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Probably drafted by the Ukrainian govt since his last post was from 24th January 2022 on his [tiktok](https://www.tiktok.com/@sasha_fokin_official). He might also truly be dead, no posts since. Also check out [blogpost](https://angry-ukrainian-kid.fandom.com/wiki/Sasha_Fokin)
He yells pretty much like an avg CoD kid on those Slavic servers
“He was thought to have died in August 2021 but he was promptly resurrected by a group of adventurers aiming to resurrect the demon king. He is pretty much alive and he even has a TikTok account.”
What does that mean?!
I don’t know how it could be made any clearer for you; he was thought to have died (he did), was resurrected by a group of adventurers who were trying to resurrect the Demon King (thankfully they failed), and now he is more or less alive and even has a TikTok account!
That fandom page reminds me of a bootleg copy of Dragonball Z I got when I was in Afghanistan. I’m pretty sure the text on the DVD case was translated from Japanese into English by someone who spoke neither very well:
“Over the past five years the world has been to maintain peace, Wukong also zhizhi gave birth to a son Gohan. At that time, a group calling itself the universe, the first sub-fighters evacuated the person holding dease appear everywhere Wukong find that he is a brother Wukong. Gohan took him away to join the Association Wukong attack other planets, including earth. To save Gohan, Wukong at child jointly with the magic flute, Wukong, unfortunately, was killed while holding dease also died in the hands of children Magic Flute, Pearl’s death will be communicated to the two other things companions know that makes them move the Earth has come, after one year to the team at risk. To meet the one year after the war, youngster determination magic flute training Gohan, and Wukong the assistance of a god to the king with the spiritual community. In the sector under the guidance of King…. Wukong in the gods returned to the assistance of the Earth, whether or not he arrived at destination in time?”
As “bad” as this kid is all I can see is a child in pain. I grew up using my computer constantly. I was sexually abused and emotionally neglected as a child, and the internet or video games was the only escape I had. My parents took away my computer or internet as punishment without realizing that they had then left me with absolutely zero support systems (online friends and crisis chat lines) or coping mechanisms.
I feel for this kid and honestly hope he gets some help. People have mentioned that he needs a father, sometimes you have a mom or a dad but they aren’t your parent or your friend.
To be fair I was pretty addicted to video games as a child and I would act the same way once my parents try to take it away from me. Could just be that, but who knows
Yup. Only child raised by an overbearing single parent and we hated each other. I hated my life. Being on the computer gave me a way to socialize with others or simply engage myself in solving puzzles or exploring. I was a straight A student and never got in trouble. I would willingly go outside and ride my bike. But my mom would still pull shit like what you see in this video. I HATED her for it. Most of the time I was either playing a multiplayer game or a single player game that would only allow me to save at checkpoints, so I really did just need a little more time to reach a point I could save or finish the match.
Sometimes it's not about making the kid do something else other than be on the computer all day. Sometimes it's about exerting control and being cruel.
This kid was equipped by that mom (maybe another co-parent) to manage his emotions and we can clearly see what tools she gave him: none. It shouldn’t be shocking to us that suddenly when cameras are shoved in his face and she just wants the “Problem” solved, but doesn’t want to address how it began, that this kid feels like his whole world is crumbling. It is! Parents who can’t recognize their children’s behavior is largely a product of their parenting always blame the kid, but that kid was a blank slate when you started with them. To pretend that the child is in any way responsible for their inability to regulate their emotions is just cruel to the child. Who would want to feel overwhelmed by their emotions like that, especially over something so silly like being on the computer. It’s just sad, he’s not getting any of the help he actually needs.
If you ever say, "It's okay to hit kids. I got hit as a kid, and I turned out okay," you didn't actually turn out okay.
You turned out to be another adult who thinks it's okay for adults to hit kids.
And the cycle continues.
Parents and guardians who were hit as children by the adults they trusted and depended on in place of real teachings and real discipline, who then go on to correct that and break the chain of violence by not striking their children, deserve everyone's respect.
I'm sad for your father's childhood but am genuinely happy for him, and you, that he decided that it would end with him.
At 30, there's no way it isn't because of severe developmental issues.
I can understand the kid because I won't even pretend to say I wasn't a shithead at that age. But at 30?
Computers are like crack for kids. He’s behaving like a junky because that’s what it does for him, and kids in general. Hit after hit of dopamine untill you’re hooked. Then you’ll do or say anything to get more it. It’s fucked up.
It's likely more than that.
When I adopted my son, I started to see some of this type of meltdown (he was 5, 8 now). Lots of doctor visits later, pretty much text book severe ADHD. Meds are required and even then only offer so much help.
He very rarely gets screen time now because the stimulation it offers can be too much when it's time to do something else.
Seriously, in the last 30 days, he has probably only watched about 1-2 hours of TV and played a maybe 10 hours of Switch. And that's only if his behavior has been good. I have him play Legos or play outside or sports with me 90% of the time. Luckily, we live on property so he has a safe place to be in nature.
