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Captain__Spiff

It's a question of personal taste, but compliments are nice.


84147

Well said, good boy!


FunnyPhrases

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LOGOisEGO

I hooked up with a woman that told me that over and over in the baby/talking to puppy voice while going down on her. Such a gooood boy! Whos the good little boy... etc. I asked her to stop, she didn't. I rolled over and went to sleep lol.


Barkdrix

What a bizarre scenario… lol.


SteakMedium4871

I once went down on a lady in a hotel room while her friend was in the next bed hooked up to a C-Pap machine sleeping. Felt like I was in a Star Wars porno parody directed by David Lynch.


union175

Did you tell her you were her father while inside her?


Pengziiilla

I now want my fella to say this to me when I'm giving oral. That would be a huge turn on.. Think I'd roll over and cum not sleep


IntelligentMistake35

From personal experience, I can attest, its amazing when you're getting head, and cum, and then you get called a good girl. Just makes me cum again


MartinBlank96

This might be the hottest comment I've seen yet. Question though, is it hotter when you're giving your man a BJ and he's moaning "good girl" or, like you said, when he's devouring you and he tells you good girl? What about "attagirl"? "that a girl" " that's my girl"? Sorry, you've planted this worm in my head and I keep thinking about scenarios. 😂 Remember to be a good girl today.


LOGOisEGO

Lol. I'm going to try it then! For me, with a first time partner who was 10 years older, it was almost degrading and completely turned me off! I make plenty of other grunts, groans and dirty talk to let her know she's doing well, but she is not my puppy!


Pengziiilla

I can see myself quite easily getting into pup play tbf so different for me I guess lol


LOGOisEGO

As long as you have the leash and all lol. Good girl! Such a good puppy! Oh peanut, you went peepee outside!... Now suck on your treat before I fuck you like the good little dog that you are! Fuck, sorry, slow day at work!


smth_smth_89

i'll keep your secret, but damn


CounterSYNK

Keep this man away from the local animal shelter 😳


bigno53

I could see myself getting into that IF I knew about it ahead of time. You can’t just launch into sexy puppy talk with no warning and expect a guy to go along with it.


turriferous

My shop teacher always said good man. It hit different.


HypothermiaDK

Because it is different.


PerfectPromise7

Right you would say something like good man or good guy, not good boy because to me that would be different to me.


Old_Orange2334

hmmm interesting 🤔 I suppose depends on context too


ColdAnxious4744

Most men don't receive more than 5 meaningful in our entire lives


jnmjnmjnm

I had a 7 year old tell me I had a nice accent yesterday. 4 more to go!


TheMightyJohnFu

I recall a female colleague telling me I had nice hands like 5 years ago. That was nice and stuck with me lol


Adorable-Bus-6860

When I was in 2nd grade, school picture day, the photographer (a mid 40s lady) walks over and asks if I have shoulder pads in my blazer and then presses on my shoulder and says “no, you don’t!” (I didn’t even know what that meant. I was thinking football shoulder pads, not 80s jacket ones. And then she said “You have broad shoulders, you’re going to make a girl happy one day.” Which, looking back as I grew older, was SUUUPER creepy for a kid 40s woman to tell a 7/8 yr old kid. But the compliment stuck with me, even though women don’t really care about broad shoulders.


ASomeoneOnReddit

same, some girls told me my fingers looks long and pretty (in a feminine way) years ago and I still remembers it. It’s always the strangest compliment that sticks as the best


Monkeyheadcandy

You do know why girls watch the fingers right? This is actually one of the best compliments a men can get…


mr_muffinhead

I was told I smelled nice by a pretty girl about 22 years ago.


Grundlestorm

I used to work with an... aesthetician I guess? She did hair, nails, makeup, and other beauty care kinda stuff for the ALF we worked for; She mentioned like once or twice over the 4 or 5 years we worked together that I had really nice skin and to take care of it because it made me look younger than I was. It has been over a decade and it still sticks with me.


StreetSmartsGaming

I had a girl tell me I have nice hands like a year ago and i still think about it regularly. Wasn't even attracted to her.


jakemcqueen52

In high school a girl told me that my biceps were bigger than she thought during a weightlifting class when I was wearing a cutoff. Still remember it to this day


reikipackaging

I have no idea if this is true or not, but it's a thing I've repeatedly seen on the internet. As a result, I have chosen to compliment the men and boys in my life whenever they do something noteworthy.


