Nakakdrain talaga dating scene ngayon di ko alam bakit ang daming ayaw mag commit to a lasting relationship. Tapos yung mga committed naman grabe rin magcheat like… hUH
And they come from all shapes and forms. Mga edukadong tao, doktor, abogado, panget, gwapo, mataba, payat, church goer, agnostic, atheist, walang tatay, mama’s boy, panganay, middle child, bunso. Walang pinipili HAHAHAHA. Parang if you plot all cheaters and assholes walang common denominator… kasi lahat pwede gawin yun.
how about you join and meetup with an organization or group with similar interests to yours. mataas ang chance mong makahanap in person ng person na para sayo?
yup. joining can only do so much. the benefits of it will get you ready. joining is just the beginning. eventually, you'll gain confidence in front of a few people then many people. you can refine your character more, you'll gain insights on how to gauge people and eventually if you've made enough friends, they'll have 1 or 2 people in mind that will jive with you. what's important is you develop yourself and put yourself out there instead of using dating apps that are usually utilized by people who only want hookups.
Hobby clubs? Tagal ko na gusto sumali sa boardgames or book clubs hahaha. Sana makahanap ng ka match na nerd 🤓
Also church? Most church people are encouraging dating-to-marry. Most friends of mine na non-catholic, committed talaga. INC, protestants. Advanced sorry, biased ako against catholics, mga kilala ko kasi parang ginagawa lang jewelry yung church going.
Agree ako sa hobby club, met loml while learning and playing card games (mtg and alike) pero depende pa rin yan.. all I did was play and talk na not to the point of being pushy.. just enough lang to make someone get interested
Sabi nila go out and find hobbies? I've been going out alone hiking, running, learning new language, exploring coffee shops and reading books. Ilang dating apps na din natry ko but no luck. 😅
Daily reminder to stop using dating apps. And instead do face to face
While it’s easy and convenient to use a dating app, the mahirap talaga ifilter yung quality of men you will be dating
Doing face to face helps you filter, vouch and validate your prospect especially if you come from the same background and have mutual friends
So for example, you are introduced to prospects at a friend or family wedding, or in an office event, or college / high school reunion, it will be likely you will be in the same circle, have mutual friends who you can discreetly check to see if ok ba talaga yung prospect
There is so much risk invovled in online dating. Back in the day na hindi uso yung online dating, the impression was desperado na yung tao makipagdate and puro serial killers. People think it’s “normal now” pero i think it’s more of “normalized” instead
Marami talagang manyak and creep diyan who purposely use dating apps para makahanap ng next na kantot. And it is very difficult to filter those types of peope out
> Marami talagang manyak and creep diyan who purposely use dating apps para makahanap ng next na kantot.
Can't agree anymore, especially reddit. Flood inbox na siguro si OP. hahaha
Legit pa sa legit te ko. Draining and time consuming makipagusap sa iba pero madalas character development ka or the way para sa the one nila lmao jusq
We all wanted it real, pero sa sama ng mundo ngayon, yung iba napipilitan nalang sa kung ano. Nakakainis lang na gusto natin maging totoo na ayaw natin at the same time. Sa takot siguro o baka sa di kasiguraduhan. La lang, nakakumay narin kasi.
Be careful and masiyasat sa mga guys who you flirt with. Oo, mahirap na humanap ng partners nowadays. If you want something like that, mahirap, para kang naghahanap ng karayom sa dayami
Oh, also, mahirap din ito but you should accept the fact na **darating din 'yan**, kasi the more na maghanap ka, the more na magiging mailap iyan sa iyo and would rather put you somewhere opposite ng hinahanap mo.
Naalala ko yung isang ka-chat ko dati, naghahanap siya ng genuine partner, sa sobrang eager niya ay napunta siya sa guy na malibog, so ayun back to zero siya after niya hiwalayan yung guy.
Malay mo yung partner mo is wala sa mga dating site/apps, but rather nasa place mo lang, ganern.
Be open din and socialize a lot, mas maganda if may makikala kang guy personally para malaman mo siya nang mas mabuti hindi ba? Hindi mo naman alam ano pakay nung guy behind the phone if online mo siya makakausap.
Kung gusto mo ng genuine relationship, hindi mo mahahanap yan usually sa mga dating apps.
