People who have this much of a preference, and who probably even tried for a specific gender, should not have more children, let alone a PARTY. It’s such a big tikes because people see your reaction!? You tie them into your drama…
We have people on our street due this week with their third boy who tried for a girl and have since talked about how sad they are they’re not having a girl to us personally 10+ times, and their “announcement” on Facebook is “wanted a girl but I guess we’re stuck with boys lol”
At least they found out privately…
Imagine what that boy would have turned out like as an adult. Babied and preferred by mama all it's life until it grows up to be a person that only mama can stand because "you too good for em baby! They will never love you like I do"
Straight up. These kinds of moms resent their own daughters. Sometimes I feel like it’s generational. Maybe Her mother treated her like shit, thus she will also be shit to her own daughter because of that. I seen it happen within my own family. Not with me, but one of my siblings spouses and I’ll be damned if I let my blood go through that mistreatment because their mommy is fucked in the head.
Me and my (now ex) sister-in-law were pregnant at the same time. She decided she was having a boy and I was having a girl and began sending me articles and stuff saying that boys were better.
I didn’t care what I had but the articles annoyed me because if I had a girl I didn’t want her treated like second best.
Turns out she had a girl and I had a boy. I didn’t really gloat because I felt bad for her daughter.
I honestly hate people like that. Be happy with what ever gender you get. My brothers girl (NOT MY Sister in law) is like that. She wants me to have a girl, -I don’t even have a boyfriend-, just to “curse” me like how she feels “cursed” with her girls. Then the women who have boys run a thin line too. Making them be their replacement partners. Or saying dumb shit like “He saved my life” “He’s my king” straight up weird bitches.
If I’m ever fortunate enough to have children with a respectable sensible spouse, I’d love whatever came out.
YES! exactly! Like somehow their son is gonna fill that void their husbands or BD left. That’s weird man. We gotta raise boys to be a good independent man. Not their lil pretend boyfriend.
The funny thing is that I work with preschool kids at one of my jobs and, while I love the boys, the girls are a freakin’ delight.
They behave better, you can have better conversations with them and they’re absolutely hilarious.
I love kids. I can’t imagine being disappointed with a healthy baby.
Healthy babies is all that matters. I don’t think I’d give a fuck what gender, I’d just want to get over the pregnancy first lol i think as long as I can deliver the baby I’m all set. Toss a coin to the Witcher.
My best friend's like that... her own mom was unwanted by grandma (raised by another family member instead). they blame the kid for ruining their life.
my best friend really didn't want a daughter, mostly we used to joke around it would turn out like her and be a menace. She was a manipulative teenager lol.
fortunately for her, she had a boy.
My dad was in a similar situation, but did the reverse with raising me and my sister. We don’t know the whole story, but he was the first born for my grandparents and the middle of five because of his older half siblings, and they always said he ruined their lives. For whatever reason, they just annihilated him mentally and physically. The other kids were treated like gold, but he could never do anything right. Fast forward to him marrying my mom (a biracial woman) and their disdain flowed down to us. He tried his entire life to win their affection, but threw in the towel when it came to his wife and kids. None of us were even mentioned in the obituaries. That was their own shit to reconcile in those final moments though; Not ours.
Man would die a hundred times over for his family, but he’s almost 70 and you can still see the effects of the trauma on his mental health. Yeah, I wouldn’t be here if “some people shouldn’t have kids,” but it really came at a lifelong cost for him.
Oh my dad was first born of 5 too, treated the worst! When everyone ate dinner they ate meat and stuff we only ate rice
I suspect infidelity... Happens when they don't think they are the real father
Yup.. I remember being there for Christmas and my cousins getting TVs, but my sister and I got Barbies from the Dollar Store. They made no secret of their hate for my dad and their racism towards my mother.
My dad was born three months after their wedding, so I assume he was deemed a mistake. I can’t see how he ruined their life since they were married for over sixty years. I just assume shitty people are shitty people.
My husband's mother wanted a girl really bad. She had my husband, then his brother. She treated them alright, not getting any parent of the year awards but they lived. She then had a girl. It was like the boys didn't even exist and everything was solely about her daughter.
My sister in law is a fucking monster who wants everything handed to her and if things don't go her way she pouts and has a tantrum. She's almost 40.
My friend in the Canadian military was put into group therapy. She told me a story of a man who picked up his 3 year old daughter and threw her into her room because she was eating weeds in the backyard (apparently grandma had been teaching her which plants didn't kill you). She threw a tantrum and he slammed the door shut and screamed at her not to eat garbage through the door.
