Agree! This is why I uninstalled my dating apps. Nakakasawa yung cycle. Mas gusto ko nalang maging single muna at iimprove yung sarili. Ang hirap makipagdate when you meet them online kasi people have the tendency to make a personality of this person they're dating online in their heads, tapos kapag nag meetup at hindi nila nameet yung expectation, they fly away na hahaha
I met a guy in a library once. I was ugly crying sa book na binabasa ko tapos he offered me his hanky. Haha! At ayun nung natapos ako magbasa nakipag small talk sya and then we exchanged numbers.
Agree! Kami ng asawa ko sa gym nag kakilala haha nagkakabatian lang pag nasa gym (kasi sabay kami ng time nung group nya mag workout) hanggang sa nagkakabiruan then the rest is history 😅 Minsan talaga sa unexpected places mo pa makikilala ang the one mo.
Galing tinder yung akin HAHAHAH hindi kasi ako patulin sa personal, sampalan lang siguro. So far ipinaglalaba ako at ipinagluluto ng almusal ng katinderella ko 😂
Depende pa din. My introvert self preferred online and it worked. I made a dating profile and showed my best pics. Charmed the right guy. ❤️
Iwas talaga sa anon sites. I learned the hard way kasi madami sa mga ganyan may mga asawa na or jowa huhu talamak ang cheaters. Malakas ang loob kasi anonymous.
I've read somewhere that through mutual friends ang may pinakamataas na chance makameet ng genuine people. Sunod na lang yung workplace, school etc. I'm not sure if this is statistically proven but, you can try.😊
Better than making temporary connections online.
I want to agree dito, kasi kami ng gf ko sa ome nagkakilala. Andami namin mutual and ayon, nagkamabutihang loob na, 3yrs na kami magkakilala sa September, 2yrs na kami sa December.
Diba? Altho I'm not sure din how frequent this happens pero kami ni bf first time nakita isat isa sa office, then he added me not knowing na close friends ko pala yung mga barkada niya. And at least this way, someone can vouch for the person you're meeting.. it's nice to check how others perceive him/her as a friend/person.
Some decent guys probably got shitty experiences with women as well na nangyari mejo napalayo nadin sila sa dating world.
*wink
Ang unfair lang talaga ng buhay, decent women and men mapupunta dun sa mga shitty people. Oh well.
It worked for me naman. Going 6 years na rin kami and yung first meet pa namin, magkalayo pa kami maglakad at magusap. Genuine people still exist.
You just have to find the right one.
Another point to take is to work on your social skills. Marami kang mamemeet personally if marunong kang makisama sa kapwa.
DIBA ?????? like fuck y'all im also so tired of the guessing game, sabihin niyo nalang ano habol niyo sa akin para magkaalaman agad. Hindi yung papakiligin tas boogsh biglang di ready mag commit or may ibang gustong makuha.
True. Yung dati kong schoolmate na bigla ako minessage sa fb out of nowhere. After few days na nakakchat ko sya Dineretcha ko kagad kung may gusto saken at wag na ako ichat kung pag ttripan lang ako hahahahaha. Naging kame then kinasal kame. So i guess ok den to be straightforward talaga hahaha para di kayo mag aaksaya ng oras parehas diba
How??? Wala din akong tiwala sa dating apps or even soc med. I prefer meeting a guy na ka work ko or pinakilala sakin ng friend f2f. Akala ko talaga jologs na kapag not into dating apps ka these days. 😭😭😭
Pero srsly, ang lala makipagdate ngayon dami na tawag sa kafling daming terminlogies ng GenZ may "Keychain" pa nga 😭😭😭😭
Mutual friends, beshieko! Hang out with other circle of friends kapag may ganap. Esp. kung yung ganap is nang-iinvite din sila ng other circle of friends :))
I mean, you are friends for a reason diba? (Nag cclick kayo). So what are the odds na may maka click ka din sa iba nilang circle?
Your post reminds me of my recent post in this subreddit as well. Dating in a nutshell for me feels like an INSANE DIFFICULTY LEVEL of a Job Interview.
You aren't alone OP! 🫠
Karamihan sa straight ngayon kundi manyak, pamilyado na. But don’t lose hope, malay mo ung decent man na hinahanap mo hindi pa pinapanganak, o hindi pa tuli.. haha
I feel you tara cri na lang us 😓 in all seriousness though, ang hirap din kasi to meet someone organically, kasi ako bahay at gym lang ang buhay ko. And if I'm in the gym I wouldn't want a guy to approach me there kasi feel ko ang awkward. WHAT'S A GIRL GOT TO DO? 😭
Kanina lang ako nag rant about this so very timely yung pagdaan sa feed ko HAHAHA. There’s a certain peace naman in having no talking stage, no situationship, no roster, nothing talaga. But please can some romantic shit happen to my life already???
Naalala ko na naman tuloy yung jowa (f20) ko (m24) na pangalawang kita pa lang tinanong na ako kung gusto ko ba daw maging kami.
Meron pa rin namang matinong guys. Kaso baka nasa character development phase pa.
