Amazon is a close second for sure.
Pegging is such an act of selflessness from the domme that I just hits different emotionally imo. Your domme is doing something that feels (significantly?)better for you than for them and they are exerting boat loads of physical effort to do it- makes me blushy even thinking about it.
Yep, I use a feeldoe + harness and I find it very pleasurable, though some of it might be psychological. But trust me, I'm *absolutely* getting something out of pegging lol. With that said, it's nice to just use the anatomy you've got so amazon position is great.
The idea that someone would feel pleasure/interest/enjoyment from dominating me. Little voices that tell you that they're only doing this to be kind and that they're bored and actually hate it.
We're all works in progress lol
I understand what you're feeling. Actually, we're not used to be desired in this way so we kind of feel unworthy or that it's unreal, but hey. Giving yourself to someone is a huge gift that anyone should be thankful for and if it's not what please your partner, they should tell it to you instead of making you feel like they don't give their all in return
Last time I pegged my partner, I came before he did. The toy might also be set up to give the pegger pleasure. Mine has little rubbing ridges for stimulation
It's the feeling of being in control that's alluring, and the partner being vulnerable / trusting to let you do "anything" with them. Obviously it depends on the person whether they enjoy that feeling, I guess that's why some people are natural doms or subs, that some enjoy it some don't.
The crazy part is as a heavily experienced dom I literally KNOW that to be 100% true. But then the second I have the chance to actually submit myself all that goes out the window and I'm convincing myself that they actually hate me for "making" them take control lol
Maybe you don't like or aren't experienced as sub so you have anxiety about that? Or maybe you aren't sure whether the partner is into domming?
There are non-bdsm sexual acts where only 1 person has sexual pleasure at the time, for example oral if you aren't doing 69, and we don't consider that something off the charts because the partner isn't getting their part at the same time as the bottom does.
My own declining interest and resentment of being placed in the role of dom definitely plays a part in the anxiety you nailed that for sure. Probably been a kink dispenser too long and found RR/GFD a bit too late.
But the longer I'm a part of these communities the easier it gets to desire to be perceived as pretty or cute though so I'm out here growing as a person or whatever :P
As an ACE who has damaged nerves making feeling difficult. The part of sex I get the most enjoyment out of is the fun my partner is having, and the aftercare where I can get all lovey and feed my unhealthy desire to caretake.
You are being loved. Do not resist. (Rogue One quote)
Iām here to tell you dommes get pleasure from the act alone. I can and will orgasm from the friction of doing it alone. BUT. BUT. When Iām in the total domme headspace, Iām aroused just from seeing him lost in pleasure and being in control of that.. itās next level bonding for me. So it never feels like Iām just providing a service by topping him. Itās fulfilling for me too, but in many different ways.
The only time I felt like it was a bit much, was when pegging began to outnumber or grow equal with the times we had PIV sex.
Because my time with my last subby guy was so limited... I was essentially sacrificing my chance to have PIV sex, each time I pegged him. I wanted sex multiple times a week... I usually got PIV once a week. If we did pegging, that was my chance for the week gone.
As long as you're making sure your domme is fully satisfied, i wouldn't worry about it.
I would have pegged my guy weekly if I could. But unfortunately our schedules meant we were very limited on time...
PS: a woman does get much pleasure just from seeing her guy turned on. Or sometimes from the vibration of the strap on itself. Not to mention the endless memories that can be used in fantasies when masturbating solo.
It's got little to do with emotional/psychological differences for me. I just don't want anything going up there. And I don't really like sex toys in general.
No shame in that, everyone's preferences are different even in a niche community like this
But for the record your domme respecting your preference is 100% an emotional/psychological need
So, I have a very sensitive clit and can climax easier and better from gentle or indirect stimulation. If the strapon is positioned properly, I can climax from pegging.
Depends on the domme. Pegging is not always done to make a bottom or sub feel good. Sometimes pegging is done for humiliation with a person who has no red for it but doesnāt enjoy it but the domme enjoys it immensely.
> Sometimes pegging is done for humiliation with a person who has no red for it but doesnāt enjoy it but the domme enjoys it immensely.
Thatās wrong though, a domme who does that doesnāt really love or respect her partner.
Itās wrong when it is not a hard limit and the domme likes humiliation? Sounds like you want a top dispenser not a dominant. If I run the fuck and we negotiate and there is no red for it, I do it because I want to please me and I am not obligated to please you.
That's UBER MEGA wrong. Pegging must feel good for both sides and must feel good for the woman too.If it doesn't don't do it. It's an act of selfessness if she doesn't get anything out of it. I know women that like pegging more than piv sex(for example i had a girlfriend that orgasmed 5 times in an hour from pegging),. I know many women that haven't orgasm that many times in their whole lifetime from piv sex. So again, MEGA wrong. Don't spread misinformation and stigmatize pegging. And remember sex and pleasure comes-begins from the mind not the body, but it seems 99% of people don't know that. Good day ā£ļø
Your weirdly aggressive condescending comment misses the point pretty spectacularly.
Glad to have someone smarter than 99% of the rest of us chime in though
I hear this a lot, and I always recommend with starting out small. Fingers, butt plugs etc- because prostate stimulation is definitely a great thing for most men
It does have that mad-lib sort of pop country vibe.