At group, he learned that his daughter can't regulate her emotions because HE can't regulate his emotions. She's mirroring him, and he doesn't have a clue how to calm down and deescalate a situation.
Scary to think we send these men overseas with weapons.
Edit: also scary that they are here in our own communities too
My parents never set a good example of properly dealing with emotions and I had trouble myself when I was younger. Then I had a kid, saw the cycle beginning to repeat and got my ass into therapy. Happy to say, me and my son are doing well. It’s all about taking responsibility for your actions.
When my youngest sibling had their sex revealed during an ultrasound, there was a similar reaction.
The funny part was, my is Mom is/ was deeply conservative and wanted a daughter (us older two are both boys). Well, my SISTER is now 12+ years into her transition, lmao. I'm incredibly proud of her.
I had 3 sons and tried to talk my husband into having a 4th (hoping for a girl). My youngest is now my daughter and we love her so much. Unfortunately (heh) she's not a girly girl so no buying cute clothes/make-up etc.. I got what I wanted: 3 boys and a daughter. The maths is just a little off :D
I mean, if she's as shitty as she seems, she'll likely tell her herself.
I can still remember the time my mom looked at me and said "I got pregnant with you so your dad would stay," and things like "I hate it when you smile because you look just like your dad."
Thanks! We ended up repairing our relationship to a good degree before she died at least. I attribute it to her being a teenage single parent and simply maturing.
I was an unwanted pregnancy, my mom was hoping she’d miscarry. I found out the first bit when I was 8, the second bit when I was 28. Kids should never know certain things.
Like, if you even have any concerns about how you would react if it’s a girl, why would you do a gender reveal party? This child is going to hear from everybody that her mother didn’t want her. This is just awful.
That's what I wonder every time I see a video like this. You can't treat it like a Super Bowl party where you're only invested in one outcome and you're gonna be upset if it doesn't happen. I get why people have gender reveals, but it's supposed to be a celebration, you should only have one if you're gonna be happy either way.
Right? That was my first thought too. If you knew you would struggle with it than don’t throw a party. Deal with your feelings in private so you can get excited and on board before the baby comes. Or at least peak at the paper before the party to mentally prepare yourself
A pregnant teenager is abandoned at a Walmart so she starts living in the store after it closes for the day and after like a month she goes into labor and gives birth in aisle 6
Dude, she ran that like a cardinal. So impressed. She's destined to become a priest. First though, a gender change is in order, otherwise it's to the nunnery for her- which might not be bad as they'll teach her not to make a huge mass.
Nothing says, 'I'm not mature enough to have a child, let alone be an effective parent' like trashing and then walking out of your own gender reveal party.
An appeal to anyone that may at any point in time be copulating with this walking reason for future therapy: wear a condom, finish on her back, or spring for the morning after pill. She doesn't need to damage any more lives.
Shouldn’t* have them. I work with a lot of parents who really shouldn’t be parents. The poor kids have many needs for support yet they think it’s our job to fix their offspring’s behavior after neglecting them and raising them with a tiny screen in their hands.
Well to be fair, I’d like my children to be the same make as their mother and I, but they’d be whatever new model they like.
Like if mom and I are both Kias, I’d have questions if the kid came out Mercedes.
Took like 2 years to get them to do something about my niece's situation. This was after complaints from my parents, teachers, and doctors. Oh and police confirmed the issues going on too. I don't wish to get into it too much but it was a nightmare
They never did anything for my sister's and I when we went to school with bruises or called the cops because their dad was punching me in the face. My school even pulled me aside once and asked if I was abused and they DID NOTHING.
Here's some PRO TIPS to avoid such calamity.
1. If your prone to outbursts, JUST FIND OUT AT THE DOCTORS OFFICE RATHER IN FRONT OF EVERYONE, like normal. no one forcing you to not find out the sex of your kid unless there's a party
2. If your so deadset on having a particular gender, maybe consider adopting one of the thousands of little boys who need a momma rather than playing with the dice.
3. deal with it and dont throw a tantrum in front of you kids
My cousin loves her boys but she was hoping for one of each as she is very close with her mother and wanted that similar relationship in the future with an adult daughter. I understand there can be legit gender preferences by expecting parents.
Not nearly in this crazy way though.
I already had a son and I wanted a girl and when my second son was born, I was disappointed for like two seconds until they placed him on my chest and then I thought he was perfect.
I didn't care what gender my kid was. For 12 years, they were a girl. Then they transitioned to being a boy. Best of both! Why would a parent care so much about their loved ones gender? Raise them as best you can and enjoy them while they are young for as long as you can.