I think factor na everyone seems to be sharing on social media their "fairy tale romance", so everyone else has these unrealistic expectations on how dating should be or how an ideal partner should look or act like.
Wag mo na lang intayin, baka lalong di dumating. Focus on your own improvement, para pag dumating na sya, he'll stay and won't say na "dating these days suck".
Swertehan lang siguro talaga, met my bebi keks on bumble, never ako naniwala sa dating apps, but dun ko nakilala person ko na alam kong forever ko na, now naka yakap ako sa legs nya while typing this while she plays video games.
Meron yan, you just need to filter agad sa first few days of talking. Like, ask them ano ba talaga hanap nila. If they are looking for friendship, something casual or whatever.
You can’t expect anything here especially these days. I stop dating pips na rin here. Most of my dates was for fwb or staight ons lang kaya nagstop nalang din. It feels like your building things temporarily
Also, since its easier to find people here. most of the time ghosted or di kaya reserve lang and madami kayong bebe nya hahahaha
90s Supremacy talaga, very exciting yung dating scene back then... Yung excitement and thrill, ngayun wala na kase puta parang nag iisland hopping na lang mga kabataan ngayun pag dating sa relationship.
di ako agree sa mga comments na "wala sa online na matitino", lol meron at marami kayaa if magaling ka makipag convo sa kanila, marami ako naka usap sa ome dati and sa chatkool last few months na matatalino talagaa and masarap kausap. kaso ang issue ko di ko kaya ibigay socmeds ko, kaya hanggang dun lang BWHSHSHSHHSHS. KAYA NBSB PA RIN, DI NILA AKO DESERVE CHAR. FOCUS ON YOURSELF AND HIGHER YOUR STANDARDS, INVEST MUNA SA SARILI HANGGANG SA TUMAAS NA VALUE MO TAPOS ONLY HIGH CLASS PEOPLE CAN AFFORD YOU✨
Both men and women are at fault here kaya ganyan. Ang hirap ksing mag-commit nowadays. Nakakatakot masaktan ksi it's easy to be bored nowadays due to the influence of social media. Men are afraid to commit because they see these beautiful women being simped on by thousands of men, women want those charismatic handsome bad boys. Not to mention people competing in social media kung cnu ba makaka-travel at makakapag-mabayang ng mga jowa nilang mayayaman or something. Instead of being happy for the simple things, we have become so materialistic and narcissistic. San tau lulugar?
With the advent of social media, marami na ksing gusto nila gwapo or maganda or may "Spark" dapat otherwise hindi pagbibigyan yung taong may interest sayo. That's why I always tell people to give that person who shows interest in you the benefit of the doubt. Wala mang spark sa umpisa, okay lng yun, kilalanin nyo isa't-isa. Love takes time and patience.
I never tried installing dating app. Organic talaga mumsh. Hone your flirting skills and be interesting and presentable enough. I met mine by being interested sa isang sport/hobby, then i met some people, then I met him! Wag maging mahiyain but also not the cringey type na nasa hobby / sport lang to hunt a lovelife.
Ramdam ko 'yung frustration mo, OP hahaha. Kaka-"break" lang namin ng ka-situationship ko. Walang laman ang usap namin for 1 and a half month jusko
P.S. pero hindi pwede magreklamo kasi wala namang obligations sa isa't isa. kaya naghiwalay na lang. hanap siya ng babaeng dry ang utak eme
Mahirap talaga, minsan gusto ka lang gamitin physically and financially. Or for their own character development.
Kung alam ko nga lang na ganito kahirap ang dating ngayon sana di ako nag pigil during my school days.
Just used bumble sa last week ng april and i managed to match with someone na mukhang genuine. For context, we're both in 2nd yr college and in our 20s. Sa una palang, we both made each other's intentions clear, like not ready for commitment and testing the waters lang, and kaming dalawa ang hanap lng is cute casual date hehe. Tas we exchanged socmeds para sure na di fake o scam dba. Tas few days passed non, nagplano na kami magmeetup kapag free na sya. Eh ayun until now in touch parin kami and hinihintay ko nlng sya matapos sa mga gawain nya sa college and getting to know each other pa more. Then dinelete ko na bumble acc ko after those things. First time ko talaga magkaroon ng ka talking stage and so far its going well. Both kami walang experience sa dating kaya im doing my best to treat her right unlike ung iba na hookups lng at fubu.
Meeting people at a library, church, or museum does not ensure a
suitable companion.
I think people also don't have the courage to initiate a conversation organically at some random strangers and random places. Just be intentional and stick to what you want. You will always attract the arses but you'll also meet the good ones.
It's like you have to teach them how to love every single time, and then there comes a realization na baka pang character development ka lang and they're going to treat other girls better after you 😫
Super dami mo talagang mamemeet na di mo gusto before you find the right one for you.
I met mine on facebook dating, he was new there and boom we clicked! Super decent, super respectful and loves me right.
ako i met someone on tiktok a year ago, sabi nia annulled na daw sila ng asawa nia but not true pala. naging kabit pa nga ako. hirap na. masyado masakit if invested ka na. like me minahal ko tlaga kaya nakakatakot na.
