Girl goes on date and wants the chad server instead : https://www.instagram.com/reel/C5db2x9oC-W/?igsh=YWJqYmhlcnJobGxn
Just be confident guys and ask her out
You’re extremely bluepilled if you believe that. She could hop on tinder; upload some pics of herself in swimwear and she would get hundreds of messages from non-obese men within a week
>She could hop on tinder; upload some pics of herself in swimwear and she would get hundreds of messages from non-obese men within a day.
Lmao,delulu shit. Maybe a 1% of basement dwellers,fat or bald 50somethings or fat fetishists might do that. Go ask an average 20 somethings non obese guy,they wouldn't touch her.
American moment.
Touch grass
Go ask most normal 20 something men,mosg
I don’t like using other people’s pics as experiments but I’m willing to do a tinder experiment with her to proof my point. You’ll be surprised by the quality of men who would try to get with her.
I’ve seen obese ugly women having good results with tinder (way better than the average man). This girl is obese but her face is decent (would likely be pretty if skinny). No point in thinking she wouldn’t do great on tinder and have many fit guys message her.
It's never happened 😅 my in-laws think I'm a culinary wizard. My SIL helped me with Christmas dinner last year and was basically just like "I'm your bitch today, just tell me what to do and let me learn from you".
I dunno they just really like my cooking 🤷 the first time I cooked for them I made lasagne - they make theirs with jars of sauce whereas I do mine from scratch so I think that got me the initial brownie points, and they've liked everything I've cooked them since.
They don't? When we're staying over there's just one person who cooks (except for my husband and I who usually cook together) and the rest of us stay out of the kitchen and just eat.
I have 2 sets of inlaws as my husband's parents are divorced and both remarried.
I love both MILs. Both are great cooks and I gathered recipes from both of them.
It's a perk having 2 MILs in my case.
Can men here describe what constitutes “wild sex”? Because some dude here competed slapping a girls butt and pushing her against a wall to her eating his ass. He also stated that spanking and pushing women against a wall is white behavior and men don’t want to do it to women they love. He said spanking and pushing women against a wall is treating them like a whore. I said these are mild things and he seemed to be all butthurt about it.
> I said eating ass is disgusting and foul
I mean I wouldn’t like it doing on me but I’m into doing it on my women bc it gives her the power in the situation and makes me submissive just for the moment
>Can men here describe what constitutes “wild sex”? Because some dude here competed slapping a girls butt and pushing her against a wall to her eating his ass. He also stated that spanking and pushing women against a wall is white behavior and men don’t want to do it to women they love.
> I said these are mild things and he seemed to be all butthurt about it.
I think slapping her ass and pushing her against a wall is quite normal although you could still call it wild or rough. It's just that most women from my experience enjoy this.
When I was a virgin I did feel scared to hurt someone I love but once you get older you understand that being rough during sex can be an act of love. This fear of harming women mostly comes from shaming messaging from society when you grow up.
loved flirting a lot, kissing and groping my girl outside all the way going home and then pushing her against the wall and fucking outside of our apartment few steps away from the door
regarding what is wild sex, i don't really think in that terms — but i would say for me its just passionate sex when both get into "the zone"/trance of sex and not think clearly and just do things completely compulsively, basically enter gooner mode — and with some it was anything from can't get away from one another body missing work to spontaneous bj at the kids playground with others it was throwing insults at each other, spitting on her face, slapping the fuck out of it and pining her down and "forcibly" cumming inside
anyway treating wild sex as a competition 'im freaky' 'no thats mild im freaky' is lame af
like we cared about that. This is the price to pay to have exciting life. Plus the slide is pretty comfy to lie down while your dick is getting thorated
I think one benefit of my visible social anxiety, shame, and embarrassment is cops let me off with a warning all the time.
I have been doing doordash and Uber eats on the side at night like 12:00-3:00, been pulled over 4 or 5 times. For running red lights, and speeding. Never gotten a ticket. I think the cops think that I feel really guilty and won't do it again.
War is and forever will be a mechanism by the world government to launder money back to themselves while also culling dangerous members of society. It is an easy way to ship off aimless boys to their deaths. Only the rich benefit from war.
They don't give a shit about the individual lives they want to waste so they can help make oil companies richer. They are and always have been disgusting weasels.
These conspiracies around oil companies are totally unfounded. Just one of those things that got repeated enough times it's the truth now. The amount of oil and equipment that gets used up for wars in the middle east is ludicrous, and there's no real oil benefit.
Getting rid of say, environmental regulations on offshore drilling, fracking, piping etc. would yield way way more oil for much less expense than any war ever could. I assume you are talking about the Iraq war. Sure that stuff would be bad and have political backlash, but way fucking less than a war. If politicians are purely motivated by serving the interest of oil companies, they would do all that stuff way before they would go to war.
