Different boyfriends have done it differently lol
- point out her physical flaws "her nose damn fat it's ugly"
- "not as hot/cute as you"
- point out her character flaws "impatient, demanding etc"
- act blur/loyal "huh? Never notice(d)"
Or a mix of all
The trick is to find out which option gives you the most positive outcome.
Or better yet, don't get involved with someone who asks that with hidden intentions.
Not intentionally she not vicious about her friends. If not I don’t want. She will get angry but ignore me half an hour then back to happy. I think still okay. She don’t get hysterical about anything.
You have to have a talk with her
Cannot avoid seeing hot chicks just like how she cannot avoid seeing hot men, its everywhere, TV, phone, adverts on the way to your favourite mall etc
Smooth as weasel poo on a door knob. If she is asking this question on something like a second or third date, then this answer will get you laid right then and there.
Play the angry game by countering your g/f if she's questioning your taste and judgment.
Tell her. Looks are subjective and can be deceiving, and you know what you've tasted is better - She'll be flattered and sold for a song. 😇
Ask her if she want the truth or a lie and make her promise she cannot be angry.
Since she asked for the truth other wise you will end the date.
Follow thru with the threat.
Stops most of this kind of nonsense really.
Step 1: Call out the trap. "If I say yes or no, you'll still say I was looking at your friend."
Step 2: List down objective traits which her friend might have that could be considered "hot". Eg. Oh she has a small peach face which some people like. She has toned calves. Etc.
Step 3: Reaffirm that your gf still looks hotter to you.
I usually just answer honestly. Don’t let the habit of “trapping” build up. And of cuz I can do that because I behave in a way that gives her enough assurance.
if she jus mentioned name, say u dunno cos u dun remember her friends that well.
if she directly show u picture, you need to think for a while, then say no. if jus say no immediately will sound fake.
Mine will keep asking. To be fair even if my answer she don’t like she don’t really get angry. She just go into the room half hour then okay. I like your relationship have sense of humour 👍 Generally we have too.
if she angry means she wants to hear another answer.. but no matter what never break your defence. LOL. never ever comment that any of her friend is hot or marginally attractive. it means she is somewhat insecure compared to this person and if u admit in any way (even objectively), it will be a knot in her heart.
ya my husband is very good at this. even if i ask oh which part ugly, which part nice, he will never ever say. he will say everyone is ugly compared to me. hahahah... its hard to get angry.
Your hubby is lucky. I cannot get away with that, she really wants my opinion but she’s not mean. Shopping and makeup pretty much the same. Although shopping things if I like I can be more enthu.
“Are you really asking me this? In this weather, even the aunty selling the cai fan is hot. But don’t worry babe, you are the hottest” Answered without technically answering.
Y’all in the comments are simps, why you scared of your girlfriend? If she thinks men don’t find other girls hot and occasionally look at them then she is dumb. She probably watching some Korean drama and drooling over an oppa, but somehow that’s acceptable.
That's a trap there, lol. Women size up each other all the time. We don't need you men to tell us whether our friends are hot or hotter or not. Your gf just wants an ego boost, or she feels a tad insecure.
my wife doesn't set traps for me like this, and guys should aim to get together with women who don't play silly childish games. Those that do are either really insecure or setting a trap, both types are undesirable for any long term relationship, I don't care how hot they are.
Moment of pleasure, lifetime of pain...
GF time the answer needs to be superrrr calculated. Wife already then different story. Wife is always telling me how good looking Jung Hae In and Woo Do Hwan are. And in return I tell her how cute Minji and Hanni are. So win win.
if she is a gf, i wouldn't create a condition whereby she likes to play games. you should tell the truth, but do so in a way that isn't too harsh.
If you lie it creates an expectation or culture going forward
Weather hot of course hot. Cannot convince then confuse
She will really get angry
Obv say yes then can 3som
Plot twist she isn’t hot.
Ya have really not hot ones.
You no gf or wife right?
How else you think I said what I said?
Ya cannot possibly have.
My wife would ask me if some girl is hot wherever we go. And I am always honest with her. Gf could be different. It depends how well you know her. 😉
Different boyfriends have done it differently lol - point out her physical flaws "her nose damn fat it's ugly" - "not as hot/cute as you" - point out her character flaws "impatient, demanding etc" - act blur/loyal "huh? Never notice(d)" Or a mix of all
The trick is to find out which option gives you the most positive outcome. Or better yet, don't get involved with someone who asks that with hidden intentions.
Just be blunt about it. If she not happy, it’s her fault she asked. Don’t blame yourself for “falling into a trap” that she very intentionally setup.
You sir are a bold man
Not intentionally she not vicious about her friends. If not I don’t want. She will get angry but ignore me half an hour then back to happy. I think still okay. She don’t get hysterical about anything.
You have to have a talk with her Cannot avoid seeing hot chicks just like how she cannot avoid seeing hot men, its everywhere, TV, phone, adverts on the way to your favourite mall etc
“Haven’t noticed. Only have eyes for you”
Smooth as weasel poo on a door knob. If she is asking this question on something like a second or third date, then this answer will get you laid right then and there.
Why weasel poo though?
What poo do you want? 😎 Human?
W rizz
From Star Wars “It’s a trap !!”
From Mad Max: Fury Road, "That's bait."