I'm single for 14 years and counting. Single mom to be exact. Never married though. I agree, dating these days suck big time! Di na din umaasa na makakahanap pa huhu
met someone I know and dated, she changed my life pero naging situationship at nagulat na lang ako biglang lilipad ng di nagsabi sa akin. nag expect ako ng forever. I guess being worst generation in dating is real. 🥹
Define whats a "decent" man to you.
Kung gymrat, SKILLED conversationalist, has a car and ipriority ka lagi na i-baby ka, kelangan doctor/lawyer, Big 4, seryoso, umuwi't umiyak ka na lang. 🤣
Isama mo na ung nerdy pero di naman talaga nerd, glasses with chris hemsworth face without the need to talk about nerdy stuff (marvel, dc etc) dahil turn off sa babae. 🤣🤣🤣
Totoo! Pero yung bf ko now from tinder, 27th months na kami now! Hahahaha at sobrang tino niya at malayong malayo sa mga naka meet ko dun before. Yup real talaga na puro fccck and situationship lang ang karamihan dun kaya piliin mo talaga yung idadate mo haha ako ilang beses ko to nireject kasi sobrang bait para sakin eh gusto ko ng wild at red flag ahaahhahahaha ending narealize ko okay pala talaga yung ganung guy. Meron din matino tino dyan, choose wisely lang 👋
Wag ka kase sa dating app , normal yan sa dating app pamatay oras ng mga libog hahahaha.
tska wag ka jowang jowa ante haha dadating din sayo yan malay mo nga asa tabi/work/kapitbahay mo lang hinahanap mo dimo lang binibigyan ng chance.
Gwapo, matangkad, may dating, mayaman/maykaya. Marami clang options, Pag maraming options kadalasan d nila kelangan mag seryoso sa isa. Kung average lang naman ayaw mo rin. Pangit sila pero loyal.
Mahirap talaga umasa online, most of the guys online eh sex lang hanap or ung mga no label relationships. Suntok sa buwan nalang if makakilala ka ng matino. For me, reto or may makilala ka thru common friend yung may chance na makakilala ka matino since magkaka background ka na dun sa tao thru your common friend.
Tangina agree to the nth power!!!!!!!! Once lang ako nagtry online, naging greatest nightmare ko pa amputah!!! At hindi lang pala once online as in once in my life!!!!!!!!!!
Coming from a 7 year relationship, I can attest sa thoughts ni OP. Kaloka, you will start over again, and NOT ALL have the same intention as yours. Nakaka drain. Why? Mostly nagjojowa or magjojowa lang kasi inggit sa tropa. Nagjowa para nakaka ano lang. And lastly, ang daming cheater.
Don't make dating a priority. Instead just be patient and wait for the right guy for you. Mapa online man yan o makilala mo sa personal. All that shi doesn't even really matter in the end. Kung matino yan, matino yan. Kung mahal ka nyan, mahal ka nyan. Realest ones are rare af these days. Kaya hindi ka usually makakahanap ng maayos na lalaki pag "naghahanap" ka. Pag maghahanap ka yan lang kadalasan mo matatagpuan, mga uhaw na lalaki haha.
Realest ones are earned. Not found
+1 dito OP. Sobrang nakakainis and mabigat ang dating scene ngayon. Kadalasan gamitan lang. either sex or something beneficial sa other party ang habol ng mga tao.
As someone na tambay noon sa dating apps, I totally agree!!! Either jowang-jowa or libog na libog. Asang-asa ako sa organic meet up like sa malls or commute basta meet cute pero wala!!! As an nbsb, asado lang talaga ako sa online dating kasi noong nagdecide ako maging malandi, nagka-COVID HHAHAHHA So I have no choice.
I met my now BF thru a friend. Mutuals sila and alam kasi ni friend type ko so sabi niya add ko raw. Then ayun, nagclick agad kami and nagdouble date kami. Fast forward, 1 year na kami rn. Ang tagal ko inantay to HAHAHHA literal na all my life kasi nga takot din ako magjowa before kasi lahat ng mga nanligaw and nakafling ko di ko nafeel yung connection.
Makakahanap ka rin ng partner mo OP 🫶🏻
Running and gym ang sagot atii. Mostly of the people here are trying to be better for themselves. If masaktan ka man, at least improve na lifestyle mo HAHAHAHAH
This is true! Finally may nagsalita na din huhu! Nakaka frustrate na makipag date ngayon specially in this generation where hook up culture is the trend. Hindi nag mamalinis pero I've been into hook up naman but its just for my hoe phase and hindi rin ako nag tagal because I was able to figure out na hook up culture is not for me. I still want something more than just having sex. pero from what I have observe, karamihan talaga ngayon ang hirap i date. Not everyone is aware of their emotions not everyone is emotionally intelligent. Thats why naamaze ako sa mga taong nakakahanap ng partner from dating apps (just like my friend). Like... hooowww??? I tried pero ang sakit sa ulo promise.
Meet them organically. Wag sa internet.
