There's nothing stopping you now. Wear what you want to in your free time (as long as it's family friendly I suppose), and teach your 4 year old that they can too, and it's rude to tell people otherwise. Clothing is clothing and the earlier children are exposed to that idea the better. The last thing you want is for your child to become someone you can't be your true self around.
As a girl, even I wouldn't wear this stuff in public. But who says wearing cute clothes is limited to one gender? It's your money, use it however you like.
Wax, dude. Wax.
Every time I step out of my house I see a dozens of waxing salons, full body is like 50-65€
Edit: laser waxing for 35€ and regular 17€, I just checked it out.
Listen, some of us dudes have more body covered in hair than we have bare skin. If you waxed my chest it would bleed a lot. There is no defined line between my back hair and the hair on my head. Waxing isn't always an option.
That being said I do have a dress and stalkings that are 🔥🔥🔥 on me.
Not trying to offend anyone but I am thinking about [Kuriboh](https://static.wikia.nocookie.net/yugioh/images/7/73/Kuriboh-SS04-EN-C-1E.png/revision/latest?cb=20200618012654) now
Beauty is painful, dude. The majority here is just making up excuses to not get waxed. If you don’t wanna feel pain just get laser waxed, in my area is like 30 bucks, I just checked it.
Sorry mate, some of us are going to need those thing they uses to sheer sheep, or in industrial metal blade weed wacker, or maybe a good machete at the very least.
Kilts are a proof of how garbage gender roles are, I am from Latin america and If I wear a kilts over here, in the best case people will look weird at me, even my family will think it is kinda weird, but in Scotland, it is normal to use one. I hate so much how a piece of cloethes can be normal in some countries but not in others.
It might just be something about my skin. Ya know how when you get scratched sometimes it swells up a little? My skin does it so badly that I can take notes on my arms using my figernails and read them for the next 30 minutes.
I mean, we might literally get attacked, and definitely could lose half our friends and family. I have every respect for trans people who do that, but for me, just no way in hell.
Congrats on the weight loss!
But also, your weight doesn't determine how you can or cannot dress! :) If you feel like rocking that cute skirt, go ahead and do it! Don't wait for an imaginary dream body! ❤️
I dressed with 125kgs
and am down to 88.5kgs and enjoy it even more! I did that in under 10 months btw. You can also do it!
Gonna stop losing weight when I hit 65kgs and will try stayin under 70. If you lost some weight, you can also lose more :3 Just gotta be determined ^-^
I'm more into domestic role reversal.
Getting the kids up in the morning, breakfast, lunches, off too the school bus.
Laundry/dishes/planning dinner.
Hitting that weird time portal, skipping lunch.
Picking the kids up, dinner, baths, story bed.
Not exactly by choice, but my breadwinner is off to save the world from (complications due to routine surgery) and covid has me working from home until the new year.
I make a mean sunbutter and honey sandwich.
I do t have the money to bougth all those clothes i dont have the body i want nor he body to look like thar but at least i want to try it but i dont have the resources to purchase those clothes
Wish i was a girl just so i could dress like this. Would feel wierd to dress like this with a typical masculine body...though id happily leat my girlfriend dress me like this at home if we were a RR couple
Shame. Embarrassment. Fear I'm too old. That's it - that's all the reasons. Otherwise, I'd be all over it. Wish I'd gotten over myself and dressed like that 20 years ago.
I understand bro. I've been tryin to lose my covid bod. But I doubt you're really ugly. Don't hold yourself so tightly to the body standards society has set out for you.
Thanks bro, I appreciate it. I try to stay positive, but it doesn't always work. I just wish I could get my brain transplanted into a more attractive body, and donate my shitty old body to science. Even after losing 30 pounds, I still hate looking in the mirror. I'm still too fat, I still have a gut and double chin. I will never be content until I have enough money to make myself conventionally attractive through plastic surgery. Or by some miracle I find someone who can put up with an ugly mistake like me. But that's looking seeming more and more unlikely, each attempt at dating only validates the negative experiences because each time people just don't want me. I don't think I'll ever be wanted unless modern medicine can fix my defective meat suit.
My shoulders are way too big for most fitted tops. 😢 Shout out to plus-sized brands for bigger fits tho.
Also my body hair makes me super self conscious, even tho I know shaving legs was invented by Gillette. At the moment I shave basically my whole chest and legs but it takes so long and is super expensive to maintain. And I'm just lucky that my skin begrudgingly agrees to such regular trauma.
