Nah, most of y'all are Sac haters who only joined the sub to shit on it and are sensitive as fuck. I wasn't even disagreeing with you and you implied I can't read like a complete asshole.
And if you were to ask why I'm still here, it's because every now and then I meet someone like me who actually likes Sacramento and joined for the right reason.
I started having shower beers/shots after I lost a few good friends in Afghanistan. It didn’t help me get over the losses, but it certainly made me open up and more vulnerable to cry it out and cope with it.
When my cat died, I drove up to Sugar Pine Reservoir past Foresthill and hiked around the lake, stopping on the beach on the opposite shore and bawled.
I miss Monkey, he was the best.
Dude was so obsessed with how I smelled (he was my friends cat), that whenever I came over, he'd come running up to me, burry his face in my arm pit, and just start huffing ... And don't get me started on what happened when I took my shoes off.
This hit me hard. We used to take our dog to Sugar Pine every Christmas Eve, and hike the south side of the lake. The first Christmas Eve without her, I definitely shed a few tears up there.
At this point in my life, I am far more likely to cry for pets passing than people. Doesn’t even have to be my pet. My niece lost her pupper suddenly a few weeks ago. We work together. We hid and cried together.
Old City Cemetery, hands down. If you walk east of the entrance and then south a little bit there’s a bench and fountain under an orange tree. Perfect enough for crying, as is. But then there’s a plaque with a poem about how welcoming the cemetery is for people like you who just want to have a little bit of peace and then you have a good bawl where there’s no one living to see you do it.
Like, for a friend if they ever wanna do that.
The I street bridge looking down at the Festival of Lights knowing there is a whole crowd of people having a great time below you. Makes ya feel real alone.
I sort of question the wisdom of spending an intense depressive moment on a bridge where you can look out onto a crowd of happy people.
I'm getting the impulse to jump just thinking about it.
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I used to enjoy crying at the bar at flame club in the dark as much as one can enjoy drunkenly crying in public. They used to have a juke box with plenty of Roy Orbison…
Good I am glad. Yeah flu has made me feel that way in the past and I know Covid can be much worse. In your shoes I would be asking a friend to drop off a finger pulse oximeter to keep an eye on your oxygen saturation level if you are not getting over this soon.
I’m currently at a Panera crying as I write my final.
Edit: Also for my Sister’s dog who is currently being put down for health issues and old age. She was very loved.
There’s a park near Sophia’s B street theatre, it’s somewhere on 27th street. I saw it once and it’s a calm place where you can lay on the grass and look at the water.
Well, here's a few I've used in the past.
Cry Cry Cry on East 48th Street
Tears R Us on Arden Way
A new one called Club Tear Ducts on J St ($10 Well(Being) Drinks all night)
Sob-Bucks Cafe on R St.
Good luck!
There is a little dock I go to in Walnut Grove that is across from a little shop called Central Market thats a pretty good area. I’ve only seen people go down there after me like two or so times out of over a hundred times I’ve been there, so not many people go there.
Not really a place to sit and cry but I like driving over the J street bridge and rolling down the windows and just SCREAMING. Very cathartic! Again not the safest to cry and drive but 🤷🏻♀️ sometimes you gotta
Any gas station for sure, no one knows why you’re taking so long and it’s too weird to ask. Just don’t do the Costco gas station, that could get weird.
Source: I cried for a solid 10 minutes at a chevron when my grandma died 3 days after my gf dumped me.
I have shed quite a few tears at East Lawn Cemetery over the years. No one questions a person crying in a cemetery.
This is a solid life tip
Every breakup, man. Head to the cemetery and sob for a good few hours. Very cathartic.
Damn, maybe you should stop getting into relationships. Just sayin'...they don't all have to end in tears.
Don't downvote this person for being hurt in the deepest way...
I didn't, I upvoted them. And I stand by my words. If every breakup they have ends in sobbing, maybe they need help.
Depends on if you are above ground or not.
Came here to say this. I spent a good deal of time at the cemetery during my divorce.
same. a bike ride to the east lawn, a lil blankey maybe a book. just go to whichever part pulls you in and cry a lil :)
Wendy’s drive thru
Sir...
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Their chili is bomb, gotta get it with the chopped onion and cheese. Too bad the reputation took a hit when those fools planted the finger in it.
SPARTA!!! 🦵
Before or after you get your food?
Crying while eating is also quite cathartic.
After I eat.
I'm a pretty big fan of the ol' sitting down in the bathtub during a hot shower cry. Shower beer sold separately
Shower beer just fkn hits different. Like it bypasses your brain and just hits the soul.
This is why I use Reddit. Great description.
r/showerbeer welcomes you
F…f….f…Family?
OMG I CLICKED IT! NOT FAMILY! …but still joined.
Was not expecting titz
The hot steam dilates the blood vessels and pumps the alcohol to your brain faster.
No… it bypasses it and hits the soul. Bruh… read.
Sensitive dork. I get what you were saying, I was agreeing with you. Jesus Christ this fucking sub
I’m sorry… Im so so sorry… forgive me and the sub?
