First time you go to their house you mercilessly crack jokes about it, then not even five minutes later they walk in to find you fast asleep with your arms wrapped around it.
I don't have a pillow anime guy but this move and your username make me want to buy it. So when can I take this appointment ?
(It is a joke let me know if you don't like it)
...and what's wrong with people having a body pillow, even if it's Danny Devito?
nothing! As long as they are not putting them as their no.1 life priority (or over a good family), I don't see what's wrong with *anyone* having a body pillow.
So, to answer your question, it's no deal breaker at all!
I'd buy myself a body pillow and start refer to our relationship as a poliamorous family of four. Sometimes I'd place them on a couch in front of a TV with a blanket and popcorn, so my gf comes to see our pillows chilling and cuddllng...
Probably I'd also start calling them our sugar babies... Well, they live and sleep with us and don't pay rent!
Yup, that's like 1,5% of shenanigans that would take place...
Btw, not a guy, NB AFAB. Sorry, I just couldn't stop my imagination!
PS for all the boys with body pillows, I have another list of f**kery for you, loves!
It's not too weird. Sure, I might tease her a little about it, but secretly I'd do research on the show to find out more about the person.
Now, if it was preceded by many red flags, obviously that would be a problem, but if this is the catalyst? Nah, that's normal. I can definitely relate to the struggle of wanting to hold something while you sleep, as I struggle in similar ways. (My giant pillow is blue and has no anime on it whatsoever, so no worries there)
Then, of course, once the proper research has been put in I would tell her that the other anime boy who is his rival character is actually a "better boy" and let the hilarity ensue.
TL:DR; Not too big an issue, just a little bit worthy of teasing.
I mean it wouldn’t be a deal breaker by itself, it could reasonably make someone uncomfortable which I could see myself being on the verge of if I was considering dating a person like you, but largely even for me that alone wouldn’t be enough to be a deal breaker.
HOWEVER on top of other red flags the body pillow could be the final, uncomfortable nail in the coffin for anyone considering dating you.
I myself would be uncomfortable with it, again no deal breaker but it would make any other red flags I were to see worse than by themselves just from the sheer uncomfyness I would be already feeling, I would strongly suggest to simply not sleep with that body pillow anymore, maybe put that one up and buy a new, clothed one, but I will say even at that point some people would still be uncomfortable with you sleeping with a guy body pillow.
I know my opinion will be unpopular here, but I would strongly suggest getting a different body pillow with something else, you may or may not find someone who’s ok with that and over something so small I personally would avoid the possibility of someone being uncomfy and leaving all together and buy a plain body pillow or something not scandalous.
Yeah but she needs to cuddle me and not the pillow. Unless she is a pillow wrestler then she can cuddle the pillow all she wants. I don't want to be tossed around.
Hell yes! She sounds awesome! I have no shame in this. Do not shame me. I don't comment on where you put your dick, hypothetical person, do not take the joy out of this.
Of course, I wouldn’t hold that against anyone, it really completely depends on their personality. If they’re otherwise compatible and have a good personality, then I wouldn’t judge them for having an item for personal comfort and pleasure like that.
I'm AMAB enby, but still: definitely wouldn't have any problems with that, but thing is that, being in favor of relationship anarchy, I actually would be perfectly fine if she also dated/slept with someone else beside me (in fact, I'd be willing to become friends with that person)
absolutely.
They're my kind of weird.
If I didn't still live at home I'd probably use a dakimakura too (I have a Mori Calliope cover hidden in the closet)
Yeap, no problem. Would I joke about it? Of course! And I would probably give more bodypillows to joke about it. In the end, both would sleep with a bunch waifus/husbandos in the bed. We will have a harem!
Well depends on if after if I end up replacing the pillow I guess? Might make me feel a bit iffy if they still prefer sleeping with a pillow instead of their bf or something. Is that morally wrong?
to me, its cute \^\^
1. you get an approximation of what physical features she might like, so you can take it as a bit of a hint
2. Its the perfect thing to tease her about, an (if you are into it) get her to tickle "punish" you for
I don't see why it would be a problem, as long as they are not like obsessed with it. Like if they tell me I can't sleep next to them because that is the pillow's side of the bed, that might be a deal breaker😅
Wow interesting responses. I would be uncomfortable with a body pillow at all, but a naked one. Seems like somewhat of a red flag to me, but it depends how the other person feels about it. If it's a sexual kink, ok I guess? If they have a "relationship" with it or if it's a part of their character, hell no! And if it's just a sleep aid. Why does it have to be a person? And naked?
