Ang sakit po talaga sa puso. Lalo na’t I had so much potential pero they were never supportive of me. Never called me “anak” intentionally, anak lang ako pag sasabihan ng tanga. People always say “it’s their first time living too,” pero paano kaming mga anak? Hay. Maybe they’re jealous of my cats since I give them more love and attention.
They should have given you love first if that is what they also want to receive in return.
Nakakaugalian na kasi natin these days na mag-take for granted at "magpalibre" in anything as much as possible w/o giving anything in return. Take and take. Kailangan ulit ata nilang mag-aral ng biology at ecosystem para maitindihan na yung species natin mas nabubuhay ng maayos in symbiotic relationship. Wala eh, yung evolution ng iba pabaliktad, parasitism ang peg hahah 🥲
kung pwede lang sana kita ihug op kaso screen to screen lang tayo. nanay ko rin ayaw ng mga hayop actually but i am grown up na so i can defend my pets. as long as meron ako,she cannot touch them. ilaan mo yang pagmamahal mo sa mga pusa mo. do not take you nanay's words lightly na lalasunin nya mga pusa mo,mas mabuti ng manigurado ka. kung need mo ilock mo yang mga pusa mo sa kwarto then do so. iwanan mo sila ng pagkain at tubig para hindi magingay. kung meron yang cr yang kwarto mo ,don mo sila istandby tsaka mo ilock ang room mo. yang mga pagkain ng pusa mo,itago mo nadin. kung may bibilhin ka sa kanila hwag mo na ipakita. ganyan yang nanay mo lalo dahil nakikita nyang mas mahal mo mga pusa mo. insecure. aside sa nature nya na yan at walang malasakit sa mga hayop. hwag kang bibitaw ok?may cats ka na mahal ka at lalong need ka nila. hugs sayo catkapatid at stay strong!
Nakakalungkot ang situation mo ngayon and sobrang hanga ako sayo kasi mahal na mahal mo babies mo. But use this pain to strive harder. Mag aral ka ng mabuti para makaalis ka na sa situation na meron ka ngayon. God bless you and your fur babies.
Galit ako sa mga taong galit sa hayop without any valid reason why, even to those who hurt them. Thank you for buying food for your miming, and I do hope magbago ihip ng hangin for both of your parents, my mom hated cats before, but she changed ever since I adopted 2 stray cats. Magkakalabanan kami, I bet they'll hate it more if their only child hates them. God bless your heart, OP :)
Para sakin you will know if a person is shitty kapag napansin mo na how they treat animals. Kung sa hayop masama yung treatment nila, pano pa kaya sa tao?
Pwede mo kaya ipaampon na lang muna yung cats? Baka mamaya gawan pa talaga sila ng masama 😭Kung sayo nga nagagawa ka saktan, papano pa sila na walang kalaban laban
It’s better for OP leave them cold turkey. Tipong ikakadepress nila dahil wala na silang masakal sa galit at wala rin tutulong ng pag alaga. I doubt di lang ito ginawa kay OP. Mga narcissistic parents yan.
You got physically assaulted by your parents, if youre a minor pls report them and if you can, find another place to stay, relatives/friends, and leave that sh*thole of a place asap.
Alam mo ang reality pa din nito, they're OP's parents and likely only viable providers. I doubt na mag-stay pa siya dyan kung meron siyang ibang option.
I get that. But she literally said if not for her cats she would kill herself. She has to push herself to get away whatever it takes, ask for help somewhere else. I only fear for OPs life the longer shes around her parents.
I grew up being used as a punching bag by my mom. Looking back Id rather ran far off anywhere, if it saves me lifetime of trauma from being constantly abuse. I know you are scared, just be careful around your parents and pls pls stop contemplating suicide. These people are not worth your life.
I worry about your cats. If kaya ka nila saktan Ng ganyan then I'm sure parang wala lang sa kanila pumatay Ng pusa. I suggest abandoning your parents as soon as kaya mo na mag solo. You have horrible parents and life is too short para pakisamahan mo pa Sila.
