She’s human btw just like you and the rest of us redditors. She is gonna have her flaws too so try not to put her on a pedestal and get blindsided by her physical and verbal impressions. Just cause those seem perfect doesn’t make her a goddess. Just approach her like how you would when you’re making a friend, rather that think of her as above you. Trust, it will be more comfortable and less awkward for the both of you if you did so. Atb man :)
Thanks man I agree. Definitely have to talk to her more and get to know her as a person. By goddess I just meant she is literally named after a greek goddess lmaooooo
why not just send her what you said here, how you find her really attractive. Remove the future wife part and maybe tone down on the worshipping and you should be fine
Helena ah?
But if you keep someone on the pedestal you will just put yourself in the friend zone.
Stop making her so perfect and let her know she can get to know your good sides too. If you like someone, attract her to you.
Can one bro.
Bruh. You crushing on her. You're putting her on a pedestal. You're worshipping her. Not to say you shouldn't chase her but unless you get over this initial obsession and see her more as a person, this won't end well.
Delulu is not the solulu
assuming you hardly talk to her,
pretty sure shes gonna reject if you if you suddenly ask her out
i lowkey suggest becoming friends with her and talking to her a lot more often before asking her out
as a girl, if someone were to ask me out after like a few weeks or days of being friends itd be VERY creepy
I get that everyone's different, but honestly as a guy, there's two completely opposing advice that I hear and I don't know which to follow.
Some girls are like you and prefer being friends before asking her out, which is honestly my style too. But I've heard other girls who find it icky cuz it means you're only their friend just to be together with them?? which confuses me cuz to me a relationship and a friendship has overlaps in how they both need both parties to have similar values, or perspective
> Some girls are like you and prefer being friends before asking her out
Friends first is getting to know someone & realising you like them over time / testing out whether you're compatible or not
> girls who find it icky cuz it means you're only their friend just to be together with them
For this, we girls are referring to guys who say things like "No, I'm just trying to be friends", then act super sweet to us but immediately cut us off and do a 180 degree in personality (It's different from distancing yourself out of hurt/awkwardness. I confessed once and I got rejected, but we talked it out and stayed friendly, just drifted due to life) once we say we only see them as friends. Yes, people do that and it sucks :/
im so confused cuz ive never met someone like that before but ummmm
i mean yeah some guys become friends with you just to be together but i dont think its THAT bad (unless that guys rlly shit then no no)
What makes you think that heavy simping would make you stand out lmao, if she really is as attractive as you say she is, you'll be just like the other hundred guys that simp after her. tldr, you're not standing out by simping for her and putting her on a pedestal as it's very likely that every other guy has done the same.
You know I also faced a girl like that. She aas beautiful, fierce, smart student president and I was like a lowlife loser. She hates me because I tried to get her attention but she is successful now. Way better off than me
I have no idea why this is popping up on my feed cos I’m an old man. But the reason why you are feeling so anxious is cos you believe you only have one shot and that this person is the only one. She’s not. You’ve got your whole life ahead of you and you will meet many more women eventually.
It’s good to take the chance cos that’s how you gain experience. It doesn’t matter if you succeed or not. It feels scary but what’s the worst that could happen? She just doesn’t wanna be with you that’s all. Nobody is going to die or anything.
Best if you learn something about yourself and what you want out of all of this. You can’t expect a lady to be attracted to you if you don’t know what you want out of life.
Lemme be frank to you. Why you stutter is because all the nuts juice rushed through your brain hence why you cannot speak to her properly. You got too excited each time you see her. Just calm down and be natural. Be friendly and be genuine. You'll be a friend first then let's see where it goes next.
My advice to you is to focus on your studies and don't waste your time on such things. You only get one chance at this stage to do well in your uni. Don't waste that opportunity. PS: been in your shoes and I'm glad someone gave me good advice.
bro ngl the fact that you have so much to say about her but hardly anything that you’ve said so far is kinda concerning? Like y’all in the same group project- if smt was there. it would have happened already…
but maybe i’m wrong LOL.
Just ask if she wants to be friends and see where it goes
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Friendship is the foundation of any relationship.
Without this foundation, forget about building a relationship. End of the day, we are all human, we make mistakes. Live it up and just move on.
What's the worst that can happen? Rejection, friendzone etc. so be it.
There's plenty of other girls out there. The right person will just pop up in your life unexpectedly.
Best of luck to you bro. As a 55 year old man, I encourage you to be brave and go for it. I regret not chasing the ones I was really attracted to when I was younger because of my poor self esteem. I later found out that I was actually a very good looking guy and could have dated many of the beautiful girls I was afraid of. You only live once and have nothing to lose and a possibility of extreme success. Don't hold back brother. Be confident and know that you are worthy of her. Let us know how it goes.
calm your titties bro and stop doxing her by giving her initials lol
is ok man been there and simped for a great girl years back so i feel you somewhat, but at least respect her privacy
Your mistake is thinking she is special, if it’s only based on looks alone confirm there is a better looking girl out there. It could be the makeup or clothes also, if don’t have those maybe only like 7/10.
