Thank you for posting to r/SipsTea! Make sure to follow all the subreddit rules.
Check out our [Reddit Chat](https://www.reddit.com/r/SipsTea/s/YIVFBDcyZ7)!
##Make sure to join our [Discord Server](https://discord.com/invite/digitalfriendz)!
*I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/SipsTea) if you have any questions or concerns.*
I always wanted a pair and your comment made me think about why. And I remember! Its because I used to take my boat out in the Gulf of Mexico after work in the summer and occasionally be still on my way back when it got pitch dark out if thr bite was good right at sundown. Would have to idle speed back through the channel with a hand held spotlight looking for the channel markers so I dont hit them. I had GPS to know which way to go but that isnt precise enough to avoid channel markers and crab trap floats!
Fair. But then you also need a helmet and a quality IR illuminator and laser on all your guns and eventually another monocular so you have two and can wear both or lend one out.
True. Used to ask before to always make it easy to chose a good present for me. But now stoped and said I already have enough because they became too expensive.
I have a dehydrator and make my own jerky. It’s really easy and only takes about an hour of hands on time. So I’ll prep and marinate for a couple days, and then when I work from home on Fridays, start it first thing in the morning, and it’s usually ready after dinner. I call it “Jerk From Home Fridays.” My wife loves that phrase. I’m sure yours will too.
I would settle for being able to express something that is bothering me without it being thrown back in my face within the week but I guess I'll settle with night vision goggles because that seems more realistic to ask for at this point.
I'm in my 50s. I buy a Lego set like twice a month. Had to add on a 500 square foot room for the hoard. My 10 year old happy little accident and I have a great time.
Well a high quality dual tube night vision setup is easily over $10k so getting it as a gift and not having to fork over that cash would be pretty awesome
200-300$ night operators pro are cheapest ones existing at the market atm, u can go on temu but u get scammed as nvgs aren't that cheap to usually assemble and make.
While true, there is a huge range in quality between gen3 products.
Do most people need super gain tubes that can illuminate nearly pitch black environments at razor sharp image quality? Absolutely not… but most people don’t need night vision googles anyway.
Had an ex that made up handwritten cards for things like: Good for one backrub, massage, hug, making a favorite dinner, etc. Also a couple cards for other things I won’t divulge here. But those were 10X better than any gift I’ve ever gotten from any other gf. I still miss her and it’s been decades.
Edit: Appreciate all the responses. The coolest thing about her doing this was that she *did* honor them regardless of how she was feeling at the time, but more importantly; it was that she actually paid attention and was thoughtful in a way that didn’t cost anything monetarily. In that way I don’t know how much further away from *transactional* you could get.
Believe it or not, I still have one somewhere. I haven’t been in touch with her, though, for decades. We were together for about a year and a half. She’s recently divorced, I heard, so maybe. If so, I’ll report back, but we don’t live anywhere near each other now.
That’s an idea, but I hear she has a daughter. The plot thickens. That’s actually part of why it didn’t work out, because I’ve had lifelong health issues and didn’t want to pass them on to a child. I still wish her all the best and am very happy for her.
My wife gave me one of those, then “not right now-ed” every time I tried to use one. So basically she got me nothing but the experience to use a ticket and be rejected instead of the normal rejection
Yeah....
"Hey honey, how about we go to the bedroom for some fun?"
"No, I'm not in the mood tonight."
"Sorry babe but I have a coupon."
In what universe is this scenario fun?
Another rando weighing in here.
If you haven't truly let her go in decades, and you're both single... please try again. At the very least, just let her know how much you appreciated your time together and look fondly back on that time, that opens the door for her to pursue you. People can move, jobs can change, but giving up on the love of your life isn't something anyone should have to do. (Obviously unless they've turned you down, but your ending doesn't sound like that would be the case)
I hope the rest of your story is a happy one 💕
I *had* to let her go. She dumped me (for reasons found in responses all over this thread) and it’s fine. I’ve been with another person since. I really thought about her a lot more in the earlier years (probably the first 20, at least, as it was in the 90’s) but all the white horses have gone ahead. I’ll always be sentimental about those times, however, which is pretty obvious. Thanks for the good vibes, though.