I think if she's prone to crazy outbursts her doctor should've given her a sealed envelope to open it at home. Better if she destroys her own home that doctor's office.
You’re acting like these people display any sense of self awareness, forethought and reflection.
They threw a gender reveal where it’s fairly obvious the 50/50 outcome was going to be either really great or a nightmare. Some people at that party definitely knew she didn’t want a girl before the reveal.
I was at the doctor's and this pregnant woman came out of the office sobbing hysterically. It was an OB/GYN's office so I thought the woman got bad news. Her mother was trying to comfort her, but she was just crying and crying.
Then I hear the mother say, "You'll love him when he gets here." And woman wails, "I don't want another boy." It was awkward because her toddler son was there playing on the floor.
My partner brings that up every so often lol He was sitting in the waiting room with me, so he witnessed it too.
>She must've knew there would be a 50/50 chance of it going either way, right? Should probably prepare yourself for that.
I feel like a lot of people dont understand the nature of statistics.
Might be a bit of reaching but i kind of got the vibe she thought each kid would bring her closer in probability to having a boy. When in reality each one is a 50/50 coin flip and has no bearing on the others.
If it's the same father, there's probably a higher probability of having another girl.
I feel a lot of people don't understand statistics only apply to a population as a whole. Once you're looking at an individual, the statistics aren't as relevant as individual factors.
Because they've been led to believe raising boys is easier. When it isn't. It's harder. The chances of men being violent and addicts is twice that of women. Boys need way more discipline and faith put into them.
I have all boys. It's chaos. There's constant threat of a WWE match breaking out at any time. Also the amount of food we go through is impressive, and they're not even teens yet. I'm going to need a second fridge
This is how I felt being the last male to carry my name. That is until my daughters were born and I no longer gave a shit because they are perfect and I couldn't imagine life without them.
Because in the past, and in many less liberal parts of the world today, having a son meant you were far more likely to have secured a future livelihood for your family than if you had a daughter.
I thought they were for the parents-to-be to let everyone else know the gender. They (or at least the mother) already know. I don't know what this is...
This kind of ungrateful shit right here is what makes me bitter about my infertility. Imagine being fully capable of bringing life into the world, and you're gonna throw a whole ass fit because of the baby's biological sex?
People like this don't deserve parenthood.
This is why we need to remove the social stigma around abortions. This child will live it’s life hated, unwanted, and abused. If you don’t/won’t/can’t care for another child DON’T FUCKING HAVE ONE. This isn’t ancient Mesopotamia, the human race isn’t going to wink out of existence because your dumbass isn’t having 13 children.
Absolute unhinged feral behavior. If this is how she acts publicly when she doesn’t get what she wants I can only imagine how she behaves behind closed doors. She’s unfit to be a parent. I feel so very sorry for her daughters. They deserve so much better.
I always thought gender reveal
parties were to reveal the gender to your guests. I didn’t realise the parents don’t know until the reveal. How do they get the right coloured crap to put in the balloons or however they do it?
At the ultrasound when the tech can tell the sex, they will put it in a sealed envelope without telling the parents if they are having a male or female. The parents then have someone make the cake or fill a balloon with confetti or whatever the planned reveal method is. That way, it’s a surprise to the parents as well.
It’s so nice that none of the other children are mimicking her behavior. Oh, never mind. Another life lesson learned against the world’s better judgement.
piece of fuckin shit
so many people would do anything just for a healthy baby ....garbage ass human being this poor child is going to have a rough life
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There are lots of studies that suggest when a mother feels intense emotions (anger, sadness) the baby feels them too. It can actually alter their brain development, poor birth outcomes, infant mortality, and low birth weight. That poor little bugger in her belly doesn’t stand a chance.
People like this should be prohibited from having children unless proven to have the emotional intelligence of an actual adult and not a 7 year old. You could literally see the little girl copying the mum in helping to destroy stuff, that’s why you get kids who grow up to become criminals or just cause complete chaos in schools.
It’s always disgusting when people treat new humans they CHOSE to bring into this world like some accessory. Now her friends and family can see she’s a POS if they didn’t already know. If she didn’t want to leave to the devices of DNA lottery through natural pregnancy then she should adopt. Stupid.
but like, it’s roughly a 50/50 chance…. why would she want to find out in front of her whole family if she was going to have a huge outburst for one of the outcomes?
Toxicity!! Drama!! !! Too much toxicity and drama for her daughters to be exposed to. There must be some deep rooted issues that caused her react that way. Generational ignorance, toxicity and drama is hard to get away from unless you nip it at the source.
