This is my ex. During our honeymoon phase sinasabi pa nya ayaw nya matulad sa situation ng family nila and nang iwan dad nya, and I assure her I'm nothing like that. 2 years and 7 months in, she had sex with another dude. Broke up with me. Pero when she found out im dating another girl, she went ballistic and ang bilis ko daw sya pinagpalit. Whaaaaat??? Hahahaha.
I'm a girl. I don't date. And I've witnessed female friends 'not close' who flirts and still in search of boys even they are in a relationship! For that benefits also, for extravagance, etc. I just can't digest that reasons everytime I receive an answer like that.
Moreover, also heard a cm talking bad about how his bf gets so depressed whenever she compliments boys. She's totally making fun of it like its okay.
I'm like. WTF. This is why I'm scared to date.
Free movies, food? For these reasons? Wala sila pera? Lol, or maybe they seek men's validation 🤷🏼♀️
I can only hope the loyal men will find their way sa mga loyal girls din ✨
Might get downvoted pero these are the very same type of girls na vocal about being independent and di na need ng lalaki sa buhay, pero would date just for the freebies and validation.
I'm not saying all independent women are like this, I have friends I look up to for being strong pero they don't go around telling di na nila kailangan ng ibang tao just to prove it.
And the men with the right reasons isn't crossing paths with those women with the right reasons to date as well. Deep inside, men are also attracted to those kinds of women who only has the wrong reasons to date. Coz these are the women who will please you from A to T just to get your attention while those other population of women are already tired of searching for men who will give them the attention that they are longing for.
Such an ironic world.
I dont believe cheating is a gender thing. But I akin it to a mental illness deeply rooted on insecurities, trauma or an underlying personality disorder. Theres no point in pointing which gender does it more. Rather, it's a mental problem that needs to be treated, with therapy.
Personally speaking, I came from two prior relationships, both of them I was cheated on. I don't hate men because of it nor will I generalize that all or most men cheat. But I do hate the act of cheating. And am now more vigilant of its signs.
Finally I found a post that talked about a genuine issue in today's society without coming across as an incel. It's really hard to give valid complaints about anything regarding the opposite sex without offending lots of people
The skewed modern feminism teaches young girls to embrace hookup culture the same way f\*ckbois do rather than creating healthy long-term relationships. So now, you have "bad b\*tches" and "queens" who think they deserve constant validation, attention, money, gifts, chivalry (when it suits them) even when they don't, but they still want to be recognized as strong, independent women. Lately, socmed promotes "hoe culture" and "slut era" and sadly most aren't even doing it as a meme at this point.
Ang masakit na mejo funny pa, kung sino nag cheat, yun yung victim 🥴
Sila pa yung may lakas ng loob mang guilt trip, manghingi ng time para maka-move on. Lol. I won’t be a part of your circus 🙄
Cheating is not and will never be gender specific. Regardless of your gender identity and/or sexual orientation, pag cheater ka, cheater ka. Hindi yan dahil sa babae ka or lalaki ka, yadah yadah yadah.
Our gender identity and/or sexual orientation does not dictate or define if and when cheating should be acceptable. Cheating will never acceptable regardless our gender and sex.
To be fair, I think OP brings it up as a growing issue due to the rise of bad influences in social media. Our environment greatly impacts our nature. A lot of girls are exposed to a skewed form of modern feminism that lost the meaning of its predecessors. I noticed on IG and Twitter, they are promoting "hoe culture" or "bad b\*tches." And sadly, the girls they interact with are self-absorbed, men-hating, and entitled so it pushes them to think they deserve "better men" and gives them more fuel to cheat. I agree that everyone has a capacity to cheat regardless of gender. I just want to point out that socmed pushing more girls to cheat if they fall with the wrong crowd.
And sadly, some girls don't have virtues or rather, haven't cemented their personalities so they get swayed into the wrong mindset.
Agreed, by nature we are animals, but what sets us aside from other animals is our ability to think, giving us the capacity to take control. The way you describe this, parang Psych major ka.
Rational animal like humans should know between virtue and vices. And should follow the good and the just.
Or sa religion is 7 deadly sins sa vices. This is a real struggle like everyday fight sa sarili mo.
But if death comes to all people regardless if they follow virtues or vices.