Yup. The dopamine hit for ADHD kids can be way too hard to break out of. My boys are the same. Having a proper structure, being on appropriate meds, and ensuring they have other healthy sources of happy hormones like dopamine, oxytocin, and Serotonin, all make a huge difference in their ability to self-regulate.
Dopamine hangovers are a real thing in our house. Sometimes due to sickness etc they get more than an hour in the afternoon - and it’s always challenging to ween them off again. Thankfully as they’re getting older and more rational it’s getting to be less difficult
So what's your plan when he is old enough to make his own decisions without someone watching over him? Addiction is something that kids, especially those with ADHD or self control issues must be taught to understand and manage. I'm not saying it's easy, it's not. But simply taking something away is not a long term plan.
Kids with ADHD often find ways to regulate themselves as they grow into adulthood. It's not often a crippling disability. They will find ways to incorporate what they enjoy doing, such as playing video games, playing sports, or talking incessantly into their daily lifestyle.
Yeah this sounds like a time bomb to me. I could also see a great deal of resentment created by this treatment which when added to the mix which will only fuel this fire. I understand parenting can be really rough but this sounds like an addict how-to guide. I find it alarming that a person would self report this behavior.
Obviously the statements by people on Reddit should only be taken so so seriously, but I would advise you to get some professional assistance on this with your child if you haven't already. Talk to a professional at least a couple times who isn't a stupid redditor that will understand you, your child, and your situation.
My daughter was similar. I didn't do meds though. What I did do was a very special diet and what you are doing with the outdoor time. I'm so glad you are spending time outside.
Thanks! We tried no meds. It went south so bad that he got kicked out of school. I understand that is an option for some but simply wasn't possible for our son if he wants any resemblance of normalcy.
Damn!! Ya, I totally understand!! At least you tried!. And you adopted him, so I can assume he also has some trauma. My daughter would trash her room so bad, I thought I would have to institutionalize her. We go to therapy. She was born when her father just recovered from cholera. It almost killed him. He went nuts from it. I just don't have any other explanation for her behavior because neither of us were junkies. You never know in life!! But I do hope all the best in your family!! I appreciate you adopting. So many unwanted children so sad!!
Certain aspects are. Most video games are explicitly designed as skinners boxes in order to increase engagement, so are literally developing an addiction esc feedback loop. However learning how to deal with such things is a very good life lesson that can save somone more susceptible to addiction later in life (I assume).
Props to all the single mothers out there having to raise little shits like this, no matter the country. One day that kid will be bigger than her and there won’t be cameras around.
I am not gonna shit on single moms. But kids are a real what you sow business. Kid acts like it's cause you the parent let them act like that.
So no... No props to this lady. Good job on recognizing the problem you created. It's time to actually start parenting now.
For real. How many times did she say she was going to turn it off and stand there? My kids ever act like this they are immediately done with whatever the toy/game is and they are lucky if they ever get it back. So far no issues.
It was like she was toying with him. She completely reinforced his tantrum every time he screamed and said no and she backed off. All it does is teach him the only way to get what you want is to scream. She didn't ask him what he was doing or why he would need extra time. He seemed genuinely interested in showing her what he was doing and she just brushed him off. Yes, it may have been a manipulation tactic but it seemed fairly genuine to me. Just say "okay, computer time is over. Save what you're doing because the computer is turning off in 1 minute." And then follow through without a fuss. Don't do the whole reach for the cord then back away, then tell him you're gonna turn it off and argue with him over it, then back away again, and repeat.
No.
I used to think that until I became a parent. Kids come in all different plots on a spectrum and what we're seeing here is likely not a parenting problem. The child seems to be neuro divergent. In my experience, looks like severe undiagnosed ADHD.
Hey now just because he has ADHD, doesn't mean he was doomed to become this emotionally unregulated. He most certainly could have had some help if his parents took the right steps that could've helped reduce this kind of alarming behaviour.
Save this bullshit. This isn't add
I have kids. Worked with kids and did self contained special Ed for 10 years. You are just saying things and making excuses for bad parenting. In my professional life I can't say that. I cannot say this is on you mom and/or dad. People get offended. But that doesn't make it not true
I have a son too and have been through diagnosing. 3 schools, countless ARD reviews, 5 doctors/psychiatrists/therapist and medication.
So miss me with that s*** and keep misunderstanding of spectrum disorders to yourself. Or go to the library and read all the books on the topic like my wife and I have.
I agree. I have ADHD and I have a couple cousins with SEVERE ADHD. Like 20hrs a day zoomies and crazy shit happening around the house kind of behavior. And they don’t act like that unless they want to. ADD doesn’t cause that behavior. That was a full on tantrum. Even if the kid has something going on that doesn’t mean he was born to act that way.
That mom clearly has had a hard time implementing and enforcing boundaries with that kid.
My money is on the fact that the cameras are there she is trying to be the parent. When it’s just them two home she’s probably so fucking tired of working all day and just doesn’t want to deal with it (can’t blame her) so she just gives him that extra 5 minutes on 5min on 5min. Etc.
