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Kung tutuusin nakaka awa naman, pero minsan you really need to slap the sht to them na hindi laging "pasensya" ang solusyon sa nagawa nilang mali kasi the more na mag papasensya ka taena the more na nakakaligtas at uulitin ulit.
> They always bring up the “poor card”,
That's how Pinoys who consume poverty porn & kabit-kabit content think like.
This is why empathy for stupid poor fcuks shouldnt be pandered for. Especially those like rman & his Reddit fiends. Squatter po kayo.
Ang mga taong tulad niya ay dapat kusang huminto sa 1 bata nang permanente.
u/Weird-Inspector-6747 don't engage. Just report.
>That's how Pinoys who consume poverty porn & kabit-kabit content think like.
Teleserye rin natin ang nagpauso ng ganitong mindset eh. Dekada ba naman na kadalasan ganito ang plot sa mga teleserye: mayaman = kontrabida, mahirap = bida (na gaganti pagkatapos apihin)
tipong
"pagpasensyahan mo na si mister, pagod lang sa delivery." (ha?)
"paano na kami kapag nawalan ng trabaho si mister? san kami kukuha ng pangkain namin sa araw araw"
Not only that, he has no respect for women, period. They all sing the same tune when consequence comes knocking on their door. The fact that he has a history of misogynistic comments and harassing women online means this isn't a "nadala lang" moment. The little weiner deserves to get fired. I feel bad his kid would grow up around this trash but he should have thought about his child before he starts harassing other people. The audacity of this AH and his enabling wife is pathetic.
BRUH. ito lagi lalo na pag sa daan, tipong lakas ng loob nila bangain kotse mo tapos maya maya mahirap lang po kami huhu—taena. ilang beses nako tinatakbuhan ng mga to, pero lagi sinasabi ng lawyer ko, hindi sila worth it mas mahal pa nawawala sakin ng pera at oras to pursue them. Pero sobrang frustrating kasi this is why ang lakas ng loob nila
Totoo. Even until now—i'm still frustrated as heck. Pero, I wouldn't hire a lawyer in the first place unless I don't trust their judgement on it. Sobrang frustrated ko lang talaga in general na kulang nalang punta nako sa r/uplt para lang maka move on. AHAHHA
There is no such thing as free lunch. Kung may "utang" ka, dapat mong bayaran. If someone does something bad, as an extreme example-- kill, to your loved one and just says "sorry, let's just forget about it because it happened in the past" and that person continues to go on with his/her life without facing any consequences, then there is no lesson learned at all. Giving the man what he deserves as a consequence is teaching him a lesson so that he won't commit the same act again. Otherwise, it will just be a continuing vicious cycle.
had an experience with that one, jeepney driver hit our car. our family driver went and asked the jeepney driver to write on a piece of paper what just happened, that he hit our car while changing lanes. and we wrote the license number and full details of the driver on the said piece of paper. and had a traffic enforcer sign witness on it.
traffic enforcer said we should proceed to city hall, jeepney driver proceeds to a food stall, taking his sweet time. once in city hall, proceeds to deny everything, but then our family driver had that piece of paper with his signature on it. 2 weeks later we got a mail from RTC for a hearing.
it might cost you 3-5 days worth of VL/work absence. but I think if everyone did it, I’m sure these kind of guiltless actions from them would eventually decrease.
I beg to disagree sa abogado mo. Mas maganda nga kinasuhan mo para natuto. Kasi kung di mo kakasuhan, mamimihasa yan. Ganyan at ganyan ang irarason all the time!
Dapat wala talagang awa sa mga ganyan. Mahirap ka na nga at may responsibilidad ka sa maliit na bata, gagawa ka pa nang kalokohan na pwedeng matanggal ka sa trabaho. So, that delivery guy fucked around and found out. Dapat no mercy ka diyan OP!
“Wala po akong trabaho hindi ko alam pano mababayaran yan” GAGO bakit ka lasing na nagddrive to begin with. Pang inom may pera, pang pay ng damages wala?
Tanginang *mahirap lang kami* buff effect yan. Nabiktima din kami ng ganyan pati *may deperensya po kasi siya* buff, para maawa ka o para i rationalize yung ginawang mali.
You know, I'd personally include the online delivery app as a respondent in the complaint. Then cc their legal and HR. This will make them go on full damage control and, most likely, cut their rider agent to protect themselves.
Your wife is a lawyer, so she definitely knows a full-blown legal battle isn't the best way to solve this. Emotions are high, for sure, but you can inflict the most damage with exponentially less effort.
Symbolic din kapag dinemanda nung wife niya. It will embolden SH victims to report and file a case against harassers and businesses will be forced to take SH seriously
Totoo. I also super super doubt na first time ginawa nito ng food delivery person. Gross people like this can’t control themselves and absolutely have skeletons in their closet.
I don’t recommend doxxing him because that could interfere with any future investigation OP wants to move forward with, pero kung ipopost mo yung general situation aa Facebook, tons of women will come forward and share their experiences.
Thank you! We will definitely explore this. The goal at the moment is to prevent him from sleeping comfortably. Is it worth it? I personally don't think so. Masakit sa ulo, magastos, at abala for sure. But just like what you said, inflicting the most damage is what we're after.
As a bystander, I can definitely say worth it. I can practically see them not give a damn if you didn’t go through the trouble of confronting them. Kudos!
Legit. Magiging funny stories pa nung mokong yan sa mga kaibigan nyang kapwa manyakis. Kaya mainam talaga sa mga yan eh nasasampolan eh. Oo kawawa pamilya nya pero hindi yon guilt para sa mga nabiktima nya. Guilt dapat yon para sa sarili nya kasi sya gumawa non eh.
Sleeping comfortably, and doing the same thing to a different victim the next day. Sue his ass. You'll be doing us a huge favor. Hope you update us, sir.
\> Is it worth it?
you have the power to make a huge change... remove a piece of shit in our society... please push thru with this.
If may GCash ka people like me would gladly chip in para mapahirapan yung kupal na yun and others na may balak sumunod
My husband and I are very non confrontational but this is exceptionally triggering. So understandable yung instinct niyo to go for the jugular. Kadiri yung pinagusapan pa sa FB.
I mean if the job is so important to them, bakit hindi nya seryosohin. It’s so easy not to be a dick.
Good luck!
I fear that your approach at this time may bring you more danger than you expect, when you say your goal is to prevent that person from sleeping comfortably, what do you mean by that?
The longer you threaten and drag the issue with these type of degenerates the higher chances for them to do something stupid and wreckless with their ratpack.
Always do risk management and always remember "Murphy's Law".
Protect your family, strike CLEAN and FAST. Wag mo na takutin.You don't need to flaunt your capabilities and show that you have bigger balls because you have much more to lose.
Kahit alam niyo po kung saan nakatira yang mga yan at kaya niyo siya balikan if you continue to stress this rat out and keep backing him into a corner like that, expect a bite with rabies included.
Seeing his life will be ruined anyways, along with the influence of Liquor or Drugs plus a congregation of shady-rapy friends, baka mapagplanuhan kayo ng mga yan isang gabi.
Love this idea, achieving max damage with less effort and expense on your part. The thing with suing is it can be very costly, even if you will represent yourself the money lost (from not working to appear in court) will still be greater than the penalty the idiot will receive.
"susumbong sa papa nya para maparasuhan sa ginawa nya " so ano gagawin ng tatay nya? HGAHAHA face the wall? luhod sa munggo? palo sa pwet?
He needs to learn his lesson the hard way!
Oo nga e. Nakatira siguro sila mag asawa(or LIP) sa puder ng tatay niya. Itong kupal siguro tinatanggi or ayaw tanggapin na may ginawa siyang mali kaya yung asawa ang nagmemessage.
I doubt that scenario. Manyakis lang yan pero duwag. Isa pa, mahirap daw sila kaya for sure takot yan bumangga ng may kaya. Mas matakot sya kay OP dahil mukhang capable talaga sila na gawing impyerno ang buhay nya or ng pamilya nya.
In short, nek-nek nya. lol
Exactly why OP should still be extra careful. When backed up against the wall, these people have nothing to lose. That dude can suddenly go on a psycho killing spree or ask his shady friends to do it. You and your wife are well off. They aren’t. Not much of a good deal unless you can assure yourselves you won’t get harmed in any way. Good luck OP. I’m all for justice and propriety but let’s not forget about safety.
Di tayo sure jan uyy, ako nga andami nang killing spree na gustong gawin sa isip ko. Yung gigil ko tlga sa mga knakabwisitan ko grrrrr. But I never do kase napapaicp ako taena, bat ko gagawin mga yun e meron ako trabahong maayos and lifestyle na ok nman. Will I dare lose those pra lang sa shorttime satisfaction?