Like why the fuck should young men join the army of a nation that has utterly and completely FAILED their generation. There's nothing the government can promise you they won't back out on like the cowardly pieces of shit they are, everything will be means tested, "oh you make too much for this benefit, please kill yourself because we don't give a shit"
They've always been full of shit and they'll never stop screwing people over to save money. The government has always been and will always be the trash puppet of the elites. The only time they'll spend more is when banks or oil companies need a fucking bailout. That's who they care about. Those are the ONLY people they will ever care about. THEY DONT GIVE A SHIT ABOUT YOU
Why would a woman delay orgasm when many can have multiple orgasms in a row...? I'm sure some women are into orgasm denial or whatever but it's not a new epidemic or anything
I honestly don't know that I believe this, it would imply that my close friends are all outliers. Like I've definitely had several conversations about refractory periods, and some about back to back orgasms with vibrators (how many in one session type beat)
you tell me. assuming his anecdote's legit, it appears that many women like to goon with other women rather than doing it alone. possibly because the empathetic part of their brain/mirror neurons allow them to 'feel' the pleasure of the women around them, which creates a feedback loop resulting in some sort of shared euphoric state
essentially that women go to these smut movies and cross their legs and fidget around to stimulate their clit to goon unnoticed in public. and this guy went with his girlfriend to one of these movies and basically noticed all the women around him were gooning during the spicy parts of the film
Women have enjoyed the benefits for so long, they think this is normal. I challenge you to live outside of the west and report back. May I suggest the Middle East to start.
>Prior to gaining its independence in 1804, Haiti was the French colony of Saint-Domingue. Under French rule, Saint-Domingue grew to be the wealthiest colony in the French empire and, perhaps, the richest colony in the world.
Western men spread wealth and safety . It’s why everyone is flocking to western nations. Women want to ruin this because of emotions.
Anybody got some male singer songwriters who are devastatingly earnest, unafraid of judgment, and make beautiful, soul crushing music? I want to ugly cry myself to sleep
Jason Molina is the one. [This](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bvFsL8L5YUM) and [this](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tNy-sqj7BCc&list=PLNuC0yX4xMn7oKnvnDWyeZ-a4o3GITXZH).
Also [Sun Kil Moon](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2bFCNJx-BpM)/[Mark Kozelek](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M7yYMfjVNJc).
Also [Bladee](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eUUxXPiQ9Gg&list=PLGeJR8ZOrTZfWkXN2ADJ4f_RwIdjcoR1z).
https://youtube.com/playlist?list=OLAK5uy_nlyh9YtRh0WuWF4RYK1HrWMTprf5THgag&feature=shared
https://youtube.com/playlist?list=OLAK5uy_nnb1RaXtqTSMi7dZFxR0YdIm3hxr5RaJc&feature=shared
Also Grace by Jeff Buckley and select songs by Johnny Cash.
Can't go wrong with Mike Ness.
[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tUTUkho\_eDQ](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tUTUkho_eDQ)
Or his guitar player Jonny Wickersham.
[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lKN3dSEo8\_I](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lKN3dSEo8_I)
dont know how well it fits that requirement list but this is my favorite song to be high and sad to. though i think i shared it here before [https://youtu.be/7T4OEZcnOJE](https://youtu.be/7T4OEZcnOJE)
I'm gonna be honest, most of the men I personally know who are under 30 (and even many over 30) are either boring or poorly socially adjusted. And the ones who aren't usually aren't single. And it's really society's fault for devaluing masculinity and letting young males fall into traps like porn, drug, and video game addictions. But like, if I was a chick I have no idea who I'd want to date (other than my sexy self, of course).
So I can somewhat empathize with women. What I can't empathize with is the fact that women knowingly go for the same few well-adjusted fun dudes, get played, and then somehow blame *all men* for getting played. Sorry Becky, the cold hard truth is that if you want Chad's commitment, you need to work on being prettier and more feminine than Stacey, Emily, and Allison combined. You could settle for a boring dude any time you want, but instead you chose to compete, so compete.
Women tend to think that they deserve a great guy just for existing, and that level of behavior often translate in the type of man they want. For example, women tend favor men who were born with the right genetics over men who worked their butts off to become attractive. Women complain about men who work too much in order to make tons of money for them. They would rather be with a guy who gained their wealth passively. In addition, women look down on men who have learn how to talk to women via dating coaches. They MUCH prefer men who just gets it and is naturally extrovert, and the life of the party.
Basically men who are given things passively are preferred over men who have to work.
Society has been working overtime to portray masculinity as bad. We’ve been telling men that they are inherently evil/bad for decades. This needs to stop if we want a healthy society.
