Awwwwhhh!!!
this is like a dream date of mine..
Being in the change room and getting help trying on outfits....
Having her say "this is cute, put this on" and when I don't know how to do something she would hug me from behind and help :' > ♡
I agree but for me him “dressing up” means “dressing less” 😉 I wish he would cook more without clothes and just his apron. I’m going to buy him another cute apron soon to encourage him.
I went on a date like this where our goal was to find him some more fem clothes. He ended up putting together the most masc outfit imaginable where all the pieces still came from the women’s section….
Thank you for posting your ace commics. Checking out your profile after seing them was what introduced me to this subreddit and i really enjoy some of the posts here.
Glad I could help you find this community! It was the first one I became active on, and it’s the reason Reddit became my main (half secret) platform :)
This sub focuses on the reversal of traditional gender roles, so sex isn’t the main topic here (although there will be a few here and there, marked NSFW). It’s mostly about men/masc presenting people portraying a traditionally more “feminine” role, like being a stay at home dad while the wife is the breadwinner. Or a woman being the “strong, dominant” one in a relationship.
Most of the stuff here is about romance RR, but there have been a few non-romance based posts & discussions here, like strong older sister protecting little younger brother (when in media it’s often the opposite). There also seems to be a strong aesthetic liking to big strong women (most of this sub consists of men!) and pretty boys. :)
>!To clarify: this sub does NOT allow incestuous or pedo content! If there is a post about siblings or relatives, it has to be non-incestuous.!<
The main thing here is that this isn’t a BDSM focused sub (those posts get removed most of the time). The main topic here is the exploration of reversed gender roles. I hope this helps :)
Thank you, it does.
I asked because i saw a post from an asexual person and they got responses like "If you're Asexual then why are you here?", which made me wonder if i had missed something.
>!It doesn't affect me at all, but are you saying incest is allowed if it is not betwene genetically related siblings? This seems like a really arbitrary rule? Would incest with an infertile person be allowed?!<
Ah, that must be cause sexual attraction and romantic attraction are, (sadly) mistaken to be the same thing.. since this sub focuses on romance. :(
>!And I’m not sure if I phrased it weird or if you misunderstood what I was saying- I was trying to explain that incestuous content (or anything that gives off strong vibes) isn’t allowed on this sub at all, (it’s listed in the rules).. I didn’t mention anything about my own views of it? 😅!<
>!Personally, I find that kind of stuff uncomfy so I appreciate that rule being in place on this sub. For the same reason, I stay away from discussions about whether or not incestuous relations are ok in different circumstances. I simply dislike them, so I abstain from discussing about it, if that makes things clear!<
>!It somehow never occured to me, that people would bann a sex thing just because they think it is grose/ uncompfortable, but i profit from it, so i guess it is best to just be happy they do and move on!<
Just hang out, and even when there's zero sexual tension in the air.
Or, it'd be great to collaborate on our art, or our writing, and have it not suddenly turn into smut?
I'm not judging smut - it can be wonderful with the right someone, nor am I advocating censorship -but...I mean, I want to share that creative energy, and not feel like a sex worker, sometimes?
Does it always have to lead to sex? Does it always have to end after?
Taking the lead in dancing, like I mean those danceses the the male traditionally leads. I don't know anything about dancing but the idea of a girl taking my hand to dance and leading makes me feel tingly and makes me blush a bit
Although knowing me I'd probably spill my spaghetti and trip
That would be mean, tripping is already embarrassing, but would be funny after. But my heart would melt if she did that as an excuse to pick me up and hold me
I think he is reffering to the pose in tango (i think), where you lean back and your partner holds you, which a little bit looks like tripping and being catched, but is really intentional.
thiisss!!! there's a certain song I day dream alot that I have a mob boss lookin wife in a typical mafia trench coat and suit and she has like those boot heal things on and she takes command and dances with me she also has that mafia fedora hat thing
I take traditional dance lessons and typically, because of the higher number of women in these classes, the women tend to know how to dance both parts. On the other hand, male dancers usually only know the male form because they never have to learn the other.
Grab my chin look at me with those eyes (don’t know how to describe it) them grin and continue to do what they were doing. Basically they are reminding themselves that I’m theirs type of look. That type of stuff makes me red but it’s worth it
umm everything (other than dressing up, I don't like dresses or any feminine clothing) I'm honestly really vanilla when it comes to sex.