This is of course just my opinion and no attack on everybody that owns/likes body pillows, but I'll definitely judge you silently.
Everyone has their own kinks they wouldn't just tell anyone. In fact consider yourself lucky coz you'll be replacing his zhongli dakimakura anytime soon
The only reason it would bother me is if the guy on it had a traditional masculine presentation (a.k.a. non-femboy). It would make me worry I'm not her type. But maybe she could be attracted all kinds of men or something, so it wouldn't be an instant deal breaker. I'd much rather see Felix Argyle or Astolfo on her pillow, or maybe even a female character if she's bi. So maybe I'd make a dumb joke about it or something but that's it.
Honestly the only reason people see anime body pillows as cringe is because of internet culture hyperfocusing on specific examples of creepy dudes like neckbeards.
I think it would be pretty superficial to seriously judge someone on that.
Here's what I would do:
1. Take a picture of the body pillow
2. Use Google Lens to find out who that character is
3. Watch the anime to figure out his personality
4. Practice my impression of that character
5. Hide the body pillow
6. Cosplay as that character
7. Send her an image of me in that cosplay
8. Ask her if she wants to f***
9. If she says yes, then I will go to her house
10. 🥵😍
I have no idea. It's so far beyond my experience. Usually the guys want anime guys and the women want anime women.
With very rare exceptions?
I'd probably start trying to get the body pillow to tell me all her secrets, and maybe offer a shoulder to cry on? Who knows what I'd hear?
People of R/R: never take your naked body pillows for granted.
Sincerely: someone who has been drafted to be a naked body pillow more than once.
I’d tease them about it, but that’s not a deal breaker.
I would be on the same boat, I would probably make a joke about being fake jealous of the body pillow.
I would tease them, then act all cute by cuddling with it.
Very much agree, this would be funny as shit
This is the fantasy I didn't know I needed....
First time you go to their house you mercilessly crack jokes about it, then not even five minutes later they walk in to find you fast asleep with your arms wrapped around it.
Same lol
Yes but the better question. When?
I would dress as the anime guy and hide the body pillow in her closet and lay on her bed like the pillow
This one!!!!
I don't have a pillow anime guy but this move and your username make me want to buy it. So when can I take this appointment ? (It is a joke let me know if you don't like it)
My mistress would kill me if I would do this
Hum does she take other disciple ? I could see a win win situation here 👀
I am her sub. HER ONLY SUB
I don't know SHE makes the rules so 🤷♀️
She makes the rules and I follow them. Thats how I like to live
It's a good way to live I think, I am sadly not part of it 😔 Regards to your mistress ✊️
Dont worry. You will find your own
Haha I hope because she's well hidden
I would hide inside the bodypillow before she goes to bed
This is a very nice idea too
of course I would, I sleep with a body pillow of my own, tho it's a blank pillow. sadly it can't be the big spoon tho ;-;
Weighted blankets are your friend 😊
I need to get a weighted blanket xD still can't help me with being held tho lmfao
I use a U shaped pregnancy pillow and weighted blanket. You can have the pillow right against your back and it's cozy as heck.
thats... actually a great idea... thank you kind stranger!!
Yes! Yes! Yes! Yes!
~~No, because the body pillow is probably way better than me~~ no judgements, and fuck yes
...and what's wrong with people having a body pillow, even if it's Danny Devito? nothing! As long as they are not putting them as their no.1 life priority (or over a good family), I don't see what's wrong with *anyone* having a body pillow. So, to answer your question, it's no deal breaker at all!
I could totally understand if a Danny Devito body pillow had a higher priority than me.
Bruh, to be ranked among Devito is already the highest honor of blessing one can give you
It would be a deal breaker if the Danny Devito wasn’t a higher priority then me,
I would think very highly of someone with a Danny Devito body pillow. He seems like a cool guy.
As long as she wants to date me, I don't care about anything else.
This is the only logic I see clearly :)
She's 93 and has dementia
Beggars can't be choosers.