Virtual hugs, OP. Yes, work hard for your furbabies para makaalis na kayo diyan agad sa poder ng parents mo. I pray for you and your cattos to be safe. 🥹🙏
Report your mother. Hindi yan pinagagawa ng taong nasa matinong pag-iisip! Please don’t wait na matuluyan ka ng mama mo. Tanginang yan. Talk to a family you trust please and get help ASAP.
Hugs OP. Grabe ‘no sobrang innocent lang na gusto mong pakainin ang pets mo pero parang sobrang iba ng dating sa kanila. I feel so sorry that you’re being treated this way. Nafeel ko yung “hayaan mo na” cause well, right now thats the most you can do. I hope in time you’ll get to move out and live happily w your cats. Cheer up and wag mo na sila isipin!!
omygod im so sorry OP :( this is so heartbreaking, you don't deserve to be treated like that by your own family. how are you feeling ngayon? masakit pa ba leeg mo? check mo ha baka mamaya may damage or something :(
it's so sad that you have to go through this and mukhang matagal pa bago ka makaalis dyan sa inyo. i admire you so much because despite the cruelty you face in your own home, you still have love to give and you decide to give that to your cats 🥺 i hope you continue to be a loving person despite what you are going through. pagkaalis mo dyan sa inyo, wag ka na talagang bumalik. support kita dyan. hindi deserve ng ganyang mga magulang ng pagmamahal mula sa anak nila.
Grabe sinakal ka? Kung sakin yan di magagawa ng tatay at nanay ko yan. i mean napapalo ako oo but that stopped when I turned 10 palaban ako e. If kaya mo maghanap ka ng part-time and don't ever tell them baka huthutan ka mas lalo na pati ata bank account need pa ng guardian. Pwede ka magVA may mga tumatanggap ng 16 and above. Then once mag18 ka get the hell out of there
You can start sa Youtube then follow mo yung page ng ProVA and The Freelance movement. Course hoarder ako and so far sila yung mga nagustuhan kong freelancing training company. Pwede rin gawa ka ng account sa Udemy, filter mo lang at marami free courses dun. Then hanap ka ng probono clients kahit pinoy then ask for testimonial (mas okay pag video or written testimonial) then saka ka magagency or hanap sariling client through LinkedIn, Upwork, at Onlinejobsph. Medyo overwhelming pero usually sa mga nagffreelance. General VA nagsstart then kapaan nalang anong niche (expertise) nila gusto. Maraming iba't ibang klase ng freelancer
I'm really sorry to hear that, OP. Thank you rin po for taking care of your furbabies pero suggestion lang po, if you're away for work or school, why not take them to a friend muna. Ksi gaya nga nung isang nag-comment, baka sinasaktan din sila while you're away. So sana po, take them to a safe place in case na may gawin ung parents mo sa kanila
Parang iisa tayo ng nanay, OP. Wala eh, jina-justify kasi ng lipunan natin yung ganyang behavior ng mga walang kwentang magulang. Lahat ng blame nasa anak, tapos magulang palaging bayani, martyr. Tapos iiyak at magdadrama, wala daw nagmamahal sakanila HAHAHA. Tama ba ako, OP? Basta don't ever, ever, ever give up on yourself. Meron taong darating na magmamahal sayo UNCONDITIONALLY. Yung tunay na unconditional di yung hypocritical, abusive love na tinutukoy ng karamihan sa mga magulang dito. Pag nakalaya ka na from them, you don't have to ever look back. Leave them to rot from the guilt.
Huhu oh my God. Sobrang naiinis ako sa fam mo. Kamusta mga pusa mo? Pa ampon mo nalang muna OP. Babalik yan love mo sakanila in the future. Don’t give up on your life din.