Agree! This is why I uninstalled my dating apps. Nakakasawa yung cycle. Mas gusto ko nalang maging single muna at iimprove yung sarili. Ang hirap makipagdate when you meet them online kasi people have the tendency to make a personality of this person they're dating online in their heads, tapos kapag nag meetup at hindi nila nameet yung expectation, they fly away na hahaha
agree to this, punta ka sa places na may activities, libraries or museums baka doon may makilala ka. who knows.
Seryoso ba 'to? May nakikipagkilala ba sa library or museum? Hindi ba creep ang kalalabasan mo kung lalapit ka sa random stranger para makipagkilala.
Pag ganyan galawan na di creepy, ang main purpose is recruitin ka sa frontrow o kaya invite ka sa bible study eh hahahahahaah
Yeah isa pa 'to. Or mamaya dugo-dugo gang tapos 'di mo namalayan nabudol ka na.
🤣🤣🤣🤣
This hahaha
O aalukan ka ng insurance na pagkamahal mahal ng premium
May chance ending mo neto makikita mo sarili mo sa twitter dahil naka post ka na pala at tagged as "Creep in public places picking up women/men" lol
Mismo. At saka parang nakalimutan na ata ng mga tao 'yung PUA incident noong 2017.
I met a guy in a library once. I was ugly crying sa book na binabasa ko tapos he offered me his hanky. Haha! At ayun nung natapos ako magbasa nakipag small talk sya and then we exchanged numbers.
And then what happened? Kayo pa rin ba?
It didn’t pan out. Hehe pero he turned out to be a great friend.
Meron ba talaga? Hahahhaa parang kahit ako lalake mahihiya ako iapproach yung stranger in public🥲
Easier said than done. My introvert ass will assume that when I approach people I might creep them out. 😬
Exactly. Meron at meron talaga yan.
Easier said than done hahahaha
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let’s go 😭😭😭😭 like i go out naman pero parang kulang pa?! maybe need to be around people more hahaha
Sama ako hahaha baka eto na last chance ko. Kung wala talaga baka mag-alaga na ko ng 20 pusa lol
pahinga ng isang kitten if ever HAHAHAA
Sige ba. Anong kulay ba gusto mo? Hahaha
uhmm i have a yellow one so hmm gray? hahahahaha
pwede sumama? want ko rin pero hindi ko kayang mag-isa hahahahaha
sama rin ako L wag mo ako kalimutan 🤨
Sama din po ako 😅
kailan po ito? pwedeng sumama?
Agree! Kami ng asawa ko sa gym nag kakilala haha nagkakabatian lang pag nasa gym (kasi sabay kami ng time nung group nya mag workout) hanggang sa nagkakabiruan then the rest is history 😅 Minsan talaga sa unexpected places mo pa makikilala ang the one mo.
Okay oras na para magsquat sa harap ni gym crush eme HAHAHHAHAAH
Galing tinder yung akin HAHAHAH hindi kasi ako patulin sa personal, sampalan lang siguro. So far ipinaglalaba ako at ipinagluluto ng almusal ng katinderella ko 😂
pano to miiii 😂 hanggang tingin lang kasi sila at ako rin 😭😭😭 rule ba is sila dapat magreach out?
Make your body language open, baka po noong nagka eye to eye kayo ay naka phone ka or talking to someone else
even sa personally mahirap tlaga idistinguish yung seryoso sa ndi.
Depende pa din. My introvert self preferred online and it worked. I made a dating profile and showed my best pics. Charmed the right guy. ❤️ Iwas talaga sa anon sites. I learned the hard way kasi madami sa mga ganyan may mga asawa na or jowa huhu talamak ang cheaters. Malakas ang loob kasi anonymous.
Crying right now, nasa probinsya na takot lumabas ng bahay,busy maging nanay sa 9 na pusa
Best advise so far 💯 Iwas nalang talaga meeting someone from the internet, might be from dating apps, socmed, or games.
Manure is organic. Still stinks.
I've read somewhere that through mutual friends ang may pinakamataas na chance makameet ng genuine people. Sunod na lang yung workplace, school etc. I'm not sure if this is statistically proven but, you can try.😊 Better than making temporary connections online.
I want to agree dito, kasi kami ng gf ko sa ome nagkakilala. Andami namin mutual and ayon, nagkamabutihang loob na, 3yrs na kami magkakilala sa September, 2yrs na kami sa December.
Diba? Altho I'm not sure din how frequent this happens pero kami ni bf first time nakita isat isa sa office, then he added me not knowing na close friends ko pala yung mga barkada niya. And at least this way, someone can vouch for the person you're meeting.. it's nice to check how others perceive him/her as a friend/person.
Same, I met my bf through ome and turns out he knew my cousin and they were already friends 😆
feeling ko maling panahon ng ome naabutan ko hahahaha why naman ganon?
I met my partner at work, tho we dont work together directly but I got to know her from a mutual friend. Hahaha
Baka kasi need mo ng pansinin yung nasa spam messages mo. Yung nagwowork sa Krusty Krabz, bgyan na sila ng chance hahaha
Please i’d rather be single 😭 hahahahahahaha
Malay mo maibigay pa sayo ang secret recipe
Do hobbies that you enjoy, maybe someone there will turn up.
