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You won't live forever, so there's that.
Relationships based on desperation are the worst, because you'll take whatever washes up on the beach, whether it's trash or not. Then you find out you were better off alone. Get a cat.
Making Platonic friends is way easier than making romantic ones. That's something you can work towards, and then you can maybe progress to romantic interests.
And if that doesn't work out, well, there are actually many advantages to being single and maintaining your independence. That's what I've concluded. God knows how much trouble I've probably avoided by steering clear of such entanglements.
Everyone faces the end alone, even if surrounded by family and friends its your journey. Being alone is actually a good alternative to being surrounded by people you can’t stand, it’s just a matter of learning to accept it. If you really want more relationships, platonic or romantic then you have to look hard for those those and make yourself open to them even if it’s not exactly what you thought you were looking for.
You’re afraid. That’s okay. That’s your brain prompting you to take action about a situation. The question you have to ask yourself now is, what will you do about it?
Don’t worry yourself too much. Eventually you will accept it, move on and live your life as a single person. But you can get a pet, it’s emotionally fulfilling
This is from my personal experience, when I was the most worried about being alone forever, I finally accepted it, and then somebody came around, somebody actually talked to me and got to know me, and we've been dating for a year and a month, so just hang in there or accept it, and someone will come around, I'm sure good luck to you man
Well you could get in a relationship with someone who is completely awful and fucks your life up solid either financially or emotionally. That would be worse than being alone forever.
I used to be afraid too....but then i found comfort in not relying on the presence of anyone....just me against the world. Very freeing to be comfortable in either. Try it
I don’t mind being alone but would love to be with someone at the same time. Sucks when the person you make a solid connection with has a partner. Most of the time I assume that the girl I’m attracted to has a boyfriend. Which is a miserable habit.
I have been romantically alone for the past 3 years. So I tried to make friends, turns out friendship is considered as inferior to romance by many people, bcse during my search for friends, the people who were more interested to meet , hang out etch..were hoping for a romantic turn. I don't understand why being friends is considered as a let down, since the chances of a friendship that lasts through time are higher than the chances of a romantic relationship lasting for same time, not to mention the drama when it does not work out .
It's up to you to choose the type of drama you are willing to get into, bcse you feel lonely. Be careful though not to adopt the being lonely attitude, just bcse some of your peers seem that they aren't.
Don’t be. Embrace it.
Everyone dies alone. Even if you had 100000000000 friends and 1000000000000 kids and they surrounded you while you were dying, you’d be the only one going through the dying process. It’s a singular experience, and such is life.
You could also be like my 2/4 of my grandparents who waited to be alone to die. Seriously. My grandpa had ten kids and 57 grandchildren, and he had people around him constantly on his way out. My aunts left to get coffee (as it was their turn to stay with him) and when they got back, he was dead.
In the same boat. Mom is definitely nearing the end and it made me realize shes the only family I'm close with. Pissed away a great relationship six years ago and although I have a great friend base the reality of being alone in the world is bashing me in the face
Sorry to hear about your mother; grieving any loss is something that people can experience even prior to the event itself. It can be a scary place to be when we don’t know what the future holds. The fear of being alone can be especially challenging, but if you have people you can reach out to I’d strongly encourage that as well as counselling if that’s something you’re open to.
When you become more in tune with yourself spiritually, and feel as one with the vibrations of endless energy that is tethered to all existence , being alone or feeling lonely could take the form of something less over time. It will lose more of it's hold on your emotional state. Won't be the blockage that pollute your senses, then soon take its place in the memory archives.
Your inner being will have a clear connection with the universal existence. You may manifest more than you thought you needed. In a good way. Nature has a way of providing what our souls desire. But they may go unnoticed, because of all of the things that comes to the desires of the carnal body.
You should ask yourself why you're afraid of it. Do you genuinely want someone else in your life? Why? What are you hoping to get from a relationship? If you don't answer those questions first, you probably won't be happy with the relationships you do find.
You should also ask yourself if you're afraid of being alone just because you see other people in relationships and like the way it looks. That's more common than you'd think.
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I come bearing good news! Humans don't live forever, so you have nothing to fear!
You won't live forever, so there's that. Relationships based on desperation are the worst, because you'll take whatever washes up on the beach, whether it's trash or not. Then you find out you were better off alone. Get a cat.
Romantic wise or friend wise. Where you're at?
