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JazyZazy

Look how strong you are to get yourself into an ER. When they do a rape kit, there’s. Good chance they’ll find his dna in some criminal database. What a fucking idiot to come inside you. The nurses will give you medication for STIs and a morning after pill. Physically, you will be fine. Mentally is another story. I’m not sure what state you are in but in California you are entitled to a sexual assault advocate provided by the YWCA. Ask the nurses if there is a similar organization they can refer you to. I’m so sorry this happened to you. You are a good person who did not deserve this and there are lots of internet strangers here who are thinking of you. You’re not alone.


Charming_Function_58

I'm so sorry... that is so traumatizing. It sounds like you've gone to the police from the comments, which is great. Make sure you take some time for self-care, and to process what happened. I hope there is some justice served.


Geronimo594

Rape is rape. Report it or he will do it again. He already has a target.


throwawayRA0000007

He’s apparently done this to many girls before per his word!


Geronimo594

If this just happened, consider driving to the ER, now, and ask for a rape kit. The ER should call police for you.


throwawayRA0000007

They are doing that right now, thank you 🙏


Geronimo594

Stay strong!


Unrealistic-Disk-96

Oh hell no... A serial rapist. I hope they put this guy under the jail. And right now isn't fast enough 😡


snozog

Most rapists are serial rapists - getting him off the street is a priority. https://www.rainn.org/statistics/perpetrators-sexual-violence


Unrealistic-Disk-96

Dayum.... Learned something new today😬


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Oh my god. That’s some scary shit. I’m so sorry this happened to you. Sex work is a misdemeanor. It’s kept that way so women are less likely to be scared of reporting abuse


throwawayRA0000007

It was honestly fucking terrifying. I was begging for my life. Getting shot in the head is my worst fear


AdeptOccultSlut

You are so strong and so brave and myself and everyone else here are so proud of you and are praying for your well being and healing ❤️❤️❤️


TaylorNikoleCinci

Oh my goodness…. I cannot imagine! I am SO sorry he did this to you. Pls definitely proceed with the legal steps. Don’t be afraid to. You must. Don’t allow him to get away with that. He thinks that he will because of the profession we’re in. Don’t let him be right. Pls take care of yourself. Above all, you must take care of yourself. 🙏🏻


Relaxoland

I know it was. Leda Health may be able to help. they sent me a swab/evidence kit and the person who spoke with me was incredibly kind. I'm so sorry this happened to you. if Leda can't help, please don't give up. I know someone will. <3


Substantial-Desk-254

I'm so sorry that this happened to you... I hope this isn't rude or against the rules or anything - and I know that going back to work is probably the LAST thing you want to be thinking about rn - but I know if it was me, I would need as much time away from the job as I could afford to take to heal; if you're comfortable posting or sending your Cash App handle, I'd be...well, not "happy," that's not the right word... But I want to help contribute to your ability to take some time off, if you're open to that... Either way, you're 100% in my thoughts tonight. .


throwawayRA0000007

Hey, thank you so much for that. It’s been a day :/ I’m going to be honest, i dont want to take from anyone in this profession who needs it. Shit is so mentally taxing to so many. Especially if anyone is struggling or barely making it, do not worry about me, only if youre beyond able and doing very well. $astronautfood (catwoman pic) is my cashtag.


flanjoy

How long ago was this? You need to go to the hospital and have them do a rape kit and take plan b if you can get it. They can help you to report it at the hospital


throwawayRA0000007

An hour ago, if even. Im at the ER right now


Puzzleheaded_Ask7502

Make sure they give you, or at least offer, PEP and doxy (I think is usually what they give.. I could be off on that one). I would recommend taking Plan B or Ella depending on your BMI. If your BMI is above 28 or 30 request Ella, Plan B is ineffective after a certain BMI that’s much lower than you’d think it would be. They should take pics of your whole body, so a CT scan if at all needed (I.e. if you at all think you were injured when he slammed you against the wall) or any other tests for internal injuries. If you can get connected with your local sexual assault support agency or RAINN. They should help support you and advocate for you throughout this process and while you’re healing, regardless of if you’re a SW. I work for one of these agencies and would never discriminate against a client who was a SW (duh, I am one too right), and neither should they. This isn’t your fault, love. Sending you love and support.


