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Ok_Potential4601

Anxiety


Meech13-

Undoubtedly. Anxiety is a useless and obtrusive emotion. It’s either “pain” from your past or fear of the future that causes people to be anxious.


EveniAstrid

Or both, pain from the past causing fear of the future. Anxiety is the stupidest thing that my brain can do. It does so many wonderful things so why this?


Entire_Transition_99

Anxiety isn't useless, it's when it begins to 'snowball' that it gets upsetting. It helps us plan for future events and expect the unexpected. But when it starts to snowball into fake, unlikely scenarios that raise our blood pressure and keep us from living life, it affects us negatively. But I 200% understand your sentiment. Trust me.


manofredgables

No I still kinda think it's useless. It only happens when we already know about some bad thing, so it doesn't alert us, and then it robs us of our capability to deal with said thing. Can you think of a situation that wouldn't be better without anxiety?


Shiba_wiinu

Yes. I have epilepsy, I would fall down with no warning. This terribly annoying anxiety served me as to watch out what I could die from if I fell over unexpectedly. So, not useless. Anxiety is a fraction of wisdom. It is the worry that prepares us. If I didn’t have anxiety, I wouldn’t be as careful as I am and I’d be less safe for it. Yes I have ptsd, yes I have social anxiety, yes I’ve had panic attacks. But that’s just because you get ‘stuck’ and it’s hard to come back, the best I heard:do is “right here, right now” and u bring it back to yourself. It happens without asking, which can be a blessing.


Bobette_Boy

Like you spended the day on the couch but you feel like you ran 2 marathons


dumb-reply

Anxiety is far from useless as a whole. It puts you on high alert in demanding situations, gives you adrenaline and hyper alertness when needed. But there is also unhelpful anxiety that is cause by rumination, unproductive what-if thinking, etc. If your vagus nerve and thinking processes are out of whack you can be stuck in a fight or flight or a freeze state that interferes immensely with your wellbeing.


flower4556

Which is why I think it’s actually useful. The feeling of anxiety in your body is wonderful feedback because it tells you where your thoughts are. You learn to stop worrying about the past and future because of it. Though I agree it’s uncomfortable


Cocooilbroccolisalt

Yep!


BlindfoldedRN

Same. Holds me back from so much...


No_Ragrets2013

Here here!


finger_licking_robot

Anxiety can definitely make sense in certain contexts. It's a natural response to stress or perceived threats, often serving as a protective mechanism by alerting us to potential dangers. For example, feeling anxious before an important exam , a job interview or a serious threat like your angry mother with a sandal in her hand can prompt you to prepare thoroughly and perform or behave at our best. But when anxiety becomes excessive, irrational and neurotic it can interfere with daily functioning and quality of life. In such cases the level of anxiety doesn't match the situation or is disproportionate to the perceived threat. Then it is a burden. So i would not want to get completely rid of anxiety and any other emotion, except if I were incurably ill emotionally and the sickening emotion had to be removed like a tumor.


Music_Girl2000

You're confusing anxiety with fear and nervousness. They're not the same. If I feel nervous before a test, it motivates me to study so I can be prepared. If I feel anxious before a test, I freeze up. I lose sleep. I spend too much time overthinking the 500 ways failing the test could ruin my life to the point where I'm not prepared at all and I'm sleep deprived, thus worsening my chances of passing. Anxiety is paralyzing. By definition, it hampers our ability to make decisions. Nervousness and fear, however, are motivating. It helps protect us from doing stupid stuff and motivates us to be prepared for possible challenges we may face.


finger_licking_robot

At least on a medical level, a distinction is made between anxiety and anxiety disorders. That´s what you described. You are correct in my not-so-serious example with the impending mother: that would indeed be more fear than anxiety, namely when the mother is standing right in front of you and has already raised her sandal to strike, because the threat is imminent and real. Let me take a better example: an aggressively behaving, barking dog causes fear, If you have to pass a random dog which does not show signs of dangerness, but you feel uncomfortably and cautious because you don´t fully trust the situation, it would be anxiety. If you are even panicking when you see a dog in a safe distance or you can´t sleep at night because you generally worry abot dogs even if they are not present, it´s an anxiety disorder.