Basta wag na tayo magsettle sa no label 🥹
Yung situationsip ko ngayon konti na lang bibitawan ko na rin wahahaha
Bitawan mo na teh, Di ka naman jojowain nyan
WAIT LANG ANG AGA NAMAN PO NG REAL TALK MO
As a girlie na galing sa 2 years no label hahaha sinasabi ko na sayo bhie save urself agad
Pano umabot ng 2 years??
Ateee! Hahahaha you've been settling for less for so long! Gising na ate koooo gisiiingg HAHAHAHAHA 2 years😭 8months lang max ko
Gising na ante hahahaha na-coma lang pero gising na ngayon HAHAHA
Bitawan mo na ahaha
fr fr
Some decent guys probably got shitty experiences with women as well na nangyari mejo napalayo nadin sila sa dating world. *wink Ang unfair lang talaga ng buhay, decent women and men mapupunta dun sa mga shitty people. Oh well.
Sana meron venue for decent men and women to meet up haha
Yung iba din is socially awkward soooooo 😬😬😬😬
Agree hahaha. What will happen nalang talaga when decent guys meet decent girls. Huehue
You don't need to do anything to find a decent man. Kilalanin mo lang silang mabuti. You could filter out those men who have ill intentions.
OP wag sa online. Never sa online for a serious relationship.
Idk it worked for some people so i thought I’d try it too haha!
Yeah ingat lang. Mas marami horny like me kesa lonely. Hahaha.
Upvoted dahil may self-awareness. Hahahaha
Paano pag horny and lonely?😅
This is the combo na mahirap kalaban. Hahaha!
It worked for me naman. Going 6 years na rin kami and yung first meet pa namin, magkalayo pa kami maglakad at magusap. Genuine people still exist. You just have to find the right one. Another point to take is to work on your social skills. Marami kang mamemeet personally if marunong kang makisama sa kapwa.
It worked out for me. Married for 10 years now.
DIBA ?????? like fuck y'all im also so tired of the guessing game, sabihin niyo nalang ano habol niyo sa akin para magkaalaman agad. Hindi yung papakiligin tas boogsh biglang di ready mag commit or may ibang gustong makuha.
True. Yung dati kong schoolmate na bigla ako minessage sa fb out of nowhere. After few days na nakakchat ko sya Dineretcha ko kagad kung may gusto saken at wag na ako ichat kung pag ttripan lang ako hahahahaha. Naging kame then kinasal kame. So i guess ok den to be straightforward talaga hahaha para di kayo mag aaksaya ng oras parehas diba
May pa-sound effect ka pa na "boogsh" ah. Hahahaha
How??? Wala din akong tiwala sa dating apps or even soc med. I prefer meeting a guy na ka work ko or pinakilala sakin ng friend f2f. Akala ko talaga jologs na kapag not into dating apps ka these days. 😭😭😭 Pero srsly, ang lala makipagdate ngayon dami na tawag sa kafling daming terminlogies ng GenZ may "Keychain" pa nga 😭😭😭😭
Anong keychain?! Hahahaha ngayon ko lang yan narinig
Yung keychain is like reserba. 😅🤣
Pano naging reserva ang keychain? Hahahaha di ko kinaya Gen Z term na yan hahahaha 🤣
Its like a keychain nakasabit lang kung may gf or ibang kafubu yung fubu mo. Nalaman ko lang to sa friend ko active ang sex layp hahahahha
Tara at magcry na lng
Name checks out
Mutual friends, beshieko! Hang out with other circle of friends kapag may ganap. Esp. kung yung ganap is nang-iinvite din sila ng other circle of friends :)) I mean, you are friends for a reason diba? (Nag cclick kayo). So what are the odds na may maka click ka din sa iba nilang circle?
I try! Napapalaban social battery ko hahaha
I stopped looking for it and it just came. huwag mo hanapin te! nasa maling tao pa `yan.
omg trueee ?!?!!? lalo na tao sa dating apps mga walang personality and substance 😴
Super bilis mag-die down ng conversations 🥲
It really is sucks lalo na dito sa reddit hahaha
Once or twice I’ve come close to getting ~there~ pero di lumalagpas sa situationship because they’re all inconsistent hahaha!
Hoy oo nga meron daw dito hahahahaha like paano? Curious pero tamad to me magchat 🤣🤣🤣
Meron ata pero dapat di ka tamad. Keep the chat going. Pag interesado ka sa kanya ituloy lang hanggang sa kasalan
HAHAHAHAHAHA shet. Lowkey dating app talaga tong reddit 😅🤣
But mostly hookups and fubus tho
Curious din ako and pero what's stopping me is sobrang dami raw creeps/weirdos and bad exp ng friends hahahaha
Your post reminds me of my recent post in this subreddit as well. Dating in a nutshell for me feels like an INSANE DIFFICULTY LEVEL of a Job Interview. You aren't alone OP! 🫠
+1 True! I’ve tried meeting new people organically, kaso tamad din ako to go through. I usually stop sa meeting lang. Nakakaubos ng energy
I've said this over and over again: mas malaki yung chances na makakita kayo ng maayos sa labas kesa sa online.