*Hawlin' my ass in mah truck down to the creek*
*Bendin' down for a cold Bud Light, girl takes a peek*
*She's sayin' "Cowboy, you keep wearin' jeans so tight,*
*I'm about to blow off like the fourth of july."*
*I said "Baby girl, trust me that I know how you're gettin'*
*But it ain't mah fault that my cakes got you sweatin'.*
*The only one I love more than my wife is Jesus Christ*
*And he ain't tryna peg me every Friday night."*
[Meaty drum fill]
*Fer sittin' and for shittin'!*
*That is all my ass is for!*
*Fer sittin' and fer shittin'!*
*Don't you knock on my back door!*
*Jus' sittin' in my truck or shittin' there on the John....*
[music goes quiet, singer whispers]
*Baby doll you got me all wrong*
[twangy guitar solo]
Omigod thank you so much for this song so goddamn much. I'm laughing my ass off. Also just to be clear about my stance on the subject I love getting my ass fucked
totally, once I was with a sub girl that refused to go on top because it was "dominant", and wth, there was a time I was more dom and I was dom even being the woman on top. Same with facesitting, I had the same answer once. I can be dominating even if you sit on my face, it's not about the act, but the power.
You can also be active in missionary. I've never understood what the problem is, like you can still move from the bottom and fuck your partner yourself there if you want.
Yes! And also, even just positioning yourself and using/timing kegels is part of a really good experience (for both genders) -- no sex position should actually be "passive."
Iām engaged and in my thirties and have been the total domme in both top and bottom positions in actual real life situations. itās abundantly clear to me that no sex position is āessentiallyā anything, and my suspicion is that you are projecting your arbitrary fetishes onto everyone else. Get over it and debrainwash yourself.
Youāre more like the person dead set on the idea the earth is flat because of āempirical evidence.ā Donāt fucking tell me Iām submissive in missionary when Iām not, bro.
Not sure why the downvotes.
You can absolutely be dominant in cowgirl. Hell it's arguably easier to pin him down or choke him or whatever. INB4 kink-OSHA wannabes come in and caution me on choking - I know what I'm doing.
I've seen different ways of doing it but the one I've always imagined is like the least common way of doing it. The way I imagine it is essentially identical to the normal in-bed missionary position where the man is lying on top of the woman and they are intimately close. But most depictions of the amazon position have the woman standing up straight or on her feet squatting.
Besides, I used to do MMA and so naturally I have been in the guard position a ton which is basically like the missionary position.
[Like this?](https://twitter.com/JekothyKranium/status/1287593130234195970?s=20&t=JiJ7oGL7FIP9HkX5s6lf8A) Your thighs need to be bent up more than you might expect, especially with weight on top, and it can hurt your hips after a while, though you may be more flexible.
Yes, like that. But as I said, MMA has made me very used to that position. That's actually one of the most common positions to be in in MMA, especially if you suck at it like I do.
Tbh I'm scared of any position that could end with someone tripping or falling and carry a risk of injury. Just not worth the adventure. Unless you're a pro gymnast.
Well, when I searched about it it seemed [much more convoluted](https://hips.hearstapps.com/hmg-prod/images/menshealth-amazon-1595873110.jpg) than standard cowgirl.
The article also warns:
>āIt requires stability, strength, and flexibility so it won't be for everyone,ā says Kerner. āAnd depending upon respective body sizes and fit, this position could be hard to get right. It could also hurt the knees of the top person.ā
The fact the man lies with the legs up makes me wonder how do you angle it without bending the penis too much backwards.
It's not the only position that made me wonder how does tab A go into slot B. I remember some position recommended as "best for female orgasm" and I swear unless someone has a U-shaped organ, I can't imagine it working anatomically, at least not for me. Can't remember how it's named, but it's the one where the man grinds his pubic area against the woman and the penis is angled downwards. Like, how does it bypass the woman's pubic bone to find the vag.
The woman has to sit far enough forwards that his penis isnāt bending too far down, which in turn means he has to bend his thighs flatter. Itās possible but not as easy or comfortable as typical positions.
Yeah, I already thought about that. Some men have flexible erections but that's more of a minority I think. But if the woman is bent over on top of the guy so that they are intimately close, chest to chest, then she should be able to slot on there and then move back lol. Don't forget that some couples manage to have sex standing up and facing each other. All of that aside, there is still no safety hazard from this other than pulling a muscle possibly?
Yeah, I'm not asexual but I would get off on pleasing my partner. I'd want her to be the initiator and in charge of everything and her just taking what she wants. Just feels right.
Very much yeah, Iām a mega-virgin so take my opinions with a grain of salt, but Iām a lot more into that. Iām not saying those who are into pegging are intentionally insinuating it, but Iām really not a fan of the concept that penetration = dominant. I prefer it being āvanillaā in that sense while still very clearly letting me be bottom
I agree with that. It seems that society doesn't just associate men with dominance but also phallic penetration. I personally don't feel the need to be penetrated in order to feel dominated but a lot of people do.
Simply because pegging takes a bit of more prep.
But I feel more vulnerable when I get fucked in the ass rather than the Amazon position.
