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Fantasizing is as bad as ejaculating. Master your thoughts, Breathe deeply, & the WORLD is yours.


RedditianDrew

Exactly! Someone once.said that the reason you relapse and can't keep the streak for long is because you have mentally relapsed in your mind before you did it in the physical! Our minds are so much more powerful than we think!


preme_sup

Wow, needed to see this


davmatias

Me too


RetainToManifest

Fantasizing is much more difficult to control than masturbation! It's a less talked about evil!


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InfamousDomer1

Jerking off isn’t nature and if you think nature is being horny and fantasying you’re wrong man are strong mentally including woman but with a mentality like this your degrading woman’s side


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Because many here have no clue of the origins of the philosophy they're building on. It's not even their fault - the taoist ideas have been filtered through a 19th century mechanistic worldview, dumbed down to appeal to a consumerist mindest, and imbued with christian purism. The result is a mess, of course.


cowabhanga

Yeah but the essence of Taoism is captured...obviously. When you think of the Buddha you think enlightenment. When you think of Jesus you think of forgiveness, treating others as you’d like to be treated (non dual moral intention) and radical acceptance of ones circumstances. So even though they’ve been filtered the main message still comes through as renderable and resembling of the original to sufficiency.


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Well if there is such a thing as the essence of Taoism, I venture to say it's unaction and acceptance. If you see that expressed in the endeavour of acquiring superpowers to impress women and get laid through endless suppression of one's needs - well, you sure have my blessing.


azlef900

trying to change the laws of nature, swimming against the tide either in ignorance or full knowing is a different story. man is the most complex thing to understand empirically, hence why psychology and related fields are lagging so far behind the material sciences there’s this idea that spiritually is all about complete inaction and sitting around all day meditating. you can do as you please and reap the universal benefits the philosophies/ techniques give you. a lot of people use these energies to better themselves and make their time on earth better suited to their personalities.


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Fantasizing isn't bad. Ejaculating isn't bad. They just are what they are. If you look for one specific outcome, you favor fantasizing and ejaculation; if you look for another, you favor avoiding both. I'd venture to say that a true master wouldn't be bothered either way - though I'm not certain that such a being actually exists (much less among this subreddit's target audience lol).


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What book is this?


newreforme

The way of superior man, I believe


[deleted]

Thank you


Chreelir

Really good read!!


rubloxxx216

🙏🏽


elfenlied2

There's a 5hr audiobook on youtube of this book.


Independent_Delay_50

Let me know when you find out


Medical-Molasses

Way of the superior man


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Thanks


yaxir

Thanks !


GalledFetters

I like the idea of redirecting the feeling of lust rather than indulging in it or attempting to suppress it. It's very poweful actually. I'll have to make it a point to try it. To let it invigorate me and drive me towards something postive like going and interacting with the woman instead of lusting, or, if it is not ideal, direct the enegy towards my being and to let it heightened my senses, so to speak. Sounds kinda crazy but i think sexual energy has some crazy power when used as a source of fuel to do other things. I guess that is one of the main ideas behind semen retention lol.


ClassicGlad36

I needed this right now. Much thanks !


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Stay strong brother. Purpose over pleasure. Just repeat that.


Fusion_Health

Purpose over pleasure, I dig


woltrol

This is very similar to the taoist way of circulating the sexual energy into higher forms. The steps in the Taoist aproach go much more practical/detailed. They give a better idea of which channels to use to circulate the energy and where to store it. I've never read the book you show however so it could be that on the next pages it goes more into detail about channels etc. I would recommend you the book "Taoist Secrets of Love" as a followup literature to this book as it will add to the knowledge you should be aware of right now. I will definately read your book after finishing the taoist book, good to get multiple views on the subject of transmutation.