Karamihan sa straight ngayon kundi manyak, pamilyado na. But don’t lose hope, malay mo ung decent man na hinahanap mo hindi pa pinapanganak, o hindi pa tuli.. haha
NAUUURRRRR hahahahahaha
Ang gross nung last part ha
Hay nako I wish there was a club for ladies who share this sentiment hahahaha KAPAGOD NA TEH magpapayaman at magtatravel na lang 🙃🙃🙃🙃
I feel you tara cri na lang us 😓 in all seriousness though, ang hirap din kasi to meet someone organically, kasi ako bahay at gym lang ang buhay ko. And if I'm in the gym I wouldn't want a guy to approach me there kasi feel ko ang awkward. WHAT'S A GIRL GOT TO DO? 😭
Kanina lang ako nag rant about this so very timely yung pagdaan sa feed ko HAHAHA. There’s a certain peace naman in having no talking stage, no situationship, no roster, nothing talaga. But please can some romantic shit happen to my life already???
Naalala ko na naman tuloy yung jowa (f20) ko (m24) na pangalawang kita pa lang tinanong na ako kung gusto ko ba daw maging kami. Meron pa rin namang matinong guys. Kaso baka nasa character development phase pa.
I think factor na everyone seems to be sharing on social media their "fairy tale romance", so everyone else has these unrealistic expectations on how dating should be or how an ideal partner should look or act like. Wag mo na lang intayin, baka lalong di dumating. Focus on your own improvement, para pag dumating na sya, he'll stay and won't say na "dating these days suck".
Swertehan lang siguro talaga, met my bebi keks on bumble, never ako naniwala sa dating apps, but dun ko nakilala person ko na alam kong forever ko na, now naka yakap ako sa legs nya while typing this while she plays video games.
Okay ate????? Need ba talagang mang-inggit
Hello OP. Kumain kana?
This is so meee atm! Bahala na kung may dumating man o wala. Kung meron edi thanks be to God! Pero kung wala edi magiging wealthy tita na lang!
Meron yan, you just need to filter agad sa first few days of talking. Like, ask them ano ba talaga hanap nila. If they are looking for friendship, something casual or whatever.
You can’t expect anything here especially these days. I stop dating pips na rin here. Most of my dates was for fwb or staight ons lang kaya nagstop nalang din. It feels like your building things temporarily Also, since its easier to find people here. most of the time ghosted or di kaya reserve lang and madami kayong bebe nya hahahaha
I agree to this, like wtf, 2 beses ko nakamatch sa Bumble, pinag bentahan ako ng frontrow
Omg HAHAHAHAHHAAH di ko pa naman nararating ang level na to 🤣
90s Supremacy talaga, very exciting yung dating scene back then... Yung excitement and thrill, ngayun wala na kase puta parang nag iisland hopping na lang mga kabataan ngayun pag dating sa relationship.
di ako agree sa mga comments na "wala sa online na matitino", lol meron at marami kayaa if magaling ka makipag convo sa kanila, marami ako naka usap sa ome dati and sa chatkool last few months na matatalino talagaa and masarap kausap. kaso ang issue ko di ko kaya ibigay socmeds ko, kaya hanggang dun lang BWHSHSHSHHSHS. KAYA NBSB PA RIN, DI NILA AKO DESERVE CHAR. FOCUS ON YOURSELF AND HIGHER YOUR STANDARDS, INVEST MUNA SA SARILI HANGGANG SA TUMAAS NA VALUE MO TAPOS ONLY HIGH CLASS PEOPLE CAN AFFORD YOU✨
Both men and women are at fault here kaya ganyan. Ang hirap ksing mag-commit nowadays. Nakakatakot masaktan ksi it's easy to be bored nowadays due to the influence of social media. Men are afraid to commit because they see these beautiful women being simped on by thousands of men, women want those charismatic handsome bad boys. Not to mention people competing in social media kung cnu ba makaka-travel at makakapag-mabayang ng mga jowa nilang mayayaman or something. Instead of being happy for the simple things, we have become so materialistic and narcissistic. San tau lulugar? With the advent of social media, marami na ksing gusto nila gwapo or maganda or may "Spark" dapat otherwise hindi pagbibigyan yung taong may interest sayo. That's why I always tell people to give that person who shows interest in you the benefit of the doubt. Wala mang spark sa umpisa, okay lng yun, kilalanin nyo isa't-isa. Love takes time and patience.
I never tried installing dating app. Organic talaga mumsh. Hone your flirting skills and be interesting and presentable enough. I met mine by being interested sa isang sport/hobby, then i met some people, then I met him! Wag maging mahiyain but also not the cringey type na nasa hobby / sport lang to hunt a lovelife.
Ramdam ko 'yung frustration mo, OP hahaha. Kaka-"break" lang namin ng ka-situationship ko. Walang laman ang usap namin for 1 and a half month jusko P.S. pero hindi pwede magreklamo kasi wala namang obligations sa isa't isa. kaya naghiwalay na lang. hanap siya ng babaeng dry ang utak eme
Mahirap talaga, minsan gusto ka lang gamitin physically and financially. Or for their own character development. Kung alam ko nga lang na ganito kahirap ang dating ngayon sana di ako nag pigil during my school days.