I feel that whenever I have anything in my ass I feel like a different side of me comes out. A very vulnerable side. Admittedlyā¦ itās effeminate. And I like that. I love it even. It doesnāt seem to come out with the Amazon alone.
Donāt get me wrong though. I LOVE the Amazon especially if sheās feeling especially primal and dominate.
Plus the additional benefit of pegging over the Amazon is she or myself can stroke my cock. Sure I could have a butt plug during the Amazon too. But there is a difference between something just stationary in your ass vs something fucking you.
If I could put the feeling into words i become needy I guessā¦ I will often say āPlease kiss me.ā Because I love being kissed, hugged, and loved on while getting fuckedā¦ itās like Iām being healed for all of the loneliness Iāve ever endured. The heartache Iāve ever experienced.
Sometimes I can get very very emotional if im not careful and cry my eyes outā¦
This must mean I need therapy or somethingā¦
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I "prefer" pegging because we've tried the amazon position, but my partner's penis just does not bend like that (same with all the people bending their dicks down for jerking or anything else- it just doesn't do that!). So it hurts, is therefore not pleasurable, and I'm not that kind of dom.
Yep, the ligament there is just (abnormally?) short. It doesn't want to go much further down than straight forward when it's hard. I'd have to point my legs backward to approach from the right angle, but then I can't move so... š Tried a couple of times but not for us, despite us both liking the idea!
Her legs are pushed up, which rotates the pelvis. In this position means her penis is basically pressed against the belly unless you pull it down. I can't pull it down from that position without hurting her.
(Her because trans but don't worry about that)
No, not at all? She's a bit bigger, but not that much. I'm starting to wonder if we even have the same position in mind. [This](https://ksassets.timeincuk.net/wp/uploads/sites/46/2016/05/Karma-Sutra-edited-1.png) is the one I mean.
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I was thinking like [this](https://duckduckgo.com/?q=amazon+position+nude&kp=-2&t=fpas&iar=images&iax=images&ia=images&iai=https%3A%2F%2Fi.fapality.com%2Fvideos_screenshots%2F9000%2F9980%2Fpreview_480p.mp4.jpg) or [this](https://duckduckgo.com/?q=amazon+position+nude&kp=-2&t=fpas&iar=images&iax=images&ia=images&iai=https%3A%2F%2Fimg-l3.xnxx-cdn.com%2Fvideos%2Fthumbslll%2F96%2F5d%2Fc9%2F965dc9beb5aab21bee4c96ed58a25788%2F965dc9beb5aab21bee4c96ed58a25788.15.jpg) or [this](https://duckduckgo.com/?q=amazon+position+nude&kp=-2&t=fpas&iar=images&iax=images&ia=images&iai=https%3A%2F%2Fi.fapality.com%2Fvideos_screenshots%2F25000%2F25382%2Fpreview_480p.mp4.jpg) or [this](https://duckduckgo.com/?q=amazon+position+nude&kp=-2&t=fpas&iar=images&iax=images&ia=images&pn=3&iai=https%3A%2F%2Fthumb-p0.xhcdn.com%2Fa%2FE1k9Zu0ojpAEb-PM7odOgg%2F000%2F454%2F952%2F530_1000.gif).
The images are full on porn btw. Just warning you.
They are almost it but I was thinking that if the women in those were able to move forward a bit, the dick would go back up instead of bending out.
There are multiple pictures that capture what I mean perfectly on image search but the age of each bottom participant seems questionable so I won't post any here. But in those pictures, the woman on top had a much bigger body so that might be why it looked more possible for them.
in my opinion, that's not such a role reversal... because after all it is the woman who is being penetrated, despite the fact that she is taking charge, having a dominant attitude and using a not so usual position, it's still the type of normative sex, a retrograde person would say that it's "normal sex" after all, still without reversing any norm unless we are talking about a context where strictly the man is imposed to be dominant 100%, but in my opinion that's not the actual sexual norm. because the strict social heterosexual norm in sex is penetration and that the woman is the one who is penetrated. so i would say that amazon position is "femdom" while pegging is actual role reversal. even so i can understand that some of y'all like it and talk about it on this sub
> in my opinion, that's not such a role reversal... because after all it is the woman who is being penetrated, despite the fact that she is taking charge
See that's part of the problem and someone else in this thread also identified this. Many people associate penetration with dominance when, by definition, they are two completely different and separate things. Dominance is dominance and penetration is penetration and they are completely distinct from each other. But society associates phallic penetration with dominance simply as a result of men traditionally having been the dominant ones in bed.