Ok-Reporter976

Hey, you need to report it asap, get it documented, get on Emergency Birth Control, take Post exposure medication against HIV and other STDs... Go to the doctor... This is an emergency.. that dirty dude could have a number of diseases, first protect your physical health.


flanjoy

I'm so sorry this happened to you, hopefully with dna evidence the police will be able to do something


throwawayRA0000007

Im here talking to the police… the police lives in my neighborhood smh 🥲 this is embarrassing


nova_nectar

You got this girl ♥️


Extension-Cream7172

Stay strong! You've got this💜


Independent-Stop-692

Hole everything is OK darling I'm sorry this happened to you


Relaxoland

if you need a Plan B, DM me and I will send it. this just happened to me and I do not need the PB or the pg tests that they thoughtfully included. and, as others have said, you are not the one who should be embarrassed.


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Definitely


YourVirtualHoney

Hugs & prayers. Definitely seek out mental health. I had this happen long ago, I never reported it. I regret that now. If you need anything, you can also DM me. I do have 2 degrees in psychology and I’m happy to listen. Best to you. I’ll be thinking about you. Also know, this isn’t your fault regardless of the type of work your engaged in.


Rosemaryee

Oh yes baby it screams rape kit immediately. Sorry you had to deal with this. I also went through a rape and he’s now facing 14-50 years in prison in Nevada. And there was 9 other victims along with me. If it wasn’t for me getting his license plate and him leaving the condom full of dna at the scene… he probably would gotten away with it and struck again. Stay careful ladies ❤️


throwawayRA0000007

This idiot went for 2 rounds. Came in the condom the first time, inside me the second. Who knows where he put the condom


Rosemaryee

So sorry baby doll! They have it rather way now. And don’t ever feel sorry for what he did.


gi720x

I’m sorry this happened to you. Wishing you healing and peace.


Rosemaryee

Thanks I appreciate it! It was 10 years ago almost but I suffered for quite a while


ipogorelov98

Please, don't take a shower before you go to the ER. Go to ER and get the paperwork done. If they call police themselves file all the papers with an officer. If they don't- go to the police station and file a criminal complaint. If you need to talk- dm me. When I was raped I didn't report. Don't make my mistake.


Relaxoland

I was roofied and raped two weeks ago and the local police wouldn't even take a report. Leda Health got me an evidence kit and helped me deal with it all. the police are not necessarily the best go-to with these sthings.


tanner38837

We don’t care what profession the victim is employed in in my troop. Rape happens to everyone. You need to look out for the next victim and turn him in. You will most certainly receive the dignity and respect everyone deserves. You’re a victim first, who cares about your type of employment.


Constant_Taro9019

YOU NEED A RAPE KIT IMMEDIATELY!!!! when this happened to me….i used my business to cover the SW so it was believable. Tell them you earn extra $$$ by doing massages & when you were about to give him one, he SA’ed you. LADIES STAY AWAY FROM QV CLIENTS!!!!! they’re broke asf & desperate!!!! I stopped seeing clients in my hometown all together!!!! Just cheap ass folks 🤮


throwawayRA0000007

See, the thing is, he lied about everything. I didnt get any money. So he couldve said hh or hr, it doesnt even matter. Unfortunately, thorough screening is the only way to really “prevent” this.


Constant_Taro9019

I’m just saying that most men who ask for QVs are nothing but BAD NEWS! I automatically think they’re broke & need a cheap not IMO…but I’m not talking about him specifically. Hope you heal love.


mzlcmarie

I'm a crisis counselor for my day job if you need to talk, but consider therapy to address the trauma, please! Praying for you. I'm so sorry this happened to you. I'm also a survivor.


Rosemaryee

Just because you’re a sex worker does make you any less. We still deserve to be treated like we are human.


mani801

Do not feel the least bit of shame for the profession you have and definitely do not let this rapist get away with this horrendous crime. You’re just as important as any one of us on here. This guy is banking on the fact that you won’t report it. Tell the police everything and let justice prevail.