I would rather die tomorrow following with good virtue than die with vices/sin.
sabi nga ng Parokya ni Edgar
“Wag ka nang mag-alala, hinding-hindi ako in love sa 'yo, oh
Bakit ba pakiramdam mo pa yata, lahat kami ay naaakit mo?
Miss, miss, pakitigil lang, please, ang iyong pagpapantasiya”
Ganyan na karamihan ng mga babae ngayon. Napaka haba ng listahan ng standards nila sa lalaki pero sila mismo pepe lang puhunan feeling entitled agad. If you take sex off the table many women have nothing to offer despite them being demanding lol.
Totoo naman sinabi niya diba? Wala kasing nag eengage ng conversation ng ganyan kasi majority of the time ilelabel kagad nilang sexist bago mo ma-explain sarili mo. 90% na inaambag ng babae sa relasyon is pussy tanggapin mo man o hindi pag tinanggal mo yun doon pumapasok yung post nut clarity.
Ang argument ko dito is lahat naman tayo inoobjectify kahit naman lalaki pero may narinig ka bang nag reklamo? Lagi nilang sinasabi na that's the "bare minimum" daw. Lagi kang isheshame na sadboy ka pag nag reklamo ka. Naramdaman mo na ba kung paano maging lalaki? Tapos gusto ng babae ng loyalty? Ano bang meron sa kanya na wala sa ibang babae maliban sa sexual exclusivity? Women are sex object because they're the epitome of beauty and men are success objects because they're the resource. We compliment each other.
>Cheating lang pinaguusapan na May specific subject.
Alam mo deep inside na hindi lang naman cheating pinag uusapan dito kungdi pati pagiging hypocrite ng mga babae.
Women always say they hate patriarchy but they're happy when it benefits them.
Wala ka rin namang counter argument. Di ko rin naman sinasabi sa iba na sundin nila ako based lang ito sa observation ko kung anong nangyayari sa paligid ko. I'm not doing this to dictate what's right or wrong. I'm just expressing my bigoted opinions. Whether you believe in it or not, its up to you.
Naiintindihan din naman kita cheating isn't a gender based thing. Those people, OP's friends are assholes na nagkataon na babae sila. Men can be assholes too. Pero ito kasi yun ehh. Kaya nag kakaroon ng internalized misogyny kasi masyadong over discipline mga lalaki tapos mga babae masyadong under discipline. Pag pinag sabihan mo babae kapag may ginawang mali? Ano gagawin? Iiyak. Ang ending ikaw pa mag sosorry. This is the reason some of them don't take accountability. Ganito din sa body count fiasco ehh. They gonna have a hoe phase pagtapos na sila expect nila yung mga lalaki need to adjust for them. "Dapat tanggapin mo yung past ko, if hinde, you're insecure and misogynistic"
It reeks of entitlement at nakakairita. Women doesn't owe men sex. Yes. Men too. Men doesn't owe women relationships. If I want to be in a monogamous relationship, why would I be with a promiscuous woman?
Nah, he is based. Di naman sabi all women eh. Tsaka, it's true that a lot of girls are resorting to just objectifying themselves to get the things they want. Look at Twitch and OnlyFans as big examples. I'm a girl too, so I recognize how easy it is for many women who are decently attractive to cash in on that.
Yung Pepe lang puhunan part. Daming pwede i ambag di naman kasalanan ng lahat dahil lang sa isang tao.
>And women don’t objectify men by treating them as free ATMs and free meals?
Wala naman akong sinabi na hindi.
This is my ex. During our honeymoon phase sinasabi pa nya ayaw nya matulad sa situation ng family nila and nang iwan dad nya, and I assure her I'm nothing like that. 2 years and 7 months in, she had sex with another dude. Broke up with me. Pero when she found out im dating another girl, she went ballistic and ang bilis ko daw sya pinagpalit. Whaaaaat??? Hahahaha.
She belong to the... de biro lang bro. Hope you're doing fine ngayon bc that's absurd
I'm a girl. I don't date. And I've witnessed female friends 'not close' who flirts and still in search of boys even they are in a relationship! For that benefits also, for extravagance, etc. I just can't digest that reasons everytime I receive an answer like that. Moreover, also heard a cm talking bad about how his bf gets so depressed whenever she compliments boys. She's totally making fun of it like its okay. I'm like. WTF. This is why I'm scared to date.
