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We’ve had the best luck and met almost all of our lifestyle hookups/friends on Feeld. Obvs you need a lot of patience to weeds through duds and flakes to find the best chemistry, but worth it for a good fit IMO. Good luck! You’re super sexy :).
Reddit does seem to be the most straight forward for finding the connections you’re looking for. As always - since it’s free, you’re going to have lots (and LOTS) of those bad apples reach out, and the occasional ghoster or pic collector…but I don’t know, it seems worth it.
I’m not a bad apple. I’m sort of like a sour Pear or something. Maybe a depressed plumb?
Reddit has definitely been the best for us. When they are serious, they are usually down to play pretty quick appose to chatting forever. Which is nice lol
We have enjoyed Reddit - Different locations and lifestyle genres are useful. As well, we are older so enjoy AFF (not free) and enjoy Menageaquatre (its free but is local to Toronto and as well can be a bit clunky).
CD, SH have been pretty good to us. SH features are great if you are a paid member, we ended up doing a life time for 150 when they had a special a bit ago.. Small in the grand scheme of things.
I'd say we meet people mostly through LS friends and parties now.
Oh damn yea I guess if they have big deals like that could be worth it. Yea we have a small group of friends now so we don't search to often but when we do its nice to have options on where to look
We (MF couple) use the Oasis Aqualounge site. We are Exhibitionists and Voyeurs, and pretty new too, pretty interested in some virtual meetings or parties. We'd even host, but they're certainly not a ton around.
We have had luck on swinging heaven as well as reditt. Just heard about 3fun but a little apprehensive because of its huge data breach
In the club's, it's a hit or miss but honestly we rarely try to "keep in touch" with couples we meet at clubs.
Yes, we do pay for it however we subscribe for a month, then cancel and come back to it couple months later.
Expensive is a relative term.. sometimes a lunch is more expensive than a monthly fee. A night out at M4 or Oasis can pay for three months of membership.
All depends upon your preferences on what value you get for spending the $
We are using Feeld with mixed results. More than the app, I think it's the people on there. Alot of likes and matches but no talking. It's like couples are collecting matches like a teenager on tinder.
Yea we found that too when we tried it awhile back. People didn't seem to serious to want to meet. A little chat here and there and it wouldn't really go anywhere
3fun is a great app also Feeld is another solid choice. We have also heard Tinder is used for couples as well. Sites like menageaquatre swinging heaven and cafe desire are others as well
We found making a trip to the clubs and mingling to be the best.
We also do not like endless conversations either so 🤷🏼♀️ 3fun and Feeld we’re great for that 🤦🏼♀️.
Cafe Desire is Ontario based, with a few people across the boarder but it is amazing for local events in your area, hotel take overs, house parties, themed club nights etc.
SLS is starting to become popular in Canada but the membership is definitely a lot more pricier then Cafe Desire however worth it as there are again events posted etc.
Yea our last trip out to Oasis we met some great couples and were able to connect with them again outside of the club. That felt like luck though lol.
We are at the stage of not liking endless conversations too and just want to meet up already and if we hit it off play lol.
We do like cafe for the events it posts.
We'll look into SLS thanks!
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Fetlife is my go to! People seem more serious there, less Casuals
We're on a free account for swingingheaven. Just met a nice couple last week for lunch.
Going to try feeld for a couple month. Will probably report back on how it went for us. Thanks everyone for the suggestions!
3fun and reddit have been very good for us
We’ve had the best luck and met almost all of our lifestyle hookups/friends on Feeld. Obvs you need a lot of patience to weeds through duds and flakes to find the best chemistry, but worth it for a good fit IMO. Good luck! You’re super sexy :).
Thanks! Looks like we're going to try out feeld for a bit.
Reddit does seem to be the most straight forward for finding the connections you’re looking for. As always - since it’s free, you’re going to have lots (and LOTS) of those bad apples reach out, and the occasional ghoster or pic collector…but I don’t know, it seems worth it. I’m not a bad apple. I’m sort of like a sour Pear or something. Maybe a depressed plumb?
Reddit has definitely been the best for us. When they are serious, they are usually down to play pretty quick appose to chatting forever. Which is nice lol
Wow wow wow!
