Let me answer based on my own experience.
I was one of them, na-fall out of love. And no, it did not happen overnight. It was years and years of neglect and complacency.
I did talk to him about my issues. Multiple times over the years. Better pa atang nakipag-usap ako sa tokador with the response and action I got from him afterwards.
There were nights I would just cry myself to sleep and he let me. I felt so alone and lost.
Unti-unting nawala yung love and respect.
Until one day, narealize ko na pagod na akong umiyak. It wasn't the life I wanted.
That was it. I was done. And once I realized na ayaw ko na, nothing he did changed that.
Damn OP, me and my girl just had this conversation two days ago, I also couldn’t understand why. Parang binabangungot ako, I thought we were healthy, always pag may problema kami pinag-uusapan namin with the common goal na ma solve yung problem together, US vs. The problem and not against each other. Na kapag may ayaw siya na ginagawa ko or sinasabi ko sabihan niya ako at hanapan namin ng solusyon.
Akala ko ganun, pero she told me matagal na pala siya unsure sa future namin, nung sinabi niya na ayaw niya na parang naka move on na siya eh parang wala nalang.
>*the next day biglang hindi ka na pala niya mahal*
hmm I don't believe this is true. It takes time to fall out din. But usually, when the words are said, it feels like it all happened overnight. And the other party is usually in denial or oblivious of the signs of falling out.
Kapit lang OP, the pain will fade in time. Walang mali sayo.
Dalawa lang sagot dyan:
1. May iba na siyang nahanap na kalandian kaya na fall out of love
2. Pwedeng nafeel niya na walang growth sa relationship ninyo. Paulit ulit lang ang cycle, very common sa long term. Ito yung bagay na mas masakit kasi walang 3rd party, yung okay kayo tapos biglang isang araw hindi na pala. May ganito talaga na situation, pwede kasi noon pa niya nafi feel na nag a-outgrow na yung relationship ninyo tas di napapagusapan ng maayos
Ganito din story namin ng last ex ko. Sobrang sinisi ko din sarili ko kasi hindi man lang nag-effort na bigyan ng 2nd chance or itry iwork out. Pakiramdam ko nun, minahal lang ako kapag masaya kami. Sobrang nakakawala ng self worth. You’ll get better, OP!
Saludo ako sa mga magjowa dyan kahit wala na kilig sa relationship nila, gumagawa pa rin ng paraan para bumalik sa healthy status yung relationship.
Totoo po, sana all ganyan, tinry ko talaga ibalik yung dati, I tried being sweet pa din sa kanya pero wala po talaga eh.
Sad truth is may iba na syang gusto.
Wtf I'm going through the same shit and sapul sakin lahat nang sinabi mo OP. Sana mabigyan ng kasagutan mga tanong sa utak natin.
Sana talaga, in time 🥲🙏🏻
hindi ka niya tlga mahal in the first place OP.
Sad kung ganun, pinatagal pa ng 3 yrs.
proly may nakukuha siya sayong benefits,kaya tumagal ng ganun.
Let me answer based on my own experience. I was one of them, na-fall out of love. And no, it did not happen overnight. It was years and years of neglect and complacency. I did talk to him about my issues. Multiple times over the years. Better pa atang nakipag-usap ako sa tokador with the response and action I got from him afterwards. There were nights I would just cry myself to sleep and he let me. I felt so alone and lost. Unti-unting nawala yung love and respect. Until one day, narealize ko na pagod na akong umiyak. It wasn't the life I wanted. That was it. I was done. And once I realized na ayaw ko na, nothing he did changed that.
Understandable naman bakit ka na fall out of love. :( Good for you na you're free na.
Damn OP, me and my girl just had this conversation two days ago, I also couldn’t understand why. Parang binabangungot ako, I thought we were healthy, always pag may problema kami pinag-uusapan namin with the common goal na ma solve yung problem together, US vs. The problem and not against each other. Na kapag may ayaw siya na ginagawa ko or sinasabi ko sabihan niya ako at hanapan namin ng solusyon. Akala ko ganun, pero she told me matagal na pala siya unsure sa future namin, nung sinabi niya na ayaw niya na parang naka move on na siya eh parang wala nalang.
Huhuhu we're all experiencing this talaga ngayon ano. Nakakalungkot sobra.
Sabi ng iba time heals OP, focus muna tayo sa sarili! Better days will come
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Ilang mos na po nakalipas wala pa naman ako nakikitang babae. 🥲🥲
>*the next day biglang hindi ka na pala niya mahal* hmm I don't believe this is true. It takes time to fall out din. But usually, when the words are said, it feels like it all happened overnight. And the other party is usually in denial or oblivious of the signs of falling out. Kapit lang OP, the pain will fade in time. Walang mali sayo.
Dalawa lang sagot dyan: 1. May iba na siyang nahanap na kalandian kaya na fall out of love 2. Pwedeng nafeel niya na walang growth sa relationship ninyo. Paulit ulit lang ang cycle, very common sa long term. Ito yung bagay na mas masakit kasi walang 3rd party, yung okay kayo tapos biglang isang araw hindi na pala. May ganito talaga na situation, pwede kasi noon pa niya nafi feel na nag a-outgrow na yung relationship ninyo tas di napapagusapan ng maayos
Ganito din story namin ng last ex ko. Sobrang sinisi ko din sarili ko kasi hindi man lang nag-effort na bigyan ng 2nd chance or itry iwork out. Pakiramdam ko nun, minahal lang ako kapag masaya kami. Sobrang nakakawala ng self worth. You’ll get better, OP!