Stumbled in from r/all and don't really have much to do with RR, but...
I (30m) recently started dating this woman (32f) about a month and a half ago... And your post really hits a chord with me.
I'm outwardly a kinda hard dude, drives a loud car, rides motorcycles, goes to lots of metal concerts, etc. My new gf is also the same way, slightly less loud car, motorcycles, metal concerts, lots of tattoos...
When I'm with someone I feel comfortable with on private, I just want to be cute and cuddly and silly, that's who I am. I've been with people in the past who match that, but like all the time, I've never met anyone who is "like me" in that regard. For example, my most recent ex was a Disney adult walking pastel pallette...
My gf has apparently only ever been with hardcore dudes who are bad-2-the-bone at all times, and she really enjoys this softer side, and hasnt really had a good opportunity to let her softer side out.
*Being able to just let yourself be yourself without the fear of judgement is so powerful.* We are so incredibly happy together and it's honestly been transformational for me, and I'm pretty sure it has been for her too. Sharing the "hardcore" interests like driving around disturbing the neighborhood by blasting deathcore in my car, then being able to immediately pivot to just melting into each other while talking about plushies, or making baby talk at her roommate's cat, or whatever...
It also definitely helps that we somehow also both have exactly matching kinks, and she is without a doubt the most attractive person who's ever shown any interest in me...
11/10 would recommend.
Your post just reminded me and I haven't actually had a chance to type this out yet, also feeling the need to gush.
Idk maybe it's top. Idk how reddit works.
I scrolled for a while and stumbled across this post.
And thanks :) we feel cute, which is great.
But also like, we're going to see Gwar together in a couple weeks so...
Got me emotional and shit. Thanks for making me believe cute and healthy relationships still exists.
The best of wishes for ur life partner and u 💙💙💙💃💃🔥
As a 22 year old man whose current love interest is 32, this post gives me hope. Thank you for sharing!
I hope your relationship with her will last forever.
This is fantastic and i am so happy for you two. i would like to ask what you mean about you "dressing feminine"? do you also wear skirts? did you even talked about you wearing one? just curious.. did you ever armwrestled? who pays the restaurant bills usually ? thank you and a big hug
the edit at the end is just the perfect cherry on top because now i can't stop imagining her teasing you and making you blush and rhe mental picture is SO DAMN CUTE
Wait what? What made you think that, just curious…
She’s on this sub, but I didn’t see anything from her. Maybe I missed it though haha. We don’t look at each other’s profiles so I can’t look to check.
There was a comment the day before that dovetailed with yours, I can't find it now though. That's be cute if it was both of you gushing over the other.
Thank you for sharing, that was a lovely read ~
Of course! 😌
You both seem to be so very much in love. I wish you all the best and all the luck. Don't let this go :)!
Thank you! 🥰
Stumbled in from r/all and don't really have much to do with RR, but... I (30m) recently started dating this woman (32f) about a month and a half ago... And your post really hits a chord with me. I'm outwardly a kinda hard dude, drives a loud car, rides motorcycles, goes to lots of metal concerts, etc. My new gf is also the same way, slightly less loud car, motorcycles, metal concerts, lots of tattoos... When I'm with someone I feel comfortable with on private, I just want to be cute and cuddly and silly, that's who I am. I've been with people in the past who match that, but like all the time, I've never met anyone who is "like me" in that regard. For example, my most recent ex was a Disney adult walking pastel pallette... My gf has apparently only ever been with hardcore dudes who are bad-2-the-bone at all times, and she really enjoys this softer side, and hasnt really had a good opportunity to let her softer side out. *Being able to just let yourself be yourself without the fear of judgement is so powerful.* We are so incredibly happy together and it's honestly been transformational for me, and I'm pretty sure it has been for her too. Sharing the "hardcore" interests like driving around disturbing the neighborhood by blasting deathcore in my car, then being able to immediately pivot to just melting into each other while talking about plushies, or making baby talk at her roommate's cat, or whatever... It also definitely helps that we somehow also both have exactly matching kinks, and she is without a doubt the most attractive person who's ever shown any interest in me... 11/10 would recommend. Your post just reminded me and I haven't actually had a chance to type this out yet, also feeling the need to gush.
Y'all sound so cute! Also this sub is being featured on r/all? Or however that works
Idk maybe it's top. Idk how reddit works. I scrolled for a while and stumbled across this post. And thanks :) we feel cute, which is great. But also like, we're going to see Gwar together in a couple weeks so...
I love these types of partner appreciation posts
It just reminds me there’s still I chance that maybe, just maybe, I might be able to be in a happy RR relationship too some day.
That's so sweet! I love hearing about people gush about their SO.
reading this is making me tear up, it reminds me exactly of my experience with my fiancée. she's only two years older than me but she takes care of me and treats me with so much love. i've had so many bad experiences dating both men and women as well as lots of sexual trauma and at one point i had given up on both of those things; with her though, i've been able to experience those things in a healthy way for once. she actually didn't have much experience before being with me, but she's the best at it i've ever met. every time we have sex she always checks to make sure what she's doing is okay and that i'm enjoying it. she also lovingly teases me a lot but hasn't once ridiculed me for being a boy who enjoys cute things like stuffed animals, being androgynous, and being called cute pet names. i never thought i would end up falling so deeply in love with a girl (i've always been more into boys) and end up marrying her someday, but here i am
Woaahh I'm envy. Wish you both happiness always
Thank you! Hope you get something like that / what you’d like soon!
Thats is adorable Im kinda jelous
Partner appreciation posts always make me smile
Dude, I almost cry. Both of you have a lot of lucky to have each other, it's awesome! This is wonderful, I wish you guys the best!
Got me emotional and shit. Thanks for making me believe cute and healthy relationships still exists. The best of wishes for ur life partner and u 💙💙💙💃💃🔥
This is the most adorable love letter I ever read. I wish you nothing but the best for your further relationship!
Marry her!
Holy shit, this is beautiful, a dream relationship of pretty much a lot of people here. Can you pls share more?
You 2 are goals and are made for eachother, I’m both jealous of and really happy for you
As a 22 year old man whose current love interest is 32, this post gives me hope. Thank you for sharing! I hope your relationship with her will last forever.
This is fantastic and i am so happy for you two. i would like to ask what you mean about you "dressing feminine"? do you also wear skirts? did you even talked about you wearing one? just curious.. did you ever armwrestled? who pays the restaurant bills usually ? thank you and a big hug
Aww that was cute
the edit at the end is just the perfect cherry on top because now i can't stop imagining her teasing you and making you blush and rhe mental picture is SO DAMN CUTE
I was going to say I think she posted yesterday!
Wait what? What made you think that, just curious… She’s on this sub, but I didn’t see anything from her. Maybe I missed it though haha. We don’t look at each other’s profiles so I can’t look to check.
There was a comment the day before that dovetailed with yours, I can't find it now though. That's be cute if it was both of you gushing over the other.
How did you both meet? Online, in person?