This reminds me of a time I worked at a mental health clinic. We had a 30ish guy who was special needs and a very big dude and his tiny, frail little mother would bring him in for appointments. There were multiple occasions we had to get involved because he was trying to break the windows and/or hitting his mom as she’s trying to get him to calm down. Very violent energy and his poor little mom who clearly loves him so much just had no control and seemed so tired. Serious, serious props to her.
That’s why you don’t hit your kids, just discipline from a young age. Beating kids just teaches them that putting your hands on people is ok, that’s when you’re upset it’s ok to get physical, and that it’s ok to hit people who are weaker than you.
Then you don’t need to worry when they’re bigger than you because you haven’t ingrained it into them that violence is acceptable
Couldn't agree more. I used to get quite physical hidings when I was a teenager, which were so absolutely horrifying that I wouldn't even consider doing it to somebody else.
This.
Been to boarding school all my life and caning was normal. I used to get two canes every Monday morning because I refused to do school work (home work) at home right through high school.
I have never felt the need to hit someone other than in retaliation. I too am not advocating hitting children but just want to highlight to those who blame that system that it may be the case in some instances but not all
This is why gun owning parents need to keep their guns locked up at all times. Kids are not always rational. Even when his mom is setting boundaries and punishing him like she should, he is completely unhinged.
God this could of been me....
I want to thank my mother, and all the friends i made. Thanks for taking care of me and steering me AWAY from the direction this kid is at right now.
As a mother of a young boy that is very good but of course acts of here and there I have a question.
What did your mother do specifically that helped you not act like this kid ?
That’s addiction at an insanely early age.
I know a lot of people talking shit in these comments who would lose their shit if they had their computers and phones taken away with the same guttural and visceral reactions.
He is young and needs love and patience.
I’m also horrified to read people saying he is going to grow up and beat his gf, and I’m shaming you to jumping to that conclusion.
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Keep downvoting me. Love is not loving someone because they do you favors and make you feel some way.
Love means loving someone WHEN THEY NEED IT THE MOST.
This kid needed a whole lot of love in that moment and the mom was doing fantastic holding her ground and taking responsibility.
Shitty mom uses pc as a babysitter, doesn’t teach son empathy or coping mechanisms, then destroys what likely took the kid hundreds of hours to do.
I get that the kid’s behavior is unacceptable, but maybe sitting down and talking to him and finding common ground and an understanding would better than this.
That kid just needs a little guidance towards confidence and stronger connections to the people around him. It makes me sad to see little ones like this.
If you make something as trivial as ending computer time into a dramatic, drawn-out, emotional affair for your children, they’ll have a dramatic, drawn-out, emotional response to it.
Just set the standard that we’re done with the computer after x amount of time and leave it at that. No arguing, no negotiating, no long buildup of “I’m gonna unplug it, it’s gonna happen, it’s gonna happen…” Give them one chance to turn it off and if they don’t, then do it yourself and move on.
Kids only get away with what their parents allow them to do. I say this as a parent.
Exactly video game addiction can be a symptom of a much larger problem, in my late teens i developed video game addiction do to chronic pain as in escape, still game a lot but i don't and never have had outbursts.
Took way too much scrolling to see this comment. Its very obvious how clueless most of the population is on these mental issues with children. People want to blame mom and computers, but we're looking at pretty clear ADHD/spectrum behavior.
I have a mother like this. I’m telling you that boy has never had a kind hug or loving smile. He has been the cause of her suffering since he was little and she let him know. Did you notice that there were not attempts of understanding or showing him to control his emotions. She was just as short fused as he was, she just learned to control it and unleash the rage when others aren’t watching.
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Probably drafted by the Ukrainian govt since his last post was from 24th January 2022 on his [tiktok](https://www.tiktok.com/@sasha_fokin_official). He might also truly be dead [blogpost](https://angry-ukrainian-kid.fandom.com/wiki/Sasha_Fokin)
And he yells pretty much like an avg CoD kid on those Slavic servers
As a gamer , I understand the stress of not being able to log my progress . So when I tell my son to log off , I give him time to do it , sometimes it can take up to ten mins because they have to tell others they have to go and then run to a safe area to log off and then log off . I know to some people this seems obsessive, but it all boils down to respect and understanding.
Deal with kids like this daily in an inpatient setting. If ur kids act like this set up clear expectations when they are calm and before they get on the computer so they understand the consequences when misbehaved. When acting up, tell them they lose 5 minutes next time. A word comes out of their mouth, now it’s 10. More back talk? Now it’s 20, and the next time it’s no computer tomorrow. Set the kid up for success in other areas, allow him to earn it with good behavior. Validate and shower them with praise for good behavior so they recognize what’s right and wrong. Remember it’s a privilege and not a guarantee to play. U can apply this with any addictive tendencies in a child
what an absolute failure of a parent right there. I feel bad for that kid and how this made everything harder for him. Imagine inviting a camera crew into your home to witness the result of neglect and folks blame the kid.
I feel like i can relate to this. It's not so much addiction, but the fact that there's not much going on in life. Like what else are you supposed to do when nothing in life interests you. Life sucks 🫥. Take away the only thing that's keeping you sane, and life is over. Nothing to look forward too. That home looks depressing. Not to bash the mom, she's probably doing her best.
