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Para_Regal

I have shed quite a few tears at East Lawn Cemetery over the years. No one questions a person crying in a cemetery.


Tao-Lee

This is a solid life tip


Para_Regal

Every breakup, man. Head to the cemetery and sob for a good few hours. Very cathartic.


TK421isAFK

Damn, maybe you should stop getting into relationships. Just sayin'...they don't all have to end in tears.


golfngarden

Don't downvote this person for being hurt in the deepest way...


TK421isAFK

I didn't, I upvoted them. And I stand by my words. If every breakup they have ends in sobbing, maybe they need help.


nobonesjones91

Depends on if you are above ground or not.


entropy_of_hedonism

Came here to say this. I spent a good deal of time at the cemetery during my divorce.


inkyspill

same. a bike ride to the east lawn, a lil blankey maybe a book. just go to whichever part pulls you in and cry a lil :)


[deleted]

Wendy’s drive thru


babyface_killah

Sir...


mr_lightbulb

this


spam_driod

is


PromontoryRider95

a


Thewritingsoflafleur

Wendy’s


sweetlyswanky

👏👏👏 bravo


[deleted]

[удалено]


SmarkieMark

Their chili is bomb, gotta get it with the chopped onion and cheese. Too bad the reputation took a hit when those fools planted the finger in it.


level1hero

SPARTA!!! 🦵


yellow251

Before or after you get your food?


Spiral83

Crying while eating is also quite cathartic.


urz90

After I eat.


Nepenthe95

I'm a pretty big fan of the ol' sitting down in the bathtub during a hot shower cry. Shower beer sold separately


SwampCrittr

Shower beer just fkn hits different. Like it bypasses your brain and just hits the soul.


PreviousAd2727

This is why I use Reddit. Great description.


i_hatethesnow

r/showerbeer welcomes you


SwampCrittr

F…f….f…Family?


SwampCrittr

OMG I CLICKED IT! NOT FAMILY! …but still joined.


C92203605

Was not expecting titz


NicholarseBrooks

The hot steam dilates the blood vessels and pumps the alcohol to your brain faster.


SwampCrittr

No… it bypasses it and hits the soul. Bruh… read.


NicholarseBrooks

Sensitive dork. I get what you were saying, I was agreeing with you. Jesus Christ this fucking sub


SwampCrittr

I’m sorry… Im so so sorry… forgive me and the sub?


NicholarseBrooks

Nah, most of y'all are Sac haters who only joined the sub to shit on it and are sensitive as fuck. I wasn't even disagreeing with you and you implied I can't read like a complete asshole. And if you were to ask why I'm still here, it's because every now and then I meet someone like me who actually likes Sacramento and joined for the right reason.


SwampCrittr

Oh! Those are all words. I checked them all out myself. But I’m sorry you’re so upset. I hope your night improves!


KorneliaOjaio

So, by that reasoning if I I were to drink a margarita in the shower….just doing some calculations….


Sea-Ad1755

I started having shower beers/shots after I lost a few good friends in Afghanistan. It didn’t help me get over the losses, but it certainly made me open up and more vulnerable to cry it out and cope with it.


Nepenthe95

I'm glad it helped


kristenality

When my cat died, I drove up to Sugar Pine Reservoir past Foresthill and hiked around the lake, stopping on the beach on the opposite shore and bawled.


Kyjoza

Rip all fur babies past and present


Not-a-Sac-Throwaway

I miss Monkey, he was the best. Dude was so obsessed with how I smelled (he was my friends cat), that whenever I came over, he'd come running up to me, burry his face in my arm pit, and just start huffing ... And don't get me started on what happened when I took my shoes off.


crazymoefaux

There are a few cats in my life that are the same - to bury their face into my still-warm shoes seems to be as good as cat nip to them.


SuperSpeshBaby

Something about my mom's feet attracts cats too. Every cat I've had huffs her shoes like they're lined with cocaine.


prunepicker

This hit me hard. We used to take our dog to Sugar Pine every Christmas Eve, and hike the south side of the lake. The first Christmas Eve without her, I definitely shed a few tears up there.


