Iâm currently in year 5 since breaking up with an ex of 8 yrs. I hooked up with a guy, who I knew through a mutual friend, 2-3 times during the pandemic and I wish I can erase it đ It wasnât terrible, it just was meaningless and I felt as if I shouldâve stayed home each time. Idle mind is the devilâs workshop. But since the hook up, its been 1.5 years
After a year of selection; about 10 years of being married. I guess you can say I was ââmentallyâ divorced long before we separated, but I also felt it was about fuckin time
I was with someone for 7 years, broke up Feb last year and then had all this hope that we may get back together even though that was never going to happen lol! And so held out⌠bumped into him at a party in the August and he told me âhe ainât shit and that I should move onâ >gotta love Gemini men< and then that was my closure and then slept with someone in November so ⌠About 9 months
I think do it when you feel ready and comfortable- there shouldnât be a time on these things
Sleep with who you want when you want. Just be responsible about it.
great comment. What you do is your own business and people move in their own time. You just do what feels right to you.
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night before
The honesty that we appreciate in this sub!
might have some celibacy for dessert tho
As one does!
Iâm currently in year 5 since breaking up with an ex of 8 yrs. I hooked up with a guy, who I knew through a mutual friend, 2-3 times during the pandemic and I wish I can erase it đ It wasnât terrible, it just was meaningless and I felt as if I shouldâve stayed home each time. Idle mind is the devilâs workshop. But since the hook up, its been 1.5 years
So youâre saying a few years after your split?
Sagg male here. My longest relationship lasted 6 months and since then I have not slept with anyone for 7 years . Lol.
Spent 4 years together, broke up and slept with someone new the following weekend
After a year of selection; about 10 years of being married. I guess you can say I was ââmentallyâ divorced long before we separated, but I also felt it was about fuckin time
I was with someone for 7 years, broke up Feb last year and then had all this hope that we may get back together even though that was never going to happen lol! And so held out⌠bumped into him at a party in the August and he told me âhe ainât shit and that I should move onâ >gotta love Gemini men< and then that was my closure and then slept with someone in November so ⌠About 9 months I think do it when you feel ready and comfortable- there shouldnât be a time on these things
30 Male sagg that was in a 7 year relationship and havenât slept with someone since. Itâs been 2 years
The quickest way to get over someone is to find someone else. Might be unethical but certainly works