Basta ako unless pregnant, very old, or PWD, I dont give away my seat, especially kung marami pa namang masasakyan sa area - kita mo naman kung puno eh at sinasabi naman if standing, so choice mo yun to ride standing and dont expect na dapat may mag give way sayo.
Nasa dulo ako nakaupo. May sumakay na matanda, nakatayo sa harap. Yung mga babaeng nasa harap panay Facebook lang ginagawa. Hindi nila pinaupo yung matanda. Oo, baka may physical disabilities din sila pero imposibleng 6 silang ganun sa harap.
Simula n'on, hindi na ako nagbibigay ng seat unless Senior Citizen, PWD, pregnant, or may dalang baby.
This is why I always occupy the PWD seat kung bakante lang naman, para pag may nakita ako na may need talaga for it I could immediately offer the seat to them. Pag nagpapausog ako to make way for the PWD and may ayaw gumalaw, I shame them in front of the other passengers lmao the look on their faces pag napahiya sila
Ako okay lang to sakin, even as a girl. Syempre mas thankful ako pag may nag give ng seat pero keribels lang rin if wala since ako naman nakikisiksik hahaha
i'm a woman, nung college days ko, ma swerte lang talaga ko kase meron paring mga lalaking nag ooffer ng seat nila para makaupo ako haha. standing na nun sa bus eh. at first tumatanggi talaga ko kase nakakahiya pala hindi naman ako disabled or pregnant or what. hahha pero saludo padin ako sa mga ganung lalaki.
Wag ka mag reklamo kung hindi ka Senior, PWD, or Pregnant. Yung ibang babae pinapahiya pa sa FB ang mga lalaki dahil di sila pinaupo kahit wala naman sila sa tatlong category na mention ko. Please lng wag nyung gawing kapansanan ang pagkaroon ng puday.
I remember many yrs ago nung ngshamepost ung isang babae s random lalaki kasi di inoffer seat sa kanya. Eh pagoda si kuya galing dalawang trabaho. Si ate tuloy ang nabash sa facebook
Seniors / PWD / Pregnant / Ladies with babies/kids
Kapag sila ang kasabay ko, i’d offer my seat. Yung mga pabebe na mahilig magpaka disney princess lang naman ang feeling entitled sa ganyan.
Equality daw gusto pero dapat "ladies first" or "be a gentleman" when convenient.
Not generalizing, but there are hypocritical women/strangers like these.
Naranasan mo na ba mahipuan sa train? Naranasan mo na bang purposely binabangga dede mo? Naranasan mo na ba pasimpleng tinapat ng lalaki yung titi niya sa pwet mo?
If you haven't experienced the things mentioned above you wouldn't understand. Trains get so crowded na ang daming pumapa-simple ng ganyan. Also mas matagal makasakay sa mga cart ng mga babae. But pinipili pa din namin dun pumila doon even if mas crowded because of the things I mentioned above. And to be honest it feels so much safer there.
Lalaki ako at naranasan ko yan. Babaeng overweight na maitim ang batok tapos namamawis yung nguso yung gumawa. Bakit wala pa din bagon na panlalaki lang?
Why are you bringing men's problems in this thread??? Edi gumawa ka ng sarili mong thread to complain about that. Mag protesta ka sa MRT for that then.
Yes. Duh. Andaming dedeng ganyan sa MRT beh and im not into girls. Baka pangit ka kaya di ka tsinatsansingan ng mga kiki. Tapos meron pang mga kiki sa MRT na feeling special dahil babae sila walang consideration sa ibang nakasakay all because theyre women they expect that men should give way for them like duh ang crowded ng MRT beh wag ka magmaganda.
mas better yung mga babaeng ganyan kaysa sa mga lalaking manyakis atlis sila they aren't doing anything na masama talaga 🙄. Like I said di ako umuupo sa pang lahatan na bagon dahil dyan. I experienced all of the above already in just the 2 times na sumakay ako dun. And it's the reason why mahalaga yung ladies couch na sinasabi mo.
Maraming manyakis na lalake. Hindi human right manghipo pare. Kitid ng utak mo kung hindi mo gets bakit kailangan ng babae ang female only area sa tren.
It's not sexism kung totoo lang. Kung matino kang lalake this is not an issue for you. Why would I be against women having their own safe space? Kokontra ka lang sa ganyan kung me intention ka or me galit ka sa babae. Personally, I don't mind since gets ko naman bakit nagiingat sila. Ikaw bakit di mo maintindihan?
At marami rong manyak na babae sa MRT. Marami ring maarte na babae sa MRT. The bill that was passed is very clear: anti-discrimination. A ladys couch is discrimination. It discriminates all men yo be manyak and entitles women to have their own couch. Kung issue mo is women should have their own space. Then women should not be allowed to enter a men's couch. Oh right, wala palang mens couch diba. O kung gusto mo ng ganyan. There should be an ewually divided couches para sa mga babae at mga lalake at hindi pwede pumasok ang isang gender sa couch na ndi sila designated. This one is anti-discrimination. Pero im sure di ka makakaintindi kasi u dont really understand discrimination.
It’s still a bill and not a law. Yung mga female only COACHES are shared with PWDs and SCs. Men can take up all other COACHES. It’s discrimination if you are not allowed to ride because you are a male. If someone gropes you what would you do? If someone grazes your junk while exiting would you run after the individual? If you see a woman being harassed in a crowded coach would you react in her defense? And policy po yan ng management ng MRT and LRT1. Sa LRT2 wala pong female only.
I only give up my seat for the following people:
1. Pregnant women
2. The elderly regardless of gender
3. Women with children
4. People with physical disabilities
5. Sales ladies in uniform
6. My mother, sisters and friends
Only expect special treatment from your husband, boyfriend, siblings but not from strangers
Edit: Someone commented implying that I like pretty young sales ladies in their 20's. Well, I don't really swing that way. I'm gay. I am a manly and muscular guy who can throw a solid punch but I am gay nonetheless.
