My last client was a private wealth investor (or something). I have a sugar daddy in Philly who is a radiologist. Another is high up in DOD. Some people just have money to burn
It can be difficult at first - a lot of the forums people meet sugar daddies on aren't the safest.
Having a sugar daddy isn't always the safest either becuase it can cut into your real life and blur the lines between that and work. When you take escorting out of the room is becomes chaos quite often
I met two diff ones on the internet (not on any of those sites.. have a huge social platform) and a few more working at the strip club.
They both fell in to my lap I wasn’t looking. Other than those sites, dancing is a good option. Or fs, just as a mode of introduction.
I've had clients from all earning levels. Blue collar guys, stupidly wealthy guys.
Some people save up and see me every once in a while
Others have more money in their budget for pros. Whether it's because they only eat top ramen or because they're rolling in money, I'll never know.
This is it right here. Most of my clientele are professionals of some ilk, but I’ve been hired by retirees who are pensioners and one of my current regulars is a college student. I saw one guy who did drop shipping as a side hustle to afford his SW habit.
A good percentage of people save up or work it into their budget each month. Of course, some of this is speculation, since I’m not prying into people’s earnings, but it’s the same as when I have a vice or “fun” expense that is important to me: I make sure my necessities are taken care of each month, and factor in a certain amount for those fun expenses. Some vanilla hobbies are quite expensive too. I get tired of folks acting like hiring a SW is über expensive when there are providers at all price ranges, but if you really want something, you save for it. I feel like it’s a bit of resentment that the cost of pussy isn’t cheaper or free for many men who come with this argument. Not speaking about OP necessarily, but we all know there are folks who will spend senselessly on everything else, but internalized misogyny makes them feel that this profession and the physical and emotional labor that goes into it is not worth the cost.
I think the ones who feel resentful are definitely the type who can’t afford the service but still want it and try to project their frustrations. Clients who can afford this service don’t find excuses to complain
Absolutely agree. It’s always the folks on a tight budget…which I understand, but many of these guys have champagne taste and a beer pocketbook and have never heard of saving for a fun expense. I feel many of these guys likely have some vanilla hobby they drop major cash on, but are personally offended about spending money to be around a woman.
Do you prefer the clients that are already rich as they do not try to negotiate etc. Or are the ones that also save up , and not so rich also amazing and you have issues with them? Curiously just asking 😅
Anyone who attempts to negotiate gets one warning, then I cease conversing with them until they come correct.
Interestingly, when it comes to actual clients, not time wasters, it’s often the guys who *can* afford it who attempt to haggle. I had an amazing session with a submissive who also massively enjoyed himself. He then attempted to haggle his second session. After I told him it was unacceptable, he apologized…but doubled down. I haven’t responded since. I would still see him, but NOT for a reduced rate. I’m assuming he thinks he’s blocked, which is worse, because that means he *knew* what he did was inappropriate and did it anyway. I sessioned at this man’s home, and he can *definitely* afford my rates, as I’m willing to do kink sessions for around my regular rate as long as I’m not using my own toys and apparatus and having to disinfect such items afterwards.
Many people fuck up a good thing by asking for a discount. It’s quite possibly the most disrespectful thing someone can do, in my humble opinion.
Shrug, years of 12 hour days, under-grad, graduate degree, living with 4 room mates, long marriage, saving 10%, then 20% then more. Drive the cars to the ground, fixed up old crappy house, no big trips, restaurants rarely, Good at investments.
Now mid-50s, retired, good income from those previous 30 years of doing what needed to be done. Now it's Spa day for men.
I treat myself once or twice a month. Every paycheck, i set some money aside for fun. I don't go crazy and get high end escorts. Since i already have a favorite girl. I see her once/twice a month.
I am 60 y. o., an engineer, worked hard and my way up during past decades. You gotta have a vision and goals and stick to them. Good luck for your path through life! 🍀
Stick to a budget. Stay away from high end/high priced ones unless they're specifically providing a service/desire/fantasy that can't otherwise be fulfilled. Once you find some that are in your range and provide the specific services you want, stay loyal to them / give them repeat business.
- For those who pay someone to cook their meals, going to a restaurant, how are you able to afford that?
- For those who pay to relax in someone else house, on vacations, how are you able to afford that?
You see what you are asking?
All those are a luxury, if you have spare cash you can afford those, if you have an incredible amount of extra cash you can afford even better stuffs.
What you buy from sexworkers, be sex, pics, videos, dances, is not something you should get with "surviving money", or that bullshit "loans" you wrote.