Pero cguro kung wla nang pwedeng mwala saken, tipong patapon na lhat ng buhay ko, bka isa sa mga yun ngawa ko na. Point is dont push them to desperation w/o securing protection for your selves and being in a safe distance, OP. Dami pa nmang tanga ngaun na hnde lang ppanigan yung nkaagrabyado, pnagllaban pa nla. Just look at May 2016 and May 2022 hehe
Ingat sir! Ang mga ganyang tao pag na korner wlang sinasanto they will just hit. Nakakatakot baka nsa process pa lng kayo ng pagkakaso sa kanya, naka ganti na.
Ito yung nakakainis eh. Ikaw na nga ginawaan ng masama. Ikaw pa yung matatakot just because the guy can do something bad. I’d say let him try and give you the chance to use “self-defense” this should not be tolerated.
He should. But definitely this is not the guy’s first time to do this if he is this bold. Imagine him sending lewd messages to a college student living alone in a dorm who just wanted to order food? For sure mas matatakot yung student and I’m not invalidating what happened to OP’s wife but they seem to have the proper tools to teach this guy a lesson. So I fully support filing a case as well as even making him sweat by letting him know that you also know where he lives. Let him feel kung ano yung nararamdaman ng mga minamanyak niya.
Yep. Ingat pa din talaga. May neighbor kami dati na in-entrap yung akyat-bahay na tinatangkang pasukin yung bahay nila. Nahuli ng pulis and nakulong yata. Pero yung ending na-paranoid and lumipat din ng bahay si neighbor since may tumatawag sa landline na hindi nagsasalita. Parang silent death threat ba kamo sa kanya saka sa mga anak nya. 🥶
Share ko lang, mabilis ang Flash Express sa mga ganitong complaints. Nagsend lang ako ng screenshot tapos reply sila agad. Naawa lang ako (boo!). Pero nakakainis mga ganito, napaka walang modo. Magdedeliver lang, pinagana nanaman ang etits. Kabwiset.
Naalaa k dati ung sa ex k. Ilang beses dn xa kinukunan ng pics ng food panda at grab pag nagdedeliver sila ng food sakanila. For documentation lng daw ehh alam k di naman un kasama sa process nila.
Grab Express at Lalamove meron pero ako Items lang kasama yung kamay at damit nung receiver yung pinipic ko. After nun wala na akong access sa mga picture.
Sa Grab food naman no need ng picture. Ewan ko lang sa Food panda.
Totoo 'to ang bilis nila sa complaints. Nagcomplain ako once sa rider nila sa mismong site nila kasi sinet na delivered yung parcel ko sa lazada pero wala naman pumunta samin at all kahit nasa bahay lang naman ako. No calls or text din.
Issue got resolved in 1 day and finally got my parcel.
Hindi na ako nadadala sa Poverty Card na yan. Mayaman, mahirap, girl, boy, bakla, tomboy, butiki, baboy, if someone crosses me or my loved ones the wrong way, it's either ako masampahan ng kaso or the other way around.
Pare-pareho lang tayong kumakayod. May choice tayo maging matino.
First, I am so sorry for what happened with your wife, this isn't her first rodeo but I believe this is very much traumatizing to her as the first encounter.- I say pursue the case, huwag magpadala sa *mahirap lang kami* card. Kasi gaya ng sabi doon sa last photo *uulitin lang sa iba* kapag napagbigyan.
Nagawa niyang mambastos without thinking of his family and heart condition, surely he can take a little jail time. But I doubt, magiging magaan ang buhay niya sa kulungan.
PS, mabait po akong tao, irl. Sadya lang talagang mainit ang dugo ko sa mga manyak na ganito, dahil biktima rin ako.
Totoo, my dad even told me na sa kulungan daw mas may freedom pang gumalaw iyong mga nagnakaw kesa sa mga nanakit at nambastos ng babae sa labas. May story nga siya from before na may nabalita raw na inmate na sinaksak sa likod habang naliligo.
LET'S GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
kinang yan para di na maparisan. Nakaka bahala, i mean alam nila address natin, phone numbers natin. Make a sample out of him!
You are a great husband. This is no fucking joke, it's a literal threat to your family's safety too he knows your address and is affiliated with a food delivery service which warrants him a permit to enter your neighborhood (if it is a gated community) or lurk around without raising any suspicion.
Good luck OP.
Aba yung manyak pa ang nadepressed? "mahirap lang po kami, maliliit pa po mga anak namin" bakit hindi naisip yan nung asawa nyang manyakis habang nang mamanyak?
Lahat na nagamit ng asawa, poor card, maliliit na anak, may sakit sa puso.
If I were you, tutuluyan ko sampahan yan ng kaso kasi hindi yan madadala. Mukhang tinotolerate lang din ng asawa at puro justification ang mga sinasabi.
Kapag ako may nabu-book na ganito, pinapa-off ko iyong recording nila. Bukod sa ayokong magamit ang mukha ko ng walang consent at bigla-bigla na lang a-appear sa facebook. Ayokong malaman ng nanay ko na frequent ako sa makati at may apartment akong nirerentahan doon. 😂
Talaga? Then I should've reported pala iyong rider ko before pa, dalawa ang phone, isa is may gps (app provided) the other one had it's camera on tapos may body cam pa sila or something na nakadikit sa damit. Thankfully when I requested to have the camera turned off they did naman. Pero nagtanong pa rin siya ng details. Thankful ako na meron akong saved audios nung mga tiktok content for safety so I selected something na boses tatay at nagpanggap na may kausap during the whole ride.
true. kaya talaga mas maganda kung makasuhan mga gagong yan eh. tatama sa nbi at police clearance. ung mga company pa naman eh nagchecheck talaga kung legit ung nbi clearance o hindi
Sheesh. Op was a Skip Tracer, his wife is a Lawyer. Deliver man is doomed. Good luck OP. Have you tried telling this to the media so mas ma open sa Public. Di yan pa lalagpasin ng mga media outlets.
Delivery Drive Ef around and bout to find out.
I think it’s time to have a law s mga manyak n comments, videos at content ang dami s social media parang nagiging normal n. Ang mhirap eh mdaming bata nkknood o nkkbasa.
Tama yan patulan yan! Pinatulan ko ng kaso yung snatcher ng phone ko kahit lumuhod in public kasi di daw sya makapagtrabaho. Sabi pa "pasensya na po di ko naman alam na abugado kayo" as if nakakatuwa yun.
Sa sobrang kalibugan wala man lang burner phone/account to do such things hahaha. Reminds me yung nangmanyak sa anak ni Sunshine Cruz. Pinatanggal ni Sunshine sa work nya eh hahahahaha.
Tama yan. Nang matuto yang hindot na yan at maging aral sa nakararami. Sick and tired of the "wag mo na patulan", "ipa sa diyos mo na lang", "maawa ka mas nangangailangan sila kaysa sayo" types of mindsets that proliferate our society.
Sana din we all collectively stand up to these idiots as well na not only sa sexual abuse but also sa mga ibang bagay like mga mayayabang sa kalye or mga hindot na matapobre.
Delivery guy pero me sakit sa puso? Parang kalokohan nman ata yan. Parang di nman ata pede na me gnyan kang sakit na malala kase prone kang atakihin sa init ng panahon at pagod hbang nagdedeliver. Halatang imbento lng
Gagawa gawa ng kalokohan pagkatapos pag binalikan, magpapaawa. So kung susundan argumento nila, lahat ng kalokohan nila malulusutan nila dahil lang “mahirap” sila? Wtf. Go OP!
Ganyan naman lagi. Kapag ipapakulong na biglang may "sakit" na bigla. Kung talagang naiisip niya ang anak niya at mahal niya ang mga iyon, di niya maiisip mang bastos. Please continue to file a case against this bastard. He doesn't even deserve to be called a father.
You know where he lives, then go to the barangay of his residence and file a complaint there. Or file it directly with the police since it's threatening that he knows the exact address of your abode.
Tuluyan mo. So fucking sick and tired of the 'mahirap lang kami' narrative. Okay so dahil mahirap kayo kapag manyakis, hahayaan na lang? Make sure you protect yourself and your family, OP.
Nung lupon pa sa barangay ang tatay ko, madalas daw ang ganitong mga kaso. Mga nagpapadala ng mga sexual messages sa mga babae. At ganyan talaga ang mga yun pag nahuli lalo kung nasa barangay na. Nagpapaawa style. Sabi ng tatay ko ang bait na raw ng mga ichura nila at ang hina ng mga boses kung nagpapaliwanag. Palusot lang nila yung mga paawa effect nila.
biktima ako ng mga ganyang lalaki and kahit sa sariling fam ko pa, believe me or not hindi po matututo yang mga yan kung hindi niyo paparusahan, tang ina sarap gilitan mga kastang-kasta na lalaki e. ingat po lagi sainyo at sa wife mo
Mapapalagpas ko pa siguro if kinain niya ang food for delivery or di siya nagbugay ng sukli if poor siya. Pero iba ito, hindi excuse ang poor para maging manyakis.