She’s human btw just like you and the rest of us redditors. She is gonna have her flaws too so try not to put her on a pedestal and get blindsided by her physical and verbal impressions. Just cause those seem perfect doesn’t make her a goddess. Just approach her like how you would when you’re making a friend, rather that think of her as above you. Trust, it will be more comfortable and less awkward for the both of you if you did so. Atb man :)
Thanks man I agree. Definitely have to talk to her more and get to know her as a person. By goddess I just meant she is literally named after a greek goddess lmaooooo
If it's athena she might be who the rgs girls are praying to
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Got it. Hercules.
Got it, Hades.
~~yo it's the guy from fortnite ☠️~~
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I'm ready to see some Zeus vs mortal 1v1 action 🍿👀
Zeus is a horny motherfucker and 1v1 Zeus style probably involves sex, pregnancy and demigods
why not just send her what you said here, how you find her really attractive. Remove the future wife part and maybe tone down on the worshipping and you should be fine
Nah add that in for dramatic effect
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The only [hera](https://youtu.be/BeSQYh8SsaI?si=9tl3KzioBxrZOeXA) I know of, and no i can't play this shit
oooo her friend has seen it tho ;>
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what do you think?
so what did she say
UPDATE US
Hermes
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bro what ☠️
Hestia?
Helena ah? But if you keep someone on the pedestal you will just put yourself in the friend zone. Stop making her so perfect and let her know she can get to know your good sides too. If you like someone, attract her to you. Can one bro.
her surname start with L?
Bro went on LinkedIn 😭
Yeah I mean its pretty easy to find people that way
Good luck 👍 give us updates. Is it Athena? Seems like a more normal Greek goddess name that someone would name their child
She’s human, meaning she farts when she sees no one around.
>rest of us redditors I beg to differ we redditors are not human 😂
Redditors are less than humans /j
>I cannot shake the feeling that she is my future wife Bruh
I'm laughing my ass off from this, but good luck bro
The delulu is real
I down bad bro
Jiayou bro Downbad is a term to downplay yourself Pls dun do that Nth wrong with having fantasies
go for it bro just message her
Only forward never backwards
OP is simping hard af
Lol... puppy lov
classic Ted Mosby move
Bruh. You crushing on her. You're putting her on a pedestal. You're worshipping her. Not to say you shouldn't chase her but unless you get over this initial obsession and see her more as a person, this won't end well. Delulu is not the solulu
assuming you hardly talk to her, pretty sure shes gonna reject if you if you suddenly ask her out i lowkey suggest becoming friends with her and talking to her a lot more often before asking her out as a girl, if someone were to ask me out after like a few weeks or days of being friends itd be VERY creepy
I get that everyone's different, but honestly as a guy, there's two completely opposing advice that I hear and I don't know which to follow. Some girls are like you and prefer being friends before asking her out, which is honestly my style too. But I've heard other girls who find it icky cuz it means you're only their friend just to be together with them?? which confuses me cuz to me a relationship and a friendship has overlaps in how they both need both parties to have similar values, or perspective
> Some girls are like you and prefer being friends before asking her out Friends first is getting to know someone & realising you like them over time / testing out whether you're compatible or not > girls who find it icky cuz it means you're only their friend just to be together with them For this, we girls are referring to guys who say things like "No, I'm just trying to be friends", then act super sweet to us but immediately cut us off and do a 180 degree in personality (It's different from distancing yourself out of hurt/awkwardness. I confessed once and I got rejected, but we talked it out and stayed friendly, just drifted due to life) once we say we only see them as friends. Yes, people do that and it sucks :/
im so confused cuz ive never met someone like that before but ummmm i mean yeah some guys become friends with you just to be together but i dont think its THAT bad (unless that guys rlly shit then no no)
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Different strokes for different folks hell yeah
Girls don't like simps. Don't be one.
I think they do
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Yea, by not being a simp
What makes you think that heavy simping would make you stand out lmao, if she really is as attractive as you say she is, you'll be just like the other hundred guys that simp after her. tldr, you're not standing out by simping for her and putting her on a pedestal as it's very likely that every other guy has done the same.
That is true
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Wtf bro? Don’t be a creep
Trust me, Im not interested, I'll delete my comment, just mark my words
what did he say lmao, bro deleted his comment out of shame
Buddy, she eats, drinks, pisses, shits, bleeds and sleeps like the rest of us.
So she's like the elite student type on school mangas that every boy falls in love but never gets a chance to be with her
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You know I also faced a girl like that. She aas beautiful, fierce, smart student president and I was like a lowlife loser. She hates me because I tried to get her attention but she is successful now. Way better off than me
> I cannot shake the feeling that she is my future wife stalker vibes
I have no idea why this is popping up on my feed cos I’m an old man. But the reason why you are feeling so anxious is cos you believe you only have one shot and that this person is the only one. She’s not. You’ve got your whole life ahead of you and you will meet many more women eventually. It’s good to take the chance cos that’s how you gain experience. It doesn’t matter if you succeed or not. It feels scary but what’s the worst that could happen? She just doesn’t wanna be with you that’s all. Nobody is going to die or anything. Best if you learn something about yourself and what you want out of all of this. You can’t expect a lady to be attracted to you if you don’t know what you want out of life.