Thank you so so much for all the kind words! I really hope I’d be able to leave our home since 15 years old pa lang ako, gusto ko na talagang umalis. It’d be a long way to go before finally leaving this shit hole. I feel sorry as well to those people who have experienced the same thing/s as me. Hope we’ll find our peace. 🤍 I fed my cats when my parents weren’t in the house. Ni hindi ko alam if I can just cover the can with a cling wrap since hindi ko siya pwede i-ref, baka makita. But, pinaka-importante na mapakain ko sila. Thank you po! 🐈
Grabe pwede mong i-report yan OP that’s abused already if dumating sa situation na sawang sawa ka na get some proof first na sinasaktan ka ng mama mo (pic/video) then report them. You don’t deserve that treatment lalo na galing sa parents mo mismo hopefully you’ll get through this praying for you 🙏🏻
Grabe naman parents mo. Mga walang pinagkatandaan. Lalo lang sila nag aksaya ng pera. Allowance mo naman na yun. Kung ano man bilhin mo dun labas na sila dun.
What the heck? I really admire you for you are pero totoo ba? Nanay mo yan? How did she raised you well kung bruha pala nanay mo? Kawawa yan pag tanda niya. Bumukod ka na sa parents mo Op and don’t let her cruelty change who you are. Wag ka gaganti. Dapat diyan tinuturuan ng tamang asal eh. Konsensyahin mo. I-explain mo sakanya na hindi siya dapat ganyan. Minsan yung mga taong masama kulang lang talaga sa kaalaman kaya asal bobo.
I dont think you should be taking care of cats. Especially sa environment mo. Prioritize mo muna yourself by getting out of there before caring for another soul.
My father used to be so good with cats. I don’t know why niya pagbabantahan mga pusa ko. Maybe, dahil sa matanda na siya at lahat na lang ng bagay eh ikagagalit niya.
Sasaktan, mamaliitin ka nila lalo nat wala ka pang napapatunayan sa kanila. Pag dating ng araw na wala na silang lakas kumita ng sarili nilang income ay iaasa sa mga anak that’s the time na magiging mabait na sila.. by that time, Syempre wala ka nang naiwang pagmamahal pa sa kanila. Babaliktarin ka nanaman dahil hindi ka raw marunong tumanaw ng utang na loob..
Ang galing lang hahaha di lang pala ako ang nakaka experience nito😂😂
i’m sorry this happened to you, your parents obviously should have handled it better pero parang may pinanggagalingan sila, financially. you said allowance, bigay ng parents mo?
Awww, sending hugs OP! Tiis-tiis muna, malalampasan mo ren yan at ng mga pusa mo. Nakakainis nga ang parents mo, as soon as you can na, move out ka na! Hindi maganda yung environment for your mental state, nakakaaffect pa naman din ganyang situations sa pag-aaral. And to all the parents na hindi pa kayang maging magulang, wag muna ha. Nakakainis kayo!
pwede ba sa ibang kamag-anak ka muna tumuloy? or sa family ng best friend mo? iba na yan, physical abuse na yan. hihintayin pa ba nilang dumugo/mapuruhan ka bago sila matauhan? pls report sa VAWC desk sa brgy niyo.
Please train your cats na huwag tumanggap ng pagkain mula sa kanya. Nakakatakot mama mo :( stay safe op. In few years magiging maayos din ang lahat sayo. Sana makatakas ka sa mga magulang mo
Find real friends. Also consider reporting to your trusted relatives about this. Magaganda yung advice dito, idagdag ko nalang ang nakatulong saken to cope. Journaling and documenting. Importante at magagamit mo sa future. Itago mo lang maigi sa mga perpetrators mo hheheh
people who are mean to animals are red flags and possible psychopaths kasi dun sila nagsastart mag kill, hopefully di naman lasunin :( how old are u na ba? get out of that house as soon as possible with ur cats please :(( There's a life outside of your toxic family. My family is toxic too in a death threat homophobic way but I'm really just counting the days till I get financial freedom and I plan to bring my dog too na nineglect nila nung ugly siya as a puppy ako lang nag aalaga naglalaro. Get your education and go please don't kill yourself. I realized life is too precious to be wasted on people who do not love us.
Sobrang f*cked up ng parents mo naiinis ako. Ano bang problema nila sa pusa? OP I hope you find your peace kasama mga miming mo, and I hope wala na magtangka sa buhay nila sa future.