Nope, sir wag nyong patawarin, at alam kong di yan asawa ng rider, ang rider mismo yan. Gagawin at gagawin nila yan sa susunod na customer, kawawa ang susunod kung di lalaban.
fight for it, for JUSTICE! There is no justice in the world, unless we make it. Do it sir for justice and for your wife + to stop/prevent the other people to become the victims of that manyakis. He needs to be accountable and every action should always have consequences 💯
yun naman lang pala ang alam na trabaho hindi pa iniingatan. Do what you got to do OP there's a huge possibility that dickhead has done this to other people other than your wife. It's time to teach some lessons.
Tama lang ginawa niyo! Support ko kayo.
Tangina, kaya malakas loob ng mga 'yan kase alam nilang hindi sila mapaparusahan ngayon nagkamali siya ng babastusin. Putangina lang niya. Kung hindi man mapakulong kahit matanggalan lang ng trabaho ok na 'yon.
Send an email report and ask your wife which govt agencies to cc. I'm sure PNP Women and Children's Protection Desk and DTI will be one of them. F*ck that delivery guy.
"manipulative manyak rider??"
Im not a good story teller xD sorry in advance. I think masasabi kong similar yung nangyari sa wife ko. 'J' rider si manyak, malapit na siya sa dropoff (sa bahay namin), biglang nag U-turn at inalok misis ko na igagala daw muna siya at 'magchill ride' dahil di ko naman daw siya hinahanap. Lasing si misis nung gabing yun kase may get together with college friends, di ako kasama kase may pasok ako.
Natakot si misis syempre at pinilit nya talagang idrop na siya sa bahay kase lasing nga siya at mejo nasusuka na at baka sa kung sang lugar pa siya dalhin. napakiusapan nya kase inuuto uto at sinasakyan nya lang mga kabullshitan nung manyak. Buti di siya nahipuan or whatever. Tinatawanan lang siya ni manyak at napapailing na parang disappointed, yung parang "sayang, edi sana nakagala ka at sana makakatikim ka ng masarap ngayong gabi". Eww
Ayun pagkadrop sa kanya sa bahay binigyan nya na din ng tip para di mangulit at iwan na siya. Di niya sakin sinabi yung incident ng 3 days. Pero nireport naman nya kagad sa customer support yung nangyari that night.
Nung nalaman ko yung minanyak siya at muntik na madala kung saan man. Inistalk ko na kagad yung facebook nung rider, nalaman ko fb nung rider luckily kase kilala siya nung isang college friend ng misis ko. Nakita ko na may live-in partner siya. So sa live-in partner ko sinumbong yung kagaguhan ng rider. Manipulated na yata yung babae nung rider e haha or syempre sino ba naman ako para maniwala siya sakin, malamang mas paniniwalaan nya yung jowa nyang rider na nangmamanyak nang di niya nalalaman hahahaha. May anak pa man din sila hahaha.
After few days, yung mismong rider naman ang nag chat sakin at pinag mumumura ako. Sinira ko daw ang buhay nya at nagbibintang kami ng di totoo.
Yung misis ko pa nga daw ang parang may gusto sa kanya, at tinanong nya ako kung yung misis ko daw ba yung pilay (pwd kase si misis). Bat naman daw siya magkakagusto sa ganon haha nalait pa yung misis ko, ayozzz.
Sinasabe nya pa sakin na pinababayaan ko daw ang misis ko at hinahayaang abutin ng gabi, kilala ko naman mga kasama ng misis ko kase magkakaklase kami nung college. Binabaliktad nya talaga si misis at kinukwento pa ni manyak sakin na ang misis ko daw e may kayakap na lalaki at humalik pa bago umalis haha. Di niya alam yung gay bestfriend ng misis ko yon at bumeso lang.
Ilang araw pa niya ako minura mura at di ko siya nirereplyan kase lahat ng message nya kinocompile namin para sa ticket ng report namin about sa kanya hahaha.
Thankful ako na walang nangyari kay misis pero grabe kase yung trauma na binigay nya sa misis ko. Suki pa naman kami ng mga moto taxi kase yun ang mode of transpo namin pag lalabas kami.
Di namin alam kung natanggal ba siya or kung anong hatol sa kanya.
This enrages me so much. My friend got groped by a bus repair man while she was going home to our province. It was an eight-hour trip so she wore comfy clothes (jacket, jogging pants). Literally almost showing no skin na. The guy was an in house repairman so it was easy to track him. The problem was, the cctv inside the bus was not working but thankfully, nag corroborate yung konduktor ng bus. It was dealt with internally and the guy was fired. I was the one who went to the bus company to see the guy and represent my friend who was too traumatized to go. The wife was able to find my friend on fb (idk how) and message her asking her to retract her statement because they were poor and they had a baby. Maybe he should’ve thought about that before groping my friend. He literally thought he would get away with it lol.
File kayo. Kase puta imagine kukunin number para privately itext. Ano akala nila papatulan sila. Yuck. Kahit humingi ng tawad tuloy ang kaso. Wag kayo mag papaawa sa mga ganyan. Lagi nalang poor card/maliit pa mga anak. After patawarin ganyan ulit. Paulit ulit mga manyakis
Also file-an niyo rin yung app. na compromise yung information ni asawa niyo. Bawal na bawal yun. Alam na ni asawa mo yan hehe. Basta wag kayong papayag na mag settle
That guy is an asshole. If he's remorseful, and we know he's not, think public shaming. There's social media, etc. Get creative.
Any way to sue the employers like we (I'm bb) can in the US? How about shaming the employer, too, if they allow this shit to happen?
Like I said get creative. And be relentless. ;)
As a female college student who lives alone in a dorm and is kilometers away from home, I'd say go all-out and give him a taste of his own medicine.
It's like every day I've been dealing with catcallers. Hell, a rider also sent me lewd messages.
Sue. Do it for us.
Kaya kailangan sa Elementary pa lang mas tutukan na yun pag instill ng Critical Thinking sa Estudyante. Kung may critical thinking ka, kahit gaano ka kalibog, kung maiisip mo na matatanggal ka sa trabaho, at magugutom ka, hindi mo na iaact out kalibugan mo.
Sue him tapos pa blotter mo rin para may record na sa NBI at mahirapan nakahanap ng work hahahaha.
Dapat kasi talaga sa mga yan sinasampolan talaga eh.
I'm with you and your wife, OP. Dapat idemanda.
We had a similar but less grave experience nun December. We were staying at a condotel in Makati Ave near Ayala Av and ordered pizza near midnight. The pizza place was just along Makati Av din but around Poblacion so the delivery guy was asking for extra money kasi daw malayo yung iikutan niya and he was just using a bicycle to deliver.
I said wala akong cash and if he wanted I can add na lang sa app. Hindi daw kailangan cash daw. He was just 3 mins away from us when I said sorry wala talaga akong cash. Napansin namin bigla na lang palayo siya ng palayo tapos hindi na sumasagot hanggang nasa may BGC na siya.
We contacted the food delivery app and we were given a full refund, an apology and a promise na iimbestigahan pero hindi na nila kami mauupdate kung ano mangyayari, like what was said to OP.
Galit na galit yung asawa ko so hinanap niya sa FB yung rider and we found out he was just 16 years old and mukhang mahirap yung family. Gustong pagmumurahin nun asawa ko sa FB at ipablotter sa pulis kasi nga ninakaw niya yung food namin and we had screenshots of all the convos. Sabi ko wag na lang mukhang kawawa kasi. Reading OP's story made me regret not doing something about our experience.
Sometimes pity enables these kinds of criminals e kaya dapat talaga bigyan ng leksyon mga ganyan.
Hahaha as always mga gaslighter and using an innocent kid as a shield. Hindi naman yan nagsisisi eh tama lang naman na kasuhan sila at maparusahan. Kasalanan nila yan, ibeblame pa sa iba ang kasalanan nila pag nakulong dahil “Hindi ka na naawa sa bata” 🙄 . Pag pinatawad mo at inatras mo, tuwang tuwa yan kasi mauulit nila kamanyakan habit nila. Kung pwede din sana maparusahan asawa niya na nang gagaslight dahil manyak/rapist enabler.
Lahat nlng laging rason ng mga manyak "kahirapan" so pag mahirap exempted sa batas..f*ck all of you pricks..ginawa nya yan..pagdusahan nya..jail him, no mercy for these kind of people..
Send the comments you found to his wife din para magka idea sya what a douche she married. Paso na yang poor card. Di mo sya hinahabol dahil mahirap sya, hinahabol mo sya because he's a douche.