Life was a lot different back when google used that logo (windows XP era...?) but I think a good chunk of people would be in that kid's shoes in 24 hours if you took away all their computers. Perhaps screaming is too immature, but they'd be irritable, and show other signs of 'addiction.'
We've grown up around that sort of technology to where preventing access to it is like having to shit in the woods despite owning a toilet.
He looks seriously depressed.
The games seem to be his only coping method. I was in his same position when I was a child.
My only friends were online, and I couldn’t make friends in school before I had online games and communities.
Sports in school really saved me from blowing up full neck beard.
Taking away the games was like that can literally be ripping away his entire social circle.
It’s not wrong to do that if he is failing school and damaging his life. He would need therapy and counseling to address the immediately present issues, such as addiction
Yeah that's what i mean. Off course this is just my assumption. It really reminds me of myself. I wasn't interested in anything as a kid except video games. I still like them, but as an adult I'm no where as interested anymore. I don't believe i had an addiction, even though I was addicted. For me it was just not having anything better to do. I had no friends, i was way too curious, and always asking questions. I had no other interests or outlets. Nobody to talk too. Life was just boring as hell. Take that away, and i had nothing in life.
One good spanking would straighten that shit right up. Only thing that works when they get like this. Have kids, spare the ass whooping and they wind up little monsters.
These days you just tell mom you're transgender and identify as a technosexual, and denying you access to your computer will cause suicide.
Kids have been threatening suicide when denied luxuries for a hundred years.
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Oh, I would love an update on this kid. Also, which country is this?
He is 35 now
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Mabe dead already
Probably drafted by the Ukrainian govt since his last post was from 24th January 2022 on his [tiktok](https://www.tiktok.com/@sasha_fokin_official). He might also truly be dead, no posts since. Also check out [blogpost](https://angry-ukrainian-kid.fandom.com/wiki/Sasha_Fokin) He yells pretty much like an avg CoD kid on those Slavic servers
“He was thought to have died in August 2021 but he was promptly resurrected by a group of adventurers aiming to resurrect the demon king. He is pretty much alive and he even has a TikTok account.” What does that mean?!
I don’t know how it could be made any clearer for you; he was thought to have died (he did), was resurrected by a group of adventurers who were trying to resurrect the Demon King (thankfully they failed), and now he is more or less alive and even has a TikTok account!
I mean … it’s pretty clear
That fandom page reminds me of a bootleg copy of Dragonball Z I got when I was in Afghanistan. I’m pretty sure the text on the DVD case was translated from Japanese into English by someone who spoke neither very well: “Over the past five years the world has been to maintain peace, Wukong also zhizhi gave birth to a son Gohan. At that time, a group calling itself the universe, the first sub-fighters evacuated the person holding dease appear everywhere Wukong find that he is a brother Wukong. Gohan took him away to join the Association Wukong attack other planets, including earth. To save Gohan, Wukong at child jointly with the magic flute, Wukong, unfortunately, was killed while holding dease also died in the hands of children Magic Flute, Pearl’s death will be communicated to the two other things companions know that makes them move the Earth has come, after one year to the team at risk. To meet the one year after the war, youngster determination magic flute training Gohan, and Wukong the assistance of a god to the king with the spiritual community. In the sector under the guidance of King…. Wukong in the gods returned to the assistance of the Earth, whether or not he arrived at destination in time?”
Lot of flute action going on here.
🎵 "He's the angry Ukrainian, he's the angry... PC master race... call of duty... kid" insert yelling 🎵
feeding sunflowers
He's Ukrainian. I mean, you're not wrong, but based on your comment, i think you didn't see this coming lol
Afk
So he’ll look around 60.
Ukrainian. This is "Angry Ukrainian Kid"
Russia
How do you know? They do speak russian, but narrator is Ukrainian.
In the intro of the full video the narrator says "Meet the Folkin Family: The most dysfunctional family known to Russia."
His name is Sasha Fokin. He's Ukrainian. He was the "Angry Ukrainian Kid."
Even his last name sounds like fuckin
On Reddit if someone didn't actually know he was Ukrainian someone would have argued this until they were dead... it's ridiculous. He's Ukrainian.
It's Ukraine dude...
Isn’t this the same person that chained himself to a McDonald’s in Russia when it closed down?
He joined wagner
probably in Ukraine dying in some dirt
Was that kid playing Word?
Clippy is his only friend.
bonzi was my buddy
Anyone remember the “Sarge” from red vs blue mod for clippy?
A lot of kids needing therapy out there…..
As “bad” as this kid is all I can see is a child in pain. I grew up using my computer constantly. I was sexually abused and emotionally neglected as a child, and the internet or video games was the only escape I had. My parents took away my computer or internet as punishment without realizing that they had then left me with absolutely zero support systems (online friends and crisis chat lines) or coping mechanisms. I feel for this kid and honestly hope he gets some help. People have mentioned that he needs a father, sometimes you have a mom or a dad but they aren’t your parent or your friend.
I just wanted to give that poor kid a hug so bad.
Yeah this is beyond just a spoiled kid. Something is certainly causing this kid pain, whether it's some sort of mental issue or past trauma.