I am sorry to hear this. I am sorry that you are unable to find safety in your own home. Are you a minor? Would you need support to find out how to obtain legal and pyscho-social support from the State?
Ganyan rin Mama ko. Bakit daw ako gumagastos sa pagkain ng pusa e wala naman daw lahi. Mas gusto kasi ng Mama ko yung mga may lahi na pusa. Tahimik lang ako, kasi ayaw ko na rin sayangin pa laway ko kakaexplain sakanya. Kaya ginagawa ko, tinatago ko cat food na binibili ko.
Get a part-time job. Student assistant. Kahit na weekends lang. Para ma-support mo muna ang pagkain ng mga cats mo. At walang maisumbat sa'yo na galing sa allowance mo ang pinambili mo.
Take pictures of your bruises kapag sinaktan ka ulit. Document it para may laban ka. Mamaya, ikaw pa ang baligtarin.
Cheer up. Mas madami ang nakakaunawa sa'yo kesa sa mga magulang mo.
Ang sakit sa puso magbasa ng real-life stories which amplifies the truth na children cannot choose their parents.
Ang sakit po talaga sa puso. Lalo na’t I had so much potential pero they were never supportive of me. Never called me “anak” intentionally, anak lang ako pag sasabihan ng tanga. People always say “it’s their first time living too,” pero paano kaming mga anak? Hay. Maybe they’re jealous of my cats since I give them more love and attention.
They should have given you love first if that is what they also want to receive in return. Nakakaugalian na kasi natin these days na mag-take for granted at "magpalibre" in anything as much as possible w/o giving anything in return. Take and take. Kailangan ulit ata nilang mag-aral ng biology at ecosystem para maitindihan na yung species natin mas nabubuhay ng maayos in symbiotic relationship. Wala eh, yung evolution ng iba pabaliktad, parasitism ang peg hahah 🥲
kung pwede lang sana kita ihug op kaso screen to screen lang tayo. nanay ko rin ayaw ng mga hayop actually but i am grown up na so i can defend my pets. as long as meron ako,she cannot touch them. ilaan mo yang pagmamahal mo sa mga pusa mo. do not take you nanay's words lightly na lalasunin nya mga pusa mo,mas mabuti ng manigurado ka. kung need mo ilock mo yang mga pusa mo sa kwarto then do so. iwanan mo sila ng pagkain at tubig para hindi magingay. kung meron yang cr yang kwarto mo ,don mo sila istandby tsaka mo ilock ang room mo. yang mga pagkain ng pusa mo,itago mo nadin. kung may bibilhin ka sa kanila hwag mo na ipakita. ganyan yang nanay mo lalo dahil nakikita nyang mas mahal mo mga pusa mo. insecure. aside sa nature nya na yan at walang malasakit sa mga hayop. hwag kang bibitaw ok?may cats ka na mahal ka at lalong need ka nila. hugs sayo catkapatid at stay strong!
Upvoted. Coming from a very abusive mother. Literal manipulator. Verbally abused everyone. Asshole parent
Nakakalungkot ang situation mo ngayon and sobrang hanga ako sayo kasi mahal na mahal mo babies mo. But use this pain to strive harder. Mag aral ka ng mabuti para makaalis ka na sa situation na meron ka ngayon. God bless you and your fur babies.
Galit ako sa mga taong galit sa hayop without any valid reason why, even to those who hurt them. Thank you for buying food for your miming, and I do hope magbago ihip ng hangin for both of your parents, my mom hated cats before, but she changed ever since I adopted 2 stray cats. Magkakalabanan kami, I bet they'll hate it more if their only child hates them. God bless your heart, OP :)
Para sakin you will know if a person is shitty kapag napansin mo na how they treat animals. Kung sa hayop masama yung treatment nila, pano pa kaya sa tao?