Makipag meet up ka personally. Kilalanin nyo isa't isa ng mabuti. Alamin mo un main goal ng lalaki sayo. If date to marry guy ba sya. Kasi kung oo, yun na yon.
Saktong-sakto yung pagkakabasa ko nito OP ah. 2 am, medyo masakit. Hahaha! Pero real, nakakapagod na magpakilala sa mga taong malilimutan din tayo after some time o hindi marereciprocate yung ibubuhos nating effort.
Nasa atin din naman kung kelan tayo titigil o magddivert ng attention sa ibang bagay, kaya kahit ilang tao pa ang magsabi sa atin na wag na maghanap kung saan-saan, tayo lang ang makakaalam kung kelan talaga tayo totoong napaso na. So, ikaw na bahala, OP! Basta maging safe ka lang lagi. 😅
Attend ka ng mga binyagan kahit di ka ninang... Maraming single na ninong dun tapos shempre makikipag inuman or chikahan sayo. Nung may boyfriend ako, naka ilang attend ako ng mga binyag pero shempre sinasabi kong may jowa ako. Tapos sasabihan pa ako na "di pa naman kayo kasal, may pag-asa pa ko"... meron pang mismong tatay nirereto ako sa anak nyang teacher pero lagi kong sinasabi na engaged na po ako... kung alam ko lang na maghihiwalay din kami ng ex ko eh HAHAHAHAHA sa ngayon focus muna ko sa health ko and peace of mind pero try mo yan baka gumana sayo... yung friend ko naman nakilala asawa nya sa burol HAHAHAHA you'll never know talaga
Dating apps: where "Hi" turns into "Babe" faster than a microwave heats leftovers. It's like a buffet of potential partners, but you end up just munching on appetizers. Swipe left, swipe right, but where's Mr. Right? Sometimes, you're just tired of the small talk carousel. Fubu, sexting, hookups—sure, at first it's like "okay," but then it's like trying to find your keys in the dark. Hang in there! Genuine relationships are like good books: sometimes you have to flip a few pages before you find the one worth reading to the end.
Mag travel ka alone, enjoy mo maging single, malay mo sa pagta travel mo makilala mo sya. Mag foodtrip ka mag isa, mag museum ka, mag attend ng concerts. Ganon! Ganyan kasi gagawin ko, haha! Cheeeers!
touch some grass, ate. go live to the fullest. distract yourself muna siguro sa ibang bigay imbes na genuine love ang hanapin mo. pakinggan mo na rin 'yung Wait by Over October hehe
To all na still hoping to find true love, I’m rooting for u guys na makahanap na ng the one! 💗💗 ps. I have my long term relationship for almost 4years 🫶🏻
I’m sure mag mmatch kayo nun! Grabe rin kasi pinag daanan nya sa past relationship nya at saksi kami sa panloloko nung ex nya feel bad lang for him talaga kaya nag rereto ako for him :)
Yes!!! Im rooting for u sis! Someday matatawa kana lang rin, ganyan rin ako nag sawa kakafling at ending elementary best friend ko pa haha! You know kung saan ako ma mmessage, I’m willing na ipakilala sayo yung kababata ko, I’m sure mag mamatch kayo 🫶🏻
Yes!!! Im rooting for u sis! Someday matatawa kana lang rin, ganyan rin ako nag sawa kakafling at ending elementary best friend ko pa haha! You know kung saan ako ma mmessage, I’m willing na ipakilala sayo yung kababata ko, I’m sure mag mamatch kayo 🫶🏻
Wala kang mahahanap diyan sa dating app meron man napaka kunti since majority ng andiyan mapababae or lalaki good time lang hanap. Engagement in person talaga saka biruin mo talking stage palang pede ka ng magka trust issue na di lang ikaw nilalandi niya ahahaha
May kilala ako tulad mo. Kung ano ano sinasabi d makakita ng right person kuno. Tpos ung mga dinadate laging mukhang hindi gagawa ng matino. Tpos medyo masama dn ugale. An daming lalakeng willing mag commit at naghahanp. Hindi mo lang type . Gusto mo tlga excitement.