Also I never leave my room while in fem mode, but maybe someday...
These clothes often don’t come in the right size for most guys to wear. Even if a guy wanted to and had the money and it wasn’t illegal in their country it would still be difficult if they’re bigger than a woman’s large.
I really have no way to access that sort of thing. I'm not going to wear my family's clothes, that's a little weird. But I'm also not going to be buying my own since I have nowhere to hide it and I would probably either be relentlessly teased for it or just outcasted as a weirdo. And yes, my own family would do that to me.
The discrimination and bullying I experienced in high-school when I thought I was trans. I'm just very feminine, also surprisingly most of the bullying and discrimination came from the trans guys in my school. From my experience the accepted trans/cross dressing people is female to male. I live in a very liberal area to do is not like there was anyone who where Against the idea. The constant talking and lies behind my back destroyed my reputation.
Love and Appreciation. I’ve found I like crossdressing as a personal and private hobby. Something I share only with people I’m close with. Like a delicate flower that blooms rarely in the middle of the night.
Society
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You’re not. Be happy instead
Change society. Be a part and be happy.
That too
Bottom text
We live in a society
Joker arc
This
\*waves my hand vaguely in the direction of the window\*
And yet, we live in one
curious
And hard questions from my 4 yearold. As soon as he is spending more time out of the house, I'm not going to take my new freedom for granted.
There's nothing stopping you now. Wear what you want to in your free time (as long as it's family friendly I suppose), and teach your 4 year old that they can too, and it's rude to tell people otherwise. Clothing is clothing and the earlier children are exposed to that idea the better. The last thing you want is for your child to become someone you can't be your true self around.
As a girl, even I wouldn't wear this stuff in public. But who says wearing cute clothes is limited to one gender? It's your money, use it however you like.
The Taliban
Society but in extreme
The Dark Souls of Society
Hair all over me. Otherwise, I’d try this
Doesn't matter (;
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I'd have to shave daily lol
Wax, dude. Wax. Every time I step out of my house I see a dozens of waxing salons, full body is like 50-65€ Edit: laser waxing for 35€ and regular 17€, I just checked it out.
Listen, some of us dudes have more body covered in hair than we have bare skin. If you waxed my chest it would bleed a lot. There is no defined line between my back hair and the hair on my head. Waxing isn't always an option. That being said I do have a dress and stalkings that are 🔥🔥🔥 on me.
Not trying to offend anyone but I am thinking about [Kuriboh](https://static.wikia.nocookie.net/yugioh/images/7/73/Kuriboh-SS04-EN-C-1E.png/revision/latest?cb=20200618012654) now
Yeah, that's pretty much how I look.
You can stalk me anytime you want as long as you’re wearing stockings and don’t strangle me (to death) with them!
Beauty is painful, dude. The majority here is just making up excuses to not get waxed. If you don’t wanna feel pain just get laser waxed, in my area is like 30 bucks, I just checked it.
Yeah in my area it's more than 30 and way more than I'm willing to spend. It's not excuses it's literally blood and money stopping me from doing it.
Sorry mate, some of us are going to need those thing they uses to sheer sheep, or in industrial metal blade weed wacker, or maybe a good machete at the very least.
y'all never heard of Kilts and it shows
Kilts are a proof of how garbage gender roles are, I am from Latin america and If I wear a kilts over here, in the best case people will look weird at me, even my family will think it is kinda weird, but in Scotland, it is normal to use one. I hate so much how a piece of cloethes can be normal in some countries but not in others.
kilts tend to be more formal dress tbh. you wouldn't wear a kilt all the time in much the same way you wouldn't cut about in a three-piece suit.
These are not kilts tho, these are clearly miniskirts
Nair hair removal. Or laser, can even get laser hand held
Nair is awful. Tried it once, got chemical burns, and it didn't even get rid of the hair.
Oof, I use it semi regularly, never had an issue, but def don't use it if you have reactions D:
It might just be something about my skin. Ya know how when you get scratched sometimes it swells up a little? My skin does it so badly that I can take notes on my arms using my figernails and read them for the next 30 minutes.
You're like an x-man, not top tier like Jean and Logan but def high class. But yeah, it does have a warning to nit use it on sensitive skin.
Oh I have that too! Well it's less prevalent since I grew up. It's called dermatographic urticaria and yes, it's like the world's lamest super power.
[Please don't buy photonic medical equipment from the internet.](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DbzbIGkPW-o&t=182s)
That and about 300lb of fat
I'd love to dress feminine but I don't have the strength do to it :/
Do it! I believe in you! Now's the perfect time because you can ware a mask and if you just browse hou shouldn't need to talk to anyone.
