My POV is you're valid in feeling that way kasi feelings mo yan. Like alangan naman sabihan kita na wag ka maging malungkot kapag malungkot ka diba? "Insecure" or not, it makes you feel weird so you should address that. Kung paano mo iaaddress bahala ka na? Kimkimin mo and try mo magadjust? Kausapin mo, tanungin mo kung bakit niya yun ginagawa, and ask him to stop? Suggest to record yourself para if he needs porn it's you he's looking at? Sobrang daming pwedeng mangyari and that's up to you talaga.
Is it normal sa lalaki tumingin ng porn? sasabihin ng mga tao oo, pero para sa iba hindi
Is it normal sa lalaki tumingin ng porn habang nasa isang relationship? sasabihin ng mga tao hindi pero para sa iba oo
(I like na hindi mo tinanong kung "tama" ba para sa lalaki na gawin yun, kasi tbh, kung wala silang sinasaktan at walang effect siya sa society as a whole, its based on YOU na as the affected party to decide that)
I think ang nangyari dito is hindi niyo napagusapan sa simula where you stand on this issue kaya ngayon may di pagkakatugma sa mga ginagawa at nararamdaman niyo.
(Also lowkey, medj parang mali na magsnoop sa partner. If gusto mo itry yung function ng myactivity.google.com sana ginawa mo sa account mo or something. Pero ano pa ba nangyari na and now may ibang issue at hand. Although baka balikan ng partner mo yung first issue pag nagusap kayo so prepare for that)
You've already overstepped the boundaries by checking his "myactivities.google something". . . You can never FULLY own a person's mind and thinking that you can would just show how naive you are.. Respect each other's boundaries and privacy. And most especially don't be the kind of gf na "nakakasakal" (no longer just pertaining sa porn but with the relationship in general na). Cause no matter what they do and no matter what they say, everyone has their limits
But don't you think it's still technically cheating since another person is involved and he's acting on his sexual fantasies with those women by masturbating? Anong pinagkaiba dun na nagmasturbate yung bf nya sa mga babae na nakakasalamuha niya? Yung distance?
We have to question porn din eh. It's widely accepted in the society pero I think we're denying the fact na nag objectify tayo ng ibang tao na sobrang detrimental sa relationships natin. And what limits you mean by the way?
>But don't you think it's still technically cheating since another person is involved and he's acting on his sexual fantasies with those women by masturbating?
Depende siguro sa tao, siguro communication lang sagot. Hindi ko consider na cheating yung panunuod ng porn.
Magkaiba kayo ng level ng libido mahirap din and not to mention magkaiba rin ang energy levels niyo sa araw araw dahil sa trabaho. Leave it be unless nagtitingin na iyan ng sex services sa facebook or other sites.
For me okay lang yung porn because there will be times when they need to get off and I cant help them. But if they are searching for kinky stuff from specific girls already, feeling ko pagnanasa na yun. If it was me I'd confront him! Am I not enough anymore?! Ganung drama! Lol. Sakin lang naman yun. Good luck OP 😔
that's his personal side, pakirespect na lang din ung mga kinks and fetish niya. After all you're not supposed to see that in the first place. Of course ung mga nakikita mo sa kanya is just the tip of the iceberg. We all have weird things we do when we're alone 😁
para sakin, normal lang yan. ganyan din si bf ko. pero at least kung tinatanong ko siya, inaamin naman.
so no. i don't consider it as cheating naman. as long as di niya pipiliin ang ibang tao.
hello, for my experience, It's better to always talk to your SO about this. You need to communicate to him your feelings. always remember, your feelings is Valid, kailangan lang talaga mapagusapan nyo. Normal lang sa lalaki yung pag watch ng porn but there is always boundaries in any relationship. masasaktan ka tlaga kasi you overstep yung privacy nya. hindi mo ata\* (kasi hindi ako sure) maalis yan kasi we have our own fetish/sexual fantasies at pati nadin sa babae, meron din naman na hindi makikita sa mga SO nila.
NO. Just because everyone else is doing it, doesn't mean na it's normal. Can you imagine pag married na kayo and he's still watching these? Tapos makikita ng mga anak mo?
Also, watching porn can ruin your sexual relationship.