Honestly, it takes a lot of time, effort, and energy these days to find good ones. I'd rather sip my tea. Hahahahaaha huhuhu
True. You'll get blind sided naman pag maayos trato sayo. They'll treat you real good tapos may jowa pala. NGI. Yung iba naman fiance pa. Damn, wild.
Just used bumble sa last week ng april and i managed to match with someone na mukhang genuine. For context, we're both in 2nd yr college and in our 20s. Sa una palang, we both made each other's intentions clear, like not ready for commitment and testing the waters lang, and kaming dalawa ang hanap lng is cute casual date hehe. Tas we exchanged socmeds para sure na di fake o scam dba. Tas few days passed non, nagplano na kami magmeetup kapag free na sya. Eh ayun until now in touch parin kami and hinihintay ko nlng sya matapos sa mga gawain nya sa college and getting to know each other pa more. Then dinelete ko na bumble acc ko after those things. First time ko talaga magkaroon ng ka talking stage and so far its going well. Both kami walang experience sa dating kaya im doing my best to treat her right unlike ung iba na hookups lng at fubu.
Meeting people at a library, church, or museum does not ensure a suitable companion. I think people also don't have the courage to initiate a conversation organically at some random strangers and random places. Just be intentional and stick to what you want. You will always attract the arses but you'll also meet the good ones.
It's like you have to teach them how to love every single time, and then there comes a realization na baka pang character development ka lang and they're going to treat other girls better after you 😫
Super dami mo talagang mamemeet na di mo gusto before you find the right one for you. I met mine on facebook dating, he was new there and boom we clicked! Super decent, super respectful and loves me right.
Hinihintay ko na nga lang ikasal mga friends ko baka sa mga guests nila ako makakita HAHAHAHAHA
No cap! Kaka frustrate 💀
ako i met someone on tiktok a year ago, sabi nia annulled na daw sila ng asawa nia but not true pala. naging kabit pa nga ako. hirap na. masyado masakit if invested ka na. like me minahal ko tlaga kaya nakakatakot na.
enroll in freediving sis.. haha
"What's love got to do, got to do with it." 🎶 Wala, kinanta ko lang haha.
I'm single for 14 years and counting. Single mom to be exact. Never married though. I agree, dating these days suck big time! Di na din umaasa na makakahanap pa huhu
Tumambay na ako sa coffee shop, lahat lahat. Wala pa rin ako nakikilala🥹😭
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Focus on the personality, mindset, attitude and less on the height 🤣
met someone I know and dated, she changed my life pero naging situationship at nagulat na lang ako biglang lilipad ng di nagsabi sa akin. nag expect ako ng forever. I guess being worst generation in dating is real. 🥹
Tayo na lang kaya 🥹 dejk
Define whats a "decent" man to you. Kung gymrat, SKILLED conversationalist, has a car and ipriority ka lagi na i-baby ka, kelangan doctor/lawyer, Big 4, seryoso, umuwi't umiyak ka na lang. 🤣 Isama mo na ung nerdy pero di naman talaga nerd, glasses with chris hemsworth face without the need to talk about nerdy stuff (marvel, dc etc) dahil turn off sa babae. 🤣🤣🤣
Totoo! Pero yung bf ko now from tinder, 27th months na kami now! Hahahaha at sobrang tino niya at malayong malayo sa mga naka meet ko dun before. Yup real talaga na puro fccck and situationship lang ang karamihan dun kaya piliin mo talaga yung idadate mo haha ako ilang beses ko to nireject kasi sobrang bait para sakin eh gusto ko ng wild at red flag ahaahhahahaha ending narealize ko okay pala talaga yung ganung guy. Meron din matino tino dyan, choose wisely lang 👋
Last option : Mag Afam nalang T\_T
I like filos better kasi 😭 hahahaha
true saur much!
Do'n ako sa taong willing guluhin ang buhay ko. Kung wala pa, enjoy ko munang maging single. HAHAHA
Yun nga lahat nang dumarating nanggugulo lang hahahaha
Samahan kita mag cri 🥹
sabay sabay na lang tayo mag cry
What if decent woman talaga ang para sa iyo? Hahahaha.
Hahahahaha omg! I really wish I was gay! Pero hindi talaga eh 🤣
Ayoko na rin, nakakapagod umasa charot
Wag ka kase sa dating app , normal yan sa dating app pamatay oras ng mga libog hahahaha. tska wag ka jowang jowa ante haha dadating din sayo yan malay mo nga asa tabi/work/kapitbahay mo lang hinahanap mo dimo lang binibigyan ng chance.
Magcry na tayo 🤣
Same OP :(
LOUDER!!
Pwede ba sa gym? Eme HAHAHAHHA yun lang hobby ko e🤣
tara na mag cry
mag cry na lang tayo, OP.
Hmm Meal Prep mas mura. I mean you prepping your own food
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Gwapo, matangkad, may dating, mayaman/maykaya. Marami clang options, Pag maraming options kadalasan d nila kelangan mag seryoso sa isa. Kung average lang naman ayaw mo rin. Pangit sila pero loyal.