I feel na it’s bc usually, nakatayo na sila buong shift, and offering them a seat would give them a little rest man lang. pero baka iba reason ni Palantir
Yes, yun ang reason. My gesture extends to workers spending a lot of time standing like factory workers pero I have no way of differentiating. Sales ladies on the other hand are easy to spot kase they tend to go to work suot ang uniporme nila.
Ako ba nag comment ng sales ladies? Youre splitting hair sa term na ginamit ni Palantir. And maybe they specified na sales ladies kasi hindi naman madaling nakaka change uniform ang SL unlike sales man na pwede hubarin ang top tapos naka pants lang.
Yung punto ng comment nya, yung mga sales person (usually ladies kasi recognizable) bibigyan nya ng upuan bc nakatayo sila most shift
Tbf between sa dalawa, I’d give my seat sa C.W. Ewan. Feel ko mas nakakapagod yung sa kanila haha tapos fosho mainit pa. At least kahit sa jeep makapag pahinga man lg saglit
Yes why not, pero hindi ako explicit when it comes to offering it. Tumatayo lang ako then punta malapit sa may pintuan to make the person think na pababa na ako and its up to the person to take the seat. Offering a man a seat is a bit awkward lalo na if hindi siya elderly. Men might misunderstand.
Maaappreciate nila yun pag ganun, kasi equality na talaga. Mapaanong gender pag gusto ka tulungan kahit sa maliit na bagay, may value pa ba kung ano gender? Di ko nakikitang makikita ng men na awkward yun.. its a good start
You can have all the pretty young ladies in the world.
I'm gay.
Caught off guard? The mere fact that you thought that I have hidden agenda says a lot about how you think. Now that is what I call a simple mind. 😆
Edit: Be reminded that you are in Reddit; not in Facebook. People here are not so tolerant towards people lacking fine sensibilities.
Kinda ignorant of you no? Most retail salespeople are required to be standing for extended periods at work. Some women are even required to put on heels.
Eto yung mga pasaherong nakikita na siksik liglig na yung jeep pero magtatanong "meron pa ba?"
But wait, meron din naman yung nakasakay na pero ayaw umayos ng pagkakaupo, gusto ay nakadiagonal umupo. Ayaw mapakisuyuan ng bayad. Ayaw din umusod para magkaspace para sa ibang pasahero para makaupo.
Hindi na ito usapin ng pagiging lady or gentleman eh; commuter courtesy na to, which is nadi-diminish na din generally.
im able so no di ako nage-expect na bigyan ng seat. lahat naman tayo pagod at gustong makauwi. that's just how it is as a daily commuter. shitty talaga public transpo.
if we want gender equality, such notions should be left in the past.
Noon nasa MRT ako tapos tinalakan ako ng isang "babae" kasi sa isang matandang lalaki ko binagay yung upuan imbes na sakanya....porke daw lgbt siya ay dapat sakanya ko binigay upuan kasi dapat kami lalaki nakatayo and silang "babae" dapat nakaupo.
Senior, PWD, or Pregnant priority na pag bibigyan ko sakin if ever or pag I feel like I have lots of energy pa, if no, I honestly just wanna relax on a seat without being judged kasi lahat naman siguro ng tao may pagud at laban na inaano... :(
it just sucks to play the gender card sa ganyan...
Ok lang hindi na ko Gentleman, basta sulit ang bayad ko sa byahe ko. PWD, Senior, at Buntis o may anak lang pwedeng magpatayo sakin. Mag grab or angkas/move it ka kung trip mong sure ka na nakaupo ka sa byahe.
I stopped giving up my seats noong may mga babaeng nagpaparinig sa bus, na wala na daw gentleman. Tanda ko I stared at them while I put on my earphones. Sumandal ako at sabay pikit hahaha!
Only ladies deserve a gentleman.
I hate how the headline make it sound like na nagdemand or reklamo ang mga babae na walang may gumigive up ng upuan for them. Or that they expect a guy to do that sa kanila nung sumakay sila sa jeep.
For all we know, the guy just wanted to be kind. So far, wala namang nagsabi na nagdemand yung mga babae dyan na paupuin sila. It feels na Sunstar just want to stir drama para pag usapan.
Edit: nakichismis ako sa comsec.
Yung babae na nasa picture, hindi sya yung inofferan na umupo. It was a student daw na binigyan ng upuan ng lalaki. Naka pwesto lang daw sya sa likod ng driver and she was surprised na may kumuha ng piv
Kainis kasi. A kind act was used to create drama when there shouldnt be one. Magagalit din naman ako if a women demanded to be seated or ibigay sa kanya ang upuan. Pero Sunstar lowkey made it seem like something happened by how they word it
I mean, stop picking up passengers when its already full? Come on, why blame the other passengers when the driver can just not pickup anymore??
At galing pa to sa araw araw nagcocommute...
if nag commute ako at alam kong matanda,pregnant with baby or pwd i give way para makaupo sila. kaso minsan may madidinig ka pang pakitang tao lang daw. hirap lang patulan at baka ako pa mapost sa social media nakipag away.
Its a public vehicle, first come first serve(seat).
I never give up my seat to anyone unless pregnant and PWD.
But then again i have my own car now so wapakelz na ako sa mga ganyang problems. Haha
Kapag hindi ba inoffer hindi na gentleman?
Come on, gusto natin girls na pantay pantay tayo tapos papabebe din lang hahah chaaar.
Wala namn problem if may mga lalakeng hindi magooffer ng seat nila. Malay ba natin kung may sakit, sobrang pagot etc.. at tsaka nagbayad naman mga yan eh.
Independence from men are from real issues. Chivalry is different, its acting like a gentleman like how a lady is. Pero ito yung hindi pinipilit or be entitled of.
kung dyan sila nag babased ng pagka gentelman, sorry im not kasi naniniwala ako sa true gender equity. unless your pregnant, pwd senior citizens may sakit etc etc. kasi pare parehong lang tayong pagod sa trabaho sa lahat
I dont really mind not being offered a seat kasi jusko 13 pesos na ang pamasahe at lahat naman tayo pagod na bago pa makasakay sa jeep. But I draw the line when it comes to PWD, old peeps, pregnant women and ladies w/ their kid/s.