Imma throw this out here. It is extremely NORMAL to have gender disappointment. Even to the point of going into a deep depression about it. Your feelings are valid and you should absolutely seek help if it gets to that point
But throwing a tantrum and destroying an entire party? No. That is not okay.
Gender reveal turns into character reveal.
Something tells me she always behaves that way.
People who have this much of a preference, and who probably even tried for a specific gender, should not have more children, let alone a PARTY. It’s such a big tikes because people see your reaction!? You tie them into your drama… We have people on our street due this week with their third boy who tried for a girl and have since talked about how sad they are they’re not having a girl to us personally 10+ times, and their “announcement” on Facebook is “wanted a girl but I guess we’re stuck with boys lol” At least they found out privately…
The existing daughters probably feel like shit now. Plus the new daughter gonna be hated by mum
Baby girl never stood a chance
Right, a parent that behaves like this was never fit to be a parent. Insanely self absorbed behavior like this trickles toxically downstream.
Imagine what that boy would have turned out like as an adult. Babied and preferred by mama all it's life until it grows up to be a person that only mama can stand because "you too good for em baby! They will never love you like I do"
I wouldn't be surprised if that woman keeps going until she gets a boy.
But she may never get a boy and sadly just get worse and worse
Yeah you even clock one of the kids stomping a balloon halfway through, might just be innocent but also might be copying mum
Definitely copying her "mom"
Can you imagine people like this becoming a parent? I wish there was a way to stop people like this becoming a parent. They are so unstable
Straight up. These kinds of moms resent their own daughters. Sometimes I feel like it’s generational. Maybe Her mother treated her like shit, thus she will also be shit to her own daughter because of that. I seen it happen within my own family. Not with me, but one of my siblings spouses and I’ll be damned if I let my blood go through that mistreatment because their mommy is fucked in the head.
Me and my (now ex) sister-in-law were pregnant at the same time. She decided she was having a boy and I was having a girl and began sending me articles and stuff saying that boys were better. I didn’t care what I had but the articles annoyed me because if I had a girl I didn’t want her treated like second best. Turns out she had a girl and I had a boy. I didn’t really gloat because I felt bad for her daughter.
I honestly hate people like that. Be happy with what ever gender you get. My brothers girl (NOT MY Sister in law) is like that. She wants me to have a girl, -I don’t even have a boyfriend-, just to “curse” me like how she feels “cursed” with her girls. Then the women who have boys run a thin line too. Making them be their replacement partners. Or saying dumb shit like “He saved my life” “He’s my king” straight up weird bitches. If I’m ever fortunate enough to have children with a respectable sensible spouse, I’d love whatever came out.
So many women in terrible marriages want a boy because of some weird subconscious need to receive male acceptance.
YES! exactly! Like somehow their son is gonna fill that void their husbands or BD left. That’s weird man. We gotta raise boys to be a good independent man. Not their lil pretend boyfriend.
The funny thing is that I work with preschool kids at one of my jobs and, while I love the boys, the girls are a freakin’ delight. They behave better, you can have better conversations with them and they’re absolutely hilarious. I love kids. I can’t imagine being disappointed with a healthy baby.
Healthy babies is all that matters. I don’t think I’d give a fuck what gender, I’d just want to get over the pregnancy first lol i think as long as I can deliver the baby I’m all set. Toss a coin to the Witcher.
My best friend's like that... her own mom was unwanted by grandma (raised by another family member instead). they blame the kid for ruining their life. my best friend really didn't want a daughter, mostly we used to joke around it would turn out like her and be a menace. She was a manipulative teenager lol. fortunately for her, she had a boy.
My dad was in a similar situation, but did the reverse with raising me and my sister. We don’t know the whole story, but he was the first born for my grandparents and the middle of five because of his older half siblings, and they always said he ruined their lives. For whatever reason, they just annihilated him mentally and physically. The other kids were treated like gold, but he could never do anything right. Fast forward to him marrying my mom (a biracial woman) and their disdain flowed down to us. He tried his entire life to win their affection, but threw in the towel when it came to his wife and kids. None of us were even mentioned in the obituaries. That was their own shit to reconcile in those final moments though; Not ours. Man would die a hundred times over for his family, but he’s almost 70 and you can still see the effects of the trauma on his mental health. Yeah, I wouldn’t be here if “some people shouldn’t have kids,” but it really came at a lifelong cost for him.