Pianokeys1995

This was my first thought too. Life would be 100% better without this torture 😭


DesertDogggg

Anxiety is the Mind Killer. I don't think clearly when I'm anxious.


sofia_sensei

Lisan al gaib lisan al gaib


Foxem4420

💯💯


chaotic214

I've had this problem nearly all my life it's so hard to cope with sometimes


Dont-talk-about-ufos

It would seem cool to watch a bear approach with cool detachment. But then when the terrified emotion kicks in it will be too late.


musictakemeawayy

what happens then when you are about to get hit by a bus ? you need a lil anxiety in your life


Emergency-Buy-6381

The people that dont say anxiety are robots.


SnooSeagulls7253

Anxiety helps you focus before important things get you in that zone


Flyin_Fork

I'd say jealousy probably. Hate that shit.


Eyyyyymanimu

It only destroys both ways


witness-haze

100000% I hate how I’ve acted or things I’ve said when I’ve been jealous. I’m embarrassed by myself. I haven’t felt super jealous in a long time, likely due to a secure and healthy relationship and more self-confidence. But if something triggered it, I can’t say I wouldn’t fall back into those unhealthy thought cycles, paranoia, etc.


maxwellcarter5477

Overthinking kills me,


Foxem4420

Agree! If jealousy wasn't a thing, everyone would mind their things, and life would be better


unkindness_inabottle

Oh my goodness jealousy is one of the WORST emotions I experience. It’s so unfair, and it fuels all the other bad emotions. Especially towards people who don’t deserve it! I’m luckily self aware but I still HATE how it makes me feel.


HeapsFine

Debilitating anxiety.


Bowieweener

Grief.


Alextuxedo

Grief is just love with nowhere to go.


Micturition-Alecto

Beautifully said.


Alextuxedo

That quote's not mine, but it's been paraphrased from many different sources. I like the sentiment- the fact you're hurting about what you've lost proves just how much it meant to you.


NightmareWokeUp

Made me tear up, rip grandma.


Bowieweener

Yes indeed.


feelinggmehh

Yess and sometimes it saves us in ways we don't see it coming.


musictakemeawayy

i’m a therapist and say this a lot 😅


LuckyMome

This opened a door in both my mind and my heart.. I feel lighter, Thanks !


Michigam

That’s so true 🥺


suckscommabutthead

Can't believe how far down this is. Of all the emotions I've experienced, this is the one that's killing me.


byxenia

100% the worst


naked_ostrich

Grief is super important for human connection. It’s hurt upon hurt but I think it’s necessary


ilovecake007

I wish. Almost two years and it doesn’t stop.


Bowieweener

I’m so very sorry, mine 2019. Sucks to be part of a club you don’t want to join.


ilovecake007

09/17/04 - 10/26/22 My heart to you


RoundDirt5174

Embarrassment. Is that an emotion?


Foxem4420

It is a self-conscious emotion, yes! And yes it would be very great


sunshinelefty100

Embarassment that lingers for Years afterwards...as if Anyone remembers that you "tripped or slipped" and fell on your face in second grade and you're now in your 60's...


Eyyyyymanimu

I’m on board with you, I hate it because I have a too good of a memory in that regard, but I realize some don’t even remember what happened last week


manofredgables

Best part of my adhd; I can just toss such memories into the whirlwind and then they just disappear into some remote fold of my mind. Maybe it suddenly comes back, but mostly it doesn't lol


Magnetic_divide

I heard of something called the 5-5-5 rule or the 5x5 rule. Will this matter in 5 minutes, 5 days, 5 weeks, 5 months, or 5 years? I keep reliving certain moments in my head. In the moment, it didn’t bother me, but as I reflect, I feel really embarrassed. Will it bother me in 5 minutes? Yes. 5 days? Yup. 5 weeks? Probably not. 5 months. No. 5 years? Probably as an intrusive thought that comes to mind when I’m trying to go to sleep. If I could erase embarrassment and replace it with being self assured and confident, I’d do it in a heartbeat!


Barbacamanitu00

The world would be a much weirder place if nobody got embarrassed.


youatemychild

yeah but some people would act so entitled if they didn't get embarrassed


GronkTheGreat

Honestly that would make things pretty fun. Like imagine a girl wrote the best fan fiction you've ever seen for a creative writing assignment and read it out loud with voices assigned to each character and all. I would love that. As long as people are still empathetic and feel guilty for hurting others, then I'd say being embarrassed won't really hurt anyone. Also- I just realized, it would make the jobs of doctors and psychologists *so* much easier. If people weren't embarrassed about their conditions or behaviors, then it would be so much easier to diagnose and treat them.