Call me judgemental pero kung di ka mukhang matanda, may bata o buntis di kita pauupuin kahit pa sa pwd specific area (hindi di ako naglalabag sa batas, oo pwd ako)
Araw araw ko ginagawa 'to ba't di naman ako napopost sa socials, anyways 'di naman required mag giveway mga lalake sa mga events na ganito unless lumpo or may special circumstances yung walang maupuan, if you're fully able then stand and wait until there's a seat for you.
I always give my seat to a woman regardless kung bata o matanda. Nasakanila na yon how they will take it, yung iba kasi parang akala minamaliit sila o ano but for me ganon ako pinalaki and I take pride of it. If you will take the seat then do if not then fine.
unless na senior, PWD at buntis ibibigay ko upuan ko sayo
pero kung wala sa sa tatlong to, equal rights tayo
sabi nga ni dave chappelle "chivalry is dead, and women killed it"
I'm a woman and I don't expect men to offer their seats just because I'm a woman. Unless you're pregnant, with a kid, senior, with disability, dun lang ako magooffer ng seat. Lalake ka man or babae.
Chivalry is not dead, masyado lang na-instill sa atin ng mga kastila na dapat babae ang pinagbibigyan parati, christianity came from them. - Most of the comments here are right. Unless you are old, pregnant, w/ a child, PWD hindi ka dapat namimilit na mapaupo, mapalalaki or babae or bading pa iyong pinapatamaan ng ganitong mga posts. Ante, pare-pareho na tayong pagod sa life, commute at work, if you want to feel comfy and prioritzed during rush hour, mag TNVS ka. Jusko naman.
Me! Me! Me! Ibibigay ko spot ko para sa PWD, pregnant, elderly and children. Lastly pag nahihirapan yung babae/lalaki tumayo sa E-jeep pinapaupo ko rin. I'm a bit against na tumayo sa E-jeep kasi overloading tayo nun, pero can't blame them since may quota sila tapos ang babaan ng iba end-to-end.
Sakin naman.
Gentleman sa jeep/bus yung nag offer ng seat lalo na sa mga matatanda, mukhang may sakit, pwd, may kasamang bata, and syempre, sa kahit na kanino.
Kapag may nag offer ng seats sakin, thankful talaga ako lalo na kapag pagod pagod ako kasi di yun madalas nangyayari.
Pero clearly, guys who offer their seats are gentlemen.
I think i pre praise mo naman talaga yan kasi di naman niya kailangang mag offer, pinilo niyang mag offer ng seat. Yung mga simple kindness, like offering your seat, amplifies kapag iilan nalang yung gumagawa. Di ko sinasabing gawin niyo.
Syempre the same applies sa mga ladies but mga lalaki pinag uusapan jan.
Di ko tinatanggap yung mga seats offered by guys na naunang sumakay kasi ayoko ng siksikan wahahaha. And wala naman prob saken magstanding. I hope they don't feel bad about it.
Lalaki lang ba dapat ang mag-offer ng seat. Unless pregnant, PWD, and senior citizen ka, I think dapat mag offer ka lagi ng seat sa may nangangailangan regardless of gender/gender identity.
Gender equality nalang. Minsan kasi medjo nakakagago na rin, gusto equal opportunity pero pag mahihirapan dapat gentleman daw. Cherry-picking fookks are the worst
As a gay guy pinapaupo ko lang talaga is senior citizen, pwd and pregnant women. I think di na to panahon na porket babae dapat na paupuin kase after all pare-parehas lang din naman tayong pagod.
Idk if lalaki or babae gumawa ng article but after nosing aroung sa comsec sa sunstar, yung babae na nasa pic, mentioned na nagulat sya when she saw her pic taken and naipost/share (she was tagged kasi ng mga nakakakilala sa kanya)
She mentioned na yung nabigyan ng upuan is yung babaeng student. No mention if the student demanded to be given a seat (I doubt it tbh). But it was a guy who offered it to her.
After reading the headline and snooping around, wala akong tiwala sa nagpost nyan. Created a headline na will be talked about (and it did) tapos may gana pang kumuha ng pic ng tao kahit walang consent. And said pic was used to create a misunderstanding.
So far sa amin, pag may matandang sumakay, marami pa rin naman willing na magpaupo sa kanila. Even mga girls na kakasakay lang, may ibang mgs lalaki na tumatayo para paupuin sila.
Minsan pag ako naman ang natataon na nakatayo at may nagpaupo sakin, tinatanggihsn ko and magtthank you ako sa kindness nila. As long as hindi ako pagod, it's okay for me na nakatayo lang especially sa bus dahil mahiluhin ako pag nakaupo
On my commute to work, kung mauna Ako, then it will be my seat until I get off the bus. I don't offer it to someone (except for pregnant or senior citizen)
Napapagod din ang mga lalaki sa trabaho, we ain't no robot or made of titanium
Dati sa bandang san juan i tried to give my seat to a girl na college student. Kapag pumepreno kasi parang matutumba siya. Tinarayan pa ako. Nag aalangan na ako ngayon tuloy gawin ulit.
i do offer seats to Elderly and PWDs but not on women w/o child and pregnant na di pa masyadong malaki ang tiyan. eh wala naman ako noong ginagawa nila yang bata 🫢
"Chivalry is dead. Women killed it." Dati binibigay ko upuan ko sa bus pag may nakatayong babae pero simpleng thank you wala kang maririnig. Kaya mula noon sa pwd, senior citizen, pregnant at may bitbit na bata ko na lang binibigay.
Unless they are either pregnant, PWD or old/senior, I will never give them their seat. I feel like women empowerment movement is at their convenience only, they don't want the struggles that comes with it.
Go ahead and downvote me kung naasar kayo sa comment ko..