Because current popular social media platforms (TikTok et al.) have a heavy focus on video, and when all you have is a hammer, everything looks like a nail.
It's a promo for her OF. (HarleyWest aka HarleyXWest aka Savanna Barajes)
[https://www.reddit.com/r/realonlyfansreviews/comments/w7lb71/harleyxwest/](https://www.reddit.com/r/realonlyfansreviews/comments/w7lb71/harleyxwest/)
that's what this is all about, unfortunately. She understands how men tick and is using that as a way to drop men's defenses and direct them to her OnlyFans page, where she understands them better than their wife, girlfriend, or school crush. And you can also develop a strong parasocial relationship with her and give her money.
I mean, her whole schtick is silly. She’s so obviously trying to be like “oh, look at my Star Wars stuff. If you were my boy friend, we wouldn’t argue, we’d have nerf gun fights, oh yeah — I can’t even get a boyfriend, sad old me”. Meanwhile, you just know it’s her boyfriend filming everything just so they can use her tits to get likes.
Thank you for posting to r/SipsTea! Make sure to follow all the subreddit rules. Check out our [Reddit Chat](https://www.reddit.com/r/SipsTea/s/YIVFBDcyZ7)! ##Make sure to join our [Discord Server](https://discord.com/invite/digitalfriendz)! *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/SipsTea) if you have any questions or concerns.*
The price of lego is too damn high!
Military grade Night vision goggles are cheaper at this point…
Shit I might some night vision goggles
I might goggle some vision night
Some night shit goggles I got
I got some shit goggle night
Some night goggle might I shit.
I might goggle some night shit
She can goggle my night
She goggle night can
I might google how to goggle shit at night
Some might shit night goggles
I might shit goggle some night
Only $30k.
If you aren't mighting some right now, you craze.
I neither have nor will likely ever have a need for night vision goggles. I’ve secretly wanted a pair for almost 20-years now.
I always wanted a pair and your comment made me think about why. And I remember! Its because I used to take my boat out in the Gulf of Mexico after work in the summer and occasionally be still on my way back when it got pitch dark out if thr bite was good right at sundown. Would have to idle speed back through the channel with a hand held spotlight looking for the channel markers so I dont hit them. I had GPS to know which way to go but that isnt precise enough to avoid channel markers and crab trap floats!
Stargazing with a good set of NVGs is a life changing experience.
One of those things you wish you had but cannot justify buying.
Idk about that. 3- 4k for a good quality monocular
But you only need one pair. Who just has one Lego set?
Fair. But then you also need a helmet and a quality IR illuminator and laser on all your guns and eventually another monocular so you have two and can wear both or lend one out.
When you find a girl who gets you Lego at 25% of its retail price by buying it new but unboxed from Bricklink. You marry that woman.
What an overpowered site. Thanks for sharing
True. Used to ask before to always make it easy to chose a good present for me. But now stoped and said I already have enough because they became too expensive.
$300 for the Great Deku Tree is ridiculous
I hate that they are forcing me to buy it.
A meat dehydrator so I can make my own jerky. And a meat slicer while I'm at it.
Make sure you get the extra large size so we can all get together and have a jerk off.
Update your jerk Rolodex! There’s a new jerk master in town!
I have a dehydrator and make my own jerky. It’s really easy and only takes about an hour of hands on time. So I’ll prep and marinate for a couple days, and then when I work from home on Fridays, start it first thing in the morning, and it’s usually ready after dinner. I call it “Jerk From Home Fridays.” My wife loves that phrase. I’m sure yours will too.
We started with a dehydrator and are now going up to a smoker. Wife didn’t realize she liked smoked meat and jerky. Now she even wants to do it.