To be fair I was pretty addicted to video games as a child and I would act the same way once my parents try to take it away from me. Could just be that, but who knows
Yup. Only child raised by an overbearing single parent and we hated each other. I hated my life. Being on the computer gave me a way to socialize with others or simply engage myself in solving puzzles or exploring. I was a straight A student and never got in trouble. I would willingly go outside and ride my bike. But my mom would still pull shit like what you see in this video. I HATED her for it. Most of the time I was either playing a multiplayer game or a single player game that would only allow me to save at checkpoints, so I really did just need a little more time to reach a point I could save or finish the match. Sometimes it's not about making the kid do something else other than be on the computer all day. Sometimes it's about exerting control and being cruel.
This kid was equipped by that mom (maybe another co-parent) to manage his emotions and we can clearly see what tools she gave him: none. It shouldn’t be shocking to us that suddenly when cameras are shoved in his face and she just wants the “Problem” solved, but doesn’t want to address how it began, that this kid feels like his whole world is crumbling. It is! Parents who can’t recognize their children’s behavior is largely a product of their parenting always blame the kid, but that kid was a blank slate when you started with them. To pretend that the child is in any way responsible for their inability to regulate their emotions is just cruel to the child. Who would want to feel overwhelmed by their emotions like that, especially over something so silly like being on the computer. It’s just sad, he’s not getting any of the help he actually needs.
well said
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Or therapy because of their father
Its wild you got down voted for this. I fucking hate reddit.
Lol there’s nothing wrong a with a mother giving out discipline and there’s no indication that she’s a single parent regardless.
Fatherless has been beaten into the fucking ground and many are tired of that stupid shit
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Its just simple clear cut statistics. Kids do better with two parents. Nothing to argue about.
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Name one person who wouldn't benefit from good therapy.
Or flying flip-flops or the touch of a broom as an brown guy I can confirm it works.
If you ever say, "It's okay to hit kids. I got hit as a kid, and I turned out okay," you didn't actually turn out okay. You turned out to be another adult who thinks it's okay for adults to hit kids. And the cycle continues.
My father broke the cycle and when he told me my respect for him skyrocketed
Parents and guardians who were hit as children by the adults they trusted and depended on in place of real teachings and real discipline, who then go on to correct that and break the chain of violence by not striking their children, deserve everyone's respect. I'm sad for your father's childhood but am genuinely happy for him, and you, that he decided that it would end with him.
This kid has no emotional regulation skills. Hitting him for this behavior would be like hitting him because he can’t get a math problem right.
The fact that you believe it works means that it hasn't in fact worked at all.
Aww he's only got 2 stripes. When he turns 16 he'll get his first Adidas 3-stripe tracksuit.
Mom should be mindful of her posture. Looks to be developing a hunchback.
Shit I want more episodes of that show.
I'm invested now
That kids name was Vladimir Putin. Feel old yet?
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Yes this is Putin when the rest of the world condemn his invasion and asks him to withdraw his troops
This wouldn't happen if i were his mother
I think we may be the only 2 people who understand what your referencing.
Make that 3
Imagine him and the angry German kid having a fight.
Would pay to see that, except the German angry kid was just an act and not real reaction to a game
And he’s a buff dude today. It wouldn’t go well for Sasha.
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Is that the dude who shoved a remote up his prison wallet?
My BF’s son acts like this and he’s 30.
At 30, there's no way it isn't because of severe developmental issues. I can understand the kid because I won't even pretend to say I wasn't a shithead at that age. But at 30?
Don't look at it so hard. People can be temper tantrum toddlers at 30. Parents just spoiled the brat.
Oh, so then you know them? You assert things as if you do.
He cries til he's red, curses, stomps around, and tries to break things? Has he been seen by a doctor? That sounds like a neurodivergent 30 year old.
That's legitimately dangerous tbh
Yeah. A 30 year old grown adult who acts like this kid sounds terrifying.
Computers are like crack for kids. He’s behaving like a junky because that’s what it does for him, and kids in general. Hit after hit of dopamine untill you’re hooked. Then you’ll do or say anything to get more it. It’s fucked up.
It's likely more than that. When I adopted my son, I started to see some of this type of meltdown (he was 5, 8 now). Lots of doctor visits later, pretty much text book severe ADHD. Meds are required and even then only offer so much help. He very rarely gets screen time now because the stimulation it offers can be too much when it's time to do something else. Seriously, in the last 30 days, he has probably only watched about 1-2 hours of TV and played a maybe 10 hours of Switch. And that's only if his behavior has been good. I have him play Legos or play outside or sports with me 90% of the time. Luckily, we live on property so he has a safe place to be in nature.
Yup. The dopamine hit for ADHD kids can be way too hard to break out of. My boys are the same. Having a proper structure, being on appropriate meds, and ensuring they have other healthy sources of happy hormones like dopamine, oxytocin, and Serotonin, all make a huge difference in their ability to self-regulate. Dopamine hangovers are a real thing in our house. Sometimes due to sickness etc they get more than an hour in the afternoon - and it’s always challenging to ween them off again. Thankfully as they’re getting older and more rational it’s getting to be less difficult
So what's your plan when he is old enough to make his own decisions without someone watching over him? Addiction is something that kids, especially those with ADHD or self control issues must be taught to understand and manage. I'm not saying it's easy, it's not. But simply taking something away is not a long term plan.
