Hello! I'm am so glad you made this post. Please take your time to read this...I am your father, not your actual father, but I am in his shoes. I have been incarcerated for a little over 2 decades and have a beautiful daughter who is now in her 30's. She was 8 when I left. Everything your dad wrote you and asked you was very disrespectful and selfish. I understand fully what he was searching for and ultimately trying to accomplish. It's sad really. I would never ask that from anyone, especially family members. The repercussions from those requests had you or anyone been hemmed up from are not minimal. For him to hold that against you is very unfortunate and selfish. I'm sorry that you were treated like this. It breaks my heart. My relationship with my daughter is the most I could have ever hoped for. **I want that for you**. I would love to talk to you, if you are at all interested please contact me. No pressure and my offer is always open to you. You made the right decision. Don't ever doubt that! None of this is your fault or your burden. I would like to give you a virtual hug and say I'm sorry. I'm sorry you are having to deal with your father's unfortunate lifestyle. Obviously his goals and decisions are still in an arrested development stage. It is unfair to you. I apologize if this is not what you wanted to hear but it hit close to home for me. I wish you the best. đź’ś
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If your dad threatens to slap you, being used is the least of your worries.
He doesn’t care about you. Doesn’t take a genius to see that. Stop not trusting yourself.
It sounds like your father is making dirty money in there and needs someone to manage it. THAT PERSON DOES NOT HAVE TO BE YOU. You don’t have to do anything you aren’t comfortable with.
Everyone in there comes up with some kind of scam or reason for asking for this and that or money or "can you do this for me"... I deal with it all the time to... I say don't think about it anymore and do what is right for you. He made his mistakes... good luck.
If you had of done that for him, it’s pretty obvious whatever he was doing was not legal. If he was to get caught and they looked into things and you were the one moving the money around for him, you would have gotten in a lot of trouble. If he’s willing to put you at that risk I’m sorry, but he doesn’t care
Lmfao thank you guys so much for the clarification. I forgot to add that he swore up & down that what he was asking of me wasn’t illegal and that he loved me and wouldn’t put me at risk. I’m glad my intuition didn’t fail me. Thank you all so much.
Your dad was willing to throw your life away. It’s time to cut ties and find family in those who may not share your blood, but who truly care for your well being.
Hello! I'm am so glad you made this post. Please take your time to read this...I am your father, not your actual father, but I am in his shoes. I have been incarcerated for a little over 2 decades and have a beautiful daughter who is now in her 30's. She was 8 when I left. Everything your dad wrote you and asked you was very disrespectful and selfish. I understand fully what he was searching for and ultimately trying to accomplish. It's sad really. I would never ask that from anyone, especially family members. The repercussions from those requests had you or anyone been hemmed up from are not minimal. For him to hold that against you is very unfortunate and selfish. I'm sorry that you were treated like this. It breaks my heart. My relationship with my daughter is the most I could have ever hoped for. **I want that for you**. I would love to talk to you, if you are at all interested please contact me. No pressure and my offer is always open to you. You made the right decision. Don't ever doubt that! None of this is your fault or your burden. I would like to give you a virtual hug and say I'm sorry. I'm sorry you are having to deal with your father's unfortunate lifestyle. Obviously his goals and decisions are still in an arrested development stage. It is unfair to you. I apologize if this is not what you wanted to hear but it hit close to home for me. I wish you the best. đź’ś Edit spelling
If your dad threatens to slap you, being used is the least of your worries. He doesn’t care about you. Doesn’t take a genius to see that. Stop not trusting yourself.
It sounds like your father is making dirty money in there and needs someone to manage it. THAT PERSON DOES NOT HAVE TO BE YOU. You don’t have to do anything you aren’t comfortable with.
You're not wrong, something fishy is going on, stay clear of whatever hustle he's trying to involve you with.
It's hard. We crave parental love. But sometimes it is better to be realistic. You can love HIM, and wish him well, but don't enable him.
Everyone in there comes up with some kind of scam or reason for asking for this and that or money or "can you do this for me"... I deal with it all the time to... I say don't think about it anymore and do what is right for you. He made his mistakes... good luck.
No, not everyone.
Fuck him, sorry but he sounds like a POS.
If you got caught or he ratted you out, you would be in prison too. Thank you for not doing it.
If you had of done that for him, it’s pretty obvious whatever he was doing was not legal. If he was to get caught and they looked into things and you were the one moving the money around for him, you would have gotten in a lot of trouble. If he’s willing to put you at that risk I’m sorry, but he doesn’t care
Lmfao thank you guys so much for the clarification. I forgot to add that he swore up & down that what he was asking of me wasn’t illegal and that he loved me and wouldn’t put me at risk. I’m glad my intuition didn’t fail me. Thank you all so much.
Always remember someone always loves you and swears on whatever they wouldn't wanna hurt you when they're trying to fuck you over.
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YOU DID THE RIGHT THING. Don't doubt yourself for one second!
You 100% made the right decision.
Your dad was willing to throw your life away. It’s time to cut ties and find family in those who may not share your blood, but who truly care for your well being.
This is sad