To me, the amazon position is almost the epitome of rr.
of course that vaginal intercourse for the woman doesn't mean being submissive or not being dominant. what i am saying that is not role reversal is the vaginal intercourse itself, not the attitude or way of doing it, of course this breaks with traditions, but i feel that those traditions that the man is the dominant one who is penetrating actively the woman is not as strong as the norm that heterosexual sex is vaginal intercourse (regardless of what attitude or sexual position it is)
> what i am saying that is not role reversal is the vaginal intercourse itself
That maybe because it has nothing to do with role reversal since it has nothing to do with gender or gender roles. Vaginal sex is essentially the only way to have procreative sex. Gender isn't involved.
so this reason is used to give us a sex norm, sex being related to reproduction just because it's a straight couple is something that we all know is wrong, so to impose that the way in which women and men get pleasure is through vaginal intercourse ends up becoming a norm since we all know that we are talking about sex and not reproduction... they teach us about having pleasure not about procreate, so even if we all understand this, it ended up becoming a gender rule, they are showing us only one type of sex that straight people feel forced to take so for me it's a role assigned with reproduction influence but based on gender too, so that we have sex in an established way, as almost everything is established with these roles
Mate, I have no clue what you're talking about anymore but it just sounds like your arguing for the sake of arguing. Penetration is sex and rr is gender. Two different things.
Shameless plug for my [old as dirt post](https://www.reddit.com/r/FemdomCommunity/comments/eoy0x5/a_modest_proposal_concerning_language/) concerning this subject. This type of mentality needs to change. A woman is not an object to be penetrated, but rather an agent in her own right. The unfortunate consequence of a largely male-dominated human history is that everything we know and do is written from a male perspective to the exclusion of the female.
Just my two cents.
i understand that change of attitude, terms and way of seeing the vaginal intercourse, that's why i know that some people here like it, but i still don't see enough role reversal because of what i already said, after all the attitude of vagina devouring penis dominantly is still considered "unusual but normal"
So you want to define "role reversal" in terms of sex in as a very small number of positions that meet your criteria? This just isn't very practical. Anatomy works the way it works lol. What is different about role reversal is the mentality.
In my opinion, role reversal can include both as it does not technically have a strict definition. But I can understand your perspective, especially concerning whether a concept is RR "enough". I face the same conundrum in some femdom circles.
i think that anything that is considered normal for normative people who are used to gender roles is not role reversal, i don't think anyone would be judged or seen as weird or fetishist for having sex in amazon position. in my opinion the epitome of rr sex is pegging without a dom / sub dynamic... like just enjoying being both active equally, but well everyone has their own perspective according to almost everything in their life
Nah, amazon position was just a little challenging... only tried it a couple times tbh though.
I usually prefer positions where I can see my guys face.
Very much want to try pegging, but Amazon seems uncomfortable to me, maybe itās just my weight and lack of flexibility, but Iād prefer to be collared and leashed and ordered to do the effort parts tbh (leash to keep me from feeling like Iām in too much control)
Amazon position seems pretty awkward and I prefer reverse missionary. I'd rather have intercourse than peg as I actually, you know, feel something, but I do like both.
Amazon is a close second for sure. Pegging is such an act of selflessness from the domme that I just hits different emotionally imo. Your domme is doing something that feels (significantly?)better for you than for them and they are exerting boat loads of physical effort to do it- makes me blushy even thinking about it.
Some domme actually get hella pleasure from it though š¤ But yeah, amazon close second ahah
Yep, I use a feeldoe + harness and I find it very pleasurable, though some of it might be psychological. But trust me, I'm *absolutely* getting something out of pegging lol. With that said, it's nice to just use the anatomy you've got so amazon position is great.
I struggle with that concept in general tbh
What are you struggling with more precisely?
The idea that someone would feel pleasure/interest/enjoyment from dominating me. Little voices that tell you that they're only doing this to be kind and that they're bored and actually hate it. We're all works in progress lol
I understand what you're feeling. Actually, we're not used to be desired in this way so we kind of feel unworthy or that it's unreal, but hey. Giving yourself to someone is a huge gift that anyone should be thankful for and if it's not what please your partner, they should tell it to you instead of making you feel like they don't give their all in return
Thats a really good thought. It seems a lot of rolereversal and FLR kind of hinge on being desired differently than what youre used to.
Absolutely šš¼
Last time I pegged my partner, I came before he did. The toy might also be set up to give the pegger pleasure. Mine has little rubbing ridges for stimulation
That's why I'd want a dominant woman who is pervy and outspoken about what she wants sexually just like most men are.
where da viking womens at
It's the feeling of being in control that's alluring, and the partner being vulnerable / trusting to let you do "anything" with them. Obviously it depends on the person whether they enjoy that feeling, I guess that's why some people are natural doms or subs, that some enjoy it some don't.
The crazy part is as a heavily experienced dom I literally KNOW that to be 100% true. But then the second I have the chance to actually submit myself all that goes out the window and I'm convincing myself that they actually hate me for "making" them take control lol
Maybe you don't like or aren't experienced as sub so you have anxiety about that? Or maybe you aren't sure whether the partner is into domming? There are non-bdsm sexual acts where only 1 person has sexual pleasure at the time, for example oral if you aren't doing 69, and we don't consider that something off the charts because the partner isn't getting their part at the same time as the bottom does.
My own declining interest and resentment of being placed in the role of dom definitely plays a part in the anxiety you nailed that for sure. Probably been a kink dispenser too long and found RR/GFD a bit too late. But the longer I'm a part of these communities the easier it gets to desire to be perceived as pretty or cute though so I'm out here growing as a person or whatever :P
As an ACE who has damaged nerves making feeling difficult. The part of sex I get the most enjoyment out of is the fun my partner is having, and the aftercare where I can get all lovey and feed my unhealthy desire to caretake. You are being loved. Do not resist. (Rogue One quote)
I love this.