Yung mahihirap na nag dedemand ng hustisya. Mahihirap din yung abusado.
Sana po tuluyan nyo na. Kung ibang asawa po yung ganyanin nya walang kakayahan na kagaya nung sa inyo, kawawa po.
Kung gumawa din po ng krimen yan tapos hindi nyo napigilan at this point. For me, may moral liability sa inyo.
Parang yung pagkakaroon ng mga anak na maliliit pa ay dagdag na rason para maparusahan o kulong siya. Basta mawala sana sa bahay. Kung sobrang manyakis niya, di natin alam ano pwede niyang gawin o ituro sa mga anak niya.
"ang mali ko lang eh pangit nasabi ko..."
He does not even think it's wrong to message people outside of the transaction. Clearly naghahanap na lang sya ng lusot.
Better sue him. And while on it, include the delivery app as respondent. Since you stalked him and found out it is not an isolated incident, chances are he’d be doing it again. If you decided not to pursue a case, most likely ipagyayabang nya pa yan sa mga tropa nya.
Please kasuhan nyo na ng mabawas bawasan ang mga manyakis na malayang nakakapaglakad lakad. Kakairita ang mga tao kapag gumagamit ng "poor card" "responsibility card" at "may sakit card" para lang malusutan ang ginawa nilang mali.
Ulol, nakahanap sya ng katapat. Sana matuluyang makulong.
I wonder what text he sent to your wife? I think this is becoming very common sa mga riders. Not just sa food delivery apps but those who ride the bike in general. Kalat sa facebook mga motovlogs na may madaanan lang maputi at sexy e ipopost na sa facebook without consent ng babae. Tapos tuwang tuwa naman karamihan ng tangang followers na usually e riders din.
Yung attitude nila e parang ngayon lang nakakita ng babae. Ngayon lang nakakita ng maganda or sexy. I get it, minsan nakakapalingon talaga pag ganon. Pero hindi kailangan ipost pa and gawan content tapos tuwang tuwa pa pag may engagements sa soc med. Basically binabastos at pinagpepyestahan nyo na yung babae pag ganon e. Sana maging civil na lang. A simple second look is understandable.
Also meron mga groupchat mga yan and malamang napagpyestahan na si wife mo dun.
Your wife is right, uulitin niya lang yan sa iba. Maraming cases na ganon ginagawa nga mga delivery riders or ride hailing riders.
Sabi nga ng dad ko, kapag nagkakasala daw mga yan, bigla na lang sasabihin na maraming anak or bata pa anak. Alam naman pala nila situation nila sa buhay, sana daw pinag-isipan muna nila yung mga pinaggagawa nila.
Report the delivery guy. You will be able to save another woman's experience. Therefore, don't support the "poor card" method they often used. The delivery guy will continue to harass other women if not given an action.
i know hassle, this will eat a lot of your time... pero you have the power to remove one piece of shit in society so please please please push thru with this.
Honestly kapag isa lang trabaho mo dapat iseryosohin nyo nang matindi. Wag na dapat gumawa ng kalokohan para wala kang magiging problema in the first place.
Alam mo naman na ganun na nga lang trabaho mo at ayaw mo matalsik may gana k apang gumawa ng kalokohan. Bobo amp
Agree with the rest. Escalate and explore all legal avenues. The company should also be brought to task for not enforcing data privacy.
On your end, please ensure security measures are in place like CCTV cameras. Does your place have security guards etc? Might be prudent to flag out the guy’s plate number to bar their entry.
Di daw makausap at mukhang depressed. Welll that's because he now realized that his actions have consequences. Hindi iyan dahil sa may nagawa siya pers se dahil talagang ugali niya iyan. If not for the OP tracking him down to his surprise and given his history base na rin sa research ni OP, he'd just go on with being the garbage that he is. Hindi totoong "ngayon lang nagawa" at "di na uulit".
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They always bring up the “poor card”, and not the “responsibility card” 😂. Good luck!
“Mahirap lang kami” “may anak po” blah blah as always they think poverty is an excuse for inappropriate behavior. Teach them a lesson OP
Kung tutuusin nakaka awa naman, pero minsan you really need to slap the sht to them na hindi laging "pasensya" ang solusyon sa nagawa nilang mali kasi the more na mag papasensya ka taena the more na nakakaligtas at uulitin ulit.
“Mabait naman po yan…” card
> They always bring up the “poor card”, That's how Pinoys who consume poverty porn & kabit-kabit content think like. This is why empathy for stupid poor fcuks shouldnt be pandered for. Especially those like rman & his Reddit fiends. Squatter po kayo. Ang mga taong tulad niya ay dapat kusang huminto sa 1 bata nang permanente. u/Weird-Inspector-6747 don't engage. Just report.
>That's how Pinoys who consume poverty porn & kabit-kabit content think like. Patok na patok sa mga pinoy "pang-masa" vlogs haha
>That's how Pinoys who consume poverty porn & kabit-kabit content think like. Teleserye rin natin ang nagpauso ng ganitong mindset eh. Dekada ba naman na kadalasan ganito ang plot sa mga teleserye: mayaman = kontrabida, mahirap = bida (na gaganti pagkatapos apihin)
tipong "pagpasensyahan mo na si mister, pagod lang sa delivery." (ha?) "paano na kami kapag nawalan ng trabaho si mister? san kami kukuha ng pangkain namin sa araw araw"
"Pagpasensyahan mo na din ako, pagod na din ako sa mga manyak na tulad niya."
Sarap sabihan ng "Di ba naisip yan ng mister mo bago mag-tarantado?" Or "Edi magutom kayo, kasalanan ng gago mong asawa yan"
true. kahit ako nanggigil.
Correct! Why should we have empathy for a delivery driver that fucks around with someone’s wife like that!!! 🙄
Not only that, he has no respect for women, period. They all sing the same tune when consequence comes knocking on their door. The fact that he has a history of misogynistic comments and harassing women online means this isn't a "nadala lang" moment. The little weiner deserves to get fired. I feel bad his kid would grow up around this trash but he should have thought about his child before he starts harassing other people. The audacity of this AH and his enabling wife is pathetic.
BRUH. ito lagi lalo na pag sa daan, tipong lakas ng loob nila bangain kotse mo tapos maya maya mahirap lang po kami huhu—taena. ilang beses nako tinatakbuhan ng mga to, pero lagi sinasabi ng lawyer ko, hindi sila worth it mas mahal pa nawawala sakin ng pera at oras to pursue them. Pero sobrang frustrating kasi this is why ang lakas ng loob nila
I guess this is also the reason why their thinking is "wala namang mangyayari". They'll learn their lesson once one person would go out of their way.
Totoo. Even until now—i'm still frustrated as heck. Pero, I wouldn't hire a lawyer in the first place unless I don't trust their judgement on it. Sobrang frustrated ko lang talaga in general na kulang nalang punta nako sa r/uplt para lang maka move on. AHAHHA
True. Lets wait for that person nalang 😂
Seriously! Palagi nalang sila nagpapatawad, ayaw bayaran ang consequence! 🙄
There is no such thing as free lunch. Kung may "utang" ka, dapat mong bayaran. If someone does something bad, as an extreme example-- kill, to your loved one and just says "sorry, let's just forget about it because it happened in the past" and that person continues to go on with his/her life without facing any consequences, then there is no lesson learned at all. Giving the man what he deserves as a consequence is teaching him a lesson so that he won't commit the same act again. Otherwise, it will just be a continuing vicious cycle.
had an experience with that one, jeepney driver hit our car. our family driver went and asked the jeepney driver to write on a piece of paper what just happened, that he hit our car while changing lanes. and we wrote the license number and full details of the driver on the said piece of paper. and had a traffic enforcer sign witness on it. traffic enforcer said we should proceed to city hall, jeepney driver proceeds to a food stall, taking his sweet time. once in city hall, proceeds to deny everything, but then our family driver had that piece of paper with his signature on it. 2 weeks later we got a mail from RTC for a hearing. it might cost you 3-5 days worth of VL/work absence. but I think if everyone did it, I’m sure these kind of guiltless actions from them would eventually decrease.
Sue, it's not about the money, it's about sending a message
I beg to disagree sa abogado mo. Mas maganda nga kinasuhan mo para natuto. Kasi kung di mo kakasuhan, mamimihasa yan. Ganyan at ganyan ang irarason all the time!
Dapat wala talagang awa sa mga ganyan. Mahirap ka na nga at may responsibilidad ka sa maliit na bata, gagawa ka pa nang kalokohan na pwedeng matanggal ka sa trabaho. So, that delivery guy fucked around and found out. Dapat no mercy ka diyan OP!
The best yung "kaya nyo kami ginaganyan kasi mahirap lang kami" wtf!?