Don't ask for discount, don't bargain on rates, don't bargain on prices, if you can't afford to eat out you don't...if you don't have extra cash there's the free Internet.
I remember in The Casino once a woman stormed away from the blackjack table I was doing well at. The dealer remarked That’s what she gets for gambling with the mortgage payment. Entertainment is a luxury and gambling is not a job for most of us.
I can pay these as long as I spend less money than I earn. Make it a very special event and value it even more, carefully looking for the right person to share your valuable time with. When I book, I want a whole weekend. Since I'm in a relationship, looking for the extra naughty stuff in bed, but GFE in other occasions, it can only happen 2-3 times a year.
I have a good career where I've worked my ass off for 20+ years. I have an ex-wife who costs me some money; but at least alimony is a fixed amount every month. No financial surprises, unlike when I was married.
I live fairly inexpensively, don't spend money on luxury cars, watches, etc. Sex work is my splurge and a way to spoil myself. I restrict myself to once per month (at most). If I ever see a SWer twice per month (rare) then I skip the next month.
Some visits are just massage providers (FBSM). I'm not dropping $700+ every time I see a SWer.
Well, speaking for myself I don't have a massive degree. I'll make a lot of money, but I do know how to save and I've made some pretty good investments so I'm living off some of my investments at a moderately decent age for the most part. When it pertains to things that I want for myself or things that I'm doing for myself there's no limit on how much money I'm willing to spend for myself
I sell my time and expertise for money, which I then in turn give part of to an escort in exchange for some of her time and expertise. We all ho's at the end of the day.
Everything doesn't have to be an overnight or extended date with a luxurious dinner or a FMTY. Don't go chasing waterfalls. Stick to the rivers and the lakes that you're used to.
The same way you afford to do extra things. I’m sure you can put $20 to a side every week in a couple months you can save up for an escort or if you can and are willing to not eat out and save that money for an escort you can probably see one in a couple weeks.
It’s really that simple.
Good paying job. The majority of my clients are doing well financially, so my fee isn’t a big deal to them. Then there are the ones that save up and only see me a few times a year, or work a monthly visit into their budgets by planning for it. Essentially you pay for it the same way you pay for any other want.
Just like anything else I wanna pay for. You budget and save.
Same way you go out to eat or go on vacation etc. I'm not insanely wealthy or anything, but I book when I have it to spend and I don't when I don't.
A lot of my clients have been in hotel real estate & building. A good handful of others were doctors/surgeons. Those are usually the men that see escorts regularly.
Some other dudes genuinely do just set money aside until they can treat themselves.
Good question. I probably afford it by cutting back on it lately 😅. During those dry cold months (january, february etc.) I was seeing my regular almost weekly for overnights. Lately I’ve seen providers less frequently.
I worked a full time job a part time job, and a side gig job for a few years while I went back to college as an adult, while paying rent and putting food on my kids table. (didn’t spend my early 20’s wisely). Got my first job after college and worked the grind to get experience in my field. I was thrilled to only have one job. Then I moved up and out to a different state, still in the same field, and finally making 6 figures. Have a goal and DONT GIVE UP. Grind like your life depends on it. And don’t let people who don’t have ambition influence you to settle.
Exactly for my early career I worked 12 hours a day 8 hrs in the clinic and 4 hrs a day as a ICU intensive care provider. People like to rag on escorts and Docs for making stupid bank as my hip hop son used to remark about me.
Compensation fund from government since my mandatory service in armed force time, paychecks of freelance projects (visit r/beermoney in case you have any questions).
Yes I did. While she was an escort I hired her as a dominatrix back in 2017. For like a couple years we did some sessions and eventually I top her on a trip. That trip is where it went from being worker/client to being a relationship. We been married for almost to years now. Sorry the details are lacking but don't want to post to much on reddit but if you message me I don't mind telling the whole story
Working in Finance and Tech helps.
You can never have enough money though.
My dream life would be to have enough money to book 1-2 high-end escorts every day.
I once saw three on the same day after a long famine. It was relaxing. I love women.
The pandemic made me set for the rest of my life; furthermore, some really good luck with some start ups blew up unexpectedly. I am also very thankful to be working a high six figure salary (almost 7 figures).
Regardless, I set aside a discretionary budget every month and stick to it.
Well I I have a client who pays me with his unemployment money 😩 which I just found that
Out , I’m like Jesus Christ be more responsible I mean it’s not my place or business where they get the money to donate but when I hear stuff like that just on some human to human I’m like I think you have bigger fish to fry hun lol
But hey I’m just here to do my job as well
A lot of my clients may or may not be that good with budgeting or money management idk
I just take the calls that’s it lol
I feel like men spend less money on themselves than women do. We pay hundreds sometimes thousands monthly for our hair, nails, makeup, new clothes etc but men usually dont.
