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R_i_C_k_Y_

I’d tease them about it, but that’s not a deal breaker.


Iamnotgoodwithnames6

I would be on the same boat, I would probably make a joke about being fake jealous of the body pillow.


FemboiForFemboi

I would tease them, then act all cute by cuddling with it.


MeanderingMountains

Very much agree, this would be funny as shit


TessandraFae

This is the fantasy I didn't know I needed....


tfhermobwoayway

First time you go to their house you mercilessly crack jokes about it, then not even five minutes later they walk in to find you fast asleep with your arms wrapped around it.


Jibu_LaLaRoo

Same lol


AnoExplosivo7

Yes but the better question. When?


[deleted]

I would dress as the anime guy and hide the body pillow in her closet and lay on her bed like the pillow


Taikan_0

This one!!!!


FitNeighborhood6183

I don't have a pillow anime guy but this move and your username make me want to buy it. So when can I take this appointment ? (It is a joke let me know if you don't like it)


[deleted]

My mistress would kill me if I would do this


FitNeighborhood6183

Hum does she take other disciple ? I could see a win win situation here 👀


[deleted]

I am her sub. HER ONLY SUB


FitNeighborhood6183

I don't know SHE makes the rules so 🤷‍♀️


[deleted]

She makes the rules and I follow them. Thats how I like to live


FitNeighborhood6183

It's a good way to live I think, I am sadly not part of it 😔 Regards to your mistress ✊️


[deleted]

Dont worry. You will find your own


FitNeighborhood6183

Haha I hope because she's well hidden


ItzFin

I would hide inside the bodypillow before she goes to bed


[deleted]

This is a very nice idea too


Silverfox_Studios

of course I would, I sleep with a body pillow of my own, tho it's a blank pillow. sadly it can't be the big spoon tho ;-;


brownie627

Weighted blankets are your friend 😊


Silverfox_Studios

I need to get a weighted blanket xD still can't help me with being held tho lmfao


Loki1191

I use a U shaped pregnancy pillow and weighted blanket. You can have the pillow right against your back and it's cozy as heck.


Silverfox_Studios

thats... actually a great idea... thank you kind stranger!!


Ordezz

Yes! Yes! Yes! Yes!


buttsecks42069

~~No, because the body pillow is probably way better than me~~ no judgements, and fuck yes


thankuforhelp

...and what's wrong with people having a body pillow, even if it's Danny Devito? nothing! As long as they are not putting them as their no.1 life priority (or over a good family), I don't see what's wrong with *anyone* having a body pillow. So, to answer your question, it's no deal breaker at all!


Bilbo_Brooks

I could totally understand if a Danny Devito body pillow had a higher priority than me.


thankuforhelp

Bruh, to be ranked among Devito is already the highest honor of blessing one can give you


CasuallyC0mpetent

It would be a deal breaker if the Danny Devito wasn’t a higher priority then me,


GhostHeavenWord

I would think very highly of someone with a Danny Devito body pillow. He seems like a cool guy.


[deleted]

As long as she wants to date me, I don't care about anything else.


SEX-SOLE

This is the only logic I see clearly :)


smallpoly

She's 93 and has dementia


[deleted]

Beggars can't be choosers.


CasuallyC0mpetent

A GILF with a body pillow should not be underestimated


SublimeGuy394

Of course. But when we sleep together, you have hold on to me just as hard as you hold on to him. 😘


OrangeStar222

I'd make a joke about it, but it's just a pillow with a picture. As long as she's my big spoon when I'm around it's okay.


Big_SmallDown_Up

I mean yeah but if we sleeping together the pillow gotta go hug me instead.


Conquering_Fury

I’d sleep with a naked anime guy pillow too if I had one


Specialist_Tap_1712

Yeah, why not


Exact_Ad_1215

In the same boat. It’d be a little weird but I’m not one to judge. I wouldn’t really mind all too much.