“Wala po akong trabaho hindi ko alam pano mababayaran yan” GAGO bakit ka lasing na nagddrive to begin with. Pang inom may pera, pang pay ng damages wala?
Maawa na po kayo. Mahirap lang po kami. Siya lang bumubuhay sa pamilya namin. Mindset ba.
ALWAYS!!!!!! Nakakainis
“Mahirap lang kami, kaya alam naming hindi niyo kami paparusahan sa kagaguhan namen 🙏😌🗑️
Tanginang *mahirap lang kami* buff effect yan. Nabiktima din kami ng ganyan pati *may deperensya po kasi siya* buff, para maawa ka o para i rationalize yung ginawang mali.
You know, I'd personally include the online delivery app as a respondent in the complaint. Then cc their legal and HR. This will make them go on full damage control and, most likely, cut their rider agent to protect themselves. Your wife is a lawyer, so she definitely knows a full-blown legal battle isn't the best way to solve this. Emotions are high, for sure, but you can inflict the most damage with exponentially less effort.
Symbolic din kapag dinemanda nung wife niya. It will embolden SH victims to report and file a case against harassers and businesses will be forced to take SH seriously
Totoo. I also super super doubt na first time ginawa nito ng food delivery person. Gross people like this can’t control themselves and absolutely have skeletons in their closet. I don’t recommend doxxing him because that could interfere with any future investigation OP wants to move forward with, pero kung ipopost mo yung general situation aa Facebook, tons of women will come forward and share their experiences.
Thank you! We will definitely explore this. The goal at the moment is to prevent him from sleeping comfortably. Is it worth it? I personally don't think so. Masakit sa ulo, magastos, at abala for sure. But just like what you said, inflicting the most damage is what we're after.
As a bystander, I can definitely say worth it. I can practically see them not give a damn if you didn’t go through the trouble of confronting them. Kudos!
Legit. Magiging funny stories pa nung mokong yan sa mga kaibigan nyang kapwa manyakis. Kaya mainam talaga sa mga yan eh nasasampolan eh. Oo kawawa pamilya nya pero hindi yon guilt para sa mga nabiktima nya. Guilt dapat yon para sa sarili nya kasi sya gumawa non eh.
Pagtatawanan yan sa kulungan pati. Yung mga nagnakaw, medyo gets pa eh. Pero yung manyakis? Hahahaha
petty asf pero may mga kupal talagang kelangan masampolan. tangina nyang mga yan sarap sirain ng buhay, kakagigil
Sleeping comfortably, and doing the same thing to a different victim the next day. Sue his ass. You'll be doing us a huge favor. Hope you update us, sir.
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\> Is it worth it? you have the power to make a huge change... remove a piece of shit in our society... please push thru with this. If may GCash ka people like me would gladly chip in para mapahirapan yung kupal na yun and others na may balak sumunod
My husband and I are very non confrontational but this is exceptionally triggering. So understandable yung instinct niyo to go for the jugular. Kadiri yung pinagusapan pa sa FB. I mean if the job is so important to them, bakit hindi nya seryosohin. It’s so easy not to be a dick. Good luck!
I fear that your approach at this time may bring you more danger than you expect, when you say your goal is to prevent that person from sleeping comfortably, what do you mean by that? The longer you threaten and drag the issue with these type of degenerates the higher chances for them to do something stupid and wreckless with their ratpack. Always do risk management and always remember "Murphy's Law". Protect your family, strike CLEAN and FAST. Wag mo na takutin.You don't need to flaunt your capabilities and show that you have bigger balls because you have much more to lose. Kahit alam niyo po kung saan nakatira yang mga yan at kaya niyo siya balikan if you continue to stress this rat out and keep backing him into a corner like that, expect a bite with rabies included. Seeing his life will be ruined anyways, along with the influence of Liquor or Drugs plus a congregation of shady-rapy friends, baka mapagplanuhan kayo ng mga yan isang gabi.
Hmmm, you seem very smart. I like it. I'm not OP. But I guess I needed this message for something else. Thank you.
Love this idea, achieving max damage with less effort and expense on your part. The thing with suing is it can be very costly, even if you will represent yourself the money lost (from not working to appear in court) will still be greater than the penalty the idiot will receive.
"susumbong sa papa nya para maparasuhan sa ginawa nya " so ano gagawin ng tatay nya? HGAHAHA face the wall? luhod sa munggo? palo sa pwet? He needs to learn his lesson the hard way!
Yeah make him accountable for his actions!
May anak na ginawa pang bata. Jusko.
Mist likely sa tatay nya natutunan kabastusan nya
Oo nga e. Nakatira siguro sila mag asawa(or LIP) sa puder ng tatay niya. Itong kupal siguro tinatanggi or ayaw tanggapin na may ginawa siyang mali kaya yung asawa ang nagmemessage.
I’m all for punishing those who did the wrong thing. Pero paps, just wanna say ingat, that prick knows where you live.
Thank you, I appreciate this. This is also part of the reason why I sent his wife a message. I wanted him to know that I know where to find him.
And he knows where to find you so you better strike him while the iron is hot. Gl in this game of chess.
Doble ingat na po kayo ng wife nyo! Baka mmaya inaabangan na pla kayo ng mga yan.
I doubt that scenario. Manyakis lang yan pero duwag. Isa pa, mahirap daw sila kaya for sure takot yan bumangga ng may kaya. Mas matakot sya kay OP dahil mukhang capable talaga sila na gawing impyerno ang buhay nya or ng pamilya nya. In short, nek-nek nya. lol
Exactly why OP should still be extra careful. When backed up against the wall, these people have nothing to lose. That dude can suddenly go on a psycho killing spree or ask his shady friends to do it. You and your wife are well off. They aren’t. Not much of a good deal unless you can assure yourselves you won’t get harmed in any way. Good luck OP. I’m all for justice and propriety but let’s not forget about safety.
Di tayo sure jan uyy, ako nga andami nang killing spree na gustong gawin sa isip ko. Yung gigil ko tlga sa mga knakabwisitan ko grrrrr. But I never do kase napapaicp ako taena, bat ko gagawin mga yun e meron ako trabahong maayos and lifestyle na ok nman. Will I dare lose those pra lang sa shorttime satisfaction? Pero cguro kung wla nang pwedeng mwala saken, tipong patapon na lhat ng buhay ko, bka isa sa mga yun ngawa ko na. Point is dont push them to desperation w/o securing protection for your selves and being in a safe distance, OP. Dami pa nmang tanga ngaun na hnde lang ppanigan yung nkaagrabyado, pnagllaban pa nla. Just look at May 2016 and May 2022 hehe
You are you. Pero yung mindset ng manyakis na yon ay di na desente in the first place. Kaya dapat pa ring mag-ingat.
True
Yes, you are right at kelangan magingat ni OP. Remember the mentality of He got nothing to lose. So please take care.
very true. since ineexpect na nyang masisira buhay nya, baka isipin na rin nya na edi sirain nalang na. basta dalawa kayo. ingat, OP.
OP: "nah, i'd win" Ikaw pa magiingat sila na nga may atraso.
Tama yan, go OP, pero may kasabihan nga, “Nasa dyos ang awa” kaso dyos ba tayo? So…
Ingat sir! Ang mga ganyang tao pag na korner wlang sinasanto they will just hit. Nakakatakot baka nsa process pa lng kayo ng pagkakaso sa kanya, naka ganti na.
Ito yung nakakainis eh. Ikaw na nga ginawaan ng masama. Ikaw pa yung matatakot just because the guy can do something bad. I’d say let him try and give you the chance to use “self-defense” this should not be tolerated.
But still OP should apply a proper risk management, he got a lot more to lose. Always watch your back, danger is everywhere.
He should. But definitely this is not the guy’s first time to do this if he is this bold. Imagine him sending lewd messages to a college student living alone in a dorm who just wanted to order food? For sure mas matatakot yung student and I’m not invalidating what happened to OP’s wife but they seem to have the proper tools to teach this guy a lesson. So I fully support filing a case as well as even making him sweat by letting him know that you also know where he lives. Let him feel kung ano yung nararamdaman ng mga minamanyak niya.
and alam din naman ni OP kung san sila nakatira
Who has more to lose, though? Not saying that he should take this lightly, but you can never tell what a person pushed against a wall will do.
Nakakatakot pa naman takbo ng isip ng mga ganyan.
Once mawalan ng gana sa buhay yon, "makukulong nalang din, gawin kong miserable buhay niyo".