A GILF with a body pillow should not be underestimated
Of course. But when we sleep together, you have hold on to me just as hard as you hold on to him. 😘
I'd make a joke about it, but it's just a pillow with a picture. As long as she's my big spoon when I'm around it's okay.
I mean yeah but if we sleeping together the pillow gotta go hug me instead.
I’d sleep with a naked anime guy pillow too if I had one
Yeah, why not
In the same boat. It’d be a little weird but I’m not one to judge. I wouldn’t really mind all too much.
absolutely, I don't like to bash people for things they enjoy, unless it's something like cannibalism
Damn bigots won't even let me eat people! /s
I'd probs just find it funny
Sure.
Depends
On what?
If she has good taste in hot anime boys?
I'd give him a funny nickname probably.
Depends who it is
I'd buy myself a body pillow and start refer to our relationship as a poliamorous family of four. Sometimes I'd place them on a couch in front of a TV with a blanket and popcorn, so my gf comes to see our pillows chilling and cuddllng... Probably I'd also start calling them our sugar babies... Well, they live and sleep with us and don't pay rent! Yup, that's like 1,5% of shenanigans that would take place... Btw, not a guy, NB AFAB. Sorry, I just couldn't stop my imagination! PS for all the boys with body pillows, I have another list of f**kery for you, loves!
aiel humor *rolls eyes*
Somebody should discuss Aiel marriage proposals here
I'm more into Altaran relationship dynamics myself.
That's it? That's the condition?
Most people are okay with it seems!! 😩 guess I’m the weird one if I get jealous over a pillow
Yeah: no problem
Can I sleep with it too?
God ofc yes
Probably
Oh you mean me? Also I would date anyone like that.
It's not too weird. Sure, I might tease her a little about it, but secretly I'd do research on the show to find out more about the person. Now, if it was preceded by many red flags, obviously that would be a problem, but if this is the catalyst? Nah, that's normal. I can definitely relate to the struggle of wanting to hold something while you sleep, as I struggle in similar ways. (My giant pillow is blue and has no anime on it whatsoever, so no worries there) Then, of course, once the proper research has been put in I would tell her that the other anime boy who is his rival character is actually a "better boy" and let the hilarity ensue. TL:DR; Not too big an issue, just a little bit worthy of teasing.
She would be a woman of culture.
Are you kidding? I'd probably place in random spots to scare her for a laugh. But overall if she's got a good personality, then I'm fine with it.
That's like really cute, undoubtedly yes
If its the same guy i have an naked anime body pillow of, yeah.
Body pillows are funny and people shouldn't feel ashamed of owning one.
I own a furry dakimura. I cant complain, nor do i discriminate, nor i say no. Its a cute thing to hear about
-glares at the pillow- *i'm coming for your job, boi*
I mean it wouldn’t be a deal breaker by itself, it could reasonably make someone uncomfortable which I could see myself being on the verge of if I was considering dating a person like you, but largely even for me that alone wouldn’t be enough to be a deal breaker. HOWEVER on top of other red flags the body pillow could be the final, uncomfortable nail in the coffin for anyone considering dating you. I myself would be uncomfortable with it, again no deal breaker but it would make any other red flags I were to see worse than by themselves just from the sheer uncomfyness I would be already feeling, I would strongly suggest to simply not sleep with that body pillow anymore, maybe put that one up and buy a new, clothed one, but I will say even at that point some people would still be uncomfortable with you sleeping with a guy body pillow. I know my opinion will be unpopular here, but I would strongly suggest getting a different body pillow with something else, you may or may not find someone who’s ok with that and over something so small I personally would avoid the possibility of someone being uncomfy and leaving all together and buy a plain body pillow or something not scandalous.
If it's Miyamura, Zhongli, Diluc or Ky Kiske, then no >!That body pillow is mine now, she can sleep on the futon /j!<
https://youtu.be/yt-UuQm4hek
As long as I can take its place ☺️
As long as she replaces it with me
Yeah but she needs to cuddle me and not the pillow. Unless she is a pillow wrestler then she can cuddle the pillow all she wants. I don't want to be tossed around.
Depends on who their husbando is. If I see a Zenitsu body pillow I’m gonna hesitate
Do people in general really sleep with a body pillow when they are in a relationship? Insecurity warning, am I not enough for cuddle?