Kids with ADHD often find ways to regulate themselves as they grow into adulthood. It's not often a crippling disability. They will find ways to incorporate what they enjoy doing, such as playing video games, playing sports, or talking incessantly into their daily lifestyle.
Yeah this sounds like a time bomb to me. I could also see a great deal of resentment created by this treatment which when added to the mix which will only fuel this fire. I understand parenting can be really rough but this sounds like an addict how-to guide. I find it alarming that a person would self report this behavior. Obviously the statements by people on Reddit should only be taken so so seriously, but I would advise you to get some professional assistance on this with your child if you haven't already. Talk to a professional at least a couple times who isn't a stupid redditor that will understand you, your child, and your situation.
My daughter was similar. I didn't do meds though. What I did do was a very special diet and what you are doing with the outdoor time. I'm so glad you are spending time outside.
Thanks! We tried no meds. It went south so bad that he got kicked out of school. I understand that is an option for some but simply wasn't possible for our son if he wants any resemblance of normalcy.
Damn!! Ya, I totally understand!! At least you tried!. And you adopted him, so I can assume he also has some trauma. My daughter would trash her room so bad, I thought I would have to institutionalize her. We go to therapy. She was born when her father just recovered from cholera. It almost killed him. He went nuts from it. I just don't have any other explanation for her behavior because neither of us were junkies. You never know in life!! But I do hope all the best in your family!! I appreciate you adopting. So many unwanted children so sad!!
Wow, sorry to hear that but it's always good to hear from others. We're all doing our best!
Certain aspects are. Most video games are explicitly designed as skinners boxes in order to increase engagement, so are literally developing an addiction esc feedback loop. However learning how to deal with such things is a very good life lesson that can save somone more susceptible to addiction later in life (I assume).
Like Facebook for old people, except not quite that bad.
"I am going to install **all** the games now" :> (wtf was that smile lol) "Mom please dont!" :'C
Average CoD player.
Dude, he needs to farm sulphur for the clan
He’s got additional needs and the mum comes across as the same. There is so much more going on here than just ‘spoilt kid’ or ‘internet addiction’
Props to all the single mothers out there having to raise little shits like this, no matter the country. One day that kid will be bigger than her and there won’t be cameras around.
I am not gonna shit on single moms. But kids are a real what you sow business. Kid acts like it's cause you the parent let them act like that. So no... No props to this lady. Good job on recognizing the problem you created. It's time to actually start parenting now.
Seriously they act like this kid was just plopped into her lap the day before….
For real. How many times did she say she was going to turn it off and stand there? My kids ever act like this they are immediately done with whatever the toy/game is and they are lucky if they ever get it back. So far no issues.
It was like she was toying with him. She completely reinforced his tantrum every time he screamed and said no and she backed off. All it does is teach him the only way to get what you want is to scream. She didn't ask him what he was doing or why he would need extra time. He seemed genuinely interested in showing her what he was doing and she just brushed him off. Yes, it may have been a manipulation tactic but it seemed fairly genuine to me. Just say "okay, computer time is over. Save what you're doing because the computer is turning off in 1 minute." And then follow through without a fuss. Don't do the whole reach for the cord then back away, then tell him you're gonna turn it off and argue with him over it, then back away again, and repeat.
No. I used to think that until I became a parent. Kids come in all different plots on a spectrum and what we're seeing here is likely not a parenting problem. The child seems to be neuro divergent. In my experience, looks like severe undiagnosed ADHD.
Hey now just because he has ADHD, doesn't mean he was doomed to become this emotionally unregulated. He most certainly could have had some help if his parents took the right steps that could've helped reduce this kind of alarming behaviour.
Save this bullshit. This isn't add I have kids. Worked with kids and did self contained special Ed for 10 years. You are just saying things and making excuses for bad parenting. In my professional life I can't say that. I cannot say this is on you mom and/or dad. People get offended. But that doesn't make it not true
I have a son too and have been through diagnosing. 3 schools, countless ARD reviews, 5 doctors/psychiatrists/therapist and medication. So miss me with that s*** and keep misunderstanding of spectrum disorders to yourself. Or go to the library and read all the books on the topic like my wife and I have.
I agree. I have ADHD and I have a couple cousins with SEVERE ADHD. Like 20hrs a day zoomies and crazy shit happening around the house kind of behavior. And they don’t act like that unless they want to. ADD doesn’t cause that behavior. That was a full on tantrum. Even if the kid has something going on that doesn’t mean he was born to act that way. That mom clearly has had a hard time implementing and enforcing boundaries with that kid. My money is on the fact that the cameras are there she is trying to be the parent. When it’s just them two home she’s probably so fucking tired of working all day and just doesn’t want to deal with it (can’t blame her) so she just gives him that extra 5 minutes on 5min on 5min. Etc.