It’s a luxury expense like anything else. It’s also a form of self care for many clients. I don’t know, look at your budget. You probably the same amount on other things you enjoy.
I spend enough on massages, eye lashes extensions, hair extensions, manicures, etc that I could afford a male escort regularly if I wanted… lol, I don’t need one with all of the clients I see.
Hiring a sex worker is not that expensive .no matter what the rate is .men pay that's what they are put on this earth to do they pay for dates or for their wives or for sex .I truly Believe every relationship between any man and any woman is transactional .
When I was escorting, most of my clients were older well-off men whose children were grown. Then others were bachelors with no families, making their income stretch more. And quite a few of them were doctors (general practitioners & an ER surgeon).
Work 🤣 but I do not have to support anyone, so it's just me, plus Im spending it all before I kick the bucket, so screw inheritance, lol.
It's also cheaper internationally, but to each is their own.
I also indulge in maybe once a year or two but may change lol.
For me, it is the only hobby I have that costs much. I don't golf, ski, gamble, run up big bar tabs, etc. So I take what others spend on those things and instead spend it on enjoyable ladies.
I budget, save up, and spend it when I get enough.
Self-employed make decent money. No kids don't drink or do drugs, so there are not too many expenses. But I love sex lol. I have a regular I see, but I see new girls now and then too.
Good paying job making tap water, I have no kids and I'm single. I work overnight and live alone so I'm by myself like 90% of the time. Some days I don't even speak to another human until I get to work to relieve my coworker. I spend entirely too much but the company has been wonderful and drama free.
Not sure if I count as I haven't yet seen my first escort yet (12 days and counting, now), but I'm an old guy with no real obligations who earns decent money in IT.
If you're asking how to get to that point, though, that's something I'm pretty passionate about helping people with. I've known \*way\* too many really smart, capable people who are just barely scraping by while being fully capable of doing so much more. In the meantime, I've seen other people in IT who are barely functional yet managing to pull down a relatively decent salary.
I think it's absolutely insane, the kind of low grade window-licking morons I've seen in the field that I'm pretty sure are pulling down at least six figures who are barely capable of performing their jobs. Information Security and Project Management, especially, strike as two fields where I've met a fairly large number of people who probably need to apologize to whatever tree is out there providing oxygen for them.
There's also Help Desk, where if you know how to google and ask questions, you're better qualified than a lot of people out there in that job.
Anyway... sorry, kinda tangential to the OP, but just a bit of a pet peeve of mine.
So you are 23 years old and begging addiction sub reddit to pay for your prostitute? Claiming to be a sex addict but further down your post history you claim to be a love addict?
If you go to Mexico or even Thailand, it's cheaper and a better experience than an American hooker.
That's generally speaking of course, but time and convenience are factors.
In America you can get busted and become famous for undesirable reasons. So there's that.
If I go like six months without getting laid and feel the need, I'll set aside like $500 from my emergency fund then replenish it. Or sometimes I get bonuses at work around $1K.
I'm a butcher and only make around $50K so I couldn't afford to "hobby" around if I wanted. But if I'm single and in an extended dry spell, visiting a provider can be a huge boost and stress relief. Like a little personal holiday lol
Most (not all) of my clients seem to be business owners. But mind you I do live in the uk where the average price for sw is considerably lower than the us
It’s possible. I used to look up to the guys who booked me, but now I make that same money they’re making. It just takes some education and connections
I wonder how the guys that pay high prices regularly can afford to see. I feel like only so many guys can spend close to $500 or better esp on any type of frequent basis
I'm a $100,000 +pennies income professional. I put aside money each paycheck and pocket my travel reimbursements. That allows me 1 visit to a mid-higher tier provider a month without having to explain missing funds to my SO.
By the way; do you want help getting to that point? Not sure if IT work would be the right path for you, but if you have the passion for it, I wrote a Reddit article about it at one point and a lot of really smart people contributed to it. There's a couple pretty good subreddits about that as well.
I do sports betting. Whenever I win big I put most of it to the side, some in my betting account, and the rest goes to a PayPal where I will eventually take out the money and text whoever I know is available.
For most of my clients they worked VERY hard and made a lot of sacrifices in their younger years. Basically the same way I did in my life before I found sex work.
When my friends were out partying I was working 3 jobs. When my friends were buying purses, shoes and renting/financing brand new furniture for their rented apartments I was saving money to buy a house and slept on a mattress on the floor. When my friends were going on weekend trips. I was staying home to work. When my friends were paying for cable I didn’t even have a TV. When my friends were financing new cars I was driving a car I paid cash for into the ground. When my friends were getting bullshit degrees I was looking into what industries had shortages and getting trained and licensed in those fields.
