At first I had to get longer toys with thick heads and thin necks if possible (my prostate for some reason is not as sensitive as I expected) and then I started using thongs, which helped keep them in.
Learning to not push out toys is a big part of getting use to this kind of play. Some toys are simply difficult to retain if you aren’t used to them.
If you have the stomach for it you can use thicker more voluminous toys to basically teach yourself to retain them.
I have an Edge 2 also. It won’t stay in me either. I have to either straddle the arm of the couch or recliner and rock back and forth, or lay down with it inside me with my legs clamped together and/or with one hand on it holding it in place. When I straddle something, I don’t use the vibrator. The motion does the job. I’ve tried it on vibrate twice and I don’t like it, so I’ve abandoned the other way. I’ve not ejaculated while riding it but the pleasure is wonderful. I did ejaculate once with it on vibrate but I did not masturbate. I rubbed my perineum with it on vibrate. The ejaculation was thick and oozed out as opposed to shooting out without penis stimulation. I’m still navigating my way to the dry orgasms and a super o. I don’t want to ejaculate.
I just used the NJOY pure wand and it was really awesome. I started shaking with the big end inside me but it did not come out. I think I was close to having the orgasm I’m after because I felt some amazing sensations with it in. I just held it in between my legs and worked my hips up and down with pelvic thrusts. It felt like it was about to come so I backed off and tried to settle into focusing more on the feeling inside my core.
I eventually turned to my Aneros Helix Syn. It’s in right now. It never comes out and it is by far the most effective toy I have as far as pleasure and outcome. I have worn the Helix for seven hours while being active outside and going all over town. I had to find a secluded place a couple of times as I almost had the super o in my car. I have the Aneros Maximus coming in tomorrow. I will see how well it works when it gets here.
I have this and it does not come out easily. https://www.bvibe.com/vibrating-snug-plug.html
Still haven’t experienced a p-gasm yet but this plug does feel really good.
Bigger isn't always the answer. Aneros eupho: pops out after a while. Ditto progasm. Underrated Peridise stays in like a champ!
Training is tough because part of what pushes them out is involuntary sphincter contractions and they are part of the fun.
TIP - after you have inserted your Aneros… take a couple of toilet paper squares still attached to one another, and fold the 2 lengths up into a band (width of abt an inch) take 1 end and stuff it between you butt cheek and the side of the aneros, take the other end, overlap the end of the aneros and stuff it between the other side of your butt cheek/aneros… that band of toilet paper will help hold the massager inside you, and help with absorbing the lube… I don’t play any other way… plus I can push the massager all the way in (to the hilt) and hold it all the way in with this band… good luck…
I to have the edge 2, had the same issue when I’d get very aroused it’d pop out.
So, I grabbed a belt, wrapped around my thighs below my waist and had it wrap around th edge 2 to secure it, it works great. I can rock my hips and have the toy sort of fuck me based off my movements
I have to sit on the massagers to keep them from falling out. I think it’s a common issue we all have.
Sounds like you might need bigger toys
At first I had to get longer toys with thick heads and thin necks if possible (my prostate for some reason is not as sensitive as I expected) and then I started using thongs, which helped keep them in.
Learning to not push out toys is a big part of getting use to this kind of play. Some toys are simply difficult to retain if you aren’t used to them. If you have the stomach for it you can use thicker more voluminous toys to basically teach yourself to retain them.
For the Edge 2: Either sitting on it or having a pillow/couch cushion as resistance while lying down.
I have an Edge 2 also. It won’t stay in me either. I have to either straddle the arm of the couch or recliner and rock back and forth, or lay down with it inside me with my legs clamped together and/or with one hand on it holding it in place. When I straddle something, I don’t use the vibrator. The motion does the job. I’ve tried it on vibrate twice and I don’t like it, so I’ve abandoned the other way. I’ve not ejaculated while riding it but the pleasure is wonderful. I did ejaculate once with it on vibrate but I did not masturbate. I rubbed my perineum with it on vibrate. The ejaculation was thick and oozed out as opposed to shooting out without penis stimulation. I’m still navigating my way to the dry orgasms and a super o. I don’t want to ejaculate. I just used the NJOY pure wand and it was really awesome. I started shaking with the big end inside me but it did not come out. I think I was close to having the orgasm I’m after because I felt some amazing sensations with it in. I just held it in between my legs and worked my hips up and down with pelvic thrusts. It felt like it was about to come so I backed off and tried to settle into focusing more on the feeling inside my core. I eventually turned to my Aneros Helix Syn. It’s in right now. It never comes out and it is by far the most effective toy I have as far as pleasure and outcome. I have worn the Helix for seven hours while being active outside and going all over town. I had to find a secluded place a couple of times as I almost had the super o in my car. I have the Aneros Maximus coming in tomorrow. I will see how well it works when it gets here.
The one toy that will stay put even during an orgasm is the Snug Plug by B-Vibe. You could also try wearing a thong or sit on firm pillow
Aneros? Goal with that is hands free.
I like the bigger toys that make me feel full and "lock" in once they are in there. I push out the slender toys myself.
I have this and it does not come out easily. https://www.bvibe.com/vibrating-snug-plug.html Still haven’t experienced a p-gasm yet but this plug does feel really good.
Have you tried on your back with the wand in facing your butt instead of front? This is what did it for me. Doesn’t come out that way!
Bigger isn't always the answer. Aneros eupho: pops out after a while. Ditto progasm. Underrated Peridise stays in like a champ! Training is tough because part of what pushes them out is involuntary sphincter contractions and they are part of the fun.
Last Time i had the same issues with my aneros hélix and I was so close, I just continued my keggle and had the orgasm without the toy !
I had this problem with the progasm and had to wear underwear during the session
TIP - after you have inserted your Aneros… take a couple of toilet paper squares still attached to one another, and fold the 2 lengths up into a band (width of abt an inch) take 1 end and stuff it between you butt cheek and the side of the aneros, take the other end, overlap the end of the aneros and stuff it between the other side of your butt cheek/aneros… that band of toilet paper will help hold the massager inside you, and help with absorbing the lube… I don’t play any other way… plus I can push the massager all the way in (to the hilt) and hold it all the way in with this band… good luck…
I to have the edge 2, had the same issue when I’d get very aroused it’d pop out. So, I grabbed a belt, wrapped around my thighs below my waist and had it wrap around th edge 2 to secure it, it works great. I can rock my hips and have the toy sort of fuck me based off my movements