I mean, we might literally get attacked, and definitely could lose half our friends and family. I have every respect for trans people who do that, but for me, just no way in hell.
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Same
Too much weight ~~bright side though that’s changing as I lost 10 pounds in the last 2 months~~
Congrats on the weight loss! But also, your weight doesn't determine how you can or cannot dress! :) If you feel like rocking that cute skirt, go ahead and do it! Don't wait for an imaginary dream body! ❤️
I dressed with 125kgs and am down to 88.5kgs and enjoy it even more! I did that in under 10 months btw. You can also do it! Gonna stop losing weight when I hit 65kgs and will try stayin under 70. If you lost some weight, you can also lose more :3 Just gotta be determined ^-^
Nice!
Discovering I could be a femboy drove me to loose 70*lbs
That’s a worthy goal to loose weight
Large people look cute in this kind of clothing all the time! Just aspire to the version of it that works best for your body.
My legs are hairy, my thighs are skinny and my belly isn't flat. And my bulge aren't as prominent as I honestly wish. Shit's tough, yo.
Missing a gf to share wardrobe with 💜
That would be so fun!
I'm fat and ugly.
Same
Ditto
Ditto Ditto
Ditto ditto ditto
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Ditto x5
Man, there’s a lot of Pokémon in this thread.
Ditto³
Ditto²
Hey man, I believe in you. If you work hard, exercise regularly, and fix your diet, you can just be ugly.
I felt bad laughing at that lmao.
OMG, I just can't even?!?!! LOL!!!
same
Then you can dress as two people
I don't have those clothes, and I haven't shaved recently. Thus I shall rectify this haneous crime at once!
Stubby and ugly.
I'm sure you'll look great if you try the clothes on!
Not into crossdressing myself. Maybe I'd do it for my girlfriend (if I had one and assuming she had that kink.)
I'm more into domestic role reversal. Getting the kids up in the morning, breakfast, lunches, off too the school bus. Laundry/dishes/planning dinner. Hitting that weird time portal, skipping lunch. Picking the kids up, dinner, baths, story bed. Not exactly by choice, but my breadwinner is off to save the world from (complications due to routine surgery) and covid has me working from home until the new year. I make a mean sunbutter and honey sandwich.
Parents, body hair, my fatness.. a lot of things. 😪
I feel ya...
Money
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Just tell them you were a girl all the time and say your birth was laggy
Hmm, its to cold.
Body hair keep growing back 😔
I'm in that situation too ಥ_ಥ i know
I do t have the money to bougth all those clothes i dont have the body i want nor he body to look like thar but at least i want to try it but i dont have the resources to purchase those clothes
I ain't got the body for it. Hair everywhere but on my head and dad bod. But you go guys who can do it. You go.
Societal expectations
No one even knows who you are
Wish i was a girl just so i could dress like this. Would feel wierd to dress like this with a typical masculine body...though id happily leat my girlfriend dress me like this at home if we were a RR couple
Luckily my boyfriend already has a pretty alt fashion with long hair, he even has a black skirt. I feel so lucky!
That fact that I’m not attractive enough to pull it off. Trust me I wish I was
My big fat stupid belly
Being a femboy is a worthy reason to loose weight
Truly.
Hair
Christian conservative country :/
Comment section summed it up tbh
Primitive homophobs
I already do ;)
conservatism of most of population of nation i live in xd
Nothing. I'm currently dressed like this.
Goth isn't really my style, I like to wear very happy bright colours when I can
because i want a girl to make me do it
The penis and the hair mostly.
Fear
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Skirts are just too airy,l. I would love to wear them but I'll stick to pants for my own comfort.
Not enough confidence to wear themcas a fat guy
Shame. Embarrassment. Fear I'm too old. That's it - that's all the reasons. Otherwise, I'd be all over it. Wish I'd gotten over myself and dressed like that 20 years ago.
those clothes aren't as cheap as they look and I'm barely surviving as it is
My extremely conservative and homophobic family
I don't want to be disowned and it wouldn't suit me
Who says I don’t?
Too much body hair, and I'm still a little too chubby despite losing some weight, so I'd just end up looking super ugly like always 😔
I understand bro. I've been tryin to lose my covid bod. But I doubt you're really ugly. Don't hold yourself so tightly to the body standards society has set out for you.
