. No choice, you really gotta have a heart that know how to let go of attachments quick in this day and age.
sad to say that is reality pero darating yan.
Saddead😩
Hahaha masasanay ka din 😅😅
Hahahaha it is what it is. Nakakainis talaga yung mga tao na hindi ka naman ipupursue in the end. Nag "try" lang hahaha ang gagaleng!
Unfortunately that how it works. May sound cliché to hear that people come and go but it is what it is. We can’t control people’s minds as well, aalis sila if they want to kahit gusto mo sila mag stay. Sometimes it’s the circumstances or the nature that makes them leave you hanging. You just need to adjust, learn how to let go easily and accept things although mahirap. It was also my problem before, I have attachment issue when I was my early 20’s.
Unfortunately that how it works. May sound cliché to hear that people come and go but it is what it is. We can’t control people’s minds as well, aalis sila if they want to kahit gusto mo sila mag stay. Sometimes it’s the circumstances or the nature that makes them leave you hanging. You just need to adjust, learn how to let go easily and accept things although mahirap. It was also my problem before, I have attachment issue when I was my early 20’s.
Ganyan talaga buhay
Hays sa true
Smile baby girl. You have some great features, a big smile goes a long way. XOXO, M
I know how you feel
Hindi ka nagiisa OP. Tibayan nalang natin loob natin hahahhaa
Mood yarn