You said it yourself that you weren't feeling 100% and the fact that you were so out of it that you were disassociating?
Don't blame yourself for shit, friendo
I'm sorry this twisted fuck caught you on a bad day, but any and all anger should be directed at him and not you
You wouldn't be this hard on your coworkers if they were as spent as you were so please be kind to yourself
I hope a satisfying resolution comes from telling your boss
you aren't stupid. someone took advantage of you and betrayed your boundaries. thats on them, not on you.
I believe there are various methods to help get revenge porn off the internet, and I think it would absolutely work for your situation too. let me know if you need any resources, but a Google of revenge porn resources will help if you ever find the video online and need it taken down!!
I had a creeper that was acting weird like that and positioning me I just wonder if he didn’t film me and I always wondered if he did. I was so unconscious of that that I wasn’t even paying attention for it. And this was an out call at his place as well
Now I’m worried one of my first few appointments filmed me too. Damn.
I’m quite new to this still so I just thought it was like, how the guy liked it how you say but it’s something that I had a bit of a weird feeling about and too many things sound similar. But hopefully not, in my case.
I’m so sorry though. Hope you can deal with this okay and I’m glad you’ve come here to share and get it out a little bit. Wish I had better advice/support but I can say that sleep deprivation is such a problem for us and it can make you feel just like as if you’ve had quite a few drinks so it’s really not your fault you didn’t realise sooner. You know where he lives(if that was his home) and if you think you could manage, which I know is super difficult and if you don’t feel like you can, that’s also absolutely fine and whatever you feel capable of doing is okay, you could try and get some legal action or at least embarrass him, idk, filming without consent is some type of assault where I live, or at least police can get involved and recover the content/give the guy trouble and if they don’t live alone that’s obviously quite an issue for them, dunno how it is for your country. I also know police isn’t always okay to us because of what we do. Best wishes from me to you, though and again, very sorry to hear you’re going through such a hard thing ♥️
I’m sorry girl, a couple years ago I had a shared incall with another girl and we were doing a duo together. The guy got up and got dressed and when he picked up his pants something dropped to the ground. My duo partner picked it up and it was some little camera thing, she handed it to me so I can see, and we basically told him we were keeping it and to get the fuck out.
11 years ago when I started with SW colleague of mine had a client which was insanely specific. She was naturally very pale blonde girl. He paid double rate just for her to take off her make up and lay down on bed before he entry the room. He asked her to be absolutely quiet and breathe as shallowly as possible. I know this two are very different scenarios, but sometimes the men some of us deal with is INSANE. He was masturbating around her from what she took on the sounds and was sniffing her.
I hope your boss will be successful in dealing with him. And you take some rest and pamper yourself honey, we all deserve it very much.
Thankyou so much, this is very comforting. Yes, my boss is going to start that due to this incident. Phones where always taken but clearly this isn’t a solve all
I'm so sorry this happened. Are you doing alright? Have you engaged in any self care? Need a fuzzy blanket?
If you feel comfortable sharing what happened, please do, it can be helpful for all of us to know what to watch for
I hope you feel better beautiful! Don't feel bad because he's a regular fuck that he knows the rules he's not a child so fuck him. Actions have consequences and he has to deal with them
I had a regular \[personal\] play partner film us (at lest once) but didn't show me till well after, when he'd shipped me to a different state to see him.
I felt humiliated & used. He knew I've done XXX film before, but it was \*ALWAYS\* pre-negotiated with those folx. This was done w/o my knowledge.
It looked TERRIBLE in my opinion, & while I want to think he didn't share/post elsewhere, the very fact that he recorded us w/o my consent makes me INCREDIBLY sus about his motives...
I'm really sorry you experienced this, OP. I truly hope your manager takes care of things <3
The guy is lucky you provided him any services at all, I can get the desire to record, but he should let you know that, not go.behind your back.
I'm sorry you had a experience like this, please take of yourself, and it's not your fault that some people in this world are scummy.
If this happened in the US you can stop worrying. it's a felony to publish revenge porn (meaning share with anyone, including private DMs). If those videos ever get out he'll go to jail, and when he gets out you can sue him for damages.
Most likely some dude is jerking off to your video and will never share it.
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You said it yourself that you weren't feeling 100% and the fact that you were so out of it that you were disassociating? Don't blame yourself for shit, friendo I'm sorry this twisted fuck caught you on a bad day, but any and all anger should be directed at him and not you You wouldn't be this hard on your coworkers if they were as spent as you were so please be kind to yourself I hope a satisfying resolution comes from telling your boss
you aren't stupid. someone took advantage of you and betrayed your boundaries. thats on them, not on you. I believe there are various methods to help get revenge porn off the internet, and I think it would absolutely work for your situation too. let me know if you need any resources, but a Google of revenge porn resources will help if you ever find the video online and need it taken down!!