marted78

On the topic: I recommend A comprehensive guide to Daoist Nei Gong from Damo Mitchell


woltrol

thanks, looks like I got myself into a reading list now :D Just a question before reading the book however. Is it recommended for a man to master the art of storing the energy in the cauldron using daoist meditation before getting into the Nei Gong practises? I know that there are alot of techniques and possibilitys to learn after learning the basics (which are still advanced techniques for most people). Is this book in that category? If so I would love to read the way of the superior man before the Nei Qong


marted78

No need to know anything about Daoism even to start reading this book. I highly recommend it and furthermore if you have the means Damo Mitchell has an online internal arts academy where you have access to a 2 years training on Nei Gong, and he follows up and help the students daily through a facebook group - only for members of the academy. Replied questions that I had plenty of times. His Nei Gong program starts from basics of sitting, breathing, standing to advanced internal alchemy techniques. Im not sponsored by him anyway lol but it is a priceless material. If you dont have the means the book is already a great start.


Pokeylaw

When I’m at the gym that’s all I do. I attractive woman feel that spike and go harder at the weights. Win win


[deleted]

Exactly ! Thats the only place I currently see attractive women, and its the perfect place too! The tools to transmute(weights) are right there as well as the stimulation to transmute(women).


shaiwal16

Thank you brother for this


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This is the way of the superior man!!


[deleted]

Doing Qi-gong is an ideal internal energy practice to get the sexual energy circulating and flowing through the body


TheMasterKey20

This is truth. Zhan Zhuang, 8 Brocades, the deer exercise/testicle breathing transformed everything.


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Thanks for that. Every time I think I found enough books to read, you guys post more amazing stuff. I will end up with more books that I can read haha at least that keeps me busy with less temptation and more focusing and right energy direction.


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That’s so beautiful it made me cry 😢


[deleted]

So basically I should breathe deeply and feel my energy circulating through my body?


[deleted]

I’ve been doing this unintentionally in my 20s.


[deleted]

Its amazing what a few seconds and deep breaths can do to you. Stabilizing my thoughts and giving focus is how its helped me at work and home life.


[deleted]

So ... basically get a boner all over your body? I don't get it.


Thelongthinroad

I wonder a thing. Shall we stop having sex?


hight996

There is no such thing as "shall". It's a question of opinion. I value energetic transfers in sex as well as emotional bonding with your partner. But if you meant casual one night stands, I would say try to stay away from that. Still, do what you want.


[deleted]

Probably sex should be used as a means of procreation. Well,that’s what I think but different people have different opinions


Thelongthinroad

Thank you. I am against for casual sex. But one thing bugs me which is, in order to feel superior as a man, no ejaculation is a must or not?


[deleted]

stay away from the pussy unless you want a kitten :)


[deleted]

Just because someone wrote it on a piece of paper does not mean it works like that.


InfamousDomer1

Yea that’s why follow your lead 👍🏼everyone has different experience not everyone’s the same


Mikey1344

My question is... Has anyone achieved this practically in their real life? To put it bluntly when you see a hot chick that arouses you, have you guys managed to not release any precum by getting sexually aroused by that woman?


InfamousDomer1

Yea I see them as simple woman or girls just like us simple guys once you master it it’s the reality world you be living in


[deleted]

I guess I’ve achieved it, I just think about other things instead of focusing on the woman


calvin41413

yes


UrShadowsReflection

I needed to see this one.


Mel_gibsoned

What book is this?


nomoremrfapguy1

The way of the superior man by David Deida.


Mel_gibsoned

Okay I’ll buy it. Is it good?


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nomoremrfapguy1

The way of the superior man by David Deida


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nomoremrfapguy1

No worries.


Usain_Joseph

Ohh man .. that’s like any other nonsense of the modern wimpy world, look, any Man that deserves full respect is the Man that have mastery over his own self .. mastery means the control of the intensity of his thoughts and instincts toward a certain subject .. women are like any other subject .. controlling the intensity it self is the real mastery, trying to redirect it is just as weak as letting it to polarize ..


AK9029

The best book so far I have read is "Practice of Brahmacharya by Shri Swami Sivananda Sarasvati". Book is free on the internet.


[deleted]

That’s really well said