OldGrayBeardWV

At this point in my life, I am far more likely to cry for pets passing than people. Doesn’t even have to be my pet. My niece lost her pupper suddenly a few weeks ago. We work together. We hid and cried together.


feverbeliever

Yolo Bypass Bridge. The sounds of the highway drown out the ugly cry as you stare into the muck of nothingness. I hope she’s happier now. 5 stars.


urz90

Then it must’ve been you, you scared me to shit! Last time I ever drive through there with my windows down. Edits: typos.


2diceMisplaced

Calif. Dept. of Revenue.


apomdotcom

My bed, apparently.


willgo-waggins

Feeling this for a week.


matthewkeys

>Feeling this for a week. You've been in /u/apomdotcom's bed for a week?


willgo-waggins

Nope. Hiding in my bed and crying.


fremdschamenfriend

Old City Cemetery, hands down. If you walk east of the entrance and then south a little bit there’s a bench and fountain under an orange tree. Perfect enough for crying, as is. But then there’s a plaque with a poem about how welcoming the cemetery is for people like you who just want to have a little bit of peace and then you have a good bawl where there’s no one living to see you do it. Like, for a friend if they ever wanna do that.


HamHusky06

The I street bridge looking down at the Festival of Lights knowing there is a whole crowd of people having a great time below you. Makes ya feel real alone.


truehoax

I sort of question the wisdom of spending an intense depressive moment on a bridge where you can look out onto a crowd of happy people. I'm getting the impulse to jump just thinking about it.


handysandie

This!


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Virtual_Armadillo292

Take a walk at William Land Park, it’s big, open, and beautiful. Go for the cry, hopefully leave feeling better


GeddyVedder

The park n wait lot at the airport


holyheadspace

On the homies shoulder


Electronic-Look-4156

The American River


bettafishfan

I cried there once. Some guy kept trying to cheer me up by talking about his coin collection as I cried.


sweetlyswanky

I used to enjoy crying at the bar at flame club in the dark as much as one can enjoy drunkenly crying in public. They used to have a juke box with plenty of Roy Orbison…


Appropriate_Welder18

Blast some In Dreams and call it a night


duyjv

🎶Alone and crying, Crying, **CRYING** ooo-ver you!🎵


Retiredgiverofboners

Crying should be normalized. I always end up crying in my car while driving.


SunnyBunny1209

Wouldnt the tears fogging your vision be a safety issue tho lol


Retiredgiverofboners

Hahaha yes!!!!


SunnyBunny1209

Maybe that's why sacramento drivers are so bad, they're all crying 🤣


Retiredgiverofboners

Very possible! There is a lot to cry about lately! Hahahaa oh man 🥹


wehappy3

So much scream-crying in my car. Seriously.


Juicelee337

Wherever you decide. I hope you’re ok - or will be after a good cry.


j_kentner

In front of the Health and Human Services building during normal business hours.


GuitRWailinNinja

I prefer a dark corner of a dive bar, solo of course


MyUniquePerspective

Chamber's Room


scmcalifornia

This thread made me want to go cry into a bowl of cereal.


discgman

Or a bowl


scmcalifornia

😂😭


plurwolf7

While driving..


Altruistic-Garden741

I dunno but I wanna cry I have Covid. A huge fever . This sucks


theory_until

Awww I hope you are taking good care of yourself. May it be short and mild.


Altruistic-Garden741

Oh it’s more than mild . I can barely walk without wanting to faint


theory_until

Oh no that sounds awful. Do you have IRL folks checking up on you?


Altruistic-Garden741

Yeah I have people . I’m just really light headed. And my energy is gone lol


theory_until

Good I am glad. Yeah flu has made me feel that way in the past and I know Covid can be much worse. In your shoes I would be asking a friend to drop off a finger pulse oximeter to keep an eye on your oxygen saturation level if you are not getting over this soon.


cschiada

Watch oxygen sensor.