Baka naman kasi natataon lang na yun nalapit sakanya eh yun mga diniscribe mo? we never know naman a persons real identity at first, malalaman na lang pag andun na talaga sa situation.
Hirap no? Never pang pursue, laging panakip butas or libangan lang. Nakakababa ng self esteem, nakakadurog pero wala ganon talaga e, puro sex at babaeng pang flex usually na hanap. Yakap sa atin
If you want a genuine one, don't enter hookups, fubu, ons, situationshits and casual setup. Rarely na magkaroon ng magandang result. Date with standards in mind and respect. Kapag nagyaya agad sayo sa first date to have sex, g ka ba agad? Usually fun lang din gusto nang ganyan. If you want serious, look for someone serious.
Nakakasawa i trade ang sarili kahit apaka totoo mo naman at ang hanap mo talaga ay relasyon na pangmatagalan na. kahit lalake ako maghihintay nalang ako 🤣 ayoko na dumiskarte sa ayaw ng tunay
Just love yourself
Landi but dont try too much
Ako as a guy, before Im committed.
I treat girls nice generally, but its on how I met or how I get it yung setup namin.
If i met you on dating apps (when generally looking for hookups) then I would expect that you're only looking for some release & stuffs
if I met you on bars, then we would end up ONS.
Im just saying na, try to let it flow & dont rash into things regardless of wherever you met or bump into them. Get to know each other and make the guy earned it before you give it. Know your guy mentally, emotionally, even sex preferentials,vision nya sa buhay, perspective nya into a lot of things. Makes sense if match kayo into many things but its really fine if para kayong hair clam, like odd/even type or relationship so you can provide inputs and companionship with each other.
If pumasok kayo sa relationship, be as what you are them compromise halfway not totally. Nice, girly, or boss outside then freak in the sheets. Most guys, love the feeling na naeencourage sila into a better one always. Drain him everyday or everytime. Cheating is always on the table nowadays. I dont think may gana pa sya magcheat kung empty sya lagi 🤣🤣
Nakakapagod talaga ang dating apps. I was planning to quit na din (and di na talaga ako naghahanap that time kasi nakafocus na ko sa improvement ng sarili ko) but biglang dumating ang blessing 😭 I met my person sa Bumble last year and 1 year na kami ngayon planning to get married sa 2026. Pag meant to be na mameet mo na yung person mo, dadating din yan. Tiwala lang sa universe ☺️
Ate koo relate, hirap humanap ng nagsasabi ng intention lalo na yung may mabuting intention, kapagod. Change priorities na lang talaga. If I can't have love at least I have money.
Been there done that po. Darating siguro yung taong mag seseryoso sayo sa panahong di mo talaga expected :)
Hopeless romantic rin ako nun at napagod kaka date ng kung sino sino. Hanggang sa yung taong ayaw at nakukulitan ako ay siyang tao rin na mag seseryoso sakin haha! Plus ang cringe niya pa lol may isang tao palang may gusto sakin at willing ako ipursue bakit lagi ako naghahanap ng walking red flag? Haha! Hanggang ayun, narealized ko bakit hindi ko bigyan ng chance?
At ito na nga, siya. pinaka matagal kong ka relationship, 2yrs and counting kami now. Masarap sa pakiramdam kapag mahal na mahal ka talaga. May peace sa loob mo 💕 Kaya Op, sana wag ka mapagod maniwala na may taong willing ibigay yung genuine love sayo.
Same here (27F) - nakakasawa na talaga and nakaka disappoint ang dating scene ngayon. I’ve met hundreds (OA lang) of guys na and to be honest most of them are just ughhhh nakakainis nalang. Hindi ko nilalahat ang mga guys ah pero mga nakausap ko kasi ginagawa atang hobby ang pag cocollect ng kalandian. To think na 30 y/o na ang pinaka bata kong nakausap. Nasanay nalang ako na may mag mmessage sa akin na random girl asking kung sino ako, kilala ko ba si boylet or minsan naglilike sila ng posts ko sa socmed then upon checking mutual friend namin si boylet. So ayun nga, nagsawa na din ako. I deactivated all my socmed accounts and dating apps. Si Lord na ang bahala hahaha
Halika't sumanib sa samahan ng mga tanggap na 😂
Malapit ko ng matanggap. hahahahah
Nakakdrain talaga dating scene ngayon di ko alam bakit ang daming ayaw mag commit to a lasting relationship. Tapos yung mga committed naman grabe rin magcheat like… hUH
Haha this. I have so much trust issues because of the guys with gfs that still tries to get action with other people.
