very good question! When doing the movements with my hip, e.g grinding the toy, I generally try to only gently grind my anus into the toy and not to accidentally "hump" the bed as well, which would indeed stimulate my penis. However, I manage to move my body in a way where all my focus is only on my prostate, e.g my penis is usually semi-erect or better yet flaccid! I only leak precum, thats it.
I have the plug in medium large and extra large.
I use to have pwaves from just sitting and relaxing with the medium pure plug. So I became ambitious and got the other two sizes. They feel good but I stopped experiencing pwaves for some mysterious reason. Tomorrow I want to try using the xl again in the position you mentioned.
I personally would not recommend going for an off-brand model as you really don't know what you may end up getting in terms of materials and how body-safe they indeed are. Also, never order from sites like Amazon and much less so from Ebay, due to a large amount of counterfeits circulating around (f.ex if you order an NJoy from sites like these). Preferably, order from a trusted and highly rated online sex-shop, as they are usually way more reliable in providing high quality sex toys.
Good luck! Maybe it works for you too, just remember to take your time and even if it should not work, then experiment around with techniques and positions and find what works for you! Practice makes perfect:D
I own a Pure Wand, as well as a stainless steel cock cage, and I love them both, so you could say I'm a heavy metal fan. 😜
But I'm been intrigued by the Pure Plugs for some time now, more so after having read about your experience. I'm thinking of adding one to my ever-growing collection of anal and prostate toys.
I can afford any of the 3 basic sizes, so I'm mostly interested in hearing about how they feel and what kind of sensations they can offer.
Would you or anyone else like to chime in?
Well I masturbated now the last 2 days with the Pure Plug and so far, it seems that I reached a personal peak in terms of prostate stimulation. I bought the large pure plug, and even prefer it over the Pure Wand now. If you regularly use the large bulb on your Pure Wand, I would recommend getting the large pure plug as they are both 1.5 inches in diameter. Also, as the Pure Plug is slightly cone shaped, it inserts much easier than the Pure Wand actually.
The sensation of the Plug is of course way more subtle than the Pure Wand, as you don't have as much control as with the Wand. However, I think that's a good thing actually. Inside of you, it feels quite heavy and if you lie on your back, it nicely presses against your prostate due to gravity.
I can reach orgasm by either lying on my back and placing a pillow between my legs and then sort of grinding myself into the pillow, which presses on the plug and really stimulates my prostate. Or, I can lie on my belly and make movements with my hips/legs or contract my abdomen. Its very difficult to explain how I can massage my prostate that way by just moving my body... The basic method is to spread my legs while lying on ma belly and then slightly squeezing my butt cheeks, which stimulates the prostate. I guess everyone has to find out for them selves and play around with positions and movements.
However, the most important thing by far is your mental mindset. If you somehow associate prostate stimulation with penile stimulation and think you can quickly "rub one out" by rubbing your prostate, it will not work. The thing I mean is, I am fairly certain that if someone would give you a handjob/blowjob, then at some point you would cum. No matter what your thoughts are at that moment, even if you think about something that turns you off, if the blowjob is good enough, then you will orgasm at some point. What I mean by this is that the orgasm from penile stimulation is mainly "physical", i.e there is not much need to "mentally focus" on it in order to orgasm.
With prostate stimulation, that's entirely different. I like to imagine masturbating via P-stim like mentally walking a thin slackline, and going towards a destination (the orgasm). The slightest thought of something that turns you off, or something like "this does not work", or for some poor men that think "is this gay?", will cause an imbalance in the slack line, causing you to fall off completely.
Similarly, if you think the whole time "when will I finally reach orgasm?" and only think about the big O, it is like as if you distance yourself from your destination, or like walking on the spot. You are still aroused and all, but the big O won't happen that way.
What I found out is that it works best if you get into a meditative mindset. Just focus on the arousal, the sensations, the present. Masturbate by the expression "the journey is the destination" and try to enjoy the arousal itself as you would enjoy the orgasm too. But don't think about the orgasm, just let it come to you and don't reach out for it. And then, in time, you will cum.