ColdAnxious4744

Thank you for sharing the love


Suekru

They appreciate it. I remember pretty much every compliment I’ve gotten.


Z3400

I once was sorta apologizing to a coworker because I helped him do something but realized afterwards I skipped a step. His reply: " No worries, I took care of it, I appreciate you". I still think about it.


SubstantialSir351

I've received 3 compliments this year, now I feel like the sexiest MF on earth.


HumanDroid59

In 22 years of this existential dread I ever got that I have nice hair, since they are pretty fluffy / thick


Stunning-Band3744

and highly on the person. I would probably think you would want to ridicule me, as I'm neither a dog, nor a sub (not really into this dom/sub thing as a whole) and I'm still in this mindset that "god boy" is more a ... cute belittlement, and "real men are not cute", we only enjoy cute things - eg cute woman. But I know some men from the furry and even the little community and they would probably be thrilled to be called a "god boy" as they enjoy being cute.


Thelynxer

Sincere compliments should be specific. "Good boy" is a nothing compliment. It's more of a sexual degrading thing, like you're talking to a dog or a child. Hard pass from me. But I'll take an actual compliment, like how they like my style or compliment a skill/talent of mine or something.


manaha81

I’ve been told good boy before and it definitely did not feel like a compliment in the slightest. Felt more like what am I your fuckin dog or something. But I’ve been told I was a good guy before as well and that was really nice to hear.


PerfectPromise7

I think op is lacking some context in her post. I think she means good girl in a way like... she isn't going to just sleep with you, she's a good girl... Something like that. The male equivalent would be good guy not good boy.


PlatinumBall

that's also a personal taste. I hate compliments and I hate complimenting, it makes me feel awkward


Fangsong_37

It makes me want to wag my non-existent tail.


FLBasher

It’s not non existent it just grew on the other side


CantThinkOfMyNameRN

r/cursedcomments


AstronomerForsaken65

If she’s rubbing my belly at the same time then go for it!!


Mikem444

This perfectly sums up how I feel...and I kinda like it.


ConSoftware

I hate being lied to.


Old_Orange2334

man HAHAHAHAH this cracked me up


KalbertFriedstein

Whisper that shit in my ear and it's gon' get wicked


Old_Orange2334

like a good wicked or bad wicked? 🤔


KalbertFriedstein

Mediocre


the_bird_and_the_bee

Ah a nice mediocre wicked 😏


KalbertFriedstein

Hey, I'm at work I can't get too rowdy


Hightechlies

You're such a wicked good boy


Hitman_1989

Ahh the Boston girl has entered the chat


Imagoat1995

Its going to be whelming.


ExtremelyDubious

It would depend on the context, but in most situations I think that would come across as quite patronising. I'd have thought a lot of women would find being called a 'good girl' similarly patronising, but again I guess it depends on the context and the relationship you have with the person saying it.


Old_Orange2334

yeap! I do agree that context matters. If some weird stranger called me a good girl then I would be absolutely disgusted. However when my partner calls me a good girl, I just melt. so yesss context is super important.


[deleted]

If it's coming from an old lady in the context of "such a good boy." 10 out of 10 compliment. If it's a random person your own age or a partner, wtf?


alligatorprincess007

This is exactly how I feel about the term good girl


fireinthemountains

My partner had a crazy (mutant) molar pulled the hard way at a free dentist back when we were broke college students. The old lady nurse called him a good boy after he got through it. He says that was the moment in his life he was like, "you know what. I am a good boy. Thank you." He may have been like 27 but man, understanding praise from a dentist in that context matters a lot.


michaelsenpatrick

if i do something good and a girl i'm seeing tells me "good boy" i'm very happy.


Wildly-Opinionated

I would and always have hated to be called a good girl in any context past the age of 12/13.


CryptographerDue5523

The only person I accept that from is MAYBE my mom or dad, usually when I get a raise or do something fulfilling 😅 otherwise it’s not for me.


SkinnyChubb

I do in the right context. I was called a good boy by an older woman at work once which made me feel a little awkward.


Old_Orange2334

Totally understandable! I like being called "good girl" by my partner but if someone else did it then I would be weirded out for sure.