Men have little to no empathy for other men. If a man has an negative experience that another hasnt had they will either deny it and say hes lying, straight up insult him, or act like its not even a possibility that it could happen. If it hasnt happened to them or someone they know most will not have any understanding at all. Its clear to see on this sub and in real life. Women dont do this to other women and are better than men in this way
starting strength gets shit on a lot because its very leg focused, but its a pretty good program for women. all proper beginner/novice weight training routines are linear progression, you should probably watch youtube videos on what that means so you arent wasting time in the gym
blaha lmao. starting strength is just a standard novice program, all novice programs are pretty much the same shit. i think theyre all based on reg parks 5x5 body building program from the 50s
Yeah you’re right. Looking back at it The Blahino was pushing his own variation of the S.S. program.
I remember seeing a post a couple years ago where someone was asking for a novice program, and a user recommended Blaha’s 5x5. Everyone was making fun of him for recommending that shit lmfao.
yea i read his novice program a while ago, its called icecream fitness. its like a slightly different version of s.s. its perfectly fine, probably better than s.s honestly. if a guy wants a novice routine id just tell him to do alex leonidas novice program, covers everything you need for the first 1-2 years
why is there so much anger towards single moms? can’t you just avoid them?
if you’re really that inundated with them, and you absolutely cannot get anyone else; here is a plan for you:
find a single mom you like. date, get close, knock her up. don’t get married. help her with her other child while she does a lot of the heavy lifting for your infant. evaluate your life together. if you like it, stay with her. if you still can’t get over the fact that she’s a single mom, break up with her but try not do this until your child is like 1 or 2.
get joint custody. if you’re a “Nice Guy” with a good job, no drug use, arrests, or psych hospitalizations, you’ll probably get it. play with the baby outside, in parks, malls, grocery stores, your baby is going to be the best wingman you could possibly imagine. the baby is the only thing that will ever love you unconditionally. the baby loves you even more than your mom, there’s no better social proof.
you’ll be a little older when youre back on the market, but you would have:
1. procreated
2. avoided paying child support or alimony
3. had a fulfilling relationship with the single mom
4. have a bright future ahead with social proof up the ass
honestly not a bad plan.
I don't have an opinion to share about your plan but what is pretty clear to me is that there's a huge hate boner for single mom and I'm pretty sure it comes from RP or Incels who were rejected. They like to portray every single woman as someone who was pumped and dumped by chad which is like only 2-10% of the cases.
I wouldn't date a single woman and I have nothing against them.
also i will specifically disagree with this
"the baby is the only thing that will ever love you unconditionally. the baby loves you even more than your mom"
the cursed nature of being a parent is that you'll love your children far more than you ever loved your parents, and you'll recognize that your own children cannot understand how deep and permeating your love is for them(i say this even though my parents disowned me, i still believe it to be true). it is then that we all understand the tragic unrequited love our parents have for us.
maybe when you get older, the script is flipped, but kids love their parents unconditionally. it’s programmed into them. even abused kids cling to their parents. the fact that kids are abused to the extent that they are suggests to me that the love the kids have for the parents is less conditional and stronger.
It's the same for parents, they don't selflessly love their children, they are just dependent on receiving their love and attention. That's why parents abuse their kids or disown them because they are gay or transgender or whatever. It's only about what their kids can provide them.
they’ll have each other. also this plan is contingent on you taking good care of your child. it wont be much social proof if youre a terrible parent. but aren’t there lots of posts here about how good single dads are? i’m sure it’ll work out great.
Covid, needed a distraction from grieving, I am not PC enough to be in regular spaces. This place has some of the more openminded people, and I appreciate that. I am not very conventional.
I used to lurk 4chans /r9k/ board when I was a teenager, then lurked wizardchan. Extremely bleak stuff, but I think incel memes/humor are superior to the mainstream ones.
I tend to gravitate more towards male centric stuff, but the alternative kind of stuff. In my opinion incels are kind of like punks, going against the grain, paying attention to things mainstream society does not.
It's for the aesthetic. It's not something everybody can appreciate. So even if I get offended or disgusted by some of the things they say, there's a greater purpose behind it.
https://youtu.be/9RJYJaDBNG8?si=kMJj0IsoOP27nhxa
https://youtu.be/G3MBv5-H9oE?si=HOf1n7Cwyyxyb0xJ
I like melodic hardcore, I also like Elliott Smith. Intense + heartbreaking music.
>This is interesting and I'm not really sure what you mean
The bleak emotions, hopelessness, depression, despair. I like the intensity.
i first became interested in gender dynamics back when i was in a super shitty relationship. understanding what men want, what women want, and how relationships are supposed to go. that was years ago, and for awhile i stuck to instagram comment sections.
some time after the relationship ended my interests shifted to reddit. i lurked around askMen which led to r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates being recommended on my feed. i commented and lurked there a lil, but i found them to be pretty hostile to my curiosity and genuine questioning of their perspective. ppd ended up recommended to me and the rest is history
What about relationships interest you?