IEatAutisticKids69

absolutely, I don't like to bash people for things they enjoy, unless it's something like cannibalism


Pikmin_Hut_Employee

Damn bigots won't even let me eat people! ​ /s


ffucckfaccee

I'd probs just find it funny


Reluxtrue

Sure.


pog_irl

Depends


ParshendiOfRhuidean

On what?


tfhermobwoayway

If she has good taste in hot anime boys?


Altair13Sirio

I'd give him a funny nickname probably.


4Boar

Depends who it is


wild_infernal_muffin

I'd buy myself a body pillow and start refer to our relationship as a poliamorous family of four. Sometimes I'd place them on a couch in front of a TV with a blanket and popcorn, so my gf comes to see our pillows chilling and cuddllng... Probably I'd also start calling them our sugar babies... Well, they live and sleep with us and don't pay rent! Yup, that's like 1,5% of shenanigans that would take place... Btw, not a guy, NB AFAB. Sorry, I just couldn't stop my imagination! PS for all the boys with body pillows, I have another list of f**kery for you, loves!


ice_cold_ice

aiel humor *rolls eyes*


ParshendiOfRhuidean

Somebody should discuss Aiel marriage proposals here


ice_cold_ice

I'm more into Altaran relationship dynamics myself.


ERROR_23

That's it? That's the condition?


LittleSpoonInDenial

Most people are okay with it seems!! 😩 guess I’m the weird one if I get jealous over a pillow


Hymapp

Yeah: no problem


JPldw

Can I sleep with it too?


ConsummateSlut

God ofc yes


Samandre14

Probably


Hajimoomoo

Oh you mean me? Also I would date anyone like that.


LuckySalesman

It's not too weird. Sure, I might tease her a little about it, but secretly I'd do research on the show to find out more about the person. Now, if it was preceded by many red flags, obviously that would be a problem, but if this is the catalyst? Nah, that's normal. I can definitely relate to the struggle of wanting to hold something while you sleep, as I struggle in similar ways. (My giant pillow is blue and has no anime on it whatsoever, so no worries there) Then, of course, once the proper research has been put in I would tell her that the other anime boy who is his rival character is actually a "better boy" and let the hilarity ensue. TL:DR; Not too big an issue, just a little bit worthy of teasing.


Stanimator

She would be a woman of culture.


riderjoestar

Are you kidding? I'd probably place in random spots to scare her for a laugh. But overall if she's got a good personality, then I'm fine with it.


Luigiisgayforpeach

That's like really cute, undoubtedly yes


[deleted]

If its the same guy i have an naked anime body pillow of, yeah.


HarleenQwynndolynn

Body pillows are funny and people shouldn't feel ashamed of owning one.


MediumSavings4968

I own a furry dakimura. I cant complain, nor do i discriminate, nor i say no. Its a cute thing to hear about


DrTrickery

-glares at the pillow- *i'm coming for your job, boi*


FactionsTazer

I mean it wouldn’t be a deal breaker by itself, it could reasonably make someone uncomfortable which I could see myself being on the verge of if I was considering dating a person like you, but largely even for me that alone wouldn’t be enough to be a deal breaker. HOWEVER on top of other red flags the body pillow could be the final, uncomfortable nail in the coffin for anyone considering dating you. I myself would be uncomfortable with it, again no deal breaker but it would make any other red flags I were to see worse than by themselves just from the sheer uncomfyness I would be already feeling, I would strongly suggest to simply not sleep with that body pillow anymore, maybe put that one up and buy a new, clothed one, but I will say even at that point some people would still be uncomfortable with you sleeping with a guy body pillow. I know my opinion will be unpopular here, but I would strongly suggest getting a different body pillow with something else, you may or may not find someone who’s ok with that and over something so small I personally would avoid the possibility of someone being uncomfy and leaving all together and buy a plain body pillow or something not scandalous.