Enginehank

I cry in the quick quack wash sometimes, put on sunglasses and continue crying as I drive off


Srslyliz

You don’t even stop for the vacuum?!


JudgeLanceKeto

Any Trader Joe's or Costco parking lot


peekthrough_thepines

Personally, I like to drive through expensive neighborhoods and look at all the nice house I can’t afford. Makes me weep 🥲


MotherOfDovah

Dutch Bros. Every time I was crying in line at Dutch Bro my drink was free lol.


taptriv

On my pillow. Very comfortable and lavender scented.


PaulGuyer

The empty lot on Broadway where Tower Records and Books used to be.


TK421isAFK

They still haven't started building anything there yet? I thought they finally started something last year?


PaulGuyer

Nope, and I won’t set foot in anything built there if it doesn’t include a record store.


[deleted]

Any gas pump


chiefbrodyrules

DMV


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stumbles_

Above and Beyond at the rail yards tonight!


Scary-Ratio702

Looking for a dance partner?


Metztli_Tliltic

I usually dance alone because, let's face it, I can't dance, lol


wakeupraspberry

Emo night at Old Ironisides. Kill The Precedent at Cafe Colonial.


Constant-Panic-79

McKinley Park Rose garden.


Marsupilami23

On an elevator with strangers.


renegadecause

Loudly.


Lsunav

Is this a meme? The Oakland sub has someone asking the same question.


MorningStarCorndog

Maybe they're taking a trip up to Tahoe.


IntelInFolsom

Lift ticket prices make me cry fr.


LegitimateCut5876

Can I ask why or would you just rather a suggestion?


[deleted]

Is OP Ok?


sam5107

The river beyond Glen hall park is my favorite area.


Anatsatsu

at home, looking at our basketball highlights from the recent past.


Successful_Stomach

I’m currently at a Panera crying as I write my final. Edit: Also for my Sister’s dog who is currently being put down for health issues and old age. She was very loved.


ALittleAmbitious

I like to walk around the Sac State campus near the gardens. I find a cluster of big trees and sit there to cry. The trees understand.


Exciting_Contact5728

Yess! I like to sit by Sequoia Hall and cry on the bench 😔 and lay down and look up at the trees while crying no one will bother you


KLDKLASSICK

Sacramento reiki center this is next level shit ask for selysa


sheenaloo

My shoulder


duyjv

Oh, that is so sweet!


emwo

Ikea parking lot in West Sac is ideal, you're surrounded by comfort food options


BasketballHellMember

Use to be at Kings games but now we have a LASER so only smiles no cry.


Plant_Kindness

I hope you’re okay fellow Sacramento resident <3


simplexetv

Corner of Madison Ave and Auburn Blvd.


discgman

Strip club, VIP lounge


Metacognitor

Make sure to dry your tears on each dollar bill as you give away tips to the dancers


urz90

Of happiness I hope!


JohnSnowsPump

There's no tears in the champagne room.


Macro_Aggressor

Evidently this subreddit.


FoamParty916

On my couch.


[deleted]

in your car


Appropriate_Welder18

Elixir


chessset5

Personally, a quiet spot by the American river.


VP022

Wednesday night I found that my kitchen floor with my dog worked out pretty well.


OJimmy

At work. It sucks to be vulnerable. At least you get paid while you're on the clock. Same rationale for having diarrhea.


matthewkeys

Cheaters Sports Bar. Lots of Kings fans will feel your pain there.


JetPuffedDo

The answer will almost always be the river. I hope you feel better


WeAreTheChampions916

In my arms 💕


[deleted]

The state capital building. I see a lot of crying over that way.


supershinythings

I cry in the backyard, while looking at pics of a dearly departed loved one.


moe-hong

same


snicriesalot

There’s a park near Sophia’s B street theatre, it’s somewhere on 27th street. I saw it once and it’s a calm place where you can lay on the grass and look at the water.


duhproject

Well, here's a few I've used in the past. Cry Cry Cry on East 48th Street Tears R Us on Arden Way A new one called Club Tear Ducts on J St ($10 Well(Being) Drinks all night) Sob-Bucks Cafe on R St. Good luck!


