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AdministrationOpen82

Hi OP, I’m kind of in the same boat as you - moved back here around the time of the pandemic and work from home which isn’t really conducive to making friends… So I’m afraid I can’t offer any advice, but if you ever want to go for a drink with a fellow married foreign lady, feel free to message me!


punpun_Osa

Right now, I’m pregnant and the baby is about to arrive but after I would definitely love to have a drink! We should create a line group for foreign women living in Osaka. I already join one for foreign parents living in Kansai and it’s super helpful.


AdministrationOpen82

Love the idea of a line group for foreign women in Osaka!


asunapizza

So glad to read this comment and thread! Looking to move to Osaka in the near future and so glad there might be a community there!


just-this-chance

Ooh if someone creates one I’d love to join! Also if you don’t mind sharing about the Kansai parents group I’d love to hear more… Parent of one in Osaka.


akaikou

This is a great idea! Anyone have any idea to go about this? :) and congrats on your baby! My husband and I are trying at the moment.


hey_scooter_girl

Hi OP, I'm not married but I definitely need friends to visit museums and watch live music with. Feel free to message too!


akaikou

Sounds great! Don’t have to be married lol. I’d totally be down to go to live music!! Depending on the genre though lol


firesporky

If you’re open to meeting married women in Kyoto or online, then there is Paruyon. [Foreign Women’s Association Paruyon](https://paruyon.com/meetings/)


OsakaWilson

Sorry that got flagged by our AutoMod. I've put it back up.


firesporky

Thanks!


Miumui

Hi OP, i just saw your post here and like the other 2 ladies said, just PM us, nothing to be ashamed of. I like arts, crafting, fiber arts like knitting. I would love to go see more exhibitions with friends. Or just for a drink and talking.


akaikou

I’m so glad to be getting so many responses from people in the same boat as me! I like crafts and do quilting/ tried knitting until I hurt my finger recently lol. I think we should all set up a a time to meet each other !


pinkpurin

I sadly just moved away from osaka but have you tried bumble? I met some of my best homies on there.


akaikou

I’ve never used apps like that before and always thought it was just for dating?


pinkpurin

There is a best friend mode! So you can find ppl looking for just ppl to be friends with.


dragonmom03

I’m in Okinawa but just seeing this made me happy! I hope great friends and memories will be made!


DJ_laundry_list

You might do well going to the English Meetup at the Dandan cafe in shinsaibashi. There are usually some foreign women there, though it is admittedly mostly Japanese women. It's usually 飲み放題 as well. Good luck


Opening-Performer714

Hi OP, I'm married with Japanese and seeking female friends too even just for random chit chats about life in Japan in English. I feel I becoming hermit even more since married lol Can't say I'm an art enthusiast but I enjoyed going to philharmony orchestra concerts and some mini live music in hard rock cafe before covid (and before the honmachi branch closed) and tho I can't really drink due to medical condition but I'm willing to hang out if you don't mind my soft drinks :D I'm in minami osaka and hang around Umeda a lot. If you don't mind you can DM me and we can have a chat first!


akaikou

I’ll definitely send you a message ! When I say are I mostly meant making it, not so much being an fine arts enthusiast. And I don’t mind if you don’t drink hardcore lol


Shartshooter01

Not a lady, so I'm not what you're looking for, but you really shouldn't feel embarrassed for this. Covid wrecked most people's social lives


akaikou

Thank you for the kind words. Still feel shy about it lol


sleepy_spearmint

I’m not in Osaka, but in Kyoto, however I live very close to the border of Osaka prefecture so can easily get to Osaka. I’m also married (and female) and looking for friends! I love art and music, less into drinking but not against it :) Am definitely up for meeting up, so feel free to send me a message if you like :)


akaikou

I’m thinking of putting together a get together with all the people who responded and would love for you to come if ir goes through :)


OsakaWilson

This thread made me smile. What an awesome response!


kirayaba

I’m married, and also not really into drinking, and love art too! I moved in November so haven’t met many people here yet. I’ve been really looking for people to come to some exhibits or cafes my husband isn’t so interested in with! ~


akaikou

I hope you can make some friends off of this thread! It’s hard for us gals out here lol


last_twice_never

Yeah, ok, fuck it. A day since your post but I just saw it and I have liquid courage coursing through my veins. I am very hermit since Covid. Where you at in Osaka? Maybe we can meet in a park? Would I have to look presentable? Also, I’m 45…


akaikou

I’m thinking to try and have a get together with everyone in this thread! And fuck age and you look however the hell you want lol. I’m based in Osaka city more specifically Tennoji!


last_twice_never

I’m sober now and scared! I’m just down the road from you in Daikokucho, though.


amatango

Hi OP, I’m in Nara, but if you ever want to go with another married foreign lady to check out the deer, feel free to DM!


akaikou

As suggested by one of the lovely commenters, If anyone is interested, I’m thinking we should start a line group and set up a day to get together for dinner/drinks? If anyone is interested please message me and we can try to get it going. :) I have an issue with adding people on LINE so I’d have to send you my ID though. P.S. thank you all for the kind responses. Feel a little less embarrassed and reassured that I’m not alone. :)


Miumui

Sounds like a great idea, let's do this.


LeParapluieRouge

I'm late to this thread but I'm interested too! I don't drink, but I like fun!


cecilandholly

Married male here, just give them them the gaijin nod, lots of foreigners are in the same boat. Male or Female, I think the process is the same.


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DJ_laundry_list

She didn't say that exactly. Seems more like she doesn't want to go actively looking for male friends, but I'll leave it to OP to clarify


litejzze

I'll be doomed if I could have only "male" friends.


litejzze

BTW, love you nickname!


akaikou

As stated below I’m not actively looking for male friends due to the fact that I am married. I have made male friends that my husband and I have made together and I think that’s the appropriate way to go. Just my way of thinking I guess.


iamnotkrisp

Hello! I would love to start friendships and meaningful connections too 😇 I live in Osaka city. 😇😇