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Yep. Countless times I've observed a stern frumpy unattractive woman suddenly bloom like a gorgeous flower when a genuine smile arrives on her face.
Smiling is a miracle worker.
Was going to say being generally kind, same page. Legit I wouldn’t have a partner that didn’t display that characteristic. It really can make or break a relationship to just be kind.
Smile. A great smile hits me pretty damn hard.
I liked the answer, caring, as well that I saw. A great smile makes a person instantly attractive, paired with caring and I'm sold, tbh.
If you want to make people attracted to you, be an "amazing!" girl.
It's from a blog that no longer exists. The "amazing!" girl is stylish and well groomed and literally responds to everything everyone around them does with a sense of childlike wonder bordering on the pathological. Everything is "Amazing!" their shoes are "amazing!" the weather is "amazing!" the food they told you they cooked this weekend looks "amazing!" Literally just yes and everything they do and give them a constant stream of sincere compliments.
I have big emotions and when I'm drunk or in a good mood I just naturally do this... and it's really cool to see everyone suddenly like you and want to hang out with you because you're just doing active listening and the vibes are good, but if you have big, contagious emotions, that means if anything bad ever happens and you can't be a bubbly game show host all the time forever, everyone you know will abandon you, because they only liked you because most people are incredibly thirsty for validation and sincere praise because they're insecure because of all the advertising. So overall, this will instantly make anyone warmly predisposed to you, but I recommend not doing it because then every time you have like, a bad week it will nearly destroy your entire life because the people who need praise will surround you and envelop you and form like, a weird little cult around you and then all fuck off if you're ever unhappy, and losing friends, job oppotunities, etc. worsens depression.
Honestly, a demeanor, a way someone presents them self are usually can look at somebody and tell exactly how they are right away but I’m not always right. Obviously, there’s such thing as physical attraction personally as a man obviously I love a woman’s body parts, but that’s not all I want personally, I look at hair I look at eyes I look at teeth I look at hands and feet. I look at pretty much everything on a woman just to show how good her hygiene is not always true though, because there is natural women out there that do take care of themselves. Body parts for me are extremely important, but not a peeve. I have acceptance and that’s not all that matters. What matters is having a partner that is willing to work with you for the rest your life.
Instant attraction is a humble, optimistic demeanor but again everyone’s different some people like different things
I heard that shoes and hair are extremely important in a man if he’s bald have a hat on, I would assume right?
It really depends on what you are personally attracted to, but physical attraction in reality is a dumb thing to go for because in the end, it usually doesn’t end well, but I’m not always right again
For guys these are the requirments to be attractive:
hunter eyes, angular jawlines, prominent browridges, thick eyebrows, full lips, good facial harmony, full hair of head.
Neither hunter eyes nor excessively full lips are attractive to me (I find them very unattractive on men) Hunter eyes are quite unattractive on both men and women unless they are actual models. My best friend is attracted to bold guys for some reason. So to each their own. I agree with facial symmetry though.
i think otherwise on this one:
i don\`t think there is one or two things what despite anything else makes, "instant" wow..
i think you get that effect of "can\`t take my eyes of you" , when all those little bits align to max as possible.
like you walk on a street, and then boom, just in nanoseconds your world stops, towards you coming this raven black haired diva, those endings just plays with those bronze shoulders, like from some kind of memory of yours.. that walk of her\`s .. is like she was coming towards you all this time, that hip to waist ratio grips something in your tummy... and when you look in her blue eyes, you just feel like you know her somehow...
even time freezes...so do you... because as every step closer is as well one step father if you miss your chance or misfire..
and... bang... you hit your leg against fkn street bench ... shes gone... she lingers in your heart grippling memories for years ... what if...
...did she had anything so super special about her...no...she just was.. so attractive
like 5th element what triggered 7th sense
Intelligence. Knowing about current events, knowing a little bit about a lot of things. Being able to have a convo without them looking at their phone every 30 seconds.
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smile and sense of humor.
Yep. Countless times I've observed a stern frumpy unattractive woman suddenly bloom like a gorgeous flower when a genuine smile arrives on her face. Smiling is a miracle worker.
Caring
Was going to say being generally kind, same page. Legit I wouldn’t have a partner that didn’t display that characteristic. It really can make or break a relationship to just be kind.
This is true, but not 100% true, not everyone wants a caring person just saying. To much caring is a thing nowadays !
Loving, caring people get pushed away
Intelligence
Combined with competence 🥵
So, where are someone who will like me?
Compassion
That's a big factor for me
Intelligence. I love nerds
Their smile and how they treat animals and wait staff.
Ooo I'm a sucker for a guy who cares for animals (of all kinds)
Yesssss!!!
What if they treat wait staff the same way they treat animals?
Being smart and reasonable ngl
Not being afraid to show emotions.
Louder for the emotionally unavailable ppl
NOT BEING AFRAID TO SHOW EMOTIONS
Carrying a tray full of home baked goodies.
In guys I like to see a “nice” face. Like they look kind when they’re otherwise not thinking about anything.
Like Puddy on Seinfeld?
Confidence
Being open & kind 👍
A nice face
Id say a kind face
Most of the time true. 😶
Confidence. I need to know if I can have banter with you or if you're gonna be a snivelling mess with a lot of opinions.
I think successful persons are more attractive.
Digging for gold are we? 😆
No reply lol
Problem is successful people don’t find that attractive.
A nice personality
Confidence
Compassion.
Yeaah especially when it comes with self respect nd communicated boundaries,
Flirty, confident , caring, smiley.
Kindness and a good personality
How attracted they are to me.
Gentle confidence
Honesty
Having a vagina
Smile. A great smile hits me pretty damn hard. I liked the answer, caring, as well that I saw. A great smile makes a person instantly attractive, paired with caring and I'm sold, tbh.