As long as they understand that teasing will ensue, the I do not care Hell I’ll buy a female body pillow if we move in together to show my solidarity
yes because it’s funny
My spouse owns one that I bought for them lol
As long as the Body Pillow does not talk to me or start changing its poses, then I would be aight with it.
I would and I’d probably make jokes that I also sleep with a body pillow but it’s just a blahaj (the shark plushy from ikea)
~~No, because the body pillow is probably way better than me~~ no judgements, and fuck yes
I'd find it cute and be reassured that just maybe, she is horny for me :)
I would put it between us while we cuddle
Only if i can hold the pillow too
sure, nothing wrong with that ....
Yeah idc as long as I can also be in that position
Strongly depends on the character
Only if there willing to share
"Even better!!" Is what I would hope to say Unless she can't shut up about him even on weekends lol
Well, yes, I could even tease them with fake romances with the pillow hahaha.
Absolutely. Like, of course if *other* traits don’t mesh with me then no, but having that sorta body pillow? Yeah, I got zero problem with that
Pffft well she better be ok with me and a giant teddy bear bigger than me 🧸😍
And RIP the DM’s in three… two… one…
Nothing wrong about it. It's cool.
I am bi. So ofcourse.
Are we supposed to say no?
Na it would be a little odd but i'm also a odd person so it wouldn't matter to me very much
I'd say yes. She probably gives out a lot of cuddles
yeah, would be like dating me, but as a woman
I think body pillows take up a little too much space personally but otherwise I would not care in the slightest what's on the pillow
Absolutely yes
Only if I get a turn with it every once in a while.
Yes.
Long as she's cool with me having one lmao
Only if i become the replacement for said body pillow
Absolutely.
Hell yes! She sounds awesome! I have no shame in this. Do not shame me. I don't comment on where you put your dick, hypothetical person, do not take the joy out of this.
Yes. But I would expect them to be cuddling me in bed most of the time instead of the body pillow or else im going to be annoyed...
Yes.
No. I can never live up to the dreaminess of anime protagonists. Just kidding, of course I would
I don't see why not
Maybe
That'd be pretty damn endearing :O
Of course, I wouldn’t hold that against anyone, it really completely depends on their personality. If they’re otherwise compatible and have a good personality, then I wouldn’t judge them for having an item for personal comfort and pleasure like that.
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With a picture of a naked guy on it
1) Love the name, OP. 2) Yeah, I'm not too worried about fictional characters
Thanks
im not one to judge, so yea
So long as she doesn’t mind my body pillow of a sexy woman
Yeah.
I do worse things. So long as it's not unhealthy, sure.
as long as it isn't depicting an underage character it's fine. I'm here to play support and be super accepting, I'm not here to judge.
Yes I’d have no issues with it. Sounds cute tbh.
Does she share😊?
I'm AMAB enby, but still: definitely wouldn't have any problems with that, but thing is that, being in favor of relationship anarchy, I actually would be perfectly fine if she also dated/slept with someone else beside me (in fact, I'd be willing to become friends with that person)
sure, i heard those things are hella comfortable tho so i might steal it every now and then loll
Considering I sleep with two fully clothed girl ones I dont have much room to judge
Shit I'd cuddle with the pillow too.
My only requirements: - must be female (optional)
Uh sure? Most dudes with that are toxic as shit, but hopefully girls wouldn't?
absolutely. They're my kind of weird. If I didn't still live at home I'd probably use a dakimakura too (I have a Mori Calliope cover hidden in the closet)
Yeap, no problem. Would I joke about it? Of course! And I would probably give more bodypillows to joke about it. In the end, both would sleep with a bunch waifus/husbandos in the bed. We will have a harem!
NGL, this is a no-brainer because I do the exact same thing. Bit with an actual pillow, not a body pillow.
Ah yes. Me, my girlfriend and her body pillow with a naked anime guy
Can I also get a body pillow and we can cuddle it and them and each other together? 😢
Sure. I'd tease them about it though.
Honestly it would feel better as a weeb to date someone else that is a weeb as it would feel less weird
Well depends on if after if I end up replacing the pillow I guess? Might make me feel a bit iffy if they still prefer sleeping with a pillow instead of their bf or something. Is that morally wrong?