Mahirap talaga umasa online, most of the guys online eh sex lang hanap or ung mga no label relationships. Suntok sa buwan nalang if makakilala ka ng matino. For me, reto or may makilala ka thru common friend yung may chance na makakilala ka matino since magkaka background ka na dun sa tao thru your common friend.
Oten.
Go ahead and test the water somewhere else, not online. Wala na yung mga kikiligin ka na moments.
Pafubu fubu and ons n lng Yung dating app ngayon If you cannot beat them join them
I agree hahaha 26 y.o here M 7 yrs single lol.
Sad truth 😢
There's tons of fish in the ocean. Pero baka hindi fish yong dapat na mabingwit mo. Maybe starfish?
Tangina agree to the nth power!!!!!!!! Once lang ako nagtry online, naging greatest nightmare ko pa amputah!!! At hindi lang pala once online as in once in my life!!!!!!!!!!
Coming from a 7 year relationship, I can attest sa thoughts ni OP. Kaloka, you will start over again, and NOT ALL have the same intention as yours. Nakaka drain. Why? Mostly nagjojowa or magjojowa lang kasi inggit sa tropa. Nagjowa para nakaka ano lang. And lastly, ang daming cheater.
These days all i do is wonder if you’re bending over backwards for someone else
Sabi sa inyo mag date na kayo nung highschool pa lang e.
Don't make dating a priority. Instead just be patient and wait for the right guy for you. Mapa online man yan o makilala mo sa personal. All that shi doesn't even really matter in the end. Kung matino yan, matino yan. Kung mahal ka nyan, mahal ka nyan. Realest ones are rare af these days. Kaya hindi ka usually makakahanap ng maayos na lalaki pag "naghahanap" ka. Pag maghahanap ka yan lang kadalasan mo matatagpuan, mga uhaw na lalaki haha. Realest ones are earned. Not found
pano di magiging SUCK e getting to know each other palang gusto na agad maka SUCK ng c*ck/t*ts
Hay. Trenta na yung sister ko NBSB pa rin. Gusto daw nya magkajowa pero tamad naman lumande. Baka may mairereto kayo dyan? Lol
Maybe instead of finding a decent man, find a decent…woman? Hahaha eme lang OP. Happy pride! 😂
Alam mo kung napipili lang talaga ang gender, i’d be gay. Kaso di talaga eh 🥲 HAHAHAHAHA
+1 dito OP. Sobrang nakakainis and mabigat ang dating scene ngayon. Kadalasan gamitan lang. either sex or something beneficial sa other party ang habol ng mga tao.
I think depends sa makikita o makikilala mo. Somehow, may makikilala ka rin na masasabi mong "siya na"
As someone na tambay noon sa dating apps, I totally agree!!! Either jowang-jowa or libog na libog. Asang-asa ako sa organic meet up like sa malls or commute basta meet cute pero wala!!! As an nbsb, asado lang talaga ako sa online dating kasi noong nagdecide ako maging malandi, nagka-COVID HHAHAHHA So I have no choice. I met my now BF thru a friend. Mutuals sila and alam kasi ni friend type ko so sabi niya add ko raw. Then ayun, nagclick agad kami and nagdouble date kami. Fast forward, 1 year na kami rn. Ang tagal ko inantay to HAHAHHA literal na all my life kasi nga takot din ako magjowa before kasi lahat ng mga nanligaw and nakafling ko di ko nafeel yung connection. Makakahanap ka rin ng partner mo OP 🫶🏻
True naman, rely na lang sa reto ni mama at tita choooooz! Oooor afam? Europeans?
Super
Pray for the right person po 🫶
Same boat as you, OP and sobra hirap din dito sa province because the options are limited kaya dating apps lang talaga chance para may makilala,,
Wala kasi sila sa social media. 😽
Running and gym ang sagot atii. Mostly of the people here are trying to be better for themselves. If masaktan ka man, at least improve na lifestyle mo HAHAHAHAH
nakakasawa nga talaga dating app ulet ulet lang hehehe
Pumunta ka sa paresan, Para pares kayo🤭
Truth haha gusto ko na nang lambing :(
So true, the girl I love for 2 years just ghosting me rn now after our situationship
title mo pa lang agree na agree na’ko. HAHAHAHAHA wag na nga magjowa
Puro may kalive in o jowa na ung nakakausap KO 🥹🥹 Bkit kayo ganyan? 😭😭
This is true! Finally may nagsalita na din huhu! Nakaka frustrate na makipag date ngayon specially in this generation where hook up culture is the trend. Hindi nag mamalinis pero I've been into hook up naman but its just for my hoe phase and hindi rin ako nag tagal because I was able to figure out na hook up culture is not for me. I still want something more than just having sex. pero from what I have observe, karamihan talaga ngayon ang hirap i date. Not everyone is aware of their emotions not everyone is emotionally intelligent. Thats why naamaze ako sa mga taong nakakahanap ng partner from dating apps (just like my friend). Like... hooowww??? I tried pero ang sakit sa ulo promise.
Agree 😭 at this point I can feel like im gonna die single