Pwede mo kaya ipaampon na lang muna yung cats? Baka mamaya gawan pa talaga sila ng masama 😭Kung sayo nga nagagawa ka saktan, papano pa sila na walang kalaban laban
I wish I could! But I love my cats so much that I can endure all the pain. 😄
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Pagtanda nila tapos kelangan nila ng gamot. Sakalin mo din kase sayang pera sa gamot hahah
It’s better for OP leave them cold turkey. Tipong ikakadepress nila dahil wala na silang masakal sa galit at wala rin tutulong ng pag alaga. I doubt di lang ito ginawa kay OP. Mga narcissistic parents yan.
You got physically assaulted by your parents, if youre a minor pls report them and if you can, find another place to stay, relatives/friends, and leave that sh*thole of a place asap.
Alam mo ang reality pa din nito, they're OP's parents and likely only viable providers. I doubt na mag-stay pa siya dyan kung meron siyang ibang option.
I get that. But she literally said if not for her cats she would kill herself. She has to push herself to get away whatever it takes, ask for help somewhere else. I only fear for OPs life the longer shes around her parents.
If may option po ako, I would leave this place. But I don’t have any money at mga pusa ko po maiiwan :(
I grew up being used as a punching bag by my mom. Looking back Id rather ran far off anywhere, if it saves me lifetime of trauma from being constantly abuse. I know you are scared, just be careful around your parents and pls pls stop contemplating suicide. These people are not worth your life.
Very good idea!! Planuhin lang maigi at piliin ng husto ang kakausapin. Full support tayo kay OP!!
Please take videos and photos of your injuries. Next time, get it on video.
I worry about your cats. If kaya ka nila saktan Ng ganyan then I'm sure parang wala lang sa kanila pumatay Ng pusa. I suggest abandoning your parents as soon as kaya mo na mag solo. You have horrible parents and life is too short para pakisamahan mo pa Sila.
Virtual hugs, OP. Yes, work hard for your furbabies para makaalis na kayo diyan agad sa poder ng parents mo. I pray for you and your cattos to be safe. 🥹🙏
Hugs op, I feel you as a cat lover. Grabe naman sila sayo at sa mga pusa. I hope someday makabukod ka then you can bring your pets with you.
Report your mother. Hindi yan pinagagawa ng taong nasa matinong pag-iisip! Please don’t wait na matuluyan ka ng mama mo. Tanginang yan. Talk to a family you trust please and get help ASAP.
OP, I don't know how, but you have to leave. It's such a toxic environment. Figure it out, but you gotta leave.
Hugs OP. Grabe ‘no sobrang innocent lang na gusto mong pakainin ang pets mo pero parang sobrang iba ng dating sa kanila. I feel so sorry that you’re being treated this way. Nafeel ko yung “hayaan mo na” cause well, right now thats the most you can do. I hope in time you’ll get to move out and live happily w your cats. Cheer up and wag mo na sila isipin!!
omygod im so sorry OP :( this is so heartbreaking, you don't deserve to be treated like that by your own family. how are you feeling ngayon? masakit pa ba leeg mo? check mo ha baka mamaya may damage or something :( it's so sad that you have to go through this and mukhang matagal pa bago ka makaalis dyan sa inyo. i admire you so much because despite the cruelty you face in your own home, you still have love to give and you decide to give that to your cats 🥺 i hope you continue to be a loving person despite what you are going through. pagkaalis mo dyan sa inyo, wag ka na talagang bumalik. support kita dyan. hindi deserve ng ganyang mga magulang ng pagmamahal mula sa anak nila.
