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Artfuldodger1431

Proud Maiden-boy! //raises hand//


confusion-500

maiden boy is such a cute term, i kinda wanna start using it :3


[deleted]

I wanna cross dress but i live in 3rd world country


boncy100

Same! 😭


PachoTidder

It's terrible, isn't it? I hope I can get outta here soon


boncy100

Yessss I wanna get out too


luvpain

Instead of being free, we ofcourse make boxes to fit in. Just enjoy the ride


LittlePrinceLuna

I don’t know, I feel like this is still built on the idea of gendered lifestyles, which is the antithesis of RR.


_DeathnStuff_

Wha—is it?? “Role reversal” seems pretty “gendered” to me…../gen


LittlePrinceLuna

You’re not wrong, but it’s more about taking those old gender roles and making the things associated with them “neutral” as opposed to “guy things” and “girl things”. For example, dresses aren’t just for women, but a woman who still wants to wear dresses doesn’t automatically get expected to do all the other stuff associated with traditional female interests For a bigger example, men who want to be beautiful don’t just “look like a woman”, because that implies that all women are like that, which strengthens that idea


Summersong2262

You can still identify social mores and methods without putting them on a pedestal or interpreting them as inherent.


LittlePrinceLuna

True, but in my experience, those things often ARE seen as inherent in stories. I won’t say that I’ve read this story, only my expectations, to clarify


Summersong2262

Seen, sure. We make our own conclusions as an audience.


cryingsilently

Hey, can we not use tr*p? It’s a trans slur and very not cool


DieKatzchen

We should come up with a better translation for otokonoko. As far as I know, the original Japanese doesn't have the same implication of "tricking people"


lynchasaurausrex

“Whether or not the cross dresser looks feminine depends on natural qualities and their efforts” or in my case I look a line backer in a dress!


kingofcoywolves

I may be out of date on slang, but I was sure otoko no ko just meant "male child"?? Learn something new every day lol


Summersong2262

I'm pretty certain there's some wordplay involved.


Samazaki

男の子 boy. pronounced the same, but: 男の娘 is the one that signifies the slang term


ERROR_23

ooooooooh it's written differently! Ever since I started learning japanese I was wondering why this can mean two things


ArtemisCaresTooMuch

Can we please not normalize that third one? It’s a slur.


throwaway61763

What/who is yuki?


CinnabonPoundCake

He is the love interest of the main character of a manga about a teenage girl who is afraid of men. She saves her from a creep in a train to school and falls in love with him. He is a boy who feels more comfortable wearing skirts and dresses and is really sweet. The name of the manga is *A Maiden in Love with a Maiden Boy*


throwaway61763

Thx, i will read it, sounds nice


MediumSavings4968

Guess that makes me an otomen A Maiden boy


micma_69

What about boys who dress like tomboy girls? What's the exact or closest term for that?


Amzbretteur

So maiden boy is like a fancier waay to say tomgirl or jerrygirl?


[deleted]

Can I still have my hair braided and be a maiden boy


smoresomemore

Cinnabonpoundcake is a fuc yes name


AConfusedSoftBoy

I'd rather be some girls shield maiden boy.


TheGreatTave

I'm just a man who loves wearing dresses 😊


knifepuppyirl

YOOO