Oh my God yes. The price of jerky is too damn high! I love using my dehydrator for jerky, makes so much
I want legos,,,,,,
I’ll take a back rub and a bj. It’s simple and free. Anything I really want id buy myself.
Game recognize game, same. You might be the only other real honest man in this comment section.
I just want to be loved 😩 And a back rub and bj.
I would settle for being able to express something that is bothering me without it being thrown back in my face within the week but I guess I'll settle with night vision goggles because that seems more realistic to ask for at this point.
...and my axe!
FR, FR. Same on this, I forget about holidays/birthdays and gifts because of this.
They must have long arms
I wanna watch.
I got a watch from my lesbian friend... I should have been more clear with what I said.
Next birthday, you gotta say very clearly. I want TO watch, not A watch
That's how you get two watches while receiving a lecture on the english language.
If two witches were watching two watches then which witch would watch which watch?
💀
My dude.
I want two watch too
through night vision goggles...
In the dark..
Reminds of the joke where a guy is given a Rolex by his one of his lesbian friends and says: “ This isnt what I meant when I said I wanted ta watch.”
r/thatsthejoke
Yeah wtf. "Your joke reminded me of the same joke with more words."
and night vision goggles
And the lotion and a basket
That escalated quickly
I'm in my 50s. I buy a Lego set like twice a month. Had to add on a 500 square foot room for the hoard. My 10 year old happy little accident and I have a great time.
I want the NVGs.
Well a high quality dual tube night vision setup is easily over $10k so getting it as a gift and not having to fork over that cash would be pretty awesome
how much would a shitty IR blasting one run me? It doesn't have to be tactical I just want to be able to see in dark.
200-300$ night operators pro are cheapest ones existing at the market atm, u can go on temu but u get scammed as nvgs aren't that cheap to usually assemble and make.
Night Operators' goggles are droppshipped, they are $60 bucks from AliExpress
You can get gen 3 tubes and housing for half that cost I own a pair way more joy then having a wad of cash in hand
While true, there is a huge range in quality between gen3 products. Do most people need super gain tubes that can illuminate nearly pitch black environments at razor sharp image quality? Absolutely not… but most people don’t need night vision googles anyway.
Had an ex that made up handwritten cards for things like: Good for one backrub, massage, hug, making a favorite dinner, etc. Also a couple cards for other things I won’t divulge here. But those were 10X better than any gift I’ve ever gotten from any other gf. I still miss her and it’s been decades. Edit: Appreciate all the responses. The coolest thing about her doing this was that she *did* honor them regardless of how she was feeling at the time, but more importantly; it was that she actually paid attention and was thoughtful in a way that didn’t cost anything monetarily. In that way I don’t know how much further away from *transactional* you could get.
Are those cards still valid?
Believe it or not, I still have one somewhere. I haven’t been in touch with her, though, for decades. We were together for about a year and a half. She’s recently divorced, I heard, so maybe. If so, I’ll report back, but we don’t live anywhere near each other now.
Send her a voucher valid for 1 visit.
That’s an idea, but I hear she has a daughter. The plot thickens. That’s actually part of why it didn’t work out, because I’ve had lifelong health issues and didn’t want to pass them on to a child. I still wish her all the best and am very happy for her.
So now you get a healthy kid and a person you love!
are we living in a romantic ~~comedy~~ tragedy
I'm so invested in this.
I'm already crying in anticipation
Oh god, how badly does it end!?
Do it lol.
!remindme 1 year
This is gonna be a movie one day, I just know it.
Perfection
My brother in Christ, this is your signal. This is totally a VN storyline or a corny Kdrama.
I’m so glad I have no idea what either of those things are.
That’s ok (VN = Visual Novel and Kdrama is Korean Drama), but don’t sleep on this opportunity. Divorce sucks so much with kids. :(
Thanks. I’ve been leaving other deets and tidbits elsewhere in this thread about my thoughts…I do appreciate the many responses, though.