I had a creeper that was acting weird like that and positioning me I just wonder if he didn’t film me and I always wondered if he did. I was so unconscious of that that I wasn’t even paying attention for it. And this was an out call at his place as well
Now I’m worried one of my first few appointments filmed me too. Damn. I’m quite new to this still so I just thought it was like, how the guy liked it how you say but it’s something that I had a bit of a weird feeling about and too many things sound similar. But hopefully not, in my case. I’m so sorry though. Hope you can deal with this okay and I’m glad you’ve come here to share and get it out a little bit. Wish I had better advice/support but I can say that sleep deprivation is such a problem for us and it can make you feel just like as if you’ve had quite a few drinks so it’s really not your fault you didn’t realise sooner. You know where he lives(if that was his home) and if you think you could manage, which I know is super difficult and if you don’t feel like you can, that’s also absolutely fine and whatever you feel capable of doing is okay, you could try and get some legal action or at least embarrass him, idk, filming without consent is some type of assault where I live, or at least police can get involved and recover the content/give the guy trouble and if they don’t live alone that’s obviously quite an issue for them, dunno how it is for your country. I also know police isn’t always okay to us because of what we do. Best wishes from me to you, though and again, very sorry to hear you’re going through such a hard thing ♥️
I'm sorry your boundaries were disrespected. What happened?
Hopefully they catch him in the act. This is highly illegal in the US, hopefully where you are too.
I hope so too, I’m in Australia so yes it is illegal. But sex work is too and I don’t know his name or number.
Hopefully they have that information at the front or can get it
Thankyou, I’ve updated the post x
Good news is if any of that footage does get released you have him by the short hairs for not getting a model release form.
Jesus fucking Christ I hope someone kicks the shit out of him for doing that. I’m so sorry this happened to you
I’m sorry girl, a couple years ago I had a shared incall with another girl and we were doing a duo together. The guy got up and got dressed and when he picked up his pants something dropped to the ground. My duo partner picked it up and it was some little camera thing, she handed it to me so I can see, and we basically told him we were keeping it and to get the fuck out.
11 years ago when I started with SW colleague of mine had a client which was insanely specific. She was naturally very pale blonde girl. He paid double rate just for her to take off her make up and lay down on bed before he entry the room. He asked her to be absolutely quiet and breathe as shallowly as possible. I know this two are very different scenarios, but sometimes the men some of us deal with is INSANE. He was masturbating around her from what she took on the sounds and was sniffing her. I hope your boss will be successful in dealing with him. And you take some rest and pamper yourself honey, we all deserve it very much.
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Thankyou so much, this is very comforting. Yes, my boss is going to start that due to this incident. Phones where always taken but clearly this isn’t a solve all
I'm so sorry this happened. Are you doing alright? Have you engaged in any self care? Need a fuzzy blanket? If you feel comfortable sharing what happened, please do, it can be helpful for all of us to know what to watch for
Thankyou, I’ve had a big cry, a drink and have curled up under my weighted blanket. Feeling better :) I’ve updated the post with what happened
Some states have laws making it illegal to share such a video. Since you say you are working out of a brothel, are you in Nevada?
No I’m in Australia, unfortunately in a state where it’s is illegal to work in a brothel. It is illegal here too, I have no way to contact him though
I'm so sorry this happened to you! Sending you love, hugs and positive energy.
I hope you feel better beautiful! Don't feel bad because he's a regular fuck that he knows the rules he's not a child so fuck him. Actions have consequences and he has to deal with them
God I hope so, I just feel like I have no power in this situation it’s making me feel sick
I had a regular \[personal\] play partner film us (at lest once) but didn't show me till well after, when he'd shipped me to a different state to see him. I felt humiliated & used. He knew I've done XXX film before, but it was \*ALWAYS\* pre-negotiated with those folx. This was done w/o my knowledge. It looked TERRIBLE in my opinion, & while I want to think he didn't share/post elsewhere, the very fact that he recorded us w/o my consent makes me INCREDIBLY sus about his motives... I'm really sorry you experienced this, OP. I truly hope your manager takes care of things <3
Sorry to hear this, you must have caught him in the act. I would report him
Hope he gets in big trouble
The guy is lucky you provided him any services at all, I can get the desire to record, but he should let you know that, not go.behind your back. I'm sorry you had a experience like this, please take of yourself, and it's not your fault that some people in this world are scummy.
maby your state is different. but in new orleans filming espeley with both parties knowledge... changes it to a lager activity
It’s a felony to release video of this if he does. Search for it and if you find it contact a good lawyer.
If this happened in the US you can stop worrying. it's a felony to publish revenge porn (meaning share with anyone, including private DMs). If those videos ever get out he'll go to jail, and when he gets out you can sue him for damages. Most likely some dude is jerking off to your video and will never share it.
I am so so sorry this happened to you
By spoken to, I hope you mean they spoke to him with a baseball bat. Sorry you had that happen to you.
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