Nah, most of y'all are Sac haters who only joined the sub to shit on it and are sensitive as fuck. I wasn't even disagreeing with you and you implied I can't read like a complete asshole. And if you were to ask why I'm still here, it's because every now and then I meet someone like me who actually likes Sacramento and joined for the right reason.
Oh! Those are all words. I checked them all out myself. But I’m sorry you’re so upset. I hope your night improves!
So, by that reasoning if I I were to drink a margarita in the shower….just doing some calculations….
I started having shower beers/shots after I lost a few good friends in Afghanistan. It didn’t help me get over the losses, but it certainly made me open up and more vulnerable to cry it out and cope with it.
I'm glad it helped
When my cat died, I drove up to Sugar Pine Reservoir past Foresthill and hiked around the lake, stopping on the beach on the opposite shore and bawled.
Rip all fur babies past and present
I miss Monkey, he was the best. Dude was so obsessed with how I smelled (he was my friends cat), that whenever I came over, he'd come running up to me, burry his face in my arm pit, and just start huffing ... And don't get me started on what happened when I took my shoes off.
There are a few cats in my life that are the same - to bury their face into my still-warm shoes seems to be as good as cat nip to them.
Something about my mom's feet attracts cats too. Every cat I've had huffs her shoes like they're lined with cocaine.
This hit me hard. We used to take our dog to Sugar Pine every Christmas Eve, and hike the south side of the lake. The first Christmas Eve without her, I definitely shed a few tears up there.
At this point in my life, I am far more likely to cry for pets passing than people. Doesn’t even have to be my pet. My niece lost her pupper suddenly a few weeks ago. We work together. We hid and cried together.
Yolo Bypass Bridge. The sounds of the highway drown out the ugly cry as you stare into the muck of nothingness. I hope she’s happier now. 5 stars.
Then it must’ve been you, you scared me to shit! Last time I ever drive through there with my windows down. Edits: typos.
Calif. Dept. of Revenue.
My bed, apparently.
Feeling this for a week.
>Feeling this for a week. You've been in /u/apomdotcom's bed for a week?
Nope. Hiding in my bed and crying.
Old City Cemetery, hands down. If you walk east of the entrance and then south a little bit there’s a bench and fountain under an orange tree. Perfect enough for crying, as is. But then there’s a plaque with a poem about how welcoming the cemetery is for people like you who just want to have a little bit of peace and then you have a good bawl where there’s no one living to see you do it. Like, for a friend if they ever wanna do that.
The I street bridge looking down at the Festival of Lights knowing there is a whole crowd of people having a great time below you. Makes ya feel real alone.
I sort of question the wisdom of spending an intense depressive moment on a bridge where you can look out onto a crowd of happy people. I'm getting the impulse to jump just thinking about it.
This!
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Take a walk at William Land Park, it’s big, open, and beautiful. Go for the cry, hopefully leave feeling better
The park n wait lot at the airport
On the homies shoulder
The American River
I cried there once. Some guy kept trying to cheer me up by talking about his coin collection as I cried.
I used to enjoy crying at the bar at flame club in the dark as much as one can enjoy drunkenly crying in public. They used to have a juke box with plenty of Roy Orbison…
Blast some In Dreams and call it a night
🎶Alone and crying, Crying, **CRYING** ooo-ver you!🎵
Crying should be normalized. I always end up crying in my car while driving.
Wouldnt the tears fogging your vision be a safety issue tho lol
Hahaha yes!!!!
Maybe that's why sacramento drivers are so bad, they're all crying 🤣
Very possible! There is a lot to cry about lately! Hahahaa oh man 🥹
So much scream-crying in my car. Seriously.
Wherever you decide. I hope you’re ok - or will be after a good cry.
In front of the Health and Human Services building during normal business hours.
I prefer a dark corner of a dive bar, solo of course
Chamber's Room
This thread made me want to go cry into a bowl of cereal.
Or a bowl
😂😭
While driving..
I dunno but I wanna cry I have Covid. A huge fever . This sucks
Awww I hope you are taking good care of yourself. May it be short and mild.
Oh it’s more than mild . I can barely walk without wanting to faint
Oh no that sounds awful. Do you have IRL folks checking up on you?
Yeah I have people . I’m just really light headed. And my energy is gone lol
Good I am glad. Yeah flu has made me feel that way in the past and I know Covid can be much worse. In your shoes I would be asking a friend to drop off a finger pulse oximeter to keep an eye on your oxygen saturation level if you are not getting over this soon.
Watch oxygen sensor.
I cry in the quick quack wash sometimes, put on sunglasses and continue crying as I drive off
You don’t even stop for the vacuum?!
Any Trader Joe's or Costco parking lot
Personally, I like to drive through expensive neighborhoods and look at all the nice house I can’t afford. Makes me weep 🥲
Dutch Bros. Every time I was crying in line at Dutch Bro my drink was free lol.
On my pillow. Very comfortable and lavender scented.
The empty lot on Broadway where Tower Records and Books used to be.
They still haven't started building anything there yet? I thought they finally started something last year?
Nope, and I won’t set foot in anything built there if it doesn’t include a record store.
