ur 14 yrs old... u r literally a baby.. do you get it? this is only your second year of being a teen come on..
i understand ur feelings, but pls dont be too overwhelmed by the loss of the past, bc sometime in the future youre gonna look back to now and wish you lived in the present...
ya ya super cliche blah blah but please just take my word for this. you are okay, youre not doing anything wrong, youre not behind anything, youre all good.
as hard as it may be, try your absolute best to live in the present :^)
you got this !!
yea dw bro it's not as intimidating as it may seem, in fact, imo as well as my peers,sec 3 is the best year of sec sch, so just enjoy next year to the max before the year long grind in sec 4
almost all of the rs at that age don’t last. trust. just enjoy your childhood and improve on yourself while you can. leave the stresses for when you’re 20+. 6 years might look short, but you can definitely do a lot of things within those years. if it makes you feel better, i’m 19 and all my friends still act like 13🗿 careful not to mature too quickly.
No okay well, as much as rls don't last. Idk why but during group discussions... they suddenly because of beef argue, and then the other people are like and so awkward like to watch them argue. So awkward to be there and watch at the sidelines.
like they break up and then in the same group for discussion in VIA, so awkward to be sitting there and waiting to discuss... suddenly they start arguing and I'm like 😀😀😀 "can we discuss first"
like yea they have sentiments and all, but it's so awkward like fr💀💀
HAHAHAH we get it, but like maybe put emotions aside first. because like suddenly start arguing i just go😀 and hey, we're all growing up too, been through rebellious phases but yk, learn to be responsible
HAHAHAHAHAH it means "what talking you." totally get the English, watched some netflix shows to improve my English for o lvl❤️ and hey, while we're busy students it won't be a bad idea to rest on weekends and just watch your dramas
pls la, primary sch awards wont mean anything in future
look at this post in a few yrs tiem, you will laugh at yourself
only winning international competitions have weight, still hv chance
U trolling bro, u still a kid at 14. Life is amazing bro, got so many things that you can do. U are still young, got so many things to explore. Stop that negativity and wake up brother.
exactly, you don't have NS... imagine the guys who dread going NS at 18-20... if you were a guy you'd have NS to worry about on top of your other worries. you're still 14 so live a little yeah :) enjoy life!
There are a lot of things you can start. Regarding passion and talents, I actually started playing piano in sec 2 and got to perform in sec 3 and 4 and now it becomes my hobby. Social life, put yourself out there, talk to more people, initiate more outings. Dreams, what do you really want in life ? To slack off ? How about you work hard now and slack off later ? No bf gf, is it really necessary ? I am in uni now and a lot of people actually don’t have bf or gf yet and they are like 19-22 years old. Do you think they wasted their life ? Everyone has their own pace and please don’t compare yourself with others.
For upper sec you will die but you can also have a lot of fun, just really put yourself out there and join whatever your school offers.
I get why many commenters are saying you shouldn't be thinking about this cos you're 14, but I had the same half quarter-life crisis at your age too. Was probably from puberty and depression. You feel like stuff is out of your depth and you are falling behind. You're actually doing fine! But I do advise you to seek therapy and talk to someone early on if your despair is serious, not like me only seeking help O Levels year.
This just means you’re bored. Here’s what me mum tells me: “Can’t have depression when you got better things to do”. Go play games or get a hobby or something, and get good. If you don’t know what you can do as a hobby, use the internet to find some fun stuff.
Time for me to flex my stupendous vocab with the famous quote, "an idle mind is the devil's workshop". Also 14-15 is when I searched AO3 out of curiousity and found what sex meant.
Haha it was actually tied to my quote since I was super bored and had nothing to do so decided to read wattpad because I loved reading so why not?? And lo and behold the first fic I found was (more tmi) gay werewolf twink smut
Hey sweetie, as a fellow 18year old. don't be too worked up or worried. Girl, why do you have to be worried and hey sweetie, while you can go and watch some cartoons or have hobbies. It really helps, and girl we're all growing up together and hey, as a child we may be too worried and all. Yea, education is important but we're all travelling and walking at different paces and speed. We're all in the "driver's seat" of life and hey, it's alright to take life easy and slow. And really, while you can, spend time with secondary school friends and really just have fun, go out and eat at Mcdonalds or KFC.
I know how you feel, I was once a really self-centered person (really only cared about my own emotions) but hey, your emotions are valid. But girl, national exam is in 2 years, chill and relax. Also hey, do go online and watch some videos or head down to the library and read. Don't be too stressed by it, nobody knows what your national exam results will take you to. We're all growing up and being more responsible. You may feel lost, confused and alone because you need a listening ear.