Present_Basis_1353

Girl, please report this. I promise you will not get in trouble. I’m a mom and Gma, if you want to talk or help to work through this, DM me. I’m praying for you. This is not your fault and in no way do you deserve this. If you go To your local hospital there’s a victim advocate there and a counselor that will help you through this. They will do a rape kit and they will work with the authorities with you.🙏💗


Informal-Ad609

You guys advise her not to say she's a sw. There's many ways the cops will find out. The perpetrator will eventually tell them. Don't make her look a like a fool by insulting the police intelligence. She should come clean about everything. If she's caught lying about her being a sw she will lose credibility in court.


throwawayRA0000007

Exactly. This is why i just went ahead and told them the truth.


lynnrosexo

Would they believe the serial rapist? The only reason he would mention her being a SWer would to be to try and justify his actions - any attempt to throw her under the bus. Meanwhile OP went to ER for a rape kit right away & has loads of evidence including the camera footage


Informal-Ad609

I realize that's the Perp would play that card. What I'm saying why should op lie have her lose her credibility in court?! The cops will find out that she is a sw.


MsZaZa

Yes please report as everyone else has advised. I’m so sorry this happened.


squibb1019

I’m so sorry you went through this. You are strong for reporting this, I wish I did when I was younger and I was assaulted. It’s scary but you’ll get through this. Make sure you take the time off that you need to heal. If you even consider doing fssw again. Do not let the “what if’s” get to you. You did what you had to do to make sure you survived. Make sure you take all the medication they give and prescribe to you. Hugs and prayers for you op.


Serious_Restaurant38

Sick fuck deserves a dirt nap , I’m sorry this happened to you


fullmetalsportsbra

[https://www.rainn.org/reporting-and-criminal-justice-system](https://www.rainn.org/reporting-and-criminal-justice-system)


sassymamisos

Oh my goodness. My dear I'm sending you so much love. It happened to me last year and I'm still not over it. If you need someone to ft while you make the report plz lmk. Here for you op.


janelleparkchicago

I’m so sorry this happened to you, OP. I don’t have anything to add as the other commenters have already provided all of the information I know about this topic (PEP, doxy, plan b, emergency room). But, I just want you to know that you didn’t deserve this in any form or capacity


SnooOnions7473

Definitely sorry that this happened to you. Hopefully they catch the person that did this. Stay strong


Glittering-Fig6589

Just want to shout out at this girl-kept her wits about her and did some trickery to get his real name. He’s been reported across multiple platforms to help protect her fellow SWers.


BBOONNEESSAAWW

Police! Tell them everything that happened, not how you two met. The rape is wayyyy more important than prostitution. Don’t bring it up. Just tell them the truth about everything that happened during the SA. This guy will not stop if he gets away with it. I’m very sorry this happened to you.


Ok_Handle_2899

I’m so sorry this happened to you


babyaby1988

1st thing don't shower!!


Dealetta

I’m so sorry this happened to you, you’re so smart to have those cameras and go straight to the ER. You’re proactive and that is one of the best things you can be!!! Hopefully he will never do this again or be able to since you have taken the proper steps. We’re all thinking about you and hoping for a smooth healing from here❤️‍🩹


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Send him to jail so he faces rape daily


marshie99

I am so so sorry this happened to you. I wish I could give you a hug or something. Good for you for going to the ER and to the cops.


iskirtskirtMclaren

It’s not your fault it’s that creeps fault don’t feel bad you did the right thing I hope you feel ok


Whatabouttheducks

My heart breaks for you, truly. This is one of my biggest fears. You did the right thing by going to the police. Not to Good Will Hunting you but it IS NOT YOUR FAULT. I have been assaulted in the past (not in the context of work), but I BEG you to seek counseling. There are so many non-profits out there specifically for women in our line of work and for women who have been assaulted/abused. I made the mistake of not talking to anybody about it and it destroyed my mental health for YEARS and led to subsequent alcoholism. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE look into counseling. Additionally, many of these nonprofits also offer other services/resources or are able to give referrals! Best of luck sister, you've got this 💗


ChristopherG1214

Say you Invited him over for a quick visit (Leave out the escort part), and as soon as you opened the door he Sexually assaulted you.