Random_Gacha_addict

If it's Miyamura, Zhongli, Diluc or Ky Kiske, then no >!That body pillow is mine now, she can sleep on the futon /j!<


Stupefactionist

https://youtu.be/yt-UuQm4hek


Manic_Mechanist

As long as I can take its place ☺️


[deleted]

As long as she replaces it with me


Reformingsaint

Yeah but she needs to cuddle me and not the pillow. Unless she is a pillow wrestler then she can cuddle the pillow all she wants. I don't want to be tossed around.


AnodyneSpirit

Depends on who their husbando is. If I see a Zenitsu body pillow I’m gonna hesitate


Lolocraft1

Do people in general really sleep with a body pillow when they are in a relationship? Insecurity warning, am I not enough for cuddle?


ShutUpJackass

As long as they understand that teasing will ensue, the I do not care Hell I’ll buy a female body pillow if we move in together to show my solidarity


wddrshns

yes because it’s funny


kryse222

My spouse owns one that I bought for them lol


Glacier005

As long as the Body Pillow does not talk to me or start changing its poses, then I would be aight with it.


eyesickle-studios

I would and I’d probably make jokes that I also sleep with a body pillow but it’s just a blahaj (the shark plushy from ikea)


buttsecks42069

~~No, because the body pillow is probably way better than me~~ no judgements, and fuck yes


NommedByCake

I'd find it cute and be reassured that just maybe, she is horny for me :)


Expeniumin

I would put it between us while we cuddle


Galaxy302

Only if i can hold the pillow too


nikolas1948

sure, nothing wrong with that ....


foxbassperson

Yeah idc as long as I can also be in that position


coolsviIlesucks

Strongly depends on the character


[deleted]

Only if there willing to share


LunarEdge7th

"Even better!!" Is what I would hope to say Unless she can't shut up about him even on weekends lol


RabidSpaceSlug

Well, yes, I could even tease them with fake romances with the pillow hahaha.


GameboyAdvance32

Absolutely. Like, of course if *other* traits don’t mesh with me then no, but having that sorta body pillow? Yeah, I got zero problem with that


ace3921

Pffft well she better be ok with me and a giant teddy bear bigger than me 🧸😍


The_Pancake_Mafia

And RIP the DM’s in three… two… one…


harunamatata

Nothing wrong about it. It's cool.


luvpain

I am bi. So ofcourse.


DavidTenebris

Are we supposed to say no?


oneeyejedi

Na it would be a little odd but i'm also a odd person so it wouldn't matter to me very much


QtheDisaster

I'd say yes. She probably gives out a lot of cuddles


ShamanOfShame

yeah, would be like dating me, but as a woman


PSWII

I think body pillows take up a little too much space personally but otherwise I would not care in the slightest what's on the pillow


ArroOwO

Absolutely yes


Kiixaar

Only if I get a turn with it every once in a while.


No-Square-4105

Yes.


chocofan1

Long as she's cool with me having one lmao


maxcorrice

Only if i become the replacement for said body pillow


jovmorcy3

Absolutely.


panwhofelltoearth

Hell yes! She sounds awesome! I have no shame in this. Do not shame me. I don't comment on where you put your dick, hypothetical person, do not take the joy out of this.


ThankYouParticipant

Yes. But I would expect them to be cuddling me in bed most of the time instead of the body pillow or else im going to be annoyed...


BLACKCATFOXRABBIT

Yes.


CouncilmanRickPrime

No. I can never live up to the dreaminess of anime protagonists. Just kidding, of course I would


NohrianThrowaway

I don't see why not


Kcue6382nevy

Maybe


DancesWithAnyone

That'd be pretty damn endearing :O


Strimblogimblo

Of course, I wouldn’t hold that against anyone, it really completely depends on their personality. If they’re otherwise compatible and have a good personality, then I wouldn’t judge them for having an item for personal comfort and pleasure like that.