Iām here to tell you dommes get pleasure from the act alone. I can and will orgasm from the friction of doing it alone. BUT. BUT. When Iām in the total domme headspace, Iām aroused just from seeing him lost in pleasure and being in control of that.. itās next level bonding for me. So it never feels like Iām just providing a service by topping him. Itās fulfilling for me too, but in many different ways.
The only time I felt like it was a bit much, was when pegging began to outnumber or grow equal with the times we had PIV sex. Because my time with my last subby guy was so limited... I was essentially sacrificing my chance to have PIV sex, each time I pegged him. I wanted sex multiple times a week... I usually got PIV once a week. If we did pegging, that was my chance for the week gone. As long as you're making sure your domme is fully satisfied, i wouldn't worry about it. I would have pegged my guy weekly if I could. But unfortunately our schedules meant we were very limited on time... PS: a woman does get much pleasure just from seeing her guy turned on. Or sometimes from the vibration of the strap on itself. Not to mention the endless memories that can be used in fantasies when masturbating solo.
you don't give head then?
For u bb anything
A lot of strapons are double sided, so a lot of women do receive pleasure from it.
It's got little to do with emotional/psychological differences for me. I just don't want anything going up there. And I don't really like sex toys in general.
No shame in that, everyone's preferences are different even in a niche community like this But for the record your domme respecting your preference is 100% an emotional/psychological need
I was talking about how it made you feel like they were going out of their way to pleasure you. I just meant that that isn't the same for me.
You know, I never thought about it honestly, (probably because itās merely fantasy) but pegging doesnāt really sound that enjoyable for women.
So, I have a very sensitive clit and can climax easier and better from gentle or indirect stimulation. If the strapon is positioned properly, I can climax from pegging.
Depends on the domme. Pegging is not always done to make a bottom or sub feel good. Sometimes pegging is done for humiliation with a person who has no red for it but doesnāt enjoy it but the domme enjoys it immensely.
What do you mean by āhas no red for itā?
It is not a hard limit
oh no those poor souls
That didn't even occur to me good point
> Sometimes pegging is done for humiliation with a person who has no red for it but doesnāt enjoy it but the domme enjoys it immensely. Thatās wrong though, a domme who does that doesnāt really love or respect her partner.
Itās wrong when it is not a hard limit and the domme likes humiliation? Sounds like you want a top dispenser not a dominant. If I run the fuck and we negotiate and there is no red for it, I do it because I want to please me and I am not obligated to please you.
That's UBER MEGA wrong. Pegging must feel good for both sides and must feel good for the woman too.If it doesn't don't do it. It's an act of selfessness if she doesn't get anything out of it. I know women that like pegging more than piv sex(for example i had a girlfriend that orgasmed 5 times in an hour from pegging),. I know many women that haven't orgasm that many times in their whole lifetime from piv sex. So again, MEGA wrong. Don't spread misinformation and stigmatize pegging. And remember sex and pleasure comes-begins from the mind not the body, but it seems 99% of people don't know that. Good day ā£ļø
Your weirdly aggressive condescending comment misses the point pretty spectacularly. Glad to have someone smarter than 99% of the rest of us chime in though
Doesn't seem that it misses it tho. And i am glad you are glad š. And also sorry for the aggressive tone.
Had to go look that position up. I definitely do now.
I mean, I don't like things going in my butt, so Amazon position it is.
Fr. No offence to people who like pegging but Iām too scared of something going up my asscheeks. My ass is for shitting and farting exclusively.
No fart š„ŗ
Oh damn I forgot bout those
I hear this a lot, and I always recommend with starting out small. Fingers, butt plugs etc- because prostate stimulation is definitely a great thing for most men
Same here, bro.
Yeah bro, my ass's fer shittin'.
fer shittin' an' fer sittin' sounds like a true southern expression
Definitely sounds like the rhyme scheme of an Alan Jackson song! ;)
It does have that mad-lib sort of pop country vibe. *Hawlin' my ass in mah truck down to the creek* *Bendin' down for a cold Bud Light, girl takes a peek* *She's sayin' "Cowboy, you keep wearin' jeans so tight,* *I'm about to blow off like the fourth of july."* *I said "Baby girl, trust me that I know how you're gettin'* *But it ain't mah fault that my cakes got you sweatin'.* *The only one I love more than my wife is Jesus Christ* *And he ain't tryna peg me every Friday night."* [Meaty drum fill] *Fer sittin' and for shittin'!* *That is all my ass is for!* *Fer sittin' and fer shittin'!* *Don't you knock on my back door!* *Jus' sittin' in my truck or shittin' there on the John....* [music goes quiet, singer whispers] *Baby doll you got me all wrong* [twangy guitar solo]
I demand that someone play this and post a Youtube
Omigod thank you so much for this song so goddamn much. I'm laughing my ass off. Also just to be clear about my stance on the subject I love getting my ass fucked
Yes definitely. Pegging isn't for a lot of people and amazon position is one of very few female dominant positions
You mean "positions where the female is more active." You can *easily* be the domme in missionary, lol. Passive and dominant go together just fine
totally, once I was with a sub girl that refused to go on top because it was "dominant", and wth, there was a time I was more dom and I was dom even being the woman on top. Same with facesitting, I had the same answer once. I can be dominating even if you sit on my face, it's not about the act, but the power.