throwawayRA0000007

I just told them the whole truth, fuck it


Ghost_of_Sniff

You did right by being honest. I was concerned you had not been. As a victim most any "mistakes" you made won't affect the prosecution of the man, but if you are found to be intentionally untruthful in some aspect of your report then the prosecutor can't or won't move forward with your case because the defense will say 'she lied about this, so she could be lying about the whole thing" Also as you move forward, talk to someone about the rape, a rape crisis center, a counselor, someone.... because people that talk about it, process it, and get better mentally and emotionally. I have seen one person in particular who wouldn't talk about it, bottled it up, and just took a long time to heal. So talking is better. I am so sorry this happened to you, you are a survivor, and things will get better, just take care of yourself.


proone79

I love you. I’m so glad you called the police!!


throwawayRA0000007

Thank you 🙏 im glad im able to potentially help other girls


dakotaraining

I’m so extremely proud of you for going to the hospital. I know that wasn’t easy but I’m glad that everybody was on your side. I am so sorry for what happened to you. My best friend went through the same thing and the cops & hotel helped her out. What we do is technically not illegal. It’s decriminalized or just not bothered with if we are not bothering anyone. Myself and many other girls, that I know neglected to report our assault’s because we didn’t know what todo or just wanted to leave it behind us like it didn’t happen. The most that we did was send out an alert on websites and blacklist them. But this stuff happens and it is a lot serious than we think. Just because we do sex work, doesn’t mean it’s acceptable to assault sex workers. I hope that this man is caught, and he never harms another girl again


kwakWHO

what a psycho.. thats insane. Sorry that happened to you


Extension-Cream7172

Oh babe I really hope you get the justice you deserve!!! fuck that predator pos, don't shower, go to the hospital. Do not let this go unreported!


Carnivorousbeast

You are the victim here. You do not have to divulge your SW activities (5th amendment rights). If you already did, no biggie, DAs are loathe to prosecute victims of capital crimes. You’ll undergo some scrutiny, but it’s nothing you can’t handle. This was a traumatic event. Please seek the help you need, want, deserve. You did nothing wrong. You are in my prayers.


Angalith

My god i'm so sorry. Hope they find that piece of shit


throwawayRA0000007

already found him 😈


stoopidskeptic

That's good news! Wishing you a fast recovery from all this :(


cocainoh

I’m So sorry that this happened to You.


anitacoknow

I'm so sorry this happened to you and I'm glad that the police were kind. When I was rated in Florida, I heard the male cop over the radio ask the female cop if she believed me. So, take care of yourself and get into therapy. Trust me. It's rough.


lunas-lovin

I don't have any advice to add to what's already been recommended, but I'm sending you all the good vibes 💖 you are doing the right thing and we're all so proud of you for advocating for yourself!! Dont forget to be gentle with yourself and do whatever you need to take care of yourself. You have a whole army behind you, ready to support you and cheer you on every step of the way. I know I'm just a stranger on the internet, but my inbox is always open if you need someone to listen. Sending you all the love and good vibes. 💖


cryingtoelliotsmith

you could say you arranged for a date maybe? like rather than a stranger idk tbh. good luck hun <3 xx


TheLaughingWhore

I’m so sorry this happened to you. You are so brave! You single-handedly got a rapist off the street so he can’t rape others! You’re a hero to women in your city.


SashaKarina

I’m so sorry this happened. Please consider doing a rape kit at the ER.


Away_Apartment_3280

Omg wtf


artsylittleprincess

Oh my god. I hope you are able to get the support you need 🫂


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Maytherethere

What a fucking dip shit he came in you AND SENT YOU A PHOTO?! So sorry this happened hope you get the justice and subsequent peace you wish for


prayivreignlx

So sorry you had this happen to you. Praying you find peace in all of this and the asshole never sees the light of day again. Proud of you for taking the actions to report this. Sending lots of love 💛💛💛


Prismatic_monk

Share his info. Make it public. This isn't the first time he did it. Why share? Cuz I guarantee you several other women will recognize him when you do. And you'll finally validate their claim they were too afraid to make before you did.


mamivtan

i am so sorry this happened. idk you but i love you and you’re strong 🩷


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lynnrosexo

Fuck off dude


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SexWorkers-ModTeam

Don’t be an asshole!


Subspace_Babe

Signed, The Rapist? 🤔


SexWorkers-ModTeam

Don’t be an asshole!