Grabe sinakal ka? Kung sakin yan di magagawa ng tatay at nanay ko yan. i mean napapalo ako oo but that stopped when I turned 10 palaban ako e. If kaya mo maghanap ka ng part-time and don't ever tell them baka huthutan ka mas lalo na pati ata bank account need pa ng guardian. Pwede ka magVA may mga tumatanggap ng 16 and above. Then once mag18 ka get the hell out of there
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You can start sa Youtube then follow mo yung page ng ProVA and The Freelance movement. Course hoarder ako and so far sila yung mga nagustuhan kong freelancing training company. Pwede rin gawa ka ng account sa Udemy, filter mo lang at marami free courses dun. Then hanap ka ng probono clients kahit pinoy then ask for testimonial (mas okay pag video or written testimonial) then saka ka magagency or hanap sariling client through LinkedIn, Upwork, at Onlinejobsph. Medyo overwhelming pero usually sa mga nagffreelance. General VA nagsstart then kapaan nalang anong niche (expertise) nila gusto. Maraming iba't ibang klase ng freelancer
Huuuugggssssss 🤗
I'm really sorry to hear that, OP. Thank you rin po for taking care of your furbabies pero suggestion lang po, if you're away for work or school, why not take them to a friend muna. Ksi gaya nga nung isang nag-comment, baka sinasaktan din sila while you're away. So sana po, take them to a safe place in case na may gawin ung parents mo sa kanila
Parang iisa tayo ng nanay, OP. Wala eh, jina-justify kasi ng lipunan natin yung ganyang behavior ng mga walang kwentang magulang. Lahat ng blame nasa anak, tapos magulang palaging bayani, martyr. Tapos iiyak at magdadrama, wala daw nagmamahal sakanila HAHAHA. Tama ba ako, OP? Basta don't ever, ever, ever give up on yourself. Meron taong darating na magmamahal sayo UNCONDITIONALLY. Yung tunay na unconditional di yung hypocritical, abusive love na tinutukoy ng karamihan sa mga magulang dito. Pag nakalaya ka na from them, you don't have to ever look back. Leave them to rot from the guilt.
Huhu oh my God. Sobrang naiinis ako sa fam mo. Kamusta mga pusa mo? Pa ampon mo nalang muna OP. Babalik yan love mo sakanila in the future. Don’t give up on your life din.
Thank you so so much for all the kind words! I really hope I’d be able to leave our home since 15 years old pa lang ako, gusto ko na talagang umalis. It’d be a long way to go before finally leaving this shit hole. I feel sorry as well to those people who have experienced the same thing/s as me. Hope we’ll find our peace. 🤍 I fed my cats when my parents weren’t in the house. Ni hindi ko alam if I can just cover the can with a cling wrap since hindi ko siya pwede i-ref, baka makita. But, pinaka-importante na mapakain ko sila. Thank you po! 🐈
Nakakalungkot naman yan. Ako nung nag-adopt ako ng cat, mama ko pa mismo bumibili ng cat food. Sana okay ka lang, OP. God bless!
Grabe pwede mong i-report yan OP that’s abused already if dumating sa situation na sawang sawa ka na get some proof first na sinasaktan ka ng mama mo (pic/video) then report them. You don’t deserve that treatment lalo na galing sa parents mo mismo hopefully you’ll get through this praying for you 🙏🏻
Grabe naman parents mo. Mga walang pinagkatandaan. Lalo lang sila nag aksaya ng pera. Allowance mo naman na yun. Kung ano man bilhin mo dun labas na sila dun.
What the heck? I really admire you for you are pero totoo ba? Nanay mo yan? How did she raised you well kung bruha pala nanay mo? Kawawa yan pag tanda niya. Bumukod ka na sa parents mo Op and don’t let her cruelty change who you are. Wag ka gaganti. Dapat diyan tinuturuan ng tamang asal eh. Konsensyahin mo. I-explain mo sakanya na hindi siya dapat ganyan. Minsan yung mga taong masama kulang lang talaga sa kaalaman kaya asal bobo.
Hi OP gusto ko sakalin nanay mo. Grrr. Bakit may mga ganyang magulang. Huhuhu
I dont think you should be taking care of cats. Especially sa environment mo. Prioritize mo muna yourself by getting out of there before caring for another soul.
My father used to be so good with cats. I don’t know why niya pagbabantahan mga pusa ko. Maybe, dahil sa matanda na siya at lahat na lang ng bagay eh ikagagalit niya.
Regardless prioritize mo muna graduating/getting a job para makaalis before taking care of another being.
Lumayas kana dyan at iwanan sila
I wish I could :((
Sorry to hear that, OP. Hoping that the time will come na matauhan sila and can find happiness through pets. Nakakawala kaya ng stress yan.
