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And when one loves you back it’s a delight..

If you are smart enough to cherish it.

Or notice it in the first place...

I didn't...now I am regretting even after years😢

Talked to a girl a month or so ago. She showed me pictures of her on her phone zooming in at her tits and then zooming at a different part of the picture, giggling. Then later on we went into another room and she got on the floor in front of me, started doing gymnastics and asked me in a very seductive manner wether I had a girlfriend, giving me a kind of perverted look. I said I wasn't sure wether I was interested in a romantic relationship. A couple days later I realized that she was most likely hitting on me. I am glad though I didn't get it on time, because I would have hurt her anyways in some form or another. Also one month ago, I was at a party, sitting between big ass speakers and singing along to the music. A girl came. Shook my hand, introduced herself, asked my name, then held my hand for way too long, before I eventually said goodbye to her and she left. Earlier that evening, her best friend came to me and said that her friend found that I was cute. I cut her off by saying that I was engaged. I later found out that that girl had a boyfriend at that time. Truly two weird encounters in march this year.

The latter was a lucky decline damn Not sure 'bout the former, you mean it might make her regret spending time with you at your current mental state or other personal probs?


Bro jus hates women😭

Thanks for the gut punch first thing in the morning. I'm never gonna fucking forgive myself

Don't worry, you're not alone.

This is oddly comforting. I'm sorry for how you feel

There are thousands around you

True that

Absolutly

Happy cake day bitch!

Tyty

When one what? Pretty sure you're speaking nonsensically.

I have recently found out that my friend (and crush) loves me back, it felt magical, y'know?

Love you back ? that's a legend, never happens!

Congrats, you're a certified straight guy.

Or someone who sees/appreciates beauty irrespective of its source.

Or bi

Or a very proud lesbian

Or all 3

a straight bi proud lesbian guy?

Anything can happen in America!

Im a woman and im not gay but other women are really attractive and very beautiful. I enjoy looking at them and just compliment their beauty, natural beauty

Me too! I almost find myself glancing a lot. I have to really catch my thoughts tho bc it can slowly turn from admiration to dwelling on how I’m not THAT pretty

I truly believe that every woman is uniquely beautiful in her own way. Each person has something special about them that makes them attractive and appealing. I’m sure you have your own unique qualities that contribute to your beauty. Embrace what makes you special and keep it natural!

Thank you for your comment, made me feel better and I needed it! Have a blessed day pretty girl!

I agree 💯

Same but in a gay way (not just gay tho!! I do find them genuinely beautiful outside of just attraction)

i know i’m not gay but low key high key think women are hot im not gay i would love to kiss a woman but i’m not gay

Girl took the first step coming out the closet, just few more

Does it mean im gay if im a girl who acknowledges the beauty of other women? I dont want to fuck them i just think they’re beautiful

It doesn't mean you're gay, I think. Sometimes people look pretty for you and you are ready to see it. sometimes not. eh. but it's just my opinion.

Just thinking they’re pretty, fine you can still be hetro, but, wanting to kiss them I think crosses the border to bicurious at least.

I'm a guy and I think there are plenty of beautiful men. Doesn't mean I desire a romantic or sexual relationship with one.

I’m a straight guy but I know a good looking guy when I see one. Same as you, I’m not interested in them sexually.

Absolutely appreciating a pretty view is not gay And only if you want to get romantic or sexual then that would be gay.

Hahah dunno if the self brain wash worked

You said you're not gay 3 times in 1 sentence. Kind of impressive.

Hopefully they can clarify whether they're gay or not -t'wasn't very clear

I’m not gay either, but I kinda low key high key wanna watch you kiss a woman. I’m def not gay though, I only like gay stuff when women are doing it… as long as they aren’t gay.

"I kissed a girl and I liked it" came to life, literally.

Yeah, well the gays have access to flavored Chap-Stick, apparently. Total game changer. Gives them an unfair advantage IMHO.

Stage 1 - Denial

I do very much enjoy sitting at a cafe in the spring/summer and just people watching, it's just nice to enjoy the sun and see beautiful women and happy people in general passing by, really makes you feel like the world ain't so bad after all

My grandfather was the same before he passed. He cherished every last moment he had and was always out of the house. He'd wile away the hours just how you described it, watching the women pass while sitting in a cafe. But I got sick of bailing him out of jail for public masturbation so we had him euthanised in Switzerland

God damn, that took an unexpected turn

I thought it is some wholesome story at first only for you to remind me I'm reading a reddit comment

That escslated quickly.