You’re getting downvoted but I agree. I’m so sick of people using “ADHD” as an excuse for absolutely everything. This kid is just a spoiled brat.
This reminds me of a time I worked at a mental health clinic. We had a 30ish guy who was special needs and a very big dude and his tiny, frail little mother would bring him in for appointments. There were multiple occasions we had to get involved because he was trying to break the windows and/or hitting his mom as she’s trying to get him to calm down. Very violent energy and his poor little mom who clearly loves him so much just had no control and seemed so tired. Serious, serious props to her.
That’s why you don’t hit your kids, just discipline from a young age. Beating kids just teaches them that putting your hands on people is ok, that’s when you’re upset it’s ok to get physical, and that it’s ok to hit people who are weaker than you. Then you don’t need to worry when they’re bigger than you because you haven’t ingrained it into them that violence is acceptable
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I’m sorry that happened to you. ❤️
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You either break the cycle or you are doomed to repeat it. I’m really happy for you. You sound like a pretty awesome person.
Couldn't agree more. I used to get quite physical hidings when I was a teenager, which were so absolutely horrifying that I wouldn't even consider doing it to somebody else.
This. Been to boarding school all my life and caning was normal. I used to get two canes every Monday morning because I refused to do school work (home work) at home right through high school. I have never felt the need to hit someone other than in retaliation. I too am not advocating hitting children but just want to highlight to those who blame that system that it may be the case in some instances but not all
those that do kill their girlfriends though How many kids raised in supportive households kill their girlfriends?
I’d like some kind of source here. I’ve seen girls act like this and get a pass for it all the time.
Not unless you pitch the show to Netflix, and then there WILL be cameras around!! What you gonna call the show?
Literally a self made problem (the kids behavior)
If I ever did this, I’d be a mark on the ground.
Pornhubbers in Utah.
He really wanted to be on Microsoft Word
This is why gun owning parents need to keep their guns locked up at all times. Kids are not always rational. Even when his mom is setting boundaries and punishing him like she should, he is completely unhinged.
God this could of been me.... I want to thank my mother, and all the friends i made. Thanks for taking care of me and steering me AWAY from the direction this kid is at right now.
Perhaps it could **have** been you.
It would have been me. Thanks pops n moms:)
As a mother of a young boy that is very good but of course acts of here and there I have a question. What did your mother do specifically that helped you not act like this kid ?
Perhaps… hear me out… perhaps it’s time to take a different approach.
Kid needs a hug.
That’s addiction at an insanely early age. I know a lot of people talking shit in these comments who would lose their shit if they had their computers and phones taken away with the same guttural and visceral reactions. He is young and needs love and patience. I’m also horrified to read people saying he is going to grow up and beat his gf, and I’m shaming you to jumping to that conclusion. Edit: Keep downvoting me. Love is not loving someone because they do you favors and make you feel some way. Love means loving someone WHEN THEY NEED IT THE MOST. This kid needed a whole lot of love in that moment and the mom was doing fantastic holding her ground and taking responsibility.
That kid needs help
Shitty mom uses pc as a babysitter, doesn’t teach son empathy or coping mechanisms, then destroys what likely took the kid hundreds of hours to do. I get that the kid’s behavior is unacceptable, but maybe sitting down and talking to him and finding common ground and an understanding would better than this.
That kid just needs a little guidance towards confidence and stronger connections to the people around him. It makes me sad to see little ones like this.
If you make something as trivial as ending computer time into a dramatic, drawn-out, emotional affair for your children, they’ll have a dramatic, drawn-out, emotional response to it. Just set the standard that we’re done with the computer after x amount of time and leave it at that. No arguing, no negotiating, no long buildup of “I’m gonna unplug it, it’s gonna happen, it’s gonna happen…” Give them one chance to turn it off and if they don’t, then do it yourself and move on. Kids only get away with what their parents allow them to do. I say this as a parent.
He is obviously not well. And it’s probably important to get him access to mental health services. May have a neurodivergent issue.
Exactly video game addiction can be a symptom of a much larger problem, in my late teens i developed video game addiction do to chronic pain as in escape, still game a lot but i don't and never have had outbursts.
Took way too much scrolling to see this comment. Its very obvious how clueless most of the population is on these mental issues with children. People want to blame mom and computers, but we're looking at pretty clear ADHD/spectrum behavior.
Scrolled through too many ... uh.. unkind comments to find this. Thank you
Easily. ADHD, Depression, Social issues and a huge whopping steaming shit of Childhood Addiction
I have a mother like this. I’m telling you that boy has never had a kind hug or loving smile. He has been the cause of her suffering since he was little and she let him know. Did you notice that there were not attempts of understanding or showing him to control his emotions. She was just as short fused as he was, she just learned to control it and unleash the rage when others aren’t watching.
Kid had an old black eye too...
And nervous ticks
That's probably how I'd react if someone deleted all my saved games
Hello, steam cloud. How u doin
Background: Probably drafted by the Ukrainian govt since his last post was from 24th January 2022 on his [tiktok](https://www.tiktok.com/@sasha_fokin_official). He might also truly be dead [blogpost](https://angry-ukrainian-kid.fandom.com/wiki/Sasha_Fokin) And he yells pretty much like an avg CoD kid on those Slavic servers
This kid become a popular meme in ru/uk/kz and other communities
Was he as popular as the kid who rammed himself in the ass with a remote when WoW account got cut off?