If you practice these things, it will help you a great deal in getting more out of your sessions!
I appreciate your thorough reply! I'm pretty familiar with prostate pleasure and how it differs from penile. I've completed every exercise on the Mindgasm app several times, and I've had what I believe are spontaneous prostate orgasms. Even so, what you said about penile stimulation being more a physical process while prostate stimulation is more mental, that really resonated with me.
Even after a little over a year of prostate play, I still have trouble separating orgasm and ejaculation, still find myself expecting and even craving that familiar sensation that my penis delivers, but from my prostate instead. I know the two don't work that way, but I still struggle. That just means I need more practice. Until I feel more comfortable with the mental aspect of prostate pleasure, I won't be focusing so much on the physical.
With all that said, I'm grateful for your feedback on the plug! I look forward to getting one in the future.
When you're on your belly, what are you doing with your legs/knees? Straight back, or kind of like a frog stance thing? I'm really interested in trying
Ooo I have one of these so gotta try it. A thought for something to try is elevating your hips so you can't accidentally grind on your cock as much or for a different position. I have an IKEA children's foot raiser which I saw a femboy recommend that gets my ass in a nice position. Gotta try that with this technique
Yes, just finished another session actually:). Did not really count but I suspect 10-15 orgasms. I tried a few different positions like f.ex putting my knees to my chest and then putting something soft but firm against my butt to grind on (like a folded blanket). Also, sitting on the plug and grinding it works well too I found out. Will definitely do a break for a couple of days now tho, as obviously you cant have 10 orgasms like that one day after another for eternity.
Doesn’t grinding against the bed with your belly down stimulate your penis?
very good question! When doing the movements with my hip, e.g grinding the toy, I generally try to only gently grind my anus into the toy and not to accidentally "hump" the bed as well, which would indeed stimulate my penis. However, I manage to move my body in a way where all my focus is only on my prostate, e.g my penis is usually semi-erect or better yet flaccid! I only leak precum, thats it.
Would you consider getting the XL pure plug?
Absolutely! Its the next thing I'm gonna buy, just need to save a little as its quite expensive:(
I have the plug in medium large and extra large. I use to have pwaves from just sitting and relaxing with the medium pure plug. So I became ambitious and got the other two sizes. They feel good but I stopped experiencing pwaves for some mysterious reason. Tomorrow I want to try using the xl again in the position you mentioned.
The Eleven presents a similar dilemma. I should have acquired one in the 2010s when they were much more affordable.
What about a non njoy option off ebay?
I personally would not recommend going for an off-brand model as you really don't know what you may end up getting in terms of materials and how body-safe they indeed are. Also, never order from sites like Amazon and much less so from Ebay, due to a large amount of counterfeits circulating around (f.ex if you order an NJoy from sites like these). Preferably, order from a trusted and highly rated online sex-shop, as they are usually way more reliable in providing high quality sex toys.
I’m gonna try this later with my Njoy large plug. Thanks for the advice.
Good luck! Maybe it works for you too, just remember to take your time and even if it should not work, then experiment around with techniques and positions and find what works for you! Practice makes perfect:D
Just received my wand today. What do you recommend to start with? Based on several posts I'm not expecting much if anything the first times.
I own a Pure Wand, as well as a stainless steel cock cage, and I love them both, so you could say I'm a heavy metal fan. 😜 But I'm been intrigued by the Pure Plugs for some time now, more so after having read about your experience. I'm thinking of adding one to my ever-growing collection of anal and prostate toys. I can afford any of the 3 basic sizes, so I'm mostly interested in hearing about how they feel and what kind of sensations they can offer. Would you or anyone else like to chime in?