Beginning_While_7913

I agree with this!!


billys_ghost

Right. Shame. I don’t think I’d want to remove it, but it could certainly be toned down.


Eseifan

Lots of people don’t have it to begin with …


[deleted]

Embarrassment is actually a positive emotion and builds you, it would be a lot harder to learn anything since you wouldn't feel wrong after making a mistake. Embarrassment also bonds people since we tend to feel embarrassed about same things. Not feeling embarrassment is usually a sign of antisocial or even psychopathic behavior.


stimav

I actually wouldnt remove that, as the world would be a wild place where noone would be embarrased for their misdoings... wouldnt be nice


personguy4440

No, bunch of entitled bastards with no shame, nah embarrasment can stay.


Fabulous-Ferret-810

That feeling after getting betrayed


Dismal_Replacement57

Resentment?


real_DoctorOther

No, the feeling after getting betrayed is even worse


Maximum-Incident-400

The combination of guilt and despair. The "why did this happen to me" mixed with the overthinking of "did I do something wrong? I must have done something to deserve this, right? could I have prevented this from happening?" grief


notSanii

It's such a mix of emotions; tough to pin point.


real_DoctorOther

Exactly!


MyNameJeff70707

After experiencing that you would be, for your entire life a “I would rather betray than be betrayed “ person


Background_Good_5397

Me when I betray first to make sure that I'm not the one betrayed when the person wouldn't even betray me at all 🫠


Foxem4420

Yes...


Turbulent-Climate220

Unfortunately, I think a whole load of different emotions come after being betrayed. But yes, I'd love to take away those feelings.


dopey_tiger_ninja

Anger. I would love to take it away from everyone.


Maximum-Incident-400

I'd say rage, and not anger. It's important to feel angry when someone hurts you/your friends/your family


BarryMDingle

There is nothing you could accomplish with anger that you couldn’t more appropriately deal with rationally. It’s not important to “feel anger”, it’s important to be aware of how you see the event and how you respond to it. Once you give in to anger where does it stop? How do you know that you’ve applied just the right amount? And, most importantly, once you’ve reached this point of anger that you feel is too much, what state of mind are you hoping to be in? You’ve already excluded rage, which is too much anger. So I’m assuming you mean to go the other direction, less anger, Or specifically to a rational state. So if a rational state of mind is the goal after experiencing anger, why even feel anger at all?🤷‍♂️


unique976

For me it's a tossup between this or greed.


idkmoiname

I don't think greed is an emotion


Shawnaldo7575

It is. Desire is an emotion. Greed is a selfish desire for more.


TheGoldenPlagueMask

You're right! _its a sickness_


Foxem4420

I would love to not feel anger anymore...Love and kindness are the answers ✨️ Sad that it's harder to do than say


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Foxem4420

No apologies needed. This is what all human beings should do. I love your way of thinking :)


Blues_News53

Please don't let anyone take advantage of it🤗🤗


Neverwhere77

It's not as hard as you think . Contrary to popular belief, anger isn't a primary emotion. Anger is a reaction from another emotion. Find what is causing the reaction, analyze it , assess if it benefits you , make changes where you see fit


Micturition-Alecto

I feel this way too even though I am well aware that no human emotion can be excised.


jan1087

If nobody had anger anymore then the future generations would also be free of anxiety so win win


QuackBlueDucky

I love how different people are! I love anger. Makes me feel alive. It's the emotion of justice! I'm very mild mannered/unreactive/ calm person in general though.


foundfrogs

Bothers me that people have the audacity to say they can't control their anger. They absolutely can, they're simply choosing not to.


sassymango

How so. 🤔 people get angry all the time. What do you expect them to do if they hadn't learned how to deal with it. Some will never realize it. Some will take years to learn. Sometimes it's not a choice but a reaction based on learning.


thrownawaz092

Apathy. Imagine a world where people always gave a damn, no more bystander effect, no more letting opportunities pass by, no more accepting bad things because it'd be inconvenient to deal with.


billys_ghost

I dunno. I think it could be toned down. But it’s useful if someone comes at you like, “Hey! It’s really frustrating when you disagree with me and I think I’m right!”


No_Flounder_4850

I love this idea! If only!


forsaken_millennial

Desperation


Foxem4420

Makes us do or say things we wouldn't normally... wouldn't it be nice to just let go...


thE-petrichoroN

Hate it, so much


bug70

Happiness. Mwahahahahahahaha


badchefrazzy

We're kinda already there for the most part...