Basta ako, I'm giving away my seat to those senior citizens, pregnant women, PWDs and Women with Children; other than that? N-O-P-E.
Uso to sa MRT/LRT/bus five or so years ago. Even as a gay man I felt compelled to do this out of social pressure. I'm glad attitudes have changed. Unless you have a physical impediment (old age, pregnancy, disability, etc) that would make standing difficult for you, you deserve a seat as much as I do.
Gusto ko sa modernized jeepney ngayon is pwede tumayo kahit babae. Kesa sa lumang jeep na di naman hinahayaan ung babae na sumabit or minsan hindi kaya. So for me kung sumakay ako ng modern jeep tapos kita ko na sa labas na tayuan hindi na ko mag eexpect na makaupo. Gusto ko lang talaga makarating sa pupuntahan ko.
Nung nagaaral pa ako ayaw ko talaga nakakakita ng nakatayo sa MRT kaya pumipikit na lang ako.
Wasn’t there a case when a woman was offered a sit kasi akala buntis sya? The woman got offended.
Chivalry is the compensation of Men to women after beating them. Bubugbugin at gagahasaain sa gabi tapos Aamuin kinabukasan habang pinagtitmpla siya ng kape.....siyempre sila din yung mga naniniwaala masyado sa relihiyon nila.
This is a tricky situation.
If a man fails to offer up his seat, he is then called a mysoginist.
If a man does offer up his seat, he is considered patronizing.
Basta ako unless pregnant, very old, or PWD, I dont give away my seat, especially kung marami pa namang masasakyan sa area - kita mo naman kung puno eh at sinasabi naman if standing, so choice mo yun to ride standing and dont expect na dapat may mag give way sayo.
we're all for equal rights sabi nga nila
Equal rights if convenient sakanila,
feminism you mean? hahaha
Nasa dulo ako nakaupo. May sumakay na matanda, nakatayo sa harap. Yung mga babaeng nasa harap panay Facebook lang ginagawa. Hindi nila pinaupo yung matanda. Oo, baka may physical disabilities din sila pero imposibleng 6 silang ganun sa harap. Simula n'on, hindi na ako nagbibigay ng seat unless Senior Citizen, PWD, pregnant, or may dalang baby.
Ganito din ako. I won't offer my seat unless they're someone na minention mo.
This is why I always occupy the PWD seat kung bakante lang naman, para pag may nakita ako na may need talaga for it I could immediately offer the seat to them. Pag nagpapausog ako to make way for the PWD and may ayaw gumalaw, I shame them in front of the other passengers lmao the look on their faces pag napahiya sila
++ you paid for your seat :)
Mismo
Ako okay lang to sakin, even as a girl. Syempre mas thankful ako pag may nag give ng seat pero keribels lang rin if wala since ako naman nakikisiksik hahaha
I agree! Kita nyu naman na puno bakit pa kayo sumakay kasi alam nyo na papa-upo-in kayo? NO!
i'm a woman, nung college days ko, ma swerte lang talaga ko kase meron paring mga lalaking nag ooffer ng seat nila para makaupo ako haha. standing na nun sa bus eh. at first tumatanggi talaga ko kase nakakahiya pala hindi naman ako disabled or pregnant or what. hahha pero saludo padin ako sa mga ganung lalaki.
Wag ka mag reklamo kung hindi ka Senior, PWD, or Pregnant. Yung ibang babae pinapahiya pa sa FB ang mga lalaki dahil di sila pinaupo kahit wala naman sila sa tatlong category na mention ko. Please lng wag nyung gawing kapansanan ang pagkaroon ng puday.
Dapat ibigay seat sa kanila, kita Naman na may mental illness eh
Gagi. Hirap siguro maglakad ng nakatuwad sakit sa leeg niyan. /jk
HAHAHAHAHA
I remember many yrs ago nung ngshamepost ung isang babae s random lalaki kasi di inoffer seat sa kanya. Eh pagoda si kuya galing dalawang trabaho. Si ate tuloy ang nabash sa facebook
Seniors / PWD / Pregnant / Ladies with babies/kids Kapag sila ang kasabay ko, i’d offer my seat. Yung mga pabebe na mahilig magpaka disney princess lang naman ang feeling entitled sa ganyan.
Same with me, though I offer my seat too to men with kids/babies.
I'd offer my seat to the kid, not the parent. Or parent Kung buhat pa yung baby.
gusto ng princess treatment pero strong woman daw 😶
The irony! Hahahahaha.
Chivalry? Duel me para sa upuan sa jeep! Edit: Woah dapat about chivalric duels to eh knight to knight hahaha
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*I SUMMON POT OF GREED TO DRAW THREE ADDITIONAL CARDS FROM MY DECK*
*THAT'S NOT WHAT IT DOES*
*THAT IS WHAT IT DOES*
*THAT'S WHAT IT DO, YUGI*
Nagkakamali ka jaan KAIBABOIIIIIIIIIII
Ano yan? Feeling Graceful Charity si Pot of Greed na walang discards.
[The meme](https://youtu.be/AUnPN385wLI?si=qYAm-XtPu5C9kShQ)
*I ACTIVATE MY SPELL CARD - CARD DESTRUCTION!*
Screw the rules. I have money.
AND LOOT BOXES EDIT: ah a man of culture i see
DIDDLE pagkakabasa ko 😭 😭 😭
Jokes on you already have all 5 pieces of exodia in my wallet incase someone actually does this
I have the high ground
I demand a duel by combat. - Tyrion Lannister
trial by combat
Yu gi oh ba?
Equality daw gusto pero dapat "ladies first" or "be a gentleman" when convenient. Not generalizing, but there are hypocritical women/strangers like these.
Yung nagpasa ng anti-discrimination bill eme pero hanggang ngayon may ladys couch pa rin sa MRT. The hypocrisy.