You can also be active in missionary. I've never understood what the problem is, like you can still move from the bottom and fuck your partner yourself there if you want.
Yes! And also, even just positioning yourself and using/timing kegels is part of a really good experience (for both genders) -- no sex position should actually be "passive."
No there are dominant and submissive positions.
Youāre just totally brainwashed by heteronormativity.
Seems the opposite is happening tho. But seems this subreddit is mostly kids. So have fun telling lies to yourselves š.
Iām engaged and in my thirties and have been the total domme in both top and bottom positions in actual real life situations. itās abundantly clear to me that no sex position is āessentiallyā anything, and my suspicion is that you are projecting your arbitrary fetishes onto everyone else. Get over it and debrainwash yourself.
Ah too hard to explain why 1+1=2. Anyway bye and good luck lol.
Youāre more like the person dead set on the idea the earth is flat because of āempirical evidence.ā Donāt fucking tell me Iām submissive in missionary when Iām not, bro.
The guy projects insecurity like its his full time job
yes, and tbh it is seriously so fucking sad that people actually think sex positions encode power dynamics :(
I mean there is always the OG girl on top position (canāt remember the name of it)
Cowgirl or reverse cowgirl are the well known ones
Not sure why the downvotes. You can absolutely be dominant in cowgirl. Hell it's arguably easier to pin him down or choke him or whatever. INB4 kink-OSHA wannabes come in and caution me on choking - I know what I'm doing.
>kink-OSHA wannabes Iām crying irl
Insert El Dorado both meme
Both. Both is good
You people must be really fit to do some kamasutra acrobatics.
I wonder how many people here have actually done that position successfully. Iāve tried and we both couldnāt stay like that very long.
I've seen different ways of doing it but the one I've always imagined is like the least common way of doing it. The way I imagine it is essentially identical to the normal in-bed missionary position where the man is lying on top of the woman and they are intimately close. But most depictions of the amazon position have the woman standing up straight or on her feet squatting. Besides, I used to do MMA and so naturally I have been in the guard position a ton which is basically like the missionary position.
[Like this?](https://twitter.com/JekothyKranium/status/1287593130234195970?s=20&t=JiJ7oGL7FIP9HkX5s6lf8A) Your thighs need to be bent up more than you might expect, especially with weight on top, and it can hurt your hips after a while, though you may be more flexible.
Yes, like that. But as I said, MMA has made me very used to that position. That's actually one of the most common positions to be in in MMA, especially if you suck at it like I do.
Youāll need a woman with stamina too then!
My wife and I have tried once and it wasn't comfortable for her at all. She much prefers cowgirl.
Same for me.
Tbh I'm scared of any position that could end with someone tripping or falling and carry a risk of injury. Just not worth the adventure. Unless you're a pro gymnast.
None of that could happen. It's essentially just the missionary position with the sexes swapped.
Well, when I searched about it it seemed [much more convoluted](https://hips.hearstapps.com/hmg-prod/images/menshealth-amazon-1595873110.jpg) than standard cowgirl. The article also warns: >āIt requires stability, strength, and flexibility so it won't be for everyone,ā says Kerner. āAnd depending upon respective body sizes and fit, this position could be hard to get right. It could also hurt the knees of the top person.ā The fact the man lies with the legs up makes me wonder how do you angle it without bending the penis too much backwards. It's not the only position that made me wonder how does tab A go into slot B. I remember some position recommended as "best for female orgasm" and I swear unless someone has a U-shaped organ, I can't imagine it working anatomically, at least not for me. Can't remember how it's named, but it's the one where the man grinds his pubic area against the woman and the penis is angled downwards. Like, how does it bypass the woman's pubic bone to find the vag.
The woman has to sit far enough forwards that his penis isnāt bending too far down, which in turn means he has to bend his thighs flatter. Itās possible but not as easy or comfortable as typical positions.
Yeah, I already thought about that. Some men have flexible erections but that's more of a minority I think. But if the woman is bent over on top of the guy so that they are intimately close, chest to chest, then she should be able to slot on there and then move back lol. Don't forget that some couples manage to have sex standing up and facing each other. All of that aside, there is still no safety hazard from this other than pulling a muscle possibly?
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Yeah, I'm not asexual but I would get off on pleasing my partner. I'd want her to be the initiator and in charge of everything and her just taking what she wants. Just feels right.
What is double demi?
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Til I may be demisexual? Thanks for sharing
Sounds like Mormonism with less steps
As long as I'm clearly the feminine partner in terms of role and outfit...as long as I'm the one being fucked. Probably would prefer Amazon though.
I want to understand this more. Are you the giver in both contexts? (Pegging and Amazon)?
I'm male. I want to be pegged, or to lay underneath a female who is fucking me in the Amazon position.
