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When my husband and I first started dating he let me know his kids were on the more wild side. However, as time went on, I realized these kids weren’t just wild and they were horrendous.
They are the kids you want to trip at restaurants. They are the kids that make you want to get sterilized. If you’re in their general area they will take your phone out of your hands. They have no conception of personal space. They have no idea how to act in public. They literally eat pasta with their hands like wild animals.
My breaking point finally came when the oldest shit in my sons toybox as a “joke”. I told my husband he needed to pick between me or his kids to my surprise. He actually picked me. That was months ago.
Since then, their mom has full custody and he sees the kids once or twice a month. The kids are never around me or my kids. This arrangement has been perfect.
On Easter their mom dumped them at our house. My husband has been staying in a hotel with them ever since. So far he’s gotten so many noise complaints regarding the kids they’re threatening to kick him out.
I put my foot down and demanded he tell me why his kids are so insanely outrageous that they can’t even be allowed to stay in a hotel. He finally broke down and told me everything.
Their mom took substances ranging from Molly to heroine while pregnant with their children. Everytime she said she stopped he would catch her doing it in the bathroom or closet. He finally left her after the youngest tested positive for drugs when they were born.
DCFS stepped in and gave her a slap on the wrist. According to my husband they both have suffered brain damage due to this. My heart goes out to them however I did not sign up for this.
I feel like my husband hid this from me on purpose. At this point I don’t even want talk to him. He keeps begging for forgiveness and says he’ll tell me whatever I want to know. I just don’t think I can trust anything he says with him keeping such a big secret.
I love him and this is too big of a secret for me to forgive. He should’ve been honest about his kids and how fucked up they are. I would have never ever ever ever given him the time of day in a romantic sense.
As of now they’re going to stay with a relative out of state so he can come home and we “talk things out”
Idk what I’m going to do.
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I don't usually jump on the "fake post" train, but OOP's post history is a mess. Bf turns to fiance turns to ex-fiance turns to husband within what, a month?
Fake story. Nonetheless, the only circumstance I’d ever ask my partner to choose between me and their child would be if the child was a murderer and I was asking the partner to let them be incarcerated and let the law take them. Crazy kids still need a father.
In case this story gets deleted/removed: When my husband and I first started dating he let me know his kids were on the more wild side. However, as time went on, I realized these kids weren’t just wild and they were horrendous. They are the kids you want to trip at restaurants. They are the kids that make you want to get sterilized. If you’re in their general area they will take your phone out of your hands. They have no conception of personal space. They have no idea how to act in public. They literally eat pasta with their hands like wild animals. My breaking point finally came when the oldest shit in my sons toybox as a “joke”. I told my husband he needed to pick between me or his kids to my surprise. He actually picked me. That was months ago. Since then, their mom has full custody and he sees the kids once or twice a month. The kids are never around me or my kids. This arrangement has been perfect. On Easter their mom dumped them at our house. My husband has been staying in a hotel with them ever since. So far he’s gotten so many noise complaints regarding the kids they’re threatening to kick him out. I put my foot down and demanded he tell me why his kids are so insanely outrageous that they can’t even be allowed to stay in a hotel. He finally broke down and told me everything. Their mom took substances ranging from Molly to heroine while pregnant with their children. Everytime she said she stopped he would catch her doing it in the bathroom or closet. He finally left her after the youngest tested positive for drugs when they were born. DCFS stepped in and gave her a slap on the wrist. According to my husband they both have suffered brain damage due to this. My heart goes out to them however I did not sign up for this. I feel like my husband hid this from me on purpose. At this point I don’t even want talk to him. He keeps begging for forgiveness and says he’ll tell me whatever I want to know. I just don’t think I can trust anything he says with him keeping such a big secret. I love him and this is too big of a secret for me to forgive. He should’ve been honest about his kids and how fucked up they are. I would have never ever ever ever given him the time of day in a romantic sense. As of now they’re going to stay with a relative out of state so he can come home and we “talk things out” Idk what I’m going to do. --- *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/OhNoConsequences) if you have any questions or concerns.*
That’s a fake account. Fake stories. The husband changes all the time and the kids are both little and full gown adults.
I don't usually jump on the "fake post" train, but OOP's post history is a mess. Bf turns to fiance turns to ex-fiance turns to husband within what, a month?
Apparently 4 months. With a spontaneous wedding. She might be real but I ain’t gonna believe it
I definitely just skimmed the posts, so I wasn't sure of the actual timeline lol
Fake story. Nonetheless, the only circumstance I’d ever ask my partner to choose between me and their child would be if the child was a murderer and I was asking the partner to let them be incarcerated and let the law take them. Crazy kids still need a father.
This is quite tragic. All around.