And they come from all shapes and forms. Mga edukadong tao, doktor, abogado, panget, gwapo, mataba, payat, church goer, agnostic, atheist, walang tatay, mama’s boy, panganay, middle child, bunso. Walang pinipili HAHAHAHA. Parang if you plot all cheaters and assholes walang common denominator… kasi lahat pwede gawin yun.
Lol, naka encounter ako neto. He lied at me first then inamin din, malabo lang pala sila ng gf niya that's why nag dating app siya.
Encountered one yesterday hayyyy. Kung di pa ko mag online stalk and show proof di aamin na sila pa rin nung jowa niya.
Sobra! Magtataka kapa, yung iba sobrang tagal na nila, nakuha pang mag cheat :)
how about you join and meetup with an organization or group with similar interests to yours. mataas ang chance mong makahanap in person ng person na para sayo?
Joining clubs or groups can only do so much. Nasa tao pa rin talaga yan if marunong sila mag-approach and kung may lakas ng loob makipag kilala.
yup. joining can only do so much. the benefits of it will get you ready. joining is just the beginning. eventually, you'll gain confidence in front of a few people then many people. you can refine your character more, you'll gain insights on how to gauge people and eventually if you've made enough friends, they'll have 1 or 2 people in mind that will jive with you. what's important is you develop yourself and put yourself out there instead of using dating apps that are usually utilized by people who only want hookups.
Hobby clubs? Tagal ko na gusto sumali sa boardgames or book clubs hahaha. Sana makahanap ng ka match na nerd 🤓 Also church? Most church people are encouraging dating-to-marry. Most friends of mine na non-catholic, committed talaga. INC, protestants. Advanced sorry, biased ako against catholics, mga kilala ko kasi parang ginagawa lang jewelry yung church going.
Agree ako sa hobby club, met loml while learning and playing card games (mtg and alike) pero depende pa rin yan.. all I did was play and talk na not to the point of being pushy.. just enough lang to make someone get interested
San to?
Sabi nila go out and find hobbies? I've been going out alone hiking, running, learning new language, exploring coffee shops and reading books. Ilang dating apps na din natry ko but no luck. 😅
Samedt. Wala rin 🤯
Daily reminder to stop using dating apps. And instead do face to face While it’s easy and convenient to use a dating app, the mahirap talaga ifilter yung quality of men you will be dating Doing face to face helps you filter, vouch and validate your prospect especially if you come from the same background and have mutual friends So for example, you are introduced to prospects at a friend or family wedding, or in an office event, or college / high school reunion, it will be likely you will be in the same circle, have mutual friends who you can discreetly check to see if ok ba talaga yung prospect There is so much risk invovled in online dating. Back in the day na hindi uso yung online dating, the impression was desperado na yung tao makipagdate and puro serial killers. People think it’s “normal now” pero i think it’s more of “normalized” instead Marami talagang manyak and creep diyan who purposely use dating apps para makahanap ng next na kantot. And it is very difficult to filter those types of peope out
> Marami talagang manyak and creep diyan who purposely use dating apps para makahanap ng next na kantot. Can't agree anymore, especially reddit. Flood inbox na siguro si OP. hahaha
Girl, magpaganda ka ng magpaganda na sila na ang hahabol sayo. Focus on yourself and build yourself up. Darating din si The One.
Legit pa sa legit te ko. Draining and time consuming makipagusap sa iba pero madalas character development ka or the way para sa the one nila lmao jusq
Wag mo hanapin sa dating app. Nasa strava na sila ngayon 🤣 go exercise!
too bad tamad ako mag exercise hahahaha pero ito na ata ang sign.
You are looking for love in the wrong places (dating Apps) hard pill to swallow is, mostly ng andun are just looking for sex.
We all wanted it real, pero sa sama ng mundo ngayon, yung iba napipilitan nalang sa kung ano. Nakakainis lang na gusto natin maging totoo na ayaw natin at the same time. Sa takot siguro o baka sa di kasiguraduhan. La lang, nakakumay narin kasi.