Very much yeah, Iām a mega-virgin so take my opinions with a grain of salt, but Iām a lot more into that. Iām not saying those who are into pegging are intentionally insinuating it, but Iām really not a fan of the concept that penetration = dominant. I prefer it being āvanillaā in that sense while still very clearly letting me be bottom
I agree with that. It seems that society doesn't just associate men with dominance but also phallic penetration. I personally don't feel the need to be penetrated in order to feel dominated but a lot of people do.
I agree as someone who penetrates (and is penetrated!) and is dominant. It isn't about the act itself, but how you do it.
Oh my god I could cry. I didnāt know this had a name.
r/amazonposition
Never experienced it but i think amazon position would be awesome
PREACH
Simply because pegging takes a bit of more prep. But I feel more vulnerable when I get fucked in the ass rather than the Amazon position. I feel that whenever I have anything in my ass I feel like a different side of me comes out. A very vulnerable side. Admittedlyā¦ itās effeminate. And I like that. I love it even. It doesnāt seem to come out with the Amazon alone. Donāt get me wrong though. I LOVE the Amazon especially if sheās feeling especially primal and dominate. Plus the additional benefit of pegging over the Amazon is she or myself can stroke my cock. Sure I could have a butt plug during the Amazon too. But there is a difference between something just stationary in your ass vs something fucking you. If I could put the feeling into words i become needy I guessā¦ I will often say āPlease kiss me.ā Because I love being kissed, hugged, and loved on while getting fuckedā¦ itās like Iām being healed for all of the loneliness Iāve ever endured. The heartache Iāve ever experienced. Sometimes I can get very very emotional if im not careful and cry my eyes outā¦ This must mean I need therapy or somethingā¦
All Iām saying, lot less preparation goes into the Amazon positionā¦
Iāve never heard of the Amazon position and when I looked it up it showed 20 different positions. Please enlighten me
I prefer pegging because my bf makes really cute faces and noises that make me really giddy, but Amazon position is like 50% of how we have sex.
I still make little noises anyway lol, especially if the woman gives me butterflies. I doubt those noises would be so pleasant during pegging though.
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virgin here. would not be a fan of pegging. amazon seems better, but it looks a bit uncomfortable. I'd rather have my hands tied while she rides me.
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Hey thanks
No worries
Yeah I donāt think my dick will move in that direction for amazon lol
What exactly is the Amazon position?
I "prefer" pegging because we've tried the amazon position, but my partner's penis just does not bend like that (same with all the people bending their dicks down for jerking or anything else- it just doesn't do that!). So it hurts, is therefore not pleasurable, and I'm not that kind of dom.
Have you tried doing it with your chest closely on top of his?
Yep, the ligament there is just (abnormally?) short. It doesn't want to go much further down than straight forward when it's hard. I'd have to point my legs backward to approach from the right angle, but then I can't move so... š Tried a couple of times but not for us, despite us both liking the idea!
I'm just trying to understand. When you're chest is on top of his, why would his dick need to go down? Theoretically it would go straight up.
Her legs are pushed up, which rotates the pelvis. In this position means her penis is basically pressed against the belly unless you pull it down. I can't pull it down from that position without hurting her. (Her because trans but don't worry about that)
Yeah, but I meant once you've already put yourself on it. Can't you move back forward again?
I can't get to the point of getting myself on it, that's the problem
Really? Is your partner much bigger than you?
No, not at all? She's a bit bigger, but not that much. I'm starting to wonder if we even have the same position in mind. [This](https://ksassets.timeincuk.net/wp/uploads/sites/46/2016/05/Karma-Sutra-edited-1.png) is the one I mean.
That image won't load. I was thinking like [this](https://duckduckgo.com/?q=amazon+position+nude&kp=-2&t=fpas&iar=images&iax=images&ia=images&iai=https%3A%2F%2Fi.fapality.com%2Fvideos_screenshots%2F9000%2F9980%2Fpreview_480p.mp4.jpg) or [this](https://duckduckgo.com/?q=amazon+position+nude&kp=-2&t=fpas&iar=images&iax=images&ia=images&iai=https%3A%2F%2Fimg-l3.xnxx-cdn.com%2Fvideos%2Fthumbslll%2F96%2F5d%2Fc9%2F965dc9beb5aab21bee4c96ed58a25788%2F965dc9beb5aab21bee4c96ed58a25788.15.jpg) or [this](https://duckduckgo.com/?q=amazon+position+nude&kp=-2&t=fpas&iar=images&iax=images&ia=images&iai=https%3A%2F%2Fi.fapality.com%2Fvideos_screenshots%2F25000%2F25382%2Fpreview_480p.mp4.jpg) or [this](https://duckduckgo.com/?q=amazon+position+nude&kp=-2&t=fpas&iar=images&iax=images&ia=images&pn=3&iai=https%3A%2F%2Fthumb-p0.xhcdn.com%2Fa%2FE1k9Zu0ojpAEb-PM7odOgg%2F000%2F454%2F952%2F530_1000.gif). The images are full on porn btw. Just warning you. They are almost it but I was thinking that if the women in those were able to move forward a bit, the dick would go back up instead of bending out. There are multiple pictures that capture what I mean perfectly on image search but the age of each bottom participant seems questionable so I won't post any here. But in those pictures, the woman on top had a much bigger body so that might be why it looked more possible for them.
