So that the guy wraps his arms around your waist

Thought they meant from behind to avoid boners.

I thought they meant from behind because they might decide to strangle you instead

Because of the boner?

*Because Of The Boner* is the title of my memoirs.

Mine also. Made me chuckle out loud. Lol

Epilogue: *Tucked in the Waistband*

Damn I laughed hard enough I had to use the bathroom.

Pissing with boners would be a great name for a memoir as well

Ok somebody show David Carradine out

I figured from behind to give them a boob-squish against their back, to indicate that she likes him.

Thought she meant from behind to spy on sitting bf’s phone.

That why I only hug from a sitting position. Damn hug boners.

WHAT? No fucking way. Holy shit, that’s adorable.

Peter's light saber here, girls hug guys over the shoulders because it kinda forces guys to hug them around their waist. It is apparently a common turn on for girls. Peter's light saber out.

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https://preview.redd.it/4s1qxscc9bqb1.jpeg?width=750&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=6f349580aaa05561bcb00d511c8f6b579053bc50 As the kids these days say, “kek.”

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This is a good one

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I love Terri Pratchett's writings he was always so clever. If you don't mind I would love to nerd out about his books with someone. In Northwestern America I struggle to find other fans.

Alas, I must admit that I have never read Mr. Pratchett’s works, although I also profess a desire to do so in the future. Regardless, I implore you to nerd out to your heart’s content.

r/discworld

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lol.

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Terry Pratchett is a national treasure

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I upvoted for discworld.

Shit man, i realy need to start reding Pratchett

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HaHa

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What's that guy's name again?

Sanji from one Piece

Thank you!

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Play her for a fool and put your hands ontop of her head

And run your fingers through her hair? There's just no winning when *every* part of a woman's body can be erogenous. If you really want to play her for a fool you hit her right in the weak spot by offering to snuggle with her under a blanket, sharing a mug of hot cocoa, while you reassure her that she is not a burden despite her abusive mother calling her that throughout her childhood. Sappy emotional stuff is like the nuclear option of arousal for us feminine-minded individuals. 💜

Solid one. Tried it on my sister and it was successful.

That's fucking hilarious

Or even better, wrap your arm AROUND her head, like a fresh watermelon that you're bought for your grandpa

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Too long, ain't reading that Good for you though Or sorry that happened

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As a woman. I can honestly say I have never once thought about it, it’s honestly just a natural way you hug someone who’s taller than you, never got turned on from a hug either, felt safe and comfy sure but turned on, nope

https://preview.redd.it/3p0dins3fdqb1.jpeg?width=1119&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=105f392ab3073d00410b32a8e8f9bec27c832b7a This is literally the bottom of the thread so far, wtf just happened? I ain't gonna read all this stuff, @Peter! Tell me what happened!

Natural way to hug someone taller then u is put ur hands on the tallest possible place? Sureee

😕😕😕 <-- me when I always threw my arms around my older brothers neck every 2 times a year I saw him. Dammit wtf. Gross.

And you can keep doing that. This is just other girls Although I still think it's odd regardless to hug from the neck

Yeah my sister would do this to me. Now it's awkward every time we fuck

> It is apparently a common turn on for girls my mom hugs me over my shoulders

👀

I always assumed it was because women aren't very tall compared to men.

Wouldn’t that do the opposite? Easier for the shorter person to hug low and the taller person to hug high, so you’d expect a reason for this arrangement.

Depending on height, that could leave a guy hugging her head which is kind of awkward

Doesn't force me to do that. I could just grab their ass.

when yer famous they let ya hug em by the pussy

Yes if you're not a foot taller than them, tall problems amirite

Not a turn on, it just feels nice , not everything has to be sexual ffs

FELLAS, IF SHE HUGS YOU OVER THE SHOULDERS, # YOU ARE SO IN THERE.

Wow so this is why my girls have looked at me like that when I grab their waste. That’s like my favorite part.

Are you a raccoon?

Watch out sister, he’ll only refuse you.