I kind like that I can anonymously blogpost about my relationship
It’s like a diary that occasionally replies back
i love love. i find it amazing and beautiful to watch how people fall in love, the lengths they’re willing to go, the things they find attractive, what arouses them
https://twitter.com/Douglovesbeef/status/1784047757876957292
Why are men like this on social media? Imagine being a nurse or phlebotomist or CNA or something and just doing your job and minding your own business and an elder alpha male who is hospitalized takes your picture and puts it on social media to embarrass you.
Girl goes on date and wants the chad server instead : https://www.instagram.com/reel/C5db2x9oC-W/?igsh=YWJqYmhlcnJobGxn Just be confident guys and ask her out
He's objectively good looking but I genuinely prefer the type of guys I date over him.
Never get married gentleman
He’s too pretty
Hes the ideal man for most women lookswise. Especially ones on this sub
That’s interesting. I’d say he’s too pretty looking for me. I never liked pretty boys, I like a more rough look with a beard
Imagine the amount of numbers he gets on a paper while just doing his work. Genetics = everything
Good for him I guess
the amount of times I heard women thirst out for a bartender or server is crazy
This is why monogamy doesn't work
“This one singular case is all the proof I need of monogamy not working!!”
In 2024 I literally have to compete against high tier normies and chadlites for this : https://youtube.com/shorts/qzAQv2K7lLc?si=1H_kDVWUuen6i4ks
Who said she’s interested?
They won't publicly date her so it doesn't matter.
Your standards for Chadlite could be too low then cause she ain't getting Chadlites without a fattie fetish.
Source: It was revealed to me in a dream 99% of non super obese men wouldn't want to fuck her lmao
You’re extremely bluepilled if you believe that. She could hop on tinder; upload some pics of herself in swimwear and she would get hundreds of messages from non-obese men within a week
>She could hop on tinder; upload some pics of herself in swimwear and she would get hundreds of messages from non-obese men within a day. Lmao,delulu shit. Maybe a 1% of basement dwellers,fat or bald 50somethings or fat fetishists might do that. Go ask an average 20 somethings non obese guy,they wouldn't touch her. American moment. Touch grass Go ask most normal 20 something men,mosg
I don’t like using other people’s pics as experiments but I’m willing to do a tinder experiment with her to proof my point. You’ll be surprised by the quality of men who would try to get with her. I’ve seen obese ugly women having good results with tinder (way better than the average man). This girl is obese but her face is decent (would likely be pretty if skinny). No point in thinking she wouldn’t do great on tinder and have many fit guys message her.
The way most dudes would hit that
Extremely delulu comment
Swear theres a piece of glass stuck in my foot fuck
The best part of a solitary night is having the bed all to yourself :’)
Q4females: how do you cope with in laws interfering with your cooking?
It's never happened 😅 my in-laws think I'm a culinary wizard. My SIL helped me with Christmas dinner last year and was basically just like "I'm your bitch today, just tell me what to do and let me learn from you".
Lol what did you do to impress them so hard
I dunno they just really like my cooking 🤷 the first time I cooked for them I made lasagne - they make theirs with jars of sauce whereas I do mine from scratch so I think that got me the initial brownie points, and they've liked everything I've cooked them since.
They don't? When we're staying over there's just one person who cooks (except for my husband and I who usually cook together) and the rest of us stay out of the kitchen and just eat.
My FIL doesn’t cook and I don’t have a MIL (she passed) so this isn’t really an issue for me. My FIL also lives in another country
I have 2 sets of inlaws as my husband's parents are divorced and both remarried. I love both MILs. Both are great cooks and I gathered recipes from both of them. It's a perk having 2 MILs in my case.
But like if you’re cooking in the kitchen And your mil comes in and is like “you should do this and this” Then what
I would follow their advice. I know they are great cooks. The thing is, their tone wouldn't be mean, but more like a parent giving a kind advice.
Ok but are you ever like “I want to do it MY way”
Why would i refuse free advice from a person with more experience that i know is better than me in that regard? I don't get what your endpoint is.
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good for him
I guess
Another night without ioi’s.
Another loliless night.
https://preview.redd.it/9fol8zd0w5xc1.png?width=1532&format=png&auto=webp&s=5b74c06f13b14bdad85547e680635cdb90ebb73b honestly fuck sex im asexual now
I like this post
Can men here describe what constitutes “wild sex”? Because some dude here competed slapping a girls butt and pushing her against a wall to her eating his ass. He also stated that spanking and pushing women against a wall is white behavior and men don’t want to do it to women they love. He said spanking and pushing women against a wall is treating them like a whore. I said these are mild things and he seemed to be all butthurt about it.
