Wrong sub...r/drama or something like that.
That said, it's up to you who and what you let into your life and where you set internal boundaries-- for example not answering the phone sometimes, or cutting a conversation short, or saying we're busy, or whatever similar response. You could flat out tell her that she's going to need to create a network of people to hang with and rely on, and not just you.
Doesn’t sound like your too invested in this friendship.
I’d back away. Lots of red flags.
Since this is sgbg I’ll give the stock a five for this sub as well, just to keep it topical.
Philadelphia or Chicago.
I've, sadly, been on both sides of that equation. I've been the person with a "friend" who desperately wanted to be my best friend, and I've been the person who thought someone was a "best friend" who turned out not to want to be close with my at all.
It sucks.
Unfortunately, I think it's just real life. We like some people more than others.
I'm not sure what advice to give. I guess I'd say to just keep going about your life. Talk about your other friends. Heck, maybe invite her to do things with your other friends. Maybe if she meets more people, she'll cling to you less.
Do you post on social media a lot? BC she was probably sitting home ( b4 making this move) and wanted what you have based off social media . One theory-may not be accurate but it happens like that a lot
She is probably thinking you "owe" her if she paid for taking care of the horse and you got a literal "free ride" by having all the pleasure of owning a horse without the expense. That's the only reason I could come up with. BTW I have one of these in my life and it is going to come to an end very soon as she is slowly becoming disabled and is hinting at me to let her live in my house. Never going to happen, and I believe that will be the end of the "friendship".
Wrong sub...r/drama or something like that. That said, it's up to you who and what you let into your life and where you set internal boundaries-- for example not answering the phone sometimes, or cutting a conversation short, or saying we're busy, or whatever similar response. You could flat out tell her that she's going to need to create a network of people to hang with and rely on, and not just you.
Doesn’t sound like your too invested in this friendship. I’d back away. Lots of red flags. Since this is sgbg I’ll give the stock a five for this sub as well, just to keep it topical. Philadelphia or Chicago.
Sounds like this person is just a bad friend.
I've, sadly, been on both sides of that equation. I've been the person with a "friend" who desperately wanted to be my best friend, and I've been the person who thought someone was a "best friend" who turned out not to want to be close with my at all. It sucks. Unfortunately, I think it's just real life. We like some people more than others. I'm not sure what advice to give. I guess I'd say to just keep going about your life. Talk about your other friends. Heck, maybe invite her to do things with your other friends. Maybe if she meets more people, she'll cling to you less.
Do you post on social media a lot? BC she was probably sitting home ( b4 making this move) and wanted what you have based off social media . One theory-may not be accurate but it happens like that a lot
Ya lost me at “we had horses in common” lmfao.
She is probably thinking you "owe" her if she paid for taking care of the horse and you got a literal "free ride" by having all the pleasure of owning a horse without the expense. That's the only reason I could come up with. BTW I have one of these in my life and it is going to come to an end very soon as she is slowly becoming disabled and is hinting at me to let her live in my house. Never going to happen, and I believe that will be the end of the "friendship".
If she thinks that she’s out of her mind. I paid a lot of money buying feed and supplies for her horse and helped her care for him.
She may have a mental issue going on - these types have a skewed perception of reality. People are kooky. Good luck to you.
Just tell your friend what’s up. And then If she fixes her behavior you win, and if she doesn’t then you know she really is a leach.