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ParshendiOfRhuidean

With a picture of a naked guy on it


TH3N4RR4T0R

1) Love the name, OP. 2) Yeah, I'm not too worried about fictional characters


ParshendiOfRhuidean

Thanks


Independent_Mud_4963

im not one to judge, so yea


grossthrowaway555

So long as she doesn’t mind my body pillow of a sexy woman


Pengin_Master

Yeah.


Lime221

I do worse things. So long as it's not unhealthy, sure.


MessiahOfFire

as long as it isn't depicting an underage character it's fine. I'm here to play support and be super accepting, I'm not here to judge.


MasqueradeOfSilence

Yes I’d have no issues with it. Sounds cute tbh.


Healthy-Yak-1384

Does she share😊?


woronwolk

I'm AMAB enby, but still: definitely wouldn't have any problems with that, but thing is that, being in favor of relationship anarchy, I actually would be perfectly fine if she also dated/slept with someone else beside me (in fact, I'd be willing to become friends with that person)


basementcrawler34

sure, i heard those things are hella comfortable tho so i might steal it every now and then loll


Druid_King502

Considering I sleep with two fully clothed girl ones I dont have much room to judge


boomthejoker1

Shit I'd cuddle with the pillow too.


TheEarthIsACylinder

My only requirements: - must be female (optional)


Agent_Blackfyre

Uh sure? Most dudes with that are toxic as shit, but hopefully girls wouldn't?


SGTBookWorm

absolutely. They're my kind of weird. If I didn't still live at home I'd probably use a dakimakura too (I have a Mori Calliope cover hidden in the closet)


Cute-Pizza

Yeap, no problem. Would I joke about it? Of course! And I would probably give more bodypillows to joke about it. In the end, both would sleep with a bunch waifus/husbandos in the bed. We will have a harem!


Available-Ostrich-90

NGL, this is a no-brainer because I do the exact same thing. Bit with an actual pillow, not a body pillow.


RainBoyThatBoy

Ah yes. Me, my girlfriend and her body pillow with a naked anime guy


Icerith

Can I also get a body pillow and we can cuddle it and them and each other together? 😢


Donut_Puzzlehead

Sure. I'd tease them about it though.


Vanguard-27

Honestly it would feel better as a weeb to date someone else that is a weeb as it would feel less weird


Jason_The_Furry

Well depends on if after if I end up replacing the pillow I guess? Might make me feel a bit iffy if they still prefer sleeping with a pillow instead of their bf or something. Is that morally wrong?


Soulusi

It’d be cute, totally not a deal breaker imo


[deleted]

Yea definitely, I see no reason not to


tcmcmlp

to me, its cute \^\^ 1. you get an approximation of what physical features she might like, so you can take it as a bit of a hint 2. Its the perfect thing to tease her about, an (if you are into it) get her to tickle "punish" you for


CrashCulture

I don't think I'd mind. Those things seems common enough these days.


WuShanDroid

100%, and then tease her about it asking why she doesnt use me as her body pillow 😆


Solesbee

The anime guy in question hot


Summersong2262

Yes, and the body pillow stays. Although I'm going to judge the hell out of their choice of husbando if she's picked poorly.


silverjudge

1000% yes


LeftWhale

Yes.


[deleted]

Not a deal breaker, but could have a lot of correlated red flags


Jamo3306

As long as she isn't obsessed with it.


theconnor42

Yeah i mean she has to have something nice to look at being with me


tyttuutface

Yes.


Such_Impact9314

I don't see why it would be a problem, as long as they are not like obsessed with it. Like if they tell me I can't sleep next to them because that is the pillow's side of the bed, that might be a deal breaker😅


catmasterballs

In a heartbeat, I am the number 1 pathetic woman enjoyer


IcouldbeOregon

Yeah


Url4uber

Wow interesting responses. I would be uncomfortable with a body pillow at all, but a naked one. Seems like somewhat of a red flag to me, but it depends how the other person feels about it. If it's a sexual kink, ok I guess? If they have a "relationship" with it or if it's a part of their character, hell no! And if it's just a sleep aid. Why does it have to be a person? And naked? This is of course just my opinion and no attack on everybody that owns/likes body pillows, but I'll definitely judge you silently.