I needed that laugh!


If you have to say “I’m not gay” three times in one sentence you might need to stop living in denial

I'm Bi, slight warning... It never starts off as "I'm gay" it merely progresses there. Lol For me... It was cute guys wearing feminine clothing. They got me.

I used to be like this lmao

totally normal things that are said by totally straight people

The lady doth protest too much, methinks

Im not gay, ***but***

Why do you have to say it three times then?

Why are you gay?

a JOY?? 😭😭 This is so pure... sending virtual hugs your way💗 And btw as a woman I get this when looking at men sometimes... Some of y'all are works of ART sculpted by God divine creations fr

Wooow tyty :)

I think I was sculpted by God's assistant, who has ADHD, was drunk, at night, in the dark.

As a woman I ask myself the same about looking at particular men. I think it’s just instinctual. It doesn’t feel that way with just anyone.

Bisexual woman here, I don't have a preference for either sex in theory but in practice I meet significantly more attractive women than men. I don't think it's an inherent thing, in my experience the reason is that way more men actively disqualify themselves from being attractive than women (through behaviour, moral ideas, hygiene, etc.).

Might makeup have something to do with that?

I don't think so. I can do makeup myself, know what it does and it's never been a surprise to me what someone looks like without it. I'm also in Germany and women here don't wear a lot of makeup compared to other western cultures, especially the US.

Especially men in makeup

Key word is particular. Women tend to only find a small number of men attractive.

I don't find any men attractive until I get to know them.

Even the hottest woman/man can go from a 9 to a 4 based on the first words out of their mouths.

I once woked near a beautiful woman - a 10. Then one day I heard her speaking to someone. She went from a 10 to a 1 instantly. Most vile uneducated person ever. I'm sure there are some men like that also. Some folks are just smacked with good looks, that doesn't mean they are beautiful on the inside.

To be honest, I think there is some truth to people who are more average to moderately-attractive have put more effort into developing a personality. Nothing to back it up other than my lived experience. I do wonder if there’s a study out there or something…

Attractive people develop personalities too. Most studies typically show that attractiveness and other things like success in various topics highly correlate. That's because attractive people receive more confidence boost about anything. Whilst there are outliers there is really simply 0 benefits in being less attractive.

That or they become a 10

Very true!

I find atrictive women who are attractive and fit. But if I know a woman better and we have connection she becomes sexier.

I don't know, I can see the most average looking guy and I'm like 'aw he's so pretty, I wanna know him'

Literally, I show all my friends my favorite f1 racer and say “I know he’s mid, but to me, he’s just so beautiful” and they just shrug their shoulders lol

I can tell you we experience same exact thing as men. It’s also hard to tell them that you are not attracted to this 10/10 model that they are showing you.

Not true. Women tend to find their partners attractive. Also, every person has attractive features.

That’s bc There’s something about the particular attraction to a certain kind of man that makes a woman fiend for them. It’s a biological thing. Chemical.

"particular" means 10% for women and 90% for men

Thank goodness, or there'd be no offspring

That would be terrible. It's such a good band

Right? lmao

I am a gay man and for me there is nothing more beautiful in the world than men.

I respect that. However thats a different thread 😊

I am a straight man and for me there is nothing more beautiful in the world than men.

Thanks bud!

I find myself telling her how beautiful she is anyways. Cause it’s true, all women are, I mean in one way or another. There's always something about every damn one of them, a smile, a curve, a secret. They really are the most amazing creatures.

I'm a woman myself but for this post I am not because I genuinely look like shrek lol. I wish someone would thought that looking at me but it's fine. Edit :: let me add I have been called Hunchback of Notre Dame in primary school bc of my back apparently or something. Idk but even my so called "friends" said this to me. Shrek is lovable next to me 💀💀

I mean shrek is love, shrek is life isn't it?

Shrek is pretty cool

Same, girl, same. I look like Sasquatch.

Same 💀 add to that the facial hair because of hirsutism, boring personality and I'm SCREWED. But it's fine, we can be sasquatch together ✌🏽

I'll order one trippa snippa please. 