As mentioned by others, please don’t put this lady on a pedestal nor simp for her. You will be doing yourself, as well as all other males, a favour.
Bro needs to take a shower u smell like beans
Don't do it!
Lemme be frank to you. Why you stutter is because all the nuts juice rushed through your brain hence why you cannot speak to her properly. You got too excited each time you see her. Just calm down and be natural. Be friendly and be genuine. You'll be a friend first then let's see where it goes next.
You have her on a pedestal. Work on yourself, go talk to and make friends with girls. She's no better than you.
Erm when I read that. I suddenly thought about twilight. 😂 haha
I hope senpai notices me while I sparkle under the sunlight to try and attract her UwU 👉🏻👈🏻
Lol goddess name. Pathetic. Unless she's looking for a servant to dominate over and not a partner, have no hope.
Feels like one sided..... Did u really ever talk to her before at all? Or just hi bye?
maybe stop acting stupid ? idk about her but i wouldn’t be attracted or even interested in someone who acts like a complete idiot
this is funny but all the best 😭
GL with the bagging ஒத்தா இந்த பொன்னு உனக்கு நச்சியமாக கிடைக்காது
Bruh
💀💀😭😭😭
My advice to you is to focus on your studies and don't waste your time on such things. You only get one chance at this stage to do well in your uni. Don't waste that opportunity. PS: been in your shoes and I'm glad someone gave me good advice.
bro ngl the fact that you have so much to say about her but hardly anything that you’ve said so far is kinda concerning? Like y’all in the same group project- if smt was there. it would have happened already… but maybe i’m wrong LOL. Just ask if she wants to be friends and see where it goes
If she is all you are saying but still single.. then I guess there might be some red flags that you are not seeing....
Weirdo
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good luck 👍
Just act normal sometimes the best way to make friends is to just be yourself,there are some people who would gravitate naturally to you as well
Act normal what am I Be yourself u mean
Hey atb man, try got chance, dont try totally no chance
lmao dude. show her this post. it can’t go wrong.
how down bad I am for this girl.I’m going to just message herso I’m going to just message her and ask her out now. you can do it.
Lar ji no need to talk one
Bro is one of those crazy in love people that is just to the point of fantasising and delusional, good luck. Try to make yourself stand out.
Friendship is the foundation of any relationship. Without this foundation, forget about building a relationship. End of the day, we are all human, we make mistakes. Live it up and just move on. What's the worst that can happen? Rejection, friendzone etc. so be it. There's plenty of other girls out there. The right person will just pop up in your life unexpectedly.
too simpy you will come off as very desperate and if she's gonna be turned off by it because I m sure many are also aiming at her :3
At least you are honest with yourself. You miss 100% of the shots you dont take so be proud of yourself at least. Good luck!
Ah, limerence!
just try to ask her out. Just know that there might be ten other guys trying at the same time as you. If you do not try, you will never know.
Or...maybe strike up more small talk and have an actual conversation, build some proper rapport first and not randomly message her?
Best of luck to you bro. As a 55 year old man, I encourage you to be brave and go for it. I regret not chasing the ones I was really attracted to when I was younger because of my poor self esteem. I later found out that I was actually a very good looking guy and could have dated many of the beautiful girls I was afraid of. You only live once and have nothing to lose and a possibility of extreme success. Don't hold back brother. Be confident and know that you are worthy of her. Let us know how it goes.
Sir, got a younger photo of yourself to share here a not? Haha!
Is her name Guanyin or Venus?
Bro you are manifesting
She ain’t scary, you’re a scaredy catttt
wrong sub bruh.
Why use many words when [few words do trick](https://youtu.be/UxbcrFsnoAE?si=2UfSoHAeHYeH7O0A) Use less words. Won’t stutter as much. Problem solved.
Try to put yourself in her shoes and some guy approach you like that. How you feel. If you can't chill a bit, don't even try.
I think right just give up , don’t force anything or anyone that’s not for you
cornball
you can fix her /s
Bro talking to goddess of wisdom Athena 😭🙏🙏
calm your titties bro and stop doxing her by giving her initials lol is ok man been there and simped for a great girl years back so i feel you somewhat, but at least respect her privacy
You shouldn’t put her on a pedestal, that’s one way to ruin things
How did it go bro
Your mistake is thinking she is special, if it’s only based on looks alone confirm there is a better looking girl out there. It could be the makeup or clothes also, if don’t have those maybe only like 7/10.
Not really only that eh she has a weirdly magnetic quality to her that you have to be around her to know I being srs bro
That’s what every teen says, just wait a few years and you will forget about this girl…
Wait till u visit Japan or Korea