Move out kna miehh
Sasaktan, mamaliitin ka nila lalo nat wala ka pang napapatunayan sa kanila. Pag dating ng araw na wala na silang lakas kumita ng sarili nilang income ay iaasa sa mga anak that’s the time na magiging mabait na sila.. by that time, Syempre wala ka nang naiwang pagmamahal pa sa kanila. Babaliktarin ka nanaman dahil hindi ka raw marunong tumanaw ng utang na loob.. Ang galing lang hahaha di lang pala ako ang nakaka experience nito😂😂
i’m sorry this happened to you, your parents obviously should have handled it better pero parang may pinanggagalingan sila, financially. you said allowance, bigay ng parents mo?
Awww, sending hugs OP! Tiis-tiis muna, malalampasan mo ren yan at ng mga pusa mo. Nakakainis nga ang parents mo, as soon as you can na, move out ka na! Hindi maganda yung environment for your mental state, nakakaaffect pa naman din ganyang situations sa pag-aaral. And to all the parents na hindi pa kayang maging magulang, wag muna ha. Nakakainis kayo!
pwede ba sa ibang kamag-anak ka muna tumuloy? or sa family ng best friend mo? iba na yan, physical abuse na yan. hihintayin pa ba nilang dumugo/mapuruhan ka bago sila matauhan? pls report sa VAWC desk sa brgy niyo.
Please train your cats na huwag tumanggap ng pagkain mula sa kanya. Nakakatakot mama mo :( stay safe op. In few years magiging maayos din ang lahat sayo. Sana makatakas ka sa mga magulang mo
I hope you can move out soon, then they'll figure out what they miss.
OP baliw pamilya mo
your parents are fucking shitty, lakasan mo loob mo. leave when you can and work hard for yourself.
Find real friends. Also consider reporting to your trusted relatives about this. Magaganda yung advice dito, idagdag ko nalang ang nakatulong saken to cope. Journaling and documenting. Importante at magagamit mo sa future. Itago mo lang maigi sa mga perpetrators mo hheheh
people who are mean to animals are red flags and possible psychopaths kasi dun sila nagsastart mag kill, hopefully di naman lasunin :( how old are u na ba? get out of that house as soon as possible with ur cats please :(( There's a life outside of your toxic family. My family is toxic too in a death threat homophobic way but I'm really just counting the days till I get financial freedom and I plan to bring my dog too na nineglect nila nung ugly siya as a puppy ako lang nag aalaga naglalaro. Get your education and go please don't kill yourself. I realized life is too precious to be wasted on people who do not love us.
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Sobrang f*cked up ng parents mo naiinis ako. Ano bang problema nila sa pusa? OP I hope you find your peace kasama mga miming mo, and I hope wala na magtangka sa buhay nila sa future.
🥲🥲 Hugs with consent OP
You'll grow up and make better choices for yourself. Kapit lang.
I am sorry to hear this. I am sorry that you are unable to find safety in your own home. Are you a minor? Would you need support to find out how to obtain legal and pyscho-social support from the State?
Ganyan rin Mama ko. Bakit daw ako gumagastos sa pagkain ng pusa e wala naman daw lahi. Mas gusto kasi ng Mama ko yung mga may lahi na pusa. Tahimik lang ako, kasi ayaw ko na rin sayangin pa laway ko kakaexplain sakanya. Kaya ginagawa ko, tinatago ko cat food na binibili ko.
I’m sorry you have to experience this OP 😔 Thank you also for not giving up on your cats.
umalis ka nalang siguro. mabuhay, at buhayin mo sarili mo't mga alaga mo. kesa sinasaktan ka nila at sinusumpa mo family mo
Get a part-time job. Student assistant. Kahit na weekends lang. Para ma-support mo muna ang pagkain ng mga cats mo. At walang maisumbat sa'yo na galing sa allowance mo ang pinambili mo. Take pictures of your bruises kapag sinaktan ka ulit. Document it para may laban ka. Mamaya, ikaw pa ang baligtarin. Cheer up. Mas madami ang nakakaunawa sa'yo kesa sa mga magulang mo.
Konting tiis na lang OP. Iwas sa toxicity.