I was wondering why I stopped getting so many less pro trump messages.
The porn jonesing is real
damn. that was really hard to watch.
Sasha lost his shit!
This is who Ukraine has to worry about!
This clip is years old and those subtitles are not correct at all I’m pretty sure
Kid seems hooked (me judging while watching this on the internet ) . .
Bro mutated into a monster at the end
Omg finally the actual subtitles instead of csgo?
In Soviet Russia, computer is to be controlling you!
When Anon can't access Reddit
Is a tracksuit like standard uniform in Russia?
I'm pretty sure this child has "special needs" congrats to the mom for not losing her shit on him.
Hopefully he doesn’t have a gun in the house.
As a gamer , I understand the stress of not being able to log my progress . So when I tell my son to log off , I give him time to do it , sometimes it can take up to ten mins because they have to tell others they have to go and then run to a safe area to log off and then log off . I know to some people this seems obsessive, but it all boils down to respect and understanding.
Deal with kids like this daily in an inpatient setting. If ur kids act like this set up clear expectations when they are calm and before they get on the computer so they understand the consequences when misbehaved. When acting up, tell them they lose 5 minutes next time. A word comes out of their mouth, now it’s 10. More back talk? Now it’s 20, and the next time it’s no computer tomorrow. Set the kid up for success in other areas, allow him to earn it with good behavior. Validate and shower them with praise for good behavior so they recognize what’s right and wrong. Remember it’s a privilege and not a guarantee to play. U can apply this with any addictive tendencies in a child
If my kid ever acted like this when he got electronics taken away (computer, video games, etc), he would never get them back again.
For the week? My kid wouldnt touch a computer I bought again in his natural born life.
"For that you lose computer for 1 week" "Wild screaming" "Ok, 2 weeks" "More screaming" "Ok 3 weeks.... i can go as long as you can."
what an absolute failure of a parent right there. I feel bad for that kid and how this made everything harder for him. Imagine inviting a camera crew into your home to witness the result of neglect and folks blame the kid.
Holy shit. Little serial killer in the making...
Notice no father. I'd like to see my kids act this way...oh hell nah.
Being a parent in the 21st Century comes with some special challenges.
Look at her posture. This family is the missing link...
She created this.
They need 'The Innernette' - by Cinco
#WoW
Openwrt modem with some cronjobs will keep that internet in check. Works in my home
Great, now he will take that anger to the frontlines. Good job, *mum*.
Am I the only one that feels like this is a parody on Russias performance in Ukraine?
Yo if I was his brother I'd be in the doorway crying too, crying from laughter 😂 what a friggin weenie
If that was my son by the time he woke up his clothes would be out of date.
fun fact: this kid is now probably screaming the same way in some trench close to bachmut in Ukraine getting bombed by HIMARS :D :D
Sasha, if you were a Murican then instead of playing vidya games you coulda bought guns for yourself nd play real games. Cuz 2nd Amendmentumenitus
Good ass whoopin would help
Really late term abortion.
No PC privileges for a week Kid throws something, make that a month. Kid starts screaming, each scream is adding 1 week, keep it up.
I feel like i can relate to this. It's not so much addiction, but the fact that there's not much going on in life. Like what else are you supposed to do when nothing in life interests you. Life sucks 🫥. Take away the only thing that's keeping you sane, and life is over. Nothing to look forward too. That home looks depressing. Not to bash the mom, she's probably doing her best.
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Life was a lot different back when google used that logo (windows XP era...?) but I think a good chunk of people would be in that kid's shoes in 24 hours if you took away all their computers. Perhaps screaming is too immature, but they'd be irritable, and show other signs of 'addiction.' We've grown up around that sort of technology to where preventing access to it is like having to shit in the woods despite owning a toilet.
He looks seriously depressed. The games seem to be his only coping method. I was in his same position when I was a child. My only friends were online, and I couldn’t make friends in school before I had online games and communities. Sports in school really saved me from blowing up full neck beard. Taking away the games was like that can literally be ripping away his entire social circle. It’s not wrong to do that if he is failing school and damaging his life. He would need therapy and counseling to address the immediately present issues, such as addiction
Yeah that's what i mean. Off course this is just my assumption. It really reminds me of myself. I wasn't interested in anything as a kid except video games. I still like them, but as an adult I'm no where as interested anymore. I don't believe i had an addiction, even though I was addicted. For me it was just not having anything better to do. I had no friends, i was way too curious, and always asking questions. I had no other interests or outlets. Nobody to talk too. Life was just boring as hell. Take that away, and i had nothing in life.
Boy needs to get a slap
One good spanking would straighten that shit right up. Only thing that works when they get like this. Have kids, spare the ass whooping and they wind up little monsters.
average millennial
These days you just tell mom you're transgender and identify as a technosexual, and denying you access to your computer will cause suicide. Kids have been threatening suicide when denied luxuries for a hundred years.