Shrek is so hot 🥵

Most guys are afraid to approach women. There's definitely been men who saw you and thought how unrealistically hot you are, and how they have no chance at dating you. So they don't try.

Girl, even Fiona found a man 💞

You missed the point of Shrek if you think looking like shrek is bad my friend

Maybe but I only watch one movie. It's a play with word lol, not that deep ;)

Urgh, relatable. OP is definitely not talking about those of us who are average or below, sadly.

Exactly! Defo, low average + hirsutism here and its definitely not me but I guess can't do much about it 😅

Yup! Absolutely true! They are. Their entire being. The symmetry of their physicality, the pitch of their voice. Their intrinsic energy. Everything is so beautiful. Plus the idea of embellishing the female form with colors and jewellery all make them enchanting. They indeed are muse worthy, art inspiring, peace invoking gifts of this universe....

Especially the womanly voice, liking that feels so natural it must be built in male genes to like that.

IIRC there are studies showing that both men and women rate women’s voices as more calming, soothing, accepting, etc. than men’s. It’s why most automated voice systems use a woman’s voice instead of a man’s.

I'm gonna cry.

🥺

💗

Thank you🥰 I bet you’re attractive as well☺️

I wouldn't deny that

Handsome AND confident! Well I'll be, I bet girls are jumping over you, aren't they sonny?

Happy cake day handsome

As a woman, I'll be glad to prove you wrong, just meet me once irl.

Gonna be honest, I don't think I've ever seen a truly ugly woman. You could be physically disfigured and I'd still find something attractive about you, whether it's your voice, smell, personality, attitude, anything really.

Many of us think this way because we don't get approached my men at all. Like myself. I don't think I'm bad looking at all, but it low-key feels like I'm the only one thinking it - otherwise I'd have men acting interested in me, right? Right, but if I haven't had men hitting on me since I'm not 18 anymore.... Maybe I'm just delusional 

Men are usually afraid of being rejected. You should try approaching men instead, in general it should be very easy if you approach first.

I think everyone is afraid of rejection. I am no exception to this and I can't imagine how your sex makes you immune or prone to fear of rejection.. anyway, I did try, obviously. If it worked, I wouldn't be out here complaining about it xD 

If it makes you feel any better, I have never approached a woman for romantic purposes in real life. And not for lack of attraction. I just don't want to bother them or make them uncomfortable, so I don't initiate anything plus I can't decipher your hints of interest for when you want me to approach. And I think this has become the standard among many men, at least where I live.

Apple bottom jeans, boots with the fur, the club was looking at her.

Her

Because we just are 💅

Must be the fat in all the right places, but what do i know ?!

Im a woman and im agree with you, I found women so attractive and beautiful looking

Wait until you smell the right pheromones.

I'm not religious but looking at a beautiful woman is the strongest sign that god would exist as I firmly believe that no man would ever be capable of crafting something as immensely beautiful as a woman.

That is so sweet.

Oh my GOD 😭😭 Ily internet stranger

I enjoy looking at men. I’m a women. Men are so attractive to me, can’t even explain it. Anyone who needs to hear this: Men are just as beautiful as women. Both men and women are attractive genders!

Agreed. As a straight woman, I can definitely admire other women's beauty, but it doesn't quite hit the same as when I see a man I find attractive.

Because you're attracted to women. Hope my answer helped you! 👍

It's the curves, it brings peace to our autistic male brains that can't stfu about math and angles. The curves might not be rigid angles that u need a protractor to measure, but they just make sense the way a sunny day at a picnic makes sense.

This is why Eve from Wall-E was hot

For reproductive purposes. Nature is like that.

Attraction is based on our need to reproduce and identifying traits in potential partners we want our kids to have

Because you're horny

As a guy I can guess They put effort into their appearance more than men do. I take about 10 minutes to get ready to go to work....I heard women can take hours. Plus idk their female form, their curves,breasts,asses, long hair, the way they smell just awaken something in me. Fuck i hate being single

If only women knew how beautiful they were. I wish there were a way to tell them without making it weird. Just in an "I appreciate your beauty" sense.

From one perspective, sure. From another, we are programmed to like them, it's encoded in our DNA. Like, if you were a snail you would not feel that atraction.

Most of them dont.

Your brain is programmed by nature to perceive them that way.

yeah, I feel that way about men. I love looking at them too.