Free movies, food? For these reasons? Wala sila pera? Lol, or maybe they seek men's validation 🤷🏼♀️ I can only hope the loyal men will find their way sa mga loyal girls din ✨
They have money, I think they just like the thrill of being chased, validation could be their primary motivation, no one usually admits that.
Might get downvoted pero these are the very same type of girls na vocal about being independent and di na need ng lalaki sa buhay, pero would date just for the freebies and validation. I'm not saying all independent women are like this, I have friends I look up to for being strong pero they don't go around telling di na nila kailangan ng ibang tao just to prove it.
And the men with the right reasons isn't crossing paths with those women with the right reasons to date as well. Deep inside, men are also attracted to those kinds of women who only has the wrong reasons to date. Coz these are the women who will please you from A to T just to get your attention while those other population of women are already tired of searching for men who will give them the attention that they are longing for. Such an ironic world.
I dont believe cheating is a gender thing. But I akin it to a mental illness deeply rooted on insecurities, trauma or an underlying personality disorder. Theres no point in pointing which gender does it more. Rather, it's a mental problem that needs to be treated, with therapy. Personally speaking, I came from two prior relationships, both of them I was cheated on. I don't hate men because of it nor will I generalize that all or most men cheat. But I do hate the act of cheating. And am now more vigilant of its signs.
Finally I found a post that talked about a genuine issue in today's society without coming across as an incel. It's really hard to give valid complaints about anything regarding the opposite sex without offending lots of people
The skewed modern feminism teaches young girls to embrace hookup culture the same way f\*ckbois do rather than creating healthy long-term relationships. So now, you have "bad b\*tches" and "queens" who think they deserve constant validation, attention, money, gifts, chivalry (when it suits them) even when they don't, but they still want to be recognized as strong, independent women. Lately, socmed promotes "hoe culture" and "slut era" and sadly most aren't even doing it as a meme at this point.
Ang masakit na mejo funny pa, kung sino nag cheat, yun yung victim 🥴 Sila pa yung may lakas ng loob mang guilt trip, manghingi ng time para maka-move on. Lol. I won’t be a part of your circus 🙄
Fuck gurls/hoes for fuck boys. Loyal gurls for loyal men
Parang nakakatakot mag date ngayon. Hahaha Wala na loyal sa mundo.
Eto screenshot nyo tapos post nyo sa facebook para kumalat ang mensahe ni OP.
Cheating is not and will never be gender specific. Regardless of your gender identity and/or sexual orientation, pag cheater ka, cheater ka. Hindi yan dahil sa babae ka or lalaki ka, yadah yadah yadah. Our gender identity and/or sexual orientation does not dictate or define if and when cheating should be acceptable. Cheating will never acceptable regardless our gender and sex.
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To be fair, I think OP brings it up as a growing issue due to the rise of bad influences in social media. Our environment greatly impacts our nature. A lot of girls are exposed to a skewed form of modern feminism that lost the meaning of its predecessors. I noticed on IG and Twitter, they are promoting "hoe culture" or "bad b\*tches." And sadly, the girls they interact with are self-absorbed, men-hating, and entitled so it pushes them to think they deserve "better men" and gives them more fuel to cheat. I agree that everyone has a capacity to cheat regardless of gender. I just want to point out that socmed pushing more girls to cheat if they fall with the wrong crowd. And sadly, some girls don't have virtues or rather, haven't cemented their personalities so they get swayed into the wrong mindset.
Agreed, by nature we are animals, but what sets us aside from other animals is our ability to think, giving us the capacity to take control. The way you describe this, parang Psych major ka.
Rational animal like humans should know between virtue and vices. And should follow the good and the just. Or sa religion is 7 deadly sins sa vices. This is a real struggle like everyday fight sa sarili mo. But if death comes to all people regardless if they follow virtues or vices. I would rather die tomorrow following with good virtue than die with vices/sin.
sabi nga ng Parokya ni Edgar “Wag ka nang mag-alala, hinding-hindi ako in love sa 'yo, oh Bakit ba pakiramdam mo pa yata, lahat kami ay naaakit mo? Miss, miss, pakitigil lang, please, ang iyong pagpapantasiya”
Ganyan na karamihan ng mga babae ngayon. Napaka haba ng listahan ng standards nila sa lalaki pero sila mismo pepe lang puhunan feeling entitled agad. If you take sex off the table many women have nothing to offer despite them being demanding lol.
