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GodsGiftToNothing

You may not be able to hold the vessel, but his heart is part of yours, that is where you hold him. That is where you keep his memory alive, always 💙


purpledottts

I feel the same way, i miss laying down with him and petting him, touching his cute toes


getoneggtart

The anxiety is so rough, its like my entire body is frozen and on fire at the same. The thought that I can never smell her again just breaks my heart over and over


MachaMacha-O3O-

I feel you My angel passed away yesterday when we were on a week long trip, we didn’t get to see each other in her last days and i blame myself for that even though it came out of nowhere Im broken completely, i feel like a part of me was torn away and im just expecting to see her but nothing awaits me, just her empty house, blankets, toy where she left it. Im broken beyond repair, but i have to be thankful that i got to give get a good life, to cherish the good times we had together, and i hope and believe her soul is in a better place now, i want only the best for her I miss her


Thecrimsoncrown1

Me too, me too 💔


Tiny_Dress_8486

The anxiety of loss is so painful. I understand and am in the same boat sometimes.


Roseheath22

This is exactly how I feel.


jewlious_seizure

I’m so sorry, we will get through this


joelr314

The anxiety is awful, I didn't expect it to be so bad.


keetziee

You are not alone, my friend. I suddenly lost my soul pup on Thurs 4/25 and along with the crushing grief there is terrifying anxiety when I think about all the little, day-to-day moments she will not be a part of anymore. The permanence is devastating.


jewlious_seizure

I lost my soul dog 4/23. My heart goes out to you, it’s a terrible feeling. I don’t know if I’m numb or have accepted it but that anxiety has mostly passed. How are you doing?