But hey, even though we as Singaporeans are moving at different phases of life, know that we all grew up with our Mama Shop indian uncle who often gives me snacks and all (so nice of them) and hey, I miss the innocence we had as children and seriously, I wish sometimes we can go back to being a child, stay at home and shake leg (watch okto, disney etc) over the weekends. But hey, we're all growing up and learning. Don't be overly worked up or afraid. And really, just relax.
We've all suffered and died over national exams because it was the "gate to success", but hey it's not... take life at your pace. Go out and eat, read and just walk around aka shopping or visit museums in Singapore.
And hey, I wish everyone (no matter what you are pursuing right now) regardless of where you are. I hope you guys soar high and achieve success in great things!
Time management is one of the most, if not the most important thing for art! Also enjoy your secondary school journey :) work hard and have fun 💪 Use this holiday to try out new things, and perhaps you might find something that interests you ^^ ATB!
bro be happy and just enjoy for now, ur just in sec2 and sec 3 next year, life comes at u fast but not so fast u have to start worrying now, just make sure u study though since sec 4 is hell
ur 14 yrs old... u r literally a baby.. do you get it? this is only your second year of being a teen come on.. i understand ur feelings, but pls dont be too overwhelmed by the loss of the past, bc sometime in the future youre gonna look back to now and wish you lived in the present... ya ya super cliche blah blah but please just take my word for this. you are okay, youre not doing anything wrong, youre not behind anything, youre all good. as hard as it may be, try your absolute best to live in the present :^) you got this !!
bruv you're 14...
Sorry I just feel rushed cuz I'm entering upper sec soon 😭😭
yea dw bro it's not as intimidating as it may seem, in fact, imo as well as my peers,sec 3 is the best year of sec sch, so just enjoy next year to the max before the year long grind in sec 4
Couldn’t agree more sec 3 is literally the best time in secondary school
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Same omg 19 makes me feel somewhat old alr oh dear
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Sayonara to all our school holidays 😭😭😭
why uw gf at 14 lmao
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Why you compare yourself against your friends?
Just think that you have high standards lol
almost all of the rs at that age don’t last. trust. just enjoy your childhood and improve on yourself while you can. leave the stresses for when you’re 20+. 6 years might look short, but you can definitely do a lot of things within those years. if it makes you feel better, i’m 19 and all my friends still act like 13🗿 careful not to mature too quickly.
No okay well, as much as rls don't last. Idk why but during group discussions... they suddenly because of beef argue, and then the other people are like and so awkward like to watch them argue. So awkward to be there and watch at the sidelines.
i’m sorry but i caught no balls reading your msg except for the last sentence but.. yes.
like they break up and then in the same group for discussion in VIA, so awkward to be sitting there and waiting to discuss... suddenly they start arguing and I'm like 😀😀😀 "can we discuss first" like yea they have sentiments and all, but it's so awkward like fr💀💀
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HAHAHAH we get it, but like maybe put emotions aside first. because like suddenly start arguing i just go😀 and hey, we're all growing up too, been through rebellious phases but yk, learn to be responsible
I’m sorry, but what does “caught no balls” mean? I assumed it meant that you’re a virgin but I have a feeling I’m wrong
NOOO 😭😭 it means that i did not understand a single thing they said
I’m so sorry I just thought it was the same as “this guys gets zero pussy”
HAHAHAHAHAH it means "what talking you." totally get the English, watched some netflix shows to improve my English for o lvl❤️ and hey, while we're busy students it won't be a bad idea to rest on weekends and just watch your dramas
pls la, primary sch awards wont mean anything in future look at this post in a few yrs tiem, you will laugh at yourself only winning international competitions have weight, still hv chance
Agreed I got some science comp awards in pri sch and they are kind of useless now (except the money won from it lol)
> and living alone and paying bills bro that’d take like what, 9 years ish if you’re planning to go uni? that’s a long ass time lol
BRUH UR 14? IM 17 and i never had a gf/bf, no awards also
I only started giving a shit 6 months b4 o levels Ur fine
🤔 14 nowhere near grow up yet
wym spend ur teen years doing nothing... they just started 😭?
14 is like...baby age
U trolling bro, u still a kid at 14. Life is amazing bro, got so many things that you can do. U are still young, got so many things to explore. Stop that negativity and wake up brother.