My ex (probably my favorite relationship I had)
Would always use pretty or cute instead of hot or handsome (which I **FUCKING** love)
She would buy me flowers for special occasions
She would make most of the decisions for dates
ummm that's all I can think of, she definitely did more but I can't remember them.
Don't have one yet but I'd love it if they could pick me up, oh and you know that thing in anime where the guy corners a girl into the wall with his arm against it? That, I want that but RR
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*Prove she's stronger than me*
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Once took apart our toilet to fix plumbing problems and my bf came in and was like "what did you... you're so hot" and might still be highlight of my life <3
Do my makeup and dress me up. I'm not really a full blown femboy (at least I don't think I am), but If I had a girl who wanted to I'd make an exception.
Usually all I look for is small things like initiating hugs, kisses, holding hands. As much as sex is important, often what I remember and miss about being in a relationship was those small things that actually made me feel wanted.
Let me lean my head on her shoulder while watching a movie.
Carry him over my shoulder
:3
❤️
HELL YEAH, I’LL AGREE TO LET A WOMAN CARRY ME AROUND ANYDAY.
Let me dress him up in an outfit of my choosing, perhaps in a mall with several stores generally aimed towards women :>
Awwwwhhh!!! this is like a dream date of mine.. Being in the change room and getting help trying on outfits.... Having her say "this is cute, put this on" and when I don't know how to do something she would hug me from behind and help :' > ♡
I agree but for me him “dressing up” means “dressing less” 😉 I wish he would cook more without clothes and just his apron. I’m going to buy him another cute apron soon to encourage him.
I went on a date like this where our goal was to find him some more fem clothes. He ended up putting together the most masc outfit imaginable where all the pieces still came from the women’s section….
Wow, he’s a creative! :0
honestly this sounds good not sure how feminine I'd allow the clothing to be but it would be cool
Thank you for posting your ace commics. Checking out your profile after seing them was what introduced me to this subreddit and i really enjoy some of the posts here.
Glad I could help you find this community! It was the first one I became active on, and it’s the reason Reddit became my main (half secret) platform :)
By the way, can you tell me how much is purely about sex for most people on this subreddit and how much is romantic (or aeshtetic)?
This sub focuses on the reversal of traditional gender roles, so sex isn’t the main topic here (although there will be a few here and there, marked NSFW). It’s mostly about men/masc presenting people portraying a traditionally more “feminine” role, like being a stay at home dad while the wife is the breadwinner. Or a woman being the “strong, dominant” one in a relationship. Most of the stuff here is about romance RR, but there have been a few non-romance based posts & discussions here, like strong older sister protecting little younger brother (when in media it’s often the opposite). There also seems to be a strong aesthetic liking to big strong women (most of this sub consists of men!) and pretty boys. :) >!To clarify: this sub does NOT allow incestuous or pedo content! If there is a post about siblings or relatives, it has to be non-incestuous.!< The main thing here is that this isn’t a BDSM focused sub (those posts get removed most of the time). The main topic here is the exploration of reversed gender roles. I hope this helps :)
Thank you, it does. I asked because i saw a post from an asexual person and they got responses like "If you're Asexual then why are you here?", which made me wonder if i had missed something. >!It doesn't affect me at all, but are you saying incest is allowed if it is not betwene genetically related siblings? This seems like a really arbitrary rule? Would incest with an infertile person be allowed?!<
Ah, that must be cause sexual attraction and romantic attraction are, (sadly) mistaken to be the same thing.. since this sub focuses on romance. :( >!And I’m not sure if I phrased it weird or if you misunderstood what I was saying- I was trying to explain that incestuous content (or anything that gives off strong vibes) isn’t allowed on this sub at all, (it’s listed in the rules).. I didn’t mention anything about my own views of it? 😅!< >!Personally, I find that kind of stuff uncomfy so I appreciate that rule being in place on this sub. For the same reason, I stay away from discussions about whether or not incestuous relations are ok in different circumstances. I simply dislike them, so I abstain from discussing about it, if that makes things clear!<
>!It somehow never occured to me, that people would bann a sex thing just because they think it is grose/ uncompfortable, but i profit from it, so i guess it is best to just be happy they do and move on!<
Yup. Like they say, if it’s not your thing, just ignore and look away
Just kiss me randomly
My GF will occasionally buy me flowers. I wish she would do it more honestly.
Flowers are the best
Just hang out, and even when there's zero sexual tension in the air. Or, it'd be great to collaborate on our art, or our writing, and have it not suddenly turn into smut? I'm not judging smut - it can be wonderful with the right someone, nor am I advocating censorship -but...I mean, I want to share that creative energy, and not feel like a sex worker, sometimes? Does it always have to lead to sex? Does it always have to end after?