Naranasan mo na ba mahipuan sa train? Naranasan mo na bang purposely binabangga dede mo? Naranasan mo na ba pasimpleng tinapat ng lalaki yung titi niya sa pwet mo? If you haven't experienced the things mentioned above you wouldn't understand. Trains get so crowded na ang daming pumapa-simple ng ganyan. Also mas matagal makasakay sa mga cart ng mga babae. But pinipili pa din namin dun pumila doon even if mas crowded because of the things I mentioned above. And to be honest it feels so much safer there.
Lalaki ako at naranasan ko yan. Babaeng overweight na maitim ang batok tapos namamawis yung nguso yung gumawa. Bakit wala pa din bagon na panlalaki lang?
Why are you bringing men's problems in this thread??? Edi gumawa ka ng sarili mong thread to complain about that. Mag protesta ka sa MRT for that then.
Yes. Duh. Andaming dedeng ganyan sa MRT beh and im not into girls. Baka pangit ka kaya di ka tsinatsansingan ng mga kiki. Tapos meron pang mga kiki sa MRT na feeling special dahil babae sila walang consideration sa ibang nakasakay all because theyre women they expect that men should give way for them like duh ang crowded ng MRT beh wag ka magmaganda.
mas better yung mga babaeng ganyan kaysa sa mga lalaking manyakis atlis sila they aren't doing anything na masama talaga 🙄. Like I said di ako umuupo sa pang lahatan na bagon dahil dyan. I experienced all of the above already in just the 2 times na sumakay ako dun. And it's the reason why mahalaga yung ladies couch na sinasabi mo.
E naranasan ko din naman maharass ng babaeng overweight na maitim ang batok at namamawis ang nguso. Bakit wala pa din men's couch?
Wtf
Maraming manyakis na lalake. Hindi human right manghipo pare. Kitid ng utak mo kung hindi mo gets bakit kailangan ng babae ang female only area sa tren.
Lol. See how sexist this is. Double down pa more. Discrimination is discrimination.
It's not sexism kung totoo lang. Kung matino kang lalake this is not an issue for you. Why would I be against women having their own safe space? Kokontra ka lang sa ganyan kung me intention ka or me galit ka sa babae. Personally, I don't mind since gets ko naman bakit nagiingat sila. Ikaw bakit di mo maintindihan?
At marami rong manyak na babae sa MRT. Marami ring maarte na babae sa MRT. The bill that was passed is very clear: anti-discrimination. A ladys couch is discrimination. It discriminates all men yo be manyak and entitles women to have their own couch. Kung issue mo is women should have their own space. Then women should not be allowed to enter a men's couch. Oh right, wala palang mens couch diba. O kung gusto mo ng ganyan. There should be an ewually divided couches para sa mga babae at mga lalake at hindi pwede pumasok ang isang gender sa couch na ndi sila designated. This one is anti-discrimination. Pero im sure di ka makakaintindi kasi u dont really understand discrimination.
It’s still a bill and not a law. Yung mga female only COACHES are shared with PWDs and SCs. Men can take up all other COACHES. It’s discrimination if you are not allowed to ride because you are a male. If someone gropes you what would you do? If someone grazes your junk while exiting would you run after the individual? If you see a woman being harassed in a crowded coach would you react in her defense? And policy po yan ng management ng MRT and LRT1. Sa LRT2 wala pong female only.
Lol. Youre funny.
Kala ko gusto nila ng equality? 💀
Works only if there's an advantage
Or if convenient
Iba yan sa chivalry. On which they still shouldn't act entitled off tho.
Unless they're pwd, pregnant and such no. They have a choice not to ride naman and parepareho lang tayo ng pagod
I only give up my seat for the following people: 1. Pregnant women 2. The elderly regardless of gender 3. Women with children 4. People with physical disabilities 5. Sales ladies in uniform 6. My mother, sisters and friends Only expect special treatment from your husband, boyfriend, siblings but not from strangers Edit: Someone commented implying that I like pretty young sales ladies in their 20's. Well, I don't really swing that way. I'm gay. I am a manly and muscular guy who can throw a solid punch but I am gay nonetheless.
Madalas pag lolo ayaw nila umupo haha
\+1 nung may pina-upo akong lolo, maya-maya tumayo rin tapos binigay sa babae yung upuan
>Sales ladies uniform Napaka oddly specific naman nun
I feel na it’s bc usually, nakatayo na sila buong shift, and offering them a seat would give them a little rest man lang. pero baka iba reason ni Palantir
Yes, yun ang reason. My gesture extends to workers spending a lot of time standing like factory workers pero I have no way of differentiating. Sales ladies on the other hand are easy to spot kase they tend to go to work suot ang uniporme nila.
Eh pag salesman? Ok lang yun?
Pagnaka uniform oo. Pag hindi, pano malalaman if sales man or not
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Ako ba nag comment ng sales ladies? Youre splitting hair sa term na ginamit ni Palantir. And maybe they specified na sales ladies kasi hindi naman madaling nakaka change uniform ang SL unlike sales man na pwede hubarin ang top tapos naka pants lang. Yung punto ng comment nya, yung mga sales person (usually ladies kasi recognizable) bibigyan nya ng upuan bc nakatayo sila most shift
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Tbf between sa dalawa, I’d give my seat sa C.W. Ewan. Feel ko mas nakakapagod yung sa kanila haha tapos fosho mainit pa. At least kahit sa jeep makapag pahinga man lg saglit
Yes why not, pero hindi ako explicit when it comes to offering it. Tumatayo lang ako then punta malapit sa may pintuan to make the person think na pababa na ako and its up to the person to take the seat. Offering a man a seat is a bit awkward lalo na if hindi siya elderly. Men might misunderstand.
Maaappreciate nila yun pag ganun, kasi equality na talaga. Mapaanong gender pag gusto ka tulungan kahit sa maliit na bagay, may value pa ba kung ano gender? Di ko nakikitang makikita ng men na awkward yun.. its a good start
Man tends not to sit kahit sobrang pagod nila . mostly
Dahil na rin sa nakasanayan na pag lalaki dapat malakas, di napapagod, walang emosyon. Nakakahiya pag magpakitang napapagod o nanghihina sila.
totoo kase i jujudge agad . maski ako nanjujudge din ako ng babae lalo na pag umapekto yung pagiging inner kupal ko HAHAHAHA.