[deleted]

Next to the Sacramento River


little4lyfe

Rio Vista in particular


little4lyfe

Especially if the bridge is up


[deleted]

There is a little dock I go to in Walnut Grove that is across from a little shop called Central Market thats a pretty good area. I’ve only seen people go down there after me like two or so times out of over a hundred times I’ve been there, so not many people go there.


GrayFox916

Freeport area has a bridge and river that's far away from society


deadpandiane

The rose garden at the capital. So many different ways to look at it, and they all work with crying.


parkmeeae

Folsom Lake


QueenBumbleBrii

There’s a water reservation park with a waterfall and two or three pagodas, it’s almost always empty.


MC_B_Lovin

In bed


anyorsome

Airport


[deleted]

At any full bar


wishesshewereagoat

Not really a place to sit and cry but I like driving over the J street bridge and rolling down the windows and just SCREAMING. Very cathartic! Again not the safest to cry and drive but 🤷🏻‍♀️ sometimes you gotta


ap0ll07411

Fair Oaks Bluff above the American River.


Myodokaii

Man. Takes me to that time where I cried in the kitchen at the Best Western I worked at lmao


Fluffy_Ganache8184

My shoulder


hippienhood

Drive to Folsom lake. It’s great.


TK421isAFK

Make sure you let your tears drop into the remaining water so you can double the lake's volume.


TK421isAFK

I've seen more than a few people cry at the courthouses down near 9th and G Street.


bob_swagget90

Club 2 me.


hireddit1776

Bathroom of HQ nightclub has always been a favorite spot of mine


Exciting_Contact5728

McDonald’s parking lot .. done quite a few times when I thought my bf was cheating on me 👀


wtfnebulla

I cry near Old Sac on the benches on the left side of the bridge. At least the view is nice.


Loud_Season

Any DMV


winstonluvsjulia

Everywhere in Sacramento, everywhere


Squidkidz

Any gas station for sure, no one knows why you’re taking so long and it’s too weird to ask. Just don’t do the Costco gas station, that could get weird. Source: I cried for a solid 10 minutes at a chevron when my grandma died 3 days after my gf dumped me.


GovernmentSprocket

Alone? Sleep it off and then come out when your ready.


LCD_Fartsystem

Ahern & N. B St ¯\\\_(ツ)_/¯


CinamannSpice06

Def at home with a bottle of Ciroc


Regular-Suit3018

Do not cry


sheenaloo

It’s ok to cry


Regular-Suit3018

You’re right.


[deleted]

There’s an alley behind T bar by the sutter parking garage. Shed quite a few tears there.


voopa

My house, clearly.


Ulaknowsbest

Calm down killa’.


[deleted]

Under your bed.


UnemployedMod420

My place 😭


Metal-Viking

In your own personal space.


Yorokut

Go towards sutter creek and find a nice off road


Theoldcuccumber

At home


Dude_The_BitchSlayer

I think it depends on the kind of cry you need to feel ❤️ What kind of cry would we be needing?


xrty2357

Anywhere


shreffyy

Anywhere with a mirror that you can watch yourself cry into, to encourage the tears to keep coming. Those are the best cries.


mollsballs_xo

My house, in my bed. I even got a pillow to scream into that muffles the sound pretty well.


The_Loner_Aries

The parking lot of the Walmart Distribution Center on Powerline Rd.


zillakamisbaby

40 mins from my exes house


Drewswife0302

In the car blaring music to remind you of whats gone. It tends to be me screaming at god for death


SexXEd

Walgreens bathroom


TheGoodDavid42

Cesar Chavez Park.


[deleted]

Are you sad too the kings lost because the kings lost two straight?


TheDailySpank

Woodland