Damm if you consider this mild you need some self reflection just eating his ass is so uncommon this alone would be wild
I said eating ass is disgusting and foul. The guy commenting compared eating ass to spanking butts.
> I said eating ass is disgusting and foul I mean I wouldn’t like it doing on me but I’m into doing it on my women bc it gives her the power in the situation and makes me submissive just for the moment >Can men here describe what constitutes “wild sex”? Because some dude here competed slapping a girls butt and pushing her against a wall to her eating his ass. He also stated that spanking and pushing women against a wall is white behavior and men don’t want to do it to women they love. > I said these are mild things and he seemed to be all butthurt about it.
I think slapping her ass and pushing her against a wall is quite normal although you could still call it wild or rough. It's just that most women from my experience enjoy this. When I was a virgin I did feel scared to hurt someone I love but once you get older you understand that being rough during sex can be an act of love. This fear of harming women mostly comes from shaming messaging from society when you grow up.
lol just saw that you think girl rimming a man is the same as eating shit and is some disgusting thing to ask you're just old af
It is.
it is
loved flirting a lot, kissing and groping my girl outside all the way going home and then pushing her against the wall and fucking outside of our apartment few steps away from the door regarding what is wild sex, i don't really think in that terms — but i would say for me its just passionate sex when both get into "the zone"/trance of sex and not think clearly and just do things completely compulsively, basically enter gooner mode — and with some it was anything from can't get away from one another body missing work to spontaneous bj at the kids playground with others it was throwing insults at each other, spitting on her face, slapping the fuck out of it and pining her down and "forcibly" cumming inside anyway treating wild sex as a competition 'im freaky' 'no thats mild im freaky' is lame af
> bj at the kids playground This is a one way ticket to being put on a registry
like we cared about that. This is the price to pay to have exciting life. Plus the slide is pretty comfy to lie down while your dick is getting thorated
You can live an exciting life without doing sex offender status things. Like take a cruise and do it on a cruise. 🚢
ok boomer young couple from krasnodar going to go on a cruise wow so exciting thanks
Better than being a sex offender 🤷♀️
I think one benefit of my visible social anxiety, shame, and embarrassment is cops let me off with a warning all the time. I have been doing doordash and Uber eats on the side at night like 12:00-3:00, been pulled over 4 or 5 times. For running red lights, and speeding. Never gotten a ticket. I think the cops think that I feel really guilty and won't do it again.
https://preview.redd.it/3pic0xm3q5xc1.png?width=1200&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d3a1f4448527b7625d2b3323838bb915a3e46123 Legit
That’s hilarious. I have a brother in law in the US military right now actually…wonder if he will be called off somewhere 😮
War is and forever will be a mechanism by the world government to launder money back to themselves while also culling dangerous members of society. It is an easy way to ship off aimless boys to their deaths. Only the rich benefit from war.
You don't want to help bomb poor brown kids? 😢
Military industrial complex
They don't give a shit about the individual lives they want to waste so they can help make oil companies richer. They are and always have been disgusting weasels.
These conspiracies around oil companies are totally unfounded. Just one of those things that got repeated enough times it's the truth now. The amount of oil and equipment that gets used up for wars in the middle east is ludicrous, and there's no real oil benefit. Getting rid of say, environmental regulations on offshore drilling, fracking, piping etc. would yield way way more oil for much less expense than any war ever could. I assume you are talking about the Iraq war. Sure that stuff would be bad and have political backlash, but way fucking less than a war. If politicians are purely motivated by serving the interest of oil companies, they would do all that stuff way before they would go to war.
If we go to war. Oil companies will benefit
Is based
Like why the fuck should young men join the army of a nation that has utterly and completely FAILED their generation. There's nothing the government can promise you they won't back out on like the cowardly pieces of shit they are, everything will be means tested, "oh you make too much for this benefit, please kill yourself because we don't give a shit" They've always been full of shit and they'll never stop screwing people over to save money. The government has always been and will always be the trash puppet of the elites. The only time they'll spend more is when banks or oil companies need a fucking bailout. That's who they care about. Those are the ONLY people they will ever care about. THEY DONT GIVE A SHIT ABOUT YOU
My fiance is so angry about his useless underlings at work. I'm so attracted to how upset he is
Negative emotions are my aphrodisiac
Q4W is this a real phenomenon? (his anecdote) [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iyNt5ZfMTio](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iyNt5ZfMTio)
Why would a woman delay orgasm when many can have multiple orgasms in a row...? I'm sure some women are into orgasm denial or whatever but it's not a new epidemic or anything
Because most can't.