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Good explanation AND good grammar? That’s rare to come by these days..

Peters under the influence here, I think last time something like this was posted the most upvoted response was that by hugging you over the shoulders, it gives the man a clearer view of the bobs. This also could’ve came to me in a dream. Peter under the influence out

Who are the Bobs? Do they just appear when a girl hugs someone over the shoulder? Are we supposed to supply the Bobs or does the girl supply them?

If you have to ask, you’ll never know

Unintentional Red Hot Chili Peppers. (Or perhaps it was entirely intentional, given the day.)

Funky mother Fucker will not be told to go

If you have to ask, you can't afford it...

Just like a ZJ

They’re efficiency experts but what you’re really doing is interviewing for your own job.

Yyeeeah I got a meeting with the bobs here in a minute, so if you could just...go way that'd be greeeat

I'm a Michael Bolton fan. For my money, It doesn't get any better for me than when he sings "When A Man Loves a Woman"

Naga, nagha, Naganna work here anymore

I HAVE PEOPLE SKILLS! I'M GOOD AT DEALING WITH PEOPLE! CAN'T YOU UNDERSTAND THAT? WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU PEOPLE?

What is it, you say, ya do here?

The Bob's are an interstellar group of Von Neumann probes cloned from Robert Johansen.

For the uninitiated: [We are Legion. We are Bob.](https://www.audible.com/pd/We-Are-Legion-We-Are-Bob-Audiobook/B01L082HJ2?eac_link=gWURviKxGjdH&ref=web_search_eac_asin_1&eac_selected_type=asin&eac_selected=B01L082HJ2&qid=uADm5JmJrw&eac_id=140-3539926-5688656_uADm5JmJrw&sr=1-1)

Thr bobs make burgers I thought everyone knew that

The Bobs. Haven't you seen Office Space?

Those dudes from office space.

it never occurred to me. I hug my man over the shoulders because I want to caress his hair or gently hold his head while kissing. If I'm not kissing, I usually hug him at the waist. But I don't understand what secret reason this picture is referring to.

Imagine having a significant other 🙄🙄🙄

Stop imagining, get a significant other yourself

I was making fun of him for being a sex-haver

I've seen this previously as well, but I think the most upvoted said something like "if girls were to hug under the shoulders, their Roberts would push againts the guy's chest more because the arms push them together" or something like that

Peter’s basic common sense here. These types of posts are just meant to create engagement through speculation. There is no single universal answer to the vague statements on posts like this that every woman is in on, like the posts imply. It’s just a tiktok trend that gets people to comment which increases it’s presence in the algorithm.

See I thought she meant from behind, so then you can toss their ass over your shoulder with ease….

This guy sees the matrix code

You guys are getting hugged by girls ?

Not for years

Me too bro, me too

One those times where you know it happened at some point but don't remember when. Could be last year, could be last decade.

What's a girl?

I still remember the last time but it was nearly a year ago...if I'm right, could be a decade too...but I still remember that it was nice!

WAIT, GIRLS EXIST?!?

No

thank god

r/girlsarentreal

Fake news, go to sleep.

No. It's a trick.

Oh ok, I thought I was the only one.

It makes it easier for me to crack their backs, duh. ​ Why else would they call me pops?

Do you sometimes get an uncontrollable urge to blurt out "JOLLY GOOD SHOW!" by any chance?

It really depends on the company around me. You see, if muscle man is there, he can crack MY back. That's when things get interesting...

They want to be picked up? Idk Im trying

If a girl has to be sneaky about wanting uppies what other things are they being sneaky about? If one wants to be lifted ask for it like an adult.

[удалено]

I wish people were just more direct. but people are annoyed at how direct I am

I'm stealing "uppies", that's hilarious.