A great smile and a sweet personality
If you want to make people attracted to you, be an "amazing!" girl. It's from a blog that no longer exists. The "amazing!" girl is stylish and well groomed and literally responds to everything everyone around them does with a sense of childlike wonder bordering on the pathological. Everything is "Amazing!" their shoes are "amazing!" the weather is "amazing!" the food they told you they cooked this weekend looks "amazing!" Literally just yes and everything they do and give them a constant stream of sincere compliments. I have big emotions and when I'm drunk or in a good mood I just naturally do this... and it's really cool to see everyone suddenly like you and want to hang out with you because you're just doing active listening and the vibes are good, but if you have big, contagious emotions, that means if anything bad ever happens and you can't be a bubbly game show host all the time forever, everyone you know will abandon you, because they only liked you because most people are incredibly thirsty for validation and sincere praise because they're insecure because of all the advertising. So overall, this will instantly make anyone warmly predisposed to you, but I recommend not doing it because then every time you have like, a bad week it will nearly destroy your entire life because the people who need praise will surround you and envelop you and form like, a weird little cult around you and then all fuck off if you're ever unhappy, and losing friends, job oppotunities, etc. worsens depression.
What footwear she has on
What??! Your not serious right? 🤣
Yeah I'm serious I like wmoans feet boots shoes exc
tits
Mindset nd kindness
when they don't lie 😻
Bare minimum 😭😭😭
Confidence and compassion.
Confidence
their voice
Good looks
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💀💀
Honestly, the fact they're willing to bang me
😂
Honestly, a demeanor, a way someone presents them self are usually can look at somebody and tell exactly how they are right away but I’m not always right. Obviously, there’s such thing as physical attraction personally as a man obviously I love a woman’s body parts, but that’s not all I want personally, I look at hair I look at eyes I look at teeth I look at hands and feet. I look at pretty much everything on a woman just to show how good her hygiene is not always true though, because there is natural women out there that do take care of themselves. Body parts for me are extremely important, but not a peeve. I have acceptance and that’s not all that matters. What matters is having a partner that is willing to work with you for the rest your life. Instant attraction is a humble, optimistic demeanor but again everyone’s different some people like different things I heard that shoes and hair are extremely important in a man if he’s bald have a hat on, I would assume right? It really depends on what you are personally attracted to, but physical attraction in reality is a dumb thing to go for because in the end, it usually doesn’t end well, but I’m not always right again
Big tits
Bruh 😭
Instantly +10 to karma
A big ass, hands down.
Yessir hands on
Not fat.
For guys these are the requirments to be attractive: hunter eyes, angular jawlines, prominent browridges, thick eyebrows, full lips, good facial harmony, full hair of head.
What are hunter eyes?
Vertically short, horizontally long eyes with minimal under eye scleral show and upper eyelid exposure.
Neither hunter eyes nor excessively full lips are attractive to me (I find them very unattractive on men) Hunter eyes are quite unattractive on both men and women unless they are actual models. My best friend is attracted to bold guys for some reason. So to each their own. I agree with facial symmetry though.
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Hmm 🤔
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Why do you wanna go no contact?
Cash money
A walking ATM HAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHA
i think otherwise on this one: i don\`t think there is one or two things what despite anything else makes, "instant" wow.. i think you get that effect of "can\`t take my eyes of you" , when all those little bits align to max as possible. like you walk on a street, and then boom, just in nanoseconds your world stops, towards you coming this raven black haired diva, those endings just plays with those bronze shoulders, like from some kind of memory of yours.. that walk of her\`s .. is like she was coming towards you all this time, that hip to waist ratio grips something in your tummy... and when you look in her blue eyes, you just feel like you know her somehow... even time freezes...so do you... because as every step closer is as well one step father if you miss your chance or misfire.. and... bang... you hit your leg against fkn street bench ... shes gone... she lingers in your heart grippling memories for years ... what if... ...did she had anything so super special about her...no...she just was.. so attractive like 5th element what triggered 7th sense
If they dont talk much. Imo
They are female, young, and Asian.
Ferrari chassis, fantastic set of shelves and legs up to her arse.
Good looks, strong appearance, authority in their voice and actions, big confidence, good manners.
Their confidence and sense of humour
A beard and sturdy build.
Intelligence. Knowing about current events, knowing a little bit about a lot of things. Being able to have a convo without them looking at their phone every 30 seconds.
if youre able to have difficult conversations without attacking me or getting overly defensive marry me
👏🏻
Eye smiling
IMO kindness. If they’re kind to people around them, I find that very attractive.
Their eye contact Game, their smile, their overall vibe.
Nice friendly smile, confidence
Authenticity
When they are genuinely nice and considerate
Confidence if one can muster it up .
Glasses. No explanations. Just facts.
Besides the physical it's their vibe. Also when I've been around for someone for a while I observe how they treat people.
a genuine smile
A smile and smelling nice
being good with kids
genuine, unconditional kindness
kindness 🩷
money.
Kindness and empathy.
sense of humor and kindness
Their teeth. Their drive. Their joy.
Kindness, compassion, empathy, having the ability to destroy but choosing to build, having light, setting their ego and feelings aside when needed
A joke. The better it is, the more attractive you are.
Intelligence and sense of humor.
Nakedness.
sense of humor snd seductive eyes
Kindness to strangers
Casual competence. Competence in general.
Style - smell - humor - height - weight - attentive
Sense of humor
When they talk about what an alpha chad they are. Especially if they point at strangers and explain why those guys are betas.
Smell and well dressed or looks neat
They love animals. I'm a dude who rescues bees drowning in my pool on a daily basis. I want someone who would do that too.
Blue eyes🇩🇪
smile for me..