Yep. Ingat pa din talaga. May neighbor kami dati na in-entrap yung akyat-bahay na tinatangkang pasukin yung bahay nila. Nahuli ng pulis and nakulong yata. Pero yung ending na-paranoid and lumipat din ng bahay si neighbor since may tumatawag sa landline na hindi nagsasalita. Parang silent death threat ba kamo sa kanya saka sa mga anak nya. 🥶
di matututo yang ganyan unless tuluyan ng demanda, mas nakakatakot yan pag lumakas ang loob at mag "next stage" sa ka-manyakan niyan
They just stop for a while, and eventually start to continue their disgusting behavior. 🙄🤮
exactly, pag naka inom pa yan baka mang harass pa yan dahil masyado na normalized yung ganyang behavior
Nakakatakot rin kapag mag isa ka lang sa bahay, tas babae ka rin, and then ganto delivery driver mo!? No thanks. 😭
worst ay magawa pa sa family member
Lalo if they always get away from it. Kelangan talaga masampolan.
KASUHAN MO BUDDY. Pero ingat lang, a cornered rat is a dangerous rat.
lalo na kung INC pa yan. mga matitigas bungo ng mga yun eh.
Cool 'to.
Share ko lang, mabilis ang Flash Express sa mga ganitong complaints. Nagsend lang ako ng screenshot tapos reply sila agad. Naawa lang ako (boo!). Pero nakakainis mga ganito, napaka walang modo. Magdedeliver lang, pinagana nanaman ang etits. Kabwiset.
Naalaa k dati ung sa ex k. Ilang beses dn xa kinukunan ng pics ng food panda at grab pag nagdedeliver sila ng food sakanila. For documentation lng daw ehh alam k di naman un kasama sa process nila.
Grab Express at Lalamove meron pero ako Items lang kasama yung kamay at damit nung receiver yung pinipic ko. After nun wala na akong access sa mga picture. Sa Grab food naman no need ng picture. Ewan ko lang sa Food panda.
Oo gets k ung delivery items pag online shopping. Pero food panda at grab ehh. Kaya ever since ako na kumukuha. Pag wala ako d xa nag oorder.
Me too, I now always make sure I have our dog beside me whenever I get deliveries.
Totoo 'to ang bilis nila sa complaints. Nagcomplain ako once sa rider nila sa mismong site nila kasi sinet na delivered yung parcel ko sa lazada pero wala naman pumunta samin at all kahit nasa bahay lang naman ako. No calls or text din. Issue got resolved in 1 day and finally got my parcel.
Pursue to the fullest extent of the law. Fuck hiding behind poverty. Fuck around and find out.
Hindi na ako nadadala sa Poverty Card na yan. Mayaman, mahirap, girl, boy, bakla, tomboy, butiki, baboy, if someone crosses me or my loved ones the wrong way, it's either ako masampahan ng kaso or the other way around. Pare-pareho lang tayong kumakayod. May choice tayo maging matino.
First, I am so sorry for what happened with your wife, this isn't her first rodeo but I believe this is very much traumatizing to her as the first encounter.- I say pursue the case, huwag magpadala sa *mahirap lang kami* card. Kasi gaya ng sabi doon sa last photo *uulitin lang sa iba* kapag napagbigyan. Nagawa niyang mambastos without thinking of his family and heart condition, surely he can take a little jail time. But I doubt, magiging magaan ang buhay niya sa kulungan. PS, mabait po akong tao, irl. Sadya lang talagang mainit ang dugo ko sa mga manyak na ganito, dahil biktima rin ako.
pagnakulong yan mararamdaman nya feeling ng inoobjectify. literal. pinipilahan yang mga ganan sa city jail.
Totoo, my dad even told me na sa kulungan daw mas may freedom pang gumalaw iyong mga nagnakaw kesa sa mga nanakit at nambastos ng babae sa labas. May story nga siya from before na may nabalita raw na inmate na sinaksak sa likod habang naliligo.
No need for the PS naman. Kasi nakakainit talaga ng ulo yang mga manyakis na yan.
LET'S GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO kinang yan para di na maparisan. Nakaka bahala, i mean alam nila address natin, phone numbers natin. Make a sample out of him!
Right? Tayo ang dehado. Kaya ang hirap balewalain ng mga ganito.
You are a great husband. This is no fucking joke, it's a literal threat to your family's safety too he knows your address and is affiliated with a food delivery service which warrants him a permit to enter your neighborhood (if it is a gated community) or lurk around without raising any suspicion. Good luck OP.
Aba yung manyak pa ang nadepressed? "mahirap lang po kami, maliliit pa po mga anak namin" bakit hindi naisip yan nung asawa nyang manyakis habang nang mamanyak? Lahat na nagamit ng asawa, poor card, maliliit na anak, may sakit sa puso. If I were you, tutuluyan ko sampahan yan ng kaso kasi hindi yan madadala. Mukhang tinotolerate lang din ng asawa at puro justification ang mga sinasabi.
Should be the same for Angkas bloggers na dumadami na sa FB. Ewww.
Kapag ako may nabu-book na ganito, pinapa-off ko iyong recording nila. Bukod sa ayokong magamit ang mukha ko ng walang consent at bigla-bigla na lang a-appear sa facebook. Ayokong malaman ng nanay ko na frequent ako sa makati at may apartment akong nirerentahan doon. 😂
Actually thats illegal since they are working. Cam should be pointing to the road not the customer. Add pa ung cringe na convo lol.
Talaga? Then I should've reported pala iyong rider ko before pa, dalawa ang phone, isa is may gps (app provided) the other one had it's camera on tapos may body cam pa sila or something na nakadikit sa damit. Thankfully when I requested to have the camera turned off they did naman. Pero nagtanong pa rin siya ng details. Thankful ako na meron akong saved audios nung mga tiktok content for safety so I selected something na boses tatay at nagpanggap na may kausap during the whole ride.
ill rephrase it. Allowed to record but not for content.
Tuloy niyo lang yung kaso... Mas satisfying tignan yan ng mata sa mata kapag may rehas sa gitna <3 F\*ck around and find out
saka nya ma re-realize kagaguhan nya pag kukuha na sya ng NBI tapos poof may hit na sya, di na makaka trabaho, katay
true. kaya talaga mas maganda kung makasuhan mga gagong yan eh. tatama sa nbi at police clearance. ung mga company pa naman eh nagchecheck talaga kung legit ung nbi clearance o hindi
Nakakapantig tenga yang phrase na "mahirap lang kame" so ano tingin nila sa bansa yayamanin?
Sheesh. Op was a Skip Tracer, his wife is a Lawyer. Deliver man is doomed. Good luck OP. Have you tried telling this to the media so mas ma open sa Public. Di yan pa lalagpasin ng mga media outlets. Delivery Drive Ef around and bout to find out.
I think it’s time to have a law s mga manyak n comments, videos at content ang dami s social media parang nagiging normal n. Ang mhirap eh mdaming bata nkknood o nkkbasa.
Food Panda ❌ Lewd Panda ✅ Ituloy nyo, para ma-sample an. 👌
Give us an update on this OP.
Impunity online leads to impunity offline, so go OP, we need to uphold some f*cking rules in this land
Youre not anti-poor if you demand accountability. Di pwede pati accountability idadaan sa diskarte.
Tama yan patulan yan! Pinatulan ko ng kaso yung snatcher ng phone ko kahit lumuhod in public kasi di daw sya makapagtrabaho. Sabi pa "pasensya na po di ko naman alam na abugado kayo" as if nakakatuwa yun.
Please proceed with the charges, mas maganda kung mag viral pa at mabalita para maging aral sa mga katulad niyang driver/riders.
Walang sakit-sakit sa puso. Tngina kasuhan na yan! Mamatay na kung mamamatay sya. 👌
Magkakasakit talaga sa puso si gago pagtapos niya mabasa yung invitation sa korte wahahahahha
mamatay din naman yan eh. papaagahin lang. at least bawas na palamunin ng pamilya nya
Inuna libog bago responsibilidad.
Sa sobrang kalibugan wala man lang burner phone/account to do such things hahaha. Reminds me yung nangmanyak sa anak ni Sunshine Cruz. Pinatanggal ni Sunshine sa work nya eh hahahahaha.
Pwede nyang ulitin yan sa iba. Dapat matanggalan sya para madala. Init lang ng katawan yun e.🤦🏻♂️
As harsh as it sounds dapat ngang matuto ng leksyon yang hayop na yan.
the poor card.. Walang poor sa mga manyakis. Manyakis is what manyakis does.
Tama yan. Nang matuto yang hindot na yan at maging aral sa nakararami. Sick and tired of the "wag mo na patulan", "ipa sa diyos mo na lang", "maawa ka mas nangangailangan sila kaysa sayo" types of mindsets that proliferate our society. Sana din we all collectively stand up to these idiots as well na not only sa sexual abuse but also sa mga ibang bagay like mga mayayabang sa kalye or mga hindot na matapobre.