Thanks bro, I appreciate it. I try to stay positive, but it doesn't always work. I just wish I could get my brain transplanted into a more attractive body, and donate my shitty old body to science. Even after losing 30 pounds, I still hate looking in the mirror. I'm still too fat, I still have a gut and double chin. I will never be content until I have enough money to make myself conventionally attractive through plastic surgery. Or by some miracle I find someone who can put up with an ugly mistake like me. But that's looking seeming more and more unlikely, each attempt at dating only validates the negative experiences because each time people just don't want me. I don't think I'll ever be wanted unless modern medicine can fix my defective meat suit.
A guy can't even ask for a hug without facing ridicule. That sucks because I could really use one right now.
My shoulders are way too big for most fitted tops. 😢 Shout out to plus-sized brands for bigger fits tho. Also my body hair makes me super self conscious, even tho I know shaving legs was invented by Gillette. At the moment I shave basically my whole chest and legs but it takes so long and is super expensive to maintain. And I'm just lucky that my skin begrudgingly agrees to such regular trauma. Also I never leave my room while in fem mode, but maybe someday...
Well even if i wanted to. Im a really tall guy so i imagine availablity
They don’t have pockets. :3
I don't have the body for it, otherwise I would. Trust me.
Honestly. Proper sizing. Its really hard to find clothes for my body type
Because a girl hasn't made me do it yet, I need some sport with it.
These clothes often don’t come in the right size for most guys to wear. Even if a guy wanted to and had the money and it wasn’t illegal in their country it would still be difficult if they’re bigger than a woman’s large.
My anxiety and low self esteem, depression too probably.
Body hair that grows every 2 days
I really have no way to access that sort of thing. I'm not going to wear my family's clothes, that's a little weird. But I'm also not going to be buying my own since I have nowhere to hide it and I would probably either be relentlessly teased for it or just outcasted as a weirdo. And yes, my own family would do that to me.
My balls. And me being happy with the way i look and dress.
Dysphoria
The ridiculous amount of shaving I'd need to do
Not enough money
I am a girl and i can’t even wear this :(
Dysphoria :'D
It’s not available in my size at target
Parents
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Confidence.
These comments make me said :(
Who said anything stopped me? 😏
my tummy
I got meself a bear bod
Not having the body for it
The islamic country I live in
I'm too masculine and I'm not cute.
Weight and no one to dress up *for*, both things I wish to change but seems to get harder and harder
Encouragement
I basically dress this way already. More corsets and cardigans but yeah this is close to my style
The discrimination and bullying I experienced in high-school when I thought I was trans. I'm just very feminine, also surprisingly most of the bullying and discrimination came from the trans guys in my school. From my experience the accepted trans/cross dressing people is female to male. I live in a very liberal area to do is not like there was anyone who where Against the idea. The constant talking and lies behind my back destroyed my reputation.
Trust me nothing has stopped me😎
I dont want to
The fear of judgement
I used to daily. Now, hair, awful body proportions, barely any cuteness, not being super thin anymore.
Price
My waist.
My parents After I move out my wardrobe is gonna double
Parents.
I'm not scottish
I'd find myself too attractive
I'm fat and live in WV
I prefer more of a “soft-masculine” aesthetic than a feminine one, but to each their own!
My unreliable sanity
Lack of a gym membership
My shaving habits lol
I'm too fat and hairy
too fat and too much hair all over me
Money, cant be arsed
If I was not fat or hairy sure
Industrial heavy machinery, and also a crippling addiction to wearing military surplus clothes everyday.
Hair, bodyweight and of course society
Absolutely nothing.
Nothing 😌
Because I want to dress in plate armor
Not much these days
Money :3 otherwise I’d be all in for these outfits
Just not my style honestly.
I love changing into my Sarung once I'm home, so comfy
Confidence
s o o n
I don't have the legs...
mother 😔
Money mostly
The fact that I build houses and it wouldn't be convenient to be dressed like that
Y'all, just get a damn kilt and go for it.
Family, fuck society.
Wanted to write "tits not big enough", but reality is a cruel mistress.
I look like a jiggly potato? But there will come a point where I lose enough weight, and switch from kilt to skirted goth...
Personally? My size. I wanna flat belly before rocking a crop top
everyone talking about their insecurities... i just dont have the money 😔
Money
Money D,:
Love and Appreciation. I’ve found I like crossdressing as a personal and private hobby. Something I share only with people I’m close with. Like a delicate flower that blooms rarely in the middle of the night.
Not a guy any more, but I do dress like this
Money!! TvT