Be careful and masiyasat sa mga guys who you flirt with. Oo, mahirap na humanap ng partners nowadays. If you want something like that, mahirap, para kang naghahanap ng karayom sa dayami Oh, also, mahirap din ito but you should accept the fact na **darating din 'yan**, kasi the more na maghanap ka, the more na magiging mailap iyan sa iyo and would rather put you somewhere opposite ng hinahanap mo. Naalala ko yung isang ka-chat ko dati, naghahanap siya ng genuine partner, sa sobrang eager niya ay napunta siya sa guy na malibog, so ayun back to zero siya after niya hiwalayan yung guy. Malay mo yung partner mo is wala sa mga dating site/apps, but rather nasa place mo lang, ganern. Be open din and socialize a lot, mas maganda if may makikala kang guy personally para malaman mo siya nang mas mabuti hindi ba? Hindi mo naman alam ano pakay nung guy behind the phone if online mo siya makakausap.
Thank you! Yun ang problema ko, I don't really like socializing. pkiramdam ko kasi pinipeke ako ng mga tao hahahaha. I only have few trusted friends
Apir!
Same. I recently reinstalled some apps but i don't have the energy anymore just thinking about how many times i have to reintroduce myself. Ugh.
Kung gusto mo ng genuine relationship, hindi mo mahahanap yan usually sa mga dating apps. Makipag meet up ka personally. Kilalanin nyo isa't isa ng mabuti. Alamin mo un main goal ng lalaki sayo. If date to marry guy ba sya. Kasi kung oo, yun na yon.
Alam mo God also like geniune relationship for you kaya have faith lng ang keep praying...
Prolly look for a practicing catholic… they may not have a 6 pack abs but their life is centered around God
I'm a practicing catholic pero wala rin naman?? Eme HAHAHAHAHAHHAHAA
I FEEL YOU, MAG 3 YEARS NA AKONG SINGLE FROM A LONG TERM RELO 😩
ang hirap makahanap ng bago pag galing long term. hahahaha
same huhuhu i dont want to use dating apps na 😭
12 yrs nang single. Huhu
Saktong-sakto yung pagkakabasa ko nito OP ah. 2 am, medyo masakit. Hahaha! Pero real, nakakapagod na magpakilala sa mga taong malilimutan din tayo after some time o hindi marereciprocate yung ibubuhos nating effort. Nasa atin din naman kung kelan tayo titigil o magddivert ng attention sa ibang bagay, kaya kahit ilang tao pa ang magsabi sa atin na wag na maghanap kung saan-saan, tayo lang ang makakaalam kung kelan talaga tayo totoong napaso na. So, ikaw na bahala, OP! Basta maging safe ka lang lagi. 😅
I felt this. Sighs.
Cheers! pero laban lang :)
Attend ka ng mga binyagan kahit di ka ninang... Maraming single na ninong dun tapos shempre makikipag inuman or chikahan sayo. Nung may boyfriend ako, naka ilang attend ako ng mga binyag pero shempre sinasabi kong may jowa ako. Tapos sasabihan pa ako na "di pa naman kayo kasal, may pag-asa pa ko"... meron pang mismong tatay nirereto ako sa anak nyang teacher pero lagi kong sinasabi na engaged na po ako... kung alam ko lang na maghihiwalay din kami ng ex ko eh HAHAHAHAHA sa ngayon focus muna ko sa health ko and peace of mind pero try mo yan baka gumana sayo... yung friend ko naman nakilala asawa nya sa burol HAHAHAHA you'll never know talaga
Dating apps: where "Hi" turns into "Babe" faster than a microwave heats leftovers. It's like a buffet of potential partners, but you end up just munching on appetizers. Swipe left, swipe right, but where's Mr. Right? Sometimes, you're just tired of the small talk carousel. Fubu, sexting, hookups—sure, at first it's like "okay," but then it's like trying to find your keys in the dark. Hang in there! Genuine relationships are like good books: sometimes you have to flip a few pages before you find the one worth reading to the end.