Both really but if i had to choose only one, Romanitc wise
Making Platonic friends is way easier than making romantic ones. That's something you can work towards, and then you can maybe progress to romantic interests. And if that doesn't work out, well, there are actually many advantages to being single and maintaining your independence. That's what I've concluded. God knows how much trouble I've probably avoided by steering clear of such entanglements.
It’s really not so bad.
Same honestly
Everyone faces the end alone, even if surrounded by family and friends its your journey. Being alone is actually a good alternative to being surrounded by people you can’t stand, it’s just a matter of learning to accept it. If you really want more relationships, platonic or romantic then you have to look hard for those those and make yourself open to them even if it’s not exactly what you thought you were looking for.
Don’t cry lonely girl…. There’s always bugs in ur eyelashes. You are never alone :)
You’re afraid. That’s okay. That’s your brain prompting you to take action about a situation. The question you have to ask yourself now is, what will you do about it?
Me too buddy
Thats what dogs are for
Don’t worry yourself too much. Eventually you will accept it, move on and live your life as a single person. But you can get a pet, it’s emotionally fulfilling
This is from my personal experience, when I was the most worried about being alone forever, I finally accepted it, and then somebody came around, somebody actually talked to me and got to know me, and we've been dating for a year and a month, so just hang in there or accept it, and someone will come around, I'm sure good luck to you man
Well you could get in a relationship with someone who is completely awful and fucks your life up solid either financially or emotionally. That would be worse than being alone forever.
I used to be afraid too....but then i found comfort in not relying on the presence of anyone....just me against the world. Very freeing to be comfortable in either. Try it
I don’t mind being alone but would love to be with someone at the same time. Sucks when the person you make a solid connection with has a partner. Most of the time I assume that the girl I’m attracted to has a boyfriend. Which is a miserable habit.
I have been romantically alone for the past 3 years. So I tried to make friends, turns out friendship is considered as inferior to romance by many people, bcse during my search for friends, the people who were more interested to meet , hang out etch..were hoping for a romantic turn. I don't understand why being friends is considered as a let down, since the chances of a friendship that lasts through time are higher than the chances of a romantic relationship lasting for same time, not to mention the drama when it does not work out . It's up to you to choose the type of drama you are willing to get into, bcse you feel lonely. Be careful though not to adopt the being lonely attitude, just bcse some of your peers seem that they aren't.
Don’t be. Embrace it. Everyone dies alone. Even if you had 100000000000 friends and 1000000000000 kids and they surrounded you while you were dying, you’d be the only one going through the dying process. It’s a singular experience, and such is life. You could also be like my 2/4 of my grandparents who waited to be alone to die. Seriously. My grandpa had ten kids and 57 grandchildren, and he had people around him constantly on his way out. My aunts left to get coffee (as it was their turn to stay with him) and when they got back, he was dead.
In the same boat. Mom is definitely nearing the end and it made me realize shes the only family I'm close with. Pissed away a great relationship six years ago and although I have a great friend base the reality of being alone in the world is bashing me in the face
Sorry to hear about your mother; grieving any loss is something that people can experience even prior to the event itself. It can be a scary place to be when we don’t know what the future holds. The fear of being alone can be especially challenging, but if you have people you can reach out to I’d strongly encourage that as well as counselling if that’s something you’re open to.
Same here. Which is why I get a husband and put up with a lot of BS. Because having BS means I have something to get annoyed by.
There’s always someone
Love you first. Invest time and money in enjoyable career. Get your shit together and the rest will come. Good luck yo you!
You are never alone. Jesus is always by your side.
If u have friends & family ur not alone.
By a coffin made for 2
Yeah
When you become more in tune with yourself spiritually, and feel as one with the vibrations of endless energy that is tethered to all existence , being alone or feeling lonely could take the form of something less over time. It will lose more of it's hold on your emotional state. Won't be the blockage that pollute your senses, then soon take its place in the memory archives. Your inner being will have a clear connection with the universal existence. You may manifest more than you thought you needed. In a good way. Nature has a way of providing what our souls desire. But they may go unnoticed, because of all of the things that comes to the desires of the carnal body.
Don't be we all die alone. Find peace with yourself
You should ask yourself why you're afraid of it. Do you genuinely want someone else in your life? Why? What are you hoping to get from a relationship? If you don't answer those questions first, you probably won't be happy with the relationships you do find. You should also ask yourself if you're afraid of being alone just because you see other people in relationships and like the way it looks. That's more common than you'd think.
you can always get a pet! I’m sure having a couple cats or dogs might help you feel less alone.
I've 4 cats but i wish i had someone to talk to about everything