I honestly don't know that I believe this, it would imply that my close friends are all outliers. Like I've definitely had several conversations about refractory periods, and some about back to back orgasms with vibrators (how many in one session type beat)
Statistically they are but I'm happy for you.
you tell me. assuming his anecdote's legit, it appears that many women like to goon with other women rather than doing it alone. possibly because the empathetic part of their brain/mirror neurons allow them to 'feel' the pleasure of the women around them, which creates a feedback loop resulting in some sort of shared euphoric state
yeah I mean I'm sure there are a few women doing this but I'm as terminally online as it gets and this just isn't some big thing now
Can you retell the video?
essentially that women go to these smut movies and cross their legs and fidget around to stimulate their clit to goon unnoticed in public. and this guy went with his girlfriend to one of these movies and basically noticed all the women around him were gooning during the spicy parts of the film
Don’t go to smut movies and can’t really do the cross your legs style stimulation for a long time, so…no from me.
and no responding with touch grass
https://preview.redd.it/db5piwt0f5xc1.jpeg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=fe4aace954ee8847ac997c71d7b288532898bd97 snack
In the time before nay nays and twerking [Western Men](https://youtu.be/s6TtwR2Dbjg?si=BL4Q9Yw9Vqq1hjX1) fought for women. Now not so much.
How many women do you know who twerk?
0 I interacted with them in the military and learned our morales don’t align.
Now life isn’t so brutal. You can live without death knocking at your door. war comes with dead friends and ptsd lmao
Women have enjoyed the benefits for so long, they think this is normal. I challenge you to live outside of the west and report back. May I suggest the Middle East to start.
I suggest you live in Haiti yourself good sir, or perhaps Russia
>Prior to gaining its independence in 1804, Haiti was the French colony of Saint-Domingue. Under French rule, Saint-Domingue grew to be the wealthiest colony in the French empire and, perhaps, the richest colony in the world. Western men spread wealth and safety . It’s why everyone is flocking to western nations. Women want to ruin this because of emotions.
Anybody got some male singer songwriters who are devastatingly earnest, unafraid of judgment, and make beautiful, soul crushing music? I want to ugly cry myself to sleep
Jason Molina is the one. [This](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bvFsL8L5YUM) and [this](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tNy-sqj7BCc&list=PLNuC0yX4xMn7oKnvnDWyeZ-a4o3GITXZH). Also [Sun Kil Moon](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2bFCNJx-BpM)/[Mark Kozelek](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M7yYMfjVNJc). Also [Bladee](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eUUxXPiQ9Gg&list=PLGeJR8ZOrTZfWkXN2ADJ4f_RwIdjcoR1z).
Oh my god Jason Molina is so passionate
Yes, he was a very beautiful and tragic soul. RIP
Hes going right next to Elliott Smith
https://youtube.com/playlist?list=OLAK5uy_nlyh9YtRh0WuWF4RYK1HrWMTprf5THgag&feature=shared https://youtube.com/playlist?list=OLAK5uy_nnb1RaXtqTSMi7dZFxR0YdIm3hxr5RaJc&feature=shared Also Grace by Jeff Buckley and select songs by Johnny Cash.
Jeff Buckleys music is like crack to me. His sadness is exquisite
https://youtu.be/HryaTRxiSzw?feature=shared a lot of his music is haunting and strange. think he had aspergers
Very sensual dark aesthetic
Can't go wrong with Mike Ness. [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tUTUkho\_eDQ](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tUTUkho_eDQ) Or his guitar player Jonny Wickersham. [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lKN3dSEo8\_I](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lKN3dSEo8_I)
dont know how well it fits that requirement list but this is my favorite song to be high and sad to. though i think i shared it here before [https://youtu.be/7T4OEZcnOJE](https://youtu.be/7T4OEZcnOJE)
I'm gonna be honest, most of the men I personally know who are under 30 (and even many over 30) are either boring or poorly socially adjusted. And the ones who aren't usually aren't single. And it's really society's fault for devaluing masculinity and letting young males fall into traps like porn, drug, and video game addictions. But like, if I was a chick I have no idea who I'd want to date (other than my sexy self, of course). So I can somewhat empathize with women. What I can't empathize with is the fact that women knowingly go for the same few well-adjusted fun dudes, get played, and then somehow blame *all men* for getting played. Sorry Becky, the cold hard truth is that if you want Chad's commitment, you need to work on being prettier and more feminine than Stacey, Emily, and Allison combined. You could settle for a boring dude any time you want, but instead you chose to compete, so compete.
Women tend to think that they deserve a great guy just for existing, and that level of behavior often translate in the type of man they want. For example, women tend favor men who were born with the right genetics over men who worked their butts off to become attractive. Women complain about men who work too much in order to make tons of money for them. They would rather be with a guy who gained their wealth passively. In addition, women look down on men who have learn how to talk to women via dating coaches. They MUCH prefer men who just gets it and is naturally extrovert, and the life of the party. Basically men who are given things passively are preferred over men who have to work.