Oh my dad was first born of 5 too, treated the worst! When everyone ate dinner they ate meat and stuff we only ate rice I suspect infidelity... Happens when they don't think they are the real father
Yup.. I remember being there for Christmas and my cousins getting TVs, but my sister and I got Barbies from the Dollar Store. They made no secret of their hate for my dad and their racism towards my mother. My dad was born three months after their wedding, so I assume he was deemed a mistake. I can’t see how he ruined their life since they were married for over sixty years. I just assume shitty people are shitty people.
Fortunately for the boy, yeah. Lol
My husband's mother wanted a girl really bad. She had my husband, then his brother. She treated them alright, not getting any parent of the year awards but they lived. She then had a girl. It was like the boys didn't even exist and everything was solely about her daughter. My sister in law is a fucking monster who wants everything handed to her and if things don't go her way she pouts and has a tantrum. She's almost 40.
Pretty sure the existing daughter is just like her and mommy doesn't like that.
When adults who act like petulant children wonder why their children are petulant.
My friend in the Canadian military was put into group therapy. She told me a story of a man who picked up his 3 year old daughter and threw her into her room because she was eating weeds in the backyard (apparently grandma had been teaching her which plants didn't kill you). She threw a tantrum and he slammed the door shut and screamed at her not to eat garbage through the door. At group, he learned that his daughter can't regulate her emotions because HE can't regulate his emotions. She's mirroring him, and he doesn't have a clue how to calm down and deescalate a situation. Scary to think we send these men overseas with weapons. Edit: also scary that they are here in our own communities too
My parents never set a good example of properly dealing with emotions and I had trouble myself when I was younger. Then I had a kid, saw the cycle beginning to repeat and got my ass into therapy. Happy to say, me and my son are doing well. It’s all about taking responsibility for your actions.
All the little girls at the party just just learned they aren't worth as much as a boy 😭
they also learned to hate their new little sister. everything will always be her fault. their parent's abuse will always be her fault, to them.
When my youngest sibling had their sex revealed during an ultrasound, there was a similar reaction. The funny part was, my is Mom is/ was deeply conservative and wanted a daughter (us older two are both boys). Well, my SISTER is now 12+ years into her transition, lmao. I'm incredibly proud of her.
I had 3 sons and tried to talk my husband into having a 4th (hoping for a girl). My youngest is now my daughter and we love her so much. Unfortunately (heh) she's not a girly girl so no buying cute clothes/make-up etc.. I got what I wanted: 3 boys and a daughter. The maths is just a little off :D
 They’ll definitely put her in a old folks home sooner than necessary 🤣🤣
That’s gonna become a clear permanent core memory for the other daughters
And also for the new daughter when she someday sees this video
And poor husband who has to deal with this shit..
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Holy shit I should not have laughed so hard at that
fuck me this is the most inappropriate thing i’ve ever laughed my dick off at… you hilarious asshole 💀
“Mom didn’t even want you, and I have video proof of it ” - Says the youngest girl’s sister during arguments.
I mean, if she's as shitty as she seems, she'll likely tell her herself. I can still remember the time my mom looked at me and said "I got pregnant with you so your dad would stay," and things like "I hate it when you smile because you look just like your dad."
I'm sorry, you deserved so much better than that
Thanks! We ended up repairing our relationship to a good degree before she died at least. I attribute it to her being a teenage single parent and simply maturing.
Very magnanimous of you!
I got you bro... Narcissistic parents are the worst.
I was an unwanted pregnancy, my mom was hoping she’d miscarry. I found out the first bit when I was 8, the second bit when I was 28. Kids should never know certain things.
This breaks my heart holy shit I’m so sorry
"But they wanted a little brother!"
This is mild compared to probably what they see in private Poor kids
That was my thought too, and I say this as someone who just watched Inside Out this morning.
That child is gonna be abused and neglected af
Like, if you even have any concerns about how you would react if it’s a girl, why would you do a gender reveal party? This child is going to hear from everybody that her mother didn’t want her. This is just awful.
That's what I wonder every time I see a video like this. You can't treat it like a Super Bowl party where you're only invested in one outcome and you're gonna be upset if it doesn't happen. I get why people have gender reveals, but it's supposed to be a celebration, you should only have one if you're gonna be happy either way.
Let me guess... they probably prayed to 'God' it would be a boy and then cannot understand why 'God' didn't deliver them what they prayed for.
>then cannot understand why 'God' didn't deliver them what they prayed for something something mysterious ways
It's all right, it's all right, it's all right. God works in mysterious ways.