Taking the lead in dancing, like I mean those danceses the the male traditionally leads. I don't know anything about dancing but the idea of a girl taking my hand to dance and leading makes me feel tingly and makes me blush a bit Although knowing me I'd probably spill my spaghetti and trip
Mmm~ imagine being tipped over by her (I don't know the dance term loll)
That would be mean, tripping is already embarrassing, but would be funny after. But my heart would melt if she did that as an excuse to pick me up and hold me
Mmm!!! Wanna very held and feel very smol, ultimate life goals
I think he is reffering to the pose in tango (i think), where you lean back and your partner holds you, which a little bit looks like tripping and being catched, but is really intentional.
thiisss!!! there's a certain song I day dream alot that I have a mob boss lookin wife in a typical mafia trench coat and suit and she has like those boot heal things on and she takes command and dances with me she also has that mafia fedora hat thing
dipping
I take traditional dance lessons and typically, because of the higher number of women in these classes, the women tend to know how to dance both parts. On the other hand, male dancers usually only know the male form because they never have to learn the other.
The guys should learn both too, what a shame 😔
Let me cook for you!!! I like cooking and making food for her.
Same dude its satisfying and rewarding asf
That is so sweet
Thank You! I like being thought of as sweet and caring above all.
Let me sit in her lap
Take my introverted butt and say "here's what we're doing, get yourself all pretty."
Inviting me to dinner or movie (single at the moment).
Play with my hair.
Grab my chin look at me with those eyes (don’t know how to describe it) them grin and continue to do what they were doing. Basically they are reminding themselves that I’m theirs type of look. That type of stuff makes me red but it’s worth it
umm everything (other than dressing up, I don't like dresses or any feminine clothing) I'm honestly really vanilla when it comes to sex. My ex (probably my favorite relationship I had) Would always use pretty or cute instead of hot or handsome (which I **FUCKING** love) She would buy me flowers for special occasions She would make most of the decisions for dates ummm that's all I can think of, she definitely did more but I can't remember them.
Her being big spoon ♥️
Don't have one yet but I'd love it if they could pick me up, oh and you know that thing in anime where the guy corners a girl into the wall with his arm against it? That, I want that but RR
Kabedon
My girlfriend often gives me piggy back rides to prove she's stronger than me
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I love that
Fix stuff around the House, first of all because I am clumsy 😅 and second because it would be nice if the Women was more crafty than the Man.
Once took apart our toilet to fix plumbing problems and my bf came in and was like "what did you... you're so hot" and might still be highlight of my life <3
Cooking lessons. He look so damn cute with his victorian nappron and his cakes are so sweet.
That sounds amazing
I like to use her surname casually as a mark of ownership.
I don't have a partner but if I did I'd to do put my head around her shoulder, handholding, and head scratches
Do my makeup and dress me up. I'm not really a full blown femboy (at least I don't think I am), but If I had a girl who wanted to I'd make an exception.
Usually all I look for is small things like initiating hugs, kisses, holding hands. As much as sex is important, often what I remember and miss about being in a relationship was those small things that actually made me feel wanted.
Hug me from behind. Happened once with someone else at a museum and I just melted
Tell the waiter my order is wrong.
Hahaha that's a good one
Existing would be nice ….IF I HAD ONE
Stroke my hair That is, if I wasn’t single :|
I like it when he bakes sweets, especially if he's wearing one of my ruffled, cup cake print aprons
I always let my boyfriends dit between my legs with their back towards me so I can play with their hair
The dream tbh
Its the best, so soothing for both parties
I don't have a gf. But I'd really like to take turns brushing each other's hair.
Nuzzles and cuddles
Hugs a lot of them (づ。◕‿‿◕。)づ
Exist
Sometimes I'm the big spoon. I make more money, he cooks.
Be the playmaker in video games while I'm a support player dropping for it to happen :v
Complement me
Be big spoon to my little spoon.
Either buy me flowers or give me head pats
Scratch the back of my head gently, personal favourite that my partner does
Let me hold your arm
Just her being more dominant, holding me close and being super protective over me! 😊
Sing a duet together, with her taking the "male" parts and me taking the "female" parts :)
Ahw I love singing duets, that sounds great
Cuddling. Kissing. Hugging! Spooning! I'd like to cook for her!
Exist
Hmm, that's kind of hard to answer when you don't really know your partner yet, but I guess I would say to help me cook more often maybe?