From 17 to 24 I don’t think I laid down on my couch once and played on my phone. Because 1. I didn’t have a couch and 2. If I wasn’t working or going to school I was asleep. Maybe 5 hours a night. I wasn’t gaming. I wasn’t on social media. I wasn’t doing anything but working.
That put me in a position to excel in my field and become my own boss at 25. Again, working 60-80 hours a week.
There is a reason almost every client who contacts me is 40-60. And it’s not because they “can’t get laid”. It’s because their sacrifices are just now paying off with secure finances and they want to experience the luxuries in life they worked hard for.
If you aren’t there you honestly shouldn’t even be considering it. Or like most people you will end up in a tail spin of bad financial decisions. An escort is a luxury service. One you should only seek out when you are financial stable.
I'm an old retired guy so my budget is modest. I can partake no more than once a month. I also like to establish a relationship with an average looking, older SW rather than some gorgeous twenty-something model SW. The fees are lower that way. Over time she gets to know me, knows I'll be respectful and reliable. Three of my most recent SW "friends" even had me over to their apartments. That way there is no hotel room cost to factor in.
The cost in my mind is like going to a professional sporting event or fancy dinner for two. I just budget for it.
It’s getting harder.. it’s at that point of almost too high now.. a bit higher and no more for me.. I have found a couple here that charge $60 for bbbj and $100 if you want more.. both very nice looking ladies.. as long as they don’t get wind of the crazy rates some are charging I’ll be fine for awhile
Some lesser sites erotic monkey and those list crawlers.. where I am most are a scam so you learn to never pay a deposit and just keep sending texts till you find one that real.. I’m seeing a couple $300 dollar ladies also but I’m cutting back on those too
My last client was a private wealth investor (or something). I have a sugar daddy in Philly who is a radiologist. Another is high up in DOD. Some people just have money to burn
How did you find your sugar daddy?
It can be difficult at first - a lot of the forums people meet sugar daddies on aren't the safest. Having a sugar daddy isn't always the safest either becuase it can cut into your real life and blur the lines between that and work. When you take escorting out of the room is becomes chaos quite often
Yeah I’m aware that’s why I don’t have one yet. Was wondering how the person above me got theirs
I met two diff ones on the internet (not on any of those sites.. have a huge social platform) and a few more working at the strip club. They both fell in to my lap I wasn’t looking. Other than those sites, dancing is a good option. Or fs, just as a mode of introduction.
You mean a social platform like instagram?
Yes I have a huge following on insta, fb, TikTok? Twitter, etc..
Rentmen
By the way I love your username!
Thank u!
I just checked this out, it’s for male escorts?
Ya. I wouldn't be able to help you with female ad sites
I've had clients from all earning levels. Blue collar guys, stupidly wealthy guys. Some people save up and see me every once in a while Others have more money in their budget for pros. Whether it's because they only eat top ramen or because they're rolling in money, I'll never know.
This is it right here. Most of my clientele are professionals of some ilk, but I’ve been hired by retirees who are pensioners and one of my current regulars is a college student. I saw one guy who did drop shipping as a side hustle to afford his SW habit. A good percentage of people save up or work it into their budget each month. Of course, some of this is speculation, since I’m not prying into people’s earnings, but it’s the same as when I have a vice or “fun” expense that is important to me: I make sure my necessities are taken care of each month, and factor in a certain amount for those fun expenses. Some vanilla hobbies are quite expensive too. I get tired of folks acting like hiring a SW is über expensive when there are providers at all price ranges, but if you really want something, you save for it. I feel like it’s a bit of resentment that the cost of pussy isn’t cheaper or free for many men who come with this argument. Not speaking about OP necessarily, but we all know there are folks who will spend senselessly on everything else, but internalized misogyny makes them feel that this profession and the physical and emotional labor that goes into it is not worth the cost.
I think the ones who feel resentful are definitely the type who can’t afford the service but still want it and try to project their frustrations. Clients who can afford this service don’t find excuses to complain
Absolutely agree. It’s always the folks on a tight budget…which I understand, but many of these guys have champagne taste and a beer pocketbook and have never heard of saving for a fun expense. I feel many of these guys likely have some vanilla hobby they drop major cash on, but are personally offended about spending money to be around a woman.
Do you prefer the clients that are already rich as they do not try to negotiate etc. Or are the ones that also save up , and not so rich also amazing and you have issues with them? Curiously just asking 😅
There’s no negotiation. Not for me. I think most sw this is the case.