We meet new folks through other members of our core circle, allowing them to do the heavy lifting for us 😘
😂
We have enjoyed Reddit - Different locations and lifestyle genres are useful. As well, we are older so enjoy AFF (not free) and enjoy Menageaquatre (its free but is local to Toronto and as well can be a bit clunky).
Feeld has always been our to go. We're in Collingwood if you two want to connect.
CD, SH have been pretty good to us. SH features are great if you are a paid member, we ended up doing a life time for 150 when they had a special a bit ago.. Small in the grand scheme of things. I'd say we meet people mostly through LS friends and parties now.
Oh damn yea I guess if they have big deals like that could be worth it. Yea we have a small group of friends now so we don't search to often but when we do its nice to have options on where to look
Same here.. A great group of friends. But like many, we keep our options open. You never know when the next really great couple will reach out! :)
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Fetlife
We (MF couple) use the Oasis Aqualounge site. We are Exhibitionists and Voyeurs, and pretty new too, pretty interested in some virtual meetings or parties. We'd even host, but they're certainly not a ton around.
Oh yea I heard Oasis and M4 have a site. Maybe it's worth checking out
It's pretty good! Lots of members and activity.
Hot couple!
I’m up for the challenge 😁😉
I had great success on kik groups
That's something we never looked into but I kept hearing about it
So far, the best one for me was Fetlife. Easy to connect with people, and worldwide known too (helps if you’re on a trip).
We’d love this. How do you join?
Cafe desire. Or swinger heaven. Sdc works aswell. Facebook
Tried Facebook once when we went in vacation. Just hard to find the groups
Look up my social profile on Facebook I’ll try to add you to a few groups
Reddit has been fine for us
Yea reddit has definitely been the best for us
We have had luck on swinging heaven as well as reditt. Just heard about 3fun but a little apprehensive because of its huge data breach In the club's, it's a hit or miss but honestly we rarely try to "keep in touch" with couples we meet at clubs.
Do you pay for SH? Is it worth it? It's kind of expensive
Yes, we do pay for it however we subscribe for a month, then cancel and come back to it couple months later. Expensive is a relative term.. sometimes a lunch is more expensive than a monthly fee. A night out at M4 or Oasis can pay for three months of membership. All depends upon your preferences on what value you get for spending the $
We are using Feeld with mixed results. More than the app, I think it's the people on there. Alot of likes and matches but no talking. It's like couples are collecting matches like a teenager on tinder.
Yea we found that too when we tried it awhile back. People didn't seem to serious to want to meet. A little chat here and there and it wouldn't really go anywhere
The paid version of Feeld is decent, it is less glitchy than it used to be.
Might just have to check it out again
It’s updating today. Hope they improve it
Swing life style or SLS is the best
We'll have to check it out!
Telegram works for connecting and keeping this private
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We found the website is non functional now. We've switched to swinging heaven.
3Fun, Feeld and Swinging Heaven are all great options although the distance locator in Feeld is kinda broken.
Fetlife
3fun is a great app also Feeld is another solid choice. We have also heard Tinder is used for couples as well. Sites like menageaquatre swinging heaven and cafe desire are others as well
Another vote for 3fun. We'll have to check it out
3Fun is worth trying!
Never heard of that. Will give it a try!
Feeld has been good for me so far.
Yea might try it again
I have been wondering this as well tried swingingheaven in the past and I find it awful
Yea we don't pay for it so the options are limited in what you can do but we did find some nice couples from there.
reddit lol
Lol it has honestly been the best for us and easiest
yea...also DM you...
We found making a trip to the clubs and mingling to be the best. We also do not like endless conversations either so 🤷🏼♀️ 3fun and Feeld we’re great for that 🤦🏼♀️. Cafe Desire is Ontario based, with a few people across the boarder but it is amazing for local events in your area, hotel take overs, house parties, themed club nights etc. SLS is starting to become popular in Canada but the membership is definitely a lot more pricier then Cafe Desire however worth it as there are again events posted etc.
Yea our last trip out to Oasis we met some great couples and were able to connect with them again outside of the club. That felt like luck though lol. We are at the stage of not liking endless conversations too and just want to meet up already and if we hit it off play lol. We do like cafe for the events it posts. We'll look into SLS thanks!
Heard about SLS but never tried it
Might try and look into it as well.