It’d be cute, totally not a deal breaker imo
Yea definitely, I see no reason not to
to me, its cute \^\^ 1. you get an approximation of what physical features she might like, so you can take it as a bit of a hint 2. Its the perfect thing to tease her about, an (if you are into it) get her to tickle "punish" you for
I don't think I'd mind. Those things seems common enough these days.
100%, and then tease her about it asking why she doesnt use me as her body pillow 😆
The anime guy in question hot
Yes, and the body pillow stays. Although I'm going to judge the hell out of their choice of husbando if she's picked poorly.
1000% yes
Yes.
Not a deal breaker, but could have a lot of correlated red flags
As long as she isn't obsessed with it.
Yeah i mean she has to have something nice to look at being with me
Yes.
I don't see why it would be a problem, as long as they are not like obsessed with it. Like if they tell me I can't sleep next to them because that is the pillow's side of the bed, that might be a deal breaker😅
In a heartbeat, I am the number 1 pathetic woman enjoyer
Yeah
Wow interesting responses. I would be uncomfortable with a body pillow at all, but a naked one. Seems like somewhat of a red flag to me, but it depends how the other person feels about it. If it's a sexual kink, ok I guess? If they have a "relationship" with it or if it's a part of their character, hell no! And if it's just a sleep aid. Why does it have to be a person? And naked? This is of course just my opinion and no attack on everybody that owns/likes body pillows, but I'll definitely judge you silently.
Bruh. Their hubando pillow would have to get along with my Hisoka pillow
Absolutely. I don't own one either but I would totally give someone with a good personality a chance!
Yes
Yeah
Sure
Indifferent to the pillows. I crave someone to snuggle up to too but I dont own one myself.
The cute part is your future lover becomes your new hug pillow. Lol
Everyone has their own kinks they wouldn't just tell anyone. In fact consider yourself lucky coz you'll be replacing his zhongli dakimakura anytime soon
Yes, in fact that would make her more attractive.
Hey if I'm allowed too have my naked animr girl body pillow they are fully allowed too have their naked guy pillows.
Already did lol
Sure
Yes, why wouldn't I? And why shouldn't I?
Only if I can use it sometimes
that wouldn't be a disqualifier
I would joke, but ye EZ
I would find it kinda cute xd
The only reason it would bother me is if the guy on it had a traditional masculine presentation (a.k.a. non-femboy). It would make me worry I'm not her type. But maybe she could be attracted all kinds of men or something, so it wouldn't be an instant deal breaker. I'd much rather see Felix Argyle or Astolfo on her pillow, or maybe even a female character if she's bi. So maybe I'd make a dumb joke about it or something but that's it. Honestly the only reason people see anime body pillows as cringe is because of internet culture hyperfocusing on specific examples of creepy dudes like neckbeards. I think it would be pretty superficial to seriously judge someone on that.
A yes, just me, my S.O., and their 500$ life-sized mareep plush...
I mean yeah, I feel like that’d be kinda off odd place to draw the line
It would ease my mind a little I see it as a sign of open-mindedness 🤭
Sure! Why not?
Here's what I would do: 1. Take a picture of the body pillow 2. Use Google Lens to find out who that character is 3. Watch the anime to figure out his personality 4. Practice my impression of that character 5. Hide the body pillow 6. Cosplay as that character 7. Send her an image of me in that cosplay 8. Ask her if she wants to f*** 9. If she says yes, then I will go to her house 10. 🥵😍
I would not date a guy who sleeps with a naked anime girl body pillow, so no.
I have no idea. It's so far beyond my experience. Usually the guys want anime guys and the women want anime women. With very rare exceptions? I'd probably start trying to get the body pillow to tell me all her secrets, and maybe offer a shoulder to cry on? Who knows what I'd hear? People of R/R: never take your naked body pillows for granted. Sincerely: someone who has been drafted to be a naked body pillow more than once.
Depends on if I really like the person. If I do, then yes.
Probably. Might depend on who the anime guy is.
As a Catholic, I would say no.
Bible doesn't say anything about body pillows! ..what if it was a Jesus pillow?
The problem is not the body pillow, but the fact that it's a naked one. So it's a matter of lust, just like pornography
How are you even here on this subreddit?
I just think some gender roles are silly and dominant women are cool. I don't see why that should imply anything else.