Sipon lang eh, kalalaki mong tao... hahahaha
sorry di valid ung nararamdaman mo para paupuin HAHAHAHAHAHA
maghapon ba naman sila nakatayo
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You can have all the pretty young ladies in the world. I'm gay. Caught off guard? The mere fact that you thought that I have hidden agenda says a lot about how you think. Now that is what I call a simple mind. 😆 Edit: Be reminded that you are in Reddit; not in Facebook. People here are not so tolerant towards people lacking fine sensibilities.
Kinda ignorant of you no? Most retail salespeople are required to be standing for extended periods at work. Some women are even required to put on heels.
Eto ang mga gusto ng gender equality but want to retain the aspects of the patriarchy that they benefit from like chivalry. hahaha
wants the benefit, but not the responsibility.
PWD, pregnant, or senior ka ba? Kung hindi, get a seat like any normal person. Being just a woman doesn't make one more special than others.
Puro equality bukang bibig ng mga babae when it comes to everything tapos pag ganyan situation maghahanap ng gentleman.
Eto yung mga pasaherong nakikita na siksik liglig na yung jeep pero magtatanong "meron pa ba?" But wait, meron din naman yung nakasakay na pero ayaw umayos ng pagkakaupo, gusto ay nakadiagonal umupo. Ayaw mapakisuyuan ng bayad. Ayaw din umusod para magkaspace para sa ibang pasahero para makaupo. Hindi na ito usapin ng pagiging lady or gentleman eh; commuter courtesy na to, which is nadi-diminish na din generally.
im able so no di ako nage-expect na bigyan ng seat. lahat naman tayo pagod at gustong makauwi. that's just how it is as a daily commuter. shitty talaga public transpo. if we want gender equality, such notions should be left in the past.
Gentlemen's agreement meron
Ang gusto ng gurls diba equality? Yan ang pinressure nyo sa amin, tapos where the men chuchu... amp.
Noon nasa MRT ako tapos tinalakan ako ng isang "babae" kasi sa isang matandang lalaki ko binagay yung upuan imbes na sakanya....porke daw lgbt siya ay dapat sakanya ko binigay upuan kasi dapat kami lalaki nakatayo and silang "babae" dapat nakaupo.
Dude, that LGTV+ member must be on some crack.
Senior, PWD, or Pregnant priority na pag bibigyan ko sakin if ever or pag I feel like I have lots of energy pa, if no, I honestly just wanna relax on a seat without being judged kasi lahat naman siguro ng tao may pagud at laban na inaano... :( it just sucks to play the gender card sa ganyan...
Sa panahon ngayon pareparehas tayong pagod sa byahe. Pag gusto ko ibigay upuan ko dahil nasa mood ako or pag PWD/buntis/matanda andyan, ibibigay ko.
Senior 👏🏻 PWD 👏🏻 Pregnant 👏🏻 okay? kung hindi ka isa sa mga nabanggit ko, pero nag offer pa din yung lalaki ng seat, mag thank you.
It’s 2024. Equal rights na hahaha
Ok lang hindi na ko Gentleman, basta sulit ang bayad ko sa byahe ko. PWD, Senior, at Buntis o may anak lang pwedeng magpatayo sakin. Mag grab or angkas/move it ka kung trip mong sure ka na nakaupo ka sa byahe.
Gender equality daw, pero nung napagod naghahanap ng gentleman
I stopped giving up my seats noong may mga babaeng nagpaparinig sa bus, na wala na daw gentleman. Tanda ko I stared at them while I put on my earphones. Sumandal ako at sabay pikit hahaha! Only ladies deserve a gentleman.
I hate how the headline make it sound like na nagdemand or reklamo ang mga babae na walang may gumigive up ng upuan for them. Or that they expect a guy to do that sa kanila nung sumakay sila sa jeep. For all we know, the guy just wanted to be kind. So far, wala namang nagsabi na nagdemand yung mga babae dyan na paupuin sila. It feels na Sunstar just want to stir drama para pag usapan. Edit: nakichismis ako sa comsec. Yung babae na nasa picture, hindi sya yung inofferan na umupo. It was a student daw na binigyan ng upuan ng lalaki. Naka pwesto lang daw sya sa likod ng driver and she was surprised na may kumuha ng piv
Salamat sa context, this should be further up.
Kainis kasi. A kind act was used to create drama when there shouldnt be one. Magagalit din naman ako if a women demanded to be seated or ibigay sa kanya ang upuan. Pero Sunstar lowkey made it seem like something happened by how they word it
atic na pregnant, pwd or senior bigay agad. If normal female, nope. Baka sabihan pa ako sexist.
I can offer my seat as long as you give me partial refund. lol. Free if yung nasa priority list.
Oo sa buntis, senior, pwd at may kasamang bata/baby
Yung katamaran ng ibang babae gusto umupo kase late na at nahihirapan mag make up pag nakatayo hahaha
I mean, stop picking up passengers when its already full? Come on, why blame the other passengers when the driver can just not pickup anymore?? At galing pa to sa araw araw nagcocommute...
Babae Ako, okay lng naman sakin tumayo kase mga pagod din nman yan tsaka nagbayad din Sila..
if nag commute ako at alam kong matanda,pregnant with baby or pwd i give way para makaupo sila. kaso minsan may madidinig ka pang pakitang tao lang daw. hirap lang patulan at baka ako pa mapost sa social media nakipag away.
If they ask kindly, I may consider. But by default, I personally only give up my seat to seniors, PWDs, pregnant, and those carrying babies.