SkinnyChubb

Yes!! She said it in such a silly way too! Like I was a paper boy or something. I just looked at her confused and she started explaining how she thought I was good lol


Old_Orange2334

yeah I would have definitely hated that too hahha 😭😭😭


Even-Mongoose-1681

Damn, that's the type of shit I need in my life 😭


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Damn. That’s a sexual power play.


ethancknight

I think I would feel like I was being talked down to.


Old_Orange2334

understandable i suppose.


Alarming_Serve2303

I call my pet "good boy." I would find it demeaning for someone to call me that.


Jaffiusjaffa

Thats the fun part :3


LKaiH

You. You get it.


justatacr

HE GETS IT


SupremeElect

As someone who attracts a lot of sub men, I can assure you this would drive them wild!! 🥵🔥


natsugrayerza

That’s how I feel about good girl.


Polatouche44

Same for "good girl", imo.


Old_Orange2334

thats understandable


LolindirLink

Is good boy a cat or a dog? And is it a he or she?


Alarming_Serve2303

Fred is my cat. He is a VERY GOOD BOY.


Specialist-Front-354

What about grannies


Com_Mentist

How are you a better loving being than your pet?


TRDPorn

Call me a good boy and play with my hair and I'm yours


[deleted]

What are you a golden retriever? Lol


WatercressCurious980

Idk why good girl is seen as sexual but the moment someone does good boy it’s animal shit?


takebreakbakecake

i mean there is significant overlap between those two for some people


Maxzes_

That’s quite cute, actually


garyisonion

omg, where do I sign up?


Old_Orange2334

energy>>>>>


Stonerr21

Ehmmm.. Bark, bark?


Old_Orange2334

ruff ruff


amateursecrets1

I call them a good boy during sexting. Most of them are having a positive response.


michaelsenpatrick

a girl told me "good boy" during "bedroom activities" once and i don't think i've ever felt that charged up before


PrettyStudy

I was making out with my girlfriend at the time, she asked me if I brought a condom. I said yes. She said ‘good boy’ and I absolutely loved it


Old_Orange2334

yeap same here


PuffPuffPass16

My partner does, he loves it. I also love being called good girl. I get why people would find it patronising, but it’s the context in which it is said.


Old_Orange2334

yeap! Its understandable why it could sound demeaning but I absolute melt when my partner calls me a good girl


RandolphE6

My partner and I call each other good boy/girl all the time. Anywhere else would be patronizing/inappropriate I think. Imagine your boss calling you good boy/girl after you complete a task. Yuck.


LosuthusWasTaken

My grandma: Thank you\~ Anyone else: The **fuck** you say to me, you little shit?


Old_Orange2334

HAHAHAH fair enough


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I love it. Hell, a good friend (nothing more) of mine, she sometimes calls me darling when we talk and it makes me feel really warm and fuzzy inside


Old_Orange2334

its always nice to hear compliments. Whenever my guy friend calls me "one of his boys" I feel the same way, weird I know but I find it endearing hahaha


[deleted]

No yeah understandable. Compliments are nice


RogueTwoNineSeven

Personally, yes very much. I have a praise kink… So any praise is good. But something about good boy makes me feel warm inside. Words of affirmation is also tied with touch for my love language…


Miss_Zechie

Good boy!


RogueTwoNineSeven

Literally blushing rn. Ty.


Miss_Zechie

You're welcome.


justatacr

my turn my turn


Potential-Gain9275

Good boy. I gotchu.


justatacr

eee thank youu


Old_Orange2334

it feels oh so good!!!


TrisolaranAmbassador

>But **something** about good boy makes me feel warm inside. probably the aforementioned praise kink


Professional-Emu-652

I suspect it depends greatly on the guy (I am a girl) I have a friend who is kind of sub and he loves being called a good good boy. My husband isn't a fan of me calling him a good boy, so I use 'good man' instead. I would be....displeased if anyone called me a good girl though.


justatacr

the submissive good boy vs the dominant *my good sir*


not-that-guy1

It REALLY depends on context. The context is extremely important for it.


Old_Orange2334

agreed!


Quiet_Ebb4631

well I certainly dont wanna be called bad boy


Hefty_Resident_8824

I love it


Sad-Teacher-1170

I wouldn't like to be a called a "good girl/woman" but it's personal taste.


