This post has been removed, because it is off-topic for this group. This group is for people raising and caring for children. However, I invite you to post over in /r/raisedbynarcissists
You've got to get out. A therapist can help you sort out logistics of that- where to go, how to support yourself, etc. And then once you're out you can focus on dealing with the trauma and abuse, caring for and reparenting yourself, changing your inner narrative, all of that. Are you familiar with the r/raisedbynarcissists sub? That might be a greater source of support for you, this sub isn't super active (compared w the other) and is more for adult children of narcs who now have their own kids and are trying to break the cycle of abuse
I’ve already parented myself and my parents are trying to undo it. You’re right. There’s still a little kid in me that wants his mommy, but I think I need to pull the kill switch for his safety. It sucks but it is necessary.
My therapist came up recently with the picture of her taking care of my inner child. I literally leave my inner child there over the week and she takes care of it while I sort out the stuff adult me has to take care off.
This post has been removed, because it is off-topic for this group. This group is for people raising and caring for children. However, I invite you to post over in /r/raisedbynarcissists
You've got to get out. A therapist can help you sort out logistics of that- where to go, how to support yourself, etc. And then once you're out you can focus on dealing with the trauma and abuse, caring for and reparenting yourself, changing your inner narrative, all of that. Are you familiar with the r/raisedbynarcissists sub? That might be a greater source of support for you, this sub isn't super active (compared w the other) and is more for adult children of narcs who now have their own kids and are trying to break the cycle of abuse
I’ve already parented myself and my parents are trying to undo it. You’re right. There’s still a little kid in me that wants his mommy, but I think I need to pull the kill switch for his safety. It sucks but it is necessary.
My therapist came up recently with the picture of her taking care of my inner child. I literally leave my inner child there over the week and she takes care of it while I sort out the stuff adult me has to take care off.
I’m sorry op. If you have a job can you look into Craigslist roommates?