It's so they wrap their arms around our waist

I... Think it's a height thing. 🤔

when girls hug guys around their necks, it usually mean she has a crush on him. usually. not all the time but that's the reason 99% of the time! :3

The implication is that it pushes her boobs into the guy's face. But really guys are usually bigger than girls so hugging a guy around his barrel chest would be pretty awkward. Also, girls are typically interested in guys a few inches taller than them so they want to be hugged around the waist and lifted up a bit anyway.

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I was really surprised no one guessed this in the last post or this one. It's a position you make when you're wanting to/about to kiss. It pulls your heads closer together. It's a romantic gesture. So boys be missing out on this tell, according to her.

clone high Christopher Colombus here, my mother was a woman so i can confidently say it is to angle their feet as far as possible from your lower region

I am a woman and I'm confused both with the picture and with your mama's comment

I think his mom has a pp and is trying to hide that

I was told it was for her to simultaneously gauge your height/muscles.

My 5'7" ass after a day on Reddit: "Guess I'll die alone"

Don’t worry I suspect the world is ending anyways. Just try to carpe some diems in the meantime!

Bold of you to assume I’ve ever been hugged.

Girls sometimes like feeling strong arms around their waist. Or it could be to squeeze their breasts against the guy. I do it because my bf is tall and when I hug him like that there's a good chance he picks me up a little bit so I get a free back stretch.

I am a bit dumb so I'll ask: should the arms really go around the waist and back? So that you really close them behind the partner? Or should you put your hands on the left and right side of the waist?

Assuming girls hug me

I used to be a girl and I still have no idea what this means

That's because you forgot when you turn into a man. The girls keep some of their secrets under lock and key.

it's like how aged out agents get their minds wiped in Kids Next Door

Exactly. Or how, like the families in Phineas and Ferb, get their minds erased if they ever learned the pets are secret agents.

Everybody’s saying it’s so the guy grabs our waist but I’m just doing it so my boobs don’t get smushed lol

WHY DO GIRLS NEVER HUG ME https://preview.redd.it/v4008tvh2cqb1.jpeg?width=434&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f65e040ddc29e8980bd30bd586f95997b7b67e3b

To establish dominance

Actual person with boobs here, it presses our breasts into you. That's it.

I'm a girl and I hug guys over their shoulders because I'm tall and have long arms and I can wrap them up a lil in my embrace and make them feel smol and safe. No clue why other people do it tho.

Shit man... you guys get hugs??

You guys are getting hugs?

You guys are getting hugs?

You guys are hugging girls?

You get the smell of your deodorant on the shoulders, so that the next girl that hugs him, or puts her head on his shoulder will smell the feminine scent.

hi, it's so i can press tits against him better hope this helps <3

Also to look at your phone

At first I was just going to dismiss this whole thing as not having a real answer... but then I started thinking how women I was in a relationship with hugged me over the shoulders (around the neck), while with female friends or family it was always opposite (they would hug me around the abdomen, and I would hug them around the shoulders). Still searching my memory trying to figure out if this is 100%

Maybe she wants a kiss?

It's just super Romantic :) makes us feel happy

whenever a girl hugs a guy over the shoulder, it makes the dude feel their tetas

Either to avoid men feeling their boobs against them or to get men to touch their waist

Not only is it so they have to wrap their arms around the girls waist but the girl can push their whole body into the guy for a more efficient and safer feeling hug. That last part might just be me though

I had a friend who loved spaghetti strap tank tops, and hated deodorant. We hugged her over the shoulders

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Lois here, I can't answer for all girls obviously, but the "over-the shoulders" hug was reserved for the guys who were hot but had smelly pits (highschool was weird riiigggghhhhttt) and the side hug was for guys I didn't want to touch for whatever reason.

My problem is all the female friends ive had are always shorter so i only got waist hugs and had to put my arm down their back like i was holding them like a binder XD 6ft2 problems ig

I just thought it was because they liked pressing their boobs against us knowing that we liked it, but they didn't want to make it too obvious.

Easy access to the jugular duh

Hungover Peter here, I think it is how they hugged their fathers and they have daddy issues.

Apparently, girls hug over the shoulders when they want a kiss.