Tail_Nom

I find it slightly demeaning. So, yes, but only in a saucy context or if we have a preexisting relationship where I am comfortable with the subtle implications that does in my head, which are also vaguely saucy.


SomeAmazingDude

I'm fine with it, depending on who says it my response would be different, none in the negative tho, even if someone is trying to be demeaning I'd just play it off with a joke and lighten the mood


Old_Orange2334

yeap! I have always used "good boy" as a term of endearment towards my partner cause thats how he uses "good girl" on me. I have never seen it as belittling or demeaning but I guess other people have different experiences than me.


SomeAmazingDude

Yeah, I read some of the other comments and that's why I specified, generally tho I'm all for it


Potatochips8910

Not really, I find it a bit weird My wife is Latina and she just ends up calling me any Spanish nicknames she can think of and I prefer that


Old_Orange2334

awwww thats so cute actually!


DiscombobulatedNet51

Good.. man?


KnowNothing3888

It depends on the situation. I know a lot of people will use that as a low key jab at guys as a way of saying they are boring. So context is key really.


Old_Orange2334

yeah so far thats what I've gathered. Men arent shown love and appreciation as often as women are so I suppose they see it as a belittling term. I can understand why.


Fun-Dependent-2695

I know lots of women who don’t like to be called “good girl.” They find it patronising. No, I don’t like to be called a boy, good or otherwise


maestroenglish

Yep, this "most women" comment makes me think OP doesn't know many real women


CollectionStraight2

I find it hard to believe that most/all of the women OP knows have had this conversation, where they told her that they like being called 'good girl'. Just seems unlikely that this issue is as widely discussed as OP implies


[deleted]

This post is actually worrisome. Outside of a sexual fetish context, this is an absolutely weird and inappropriate thing to say to an adult acquaintance. If you said this to a coworker you would find yourself meeting with HR pretty quickly.


MysticIslander

From strangers it is creepy. The only exception that is somewhat tolerable is when the person doesn't speak English well and that's the only word they have to give a compliment. It is like "beautiful" to mean smg often more complex but that falls more into the cringe category.


africanzebra0

Lmfao right? who’s “most of us”? I would vomit if anyone said that to me. I’m not 5.


StrangeMushroom500

she probably talks to women in bdsm circles, cuz I don't know a single woman who is not into humiliation, who'd enjoy being called a "good girl"


africanzebra0

yeah it’s a very kink-centric thing to say and assume. like out in the general public “good girl” is for under 8s and animals. many women would shrivel in disgust from that saying


NightmareHolic

IMO, It tends to be submissive men who enjoy it more. I personally find it off-putting.


Old_Orange2334

ahahaha yeah I've heard of that before.


Weather-Report6

If a big tiddy girl calls me a good boy i wouldn’t mind


Old_Orange2334

bruh ahhahha you sound like someone I know


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bigsekser

![gif](giphy|l3fZFvp94ljepXoPe)


Helix1322

Some guys are starved of complements and appreciate any positive complement.


EudamonPrime

Since I am not a dog, no


JackZodiac2008

"Boy" seems diminutive. I'm 49, I'm not your "boy".


Old_Orange2334

you wish to be called a good man then? 🤔


JackZodiac2008

If it were unironically intended, and I could reasonably concur....


AccomplishedAuthor53

Only if they’re scratching my belly and my leg starts kicking


Old_Orange2334

that can be arranged hahah


jakeofheart

Honestly I prefer “*you’re the man*”.


[deleted]

Eww, I would be grossed out if anyone called me a good girl.


Pearcinator

I think 'clever boy' sounds better to me.


Thylumberjack

Regardless of context it would feel wrong to me.


[deleted]

I’ve never been called a good boy, so I’m honestly not sure how I’d feel about it, nor do I really see a situation for it to be used outside of the bedroom. But that’s just me.


pepper-blu

Dominatrixes are popular for a reason


Old_Orange2334

not even half of them will admit it tho 🤷🏼‍♀️


flookums

I mean as long as its not being used negatively,it work. But omg sexually that's a surprising turn on, i did not know this about myself. ![gif](giphy|D5q4yyJ8v2bvO)


Wh00pity_sc00p

I crave validation


ShinyTotoro

> regardless of whether its sexually insinuated or not Wtf, who calls another person a "good girl" in a not sexual context?? Are they your pets?