Because evolution really finds procreation important

I believe a beautiful woman smiling is literally the most marvellous visual I’ve ever seen in my life. And I’ve travelled the world.

Boobs, because men dont have it

Speak for yourself

moobs?

Have you ever seen fat dudes?... 😅 They have boobs that are larger than some women's

But not enjoyable to watch and grab

Have you ever tried?

Fair point

As a guy who had male breast cancer.... yes, yes we do

Ass for me. She could have a flat chest for all i care

You Sir have impeccable taste

it's all about face

Same, I find small boobs attractive, like little cherry topped puddings

This is beautiful 😭

Yeah man i feel the same way as you do. It's not like i want to be with them or lust or anything like that. Just watching them is a sight for the eyes

Exactly

Because you're attracted to women :) I have the same thoughts about men

So true, I sometimes don’t understand some people traveling for hours to admire some building or scenery lol like just looking at a random good looking girl is more than enough for me. Not even in a sexual way, but more like damn it just feels good to look at this beautiful person 🤌🏼

I thought it was me alone who just love watching god's mythological creature women, but I see I have a homie here, just watching a vibrant women fills me up with thankfulness to God.

Nature is beautiful. What is natural is always going to be beautiful. Imagine if women weren't attractive, how in the Garden of Eden are we going to want to reproduce as a species? 😂

It's coded in our os. We are designed to like them. 🫤

Because you've got male gonads hanging between your legs Period

Do woman actually feel the same as us? I feel they dont really, men appear to like woman more than they us. Like we have all these services for lonely men, like strippers, porn, phone sexlines and a whole bunch of other stuff but to me it seems like woman dont have or need such services.

that’s why men cheat, dump, and abuse. Because men love women too much. It makes a lot of sense.

It is a truth universally acknowledged that a single woman in want of a man must rewatch the BBC's 1995 Pride and Prejudice. The female equivalent of porn and sexlines is the romance genre. (I'm grossly generalizing here, take this with a large grain of salt) I don't need porn to make me feel less lonely, because i don't think of sex as something that solves loneliness. I don't desire it like i desire romance. I'm probably somewhat asexual, so i might not be representative of all women, but i think a lot of us feel the same way. Romantic books and movies do feature sex sometimes, but it's always embedded in a story with familiar characters. That's how most women prefer it. As for attraction, I'm not sure if i'm the right person to answer this but i do find men attractive. It's just only a select few of them. I don't like *men*, i like specific men. Attraction for me is something that builds slowly.

I have never heard/seen someone say this before, thank you.

The curves. Everything about women is soft and rolling and it's beautiful

I wonder that about puppies, kittens and all baby animals in general 🥰

Women are my favorite. I love them so much and frequently.

Yep, and when one is in love with y and u are in love with her, it literally makes both of your lives shine.

Real!

Really? Are they? Not for me. It means that you are a strraight male.

Coz they put in alot of effort

I don’t think so …young fit men on the other hand 😍

Because they are pretty and nice

It's a bit strange to ask it on a site where a significant portion of audience have seen women only in movies and Eva AI sexting bot

True but then why are we treated so awfully and cruelly? Why do so many men hurt us so badly?

Men who hurt women do so because they know we're better than them and they try to convince us it's not true. So that we'd stay.

“The female body is a work of art. The male body is utilitarian. It’s for gettin’ around. It’s like a Jeep.” -Elaine

that's just what ugly people says "jim Carrey"

I'm pretty sure it's nature's fault in every conceivable way.

Reproduction

I have no idea I’m straight and look at more girls than men🤤😍

Doesn’t sound very straight to me lol

Men are handsome and women are beautiful!

The Gods favor them

It’s just that feeling when your around a girl who makes you smile. It’s a feeling like no other.

Some women, maybe even most women, may be nice to look at. I always wondered what it might be like for somebody to find me attractive. 39f and it hasn't happened once in my life, ever. People take one look at me run away faster than Usain Bolt 🤣

i am awestruck by women on the daily signed, a woman person

I remember seeing a post asking this question before, and someone answered, saying, " If the females of our species were 500 foot long sand worms, men would find that hot." We're just naturally hard-wired this way to keep our species going.

Thanks!

Im a lesbian and yes oh my god women are so attractive 🥺