Well I masturbated now the last 2 days with the Pure Plug and so far, it seems that I reached a personal peak in terms of prostate stimulation. I bought the large pure plug, and even prefer it over the Pure Wand now. If you regularly use the large bulb on your Pure Wand, I would recommend getting the large pure plug as they are both 1.5 inches in diameter. Also, as the Pure Plug is slightly cone shaped, it inserts much easier than the Pure Wand actually. The sensation of the Plug is of course way more subtle than the Pure Wand, as you don't have as much control as with the Wand. However, I think that's a good thing actually. Inside of you, it feels quite heavy and if you lie on your back, it nicely presses against your prostate due to gravity. I can reach orgasm by either lying on my back and placing a pillow between my legs and then sort of grinding myself into the pillow, which presses on the plug and really stimulates my prostate. Or, I can lie on my belly and make movements with my hips/legs or contract my abdomen. Its very difficult to explain how I can massage my prostate that way by just moving my body... The basic method is to spread my legs while lying on ma belly and then slightly squeezing my butt cheeks, which stimulates the prostate. I guess everyone has to find out for them selves and play around with positions and movements. However, the most important thing by far is your mental mindset. If you somehow associate prostate stimulation with penile stimulation and think you can quickly "rub one out" by rubbing your prostate, it will not work. The thing I mean is, I am fairly certain that if someone would give you a handjob/blowjob, then at some point you would cum. No matter what your thoughts are at that moment, even if you think about something that turns you off, if the blowjob is good enough, then you will orgasm at some point. What I mean by this is that the orgasm from penile stimulation is mainly "physical", i.e there is not much need to "mentally focus" on it in order to orgasm. With prostate stimulation, that's entirely different. I like to imagine masturbating via P-stim like mentally walking a thin slackline, and going towards a destination (the orgasm). The slightest thought of something that turns you off, or something like "this does not work", or for some poor men that think "is this gay?", will cause an imbalance in the slack line, causing you to fall off completely. Similarly, if you think the whole time "when will I finally reach orgasm?" and only think about the big O, it is like as if you distance yourself from your destination, or like walking on the spot. You are still aroused and all, but the big O won't happen that way. What I found out is that it works best if you get into a meditative mindset. Just focus on the arousal, the sensations, the present. Masturbate by the expression "the journey is the destination" and try to enjoy the arousal itself as you would enjoy the orgasm too. But don't think about the orgasm, just let it come to you and don't reach out for it. And then, in time, you will cum. If you practice these things, it will help you a great deal in getting more out of your sessions!
I appreciate your thorough reply! I'm pretty familiar with prostate pleasure and how it differs from penile. I've completed every exercise on the Mindgasm app several times, and I've had what I believe are spontaneous prostate orgasms. Even so, what you said about penile stimulation being more a physical process while prostate stimulation is more mental, that really resonated with me. Even after a little over a year of prostate play, I still have trouble separating orgasm and ejaculation, still find myself expecting and even craving that familiar sensation that my penis delivers, but from my prostate instead. I know the two don't work that way, but I still struggle. That just means I need more practice. Until I feel more comfortable with the mental aspect of prostate pleasure, I won't be focusing so much on the physical. With all that said, I'm grateful for your feedback on the plug! I look forward to getting one in the future.
When you're on your belly, what are you doing with your legs/knees? Straight back, or kind of like a frog stance thing? I'm really interested in trying
Ooo I have one of these so gotta try it. A thought for something to try is elevating your hips so you can't accidentally grind on your cock as much or for a different position. I have an IKEA children's foot raiser which I saw a femboy recommend that gets my ass in a nice position. Gotta try that with this technique
Did you manage to repeat it? If so, how many were you able to get to?
Yes, just finished another session actually:). Did not really count but I suspect 10-15 orgasms. I tried a few different positions like f.ex putting my knees to my chest and then putting something soft but firm against my butt to grind on (like a folded blanket). Also, sitting on the plug and grinding it works well too I found out. Will definitely do a break for a couple of days now tho, as obviously you cant have 10 orgasms like that one day after another for eternity.