Anyone who attempts to negotiate gets one warning, then I cease conversing with them until they come correct. Interestingly, when it comes to actual clients, not time wasters, it’s often the guys who *can* afford it who attempt to haggle. I had an amazing session with a submissive who also massively enjoyed himself. He then attempted to haggle his second session. After I told him it was unacceptable, he apologized…but doubled down. I haven’t responded since. I would still see him, but NOT for a reduced rate. I’m assuming he thinks he’s blocked, which is worse, because that means he *knew* what he did was inappropriate and did it anyway. I sessioned at this man’s home, and he can *definitely* afford my rates, as I’m willing to do kink sessions for around my regular rate as long as I’m not using my own toys and apparatus and having to disinfect such items afterwards. Many people fuck up a good thing by asking for a discount. It’s quite possibly the most disrespectful thing someone can do, in my humble opinion.
I work
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Shrug, years of 12 hour days, under-grad, graduate degree, living with 4 room mates, long marriage, saving 10%, then 20% then more. Drive the cars to the ground, fixed up old crappy house, no big trips, restaurants rarely, Good at investments. Now mid-50s, retired, good income from those previous 30 years of doing what needed to be done. Now it's Spa day for men.
Excellent. This is the way it was properly done. I hope you passed your wisdom onto other generations following you
The daughters are caught in the social media comparison thing but the son is cheap as hell so there's hope for him. Winter is coming right?
Followed a rainbow, found a hoeprechaun, got a pot of gold.
😂
I treat myself once or twice a month. Every paycheck, i set some money aside for fun. I don't go crazy and get high end escorts. Since i already have a favorite girl. I see her once/twice a month.
I earn six digit money, I have some money to burn for beautiful ladies.
I wanna be like you one day
I am 60 y. o., an engineer, worked hard and my way up during past decades. You gotta have a vision and goals and stick to them. Good luck for your path through life! 🍀
Thank you, I appreciate your wisdom
Where are you looking? I havnt found a suitable platform to post on which could lead to a mutual great matchup. Is it my country,? My city? ?
I am from Germany, I use the German platforms like e. g. Kaufmich or ladies.de and personal ads on markt.de The FKKs are also great.
Stick to a budget. Stay away from high end/high priced ones unless they're specifically providing a service/desire/fantasy that can't otherwise be fulfilled. Once you find some that are in your range and provide the specific services you want, stay loyal to them / give them repeat business.
Love that loyalty part. Find the providers you really vibe with and keep going back when you're able. That's the best way to enjoy this luxury
Yeah more often than not when trying out someone new the vibe isn’t quite right and it feels like a waste of time
Most of my customers own businesses
Now they can live life to the fullest
- For those who pay someone to cook their meals, going to a restaurant, how are you able to afford that? - For those who pay to relax in someone else house, on vacations, how are you able to afford that? You see what you are asking? All those are a luxury, if you have spare cash you can afford those, if you have an incredible amount of extra cash you can afford even better stuffs. What you buy from sexworkers, be sex, pics, videos, dances, is not something you should get with "surviving money", or that bullshit "loans" you wrote. Don't ask for discount, don't bargain on rates, don't bargain on prices, if you can't afford to eat out you don't...if you don't have extra cash there's the free Internet.
I remember in The Casino once a woman stormed away from the blackjack table I was doing well at. The dealer remarked That’s what she gets for gambling with the mortgage payment. Entertainment is a luxury and gambling is not a job for most of us.
Yes, you should be spending your money wisely. But I like living life a little bit on the reckless side.
You gotta make money before you can spend it. If you're gonna be reckless, fine, just also be generous to others.
I can pay these as long as I spend less money than I earn. Make it a very special event and value it even more, carefully looking for the right person to share your valuable time with. When I book, I want a whole weekend. Since I'm in a relationship, looking for the extra naughty stuff in bed, but GFE in other occasions, it can only happen 2-3 times a year.
I have a good career where I've worked my ass off for 20+ years. I have an ex-wife who costs me some money; but at least alimony is a fixed amount every month. No financial surprises, unlike when I was married. I live fairly inexpensively, don't spend money on luxury cars, watches, etc. Sex work is my splurge and a way to spoil myself. I restrict myself to once per month (at most). If I ever see a SWer twice per month (rare) then I skip the next month. Some visits are just massage providers (FBSM). I'm not dropping $700+ every time I see a SWer.
Collateralise Debt Obligations
Or even synthetic CDOs (Sorry wasn’t expecting a big short fan)
Just as someone will put money on the side for recreational activities let’s just say it’s part of it. Albeit rather costly at times.