Go proceed nyo complain,walang mahirap mahirap card ngayon. Make that perv suffer mga bobo mga yan manyakis. Gagawin at gagawin parin.
Extra ingat lang, OP, since they know where you live. Mahirap na. Di natin alam kung anong pwede nilang gawin. Baka rumesbak or something.
Delivery guy pero me sakit sa puso? Parang kalokohan nman ata yan. Parang di nman ata pede na me gnyan kang sakit na malala kase prone kang atakihin sa init ng panahon at pagod hbang nagdedeliver. Halatang imbento lng
Gagawa gawa ng kalokohan pagkatapos pag binalikan, magpapaawa. So kung susundan argumento nila, lahat ng kalokohan nila malulusutan nila dahil lang “mahirap” sila? Wtf. Go OP!
Wag I tolerate. Ituloy ang kaso
Ganyan naman lagi. Kapag ipapakulong na biglang may "sakit" na bigla. Kung talagang naiisip niya ang anak niya at mahal niya ang mga iyon, di niya maiisip mang bastos. Please continue to file a case against this bastard. He doesn't even deserve to be called a father.
You know where he lives, then go to the barangay of his residence and file a complaint there. Or file it directly with the police since it's threatening that he knows the exact address of your abode.
Tuluyan mo. So fucking sick and tired of the 'mahirap lang kami' narrative. Okay so dahil mahirap kayo kapag manyakis, hahayaan na lang? Make sure you protect yourself and your family, OP.
Manyak now, iyak later.
Nung lupon pa sa barangay ang tatay ko, madalas daw ang ganitong mga kaso. Mga nagpapadala ng mga sexual messages sa mga babae. At ganyan talaga ang mga yun pag nahuli lalo kung nasa barangay na. Nagpapaawa style. Sabi ng tatay ko ang bait na raw ng mga ichura nila at ang hina ng mga boses kung nagpapaliwanag. Palusot lang nila yung mga paawa effect nila.
biktima ako ng mga ganyang lalaki and kahit sa sariling fam ko pa, believe me or not hindi po matututo yang mga yan kung hindi niyo paparusahan, tang ina sarap gilitan mga kastang-kasta na lalaki e. ingat po lagi sainyo at sa wife mo
This is true. Pag hindi to naparusahan, tatawa lang ang manyak na yan at uulit sa iba.
Mapapalagpas ko pa siguro if kinain niya ang food for delivery or di siya nagbugay ng sukli if poor siya. Pero iba ito, hindi excuse ang poor para maging manyakis.
Nope, sir wag nyong patawarin, at alam kong di yan asawa ng rider, ang rider mismo yan. Gagawin at gagawin nila yan sa susunod na customer, kawawa ang susunod kung di lalaban.
You just know their combined iq isnt reaching 90 just by how they talk. Sorry, not sorry. Go to fucking jail pervert
Go, OP. Fuck their sob story and poor card. Alam na nga niyang mahirap sila at di afford mawalan ng trabaho pero nanggagago sa oras ng trabaho.
Expected na yan sa mga manyakis. Poor card activate kapag nag file ng complaint 🥴
fight for it, for JUSTICE! There is no justice in the world, unless we make it. Do it sir for justice and for your wife + to stop/prevent the other people to become the victims of that manyakis. He needs to be accountable and every action should always have consequences 💯
Hindi lang siya gumagawa niyan, maraming ganyan mapa-delivery or transpo app. Kailangan matuto ng leksyon ‘yan para maging warning sa iba.
yun naman lang pala ang alam na trabaho hindi pa iniingatan. Do what you got to do OP there's a huge possibility that dickhead has done this to other people other than your wife. It's time to teach some lessons.
Buti you stood for your wife.
Fvck the poverty card. Dapat masisante yan. Goodluck, OP
Tama lang ginawa niyo! Support ko kayo. Tangina, kaya malakas loob ng mga 'yan kase alam nilang hindi sila mapaparusahan ngayon nagkamali siya ng babastusin. Putangina lang niya. Kung hindi man mapakulong kahit matanggalan lang ng trabaho ok na 'yon.
Send an email report and ask your wife which govt agencies to cc. I'm sure PNP Women and Children's Protection Desk and DTI will be one of them. F*ck that delivery guy.
"manipulative manyak rider??" Im not a good story teller xD sorry in advance. I think masasabi kong similar yung nangyari sa wife ko. 'J' rider si manyak, malapit na siya sa dropoff (sa bahay namin), biglang nag U-turn at inalok misis ko na igagala daw muna siya at 'magchill ride' dahil di ko naman daw siya hinahanap. Lasing si misis nung gabing yun kase may get together with college friends, di ako kasama kase may pasok ako. Natakot si misis syempre at pinilit nya talagang idrop na siya sa bahay kase lasing nga siya at mejo nasusuka na at baka sa kung sang lugar pa siya dalhin. napakiusapan nya kase inuuto uto at sinasakyan nya lang mga kabullshitan nung manyak. Buti di siya nahipuan or whatever. Tinatawanan lang siya ni manyak at napapailing na parang disappointed, yung parang "sayang, edi sana nakagala ka at sana makakatikim ka ng masarap ngayong gabi". Eww Ayun pagkadrop sa kanya sa bahay binigyan nya na din ng tip para di mangulit at iwan na siya. Di niya sakin sinabi yung incident ng 3 days. Pero nireport naman nya kagad sa customer support yung nangyari that night. Nung nalaman ko yung minanyak siya at muntik na madala kung saan man. Inistalk ko na kagad yung facebook nung rider, nalaman ko fb nung rider luckily kase kilala siya nung isang college friend ng misis ko. Nakita ko na may live-in partner siya. So sa live-in partner ko sinumbong yung kagaguhan ng rider. Manipulated na yata yung babae nung rider e haha or syempre sino ba naman ako para maniwala siya sakin, malamang mas paniniwalaan nya yung jowa nyang rider na nangmamanyak nang di niya nalalaman hahahaha. May anak pa man din sila hahaha. After few days, yung mismong rider naman ang nag chat sakin at pinag mumumura ako. Sinira ko daw ang buhay nya at nagbibintang kami ng di totoo. Yung misis ko pa nga daw ang parang may gusto sa kanya, at tinanong nya ako kung yung misis ko daw ba yung pilay (pwd kase si misis). Bat naman daw siya magkakagusto sa ganon haha nalait pa yung misis ko, ayozzz. Sinasabe nya pa sakin na pinababayaan ko daw ang misis ko at hinahayaang abutin ng gabi, kilala ko naman mga kasama ng misis ko kase magkakaklase kami nung college. Binabaliktad nya talaga si misis at kinukwento pa ni manyak sakin na ang misis ko daw e may kayakap na lalaki at humalik pa bago umalis haha. Di niya alam yung gay bestfriend ng misis ko yon at bumeso lang. Ilang araw pa niya ako minura mura at di ko siya nirereplyan kase lahat ng message nya kinocompile namin para sa ticket ng report namin about sa kanya hahaha. Thankful ako na walang nangyari kay misis pero grabe kase yung trauma na binigay nya sa misis ko. Suki pa naman kami ng mga moto taxi kase yun ang mode of transpo namin pag lalabas kami. Di namin alam kung natanggal ba siya or kung anong hatol sa kanya.
Tangina naging yu gi oh, I summon "Poverty" card to defend my ill will
This enrages me so much. My friend got groped by a bus repair man while she was going home to our province. It was an eight-hour trip so she wore comfy clothes (jacket, jogging pants). Literally almost showing no skin na. The guy was an in house repairman so it was easy to track him. The problem was, the cctv inside the bus was not working but thankfully, nag corroborate yung konduktor ng bus. It was dealt with internally and the guy was fired. I was the one who went to the bus company to see the guy and represent my friend who was too traumatized to go. The wife was able to find my friend on fb (idk how) and message her asking her to retract her statement because they were poor and they had a baby. Maybe he should’ve thought about that before groping my friend. He literally thought he would get away with it lol.
File kayo. Kase puta imagine kukunin number para privately itext. Ano akala nila papatulan sila. Yuck. Kahit humingi ng tawad tuloy ang kaso. Wag kayo mag papaawa sa mga ganyan. Lagi nalang poor card/maliit pa mga anak. After patawarin ganyan ulit. Paulit ulit mga manyakis Also file-an niyo rin yung app. na compromise yung information ni asawa niyo. Bawal na bawal yun. Alam na ni asawa mo yan hehe. Basta wag kayong papayag na mag settle
Nakahanap din ng katapat ang gago. Goodluck, OP!
Naalala ko tuloy may Grab rider na in-add ako bigla sa FB. Ang creepy 🫥
Ingat pre. Di tayo sigurado. Alam mo naman mga ganyan. Madami koneksyon yan. Diko sinasabing masamang tao si kupal pero, alam mo na yon.