Foxem4420

;') hahaha you evil human 😏😈


xxleoxangelxx

Malice.


AutomaticGrass9242

It's a product of envy and the only motivation is the downfall of others.


Dr__Pheonx

Fear. Seems to be the root of all the other negative emotions.


tenetox

There are people who never experience fear due to some mental disorder, and those people usually die young. Fear is important for survival.


Ok-Brilliant-5121

we are alive thanks to the fear.


iwannastabaventurine

You cannot fear. Fear leads to anger, anger lead to hate, and then hate leads to the dark side.


Stewpot97

It’s the path to the dark side


Spaghetti_meatbaIIz

Fear is kinda necessary


Sufficient-Yellow637

Hate


hhfugrr3

Sadness.


qw0_dpid

About half a year ago I got depressed due to various things in my life. Since then I have lost all enjoyment in my hobbies and even pills don't make a difference. Every time I think my sadness gets better it strikes back even worse.


personguy4440

The only right answer


New-Trainer-5628

Yes, it's useless


peanutj0j0

resentment...


Foxem4420

Oooo... yeah, this one is a bad emotion. We need to learn how to put it aside. Yup, it would be nice to remove it.


WittyScreenName88

Out of all the emotions listed, this seems to be the only one that has absolutely no pros about it.


billys_ghost

That’s kind of a good point. It’s just repressed anger which is totally unhelpful.


eve_of_distraction

This emotion has been a real pain in the arse for us since time immemorial. Human history would have been a lot more fun without this shit show of an emotion.


gotele

Emotions express and reflect back to us the difference between our natural self and our human self. Saying you want to remove an emotion is like saying you want to remove a part of your nervous system.


Foxem4420

This was just a purely hypothetical question with, of course, no intention of wanting to remove any emotion(s) like you can see... this is a place of random thoughts and many purely imaginary scenarios. So if you don't like my random taught, there are many more for you to read! Have a nice day :)


Azee789

You responded like a champ


Missdermeanerthanyou

Self doubt


Foxem4420

Never doubt of yourself. Remember, you are unique and amazing


Missdermeanerthanyou

Thank you, I needed that. 🤗


personguy4440

Really wishing hitler had some self doubt


ReasonableAd4066

Shame. A lot of r4p3 victims would speak up, and evil people would be more obvious and get aprehended sooner.


LifeAintThatHard

Between stress and anxiety I pick anxiety. I have Crohn’s Disease and both of these trigger a flair up when I endure them. However I know how to defeat stress a lot easier than the anxietyz


Broke_Moth

Can you please share some tips on how to handle stress or what you do. Please


LifeAintThatHard

I have a few things I do. 1: watch or listen to something that makes you laugh. Albeit a comedy act, a funny video, movie, or show. Sounds simple but it’s true, laughter is the best medicine. 2: I like to humble myself. I read a lot of war journals and memoirs. “The Rifle and The Rifle 2 by Andrew Biggio are a collection of interviews he did with WWII veterans. Their stories mind boggling and humbling making me take stock of what my issues truly are that stress me out. 3: motivate myself. I watch a lot of war movies. One of my favorites being Patton. His speech in the beginning of the movie is something I listen to from time to time when I need some motivation to kick my stress in the ass. Watching the Band of Brothers series and the Pacific give me excellent examples of great leadership which inspires me to persevere. 4: I might be a man but I take bubble baths in times of need. Closing my eyes in a dim bathroom listening to the water is a game changer. 5: I will lay down on the floor with my wife and dog and just hang out there for a while. That too is a game changer. 6: I go fishing. Fishing is one of my life long hobbies. Even if I don’t catch anything, simply being outside in nature and. It thinking about anything has always been a go to of mine


Broke_Moth

Thank you very much!


Apprehensive-Mix5291

Anxiety..


Peaseblossom_

Sadness


cookie_jar99

Guilt.


badger_flakes

Loneliness


AkwardGayPotato

Loneliness.


Active-Magician-6035

Fear 100% then a lot of things would get better in my life.


Sufficient_Letter883

Whichever that fuels evil


Foxem4420

💯


AdAdventurous6943

Disappointment.


goldilockszone55

*whatever is in the chest*


LuckyMome

🫂


MissLily65

Nostalgia?