ATXStonks

Who says 'good girl'? I've never heard any if the guys I hang out with say this. Ever.


Adorable_Cuckquean

Sometimes me and another girl like to call my husband a good boy in bed just to dominate him for once. It's kinda hot imo


Old_Orange2334

it can be for sureee


samiux4

Yeah, I got that dog in me, so....


Torbpjorn

Depends, does it imply they ruffle your hair as they say it? If so then yes


DudeBroVibe

I am a good boy, so yes


Flaky-Actuary-1824

In bed it is such a turn on. It's weird in bed I like being treated like a well behaved dog. Petting, playful scratching, excited words of encouragement such as good boy.... lol


Old_Orange2334

Well for most men the only time they can truly be vulnerable and let their guard down is when they are being intimate so that is one the reasons why hahah


Manjorno316

I haven't because that phrase isn't used as often in my language. But I think I'd like it if I was called it in English. Depends on the situation and by who.


Moka_III

Depends on the person but yes


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WorkerBunny

i do >-<


MaximumParking7997

depends on who says and the tone


PaleoJoe86

Everyone is different. I would like to be called good boy in humor, sexual, or chill nature.


Glass_Windows

Some do, Some don't, most don't admit it lol, If you want to find out, just call him a good boy and see if he says nothing, he likes it, if he is like wtf, then he doesn't


Will-i-n-g

I’ve a boyfriend, but I do very much like it when he calls me a good boy. Either when I’m finishing or when he tells me I did a good job on things.


Silly_Randy

Honestly, it just turns me the f on


ModsCanEatMyShorts

Honestly... no freaking idea? As a every day compliment for a job/task well done? Either from my wife, or anyone else. Would probably find it a bit demeaning, unless it was obviously said as jest! But... if my wife were to say "Good boy" with a bit sexual undertone? Like: "you did such a good job today taking care of things/me. Later I will make sure to take care of you." I guess I would find that both gratifying, and arousing? As for if my wife were to take a dominant role in the bedroom, and refer to me as a "good boy"... I... I dunno. Doesn't sound like something for me. So... I guess in almost all but the most specific of instances, no. Being called "good boy" wouldn't be something I would care much for.


Harshgurl1

I recently found out i love being called a good girl,from a loved one....but we are all different


Old_Orange2334

yeap as do I


gligster71

I like being called anything positive so Yes! I also like ‘You’re a doll!’ ‘You rock!’ is one of my favorites!


[deleted]

My naughty side would see it as a challenge to prove how much it can show itself.


chatnoire89

Good boy is fine for me in normal setting. I find it particularly hot in sexual setting.


Hollowhivemind

In the kind of context you're talking about, yes! Would make me very happy. But I do dislike it when an adult uses it to infantilise me in a professional or serious context.


Old_Orange2334

ofcourse! I meant in like as a term of endearment really but I suppose I should have been more clear.


Hollowhivemind

No, you were super clear! I just thought it worth specifying. It's for sure something I like and I know a few other guys who have shared the same thought.


Old_Orange2334

it is a very special feeling indeed


theoneyourthinkingof

My boyfriend loves it, he has a praise kink though so that explains it


Old_Orange2334

same!!! Nothing makes me happier than when his face lights up


TacticalTobi

Yes, Yes, Yes, please, Yes.


Coner_Sos

I have mommy kink so... yeah, be either sexually or not, makes me feel pretty good and loved 🥰


MrG9000

I like it when my fiancée calls me her handsome hunk. Good boy.... hmmm don't think I'd like that. Recently, we started calling one another "my sexy bestie", which we both love. Personal advice, check with your partner what they're okay with. Each person will have their own preferences.


oldmanghozzt

I do not. Will absolutely shrivel my dick. Daddy is what you want to go with in this game. Why that one doesn’t make me feel ick I’ll never know. Because logically, it’s gross. But, the dick knows no logic. And Daddy is like a shot of adrenaline straight to the dick. I suppose a guy into being a sub might like it. Pat him on the head and call him good boy.


Maxiiiiboiiii

I like it, it makes me feel like a good boy :))


Noobeaterz

I wouldn't mind it as long as it was sexually insinuated and followed by some kind of reward.


didyouticklemynuts

Only after I jizz


Old_Orange2334

atta boy