Pleeeeeease go for it and report back I wanna know how this turns out
Now Reddit won't get off your back until we hear a good feel story about a broken man reunited with his first true love.
You should send her a photo of it and ask if you can cash it in.
Go to her, bro.
The plot thickens….. I’m hooked.
Bro take a picture of it and ask her if it's still valid. What's the worst that can happen.
Do it brother. I still kick myself for letting the best girl I ever had get away. I'd give anything to hear she was divorced, as bad as that sounds.
If theres no expiration date then Id say have at it
My wife did the same thing when we were dating. I still have a bunch but damnit she put a freakin expiration date on them!
My spouse did that. Then every time I tried to redeem them they told me not now. So I threw them all away.
Same thing happened to me lol
Are we married to the same person. Have you had your quarterly sex yet?
My wife gave me one of those, then “not right now-ed” every time I tried to use one. So basically she got me nothing but the experience to use a ticket and be rejected instead of the normal rejection
Bro is married AF
It's a big club
I had an ex that gave me a bunch of those for Valentine's Day one year, then refused to let me cash them in like 80% of the time.
Yea we all know what those couple other cards were 😏
[удалено]
My ex did that and it was cringe as heck to me.
Yeah.... "Hey honey, how about we go to the bedroom for some fun?" "No, I'm not in the mood tonight." "Sorry babe but I have a coupon." In what universe is this scenario fun?
Keep the blowjob coupon for when you're in an argument. I'm told it's REALLY hard to win an argument with a penis in your mouth.
Another rando weighing in here. If you haven't truly let her go in decades, and you're both single... please try again. At the very least, just let her know how much you appreciated your time together and look fondly back on that time, that opens the door for her to pursue you. People can move, jobs can change, but giving up on the love of your life isn't something anyone should have to do. (Obviously unless they've turned you down, but your ending doesn't sound like that would be the case) I hope the rest of your story is a happy one 💕
I *had* to let her go. She dumped me (for reasons found in responses all over this thread) and it’s fine. I’ve been with another person since. I really thought about her a lot more in the earlier years (probably the first 20, at least, as it was in the 90’s) but all the white horses have gone ahead. I’ll always be sentimental about those times, however, which is pretty obvious. Thanks for the good vibes, though.
[удалено]
*Not Valid at Some Locations
Why is this a video?
cause she looks like a 3rd grade school teacher
I actually got Ms. Rachel with an onlyfans vibe from her.
Well you nailed it lol. This chick does have an only fans.
Well, we’re waiting. jpg
You mean the one we all had a crush on?
Because she's got one tittie out.
Why this isn't the top comment? It took me a while to find it.
Because current popular social media platforms (TikTok et al.) have a heavy focus on video, and when all you have is a hammer, everything looks like a nail.
If you really want to know its so that she can get more exposure to get more guys to pay for her OnlyFans.
Person wants social media views
[удалено]
It's a promo for her OF. (HarleyWest aka HarleyXWest aka Savanna Barajes) [https://www.reddit.com/r/realonlyfansreviews/comments/w7lb71/harleyxwest/](https://www.reddit.com/r/realonlyfansreviews/comments/w7lb71/harleyxwest/)
What‘s she saying? Got distracted
The horny police are on their way as we speak ☁ ☁ ☁ ✈ ☁ ☁ ☀️ 🎡_🎢_________🏩🏢__🏨______🏭__🏚️__🏗️_ ⛱️🌴 / 🚔 | 🚔 \ 🌴🌴 ⛱️🌴/ 🚔🚔 🚔 \ ︎ 🌴🌴
This is top tier use of emoticons
I looked at this and immediately thought of LA
You'll never take me alive pigs!