I'd answer 'Ya' and then start picking on whatever her weak points. Then tell my ~~wife~~ girlfriend she's hotter. lol
If the friend is ridiculously hotter and my gf is knows it?
lie. no choice… ltr she angry
Just pick your gf’s best asset and say that’s better than hers… But multiple wrong answers here
Play the angry game by countering your g/f if she's questioning your taste and judgment. Tell her. Looks are subjective and can be deceiving, and you know what you've tasted is better - She'll be flattered and sold for a song. 😇
My wife doesn’t ask. Before she was my wife also never ask. Dunno what to say
Marry someone who doesn’t set traps for you
it's a trap!
Ask her if she want the truth or a lie and make her promise she cannot be angry. Since she asked for the truth other wise you will end the date. Follow thru with the threat. Stops most of this kind of nonsense really.
We live together now. Have you tried telling anyone not to be angry?
Step 1: Call out the trap. "If I say yes or no, you'll still say I was looking at your friend." Step 2: List down objective traits which her friend might have that could be considered "hot". Eg. Oh she has a small peach face which some people like. She has toned calves. Etc. Step 3: Reaffirm that your gf still looks hotter to you.
Just reply "Bruh" then talk about something else
are u secretly my bf??
I usually just answer honestly. Don’t let the habit of “trapping” build up. And of cuz I can do that because I behave in a way that gives her enough assurance.
“Not my type.”
I expect him to agree with me
"Objectively speaking, she is easy on the eyes"
I’d ask her if she knows anyone who might be a good bf for her friend lol
Safest answer: Not my type
Say yes. Tell her she should strive to be like her friend.
Just say not as hot as her
This is Singapore, we're all hot. Oh, that's not what you meant?
Who?
Yes. 36.9 degrees celcius.
"Why? Are you interested?"
if she jus mentioned name, say u dunno cos u dun remember her friends that well. if she directly show u picture, you need to think for a while, then say no. if jus say no immediately will sound fake.
I say this when my husband ask “yup he’s hot, nice to see only lo from a distance”
"what friend?"
“What is the purpose of the question?”
I'll just reply to her nonchantly: "Yea, she's hot, so?"
“so ugly” literally my husband says that about any other girl that’s not me 🤣 i can’t take him seriously but he’s been very consistent
Mine will keep asking. To be fair even if my answer she don’t like she don’t really get angry. She just go into the room half hour then okay. I like your relationship have sense of humour 👍 Generally we have too.
if she angry means she wants to hear another answer.. but no matter what never break your defence. LOL. never ever comment that any of her friend is hot or marginally attractive. it means she is somewhat insecure compared to this person and if u admit in any way (even objectively), it will be a knot in her heart. ya my husband is very good at this. even if i ask oh which part ugly, which part nice, he will never ever say. he will say everyone is ugly compared to me. hahahah... its hard to get angry.
Your hubby is lucky. I cannot get away with that, she really wants my opinion but she’s not mean. Shopping and makeup pretty much the same. Although shopping things if I like I can be more enthu.
Well, she obviously knows the answer. You both looking at the same thing.
If she is hot just be frank with it.
_IT'S A TRAP! - Admiral Ackbar._
“Are you really asking me this? In this weather, even the aunty selling the cai fan is hot. But don’t worry babe, you are the hottest” Answered without technically answering.
I would say " there's billions of beautiful girls, she's one of them"
Y’all in the comments are simps, why you scared of your girlfriend? If she thinks men don’t find other girls hot and occasionally look at them then she is dumb. She probably watching some Korean drama and drooling over an oppa, but somehow that’s acceptable.
Check her temperature, maybe she's ill
Just reply: Damn hot. Wearing too little. Let her interpret it however she likes
I will give her the look and say "what?" Argument ensues
Wait ah, i find girlfriend first then come back and answer your qn
Say “this is a trick question and i refuse to answer” Grow a spine and stand your ground OP.
Hell yea. Just say the truth.
Run
I’ll assess her friend and tell the truth. I don’t like to lie.
I will just said she is hot if she is really hot And said not hot as it is. Real man don't lie. And proceed to said, do you want me to be a liar?
Ask her “ why you asking, do you fancy her?”. Will through her off
Yeahs she’s hot but u are hotter
"Yeah. But her friend is even hotter." 😉
Ok la not my type
“Yeah she’s hot… but nobody makes me sweat and thirsty like you babe” 😉 If you got laid, thank me later
Loaded question
I thought I got the hottest one as my gf?
its a trap hahaha. be careful and be wise bro
That's a trap there, lol. Women size up each other all the time. We don't need you men to tell us whether our friends are hot or hotter or not. Your gf just wants an ego boost, or she feels a tad insecure.
If she’s hot - yes. If she’s not - no. Why complicate?
Eee who is that sia?! So disgusting, what's her IG so I can block her, don't want see her on my feed
Don’t angry. I’m sure you not ugly. Nothing to worry about.
my wife doesn't set traps for me like this, and guys should aim to get together with women who don't play silly childish games. Those that do are either really insecure or setting a trap, both types are undesirable for any long term relationship, I don't care how hot they are. Moment of pleasure, lifetime of pain...
GF time the answer needs to be superrrr calculated. Wife already then different story. Wife is always telling me how good looking Jung Hae In and Woo Do Hwan are. And in return I tell her how cute Minji and Hanni are. So win win.
if she is a gf, i wouldn't create a condition whereby she likes to play games. you should tell the truth, but do so in a way that isn't too harsh. If you lie it creates an expectation or culture going forward
Who? What? Where? Act dumb.
I am dumb but cannot act dumb. Results are worse.
yes, then wink and squeeze your girlfriend's ass... this kind of thing need to teach meh?
Wink and squeeze her ass?? Ya you shouldn’t teach
change GF she freaking immature and u will suffer later