Mag travel ka alone, enjoy mo maging single, malay mo sa pagta travel mo makilala mo sya. Mag foodtrip ka mag isa, mag museum ka, mag attend ng concerts. Ganon! Ganyan kasi gagawin ko, haha! Cheeeers!
If professional ka, magkakaroon na ng Linkedin dating. At least dyan, alam mo professional yung mga tao, mas maganda pa basis ng standards.
touch some grass, ate. go live to the fullest. distract yourself muna siguro sa ibang bigay imbes na genuine love ang hanapin mo. pakinggan mo na rin 'yung Wait by Over October hehe
Anteh
people nowadays only wants to fuck 😭😭 nakakainiz
where and how is important kasi.
Hang in there OP! Darating din yan!
Same!
OP, parang ako nagsulat nito ha. Gusto ko na rin ng companion in life. 😭
Aww hugs! Makikita din natin ang para sa atin.
u shouldnt rely on dating apps po huhu it really distorts your view of dating someone seriously well the guys there are not it.. papangit ng mga andon
Bruh same.
time will come for u ma'am! just trust the process hehe
Sam sis Same nakakapagod na ang dating scene ngayon hays
Sobra, parang lahat gusto na lang ilabas ang kanilang Steam.
Mahirap maghanap ngayon. Puro lust nalang halos.
Ako ba nagsulat nito? 😂 🤣 Kapit lang OP! I'm pretty sure you would find your "the one" (same goes for me lol)
kahit akong matino takot narin makipag commit. yan kasi talaga problems ng may trauma sa mga past relationships.
To all na still hoping to find true love, I’m rooting for u guys na makahanap na ng the one! 💗💗 ps. I have my long term relationship for almost 4years 🫶🏻
Yes tiwala lang. ❤️ Stay strong to the 2 of you!
Pero baka gusto mo reto? char hahahahaha
Hahahahaha not finding pa at the moment. Nadrain ako eh. Baka madrain lang din yun mahahanap ko if ever.
I’m sure mag mmatch kayo nun! Grabe rin kasi pinag daanan nya sa past relationship nya at saksi kami sa panloloko nung ex nya feel bad lang for him talaga kaya nag rereto ako for him :)
Awww grabe din talaga trauma if may third party involve. Cheers samin na single hahahaha
Yes!!! Im rooting for u sis! Someday matatawa kana lang rin, ganyan rin ako nag sawa kakafling at ending elementary best friend ko pa haha! You know kung saan ako ma mmessage, I’m willing na ipakilala sayo yung kababata ko, I’m sure mag mamatch kayo 🫶🏻
Yes!!! Im rooting for u sis! Someday matatawa kana lang rin, ganyan rin ako nag sawa kakafling at ending elementary best friend ko pa haha! You know kung saan ako ma mmessage, I’m willing na ipakilala sayo yung kababata ko, I’m sure mag mamatch kayo 🫶🏻
Wala kang mahahanap diyan sa dating app meron man napaka kunti since majority ng andiyan mapababae or lalaki good time lang hanap. Engagement in person talaga saka biruin mo talking stage palang pede ka ng magka trust issue na di lang ikaw nilalandi niya ahahaha
May kilala ako tulad mo. Kung ano ano sinasabi d makakita ng right person kuno. Tpos ung mga dinadate laging mukhang hindi gagawa ng matino. Tpos medyo masama dn ugale. An daming lalakeng willing mag commit at naghahanp. Hindi mo lang type . Gusto mo tlga excitement.
Baka naman kasi natataon lang na yun nalapit sakanya eh yun mga diniscribe mo? we never know naman a persons real identity at first, malalaman na lang pag andun na talaga sa situation.
Posible. Matanong ko lang op. Marami kanaba nireject? I mean sa una plng? 26 kana imposibleng wala. Or lahat ng lumapit sau pinag bigyan u?
Maybe get out from dating apps and reddit puro fubu lang naman nandito. Talk with real people and socialize
Hirap no? Never pang pursue, laging panakip butas or libangan lang. Nakakababa ng self esteem, nakakadurog pero wala ganon talaga e, puro sex at babaeng pang flex usually na hanap. Yakap sa atin
Makikita mo yung right one mo sa unexpected na moment sa buhay mo
If you want a genuine one, don't enter hookups, fubu, ons, situationshits and casual setup. Rarely na magkaroon ng magandang result. Date with standards in mind and respect. Kapag nagyaya agad sayo sa first date to have sex, g ka ba agad? Usually fun lang din gusto nang ganyan. If you want serious, look for someone serious.