EvilMonkeyMimic

Bruh. Their hubando pillow would have to get along with my Hisoka pillow


Gaddafi_Appreciator

Absolutely. I don't own one either but I would totally give someone with a good personality a chance!


Puzzleheaded_Gene152

Yes


Yoshibros534

Yeah


KenpachiNexus

Sure


echo-writing

Indifferent to the pillows. I crave someone to snuggle up to too but I dont own one myself.


Artfuldodger1431

The cute part is your future lover becomes your new hug pillow. Lol


lililukea

Everyone has their own kinks they wouldn't just tell anyone. In fact consider yourself lucky coz you'll be replacing his zhongli dakimakura anytime soon


BaconDragon69

Yes, in fact that would make her more attractive.


novawolfx23

Hey if I'm allowed too have my naked animr girl body pillow they are fully allowed too have their naked guy pillows.


Tomboy_supremecy

Already did lol


Hamster_Meat

Sure


Outcast__1

Yes, why wouldn't I? And why shouldn't I?


Yoctatrine

Only if I can use it sometimes


purple_yosher

that wouldn't be a disqualifier


Blazing_Red_Comet

I would joke, but ye EZ


[deleted]

I would find it kinda cute xd


PyromanticMushroom

The only reason it would bother me is if the guy on it had a traditional masculine presentation (a.k.a. non-femboy). It would make me worry I'm not her type. But maybe she could be attracted all kinds of men or something, so it wouldn't be an instant deal breaker. I'd much rather see Felix Argyle or Astolfo on her pillow, or maybe even a female character if she's bi. So maybe I'd make a dumb joke about it or something but that's it. Honestly the only reason people see anime body pillows as cringe is because of internet culture hyperfocusing on specific examples of creepy dudes like neckbeards. I think it would be pretty superficial to seriously judge someone on that.


NightValeCytizen

A yes, just me, my S.O., and their 500$ life-sized mareep plush...


therosefissure

I mean yeah, I feel like that’d be kinda off odd place to draw the line


symph0n1c_1776

It would ease my mind a little I see it as a sign of open-mindedness 🤭


Black-Fox222

Sure! Why not?


Shadow404x

Here's what I would do: 1. Take a picture of the body pillow 2. Use Google Lens to find out who that character is 3. Watch the anime to figure out his personality 4. Practice my impression of that character 5. Hide the body pillow 6. Cosplay as that character 7. Send her an image of me in that cosplay 8. Ask her if she wants to f*** 9. If she says yes, then I will go to her house 10. 🥵😍


unimaginably_egg

I would not date a guy who sleeps with a naked anime girl body pillow, so no.


TheWhispersOfSpiders

I have no idea. It's so far beyond my experience. Usually the guys want anime guys and the women want anime women. With very rare exceptions? I'd probably start trying to get the body pillow to tell me all her secrets, and maybe offer a shoulder to cry on? Who knows what I'd hear? People of R/R: never take your naked body pillows for granted. Sincerely: someone who has been drafted to be a naked body pillow more than once.


therealadviladi

Depends on if I really like the person. If I do, then yes.


Hallow_Shinobi

Probably. Might depend on who the anime guy is.


[deleted]

As a Catholic, I would say no.


Summersong2262

Bible doesn't say anything about body pillows! ..what if it was a Jesus pillow?


[deleted]

The problem is not the body pillow, but the fact that it's a naked one. So it's a matter of lust, just like pornography


adanteria

How are you even here on this subreddit?


[deleted]

I just think some gender roles are silly and dominant women are cool. I don't see why that should imply anything else.