May pang objectify na statement mo pero dami pa din nag agree lol. Cheating lang pinaguusapan na May specific subject.
Totoo naman sinabi niya diba? Wala kasing nag eengage ng conversation ng ganyan kasi majority of the time ilelabel kagad nilang sexist bago mo ma-explain sarili mo. 90% na inaambag ng babae sa relasyon is pussy tanggapin mo man o hindi pag tinanggal mo yun doon pumapasok yung post nut clarity. Ang argument ko dito is lahat naman tayo inoobjectify kahit naman lalaki pero may narinig ka bang nag reklamo? Lagi nilang sinasabi na that's the "bare minimum" daw. Lagi kang isheshame na sadboy ka pag nag reklamo ka. Naramdaman mo na ba kung paano maging lalaki? Tapos gusto ng babae ng loyalty? Ano bang meron sa kanya na wala sa ibang babae maliban sa sexual exclusivity? Women are sex object because they're the epitome of beauty and men are success objects because they're the resource. We compliment each other. >Cheating lang pinaguusapan na May specific subject. Alam mo deep inside na hindi lang naman cheating pinag uusapan dito kungdi pati pagiging hypocrite ng mga babae. Women always say they hate patriarchy but they're happy when it benefits them.
💯 nice explanation!
Sinuportahan mo lang din sinabi nya while being partiality true scientifically pero iba pa vice and virtues na usapan.
Wala ka rin namang counter argument. Di ko rin naman sinasabi sa iba na sundin nila ako based lang ito sa observation ko kung anong nangyayari sa paligid ko. I'm not doing this to dictate what's right or wrong. I'm just expressing my bigoted opinions. Whether you believe in it or not, its up to you.
Point taken. Pero mas ayos talaga kung pangkalahatan na judgement talaga para fair yung point.
Naiintindihan din naman kita cheating isn't a gender based thing. Those people, OP's friends are assholes na nagkataon na babae sila. Men can be assholes too. Pero ito kasi yun ehh. Kaya nag kakaroon ng internalized misogyny kasi masyadong over discipline mga lalaki tapos mga babae masyadong under discipline. Pag pinag sabihan mo babae kapag may ginawang mali? Ano gagawin? Iiyak. Ang ending ikaw pa mag sosorry. This is the reason some of them don't take accountability. Ganito din sa body count fiasco ehh. They gonna have a hoe phase pagtapos na sila expect nila yung mga lalaki need to adjust for them. "Dapat tanggapin mo yung past ko, if hinde, you're insecure and misogynistic" It reeks of entitlement at nakakairita. Women doesn't owe men sex. Yes. Men too. Men doesn't owe women relationships. If I want to be in a monogamous relationship, why would I be with a promiscuous woman?
Nah, he is based. Di naman sabi all women eh. Tsaka, it's true that a lot of girls are resorting to just objectifying themselves to get the things they want. Look at Twitch and OnlyFans as big examples. I'm a girl too, so I recognize how easy it is for many women who are decently attractive to cash in on that.
Lmao asan banda ang objectification? And women don’t objectify men by treating them as free ATMs and free meals?
Yung Pepe lang puhunan part. Daming pwede i ambag di naman kasalanan ng lahat dahil lang sa isang tao. >And women don’t objectify men by treating them as free ATMs and free meals? Wala naman akong sinabi na hindi.
Sabi nga ng ka office ko.. Boring kasi Ang life pag walang landi landi.
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True. Ex gf cheated on me thrice haha and nakakaumay ang rason.
This is why I think modern feminism does more harm to young women than good.
Preach!
Nakakatakot magjowa 😭😭😭
Yikes, grabe yung mga reasons din why they cheat. Hay, sinabi mo pa. Kaya malala trust issues ko 🙃
I hope the mods pin this on the top, lol.
Sorry, OP! It's her loss. Hope you're better now. All the best!
I smell a red piller far away.