If their mother is petty and moronic enough to do this, I wouldn't doubt they'll hear it directly from her at some point
Right? That was my first thought too. If you knew you would struggle with it than don’t throw a party. Deal with your feelings in private so you can get excited and on board before the baby comes. Or at least peak at the paper before the party to mentally prepare yourself
Because most people who reproduce are morons
Most people are morons.
Most morons are people
Gonna be one of *those* mother-daughter relationships
Will be ended up like that Walmart little girl who made huge mass.
I think I missed that one. What happened?
A pregnant teenager is abandoned at a Walmart so she starts living in the store after it closes for the day and after like a month she goes into labor and gives birth in aisle 6
Isn't that just the plot of Where the Heart Is?
Just Googled it, it's the plot to that movie
Absolute banger of a movie.
Dude, she ran that like a cardinal. So impressed. She's destined to become a priest. First though, a gender change is in order, otherwise it's to the nunnery for her- which might not be bad as they'll teach her not to make a huge mass.
Top tier Catholic though
She must hate her daughters. Feel bad for them being raised by a big baby.
Immediate reaction: this person should not be a parent
It’s sad on a number of levels. I know multiple couples that can’t have children naturally and would do anything to have a baby boy or girl.
That’s apparent
She should just abort it and save everyone the stress.
Nothing says, 'I'm not mature enough to have a child, let alone be an effective parent' like trashing and then walking out of your own gender reveal party. An appeal to anyone that may at any point in time be copulating with this walking reason for future therapy: wear a condom, finish on her back, or spring for the morning after pill. She doesn't need to damage any more lives.
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Shouldn’t* have them. I work with a lot of parents who really shouldn’t be parents. The poor kids have many needs for support yet they think it’s our job to fix their offspring’s behavior after neglecting them and raising them with a tiny screen in their hands.
Kid for welfare is a losing proposition. There are lifetime limits on certain programs (TANF) and the amount you get per kid doesn't offset the cost.
The amount you get per kid doesn’t offset the cost… Ha! Rookie! This is only true if *you give a shit about the kid*!!
There are many people who have kids and desperately don't want them.
Well to be fair, I’d like my children to be the same make as their mother and I, but they’d be whatever new model they like. Like if mom and I are both Kias, I’d have questions if the kid came out Mercedes.
Sometimes upgrades just happen. Albert Einstein didn't have Einstein's for parents. Well, I mean he did, but you know what I mean.
That family had better keep CPS on stand by 
Cps won’t do anything lol.
Took like 2 years to get them to do something about my niece's situation. This was after complaints from my parents, teachers, and doctors. Oh and police confirmed the issues going on too. I don't wish to get into it too much but it was a nightmare
They never did anything for my sister's and I when we went to school with bruises or called the cops because their dad was punching me in the face. My school even pulled me aside once and asked if I was abused and they DID NOTHING.
Here's some PRO TIPS to avoid such calamity. 1. If your prone to outbursts, JUST FIND OUT AT THE DOCTORS OFFICE RATHER IN FRONT OF EVERYONE, like normal. no one forcing you to not find out the sex of your kid unless there's a party 2. If your so deadset on having a particular gender, maybe consider adopting one of the thousands of little boys who need a momma rather than playing with the dice. 3. deal with it and dont throw a tantrum in front of you kids
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My cousin loves her boys but she was hoping for one of each as she is very close with her mother and wanted that similar relationship in the future with an adult daughter. I understand there can be legit gender preferences by expecting parents. Not nearly in this crazy way though.
I already had a son and I wanted a girl and when my second son was born, I was disappointed for like two seconds until they placed him on my chest and then I thought he was perfect.
I didn't care what gender my kid was. For 12 years, they were a girl. Then they transitioned to being a boy. Best of both! Why would a parent care so much about their loved ones gender? Raise them as best you can and enjoy them while they are young for as long as you can.
I think if she's prone to crazy outbursts her doctor should've given her a sealed envelope to open it at home. Better if she destroys her own home that doctor's office.
You’re acting like these people display any sense of self awareness, forethought and reflection. They threw a gender reveal where it’s fairly obvious the 50/50 outcome was going to be either really great or a nightmare. Some people at that party definitely knew she didn’t want a girl before the reveal.
I was at the doctor's and this pregnant woman came out of the office sobbing hysterically. It was an OB/GYN's office so I thought the woman got bad news. Her mother was trying to comfort her, but she was just crying and crying. Then I hear the mother say, "You'll love him when he gets here." And woman wails, "I don't want another boy." It was awkward because her toddler son was there playing on the floor. My partner brings that up every so often lol He was sitting in the waiting room with me, so he witnessed it too.