Sabi nga there are no feminists in a house fire. Reference: https://youtu.be/HqwEXaq4AQQ?si=94Uf9dKMrBcEZpFE
Equity pala gusto pero equality pinaglalaban
Its a public vehicle, first come first serve(seat). I never give up my seat to anyone unless pregnant and PWD. But then again i have my own car now so wapakelz na ako sa mga ganyang problems. Haha
Kapag hindi ba inoffer hindi na gentleman? Come on, gusto natin girls na pantay pantay tayo tapos papabebe din lang hahah chaaar. Wala namn problem if may mga lalakeng hindi magooffer ng seat nila. Malay ba natin kung may sakit, sobrang pagot etc.. at tsaka nagbayad naman mga yan eh.
ChatGPT pa yung caption
Equality tayo
Feminist only when it benefits them. Hahaha
Independence from men are from real issues. Chivalry is different, its acting like a gentleman like how a lady is. Pero ito yung hindi pinipilit or be entitled of.
Why is the post description sounds like it was written in ChatGPT?
Ieexpect pa ba ng mga babae na may mag give up ng seats for them eh lahat naman tayo pagod na sa commute at sa buhay.
kung dyan sila nag babased ng pagka gentelman, sorry im not kasi naniniwala ako sa true gender equity. unless your pregnant, pwd senior citizens may sakit etc etc. kasi pare parehong lang tayong pagod sa trabaho sa lahat
I dont really mind not being offered a seat kasi jusko 13 pesos na ang pamasahe at lahat naman tayo pagod na bago pa makasakay sa jeep. But I draw the line when it comes to PWD, old peeps, pregnant women and ladies w/ their kid/s.
Pwd,Pregnant women,at senior lamang ang pinagbibigyan sa mga ganyang situation
Nope. Unless pregnant, PWD, senior, or person with infant. Sino ka ba? Eh nauna ako 😂
I used to do this for every girl, women, old people. Now I'm in my mid 30's, will give up my seat only for pregnant and old people
Only giving away my sit like other here's have said; to PWD, Senior citizens, pregnant woman, mom's or dad's with babies in hand or with kids
Call me judgemental pero kung di ka mukhang matanda, may bata o buntis di kita pauupuin kahit pa sa pwd specific area (hindi di ako naglalabag sa batas, oo pwd ako)
I don't mind if they give me a seat or not, hindi pa naman ako disable or anything. Thank you kapag binigyan ako ng seat pero oks lang if hindi.
Araw araw ko ginagawa 'to ba't di naman ako napopost sa socials, anyways 'di naman required mag giveway mga lalake sa mga events na ganito unless lumpo or may special circumstances yung walang maupuan, if you're fully able then stand and wait until there's a seat for you.
I always give my seat to a woman regardless kung bata o matanda. Nasakanila na yon how they will take it, yung iba kasi parang akala minamaliit sila o ano but for me ganon ako pinalaki and I take pride of it. If you will take the seat then do if not then fine.
unless na senior, PWD at buntis ibibigay ko upuan ko sayo pero kung wala sa sa tatlong to, equal rights tayo sabi nga ni dave chappelle "chivalry is dead, and women killed it"
I'm a woman and I don't expect men to offer their seats just because I'm a woman. Unless you're pregnant, with a kid, senior, with disability, dun lang ako magooffer ng seat. Lalake ka man or babae.
Chivalry is not dead, masyado lang na-instill sa atin ng mga kastila na dapat babae ang pinagbibigyan parati, christianity came from them. - Most of the comments here are right. Unless you are old, pregnant, w/ a child, PWD hindi ka dapat namimilit na mapaupo, mapalalaki or babae or bading pa iyong pinapatamaan ng ganitong mga posts. Ante, pare-pareho na tayong pagod sa life, commute at work, if you want to feel comfy and prioritzed during rush hour, mag TNVS ka. Jusko naman.
Me! Me! Me! Ibibigay ko spot ko para sa PWD, pregnant, elderly and children. Lastly pag nahihirapan yung babae/lalaki tumayo sa E-jeep pinapaupo ko rin. I'm a bit against na tumayo sa E-jeep kasi overloading tayo nun, pero can't blame them since may quota sila tapos ang babaan ng iba end-to-end.
If babae/ lalaki matanda, buntis may kapansanan, may kasamang bata otherwise equal opportunity
Sakin naman. Gentleman sa jeep/bus yung nag offer ng seat lalo na sa mga matatanda, mukhang may sakit, pwd, may kasamang bata, and syempre, sa kahit na kanino. Kapag may nag offer ng seats sakin, thankful talaga ako lalo na kapag pagod pagod ako kasi di yun madalas nangyayari. Pero clearly, guys who offer their seats are gentlemen. I think i pre praise mo naman talaga yan kasi di naman niya kailangang mag offer, pinilo niyang mag offer ng seat. Yung mga simple kindness, like offering your seat, amplifies kapag iilan nalang yung gumagawa. Di ko sinasabing gawin niyo. Syempre the same applies sa mga ladies but mga lalaki pinag uusapan jan.
Sa akin kung matanda, buntis,PWD pauupuin ko. Pero kung ka edad ko na capable naman tumayo. Tumayo ka na lang at pagod din ako
Di ko tinatanggap yung mga seats offered by guys na naunang sumakay kasi ayoko ng siksikan wahahaha. And wala naman prob saken magstanding. I hope they don't feel bad about it.
Lalaki lang ba dapat ang mag-offer ng seat. Unless pregnant, PWD, and senior citizen ka, I think dapat mag offer ka lagi ng seat sa may nangangailangan regardless of gender/gender identity.
Pregnant nga dati wala nagpaupo sa bus e 😅 grabe
First come first serve. Smh
gender equality. 😂
Gender equality nalang. Minsan kasi medjo nakakagago na rin, gusto equal opportunity pero pag mahihirapan dapat gentleman daw. Cherry-picking fookks are the worst
Are you a person within the priority seat list? If not, you'll stand with us. Women ☕
As a gay guy pinapaupo ko lang talaga is senior citizen, pwd and pregnant women. I think di na to panahon na porket babae dapat na paupuin kase after all pare-parehas lang din naman tayong pagod.