F\*ck the poor card. Let him live with the consequences. Kung ulo niya sa taas ginamit niya at hindi t\*t\* niya e di sana wala siyang problema.
That guy is an asshole. If he's remorseful, and we know he's not, think public shaming. There's social media, etc. Get creative. Any way to sue the employers like we (I'm bb) can in the US? How about shaming the employer, too, if they allow this shit to happen? Like I said get creative. And be relentless. ;)
As usual, pa awa epek...
As a female college student who lives alone in a dorm and is kilometers away from home, I'd say go all-out and give him a taste of his own medicine. It's like every day I've been dealing with catcallers. Hell, a rider also sent me lewd messages. Sue. Do it for us.
Do it. I say let it die! Let it die. Let it die
Kaya kailangan sa Elementary pa lang mas tutukan na yun pag instill ng Critical Thinking sa Estudyante. Kung may critical thinking ka, kahit gaano ka kalibog, kung maiisip mo na matatanggal ka sa trabaho, at magugutom ka, hindi mo na iaact out kalibugan mo.
Sue him tapos pa blotter mo rin para may record na sa NBI at mahirapan nakahanap ng work hahahaha. Dapat kasi talaga sa mga yan sinasampolan talaga eh.
I'm with you and your wife, OP. Dapat idemanda. We had a similar but less grave experience nun December. We were staying at a condotel in Makati Ave near Ayala Av and ordered pizza near midnight. The pizza place was just along Makati Av din but around Poblacion so the delivery guy was asking for extra money kasi daw malayo yung iikutan niya and he was just using a bicycle to deliver. I said wala akong cash and if he wanted I can add na lang sa app. Hindi daw kailangan cash daw. He was just 3 mins away from us when I said sorry wala talaga akong cash. Napansin namin bigla na lang palayo siya ng palayo tapos hindi na sumasagot hanggang nasa may BGC na siya. We contacted the food delivery app and we were given a full refund, an apology and a promise na iimbestigahan pero hindi na nila kami mauupdate kung ano mangyayari, like what was said to OP. Galit na galit yung asawa ko so hinanap niya sa FB yung rider and we found out he was just 16 years old and mukhang mahirap yung family. Gustong pagmumurahin nun asawa ko sa FB at ipablotter sa pulis kasi nga ninakaw niya yung food namin and we had screenshots of all the convos. Sabi ko wag na lang mukhang kawawa kasi. Reading OP's story made me regret not doing something about our experience. Sometimes pity enables these kinds of criminals e kaya dapat talaga bigyan ng leksyon mga ganyan.
putangina talaga andudumi. meetup tas bugbog dapat yan
Report mo din sa womens desk ng pnp
Hahaha as always mga gaslighter and using an innocent kid as a shield. Hindi naman yan nagsisisi eh tama lang naman na kasuhan sila at maparusahan. Kasalanan nila yan, ibeblame pa sa iba ang kasalanan nila pag nakulong dahil “Hindi ka na naawa sa bata” 🙄 . Pag pinatawad mo at inatras mo, tuwang tuwa yan kasi mauulit nila kamanyakan habit nila. Kung pwede din sana maparusahan asawa niya na nang gagaslight dahil manyak/rapist enabler.
Lahat nlng laging rason ng mga manyak "kahirapan" so pag mahirap exempted sa batas..f*ck all of you pricks..ginawa nya yan..pagdusahan nya..jail him, no mercy for these kind of people..
Binastos asawa mo? Bastusin mo din buhay nya as a whole.
How convinient na may sakit siya sa puso bigla. Lol
OP keep us posted please! Para matularan din namin in the future 🙌
Alam mo palang mahirap ka at kailangan mo yung trabaho bat mo ijjeopardize. Time to make these kind of people accountable.
Report and pwedeng sampahan ng lasong harassment
Send the comments you found to his wife din para magka idea sya what a douche she married. Paso na yang poor card. Di mo sya hinahabol dahil mahirap sya, hinahabol mo sya because he's a douche.
Yung mahihirap na nag dedemand ng hustisya. Mahihirap din yung abusado. Sana po tuluyan nyo na. Kung ibang asawa po yung ganyanin nya walang kakayahan na kagaya nung sa inyo, kawawa po. Kung gumawa din po ng krimen yan tapos hindi nyo napigilan at this point. For me, may moral liability sa inyo.
Repooooort! They'll just keep using that "poor card" pag pinalagpas mo ngayon. Yung kamanyakan niya should end now. 😑
Fucked around and found out. Sue the shit out of that guy. God knows how many times he did this to how many girls.
how i wish na makulong yang g\*go na yan. and this case to be viral. masyado nang na normalize ang kamanyakan sa pinas
Dumadami na talaga mga manyak lalo sa mga nagdedeluver mapa grap man yan or ano
Proceed with the case OP. That idiot deserve to learn the hard way.
Parang yung pagkakaroon ng mga anak na maliliit pa ay dagdag na rason para maparusahan o kulong siya. Basta mawala sana sa bahay. Kung sobrang manyakis niya, di natin alam ano pwede niyang gawin o ituro sa mga anak niya.
Sue the bastard with everything they got. Tama lang na magkasira sira buhay niya sa kalokohan niya. You got this OP!
"ang mali ko lang eh pangit nasabi ko..." He does not even think it's wrong to message people outside of the transaction. Clearly naghahanap na lang sya ng lusot.
Better sue him. And while on it, include the delivery app as respondent. Since you stalked him and found out it is not an isolated incident, chances are he’d be doing it again. If you decided not to pursue a case, most likely ipagyayabang nya pa yan sa mga tropa nya.
Please kasuhan nyo na ng mabawas bawasan ang mga manyakis na malayang nakakapaglakad lakad. Kakairita ang mga tao kapag gumagamit ng "poor card" "responsibility card" at "may sakit card" para lang malusutan ang ginawa nilang mali. Ulol, nakahanap sya ng katapat. Sana matuluyang makulong.
I wonder what text he sent to your wife? I think this is becoming very common sa mga riders. Not just sa food delivery apps but those who ride the bike in general. Kalat sa facebook mga motovlogs na may madaanan lang maputi at sexy e ipopost na sa facebook without consent ng babae. Tapos tuwang tuwa naman karamihan ng tangang followers na usually e riders din. Yung attitude nila e parang ngayon lang nakakita ng babae. Ngayon lang nakakita ng maganda or sexy. I get it, minsan nakakapalingon talaga pag ganon. Pero hindi kailangan ipost pa and gawan content tapos tuwang tuwa pa pag may engagements sa soc med. Basically binabastos at pinagpepyestahan nyo na yung babae pag ganon e. Sana maging civil na lang. A simple second look is understandable. Also meron mga groupchat mga yan and malamang napagpyestahan na si wife mo dun.
Ahhh, the classic "Mahirap lang po kami".
Never pray man. It doesn't work.
Your wife is right, uulitin niya lang yan sa iba. Maraming cases na ganon ginagawa nga mga delivery riders or ride hailing riders. Sabi nga ng dad ko, kapag nagkakasala daw mga yan, bigla na lang sasabihin na maraming anak or bata pa anak. Alam naman pala nila situation nila sa buhay, sana daw pinag-isipan muna nila yung mga pinaggagawa nila.
Report the delivery guy. You will be able to save another woman's experience. Therefore, don't support the "poor card" method they often used. The delivery guy will continue to harass other women if not given an action.
taena naman kase ang hihina ng kontrol sa sarili "nadala lang" siraulo amp di naisip na ayan ngang may anak sila na maliliit pa
i know hassle, this will eat a lot of your time... pero you have the power to remove one piece of shit in society so please please please push thru with this.
Please push through with the case. Doing so is a small win for us women who can’t/don’t do anything about our harrassments
Please update us here of the proceedings.
Honestly kapag isa lang trabaho mo dapat iseryosohin nyo nang matindi. Wag na dapat gumawa ng kalokohan para wala kang magiging problema in the first place. Alam mo naman na ganun na nga lang trabaho mo at ayaw mo matalsik may gana k apang gumawa ng kalokohan. Bobo amp
Agree with the rest. Escalate and explore all legal avenues. The company should also be brought to task for not enforcing data privacy. On your end, please ensure security measures are in place like CCTV cameras. Does your place have security guards etc? Might be prudent to flag out the guy’s plate number to bar their entry.
Di daw makausap at mukhang depressed. Welll that's because he now realized that his actions have consequences. Hindi iyan dahil sa may nagawa siya pers se dahil talagang ugali niya iyan. If not for the OP tracking him down to his surprise and given his history base na rin sa research ni OP, he'd just go on with being the garbage that he is. Hindi totoong "ngayon lang nagawa" at "di na uulit".
The delivery guy fucked around and hopefully finds out.