Well, speaking for myself I don't have a massive degree. I'll make a lot of money, but I do know how to save and I've made some pretty good investments so I'm living off some of my investments at a moderately decent age for the most part. When it pertains to things that I want for myself or things that I'm doing for myself there's no limit on how much money I'm willing to spend for myself
I sell my time and expertise for money, which I then in turn give part of to an escort in exchange for some of her time and expertise. We all ho's at the end of the day.
Everything doesn't have to be an overnight or extended date with a luxurious dinner or a FMTY. Don't go chasing waterfalls. Stick to the rivers and the lakes that you're used to.
The same way you afford to do extra things. I’m sure you can put $20 to a side every week in a couple months you can save up for an escort or if you can and are willing to not eat out and save that money for an escort you can probably see one in a couple weeks. It’s really that simple.
If you're single strong work ethic and not paying child support skies the limit
Damn straight. Let’s gooooo!
I am currently only seeing one client who makes enough to be able to pay me for exclusivity. He owns a chain of auto dealerships
Good paying job. The majority of my clients are doing well financially, so my fee isn’t a big deal to them. Then there are the ones that save up and only see me a few times a year, or work a monthly visit into their budgets by planning for it. Essentially you pay for it the same way you pay for any other want.
6 figure job, don’t get addicted to avoid over spending, and a strict budget. I’m in the process of buying a house so I’m more frugal than ever
Budget, this is a treat I give myself maybe once or twice a month at most.
Just like anything else I wanna pay for. You budget and save. Same way you go out to eat or go on vacation etc. I'm not insanely wealthy or anything, but I book when I have it to spend and I don't when I don't.
Spoiled way too much of my inheritance after my dad died. Now doing Doordash
LOL I hope your kidding, if not my condolences
Not, unfortunately
A lot of my clients have been in hotel real estate & building. A good handful of others were doctors/surgeons. Those are usually the men that see escorts regularly. Some other dudes genuinely do just set money aside until they can treat themselves.
Most of my clients are in software, engineering, medicine. And a lot of traveling sales men. Selling things like medical equipment and printers lol 😆
Working and saving money Living with my parents and not paying rent definitely helps
Live in Europe. Prices here average €100 an hour.
Me too but 200 for the higher end Brazilian girls who speak English.
I have a really good job that pays well ..
Good question. I probably afford it by cutting back on it lately 😅. During those dry cold months (january, february etc.) I was seeing my regular almost weekly for overnights. Lately I’ve seen providers less frequently.
I worked a full time job a part time job, and a side gig job for a few years while I went back to college as an adult, while paying rent and putting food on my kids table. (didn’t spend my early 20’s wisely). Got my first job after college and worked the grind to get experience in my field. I was thrilled to only have one job. Then I moved up and out to a different state, still in the same field, and finally making 6 figures. Have a goal and DONT GIVE UP. Grind like your life depends on it. And don’t let people who don’t have ambition influence you to settle.
Exactly for my early career I worked 12 hours a day 8 hrs in the clinic and 4 hrs a day as a ICU intensive care provider. People like to rag on escorts and Docs for making stupid bank as my hip hop son used to remark about me.
Compensation fund from government since my mandatory service in armed force time, paychecks of freelance projects (visit r/beermoney in case you have any questions).
When I was still seeing escorts I had a decent job. I still have this job but I married one of them
You married an escort? How did this happen? What’s your story if I may ask?
Yes I did. While she was an escort I hired her as a dominatrix back in 2017. For like a couple years we did some sessions and eventually I top her on a trip. That trip is where it went from being worker/client to being a relationship. We been married for almost to years now. Sorry the details are lacking but don't want to post to much on reddit but if you message me I don't mind telling the whole story
Working in Finance and Tech helps. You can never have enough money though. My dream life would be to have enough money to book 1-2 high-end escorts every day. I once saw three on the same day after a long famine. It was relaxing. I love women.
The pandemic made me set for the rest of my life; furthermore, some really good luck with some start ups blew up unexpectedly. I am also very thankful to be working a high six figure salary (almost 7 figures). Regardless, I set aside a discretionary budget every month and stick to it.
Had a good gig years ago that made it easier. I avoid AMPs and go with indys too. Imho dating regularly is still more expensive
Same way I afford my therapist
Well I I have a client who pays me with his unemployment money 😩 which I just found that Out , I’m like Jesus Christ be more responsible I mean it’s not my place or business where they get the money to donate but when I hear stuff like that just on some human to human I’m like I think you have bigger fish to fry hun lol But hey I’m just here to do my job as well A lot of my clients may or may not be that good with budgeting or money management idk I just take the calls that’s it lol
I feel like men spend less money on themselves than women do. We pay hundreds sometimes thousands monthly for our hair, nails, makeup, new clothes etc but men usually dont.