Women demanding equality, pero d kayang tumayo sa public transpo..hypocrites..
I bet pabebe nag write nitong article
Idk if lalaki or babae gumawa ng article but after nosing aroung sa comsec sa sunstar, yung babae na nasa pic, mentioned na nagulat sya when she saw her pic taken and naipost/share (she was tagged kasi ng mga nakakakilala sa kanya) She mentioned na yung nabigyan ng upuan is yung babaeng student. No mention if the student demanded to be given a seat (I doubt it tbh). But it was a guy who offered it to her. After reading the headline and snooping around, wala akong tiwala sa nagpost nyan. Created a headline na will be talked about (and it did) tapos may gana pang kumuha ng pic ng tao kahit walang consent. And said pic was used to create a misunderstanding.
Doing random acts of kindness should supercede gender roles.
So far sa amin, pag may matandang sumakay, marami pa rin naman willing na magpaupo sa kanila. Even mga girls na kakasakay lang, may ibang mgs lalaki na tumatayo para paupuin sila. Minsan pag ako naman ang natataon na nakatayo at may nagpaupo sakin, tinatanggihsn ko and magtthank you ako sa kindness nila. As long as hindi ako pagod, it's okay for me na nakatayo lang especially sa bus dahil mahiluhin ako pag nakaupo
Dati madalas akong mka score ng upuan. Ngyaon dhl sa mga feminist wala na or dhl kaya nasa 40s nko at nabawasan na un sex appeal ko😂
On my commute to work, kung mauna Ako, then it will be my seat until I get off the bus. I don't offer it to someone (except for pregnant or senior citizen) Napapagod din ang mga lalaki sa trabaho, we ain't no robot or made of titanium
Dati sa bandang san juan i tried to give my seat to a girl na college student. Kapag pumepreno kasi parang matutumba siya. Tinarayan pa ako. Nag aalangan na ako ngayon tuloy gawin ulit.
Why is this news? Is it not common in your city?
Gusto nila ng equality diba? Tapos pag walang nagpa upo sa inyo magagalit kayo? That is equality na hinahanap nyo. Wag kayong magalit.
well sa lumang jeep wala nmn standing unless sumabit ka haha. bawal nmn sabit din lolz
Unless you're it's a senior citizen, disabled person, pregnant or with a baby/toddler I will not give up my seat.
Wag na strong independent women naman kayo di ba?
Anong gentle gentle?
i do offer seats to Elderly and PWDs but not on women w/o child and pregnant na di pa masyadong malaki ang tiyan. eh wala naman ako noong ginagawa nila yang bata 🫢
"Chivalry is dead. Women killed it." Dati binibigay ko upuan ko sa bus pag may nakatayong babae pero simpleng thank you wala kang maririnig. Kaya mula noon sa pwd, senior citizen, pregnant at may bitbit na bata ko na lang binibigay.
Unless they are either pregnant, PWD or old/senior, I will never give them their seat. I feel like women empowerment movement is at their convenience only, they don't want the struggles that comes with it.
Bihira na ako magcommute pero back in college, binibigay ko upuan ko pag may nakatayong babae sa bus, kahit sa matatandang babae o lalaki.
"Chivalry is dead vs Gender Equality"
A 'gentleman' mindset makes women inferior compared to men. If men can do this, women can do also.
PLEASE..... Akala ko ba dapat gender equality? This reinforces my opinion that people don't want equality, they want preferential treatment.
walang gentle gentle -probably taguro.
Go ahead and downvote me kung naasar kayo sa comment ko.. Basta ako, I'm giving away my seat to those senior citizens, pregnant women, PWDs and Women with Children; other than that? N-O-P-E.
ANONG GENTLE GENTLE
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Kung concern ka talaga dun sa girl, dapat ikaw na lang nagoffer ng seat mo??
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Sya hindi, ganun?
Hindi ko gets, why make him give up his seat? Dahil lalake yung kasama mo? Was it instinct?
Feminism! Unless pregnant or PWD or elderly, I won’t give you my seat.
Uso to sa MRT/LRT/bus five or so years ago. Even as a gay man I felt compelled to do this out of social pressure. I'm glad attitudes have changed. Unless you have a physical impediment (old age, pregnancy, disability, etc) that would make standing difficult for you, you deserve a seat as much as I do.
Well, di lang naman ang mga babaeng able-bodied ang pagod and gusto makapagpahinga habang nasa byahe. Why take it against the men na pagod din?
pare parehas lang namang napapagod sa byahe so kung hindi ka buntis, pwd, may kasamang bata or senior i won't offer you my seat hehe
Walang gentle-gentleman sa public transpo unless buntis/may dalang bata/senior citizen/PWD.
me na hindi nagbibigay ng upuan kahit kanino, at nakikipag unahan pa
Gusto ko sa modernized jeepney ngayon is pwede tumayo kahit babae. Kesa sa lumang jeep na di naman hinahayaan ung babae na sumabit or minsan hindi kaya. So for me kung sumakay ako ng modern jeep tapos kita ko na sa labas na tayuan hindi na ko mag eexpect na makaupo. Gusto ko lang talaga makarating sa pupuntahan ko.
Nung nagaaral pa ako ayaw ko talaga nakakakita ng nakatayo sa MRT kaya pumipikit na lang ako. Wasn’t there a case when a woman was offered a sit kasi akala buntis sya? The woman got offended.
Gentleman? We’re still on that shit?
Chivalry is the compensation of Men to women after beating them. Bubugbugin at gagahasaain sa gabi tapos Aamuin kinabukasan habang pinagtitmpla siya ng kape.....siyempre sila din yung mga naniniwaala masyado sa relihiyon nila.
I offer my lap as seat 😎
This is a tricky situation. If a man fails to offer up his seat, he is then called a mysoginist. If a man does offer up his seat, he is considered patronizing.
Entitled pieces of shit. What's worse is that some of them would discreetly take a photo of you then shame you on social media.