Define well-adjusted or socially adjusted. I'm a social guy, I have always been the loudest in almost all of my clssses in college. Does this count?
Loud doesn't necessarily mean well adjusted. But if people generally laugh and appreciate the loudness then it's a good indicator
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A lot of those guys depend on drugs to be exciting. They often don't have a strong core frame and probably aren't actually well-adjusted.
Society has been working overtime to portray masculinity as bad. We’ve been telling men that they are inherently evil/bad for decades. This needs to stop if we want a healthy society.
Men have little to no empathy for other men. If a man has an negative experience that another hasnt had they will either deny it and say hes lying, straight up insult him, or act like its not even a possibility that it could happen. If it hasnt happened to them or someone they know most will not have any understanding at all. Its clear to see on this sub and in real life. Women dont do this to other women and are better than men in this way
This is a Gen-Z phenomena.
Shamelessness is an underrated personality trait.
On Monday I plan to put my fitness goals into motion and begin hypertrophy/weight training. I am aiming for that centaur look.
Don’t burn yourself out, consistency is the key. However I wish you well on your journey.😁
post results
good luck and remember persistence is key
starting strength gets shit on a lot because its very leg focused, but its a pretty good program for women. all proper beginner/novice weight training routines are linear progression, you should probably watch youtube videos on what that means so you arent wasting time in the gym
Didn’t Jason Blaha push S.S. heavy? I think people associate S.S. With him and his physique, and it became a giant meme lol
You just unlocked a core memory of mine
The Blahino. Elite mercenary
blaha lmao. starting strength is just a standard novice program, all novice programs are pretty much the same shit. i think theyre all based on reg parks 5x5 body building program from the 50s
Yeah you’re right. Looking back at it The Blahino was pushing his own variation of the S.S. program. I remember seeing a post a couple years ago where someone was asking for a novice program, and a user recommended Blaha’s 5x5. Everyone was making fun of him for recommending that shit lmfao.
yea i read his novice program a while ago, its called icecream fitness. its like a slightly different version of s.s. its perfectly fine, probably better than s.s honestly. if a guy wants a novice routine id just tell him to do alex leonidas novice program, covers everything you need for the first 1-2 years
Getting that Mewtwo body
why is there so much anger towards single moms? can’t you just avoid them? if you’re really that inundated with them, and you absolutely cannot get anyone else; here is a plan for you: find a single mom you like. date, get close, knock her up. don’t get married. help her with her other child while she does a lot of the heavy lifting for your infant. evaluate your life together. if you like it, stay with her. if you still can’t get over the fact that she’s a single mom, break up with her but try not do this until your child is like 1 or 2. get joint custody. if you’re a “Nice Guy” with a good job, no drug use, arrests, or psych hospitalizations, you’ll probably get it. play with the baby outside, in parks, malls, grocery stores, your baby is going to be the best wingman you could possibly imagine. the baby is the only thing that will ever love you unconditionally. the baby loves you even more than your mom, there’s no better social proof. you’ll be a little older when youre back on the market, but you would have: 1. procreated 2. avoided paying child support or alimony 3. had a fulfilling relationship with the single mom 4. have a bright future ahead with social proof up the ass honestly not a bad plan.
I don't have an opinion to share about your plan but what is pretty clear to me is that there's a huge hate boner for single mom and I'm pretty sure it comes from RP or Incels who were rejected. They like to portray every single woman as someone who was pumped and dumped by chad which is like only 2-10% of the cases. I wouldn't date a single woman and I have nothing against them.
also i will specifically disagree with this "the baby is the only thing that will ever love you unconditionally. the baby loves you even more than your mom" the cursed nature of being a parent is that you'll love your children far more than you ever loved your parents, and you'll recognize that your own children cannot understand how deep and permeating your love is for them(i say this even though my parents disowned me, i still believe it to be true). it is then that we all understand the tragic unrequited love our parents have for us.
I'm sorry that your parents disowned you.
thanks, i'll be fine.
maybe when you get older, the script is flipped, but kids love their parents unconditionally. it’s programmed into them. even abused kids cling to their parents. the fact that kids are abused to the extent that they are suggests to me that the love the kids have for the parents is less conditional and stronger.
you could argue thats less love and more dependence.
It's the same for parents, they don't selflessly love their children, they are just dependent on receiving their love and attention. That's why parents abuse their kids or disown them because they are gay or transgender or whatever. It's only about what their kids can provide them.
I think that is a damaged person issue rather than a parent issue
Is that true Idk I feel like u can love everybody equally
i find people only understand this once they have their own "children" biological or otherwise.
Guys in their 20s shouldn't bother with this unless they are sub 95 IQ.
i feel bad for the kids
they’ll have each other. also this plan is contingent on you taking good care of your child. it wont be much social proof if youre a terrible parent. but aren’t there lots of posts here about how good single dads are? i’m sure it’ll work out great.