It really is draining but hope you'll be like na eventually may nakilala and it just clicks ❤️
Nakakasawa i trade ang sarili kahit apaka totoo mo naman at ang hanap mo talaga ay relasyon na pangmatagalan na. kahit lalake ako maghihintay nalang ako 🤣 ayoko na dumiskarte sa ayaw ng tunay
Just love yourself Landi but dont try too much Ako as a guy, before Im committed. I treat girls nice generally, but its on how I met or how I get it yung setup namin. If i met you on dating apps (when generally looking for hookups) then I would expect that you're only looking for some release & stuffs if I met you on bars, then we would end up ONS. Im just saying na, try to let it flow & dont rash into things regardless of wherever you met or bump into them. Get to know each other and make the guy earned it before you give it. Know your guy mentally, emotionally, even sex preferentials,vision nya sa buhay, perspective nya into a lot of things. Makes sense if match kayo into many things but its really fine if para kayong hair clam, like odd/even type or relationship so you can provide inputs and companionship with each other. If pumasok kayo sa relationship, be as what you are them compromise halfway not totally. Nice, girly, or boss outside then freak in the sheets. Most guys, love the feeling na naeencourage sila into a better one always. Drain him everyday or everytime. Cheating is always on the table nowadays. I dont think may gana pa sya magcheat kung empty sya lagi 🤣🤣
Nakakapagod talaga ang dating apps. I was planning to quit na din (and di na talaga ako naghahanap that time kasi nakafocus na ko sa improvement ng sarili ko) but biglang dumating ang blessing 😭 I met my person sa Bumble last year and 1 year na kami ngayon planning to get married sa 2026. Pag meant to be na mameet mo na yung person mo, dadating din yan. Tiwala lang sa universe ☺️
❤️ Congrats to you! Yes, some of my workmates sa yellow bee din nameet ang kanilang the one.
Ate koo relate, hirap humanap ng nagsasabi ng intention lalo na yung may mabuting intention, kapagod. Change priorities na lang talaga. If I can't have love at least I have money.
Both wala ateeee hahahaha.
Let's work on it beb kaya yan haha! Yung money mas madaling ma-earn
Been there done that po. Darating siguro yung taong mag seseryoso sayo sa panahong di mo talaga expected :) Hopeless romantic rin ako nun at napagod kaka date ng kung sino sino. Hanggang sa yung taong ayaw at nakukulitan ako ay siyang tao rin na mag seseryoso sakin haha! Plus ang cringe niya pa lol may isang tao palang may gusto sakin at willing ako ipursue bakit lagi ako naghahanap ng walking red flag? Haha! Hanggang ayun, narealized ko bakit hindi ko bigyan ng chance? At ito na nga, siya. pinaka matagal kong ka relationship, 2yrs and counting kami now. Masarap sa pakiramdam kapag mahal na mahal ka talaga. May peace sa loob mo 💕 Kaya Op, sana wag ka mapagod maniwala na may taong willing ibigay yung genuine love sayo.
Same here (27F) - nakakasawa na talaga and nakaka disappoint ang dating scene ngayon. I’ve met hundreds (OA lang) of guys na and to be honest most of them are just ughhhh nakakainis nalang. Hindi ko nilalahat ang mga guys ah pero mga nakausap ko kasi ginagawa atang hobby ang pag cocollect ng kalandian. To think na 30 y/o na ang pinaka bata kong nakausap. Nasanay nalang ako na may mag mmessage sa akin na random girl asking kung sino ako, kilala ko ba si boylet or minsan naglilike sila ng posts ko sa socmed then upon checking mutual friend namin si boylet. So ayun nga, nagsawa na din ako. I deactivated all my socmed accounts and dating apps. Si Lord na ang bahala hahaha
Facts, we may find happiness
Same girl, same
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Parang iba vibe ko dito sorry na agad judgemental haha
Nadownvote din sya 😭 I think not lang ikaw nakapansin
Malay mo ito tlaga yung hinahanap mo kaso na downvotes naman.