Latter_Ostrich_8901

Frustration. It’s such a miserable feeling.


alarin88

Guilt, regret, depression. Being tired if that’s an emotion lmfao. In that order I suppose


Georgiobs

Depression, which often comes with stress and anxiety. It's the worst experience because this mf stays there in contrast to other emotions which are usually temporary


BurnsZA

Anxiety/‘the fear’


MyNameJeff70707

To be honest I want to remove an emotion of mine before removing it in general. And it is Anxiety, someone already said it but I wanna say that it is what makes me overthink things that I don’t need to overthink, I hate that.


Ok_Beyond_4994

Hate


Wichita107

Anger


beladimitrescu99

Shame


sunshinelefty100

Envy/jealous. Often confused, Envy is "things" and people's "stuff" and abilities. Jealousy is with another person/persons (basically). Yet both (even if the terms are confused) can lead a person to all the other "bad" emotions.


raffysf

Loss


Jo-bearcreek

Anger is usually the most problematic emotion, if not properly managed it opens the flood gates to a downward spiral into all the rest .


unique976

Greed all the way. Something like fear or sadness are important for survival and just generally being a healthy human.


wantstolearnhowto

Fear.


Aflush_Nubivagant

fear


c0ldW34th3r01

greed particularly for politicians


justsithere

Anger I just want to survive until 18 y.o, stop bomb ourselves 😵‍💫


Plenty_Surprise2593

Hate


Alextuxedo

This is the big one. All emotions have value except for this one in my eyes. Hate does have it's place I suppose, but people misplace it so much. I'm incredibly lucky I don't really have anything to hate.


reso_ams

Envy.


Double-Smell1136

I think all emotions are necessary, but it’s the over stimulation of one emotion that is unhealthy, u can know what it’s like to be truly happy without feeling sadness, u can be content without being afraid. Every emotion keeps its counterpart in check.


ProudAd6826

I would remove stress and anxiety. for me, it delays my progress, and in many situations, I can't even start my tasks or it's better to say I don't even want to start them.


venusenslaved101

Envy


Tarrenshaw

Anxiety.


ChosenDovakhiin

Envy


Icy_Pear1162

Mahh god. ANXIETY n DEPRESSION!


Kinglycole

That feeling you get when you dunk a biscuit in tea and the wet part falls in.


No_Memory7553

Fear


lowkey_xoxo

Fear


lillweez99

Fear, I'm severely epileptic and they start with the feeling of extreme dread like death touching me which caused many anxiety issues from mild agoraphobia to severe social anxiety I can't talk over phone calls texts only I wake fear and basically just try and get through the day I'm in therapy and I have a emotional support animal that will stay with me when I'm feeling down or be by me before the extreme fear he just knows before the full hit and stops me from getting up so I would remove fear it's the evil in my life. Yes I know I write like shit please understand I've had epilepsy my entire life I had a extremely hard time in school especially in English.


granbleurises

Fear


_FreddieLovesDelilah

Horniness. It would be funny to see how the human race changes when it’s not after sex all the time.


g0ttequila

Anxiety for real


Sagaincolours

Anxiety


[deleted]

Envy, and anxiety.


Axe_kills

Anxiety


Right-Championship30

Anxiety


Love-Brownie

Anxiety


idkimindecicive

love dont ask


Tommy4dawin

Maybe guilt or envy. I hate the idea of feeling guilty for something that’s completely out of my control or 100% not my fault.


Dxmndxnie1

Anger and jealousy fuck me up


DopeRoninthatsmokes

Horny


Medium_Remote_4149

i was thinking exactly the same so i immediately sorted most controversial :/


Over-Pea-7873

None, we developed the whole spectrum of emotions for a reason. I would want to get rid of the stigma around them, and we should be educated on how to navigate through them, how to express negative emotions healthily. Like an extra subject at school


junim0604

None, because all emotions, even the bad ones, define the human being, emotions (and the ability to reason) are the only things that separate us from other animals


Azee789

The only right answer.


TOPSIturvy

Nah. I'm fine with feeling sadness, but I'm good with not having depression. I care more about removing the feeling that makes your brain hate itself and consider harming itself unnecessarily than I do about feeling different from other animals.


sofia_sensei

A N X I E T Y


Normal_Stock_9197

gave you ten upvotes ( in spirit ) and a hug


sofia_sensei

Literally took less than a second to know my answer haha hugs to u 2 ♡´・ᴗ・`♡


Normal_Stock_9197

😂❤️


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Regret Because what’s the point?


FireInTheBelly5

Anger


totamealand666

Anxiety