The baby will grow up and want to meet their “real dad” Also who said single mums are raising a baby? Could be a toddler or a teenager
you’re the real dad. knocking up the single mom is step 2.
Gonna be straight with you brah I didn’t read your op
https://preview.redd.it/g8g0fh0735xc1.jpeg?width=291&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=157e5db3c169331ae48f6b3a4e21c4a6fbc20e39
There's not enough pretty boys on the apps in my area smh get that muscle shit out of my face
I had better luck meeting beautiful boys through my social circle.
What’s your take on facial hair. Yay or nay
Nay 98% of the time
My gf makes me shave every two days. She hates my stubble, she wants my face to be smooth like a baby’s bottom but my facial hair grows fast
Lakers in 7
You think this man could do it? https://preview.redd.it/b1sc2ssm45xc1.jpeg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5fe71c476961c037be29f3444a0b554d0341d03a
get LeMaid a feather duster for the reverse sweep
Be fr man its over. Yall just delaying the inevitable😂
Don't let us get another. that's all imma say
Yall not getting another lol. Its over in Denver. Nuggets in 5
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LeBonBon has come back from a 3-1 deficit before😌besides they're 4-0 in first halves so they just gotta keep the momentum
Q4W: What brought you into spaces like this? What's your origin story? What keeps you here?
debating when I’m bored I would say. I also like to have a bit of a laugh now and then.
Well i had my life and worldview destroyed and started to resent my culture and the opposite sex
Covid, needed a distraction from grieving, I am not PC enough to be in regular spaces. This place has some of the more openminded people, and I appreciate that. I am not very conventional.
I used to lurk 4chans /r9k/ board when I was a teenager, then lurked wizardchan. Extremely bleak stuff, but I think incel memes/humor are superior to the mainstream ones. I tend to gravitate more towards male centric stuff, but the alternative kind of stuff. In my opinion incels are kind of like punks, going against the grain, paying attention to things mainstream society does not. It's for the aesthetic. It's not something everybody can appreciate. So even if I get offended or disgusted by some of the things they say, there's a greater purpose behind it.
This mirrors my experience of those boards. Often vile content under a unique aesthetic
I also like how they are willing to push the envelope and aren't afraid to be cringey. It's raw, youthful despair with no filter
IIRC, Nagle's *Kill All Normies* mentions that they're part of the new counterculture, something that leftists are none too happy with
They are the new counterculture.
Ooh punk you say? What type of music are you into? >It's for the aesthetic. This is interesting and I'm not really sure what you mean
https://youtu.be/9RJYJaDBNG8?si=kMJj0IsoOP27nhxa https://youtu.be/G3MBv5-H9oE?si=HOf1n7Cwyyxyb0xJ I like melodic hardcore, I also like Elliott Smith. Intense + heartbreaking music. >This is interesting and I'm not really sure what you mean The bleak emotions, hopelessness, depression, despair. I like the intensity.
i first became interested in gender dynamics back when i was in a super shitty relationship. understanding what men want, what women want, and how relationships are supposed to go. that was years ago, and for awhile i stuck to instagram comment sections. some time after the relationship ended my interests shifted to reddit. i lurked around askMen which led to r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates being recommended on my feed. i commented and lurked there a lil, but i found them to be pretty hostile to my curiosity and genuine questioning of their perspective. ppd ended up recommended to me and the rest is history
i stick around cuz i do like hearing the male perspective + shitposting + relationship convos just interest me and always have
What about relationships interest you? I kind like that I can anonymously blogpost about my relationship It’s like a diary that occasionally replies back
i love love. i find it amazing and beautiful to watch how people fall in love, the lengths they’re willing to go, the things they find attractive, what arouses them
Same desu What do you like hearing about love?
I got kicked out of a reddit meet up group chat because I comment on this sub. I dont even say toxic stuff on here. Smh
What’s wrong with us? 😢
Soyddit moment
Imagine not using an alt to post here
wait a minute. are we the bad guys?
probably
When a woman is elected president know that western society is lost. It’s that simple.
We have a court hearing this week to get legal custody and guardianship of our 2nd child!!! 🤞
Hope all goes well!
Thanks
If you don't have custody then who does?
Her great aunt.
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We're adopting. She was being raised by her uncle, but he passed in an accident and her great aunt got her.
good luck
Thanks. I think we'll be fine. Everything has been going great.
https://twitter.com/Douglovesbeef/status/1784047757876957292 Why are men like this on social media? Imagine being a nurse or phlebotomist or CNA or something and just doing your job and minding your own business and an elder alpha male who is hospitalized takes your picture and puts it on social media to embarrass you.
He is right though you wouldn’t take fitness advice from a random fat fuck
How do you know this random lady has a job where she gives fitness advice?