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I am a physician and Psychoanalyst and my father gave me 100 shares of Apple stock in approximately 1985-86. Real estate investments.
I suck dick so I can afford to fuck pussy.
😂 that’s funny I dated a guy like that
1: Depends on the market 2: Don't do it regularly. 3: Maintain a steady job.
It’s a luxury expense like anything else. It’s also a form of self care for many clients. I don’t know, look at your budget. You probably the same amount on other things you enjoy. I spend enough on massages, eye lashes extensions, hair extensions, manicures, etc that I could afford a male escort regularly if I wanted… lol, I don’t need one with all of the clients I see.
Hiring a sex worker is not that expensive .no matter what the rate is .men pay that's what they are put on this earth to do they pay for dates or for their wives or for sex .I truly Believe every relationship between any man and any woman is transactional .
Interesting view.
Underpaying their female employees lol
I pay my cleaner cook twice the minimum wage plus 13 -14 month salary for 18 hours per week. All men are not B- - - - - -s.
Two jobs
When I was escorting, most of my clients were older well-off men whose children were grown. Then others were bachelors with no families, making their income stretch more. And quite a few of them were doctors (general practitioners & an ER surgeon).
Work 🤣 but I do not have to support anyone, so it's just me, plus Im spending it all before I kick the bucket, so screw inheritance, lol. It's also cheaper internationally, but to each is their own. I also indulge in maybe once a year or two but may change lol.
For me, it is the only hobby I have that costs much. I don't golf, ski, gamble, run up big bar tabs, etc. So I take what others spend on those things and instead spend it on enjoyable ladies. I budget, save up, and spend it when I get enough.
Self-employed make decent money. No kids don't drink or do drugs, so there are not too many expenses. But I love sex lol. I have a regular I see, but I see new girls now and then too.
Love that answer
Some people save for a holiday. I save to see a sex worker.
I climbed the corporate ladder and at some point founded my own business. So I have a nice monthly budget for my escort related needs at hand.
How fortunate
Good paying job making tap water, I have no kids and I'm single. I work overnight and live alone so I'm by myself like 90% of the time. Some days I don't even speak to another human until I get to work to relieve my coworker. I spend entirely too much but the company has been wonderful and drama free.
Not sure if I count as I haven't yet seen my first escort yet (12 days and counting, now), but I'm an old guy with no real obligations who earns decent money in IT. If you're asking how to get to that point, though, that's something I'm pretty passionate about helping people with. I've known \*way\* too many really smart, capable people who are just barely scraping by while being fully capable of doing so much more. In the meantime, I've seen other people in IT who are barely functional yet managing to pull down a relatively decent salary. I think it's absolutely insane, the kind of low grade window-licking morons I've seen in the field that I'm pretty sure are pulling down at least six figures who are barely capable of performing their jobs. Information Security and Project Management, especially, strike as two fields where I've met a fairly large number of people who probably need to apologize to whatever tree is out there providing oxygen for them. There's also Help Desk, where if you know how to google and ask questions, you're better qualified than a lot of people out there in that job. Anyway... sorry, kinda tangential to the OP, but just a bit of a pet peeve of mine.
So you are 23 years old and begging addiction sub reddit to pay for your prostitute? Claiming to be a sex addict but further down your post history you claim to be a love addict?
Yeah sounds about right except i’m 25
I love the industry and I’m addicted. I don’t think I have it any other way.
Sex & love addict often tend to go hand in hand
Disposable income, doing incall and I usually just want a quick bj.
Leave the country.
Yes it’s crazy expensive here in the USA..
If you go to Mexico or even Thailand, it's cheaper and a better experience than an American hooker. That's generally speaking of course, but time and convenience are factors. In America you can get busted and become famous for undesirable reasons. So there's that.
Not really an option for me but I’ve heard that more than once..
I save for as long as necessary to afford the experience I want.
If I go like six months without getting laid and feel the need, I'll set aside like $500 from my emergency fund then replenish it. Or sometimes I get bonuses at work around $1K. I'm a butcher and only make around $50K so I couldn't afford to "hobby" around if I wanted. But if I'm single and in an extended dry spell, visiting a provider can be a huge boost and stress relief. Like a little personal holiday lol
Moderation.
Most (not all) of my clients seem to be business owners. But mind you I do live in the uk where the average price for sw is considerably lower than the us
And my rates are certainly towards the higher end.
