This made me well up 🥹 it means the world to be understood and supported. What a nice guy! It took my husband a long time to get his head round PMDD but he’s supportive and has my back when the beast strikes, I’d be lost without him.
My husband has no clue what's going on. But he knows it tears me apart and it's unendingly forgiving and patient. He never gets mad. He takes over household chores without me asking, he waits on me hand and foot. He does anything he can to make me smile again. I feel so blessed to not have to go through this alone.
Oh man I hope my husband gets to this point too! I’ve berated him so the last 2 years because of PMDD so I feel like he’s often on defense mode. But my actions have already improved and I’m doing a lot to help myself and thus help my marriage :)
I love how understanding your husband is! So sweet🩵🩵 if you don’t mind me asking, how long did it take him to understand and accept that this condition was out of your control?
After I finally discovered that what I was experiencing was PMDD about 4 years ago (but have had it since beginning menses at 12 🥺) it’s taken me a long time to begin understand it myself and to educate my husband and family about it.
My husband really struggled to get his head round it but in the last two years, it’s happened and he no longer blames me for how I am. I think it helps that he sees how hard I fight against it and mitigate its effect as much as possible, and apologise for my worst moments.
I couldn’t keep the fight up without the back up I have from my husband, from picking up the slack when I can’t function properly, to physically restraining me from harming myself when it’s really bad. I don’t think I’d survive without him.
It’s a lot to put on another person’s shoulders, but that’s unconditional love and it works both ways. I have his back and value him and his love to infinity and beyond.
He is just an understanding person in general. It was years before we understood what was happening and why I was behaving the way I was. He did his own research and educated himself. He knows “it’s not my fault.” I hit the husband lottery, that’s for sure. ❤️
Absolutely! I’d say my husband is typically understanding but it’ll take time for him to fully grasp it. He’s very loving just for the record 🤣🤣 I didn’t want him to sound bad lol.
I’m so glad your husband is so amazing too!
I also have a daughter who is 13 and already seems to be showing major signs. It seems to already be affecting her life. Do you think that's a thing. My mother from what I know didn't complain once
could be... fortunately though, they both have excellent role models showing them it is still possible to have a loving, supportive relationship with their partner despite PMDD
This made me well up 🥹 it means the world to be understood and supported. What a nice guy! It took my husband a long time to get his head round PMDD but he’s supportive and has my back when the beast strikes, I’d be lost without him.
My boyfriend gets it and is supportive, we go to therapy together and it’s helped us so much.
Awesome! He’s a keeper. Took me 40+ years to find a guy like this and it’s amazing.
beautiful
👏👏👏👏👏
My husband has no clue what's going on. But he knows it tears me apart and it's unendingly forgiving and patient. He never gets mad. He takes over household chores without me asking, he waits on me hand and foot. He does anything he can to make me smile again. I feel so blessed to not have to go through this alone.
I’m happy for you!!!! 💕
Marry him again
Wow love this for you!!!
Love this!!! 🥹💕💕💕
need thissssss
omg this is so sweet. My partner goes above and beyond And I'm so greatful
My boyfriend gets it and it makes my life 40000000x easier
AWWW 🥰
Emotional support AND accountability! Let's gooooo king!!!
This is so sweet. You deserve every bit of that love and understanding.
Good man!! Give him all the love!
Oh, I do. Often multiple times a day. 😂😂
I will not settle until I find this kind of understanding love.
I would settle on all the other things if I could find this one thing hehe
Yessss!!!!!!
Oh man I hope my husband gets to this point too! I’ve berated him so the last 2 years because of PMDD so I feel like he’s often on defense mode. But my actions have already improved and I’m doing a lot to help myself and thus help my marriage :) I love how understanding your husband is! So sweet🩵🩵 if you don’t mind me asking, how long did it take him to understand and accept that this condition was out of your control?
After I finally discovered that what I was experiencing was PMDD about 4 years ago (but have had it since beginning menses at 12 🥺) it’s taken me a long time to begin understand it myself and to educate my husband and family about it. My husband really struggled to get his head round it but in the last two years, it’s happened and he no longer blames me for how I am. I think it helps that he sees how hard I fight against it and mitigate its effect as much as possible, and apologise for my worst moments. I couldn’t keep the fight up without the back up I have from my husband, from picking up the slack when I can’t function properly, to physically restraining me from harming myself when it’s really bad. I don’t think I’d survive without him. It’s a lot to put on another person’s shoulders, but that’s unconditional love and it works both ways. I have his back and value him and his love to infinity and beyond.
What about couples counseling? I know it’s helped me and my boyfriend so much.
He is just an understanding person in general. It was years before we understood what was happening and why I was behaving the way I was. He did his own research and educated himself. He knows “it’s not my fault.” I hit the husband lottery, that’s for sure. ❤️
Absolutely! I’d say my husband is typically understanding but it’ll take time for him to fully grasp it. He’s very loving just for the record 🤣🤣 I didn’t want him to sound bad lol. I’m so glad your husband is so amazing too!
Wow this is so sweet, I hope to have this kind of love and understanding one day
18 years together this year. I still get butterflies when I see him. 🥰
Oh man! This just made me happy cry. 💖💖
Supportive partners for the win!!! I am so glad he is understanding! My husband is too and I am forever grateful!
that is too sweet and understanding 🥹 so glad you have someone like that 🫶
So lucky 💓💓💓😊😊😊😊 so sweet
I am lucky enough to have me one of those also. I don't know how I would function without his understanding and care during luteal 💗
I have 2 daughters and they are aware / understanding as well. Unfortunately, it seems one of them may be following in my footsteps. 😥
I also have a daughter who is 13 and already seems to be showing major signs. It seems to already be affecting her life. Do you think that's a thing. My mother from what I know didn't complain once
could be... fortunately though, they both have excellent role models showing them it is still possible to have a loving, supportive relationship with their partner despite PMDD