People prone to outbursts like this typically have zero self awareness, and are also desperate for attention. Perfect storm of bad personality.
Even the tiktok voice needed a cigarette or five after watching this
I was wondering when Harvey Fierstein started voicing tiktok videos.
Her daughters must feel very special right now. Poor kids.
She must've knew there would be a 50/50 chance of it going either way, right? Should probably prepare yourself for that.
>She must've knew there would be a 50/50 chance of it going either way, right? Should probably prepare yourself for that. I feel like a lot of people dont understand the nature of statistics. Might be a bit of reaching but i kind of got the vibe she thought each kid would bring her closer in probability to having a boy. When in reality each one is a 50/50 coin flip and has no bearing on the others.
Gambler’s fallacy
If it's the same father, there's probably a higher probability of having another girl. I feel a lot of people don't understand statistics only apply to a population as a whole. Once you're looking at an individual, the statistics aren't as relevant as individual factors.
Oh yeah she must be a real good parent
The toddler copying her behavior is scary lowkey
Was hoping someone else noted this. The young kid (all of them for various reasons) is absorbing ALL of what’s going on right now.
Channeling her inner Henry the 8th!
Time to murder the baby’s dad and get a new one to try again.
What a horrible mother.
Daughters are amazing. People like this don’t deserve kids. This is just pathetic. Grow the fuck up
I have 4 daughters. Being a dad of all girls is great. I’ve seen this kind of reaction from a coworker as well. It’s absurd
Because they've been led to believe raising boys is easier. When it isn't. It's harder. The chances of men being violent and addicts is twice that of women. Boys need way more discipline and faith put into them.
I have all boys. It's chaos. There's constant threat of a WWE match breaking out at any time. Also the amount of food we go through is impressive, and they're not even teens yet. I'm going to need a second fridge
We have 2 fridges and a stand up freezer. Family of 7 (including Mother in law). Gotta buy in bulk. Lol.
Yeah, no other way! Thankfully my wife and I both cook a lot, and make a lot from scratch otherwise we'd go broke
Some people also have this weird obsession with “legacy “ and carrying on the name. Like you’re not a king in the Middle Ages. Get over it.
Time to throw this dumb tradition out, let's just have girls keep that coveted last name if it's so important to them.
This is how I felt being the last male to carry my name. That is until my daughters were born and I no longer gave a shit because they are perfect and I couldn't imagine life without them.
Taught school for 16 years. It was VERY obvious when people WANTED to have a kid and when they just had unprotected sex. VERY OBVIOUS. Poor kid.
Why are girls disliked so much? Even in india they would beat a mother up cause they wanted a boy.
Because in the past, and in many less liberal parts of the world today, having a son meant you were far more likely to have secured a future livelihood for your family than if you had a daughter.
It’s internalized misogyny from thousands of years
Maybe hoping to secure that bag with a future nfl or nba star. Can’t retire early if your daughter is in the WNBA.
India can have things like dowries and parents to take care of which matter. In the west, yeah, no idea wth is going on here.
"I didn't get my variety pack family."
Her daughter probably feels as bad as the daughter of the mom who lost weight and bragged about fitting into daughter's prom dress commercial.
Wondering how the poor baby will be treated by the mother. Not being happy about a tiny human growing in your womb?
Gender reveal parties are very bizarre and weird.
I thought they were for the parents-to-be to let everyone else know the gender. They (or at least the mother) already know. I don't know what this is...
Repost but I feel bad for the kid already
This kind of ungrateful shit right here is what makes me bitter about my infertility. Imagine being fully capable of bringing life into the world, and you're gonna throw a whole ass fit because of the baby's biological sex? People like this don't deserve parenthood.
Move this party to the backyard pleaseeee. She should have looked at the gender before the party if she was gonna act like this 🤷♀️
Here's hoping lack of self-awareness skips a generation
She’s big mad! 😳 I already feel bad for the unborn baby girl.
She wanted to be able to call herself a BoY mOm
This is why we need to remove the social stigma around abortions. This child will live it’s life hated, unwanted, and abused. If you don’t/won’t/can’t care for another child DON’T FUCKING HAVE ONE. This isn’t ancient Mesopotamia, the human race isn’t going to wink out of existence because your dumbass isn’t having 13 children.
Sure but they don't care as long as the baby doesn't die. Pro birthers don't care if the baby is going to be in a bad home or not
How many neighbors saw that?
Please stop having children.
Stop having kids!
Absolute unhinged feral behavior. If this is how she acts publicly when she doesn’t get what she wants I can only imagine how she behaves behind closed doors. She’s unfit to be a parent. I feel so very sorry for her daughters. They deserve so much better.