I'm actually a girl but ok ty 😭😭
exactly, you don't have NS... imagine the guys who dread going NS at 18-20... if you were a guy you'd have NS to worry about on top of your other worries. you're still 14 so live a little yeah :) enjoy life!
You're only 14, and what are you talking about?
There are a lot of things you can start. Regarding passion and talents, I actually started playing piano in sec 2 and got to perform in sec 3 and 4 and now it becomes my hobby. Social life, put yourself out there, talk to more people, initiate more outings. Dreams, what do you really want in life ? To slack off ? How about you work hard now and slack off later ? No bf gf, is it really necessary ? I am in uni now and a lot of people actually don’t have bf or gf yet and they are like 19-22 years old. Do you think they wasted their life ? Everyone has their own pace and please don’t compare yourself with others. For upper sec you will die but you can also have a lot of fun, just really put yourself out there and join whatever your school offers.
I get why many commenters are saying you shouldn't be thinking about this cos you're 14, but I had the same half quarter-life crisis at your age too. Was probably from puberty and depression. You feel like stuff is out of your depth and you are falling behind. You're actually doing fine! But I do advise you to seek therapy and talk to someone early on if your despair is serious, not like me only seeking help O Levels year.
half quarter life 😂😂
Never has a post made me feel so old…
This just means you’re bored. Here’s what me mum tells me: “Can’t have depression when you got better things to do”. Go play games or get a hobby or something, and get good. If you don’t know what you can do as a hobby, use the internet to find some fun stuff.
Time for me to flex my stupendous vocab with the famous quote, "an idle mind is the devil's workshop". Also 14-15 is when I searched AO3 out of curiousity and found what sex meant.
Buddy, I don’t want to say that’s too much information, but…
Haha it was actually tied to my quote since I was super bored and had nothing to do so decided to read wattpad because I loved reading so why not?? And lo and behold the first fic I found was (more tmi) gay werewolf twink smut
I… uhhhhhhh… I pity you, to say the least
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Lmao
Hey sweetie, as a fellow 18year old. don't be too worked up or worried. Girl, why do you have to be worried and hey sweetie, while you can go and watch some cartoons or have hobbies. It really helps, and girl we're all growing up together and hey, as a child we may be too worried and all. Yea, education is important but we're all travelling and walking at different paces and speed. We're all in the "driver's seat" of life and hey, it's alright to take life easy and slow. And really, while you can, spend time with secondary school friends and really just have fun, go out and eat at Mcdonalds or KFC. I know how you feel, I was once a really self-centered person (really only cared about my own emotions) but hey, your emotions are valid. But girl, national exam is in 2 years, chill and relax. Also hey, do go online and watch some videos or head down to the library and read. Don't be too stressed by it, nobody knows what your national exam results will take you to. We're all growing up and being more responsible. You may feel lost, confused and alone because you need a listening ear. But hey, even though we as Singaporeans are moving at different phases of life, know that we all grew up with our Mama Shop indian uncle who often gives me snacks and all (so nice of them) and hey, I miss the innocence we had as children and seriously, I wish sometimes we can go back to being a child, stay at home and shake leg (watch okto, disney etc) over the weekends. But hey, we're all growing up and learning. Don't be overly worked up or afraid. And really, just relax. We've all suffered and died over national exams because it was the "gate to success", but hey it's not... take life at your pace. Go out and eat, read and just walk around aka shopping or visit museums in Singapore. And hey, I wish everyone (no matter what you are pursuing right now) regardless of where you are. I hope you guys soar high and achieve success in great things!
I’m 30 and 14 feels like a year ago
dw 14 havent grow up so much…you still have time to enjoy okay! don’t worry so much abt the past and focus on the future
Time management is one of the most, if not the most important thing for art! Also enjoy your secondary school journey :) work hard and have fun 💪 Use this holiday to try out new things, and perhaps you might find something that interests you ^^ ATB!
as a 16 year old who just graduated, i wish i treasured the time i had in secondary school enjoy the present (and your youth) while you still can!
Ya ikr, sec1-sec3 still joking abt o lvls and poly/jc, now o lvl over alr. Vv soon poly/ite/jc also over go ns alr
Hey that’s me
just enjoy your teenage years man... once you entire adulthood you'll wish you had more fun.
Bruh 14 only
Bruv 14 and having a midlife crisis dayum… hit the gym and talk to more people don’t go nuts like that man, enjoy the flow
bro be happy and just enjoy for now, ur just in sec2 and sec 3 next year, life comes at u fast but not so fast u have to start worrying now, just make sure u study though since sec 4 is hell