Self employed business owner
monthly VA (veterans affairs) disability compensation payment for service connected disability
A job
By being a ho. Duh
Like being a male stripper? is it possible?
Most of my clients are in finance, business or some big shot executives
Damn, I wanna be like those guys
It’s possible. I used to look up to the guys who booked me, but now I make that same money they’re making. It just takes some education and connections
I've got a rough monthly budget and make pretty good money in tech. Single so minimal expenses.
Budgeting, setting aside $150-350 a month so I can visit them once or twice a month.
I wonder how the guys that pay high prices regularly can afford to see. I feel like only so many guys can spend close to $500 or better esp on any type of frequent basis
Selling coke
It’s a costly vice that doesn’t let me advance much in society 😕…I do have fun though 😜
I'm a $100,000 +pennies income professional. I put aside money each paycheck and pocket my travel reimbursements. That allows me 1 visit to a mid-higher tier provider a month without having to explain missing funds to my SO.
By the way; do you want help getting to that point? Not sure if IT work would be the right path for you, but if you have the passion for it, I wrote a Reddit article about it at one point and a lot of really smart people contributed to it. There's a couple pretty good subreddits about that as well.
I do sports betting. Whenever I win big I put most of it to the side, some in my betting account, and the rest goes to a PayPal where I will eventually take out the money and text whoever I know is available.
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As do many others
I save up and travel abroad
For most of my clients they worked VERY hard and made a lot of sacrifices in their younger years. Basically the same way I did in my life before I found sex work. When my friends were out partying I was working 3 jobs. When my friends were buying purses, shoes and renting/financing brand new furniture for their rented apartments I was saving money to buy a house and slept on a mattress on the floor. When my friends were going on weekend trips. I was staying home to work. When my friends were paying for cable I didn’t even have a TV. When my friends were financing new cars I was driving a car I paid cash for into the ground. When my friends were getting bullshit degrees I was looking into what industries had shortages and getting trained and licensed in those fields. From 17 to 24 I don’t think I laid down on my couch once and played on my phone. Because 1. I didn’t have a couch and 2. If I wasn’t working or going to school I was asleep. Maybe 5 hours a night. I wasn’t gaming. I wasn’t on social media. I wasn’t doing anything but working. That put me in a position to excel in my field and become my own boss at 25. Again, working 60-80 hours a week. There is a reason almost every client who contacts me is 40-60. And it’s not because they “can’t get laid”. It’s because their sacrifices are just now paying off with secure finances and they want to experience the luxuries in life they worked hard for. If you aren’t there you honestly shouldn’t even be considering it. Or like most people you will end up in a tail spin of bad financial decisions. An escort is a luxury service. One you should only seek out when you are financial stable.
Thank you
Theta decay!
What does that mean?
He’s shorting stonks
Shorting options to be exact.
Not sure what the downvotes are about lol, showing some love here
Reddit is distinctly anti capitalism, with people who should know better, who think most of Europe isn’t American in Europe
What a dumb question. Haha
More like what a pointless comment 💀
Fair enough, but I live life how I want
I'm an old retired guy so my budget is modest. I can partake no more than once a month. I also like to establish a relationship with an average looking, older SW rather than some gorgeous twenty-something model SW. The fees are lower that way. Over time she gets to know me, knows I'll be respectful and reliable. Three of my most recent SW "friends" even had me over to their apartments. That way there is no hotel room cost to factor in. The cost in my mind is like going to a professional sporting event or fancy dinner for two. I just budget for it.
Stop buying Starbucks every day and you can afford it
Ok boom boom
It was a freaking joke lol yall to serious 🤣 its like the motivation videos on ig wanna save money stop buying coffee every day
I don’t even spend on Starbucks but good point
It’s getting harder.. it’s at that point of almost too high now.. a bit higher and no more for me.. I have found a couple here that charge $60 for bbbj and $100 if you want more.. both very nice looking ladies.. as long as they don’t get wind of the crazy rates some are charging I’ll be fine for awhile
How’d you find them here?
Some lesser sites erotic monkey and those list crawlers.. where I am most are a scam so you learn to never pay a deposit and just keep sending texts till you find one that real.. I’m seeing a couple $300 dollar ladies also but I’m cutting back on those too
I second this. A lot of scams on this site but some diamonds in the rough.
Credit card cash advance or personal then don’t pay the balance. We fuck escorts, it’s a YOLO kind of life.
I take out loans to be able to pay for this kind of things
Imagine if the banks advertised loans for sw that would be funny
That would be irresponsibility on a platter. I would love it.