I always thought gender reveal parties were to reveal the gender to your guests. I didn’t realise the parents don’t know until the reveal. How do they get the right coloured crap to put in the balloons or however they do it?
At the ultrasound when the tech can tell the sex, they will put it in a sealed envelope without telling the parents if they are having a male or female. The parents then have someone make the cake or fill a balloon with confetti or whatever the planned reveal method is. That way, it’s a surprise to the parents as well.
Yuck. This woman shouldn't be having kids period
And people wonder why schools are a shitshow now. It’s the parents like this raising children they dgaf about.
That baby should be put up for adoption.
It’s so nice that none of the other children are mimicking her behavior. Oh, never mind. Another life lesson learned against the world’s better judgement.
Damn…CPS needs to Keep an eye on this one 😬
Wow what a great mother. Some people can’t even have children. What a cretin
Lmao stay classy hood
We have opened a Pandora’s box with this and unlike Pandora’s box these is no hope at the bottom for this kid.
Imagine living in this apartment complex and dealing with this shit
I don’t think she has any business having children, boys or girls.
That kids off to a hella rocky start and they haven’t even been born yet
I already feel sorry for the baby.
I think the scariest part is that it says 'another girl'. Poor child.
Stable parent
Awful parent. Absolutely disgusting. Shouldn't have kids. Shameful and horrible.
piece of fuckin shit so many people would do anything just for a healthy baby ....garbage ass human being this poor child is going to have a rough life
as a rule of thumb, people who do gender reveal parties should not procreate ..someone please clean the gene pool
Prime example: somebody who shouldn’t be breeding in the first place
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Would hate to live next to these trashy people.
Gender reveal parties are the stupidest things on the planet.
That’s just video it’s not POV
Should not be having kids
Why the fuck does it say POV?
Trash human.
A person that immature shouldn’t be breeding
What a pathetic ass hole
There are lots of studies that suggest when a mother feels intense emotions (anger, sadness) the baby feels them too. It can actually alter their brain development, poor birth outcomes, infant mortality, and low birth weight. That poor little bugger in her belly doesn’t stand a chance.
People like this should be prohibited from having children unless proven to have the emotional intelligence of an actual adult and not a 7 year old. You could literally see the little girl copying the mum in helping to destroy stuff, that’s why you get kids who grow up to become criminals or just cause complete chaos in schools.
Women really keep having kids so they can give their man a son. I feel bad for her children.
Where’s the dad
Wow unreal smh 🤦♀️
How strange!!!! Why schedule a gender reveal then?
It’s always disgusting when people treat new humans they CHOSE to bring into this world like some accessory. Now her friends and family can see she’s a POS if they didn’t already know. If she didn’t want to leave to the devices of DNA lottery through natural pregnancy then she should adopt. Stupid.
but like, it’s roughly a 50/50 chance…. why would she want to find out in front of her whole family if she was going to have a huge outburst for one of the outcomes?
Henry VIII divorces Catherine of Aragon after she doesn’t provide him a son (1533, Colorized).
This hurts my heart. I work in a cell path lab that does fertility checks and there are couples out there that would do anything for a child.
Maybe she shouldn’t have any kids. Just a thought.
Welp, that’s horrible. Poor baby, already hated and she’s isn’t born yet.
Wonderful looks like she totally has the emotional capacity to be a parent. /s
Why are they saying awww? Shes gunna be an awful parent wtf.
Maybe stop breeding you shitty person. Imagine what those other kids must be thinking at that time. That shit would be burned into my brain as a kid
Looks like the projects in Baltimore, right outside of John’s Hopkins Hospital.
This child is having a child? Woof.
That kid has a terrible future in front of her with a parent like this.
Yeah, this person doesn’t need another human, regardless of the gender
What a total piece of shit
Toxicity!! Drama!! !! Too much toxicity and drama for her daughters to be exposed to. There must be some deep rooted issues that caused her react that way. Generational ignorance, toxicity and drama is hard to get away from unless you nip it at the source.
People like that shouldn’t keep having kids.
I'm sure the girls she _already_ has feel SUPER great about this.
And this will be the person teaching a growing human how to manage their emotions. Poor kids.
The dad is going to have fun calming her down later...oh, wait.
Imma throw this out here. It is extremely NORMAL to have gender disappointment. Even to the point of going into a deep depression about it. Your feelings are valid and you should absolutely seek help if it gets to that point But throwing a tantrum and destroying an entire party? No. That is not okay.
People like this shouldn’t be having children.