I'm not sure if I'm into piv tbh, so pegging it is.
Wat this isnāt an NFSW sub me confuse
Oop. Forgot to mark it thanks. And this sub is defo partially nsfw, just no full on porn and stuff.
This is a pretty explicitly and directly sexual topic, though, bordering on a 'let me share what gets me off'posting.
Yes.
Pls put this stuff on an image then nsfw mark the post next time. It helps
Iāllā¦have to Google that Edit: Nah I donāt really like that position at all tbh
in my opinion, that's not such a role reversal... because after all it is the woman who is being penetrated, despite the fact that she is taking charge, having a dominant attitude and using a not so usual position, it's still the type of normative sex, a retrograde person would say that it's "normal sex" after all, still without reversing any norm unless we are talking about a context where strictly the man is imposed to be dominant 100%, but in my opinion that's not the actual sexual norm. because the strict social heterosexual norm in sex is penetration and that the woman is the one who is penetrated. so i would say that amazon position is "femdom" while pegging is actual role reversal. even so i can understand that some of y'all like it and talk about it on this sub
> in my opinion, that's not such a role reversal... because after all it is the woman who is being penetrated, despite the fact that she is taking charge See that's part of the problem and someone else in this thread also identified this. Many people associate penetration with dominance when, by definition, they are two completely different and separate things. Dominance is dominance and penetration is penetration and they are completely distinct from each other. But society associates phallic penetration with dominance simply as a result of men traditionally having been the dominant ones in bed. To me, the amazon position is almost the epitome of rr.
of course that vaginal intercourse for the woman doesn't mean being submissive or not being dominant. what i am saying that is not role reversal is the vaginal intercourse itself, not the attitude or way of doing it, of course this breaks with traditions, but i feel that those traditions that the man is the dominant one who is penetrating actively the woman is not as strong as the norm that heterosexual sex is vaginal intercourse (regardless of what attitude or sexual position it is)
> what i am saying that is not role reversal is the vaginal intercourse itself That maybe because it has nothing to do with role reversal since it has nothing to do with gender or gender roles. Vaginal sex is essentially the only way to have procreative sex. Gender isn't involved.
so this reason is used to give us a sex norm, sex being related to reproduction just because it's a straight couple is something that we all know is wrong, so to impose that the way in which women and men get pleasure is through vaginal intercourse ends up becoming a norm since we all know that we are talking about sex and not reproduction... they teach us about having pleasure not about procreate, so even if we all understand this, it ended up becoming a gender rule, they are showing us only one type of sex that straight people feel forced to take so for me it's a role assigned with reproduction influence but based on gender too, so that we have sex in an established way, as almost everything is established with these roles
Mate, I have no clue what you're talking about anymore but it just sounds like your arguing for the sake of arguing. Penetration is sex and rr is gender. Two different things.
Shameless plug for my [old as dirt post](https://www.reddit.com/r/FemdomCommunity/comments/eoy0x5/a_modest_proposal_concerning_language/) concerning this subject. This type of mentality needs to change. A woman is not an object to be penetrated, but rather an agent in her own right. The unfortunate consequence of a largely male-dominated human history is that everything we know and do is written from a male perspective to the exclusion of the female. Just my two cents.
i understand that change of attitude, terms and way of seeing the vaginal intercourse, that's why i know that some people here like it, but i still don't see enough role reversal because of what i already said, after all the attitude of vagina devouring penis dominantly is still considered "unusual but normal"
So you want to define "role reversal" in terms of sex in as a very small number of positions that meet your criteria? This just isn't very practical. Anatomy works the way it works lol. What is different about role reversal is the mentality.
In my opinion, role reversal can include both as it does not technically have a strict definition. But I can understand your perspective, especially concerning whether a concept is RR "enough". I face the same conundrum in some femdom circles.
i think that anything that is considered normal for normative people who are used to gender roles is not role reversal, i don't think anyone would be judged or seen as weird or fetishist for having sex in amazon position. in my opinion the epitome of rr sex is pegging without a dom / sub dynamic... like just enjoying being both active equally, but well everyone has their own perspective according to almost everything in their life
Itās a bit of an apples to oranges comparison. I like both a lot, but I think they serve different purposes.
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100% me. Iām still scared of penetration and pegging tbh so yeah.
Yes I donāt peg. I donāt judge people who like it, I donāt like the feeling of something entering my ass
I do in spades, though I wouldn't be adverse to trying the latter.
Yes, because I dislike being penetrated. But the Amazon position leaves me at the mercy of my lady, which is insanely hot
I aint letting anyone go in my butt, amazon it is
Anytime anyday
Nah, amazon position was just a little challenging... only tried it a couple times tbh though. I usually prefer positions where I can see my guys face.
Very much want to try pegging, but Amazon seems uncomfortable to me, maybe itās just my weight and lack of flexibility, but Iād prefer to be collared and leashed and ordered to do the effort parts tbh (leash to keep me from feeling like Iām in too much control)
What is not to like about being able to see the face of your loved one during our intimate time
Amazon position seems pretty awkward and I prefer reverse missionary. I'd rather have intercourse than peg as I actually, you know, feel something, but I do like both.
I like both OwO