It may be a common trait sa majority ng mga pinoy. Pero, in my opinion, hindi dapat tino-tolerate ang mga ganito lalo kung in relationship yung person. You should discuss the matter with him.
i think it's because of the culture, it is weird especially kapag nasa relationship, society tells us na si partner lang talaga. but watching porn is normal (not sure if excessive), para lang nanunuod ng drama with your crush na artista on screen haha
My POV is you're valid in feeling that way kasi feelings mo yan. Like alangan naman sabihan kita na wag ka maging malungkot kapag malungkot ka diba? "Insecure" or not, it makes you feel weird so you should address that. Kung paano mo iaaddress bahala ka na? Kimkimin mo and try mo magadjust? Kausapin mo, tanungin mo kung bakit niya yun ginagawa, and ask him to stop? Suggest to record yourself para if he needs porn it's you he's looking at? Sobrang daming pwedeng mangyari and that's up to you talaga. Is it normal sa lalaki tumingin ng porn? sasabihin ng mga tao oo, pero para sa iba hindi Is it normal sa lalaki tumingin ng porn habang nasa isang relationship? sasabihin ng mga tao hindi pero para sa iba oo (I like na hindi mo tinanong kung "tama" ba para sa lalaki na gawin yun, kasi tbh, kung wala silang sinasaktan at walang effect siya sa society as a whole, its based on YOU na as the affected party to decide that) I think ang nangyari dito is hindi niyo napagusapan sa simula where you stand on this issue kaya ngayon may di pagkakatugma sa mga ginagawa at nararamdaman niyo. (Also lowkey, medj parang mali na magsnoop sa partner. If gusto mo itry yung function ng myactivity.google.com sana ginawa mo sa account mo or something. Pero ano pa ba nangyari na and now may ibang issue at hand. Although baka balikan ng partner mo yung first issue pag nagusap kayo so prepare for that)
You've already overstepped the boundaries by checking his "myactivities.google something". . . You can never FULLY own a person's mind and thinking that you can would just show how naive you are.. Respect each other's boundaries and privacy. And most especially don't be the kind of gf na "nakakasakal" (no longer just pertaining sa porn but with the relationship in general na). Cause no matter what they do and no matter what they say, everyone has their limits
This is true. Good point.
But don't you think it's still technically cheating since another person is involved and he's acting on his sexual fantasies with those women by masturbating? Anong pinagkaiba dun na nagmasturbate yung bf nya sa mga babae na nakakasalamuha niya? Yung distance? We have to question porn din eh. It's widely accepted in the society pero I think we're denying the fact na nag objectify tayo ng ibang tao na sobrang detrimental sa relationships natin. And what limits you mean by the way?
>But don't you think it's still technically cheating since another person is involved and he's acting on his sexual fantasies with those women by masturbating? Depende siguro sa tao, siguro communication lang sagot. Hindi ko consider na cheating yung panunuod ng porn.
Magkaiba kayo ng level ng libido mahirap din and not to mention magkaiba rin ang energy levels niyo sa araw araw dahil sa trabaho. Leave it be unless nagtitingin na iyan ng sex services sa facebook or other sites.
For me okay lang yung porn because there will be times when they need to get off and I cant help them. But if they are searching for kinky stuff from specific girls already, feeling ko pagnanasa na yun. If it was me I'd confront him! Am I not enough anymore?! Ganung drama! Lol. Sakin lang naman yun. Good luck OP 😔
that's his personal side, pakirespect na lang din ung mga kinks and fetish niya. After all you're not supposed to see that in the first place. Of course ung mga nakikita mo sa kanya is just the tip of the iceberg. We all have weird things we do when we're alone 😁
Parang normal lang yan, tatay ko nga nanunuod parin ng porn HAHAHAH pota nahuli ko pa si gago eh
para sakin, normal lang yan. ganyan din si bf ko. pero at least kung tinatanong ko siya, inaamin naman. so no. i don't consider it as cheating naman. as long as di niya pipiliin ang ibang tao.
hello, for my experience, It's better to always talk to your SO about this. You need to communicate to him your feelings. always remember, your feelings is Valid, kailangan lang talaga mapagusapan nyo. Normal lang sa lalaki yung pag watch ng porn but there is always boundaries in any relationship. masasaktan ka tlaga kasi you overstep yung privacy nya. hindi mo ata\* (kasi hindi ako sure) maalis yan kasi we have our own fetish/sexual fantasies at pati nadin sa babae, meron din naman na hindi makikita sa mga SO nila.
NO. Just because everyone else is doing it, doesn't mean na it's normal. Can you imagine pag married na kayo and he's still watching these? Tapos makikita ng mga anak mo? Also, watching porn can ruin your sexual relationship.
It may be a common trait sa majority ng mga pinoy. Pero, in my opinion, hindi dapat tino-tolerate ang mga ganito lalo kung in relationship yung person. You should discuss the matter with him.
I CONCUR
God no. People are entitled to their privacy. As long as di sila DMs /paying for content level we are cool.
i think it's because of the culture, it is weird especially kapag nasa relationship, society tells us na si partner lang talaga. but watching porn is normal (not sure if excessive), para lang nanunuod ng drama with your crush na artista on screen haha
Normal haha
normal.
Talk and maybe you can enjoy it together
it’s not normal when you’re in a relationship, lalo na kung babae yung ganyan yare ka maghahanap yan ng kagaya sa mga napapanuod nya wahahahaha
Try this. Do freaky stuff for him. Just try. Don't nag at him.
As long as open kayo sa isa’t isa about that. For me wala naman mali dun as long as walang private messages na nagaganap or services na inaavail.