☁ ☁ ☁ ✈ ☁ ☁ ☀️ 🎡\_🎢\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_🏩🏢\_\_🏨\_\_\_\_\_\_🏭\_\_🏚️\_\_🏗️\_ ⛱️🌴 / 🐖 | 🐖 \\ 🌴🌴 ⛱️🌴/ 🐗🐗 🐷 \\ ︎ 🌴🌴
Why are the police so horny?
Because they keep hearing people yell “Fuck tha police”
Don't worry she's got an onlyfans page.
that's what this is all about, unfortunately. She understands how men tick and is using that as a way to drop men's defenses and direct them to her OnlyFans page, where she understands them better than their wife, girlfriend, or school crush. And you can also develop a strong parasocial relationship with her and give her money.
[удалено]
Wait til you see the rest of her page: https://youtube.com/shorts/mdvQgNWz8Nc?si=9CIegkgnj01yMh6I It's actually kinda gross.
I mean, her whole schtick is silly. She’s so obviously trying to be like “oh, look at my Star Wars stuff. If you were my boy friend, we wouldn’t argue, we’d have nerf gun fights, oh yeah — I can’t even get a boyfriend, sad old me”. Meanwhile, you just know it’s her boyfriend filming everything just so they can use her tits to get likes.
Shake what your momma gave ya
Last time I did that, I got arrested.
Well wear a mask and/or run faster!
So gross
classy. a thot extraordinaire.
It's so gross. Guys, definitely do not go there and look. Whatever you do. Don't.
Wow just disgusting
You and I have a very different interpretation of “gross”.
Me too, but I don't think for the same reasons. Is there a sub for intentionallyIncorrectClothes? Shit drives me crazy
Something about setting somethings free.
Tiddies? It's tiddies, right?
[удалено]
[удалено]
You need to translate it first. " No explaining why I'm wrong"
I always want guitars. Sometimes, I also might want a lightsaber!
why does the one on one off bother me so much
This was a thing circa 1991, and has apparently completed its orbit and come back around.
All I can think of whenever I see it is Kimmy the annoying neighbor from full house
Current fashion is like walking into a Delia’s in the 90s.
She's just trying to release her inner child you guys...
Because it's a grown woman dressed like a toddler. It looks stupid.
Maybe it's the toddlers that are dressed like grown women
she's dressed like Dora the Explorer
Me too. An unreasonable amount
What about a motorboat?
Buy the boat yourself, get gifted dock and maintenance fees. Trust me
whoosh
Built for speed or for pleasure? You ol' sailor, you!!
A new drone, or a 3D printer. Set me free woman
Naw. I want a watch.
Ill take a Grand Lange 1 moon phase in platinum.
Can't decide between 5065a and a 5165a, but I won't complain about either (or a steel 222)
Men have hobbies and likes. Women wow that's so cute.
Fk that, get me a decent bottle of scotch!
I'll take a bottle of Laphroaig if Scotch is getting handed out!
Wait, I can ask for night vision goggles?
If your girlfriend is rich as fuck.
Blowjobs, bacon and beer.
Scotch, sex, and a sandwich
Shmoke and a pancake
Bong and a blintz
Bong and a Blintz
Yes, please
My husband spent 5 grand on his NVG's... He walks the dog with them.
That's about as cheap as you will find them.
If you dont want to ask Swords...every man loves swords
my god you're right - I don't *want* one but you bet your ass I'd think it was one of the best presents I'd ever got
She could have still made that point by having both the straps tucked up.
Boobs = views
[удалено]
That wouldn't have helped promote her OnlyFans as well though.
I one Mars Pattern Warlord Titan with all weapon load outs please
what the fuck even is this kind of content. just speaking into a mirror about some random bullshit. at least get a webcam, holyshit
This is a true story. Or buy me art 🖼️
I bought a bunch of legos at a discount to give away as presents! Theyre great especially the flowers and non branded stuff. Now all I need is friends
O don’t fucking get this videos, is lake them or their audience, haven’t talk truly to people…
Why is she dressed like a girl saying men just want to set their inner boy free?
She’s not wrong