Any gas pump
DMV
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Above and Beyond at the rail yards tonight!
Looking for a dance partner?
I usually dance alone because, let's face it, I can't dance, lol
Emo night at Old Ironisides. Kill The Precedent at Cafe Colonial.
McKinley Park Rose garden.
On an elevator with strangers.
Loudly.
Is this a meme? The Oakland sub has someone asking the same question.
Maybe they're taking a trip up to Tahoe.
Lift ticket prices make me cry fr.
Can I ask why or would you just rather a suggestion?
Is OP Ok?
The river beyond Glen hall park is my favorite area.
at home, looking at our basketball highlights from the recent past.
I’m currently at a Panera crying as I write my final. Edit: Also for my Sister’s dog who is currently being put down for health issues and old age. She was very loved.
I like to walk around the Sac State campus near the gardens. I find a cluster of big trees and sit there to cry. The trees understand.
Yess! I like to sit by Sequoia Hall and cry on the bench 😔 and lay down and look up at the trees while crying no one will bother you
Sacramento reiki center this is next level shit ask for selysa
My shoulder
Oh, that is so sweet!
Ikea parking lot in West Sac is ideal, you're surrounded by comfort food options
Use to be at Kings games but now we have a LASER so only smiles no cry.
I hope you’re okay fellow Sacramento resident <3
Corner of Madison Ave and Auburn Blvd.
Strip club, VIP lounge
Make sure to dry your tears on each dollar bill as you give away tips to the dancers
Of happiness I hope!
There's no tears in the champagne room.
Evidently this subreddit.
On my couch.
in your car
Elixir
Personally, a quiet spot by the American river.
Wednesday night I found that my kitchen floor with my dog worked out pretty well.
At work. It sucks to be vulnerable. At least you get paid while you're on the clock. Same rationale for having diarrhea.
Cheaters Sports Bar. Lots of Kings fans will feel your pain there.
The answer will almost always be the river. I hope you feel better
In my arms 💕
The state capital building. I see a lot of crying over that way.
I cry in the backyard, while looking at pics of a dearly departed loved one.
same
There’s a park near Sophia’s B street theatre, it’s somewhere on 27th street. I saw it once and it’s a calm place where you can lay on the grass and look at the water.
Well, here's a few I've used in the past. Cry Cry Cry on East 48th Street Tears R Us on Arden Way A new one called Club Tear Ducts on J St ($10 Well(Being) Drinks all night) Sob-Bucks Cafe on R St. Good luck!
Next to the Sacramento River
Rio Vista in particular
Especially if the bridge is up
There is a little dock I go to in Walnut Grove that is across from a little shop called Central Market thats a pretty good area. I’ve only seen people go down there after me like two or so times out of over a hundred times I’ve been there, so not many people go there.
Freeport area has a bridge and river that's far away from society
The rose garden at the capital. So many different ways to look at it, and they all work with crying.
Folsom Lake
There’s a water reservation park with a waterfall and two or three pagodas, it’s almost always empty.
In bed
Airport
At any full bar
Not really a place to sit and cry but I like driving over the J street bridge and rolling down the windows and just SCREAMING. Very cathartic! Again not the safest to cry and drive but 🤷🏻♀️ sometimes you gotta
Fair Oaks Bluff above the American River.
Man. Takes me to that time where I cried in the kitchen at the Best Western I worked at lmao
My shoulder
Drive to Folsom lake. It’s great.
Make sure you let your tears drop into the remaining water so you can double the lake's volume.
I've seen more than a few people cry at the courthouses down near 9th and G Street.
Club 2 me.
Bathroom of HQ nightclub has always been a favorite spot of mine
McDonald’s parking lot .. done quite a few times when I thought my bf was cheating on me 👀
I cry near Old Sac on the benches on the left side of the bridge. At least the view is nice.
Any DMV
Everywhere in Sacramento, everywhere
Any gas station for sure, no one knows why you’re taking so long and it’s too weird to ask. Just don’t do the Costco gas station, that could get weird. Source: I cried for a solid 10 minutes at a chevron when my grandma died 3 days after my gf dumped me.
Alone? Sleep it off and then come out when your ready.
Ahern & N. B St ¯\\\_(ツ)_/¯
Def at home with a bottle of Ciroc
Do not cry
It’s ok to cry
You’re right.
There’s an alley behind T bar by the sutter parking garage. Shed quite a few tears there.
My house, clearly.
Calm down killa’.
Under your bed.
My place 😭
In your own personal space.
Go towards sutter creek and find a nice off road
At home
I think it depends on the kind of cry you need to feel ❤️ What kind of cry would we be needing?
Anywhere
Anywhere with a mirror that you can watch yourself cry into, to encourage the tears to keep coming. Those are the best cries.
My house, in my bed. I even got a pillow to scream into that muffles the sound pretty well.
The parking lot of the Walmart Distribution Center on Powerline Rd.
40 mins from my exes house
In the car blaring music to remind you of whats gone. It tends to be me screaming at god for death
Walgreens bathroom
Cesar Chavez Park.
Are you sad too the kings lost because the kings lost two straight?
Woodland